DARKER SIDE of SOFTWARE ENGINEERING !!
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- Опубликовано: 21 июн 2024
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Black circles in your eyes says all...😢
Bruh
Too much Netflix 🐽
@@UFCANDCHESSDUDE02wahi kro bhai agar aapko sahi lagta❤
@@Macorelppa not really 😔
Ganja fookna Kam karna padega
Having 8 years of experience in the industry, I can feel what he may be going through. He's losing hairs. He used to have good hairs in his DSA videos. And of course, the dark circles also cannot be unseen.
it's just sad to see him like this..the job definitely takes a toll on the body
@@sandipansaha1296, well, it only happens when you either don't like your job or you're around the most mindful people and feel the competition so much that you end up taking a toll on the body only to be in the race. It is both good and bad. Bad because you are deteriorating your body slowly, and good because that is the best time to learn from the best people around.
People in IT crying for government jobs while people preparing for govt jobs crying to get a job in IT
Hence people are only crying now days 😭😭
Hence proved Life is not easy for everyone 😢
People who are preparing just need a job. Preparation isn't a stable phase.
kaam nhi krna kisiko, sab jagah apne pros and cons hai
so what to do?/////
As a software engineer, I strongly agree with all your points.
Average kitne hour kam karte ho aapp 😂😂
Can you refer me? Or can you provide me an email so that i can share my cv
1. Expectation vs Reality
you want to joined to build cool products.
But NOT!
you do meeting, planning, understanding structure. etc
Coding is easiest part of job.
• your projects for millions of people's
• 00000000.1 work you have do.
2. constant learning tech skills
• learn unknown technologies you haven't worked.
• learning is never stop.
• you have to solved errors which is not present into internet.
3. imposter syndrome
( you feel you are not belong here )
peoples are smart.
you should take care your health.
4. culture and work culture
- deadline ( miss )
- PIP culture
- 2 or 3 mouths you wouldn't do, leave it.
Thank you for this
chill a little, its not linkedin
@@jain_saiyam so make it
Its 0.000000001% not 0.1, I assume its a typo but still my mind tell to comment it
@@jain_saiyam 😂
One of the most darkest point I want to highlight is when you are not able to solve the bug in the given deadline then you have to work on weekend. You will be working for 5 days and then 2 days on weekends and after that again 5 days, it will cause burnout. You will not get enough time to spend your salary and relax.
Not true. You can discuss with your manager or higher management if you're unable to work. If it's a toxic workplace then it's otherwise.
my senior is working in mnc for 12 years and he almost never worked on sat or sunday. It is only possible in small companies and startups
I work in one of the most chill company when it comes to work life balance but still face this issue. It is expected that if you find a issue on Friday it would be solved by Monday. Also i think even if i am not forced by someone to work on weekends, i would have that issue in back of my mind for all weekend and it does create mental fatigue.
So , true! Even companies famous for relaxed work culture are doing it internally. I am in TCS , and it's happening to me. I have been working all 7 days since march even with no extra pay
Which company brother?@@shivamhw
Golden era of software engineering is gone 😢😢😢
Bullshit. Stop crying
Golden era of humans in general. It was good till late 2000's
@@mandarbamane4268 it was good till 2018 -2019. These days every one is angry, anxious, and unhappy. Capitalism destroyed the natural human being....
Agree @@mandarbamane4268
bro every sector has competition now. just try for govt job or other core engineering job you will know everything is messed up.
As software engineer , i agree with your all points.. Sometimes I think, I will resign from whole it industry itself, will start momo business.. Atleast I will be able to sleep with peace with my family.. May be I will not have that much money, but that will be more peaceful 😢
momo sellers in decent locations are making much more than average indian IT employees
Decent location like?@@ANTICHRIS619
@@ANTICHRIS619really bro?
@@funnyguydragon yes...we indians underestimate how much these "small businesses" make
This video is so accurate that I cannot express it in words, each and every detail explained so calmly and perfectly and every point is relatable to me. People in this era miss out on these aspects of a job and simply want to "code" and get the perks but as explained that's not the full picture and in doing so they also miss out on one big thing that is Engineering. The fun and the frustration of solving a problem, the art of designing a solution (maybe cumbersome or innovative) is reducing by the moment. I wish we all realise this soon. Keep growing brother ❤
That google cap hanged on the wall😎
Absolutely true. Every point is spot on. Newcomers or those planning to pursue IT for the attractive perks should also take these into account.
Greatly appreciate this video ,sort of a eye opener for a fresher aspiring to enter IT industry.Thank u Striver.
Can't be more perfectly spoken. Someone has to take up and talk about these points. Glad that you spoke on these.
I go through this on a daily basis. I see everyone chit chatting in Tamil. To my plight, I don’t know Tamil. I am the only one always abandoned. It feels good when someone voices your heart. Thanks Striver.
Bro, Same situation. On the complete floor of around 100 people, I am the only non Tamil guy. So many people around but no one to talk to!!
You're totally true..Striver. After 2 years of experience in softwareengineering, I can totally agree. Thanks for bringing this out ❤. You're providing real content.❤
Bhaiya, aap sleep ko manage kese krte ho, like itne km neend mai bhi itna productive
Thanks for being so honest. Being in IT I can relate and agree with what you mentioned!
needed it!, Thank you once again sir...
Thats why isnt easy to earn money , even software engineers have to sacrifice alot to get that high paying salary
Eye opener video 🙌🏻💯
So glad that despite making so many courses he is coming out with this level of honesty and explaining it to people upfront. I agree with each and everything that he has said. Its certain that you'd get a good package, some benefits, gifts, etc but everything comes with a price, you pay with extra time, sleep-sacrifice and sometimes with your weekends too..
100% True , Thanks for sharing striver .. This is reality. I have been experiencing this every day. Manager pressure , deadline pressure , bugs in code, help freshers .... Now Finding different path other than IT.
These are the reasons why some people quit jobs and sell courses , because sde is not a cup of tea.
Selling courses multiply digital copies and earn lakhs , Good plan by youtubers.
no words just understanding feeling
Thank you Striver for your honest points
Your this video just made me cry that it was so accurately said about each and every aspect about the software engineering and how is the actually the life of engineers who are working. I strongly agree when you said sometimes you think you don’t belong here, your effort doesn't seem to others, but yes these facts that you shared in the video are so accurate. But no worries, that’s what we have chosen so it comes with some perks but yes we have to give something about it as well.
As compared to other fields in India, salaries in IT are very good if you have technical skills + communication. Also the work culture is very good as compared to non IT jobs. Off course bad managers are everywhere, but with lakhs of companies, you have options to switch atleast.
Reality pta cal gyi ajj to ❤❤
The origin of the dark side is only due to the high expectations and deadlines, otherwise software engineering is a beautiful domain
I think the meetings wala point is still not the worst, we still get to talk about the "geeky stuff", software design and architecture because anyways we need planning before actual coding.
where is the so called "good work life balance" in top companies then?
Was never there. Just sold us all a nice dream.
One of the worst part is on call shift. You might get paged on weekends or worst if you are on 24hrs shift even in midnight.
Relatable 100%,
Every point
Great insights ❤❤
Thanks a lot..
Inspire us.. big fan ❤
My respect for you day by day is increasing❤ you are such an honest person ❤❤
this feels soooo trueeeeeee
agree with you 100%.. There has been time i was dreaming about my company things n all. eventually no job is easy.
U r always my inspiration ❤😊
Very nice video. Pls make more videos on this topic
spot on
Sir , can you teach us Backend Dev in the JAVA technologies ecosystem ? Because your teaching is great
your desk setup please, the gadgets you are using for recording videos and the softwares you use to edit it.
Please talk about expectation vs reality of salaries as well
we trade at every stage ..this is part of life . Thanks for this perspective
though I have not worked in such companies, but I totally relate to everything mentioned
This is really helpful
I agreed strivee you say TC👍🏿❣️
Each and every word that he mentioned is as true as the first light of the sun on the earth 🌍
disagree with the learning part. After the initial days, learning in most companies is meh meh.
Also could cover about promotions.
Couldn't agree more.
Just thinking out loud: It's strange that earlier people used to complain that jobs are monotonous, same and boring. But now it's the other way around, tech is evolving and you get to hop on to new things, but people are complaining about it. What's your take guys?
Yepp!!! That’s the reality…it feels really good to hear it from someone like you..especially the self-doubt part -whether we belong here or not.That was a much needed video..Thanksss Striverr!
So is there any better option than software engineer for CSE student ? MBA ??
Humko dark life chalega....khaane k liye paise toh honge😅
true bhai!!!
every career has darkside
you can eat well and full when you are not in stress overall but once you joined private organization, you will have bloating problems, whatever you eat will sit in your stomach and slowly in 2 to 3 years you will be fucked, and you will think this space is not for me, 99.99% software are working because they all are trapped in credit like home loan, car loan and personal loans.
**IMPORTANT**
government job with less strict deadlines are the best jobs.
@@iqrarahmad59 bhai MAANG/FAANG mai karna waala logo kii base salary zyada hoti hai matlab at least 40+ lpa toh woh log kya loan lenga directly cash se bina loan ka le sakte hai jaisa 90% log google, Microsoft, amazon, Facebook mai kaam karte inki base salary zyada hoti hai saath mai bonus aur stocks ka paisa toh ye sab log bina loan ka bhi afford kar sakte ha
bhaiyaa please post the codes in greedy playlist!! thank you so much !!!
Overall it's so challenging to go in this field
I'm excited asf :)
Har jagah to Aisa hi hai. Medical field is also over burdened with stress. What can we do!
Correct
What about your hair loss from stress?
this video scares me , my clg life is so traumatic ,hope this experience helps me to handle that situation lying in future
Totally relatable from my 3 years of tech experience
I am also Nishant singh
@striver I have been watching your videos and your response and I think that you are just extra emotional
thank you
bro every sector has competition now. just try for govt job or other core engineering job you will know everything is messed up.
True reality of IT Prfectly Explained.
Hello sir, I'm soo depressed currently I had switched off from my current company after 3 year due salary increment problem.
But now I'm searching company, recruiter call for first round but after first round they didn't call again for second one however they said only that I'll schedule next round then also ? So depressed to not get job
Bhaiya, TUF+ kab launch karoge?
If you feel like you are on top of the world one day and then feel like you don't know enough the next day, that means you lack experience.
jo apne design bataya vo konse type ka hota ?
every point is valid and I do agree software engineers do not have an easy job
Right phases I was
Striver, your recent LinkedIn post about TUF+ pricing. I know you've not shown the username of the person but I think you should've told him nicely. Not all people have knowledge about business striver.. and your point is also valid.. but some people don't get the bigger picture and that's okay. Do you have idea how will it affect on his mental health? Even though you hid his name, you targeted him personally please don't do it... I have not commented on your linkedin because at this point you're a bigger person and ofcourse people will support you..
But please try to reapond instead of react. Otherwise you're a good and hardworking person, people look at you as a model please be gentle.
Maybe he had heard a lot about these and couldn't have a control check on his reaction power. But the thing is 99% engineering students don't want to even understand how it works. That's the fault the students have.
true
Yes, then maybe he could've started that LinkedIn post.. with something like "A lot of you had queries regarding the TUF paid version" without attaching any screenshot...
Idk I am just putting a perspective.
@@averylazyandweirdhuman maybe it could have been that way.
well if he hadn't has job then this targetism is very danger for his early carieer cause people might look his profile
I am in my final year, it's too late for me now
Every single day I feel the pressure.. Will I survive today.. Will i be able to meet my higher authorities' expectations.. Again can't complain because they are giving higher salary, great recognition.. Such a confusing industry
Bro seriously liked RED Tees
That's why u must have a multiple sources of income
Like?
@someoneyoushouldstayawayfr3790 of
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Moonlighting lol
@@advaitgadekar6771 🤣🤣
sir recommend some solution to these issue you mentioned
sir please upload stacks and queues
Bhaiya IT vs ETC what's your opinion?
Hey bro I'm from Bhadrak, when you will come to your home town please inform. Eagerly waiting to meet you 🥹
I have nearly 4 yrs of exp. Truth is we get money but its miserable. The amount of stress, anxiety is unbearable. I am saving aggressively so that I can retire as fast as I can.
bhiya apke vlogs dekhta tha ab nahi aate pls continue again
Hey if anyone can answer I want to ask a question like is it normal that to not getting any idea to solve problem 2nd or 3rd time for same problem like on day 1 i solved question a and it worked but the next day i saw the same problem or after some day i encounter the same problem i don't get any idea how to solve it.
Seems someone also about to quit job to sell course
strongly agreed , every point is so relatable .... having 6 year of exp ..... faced everything
Even after product based campany with good salary SE says about the hard work. Then what about the feeling of the Engineers with low salary and same hard work at company🙂
when ever your heart is broken dont ever forget your golden is my hukuna matana
I couldn't not sleep for two days.. Thinking what to do in my life. Software engineer has no personal life..
Same with me I too spend my weekend in thinking only
Jitni mehnat maine software Engineer banne me ki, aur kr raha hoon, utne me koe gov. Mil gae hoti shayad, paise kam milte lekin khus rehta..
Everybody thinks the same , but tbh we always think grass is greener on the other side but that's not true my frnd ...choose your passion first
Sirf dur se hi dikhta hai govt job ki perks, but jo kar raha hai unse pucho kya haal hai unka
You haven't seen the dark side of gov job bcz no one says about it....all have cons
bhai fir bhi.. tumhe govt. job ghar ke pass nahi mlegi.
30-40k mae guzara nahi hota aaj kal ghar se bahar.
Mera toh simple rule hai:
Work hard for 20 years in IT and save massive
Retire Early and enjoy your 50's and 60's with whatever you want to do.
@@M10GOAT997 20yrs in slavery in best body and enjoying in10yrs with weaker body..
Experienced all things in a year. 4 saal tak pahuchna nahi pada
Actually there is always a bad or good side on every sector if you want to earn not too much but ok ok then join mncs and if your goal is only to earn money then join big product base companies there you have to sacrifice your little enjoyment but if you want to earn 1-2 lkhs then join mnc like Accenture cognizant Infosys tcs etc... after one or two switch you will have a good salary with work life balance..then choice is yours... every coin has two side as always 😊😊
👏👏👏👏
True
Relatable
just joined one organization as backend developer, but I have studied and skilled completely about cloud and AWS but i'm now realizing what ever this video has is 100% truth, from these past two weeks i am experiencing what ever striver has said. #staybold
I got 2 years of experience as an engineer and i didn't have much expectation to begin with...but now even those small expectations are shattered...monday to friday i keep waiting for weekends and then 2 days of weekend passes so quickly and again the hell starts..just as it will start tomorrow for me😭😭
I'm doing WFH with less salary but I'm happy that I'm with my parents..
@@patiltalks_ till November i was also having full wfh, now they want me to attend 3 days office compulsorily...i don't understand the sense of this...my client is an american company so mostly we have to work at night but we also have to go to office in morning....so it feels like i have to keep working the entire day😥😥...i barely get time to eat...everyday i have dinner while attending meetings at the same time😓😓
@@harshit.53your condition same like me weekends pass in 2 minutes
Does core engineering domains like chemical, mechanical, civil also have their own dark sides?
Obviously
Have you heard of under paid and over worked (basically slavery) with tough and stress life? that's mech and civil for u. IT IS FAR BETTER THAN>>>>>>>>> CORE ENGINEERING
As a Software Engineer at a Product Based Company, I can Strongly Agree with each and every point in this video!!!💯💯💯💯
Switch to service based 🙌
@user-bz2ve4ti4f does service based experience different than this? Could you please share yours?
Soooooooooo true
peeche noogler cap pe dhyan tha mera
I recently shared some of these things with a fresher😂
💯 truth