6 RED FLAGS In Dating! Watch This | Love, Samantha Lee

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  • Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2024

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  • @erica8657
    @erica8657 5 дней назад

    The intro is my experience! Tired of having to “prove” I’m worthy! I’ve always been worthy

  • @thetruther9521
    @thetruther9521 Год назад +5

    Sometimes the trauma comes from bad parenting as well as Parental Alienation

  • @MyMARI3
    @MyMARI3 Год назад +5

    Love ❤️… a love bombing phrase was that he never felt like this before about anyone, he felt like we were soul mates. He wanted to reverse his surgery to have children with me. He was 20 years older than me and divorced. A few months later he ghosted me. When I confronted him he said, you meant nothing to me. I never cared about you. I have a connection with my new love interest. This was years ago, and I am very thankful we never made it lol 😂 I met him in church

    • @LoveSamanthaLee
      @LoveSamanthaLee  Год назад +6

      Girl I have so much to say, but at this point, I’m my life, I praise God for open and closed doors. I praise for the closed ones because I know God is protecting me from something

    • @Cobe1976
      @Cobe1976 Год назад

      Love bombing is a preferred method of sociopaths and narcissists.

    • @terrancewilson1120
      @terrancewilson1120 Год назад

      A double dose of the holy ghost if she's not really save forget it about it 🗞️

    • @jasongates-
      @jasongates- Год назад

      Church folk are something else. "Oh, I'm saved! I'm saved!" But then too many in the church act like that. People want someone in church, and that's traditionally the best place to find someone, but the church is acting like more and more like the world, these days. And even the world knows better than the church. That was a wolf. He probably just got off from you being so much younger than him. A big case of lust. That's probably what that was. You dodged a bullet. Anyone who's in church acting like that, they're making the church look bad. We need to put people through serious screening, wherever we meet them.

    • @ericpalmer8250
      @ericpalmer8250 Год назад

      Mariella, you dodged a bullet on this one.

  • @yvonnewright5445
    @yvonnewright5445 Год назад +1

    Met someone and sometimes for months no communication. Then he reappear with his sweet talk. Recently, he told me 'he is my husband to be.' I told him to prove it. All now nothing forthcoming. I have my standard and integrity and will not stoop or allow love bombing or inconsistant communication to ruin it. Real talk. God bless.❤

  • @reginatabb4068
    @reginatabb4068 Год назад +1

    Yassssss you right Sis I know men who never take time alone between relationship it's always a new woman. Great content❤

  • @janezamudio4940
    @janezamudio4940 Год назад

    "You're what I need."
    "I'm so thankful to have you in my life and so happy to be able to call you my woman." (The day after we first chatted on Messenger!)

  • @dadakeshinro6749
    @dadakeshinro6749 Год назад

    Samantha, you're truly on the Money. You're immensely just hit the jackpot. You are simply BEST I have seen for a long time. ❤ Brava

  • @jacobshockley3894
    @jacobshockley3894 Год назад +1

    Appreciate keeping it real. I have had a few of these done to me. Love bombing and then ghosting. This also helps me see areas I get to work on. Thanks.

  • @mauricestechtalk1531
    @mauricestechtalk1531 4 месяца назад

    When it comes to dating/sleeping with multiple women after a break up. What if you really are doing the work: self assessments, conversations with yourself for closure, pin pointing what you need to work on, etc. Why can't you do both; assuming you're being honest with the women. A middle ground of not being bitter but also not trying to find someone else to pour your all into right away. Especially since a fair amount of women are ok with just dating. While they work on other areas of their life. Genuine question.

  • @boombapmilitia
    @boombapmilitia Год назад

    I feel like the crosshairs were on me personally this entire video,…especially after hearing all 6 red flags. 🙄😒🤣 Definitely all applicable to a past individual I was involved with. Not trying to be bashing the individual by any means ,…but just speaking facts. I know all these symptoms and patterns inside and out from dealing with this individual ,…but it’s just refreshing to hear it from an outside source and perspective. Respect to your channel and your craft.

  • @lorenamila0605
    @lorenamila0605 Год назад

    “I know how I felt and I know it was real “ after first date

  • @tashaeapen2090
    @tashaeapen2090 Год назад +2

    I love bombing line: “ you’re perfect, what’s wrong with your ex for not wanting to stay with you”

  • @jeffreymassey5541
    @jeffreymassey5541 Год назад

    Good observation and advice. Heal thyself before you bring another intimately in your life. 👍🏾👌🏾💯

  • @slevin421
    @slevin421 Год назад +1

    i have the feeling that there are no "normal" women anymore. either they have some kind of depression or anxiety, trauma because of ex-partners and what they did, or that they prefer to keep their distance at the first small quarrel and that we should meet with others. they only have their career in mind, or they don't seem to know what love really means.

    • @Mekertronic
      @Mekertronic Год назад

      👆👆sᴇɴᴅ ᴀ ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ ᴍᴇssᴀɢᴇ ᴏɴ ᴛᴇIᴇɢʀᴀ'ᴍ ʀɪɢʜᴛ ᴀᴡᴀʏ ✍️

  • @dhanrajmohan701
    @dhanrajmohan701 Год назад

    Public comment. Hold on to your dignity and integrity and respect. Positive thinking gives Positive results base on how you procieve life journey begins with you.

  • @RobertaliasDjKilLaBee
    @RobertaliasDjKilLaBee 9 месяцев назад

    FOR FUTURE REFERENCES YOU THE BOSS IN THIS AREA

  • @reginatabb4068
    @reginatabb4068 Год назад

    Sis..you always bring the REAL TRUTH.❤

  • @jasongates-
    @jasongates- Год назад

    The love bombing part ... I'd say that's desperation. Kind of like a "marry me or goodbye" thing. As soon as you meet them. That person isn't looking for YOU. They're looking for the relationship. Whoever is in front of them. Whoever is the first to walk through the door. Like that's the one. It's possible for a person to genuinely feel that way about a particular person that quickly, but it's so rare, and it's assumed they just want to jump into a relationship yesterday. They don't care with who. That's what it sounds like, to me. But, you want someone who wants you, not just to be in a relationship. Also, you want someone who doesn't pressure you into a relationship, cause you want to be sure that you're interested in them. And if they're pressuring you into a relationship, it's a red flag. What else will they pressure you about? Are they controlling? So, they just up and claim people as their partner? It's clingy, it's overbearing, and it can be stalkerish. So, red flag. That's what I got out of that part.
    "You don't need everybody to like you. You only need one." Good line.

  • @jennifercox-arnett5602
    @jennifercox-arnett5602 Год назад

    One phrase I heard was: "I wished for you..." wtf?! 🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @moniquemaynard5487
    @moniquemaynard5487 Год назад +3

    Wow!!!...this was so good!!!

  • @rickhewitt1417
    @rickhewitt1417 Год назад

    I love your passion and your brilliance of simplicity…God would I love to have a dinner with you. Great job!!

  • @maudturnbull4290
    @maudturnbull4290 Год назад +1

    Hi Samantha Lee, everything that you're saying i talk to my son's about. My sons are my best friends.

  • @reflectingtrees
    @reflectingtrees Год назад +2

    Get your head & heart right ppl. And listen to wisdom.

  • @tonygodblesstaylor
    @tonygodblesstaylor Год назад

    Another nicely Done!! Real Talk100 God bless you Samantha

  • @larrypeeples-yk1rg
    @larrypeeples-yk1rg Год назад +1

    God bless you dear! ❤

  • @Stephen-nd8fo
    @Stephen-nd8fo Год назад

    She told me that she shouldn't explain it but she was so I'm love with me. She said she loved me dangerously.lol

    • @Mekertronic
      @Mekertronic Год назад

      👆👆sᴇɴᴅ ᴀ ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ ᴍᴇssᴀɢᴇ ᴏɴ ᴛᴇIᴇɢʀᴀ'ᴍ ʀɪɢʜᴛ ᴀᴡᴀʏ ✍️

  • @Hands-2-The-Sky
    @Hands-2-The-Sky 4 месяца назад

    I like the way you have your hair... Mrs.Samantha ❤

  • @B2JAZY
    @B2JAZY Год назад

    Hey girl hey! Love your channel ❤️

  • @spentshells1924
    @spentshells1924 Год назад

    Look we get in the car we leave in the car ! Yall don hear me!
    No matter the semantics we in the same car!

  • @l.johnson3739
    @l.johnson3739 Год назад

    Yes! Psychological Manipulation! I went through it.

  • @bernarddamiels8600
    @bernarddamiels8600 Год назад

    IF SHE'S ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT HIM IN A NEGATIVE WAY THAT MEAN THAT SHE'S HAVING WET DREAMS ABOUT HIM AND IT'S DRIVING HER CRAZY THAT SHE CAN'T COOL THAT HOT BOX OFF ABOUT HIM.

  • @MarkBennett-i4k
    @MarkBennett-i4k Год назад

    Samantha this is real good !!!👍

  • @X_tremez
    @X_tremez Год назад

    Will you just hush! And get over here so we can start something special. Leave all the hustle behind. Let’s build Lest go! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @KeepinItRealAlways
    @KeepinItRealAlways Год назад +2

    This is so on point

  • @juanberrios5921
    @juanberrios5921 Год назад

    They can't see their life without you in it.

  • @williemcqueen4468
    @williemcqueen4468 Год назад +2

    Samantha this is your best video 💯

  • @IAmJohnMaurice
    @IAmJohnMaurice 2 месяца назад

    Facts. you are correct

  • @RobertaliasDjKilLaBee
    @RobertaliasDjKilLaBee 9 месяцев назад

    I NEED SOMEONE LIKE YOU ON GOD'S TEAM

    • @LdAmaro71
      @LdAmaro71 7 месяцев назад

      😆 😂 Satan is a god, money, fashion, etc are worshipped as gods. Which god?

  • @richardkrause9692
    @richardkrause9692 Год назад

    I'm not settling.

  • @RobertaliasDjKilLaBee
    @RobertaliasDjKilLaBee 9 месяцев назад

    YOU CHIPPING AT THAT BOLDER

  • @mathewbarge7029
    @mathewbarge7029 9 месяцев назад

    Rushing into a Relationship first we have to have Chemistry then likes dislikes core Beliefs Health Fitness Clean living last does She Believe in God 🙏❤️

  • @andrewhumphrey230
    @andrewhumphrey230 Год назад +3

    Advice on never having dated?

    • @LoveSamanthaLee
      @LoveSamanthaLee  Год назад +2

      Just so I’m clear, a video for people who have never dated before?

    • @andrewhumphrey230
      @andrewhumphrey230 Год назад +2

      @@LoveSamanthaLee correct

    • @jasongates-
      @jasongates- Год назад

      Thank you, cause I need that answered.
      One, how to proceed. Two, why we may have wound up with bad luck. Three, why people who sees someone who never dated immediately jump to negative conclusions, and how to overcome those conclusions. Thanks for asking her to cover that.

  • @pamela_ann
    @pamela_ann Год назад +3

    One other one is complaining about child support irritates the heck out of me.

  • @MariaOliveira-ip7hm
    @MariaOliveira-ip7hm Год назад

    Went through this with guy hit it off right away I was going pretty good but love bombing manipulation I don't think I'll ever want to date again he ghosted me I'm not really interested in dating anymore loving myself and putting myself first getting things for me if it happens it happens if it doesn't it doesn't and if it's not from God I don't want it and sometimes you write Samantha sometimes God does closed doors for protection maybe there's something better out there I don't know only God knows

  • @Raymond-c2z
    @Raymond-c2z 3 месяца назад

    Just break it down how you love one time you talked about feeling a weird vibe 🤔 in my relationship with my mom and dad we prayed up in our environment I started seeing duppies

  • @jczizzle34
    @jczizzle34 6 месяцев назад

    We are exclusively!!! What does the mean?

  • @larrypeeples-yk1rg
    @larrypeeples-yk1rg Год назад

    Good morning 🌄

  • @reginatabb4068
    @reginatabb4068 Год назад

    Ask the important questions on first date it will tell you a lot about who he or she is. Who are you attached to? What are you looking for? Etc❤

  • @michaelelliott289
    @michaelelliott289 Год назад

    Tell you sis I said hello. ☺️😘😘😘☮️💙💙💙

  • @TonyMontana-gh4sb
    @TonyMontana-gh4sb 7 месяцев назад

    Waddup Beautiful ain't seen you 4 a minute u bless?

  • @theoracle5265
    @theoracle5265 27 дней назад

    My exwife love bombed me for a full year, I mean expensive gifts amazing home cooked meal desserts intimacy and on and on and on saying she loved me and wanted to have my baby. And once we got married she totally did a 180 , no sex no compliments no laughter no nothing except for her flirting with other men. I should have dated her for 2 years I'm sure she wouldn't have been able to hide the nutcake that was buried way down inside that long.

  • @runningwolf2573
    @runningwolf2573 Год назад

    Ion want my lady driving my Carr unless we going out of town in 1 Carr and I got ta like her on top of dat. My wife is my Carr until aa lady can accept us into her Life❣️🌹❣️

  • @lorenamila0605
    @lorenamila0605 Год назад

    The switch up.

  • @runningwolf2573
    @runningwolf2573 Год назад

    Datz Y I keep as much car supplies in trunk possible women only want dey Carr clean if she really single not swinging and see ya Carr when it looks like it just got clean.

  • @dbage9024
    @dbage9024 Год назад

    😢 get tat take time to Heal.. #personaltime

  • @LdAmaro71
    @LdAmaro71 7 месяцев назад

    “Take the time to heal” How long is that?

  • @brewer1235
    @brewer1235 Год назад +2

    Awesome ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Mekertronic
      @Mekertronic Год назад

      👆👆sᴇɴᴅ ᴀ ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ ᴍᴇssᴀɢᴇ ᴏɴ ᴛᴇIᴇɢʀᴀ'ᴍ ʀɪɢʜᴛ ᴀᴡᴀʏ ✍️

  • @3agDEPUR
    @3agDEPUR Год назад

    ...........'dear'

  • @jetski7611
    @jetski7611 Год назад +1

    Ok y'all,
    Dis a fi mi feed bak.
    Unnu se nuff bout romance love bammin.
    Ok.
    1. Love bombing is no different when compared a person getting a new car or another item. Yes i said item, this is how a love bombing treats a relationship. At first the person is fulfilled with excitement, mainly focussing on one thing only (SEX,). That's is the agenda.
    Once that person achieve that, they go to phase two.
    2. Is unrealistic expectation is caused by having sex. By having sex in a short time after meeting, the person thinks and feels that they are in control, and they now can make their demands known. When the unrealistic expectation is not being met, the trashing of the EX begins.
    3. Trashing of the EX is the begining of the exit phase of the relationship. One will highlights similar trates seen in you which are that experienced with the EX.
    4. The lack of motivation is step two of the exit phase. The person now realize that one is not a easy pushover, and the difficulty being experienced is too challenging. This leads to step 3 of the exit phase inconsistencies in communication.
    5. Inconsistencies in communication means that the person already have Another victim lined up and confusional communication begin to surface. 😮
    Each time this kind of person reaches this stage in each of their relationship, this kind of a person now become a runner and become a serial dater.
    6. Serial daters repeats steps 1 through 5 in each of their relationship which is really based on sex.
    REMEDIED.
    To avoid getting caught up in the black hole of dating, practice the following.
    1. When first meeting someone new, ALWAYS meet at mutual places for the first 3 months.
    2. For the first 4 weeks, go places, go places and share each other's company but DO NOT LOCK LIPS 👄. A gratifying kiss on the cheeks are ok.
    3. For the first 3 months, NEVER invite your new date to your home nor do you go to their home.
    4. If your date mention that they know your address or shows up at your front door without an invite, TERMINATE the relationship IMMEDIATELY. This person is narcissistic, jealous and possessive. It means you are not being respected.
    5. If you make it past #4, and have successfully completed 3 months, NEVER EVER have you date spend the night (sleep over), or you two moving in together. Each of you shoul maintain your own domicile.
    6. During times of absence between each other, when reaching out to the other, one should get in touch with 15 minutes. If not, you are not alone.
    That is all for now

  • @boombapmilitia
    @boombapmilitia Год назад

    Anyone that “knows me knows me” knows I don’t take compliments well,…low key really dislike all forms. I appreciate peoples silent recognition if that makes sense? You said put down a phrase or punch line that has been used? Ummm,…I usually don’t let people close enough to love bomb me ,…and if they do they’re usually just being truthful by stating obscure facts about me ,…opposed to cliché, stereo type puns,…because I’m anything but normal. So, if they say some basic “poindexter “ one liners , or “surface” pillow talk my eyes are symbolically just rolling in the back of my head in annoyance. But some typical comment about working out or the gym is probably the most generic approach . But the love bombing is def a ploy or tactic to lock individuals down for sure. It’s blatantly obvious ,…but works wonders for many narcissist , towards affection deprived individuals. Now the “inconsistent communication “ is a pet peeve now for me,…and I immediately disconnect from the situation. Communication and vibe over everything .Lack of fluent communication inevitably kills the vibe. Good healthy intellectual convo is the catalyst and balance a functional relationship needs. Sapiosexuals’ spark of attraction starts with the intellectual chemistry exchanged and communicated usually via deep convo for me, but other attributes that stimulate / communicate potential intelligence is body language , eye contact, and telepathy. If the neurotransmitters don’t start firing exchanging the intellectual chemistry then that’s detrimental to communication and immediately a deal breaker. If they have the IQ of a baby rattle there will never be a physical attraction. A Mind meld and mental connection with transparent communication Is the precursor to good vibes.👌

  • @demon_544
    @demon_544 Год назад +1

    Your looking beautiful 🥰🥰☺️☺️

  • @spentshells1924
    @spentshells1924 Год назад

    Im oblivious to women’s advance.😅
    Some telling they friends “i think he is gay”why! Cause you was in a robe gorgeous as sin! Ans u asked for a leg massage and i did it and left?
    Now I know massage means romance the hell out of me. 😞

  • @nerrishaali1851
    @nerrishaali1851 3 месяца назад

    How long do you date before you Belize it's not love bombing.

  • @burtondorvil
    @burtondorvil 2 месяца назад

    That's a beautiful raspy cxe voice 😋🫂sweet💋♥️🤔

  • @gregoryruffin8141
    @gregoryruffin8141 Год назад

    About,tell,true

  • @Tamarah694
    @Tamarah694 Год назад

    I'm sending this message because I'm engaged to Stephan. Don't keep cutting and pasting clips of my baby. You're dressed inappropriately too.

    • @pamela_ann
      @pamela_ann Год назад

      If you are with Stephan you need to get over your jealousy. 1. It won’t last because he is going to interview with all kinds of women. 2. That sounds like something you should discuss with him.

  • @peterjacksonjackson587
    @peterjacksonjackson587 Год назад +1

    U can kill all that just don't have sex, just get to kno her and truly see who she is ,same goes for women, once the 🍒 pop it can be the end of the relationship or a one sided situation relationship

  • @JohnWayne-xl4wu
    @JohnWayne-xl4wu Год назад

    Dedication UTFO split personality

  • @Raymond-c2z
    @Raymond-c2z 3 месяца назад

    Is love bombing illegal a challis

  • @waltergonzalez4890
    @waltergonzalez4890 Месяц назад

    They have to take it slow until God put in there heart more and more.but the second day you met her sleep with her or him is 🤯😱🥵🥶🤒🤕crazy.

  • @runningwolf2573
    @runningwolf2573 Год назад

    Is😮dat like a 2month days into 3month thing ya know after aa few home carr washes if ya drive badd

  • @debmitchell8701
    @debmitchell8701 Год назад +1

  • @runningwolf2573
    @runningwolf2573 Год назад

    Why dudes trying to drive ya Carr?

  • @jones3everettiiije331
    @jones3everettiiije331 Год назад

    A sex can date someone who is very smarter than they could have possibly imagine 🍿🚬

    • @Mekertronic
      @Mekertronic Год назад

      👆👆sᴇɴᴅ ᴀ ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ ᴍᴇssᴀɢᴇ ᴏɴ ᴛᴇIᴇɢʀᴀ'ᴍ ʀɪɢʜᴛ ᴀᴡᴀʏ ✍️

  • @rfwindowservices3482
    @rfwindowservices3482 Год назад

    100

  • @RobertaliasDjKilLaBee
    @RobertaliasDjKilLaBee 9 месяцев назад

    ITS FABRICATED MAKE BELIEVE

  • @jones3everettiiije331
    @jones3everettiiije331 Год назад

    I don't think wo/men understand all FORMS 👈 of communication 🚬

    • @Mekertronic
      @Mekertronic Год назад

      👆👆sᴇɴᴅ ᴀ ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ ᴍᴇssᴀɢᴇ ᴏɴ ᴛᴇIᴇɢʀᴀ'ᴍ ʀɪɢʜᴛ ᴀᴡᴀʏ ✍️

  • @maidpierce988
    @maidpierce988 Год назад

    😅

  • @RobertaliasDjKilLaBee
    @RobertaliasDjKilLaBee 9 месяцев назад

    YOU SHARP LIKE I LIKE

  • @burtondorvil
    @burtondorvil 2 месяца назад

    One man girl n One woman guy,,lol😮

  • @bernarddamiels8600
    @bernarddamiels8600 Год назад +2

    When a woman should think about her standard is when she's a virgin , because once those body count starts it's going to be pretty hard for a man to truly comit himself to damaged goods. Just do the math and the whole math book while you're at it.

    • @Mekertronic
      @Mekertronic Год назад

      👆👆sᴇɴᴅ ᴀ ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ ᴍᴇssᴀɢᴇ ᴏɴ ᴛᴇIᴇɢʀᴀ'ᴍ ʀɪɢʜᴛ ᴀᴡᴀʏ ✍️

  • @SOUTHL.A.
    @SOUTHL.A. Год назад

    I'm feeling this background more than the kitchen.. maybe it's a guy thing..🤔

  • @burtondorvil
    @burtondorvil 2 месяца назад

    Fine white sugar 💋♥️🤔

  • @safalmukhia3745
    @safalmukhia3745 Год назад

    I generally like your vine and content, but you got at least one thing wrong here. Women are much more prone to seriel monogamy than men. I think data backs this. Maybe not from your experience with the men you've dated, but generally its women and its called monkey branching or something.

  • @burtondorvil
    @burtondorvil 2 месяца назад

    Were u watching ur dk 🚿 🍒😋😊🤔

  • @lanieme6321
    @lanieme6321 Год назад

    they want drive them lips on the puppies

    • @Mekertronic
      @Mekertronic Год назад

      👆👆sᴇɴᴅ ᴀ ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ ᴍᴇssᴀɢᴇ ᴏɴ ᴛᴇIᴇɢʀᴀ'ᴍ ʀɪɢʜᴛ ᴀᴡᴀʏ ✍️

  • @fdenerville8888
    @fdenerville8888 Год назад

    🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
    You have too much time on your hands love

  • @RobertaliasDjKilLaBee
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    YOU CHIPPING AT THAT BOLDER

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