not only a badass ex cop and maybe soldier. but also a deeply disillusioned depressed guy who pretty much doesn't care about a lot anymore because of his murdered son
Recap: 1) Body Language: Eye Contact, Straight Shoulders and Chest Out. 2) Slow Speech. Keep tension between the key parts of the speech and the rest. 3) Memento Mori. Live life fully. 4) Be irreplaceable.
Irreplaceable is unattainable. Anyone can be replaced. If you, or me, or your neighbor dies, we can all be replaced. There are over eight BILLION people on this planet. You are not unique. I am not unique. None of us are, and no amount of posing will make any one of us irreplaceable.
4:44 he hasn't lost confidence, he actually is putting on an act to put his plain into fruition. only a few seconds later he is very confident and is in control of what is happening.
@@MUHAMMADFIRDAUSBINJAURIKPM-Gur quiet is a short-term state to maintain silence for a short period of time, it helps you to not expose your weaknesses and your personal info to their will, someone that doesn't have to show who they are through their words but through actions while being silent is someone that is silent for a long-term state of time, you do something they don't like, they will remain silent forever, usually is related to shyness, insecurity and being unable to speak or act
I never watched this show, but I did learn some things about commanding respect and confidence from my Dad. He wasn't the biggest man around, but when he was around nobody had more attention and respect than him. His air of confidence made his 6 foot stature seem like he was 10 feet tall and bulletproof. He's gone now but far from forgotten. Dad will always be my hero and model for what a man should be.
@@Juan-nu8pm First off he remained calm no matter the situation. Second he always spoke clearly and to the point. Third he would listen to opposing views. The response he had was usually given after he took a moment to think. That's command for respect. Flying off the handle and yelling never gets respect.
Now you guys have to do an analysis of Saul Goodman! There are so many things about Saul's people skills that make him charismatic and it would be awesome to get more depth on how he does it! :D
"Choose your words wisely, because they will influence your happiness, your relationships, and your personal wealth." It's worth adding: "In some cases, they might even save your life, but the key is knowing not only what to say and how, but also when to speak and when to keep quiet."
Please do one in Gustavo Fring. His emotional composure and ability, to play on people's ego and person interests is unparalleled. It's scary watching him because you cannot predict how he will respond. At any point
Gus Fring was a psychopath. That's why he was able to keep so calm, and emotionally detached. Pull up any video on psychopathy, and it'll describe him precisely.
This set of ideas is so effective, give it five or ten years of practice in social or work situations and you will not even know yourself anymore. It will change your inner world. Confidence breeds more confidence, it's a feedback loop. Never ever look weak, if you get that much right you're half way there.
What is the most useful life lesson you have learned? 1. Quit constantly posting on social media. 2. Most people don't adore you; it's a symbiotic relationship. 3. Never use coercion in relationships, discussions, or meetings. 4. Find your inspiration every day and use it to get through the day. 5. Money just creates an illusion of happiness, not the real thing. 6. Most people have no idea how pure bliss feels. 7. Never grow old. It is possible to live it. 8. You can accomplish a lot for someone and still be abandoned. 9. Make the most of your emotions. Let them dominate you only when required. 10. Death is NOT the end, whether you believe in science, religion, or nothing. 11. Invest in good memories with or without money. Age-related needs for them 12. Everything is mental. 13. Love yourself, but also love others. Be kind to everyone, even haters. Kindness isn't weakness. 14. Do good things with no expectation of reward. This is not a deal. 15. Pure heart, mind, and body. Avoid negative energy. 16. DRINK LOTS OF WATER REGULARLY. 17. Eat healthy foods including vegetables, fruits, and yams. 18. Exercising regularly keeps you healthy. Go for a run or the gym. 19. In the end, you'll realize it's all futile. Our endless aspirations of money, excitement, attention, and life. "Yote ni vanity," as we say. 20. Don't pursue someone who won't return your kindness. 21. Love them now, but you'll be surprised how lovely they'll be in a few years.
Thank you for this amazing breakdown. And now that we're here, please do one about Saul Goodman. He is truly one the most charismatic and xharming caracters ever created. And the fact that he know how to win the confidence of a lot of people to actually scam them is amazing. He has a lot of power because despite what he does nobody can hate him
"That which is fearless must guide that which is fearful. That which is great must guide that which is small. That which is strong and wise must guide that which is weak and fallible." _The New Message from God » Fear and Fearlessness_
1. I can vouch for this working. Several years ago I stood up to a guy who was not behaving in a way I appreciated. Despite him being taller than me and apparently in better shape,* he backed down when I stood my ground. (*In better shape than me, except for teeth. As part of my standing up to him I told him to grow some teeth. I guess I'm lucky he didn't smack me for that, but I was ready.) 2. Memento mori and thinking about dying in five years. That one hit home.
This can escalate the situation. Look to the left or right to break the tension. This allows you to stand your ground while communicating that you want to solve ithe conflict without a fight.
Would you consider doing a video about Patrick Jane's (Simon Baker) character from The Mentalist? I believe there to be some great charismatic nuances from his performance that would be valuable to analyze with your methodology!
5:12 You missed the point in Season 3... Walt is playing a game and is manipulative. He makes other believe he is weak, but in reality he his playing his cards until he drop his hand on the table while being all-in. That moment is where Mike understood he got played... he tells everyone in Season 4 that the last thing he needs is for Walt to speak... because he always find a way to manipulate people the way he wants. Jesse is a good example. He understood at one point that he got played.... the whole time.... even if Walt truly care for him as much as a step son.
What legitimately worked for me in having confidence in high pressure situations was when I was younger, my friends and I would eat a bunch of LSD and go out causing just enough trouble to get the police called but not enough trouble to get arrested. Taught me there is nothing in can't handle.
Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.
That's actually how I got so much more confident. I've gotten out of situations where I should have died three times now; the most recent situation I had years to come to terms with it, and multiple hospitals and specialists told me to just make myself comfortable. I was able to recover, and having already come to terms with my mortality, nothing else seems really risky anymore. What's the worst thing that could happen if I put myself out there--I could die? I'm supposed to be dead! 🤣
Two things you can definitely learn from the character of Walter White is:- to put your fear aside to do whatever it is you want to do NOW. And, the fact that it's almost never too late.
#4 just reminds me of a self made quote I always use to tell if you have a good villain, if you’re gonna act like you’re better than everyone else, you have to BE better than them
Looking weak is better than being weak and looking weak is good in some instances And young people don't use RUclips for building your character RUclips is informative but it doesn't mean all there is to life can be found on RUclips
Mike Ehrmantraut and Saul Goodman are starkly different characters with very different mannerisms, yet they both are able to get what they want and recover from seemingly hopeless and difficult situations. For example, despite his age and seemingly frail appearance, Mike should have been punked by the gangsters he is surrounded with, but he has this calmness, confidence, and ruthless mannerisms that inspire fear into his adversaries and "coworkers" so to speak. Saul is a sleazy person who is very hard to trust when you look at all of the dishonest and sly things he's done in the past. Yet he still is able to use his charismatic and confident personality to get what he wants without much resistance. For example, he is able to project confidence and power, even when he has little or none (Tuco and the "skateboard scamming" brothers negotiation in the desert). Just some suggestions for some characters you guys could break down in future analysis!
One of the best pueces of advice I have is to be as selectively honest as possible. Be honest as much as possible. Especially with the bigger problems, because they only get bigger. I say selective because I never share more than I have to. This often leads to people sharing with you. But you need to tight lipped. People think you are smart if they know you have more information than you are revealing. This is especially true when you do ut in front of people that you know things about
I dont usually comment on your videos but I have a question. I don't think being charming and charismatic is that difficult but what if you're an introvert? I find myself being more extrovert to charm people, more engaging and out there but typically I'm more closed off and to myself. But it gets tiring to put that front up for so long. Eventually I fall back into antisocial mode and then my first impression to people are I'm intimidating or antisocial. What can I do to prevent this? Or bounce back from it?
how bout you spread your extrovert effort. Instead of dishing it all at once then feeling depleted, be the silent type and throw a good word here and there to cheer people up
#1 -- one practical problem with continuous eye contact -- you're unprepared for surprise attacks. Every fighter says you look at the shoulders to detect torso changes telegraphing attacks. Also you missed with #1: Don't smile. Smiling has evolutionary roots signaling you're NOT trying to start conflict. Primatologists see this with bonobos trying to defuse conflict.
Thank you so much this help with my anxiety and confidence talking to people have never felt better reading Chrisma university made my life better and I always wanted to have the same habit as Walter white I appricate your work.
The things that you describe in this video are consequences of not having a lot of fear and having confidence already. But imitating these traits doesnt erase fear nor emulate confidence. I would appreciate any tips and suggestions on how to reduce my fears, I am not an actor and imitating anyone never did help me.
I have never watched a whole video on the channel before! Now I have watched the video fully several times! It's really useful and superb! Keep it up!! Thanks for the wonderful work!
As a person who wish to explore 'stoicism', I have encountered many fake stoics, who demand others to be not offended, while themselves getting offended for petty matters. Stoicism should be widely explored
The best way to dominate any social situation is have a hit squad you use on anyone who crosses you. Past that poison a child and carry a gun without a serial number. You'll command respect in any situation.
Memento mori? Man, i'm shitting my pants when it comes to plane flight or talk to crush, but i don't see a frickin problem goin 170mph on bike through city, i'm just built different, okay?
I decided to take the thumbnail's advice and purchased my first pair of glasses, despite not needing them to see. So far I've noticed that wearing them makes my vision blurry and I keep bumping into walls, trees, and inconveniently placed garden rakes, and although my glasses might now be broken and my head bruised, at least people won't think I'm weak anymore
We badly need psychological break down of 'Barney Stinson' From How i Met your Mother.. Notice how he used 'we' instead of 'I' to signify not only his own need but also the need of the other viewers who may benefit from it. When using 'we' instead of 'I' in any social situation makes your case more substantial because it shows the will of other people as well. You might have often observed how some managers take all the credit for a project and leave the employees discouraged. Contrast to this, a manager who shares the credit with his entire team gets the appreciation of his subordinates and greater respect from the upper management as well.
Can you please make a video on what to learn from Berlin in Money Heist because he has got a lot of things I would like to know from your perspective Btw love videos 😁
Having unwavering eye contact is not always the best option. If terrorists hold you hostage the advice is not to keep eye contact and looking down, because the terrorist can see eye contact as an act of aggression on your side, so is more likely to shoot you. Also, if you are a woman, a man is more likely to hit you if if you keep eye contact.
I rooted for Walt all through the series. He went from a weakling who got trampled over to a fearless force to be reckoned with. Even when he loses the fight, his opponent does not walk away unscathed. Classic line: "I am the one who knocks."
Same line he used to scare his wife and by being a fearless moral-less force he ruined the lives of everyone around him including his own… but go off I guess.
Holding 3 seconds of eye contact, then breaking it, makes sense, but only if you are in a position of advantage. It's not a good thing to do if the threat is certain.
Can you do a breakdown of Bryan himself and not his Walter white character? First time watching an interview recently and he captures you when he talks.
The eye contact thing is kinda like with dogs. When I want to assert dominance with my dogs I always look at them right in the eyes, the always submit btw.
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My favorite part of Walt’s story is how he adopts the characteristics of all of the people who he’s killed/defeated in order to empower himself.
He respects the fallen
Just like mega man
*SPOILERS*
My favorite part was when he killed Uncle Jack at the end and absorbed his racism and said the n-word repeatedly
Good point.
Like how kratos acquires new powers
For me, the truly calm under pressure is shown in Mike Ehrmantraut character.
He's the real badass.
Mike and Gus
Fingers
Angry:😒
Sad:😒
Happy:😒
Dying:😒
Left granddaughter alone:😒
Son died:😒
No more half-measures. ;)
not only a badass ex cop and maybe soldier.
but also a deeply disillusioned depressed guy who pretty much doesn't care about a lot anymore because of his murdered son
Walter White has the best transformation ever, it's like the actor was born for the part
Just remember he was once Malcolm's Dad.
@@avgjoe-cz7cb lmao
waltuh
@@sporperino put your d away waluth
Cranston is perfect for the role, but it’s a combination of masterful writing and acting that truly elevate it.
Recap:
1) Body Language: Eye Contact, Straight Shoulders and Chest Out.
2) Slow Speech. Keep tension between the key parts of the speech and the rest.
3) Memento Mori. Live life fully.
4) Be irreplaceable.
None of those things will work unless you shave your head bald though😅
@@lusoverse8710 NAHHH💀💀💀
@@lusoverse8710 How about Waltuh in the last episode?
He had hair
Irreplaceable is unattainable. Anyone can be replaced.
If you, or me, or your neighbor dies, we can all be replaced. There are over eight BILLION people on this planet. You are not unique. I am not unique. None of us are, and no amount of posing will make any one of us irreplaceable.
@@thetheory6159 All of people are unique.
4:44 he hasn't lost confidence, he actually is putting on an act to put his plain into fruition. only a few seconds later he is very confident and is in control of what is happening.
Walter does that a lot.
Act weak when you are strong, act strong when you are weak.
Waltuh
Yeah my thoughts exactly
Yeah agreed. He might have actually been stalling a bit to buy Jesse a few moments to get ahead of them to the apartment
Did you even continue the video? He exactly explains that 10 seconds later, yet you couldn't resist yourself from being the smartass who knows it all
You forgot the step where you call Saul
Lol
No one respects him in BB either BCS
@@morlarav602 huel does
@@morlarav602 Kim and Howard??? ( i mean they used to)
@@_yvngxak huel is more respected than Saul
"A leader must be humble but not passive; quiet but not silent." ~ Jocko Willink 💪🏻🚀
True
What is the different between quiet and silent?
@@MUHAMMADFIRDAUSBINJAURIKPM-Gur quiet is a short-term state to maintain silence for a short period of time, it helps you to not expose your weaknesses and your personal info to their will, someone that doesn't have to show who they are through their words but through actions while being silent is someone that is silent for a long-term state of time, you do something they don't like, they will remain silent forever, usually is related to shyness, insecurity and being unable to speak or act
When Charisma on Command keeps making videos on how to learn charisma from villains: “HE CANT KEEP GETTING AWAY WITH THIS”
Cringe
@@Calebe311 no u
@@Calebe311 “Cringe,”- 🤡
@@Calebe311 “Cringe.” - 🥸
@@Calebe311 Someone with a weeb picture calling others cringe?
I never watched this show, but I did learn some things about commanding respect and confidence from my Dad. He wasn't the biggest man around, but when he was around nobody had more attention and respect than him. His air of confidence made his 6 foot stature seem like he was 10 feet tall and bulletproof. He's gone now but far from forgotten. Dad will always be my hero and model for what a man should be.
Could you please elaborate on what your father used to do to be respected and heard? Thanks
@@Juan-nu8pm First off he remained calm no matter the situation. Second he always spoke clearly and to the point. Third he would listen to opposing views. The response he had was usually given after he took a moment to think. That's command for respect. Flying off the handle and yelling never gets respect.
watch the show bro it’s so good
@@mikemcgown6362 Totally. Thank you for your answer.
@@mikemcgown6362 thank you for this!
Now you guys have to do an analysis of Saul Goodman! There are so many things about Saul's people skills that make him charismatic and it would be awesome to get more depth on how he does it! :D
SAUL GOODMAN
Agreed!
Hes like the jesus of social skills
This. I want this
Would love to see this!
3:55 - you don’t know how bad I needed to hear that, man. It’s been a tough week. Thank you for your content always!
@@aebious8886 kinda rude to send that don't you think
@@josefdrapak1889 i agree with the user above
@@josefdrapak1889 how
I was diagnosed with terminal cancer 6 years ago and it made me much less afraid in general, like the fictional Walter White.
So didnt end up being terminal? Thats awesome I am so happy for you man
@@lukemarcollo9979 Thanks!
you started a meth empire?
@@kingdeespadas I'm thinking about it
@@madmarlowe1422 😂😂
The key in most of these clips is Walt is perfectly willing to go where his adversaries are afraid to tread. What they fear most means nothing to him.
Yes his medical issues made him in a way fearless his opponents couldn't match.
not only does talking slower make you seem more confident, it gives you more time to think about what your going to say next
"Choose your words wisely, because they will influence your happiness, your relationships, and your personal wealth."
It's worth adding: "In some cases, they might even save your life, but the key is knowing not only what to say and how, but also when to speak and when to keep quiet."
Please do one in Gustavo Fring. His emotional composure and ability, to play on people's ego and person interests is unparalleled.
It's scary watching him because you cannot predict how he will respond. At any point
In that regard, the character traits of Stan Edgar should also be analyzed
He's OCD. Too careful.
The show got spoiled for me but I still couldn't predict his reaction so that is some next level character
Gus Fring was a psychopath. That's why he was able to keep so calm, and emotionally detached. Pull up any video on psychopathy, and it'll describe him precisely.
Walt, Hank, Saul, Gus and especially the bourboun soaked voice of Mike - what a great cast.
this show is a masterpiece. the small little details that transformed walt into heisenberg is just amazing
Waltuh, put your fear away waltuh. You are not supposed to back down from the challenges life given you waltuh
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This set of ideas is so effective, give it five or ten years of practice in social or work situations and you will not even know yourself anymore. It will change your inner world. Confidence breeds more confidence, it's a feedback loop.
Never ever look weak, if you get that much right you're half way there.
What is the most useful life lesson you have learned?
1. Quit constantly posting on social media.
2. Most people don't adore you; it's a symbiotic relationship.
3. Never use coercion in relationships, discussions, or meetings.
4. Find your inspiration every day and use it to get through the day.
5. Money just creates an illusion of happiness, not the real thing.
6. Most people have no idea how pure bliss feels.
7. Never grow old. It is possible to live it.
8. You can accomplish a lot for someone and still be abandoned.
9. Make the most of your emotions. Let them dominate you only when required.
10. Death is NOT the end, whether you believe in science, religion, or nothing.
11. Invest in good memories with or without money. Age-related needs for them
12. Everything is mental.
13. Love yourself, but also love others. Be kind to everyone, even haters. Kindness isn't weakness.
14. Do good things with no expectation of reward. This is not a deal.
15. Pure heart, mind, and body. Avoid negative energy.
16. DRINK LOTS OF WATER REGULARLY.
17. Eat healthy foods including vegetables, fruits, and yams.
18. Exercising regularly keeps you healthy. Go for a run or the gym.
19. In the end, you'll realize it's all futile. Our endless aspirations of money, excitement, attention, and life. "Yote ni vanity," as we say.
20. Don't pursue someone who won't return your kindness.
21. Love them now, but you'll be surprised how lovely they'll be in a few years.
I'm saving this, thank you!!!
@@_Bacon_bits Glad to help.
Fear is the mind killer.
4:16 Oh my god! It's Walter black!
I just drove past Walter White's house today, and ate at Los Pollos Hermanos. Perfect timing for this.
Thank you for this amazing breakdown. And now that we're here, please do one about Saul Goodman. He is truly one the most charismatic and xharming caracters ever created. And the fact that he know how to win the confidence of a lot of people to actually scam them is amazing. He has a lot of power because despite what he does nobody can hate him
You should do one on Mike Ehrmantraut. Very brave and likeable character with a lot to offer in terms of tricks to be more confident and brave!
finally someone said it
All of those things come with a lot of experience. The only thing Mike is, is experienced.
Loved the bit about stoic confidence
"That which is fearless must guide that which is fearful. That which is great must guide that which is small. That which is strong and wise must guide that which is weak and fallible."
_The New Message from God » Fear and Fearlessness_
Awesome 😎💐
So essentially, that which is human must be placated by that which is supreme?
Beautiful
So how does one that can never be supreme comprehend or identify supremacy? It’s all a human fallacy.
1. I can vouch for this working. Several years ago I stood up to a guy who was not behaving in a way I appreciated. Despite him being taller than me and apparently in better shape,* he backed down when I stood my ground. (*In better shape than me, except for teeth. As part of my standing up to him I told him to grow some teeth. I guess I'm lucky he didn't smack me for that, but I was ready.)
2. Memento mori and thinking about dying in five years. That one hit home.
1. Eye Contact
2. Speak Slowly with Purposeful Pauses
3. Memento Mori
4. Be Irreplaceable
i. Ability
ii. Likeability
many thanks
never break eye contact first or looking down
This can escalate the situation. Look to the left or right to break the tension. This allows you to stand your ground while communicating that you want to solve ithe conflict without a fight.
That transition from the video to the. Charisma University pitch was the smoothest thing ever
I love the episode when Walton Woke said 'It's breaking bed, Jerry' and winkled to him alluding to sexual intercourse
Yoooooo💀
What?
Fav episode ❤
@Hello Therethis sentence made me burst out in laughter lolol 😂
creepy
Would you consider doing a video about Patrick Jane's (Simon Baker) character from The Mentalist? I believe there to be some great charismatic nuances from his performance that would be valuable to analyze with your methodology!
uh i took this a bit seriously and now my friends think im possessed because i usually look at peoples lips instead of eye contact because i have adhd
That had to be the cleanest transition into an ad I have ever seen😂🎉
I like how Walt is now the symbol of domination
5:12 You missed the point in Season 3... Walt is playing a game and is manipulative. He makes other believe he is weak, but in reality he his playing his cards until he drop his hand on the table while being all-in. That moment is where Mike understood he got played... he tells everyone in Season 4 that the last thing he needs is for Walt to speak... because he always find a way to manipulate people the way he wants. Jesse is a good example. He understood at one point that he got played.... the whole time.... even if Walt truly care for him as much as a step son.
Pls, can you do a character breakdown of either Gus Fring or Stan Edgar?
What legitimately worked for me in having confidence in high pressure situations was when I was younger, my friends and I would eat a bunch of LSD and go out causing just enough trouble to get the police called but not enough trouble to get arrested. Taught me there is nothing in can't handle.
🤣🤣🤣
Yeah LSD also changed my life, it's the real life equivalent of life changing magical, fantastical adventure
Acid taught me that we notice our own insecurities way more than other people do. And I became so much more self-confident after that
Based
well that might have worked out i guess
Just stare at people like a psychopath. Charisma +10
you should do a video on Hiesenbones, he commands every scene he's in and never shows fear. Oscar worthy performance
How to be stronger
-Be Cancer
-Be 52 years old
-Be Danger
Hey Charisma on Command, thank you for this video. I learned a lot.
In your head just think: "say my name"
Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.
He shaved his head and that’s what made him BADASS! Real men shave their heads
That's actually how I got so much more confident. I've gotten out of situations where I should have died three times now; the most recent situation I had years to come to terms with it, and multiple hospitals and specialists told me to just make myself comfortable.
I was able to recover, and having already come to terms with my mortality, nothing else seems really risky anymore. What's the worst thing that could happen if I put myself out there--I could die? I'm supposed to be dead! 🤣
My compliments!
4 Habits to instantly stop looking weak
Instructions unclear, I now have lung cancer and I have a sudden need to cook
Two things you can definitely learn from the character of Walter White is:- to put your fear aside to do whatever it is you want to do NOW. And, the fact that it's almost never too late.
#4 just reminds me of a self made quote I always use to tell if you have a good villain, if you’re gonna act like you’re better than everyone else, you have to BE better than them
Gus fring and mike were the most badass characters in the whole series hands down
This is the moment kid named finger became charismatic?
The person called Any Social Situation
Christian Bale and Ryan Gosling are next
Looking weak is better than being weak and looking weak is good in some instances
And young people don't use RUclips for building your character
RUclips is informative but it doesn't mean all there is to life can be found on RUclips
make a tutorial on how to be 3D like Saul
Thumbnail: copy this habit *arrow at heisenberg*
Me: Where did i put my volumetric flask, my boiling flask, and my methylene...
1. Adjust your body language
2. Speak slowly and uses pauses
3. Build stoic courage
4. Be irreplaceable
5. Cook meth
starting with 5, hope this works!
Mike Ehrmantraut and Saul Goodman are starkly different characters with very different mannerisms, yet they both are able to get what they want and recover from seemingly hopeless and difficult situations. For example, despite his age and seemingly frail appearance, Mike should have been punked by the gangsters he is surrounded with, but he has this calmness, confidence, and ruthless mannerisms that inspire fear into his adversaries and "coworkers" so to speak. Saul is a sleazy person who is very hard to trust when you look at all of the dishonest and sly things he's done in the past. Yet he still is able to use his charismatic and confident personality to get what he wants without much resistance. For example, he is able to project confidence and power, even when he has little or none (Tuco and the "skateboard scamming" brothers negotiation in the desert). Just some suggestions for some characters you guys could break down in future analysis!
This is the moment when walter white became fearless
One of the best pueces of advice I have is to be as selectively honest as possible. Be honest as much as possible. Especially with the bigger problems, because they only get bigger. I say selective because I never share more than I have to. This often leads to people sharing with you. But you need to tight lipped.
People think you are smart if they know you have more information than you are revealing. This is especially true when you do ut in front of people that you know things about
I dont usually comment on your videos but I have a question.
I don't think being charming and charismatic is that difficult but what if you're an introvert?
I find myself being more extrovert to charm people, more engaging and out there but typically I'm more closed off and to myself.
But it gets tiring to put that front up for so long. Eventually I fall back into antisocial mode and then my first impression to people are I'm intimidating or antisocial. What can I do to prevent this? Or bounce back from it?
how bout you spread your extrovert effort. Instead of dishing it all at once then feeling depleted, be the silent type and throw a good word here and there to cheer people up
@@luketimewalker Thanks! That sounds like really great advice 🤔I guess I have been doing just a little too much. I appreciate your help!
@@adamstrangelove1081 just my educated guess hehe! Do come back to tell how it goes in a while ;)
#1 -- one practical problem with continuous eye contact -- you're unprepared for surprise attacks. Every fighter says you look at the shoulders to detect torso changes telegraphing attacks.
Also you missed with #1: Don't smile. Smiling has evolutionary roots signaling you're NOT trying to start conflict. Primatologists see this with bonobos trying to defuse conflict.
There are those who aren't afraid of dying. They're more afraid of not really living.
I liked Mike more, he was always calm no matter the situation.
Thank you so much this help with my anxiety and confidence talking to people have never felt better reading Chrisma university made my life better and I always wanted to have the same habit as Walter white I appricate your work.
The things that you describe in this video are consequences of not having a lot of fear and having confidence already. But imitating these traits doesnt erase fear nor emulate confidence. I would appreciate any tips and suggestions on how to reduce my fears, I am not an actor and imitating anyone never did help me.
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I have never watched a whole video on the channel before! Now I have watched the video fully several times! It's really useful and superb! Keep it up!! Thanks for the wonderful work!
Good reference to Stoicism, also thank you for your amazing channel and I look forward to going to charisma University once I have more time.
As a person who wish to explore 'stoicism', I have encountered many fake stoics, who demand others to be not offended, while themselves getting offended for petty matters.
Stoicism should be widely explored
can anyone recommend some books that talk about this particular subject, i just got into reading so that'll be really helpful
4:50 I feel like the “no longer calm under pressure” was just an act, because he, I always saw it as that. Feel free to change my mind though.
The best way to dominate any social situation is have a hit squad you use on anyone who crosses you. Past that poison a child and carry a gun without a serial number. You'll command respect in any situation.
Never found 'Walt' convincing. Thought he was the worst character in the show. Should just stick with sitcom Dad roles
This is good stuff. Now I gotta make sure to actually remember it and put it to practice.
Memento mori? Man, i'm shitting my pants when it comes to plane flight or talk to crush, but i don't see a frickin problem goin 170mph on bike through city, i'm just built different, okay?
Can we get a video on why Jeff Goldblum is so charismatic?
The "shoulders back chest out" is without a doubt the best advice, it's one of the rules of Jordan Peterson
I recently discovered by just staying silent in situations, people percieved me as someone who had more confidence, kind of a hack.
I decided to take the thumbnail's advice and purchased my first pair of glasses, despite not needing them to see. So far I've noticed that wearing them makes my vision blurry and I keep bumping into walls, trees, and inconveniently placed garden rakes, and although my glasses might now be broken and my head bruised, at least people won't think I'm weak anymore
Thank you so much.. .Now I learned more about Walter and I can apply this to myself
The thumbnail is so funny to me
for me too 😂😂😂
this is the exact moment when heisenberg copied this habit
You can't literally guarantee you'll change someone's life.
That's an oversell.
People often mistake weakness for compassion of others.
We badly need psychological break down of 'Barney Stinson' From How i Met your Mother..
Notice how he used 'we' instead of 'I' to signify not only his own need but also the need of the other viewers who may benefit from it.
When using 'we' instead of 'I' in any social situation makes your case more substantial because it shows the will of other people as well.
You might have often observed how some managers take all the credit for a project and leave the employees discouraged. Contrast to this, a manager who shares the credit with his entire team gets the appreciation of his subordinates and greater respect from the upper management as well.
Can you please make a video on what to learn from Berlin in Money Heist because he has got a lot of things I would like to know from your perspective
Btw love videos 😁
So i have to dissolve children, and poison them too, in order to be like walter?
1:50 got me like " yuh eh- but the kid is not my son "
Please do an analysis on Lalo Salamanca. He's definitely the most worthy personality to get into.
Having unwavering eye contact is not always the best option. If terrorists hold you hostage the advice is not to keep eye contact and looking down, because the terrorist can see eye contact as an act of aggression on your side, so is more likely to shoot you. Also, if you are a woman, a man is more likely to hit you if if you keep eye contact.
I could write essays on this show. Greatest of all time
I rooted for Walt all through the series. He went from a weakling who got trampled over to a fearless force to be reckoned with. Even when he loses the fight, his opponent does not walk away unscathed. Classic line: "I am the one who knocks."
Same line he used to scare his wife and by being a fearless moral-less force he ruined the lives of everyone around him including his own… but go off I guess.
@@ButterscotchPenguin I am not really sure what your comment is supposed to mean. Are you a fictional Walter White fan or not?
He said that in a moment of desperation when he was rife with insecurities
Holding 3 seconds of eye contact, then breaking it, makes sense, but only if you are in a position of advantage. It's not a good thing to do if the threat is certain.
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Can you do a video like this, but discuss what Mike has to teach us about gaining confidence?
Can you do a breakdown of Bryan himself and not his Walter white character? First time watching an interview recently and he captures you when he talks.
Memento Mori has a second part,
Memento vivere "remember to live" together Memento Mori: Memento Vivere "remember you must die, so remember to live"
The eye contact thing is kinda like with dogs. When I want to assert dominance with my dogs I always look at them right in the eyes, the always submit btw.
The show "Eternals" while really bad has the most charismatic villain I have ever seen on film.
Quiet influential charisma, well worth the study.
He was not weak he was very dangerous he was like jigsaw. From. Movie saw
Hi ..i am curious to know how they use video clips and not got reported or even they receive copyright stickes ? How.
bro slipped the ad in 💀 anyways, helpful video, thanks.