The Human Hyphen Pattern
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- Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
- In this video Teal explains what the human hyphen pattern. The human hyphen pattern prevents authenticity and compatibility in relationships.
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I’ve been calling myself a chameleon. I’m just like Brody and Cindy in the video. It’s so easy to just integrate into someone else’s life, and take up their interests, hobbies and beliefs. And then, when I’m alone or away from them I feel like that’s when I can just ‘ be myself’ . But, yes therein lies the problem. Can you help with or point to a video on HOW to be your authentic self when with others? Thank you
Just be yourself and true to yourself...I have to modify my behaviour depending on who I am with as some of the people I know are so very different to each other.
I also have this problem! I have to constantly think about putting up healthy boundaries. I also have a life coach that is a good listener, so that helps a lot... A video would be nice. I think she might already have one? But yeah, you are not alone.
Search RUclips for Teal’s how to be authentic vid.
She has a video called how to be authentic and another video called “do you need space? If so, you’re being inauthentic” maybe they’ll help. Much love ❤️ I have the same problem too
Oh actually probably the most helpful video would be “I can have me and have you too” maybe
The wonderful thing about every lesson is that there are two sides. Becoming a different version of you, can also come from knowing what you are and what you are not.
From experience. You wouldn't know the light without the dark. If you are truly seeking Authenticity, the mistakes still help. Humans do live a life- to help us remember Who we really are.
I love this! 🥰
So sorry for your recent upset Teal. I appreciate you so much. Thankyou for not giving up. We need you.💝
What happened, what do you mean her recent upset?
What was it?
I now realize how much I was committed to this pattern and why mixing my different friends always led to conflicts. It's because I was a different version of me with everyone which collides when out together. It's a manifestation of my fragmentation. I also put this inauthenticity in my sexual life using hypersexualization as an inauthentic way to find intimacy
Exactly: mixing friends leads to conflict!!!! Like i never used to have a nice birthday with everyone. I only know them one on one: one to study or talk intellectual with, one for sports (that the other thinks is superficial), one who always gets drunk and the health freak that looks down on that. Etc. You cant have them in one room. Last birthday before corona one as litterally shouting at the other. I dont see them both anymore. I didnt celebrate my birthday last time. I dont have enough friends left. One was flirting with the boyfriend of the other just to piss her off. How doi become normal soi can have normal friends, because my actual personality is having dinner parties with lots of friends, but when im invited to one of those i must leave after 2 hours, so tired of tuning into them. I get tired lately and it probably because of that. I also noticed they are not there for me when i get ill. So then authentic me from very far away still told me to ditch them (they ditched me but i managed not to call them back this time) . I wouldnt know how to make friends without just doing as they please. Its just that corona is doing it for me because i am proundly unvaxed and open if they ask, and that seems to be a boundary for others. And politically not so mainstream anymore. So the boundaries will popup sooner or later. Ok very late in my case. Im so go with the flow, but injecting it into me was a bridge too far.
Well thank you for describing my life to a t. 🤯
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Hi Teal, I liken the Term as the "Carmeleon Effect" whereby one changes to the Environment or Person you are in or with.
Language and Cultures also Customs also play heavily into this as fitting in becomes the Norm so speak.
Luv what you Do Teal! You truly are Beautiful inside and out.
Thank you for posting the address of the written version. I've been diagnosed as having "ADD" (which I am learning to manage via mindfulness practices). I can acquire information from videos, but not as effectively as from books or other written material. Videos present me with a lot of distracting nonverbal information.
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Don’t we all have a hyphen or two throughout our lives at one point or another? Seeking and finding our authentic selves would not be possible without first trying on what does not fit authentically.
You help me to think of what I have been through in a different and better way
This past year, when I turned 30, I finally stopped being a people pleaser/hyphen and have held my ground/views as my authentic self. In result, I lost hundreds of "friends". Many won't like this unfamiliar new/honest version, because some folks often prefer that you match their assumptions/opinions they've painted of you over the years, rather than take the time to really get to know you.
We are meant to grow and evolve on a soul level. I've found that when I am my true self with others, then the more I align with my purpose, am able to manifest quickly, set healthy boundaries, and attract deeper individuals. Getting to know yourself is a beautiful chapter in life, give yourself grace on this journey. Thank you Teal 💙
Y’all- I think Tory is Teal, Brody is Blake, and Jocelyn is Juliana. Idk if Teal meant for people to figure it out, but I think she did, or else she wouldn’t have made it so obvious and specific of an example
That happens a lot, she makes videos based on the insights she gets from personal life. Gotta say, she wouldn't make this video if "Brody" was still with her and conveniently living out not his but "Tory's" life's purpose. Let him live, explore what he wants.
Omg that totally makes sense!! I love you!!! Lol
Confluence that’s based in self-abandonment and self-dismissal can never be real, true, satiating, sincere, or even sustainable! True unity is rooted in compatibility, not absolute sameness.
Such a strong feeling that there is real life inspiration to fuel the first analogy with the « « Brody-Tory-Jocelyn trio » where Brody is in fact Blake (same initials by the way), Tory is in fact Teal (same initials again, with Tory being super driven, loving skiing and cooking; oh! Just like Teal! Coincidence ?!😆) and Jocelyn being Juliana (again same initial letter) loving the outdoor, horses, etc… it just so happens they (Juliana and Blake, or is it Jocelyn and Brody..?!😆) are currently pursuing a outdoors type adventure business. Ok, this was fun decrypting the real life people behind the invented characters of the analogy ..!!
Yup hahahah! As soon as I heard, “she loves skiing and cooking,” I knew Tori was Teal and the rest was easy to figure out 😆
I got the same intuitive hit. I don't know these people either, but I'd decode their unconscious, sabotaging garbage for the world to see if they betrayed me like that. They sought to discredit Teal, and proved themselves discredited. Perfect karma.
I was gonna post the same thing! I’m wondering who Cindy is… I kinda think it’s her childhood friend Diana, but I have no proof for that.
@@auryn684 omg, I actually felt the same thing too; that it was Diana! Though I dismissed it, with my logical mind deducing that the "initials" aren't corresponding, so it mustn't be her. But Diana does seem very fitting, indeed! :D
@@auryn684 bruh same. I’ve only ever watched one interview with Diana but immediately thought Cindy was Diana too! Our intuition is on the same wavelength, it’s scary
One of the best speakers who’s messages you can relate to, easily understand & learn some things from or just hear some sanity. Thank you!!👍🙏
Teal, I am no psychic, (well maybe a teensy weensy bit,) but i can see exactly what you're doing here... i hope your message reaches the targeted audiences. And they choose to "step into the space of awareness." I think that they will. Thanks for this highly insightful assessment of some of our inauthentic patterns!
teal isn't a psychic either, so don't worry about not being one
Is Brody Blake? Teal Tori? and Jocelyn Juliana?
@Chris Henley ive been watching her for years. All she’s ever spoken about is messaged of love and self acceptance.
@@cristymakes6026 i only know of this woman from watching the hulu doc (the deep end) just now. she seems terrible.
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In abusive home the way to have a relationship was to totally give up need of being loved. _But it doesn't disappear._
Wow. This was my ex-husband to a T. He would change his speech patterns, his hair the way he dressed with every affair he had. It took me a little while to figure it out.
A Chamaeleon.
And then he blamed me that he couldn’t be himself.
I appreciate you so much and I’m sorry what you’ve been going through.
Oh boy, Blake????? This explains a lot!!! I sure recognize myself in this one. It's been a challenge to be myself within relationships. Thank you once again Teal. This even explains why I love art so much (alone time).
I see what you did here Teal, so much respect for how you articulated this video to get your point across. Such a bold, fearless, extremely smart and extremely talented woman. So
proud! #TeamTeal - I need a tshirt to wear and support you! ❤️
Wow. Just wow. I have to watch again bc there is a lot packed into this for me. Eyes opened!
Teal, I love your messages so much but sometimes I feel pretty defeated by them. Not trying to play the victim, just feeling overwhelmed by how much I believe I need to learn to be at peace. I’ll keep working at it.
I had to pause the video. I’m at 15:45. I had NO IDEA that I did this until my partner said one day “you’re a different person with everyone”. Now I’m watching this… *plonk* penny drop. 🙏
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I’ve been alone for some years now because I haven’t been able to keep myself when I’m with others. I feel quite hopeless about my sense of self, not knowing who I am. I truly set all my wishes on my growth regarding this and I pray to give myself a chance for true authentic relationships. Thanks Teal. Love you truly.
Love the work that you do, Teal!
Thank you for spreading love, truth, healing, and acceptance into this world which is desperately needed 💗💗
Oh my God YOU HEARD ME? 😂😂💖 I was really scared of myself when I became concious of this. Whoever I spend time with, I adapt to their ideas, way of thinking, emotions and even talk and walk like them after a while. Although this doesn't answer the whole of my questions, this was really helpful. Thank you guys... 💖
I was exactly like this and it was quite a trouble for me. I could clearly feel the struggle of loosing myself every single time. Thankfully I'm grown out of this over the years as I'm allowing myself to be himself more and more.
Now then, the Adventure of the little Hyphen that became it's own Character begins! Good luck everybody and thank you Teal 🙏💖
I actually saw this during a healing session when I was using hypnotic regression. I saw myself around age 2 or 3 make a choice to do what my mother wanted because if I didn’t I knew more pain would rain down on me. I subjugated my will for Mom’s. But I had no conscious memory of this before the session. My hypnotherapist walked me through a healing process which let this aspect of myself let go of all her pain, thus freeing me.
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I feel like this is why I would always compartmentalise my family life and work life - in order to succeed in that 9-5 grind I had to give up a part of my self. I was ashamed that I had conformed and didn’t want my family to see and would then get angry anytime
They tried to mix. Thanks Teal
Always enjoyed biographies and autobiographies. Ppl’s lives are fascinating.
Is Blake allergic to horses? Did he have an allergic reaction that landed him in the emergency room?
Thank you, I know a person just like this, and this is exactly it !!!!!
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I do this too in my friendships and now I realize it's not good for me and them!
Genuinely, thank you Teal.
Everytime you post something, it makes my heart lighter. Your videos make me realize how many things I have in my subconscious that are ruling over me. And I am so grateful to have you in my life. I love you so much, your being, your laugh, your eyes. They are so inspiring for me. I'm truly so glad and greatful to be here. ❤️
Love, Ali ❤️
I favor self improvement on my own terms, and the people in my life can either love me for how I am in the present or they can get lost. I try to find happiness in the present versus my happiness being dependent upon future achievements.
Teal, thank you for these helpful videos and I am truly sorry for the betrayal you are experiencing. Sending you much love and positive energy.
You are loved and appreciated by many people who are able to think for ourselves. I have personally benefited from watching your free videos online, and I don't always agree with you 100% on every subject, but I have learned a great deal. You guide people to think with a fresh perspective about life and you are shining light in this world. Your contributions are not in vain nor malicious, thank you. 🕊️🙏❤️
Betrayal? What happened?
@@NobodyNobodytrustNobody check out her RUclips videos and she recently discussed about a documentary made to pretty much distort and show her work in a negative manner. The worse part is that she trusted and granted access of her work and life to the people who produced/filmed it .
@@violettema4775 oh I see. Thank you
Just broke up with a borderline. Sounds about right.
Thank you! You just called out what I am right now trying to figure out about myself and what happens in my relationships. 🙏
This is interesting 🤔 A new way of looking at relationships when one partner jumps from one relationship into another so quickly. Also, relates to bosses too. I've always wondered how we can be ourselves (professional and unique) around the boss instead of adapting to the bosses ways and tip toeing so as not to upset him or her. The older you get the harder it is to pretend you like this or that or to be OK with something if it's wrong, blatantly wrong. Struggling with this.
Having a "me" sounds painful because it is so separate. But probably that's the way to go to be able to connect. Long journey 😥
Teal i thank you so much it’s indescribable 🥲 your explanations are like water reaching every spot to the understanding. I enjoy listening to you every time any topic.
I have this issue and just grew out of it. Its weird cause only certain type of people make me want to act different. And sometimes I get scared like "omg I just acted like myself in front of them what if they dont like that? Its different than what Ive shown before" But its really not that deep. And all I can be is me so the people who I really want to connect with will stay around.
Beautiful video (as usual 😀). It takes courage to be our true selves, and we’re all on an eternal spiritual path of getting there.
It’s a beautiful thing this life, if perceived as such. Even the growth challenges.
Hey Teal, here is Laura. Now i know deeper and deeper your Purpose in my life 😉😂 Thank you for all your Videos 👍 The confusion about what you are saying in general disappears more and more. So great, you are so cool and funny 😂🥲
Nice shirt Teal, I love you. I really wish you the best and thank you for all this years, thank you for remaining focus, we all have our path and it feels right when it feels rights.
Teal, it sounds like what's needed here is individuation. I have been studying that topic a bit recently and the conclusion I've come to is.... Unless you have undergone the process of individuation and grown away from your family of origin, both mentally and spiritually, it is almost impossible to have a healthy romantic relationship. Because your loyalty, your commitment, is to whatever patterns they have programmed into you. And unless you can delete those and install new programming that is more your own, you cannot run "efficiently."
You are so right... When they meet someone Who really loves them and DOESNT request anything from them. They panic and leave😔
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I've always described this phenomenon as light. For each to cause each other's light to shine EQUALLY is a good balanced thing. However, this lesson is hard school because, until recently when I could recognize this, I had chosen relationships where I allowed thier light to shine brighter. Not because I couldn't maintain my light but because they could not. So they would suck all my light away. Their response being much different then mine. For them it was, NEXT! For me... You know.
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It’s changing my life
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What are great first steps to heal this aspect within us to step into our authenticity and being this too our relationships moving forward? I need to know more about this 🤗 I can’t wait for more videos on this topic! Thank you Teal! Love your work!
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teal get out of my head lmaoooooooo i swear she spiritually spies on me and does these videos just to heal me lol
Okay I’m stuck on the first example. The guy who was into self help then decided we should accept everyone as they are. I don’t see those as entirely conflicting. I’m a big self development person but it can be so exhausting to always look to change yourself. So much so that when other people aren’t looking at how they contribute, it can be a bit gaslighting to be the only one taking responsibility. The acceptance of who I am at any given moment, accepts that I will not be perfect and that leaves more room for growth. Perhaps that was a big draw into the other relationship for this guy, acceptance. A need that was left unmet in previous relationships. But yes, the over absorption into someone else’s life is still a problem. But maybe they got there on a search to meet some needs that were previously unmet.
For sure, I think there needs to be a time when everything you've learned can settle, be integrated and used. I think there can be an overload of introspection, taking in, self analysis and inner change VS exploring the outer world, using what you've learned, expressive energy, etc .
Could it be, that because "Brody" was in a constant state of inner change and "pressure" is why he could not develop anything constant about his personality? Living out someone else's life purpose of self development. Perhaps he is like many others, a multifaceted being, just like Teal likes to say, and several things can be true and authentic about them. Not everyone is single goal oriented and laser focused. Besides how much can you learn from the same circle of people, broiling in the same pot. Exploring the world, cultures, different perspectives can only make one more rounded.
I think if he was authentically self-accepting, stepping away from the self-help focus wouldn't be a problem. But Brody (Blake) is still the human-hyphen chameleon gaslighting himself and others in a new co-dependent relationship that suppresses and hides his authentic self in the name of pleasing the new woman.
It's a relationship doomed to fail, because he's not being authentic. He's tending horses he's allergic to, and one has to ask if his new partner is so accepting of people as they are... than why does he feel the need to hide something that can't at all be helped like his allergy to horses?
If this relationship fails, it'll carry-on producing the negative feedback loop "Brody's" caught-up in going back to the unhealed wounds with his mother and reinforce his need to be someone different to be loved and accepted by others.
@@popcultureperspectives164 As Teal herself mentioned, Juliana is supposedly accepting of people as they are. So perhaps he will find himself with someone that supportive, instead of acting the supportive role himself like in past relationships.
Would it be a better choice if he stayed in the last one of such inauthentic relationships instead of moving on when he had enough? To who's benefit is that?
@@TRBSTRG I don't know how he's going to find himself with someone so "accepting" of people as they are, yet he can't even trust to tell and accept he has a horse allergy.
Also, considering he keeps losing himself in relationships, maybe he should spend some time getting to know and support himself outside of a relationship all-together. No-one can really help someone with no sense of self find themself & it's not on a romantic partner to do that.
The problem isn't Teal or Julianna. The problem is that Blake has no sense of self, so he becomes Teal-Blake and Julianna-Blake. Only Blake can put a stop to that by loving Blake. Blake needs to build a better relationship with himself and stop using the women in his life as a surrogate momma.
@@popcultureperspectives164 Blake has no sense of self because Teal Swan guilts him into never leaving her side, completely co-dependent and controlling for “the mission.” She tells him what to think and believe about himself. He was never given the chance to think for himself and realized he needed to leave.
good job i loved the part about the narc projection , you keep telling those kind of truths you know the villagers will be coming lol i appreciate your art thank you
OH God NO!! However, I do feel we all do this at some extent, but isn't this about us not wanting to be confrontational...I mean sometimes I give in to the person, especially family because the fight, or argument is just not worth it the energy. I just love when you give the examples/stories about people, it helps me in understanding the concepts so much clearer. Thanks Teal for helping me, guiding me to do the work! 🙏 So much love for you!!
Teal is describing herself in the majority of all her teachings. That’s why you hear comments from people who have been through workshops with her, say she spends lots of time talking about herself! Yes let that sink in at the 15:00 min mark. That is Teal, and I wonder if she even knows that she is once again defining herself. The giggle she has at times, after sharing some truths about herself, it’s herself acknowledging herself. Her videos about multi personality dissociative disorders, are some very insightful, self evaluation work, that she clearly admits to having multiple personality’s. There was a woman who I think was from the UK, who was seriously traumatized by her father as a young girl; and she developed numerous different personalities, in order to protect herself from the horrific abuse she suffered. I’m curious as to why Teal doesn’t spend much more time about this, and how having even 3-5 different people that live in her, certainly explains why she is very different at times, and how it’s not even considered a disorder anymore, by the (AMP) American psychiatric association, but a gift that the mind creates these alters, in order to protect oneself.🙏
Why does she laugh at the specific times that the info she’s delivering hurts?
@@FreeJulianAssange23 my guess is that it’s one of her multiple personalities, that finds what she said to be amusing, and is snickering at her other personalities..
Anybody else have a hunch who “Brody” is? 👀
You got me, Teal 😆 I am from a very big family and I definitely adopted this pattern...thank you so much for shining your light on this matter.
Ypu know what I think people expect this behavior from me and I don't give it to them and that's why they hate me. One of the reasons why I stay to myself is that every where I went I felt that if I expressed preference for something other than what the other person wanted there would be conflict.
Also I realized that people would only compliment the things that I did that were a reflection of them.
This makes so much sense. I was always the person where I wasn't gonna change who I am for nothing and I always got a ton of backlash no matter where I went but people always loved my people pleasing sister even though she hated that.
This is a crazy world but now I feel so much better and so much more validated in just ignoring people's opinions and just doing me.
Hence why i have spent the last 4yrs alone. I didnt have a clue who i was. I am my own experiment !
As always Teal's information hits deep.
Thank u for your amazing insight Teal !
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NEVER knew i was like this. I thought being like this is smart of me. That i am adapting to the situation.... But for MYSELF it was not good. Thank you for this vedio
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There's only me, in the household. Always alone!! And it's ok!!🎉😂❤
Very deep... Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge.. Thank you so much..
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Omg I think I have or used to have this problem. I was reflecting on this today as 2 earlier male contacts contacted me but I don't feel like "shifting" anymore because I'm more grounded in myself and just wanna be myself for the moment. I didn't know how to summarize all this. Thank you so much for this video! Didn't know I'd meet a video so timely and helpful! With your video, I can reflect more deeply on myself.
This is a really interesting concept to think about. I know I don't struggle with this but it helps me understand people who are like this.
This helps me put my family life and my siblings actions into such perspective. Thank you
It is *BECAUSE OF AWARENESS* we have the *IMPROVEMENTS* we have today (Movements, laws, better parenting, healing, self love, loving other beings than human species, facilities that enhance human wellbeing, etc)
We also have worse parents than ever before, parental kidnapping, parental alienation, lockdowns, mask mandates, kids being pushed to achieve missing out on their childhood. Than there is the fear mongering with climate change, pandemics, and everything in between.
And lastly those who’ve taken greed to a whole other level.
It's so obvious she's talking about Blake and Juliana. Haha love this! 🫢
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Well said, like usual. Much gratitude for the good feelings I’m feeling because I’m aware of these things now. 🙏M
I just have to say that's one of the coolest shirts I've ever seen and I love the lipstick
Teal had to call out the INAUTHENTIC after what happened and gracefully. 💀💕
Ouch! The Blake & Juliana jab 🙃 #pain
Matthew 6:24 is a good reminder that "No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other, you cannot serve both God and mammon." Know and stay sovereign and true to thyself while allowing others their 'you.' Thanks for inspiring Teal, very well said and beautifully presented! Could you please do one on staying sovereign within a group that although you agree with it's overall purpose, expects compliance without challenge, flips scripts to blameshift, doesn't listen to constructive criticism, fault finds and threatens to (and often does) exclude those who disagree? 🙏👁️💪💝🌱💝🌹🦋🤙
I didn't See Your doc or the doc "About" you but You once took a Comment I Make.... And did a Whole Video about it, like was it Personal... "It's Better than a Rat Cage For Me at the Moment"
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Nice top! I had this pattern until I found myself in a relationship with someone who "gave" me nothing...feedback, to go on and no kind of emotional support. I felt so unseen, that's when I began working on me and my boundaries.
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✚𝟭𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟰𝟬𝟵𝟬𝟳𝟬𝟴✔
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This describes Borderline personality disorder perfectly.
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thats definitely me. i've suffered from this for so long , that i've decided to isolate myself just so i can have me. and ive been doing that for over 10 years. i wanted to have an authentic relationship , i just didnt know how the hell am i gonna do that. and to add a criticism to this video , really the only criticism i got is that it left me wanting for an actual solution as to how to do that. since that is still missing.
as in , what do i do practically to change that pattern and stop it.. i dont think awareness is enough. maybe i need to bring this awareness to other parts of me but i am still missing the little details as to how to do that if its an unconscious part of me.
i love you, i needed to hear this so badly. thank you
As a diseased,isolated, traumatised, undeveloped, trapped,unemployed, disabled,impoverished,fatigued, distressed, bullied,troubled,unrewarded,compromised, failed, scared, late 20s female who is suffering this severely, I am asking desperately from a very bad place in life, how to end this pain without suicide?
☎ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ᴍs ᴋᴀᴛʜʀʏɴ ʟɪɴᴄᴋ ✚𝟭𝟮𝟬𝟵𝟯𝟱𝟯𝟮𝟱𝟬𝟳✓
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This is really timely and helpful for me!
Loving the shirt.
Thank you Teal, much love and respect to you 💜
I identify (in part) with this. If going to another country It's advisable to learn the culture/language of a place. Even domestically knowing the laws (culture) of a state is ideal "in Rome do as Romans do". I find myself engage with folks as such. But core principles over character. Everyone is unique. Which makes personal interaction unique right? Compartmentalized unique as the individual I Convo with or relationship/passions for the woman I'm with. Responding from the elements of my core principles in a fashion that could mirror, take lead, or puppy dog me with my spouse. Thought everyone to some degree was like this.
This is a really helpful video, I have enmeshment trauma and am starting to connect with people who don't trigger that feel of adjustment. I'm actually being myself and my partner loves my authenticity, which is a very cool but foreign feeling
Sending love to you Teal 💜✨
hello teal , it would be interesting to hear what you think about comforting self and others. I think that it is essential for maintaining social stability and emotional stability and mental stability.
Teal!!!! I have been waiting for a video/new teaching 🙏 I love you and I am grateful for you.
You reminded me of myself when I am trying to explain myself because I am being hated on….. I am sorry that you have been so hurt by people betraying you.
Take the high road and ignore those projecting jerks!!!
I did see your recent video on that hypocritical film crew wishing you happy birthday. What a bunch of phoney two faced lowly people.
Okay, ego rant over.
Remember your friends won’t need an explanation and your enemies won’t believe you…..and given I am an Early Childhood Educator I will quote Dr. Seuss
“Those that matter do not mind and those that mind to not matter. “
Sage your environment and clap their energy out of your house ….walk around your house counter clockwise and say Out, out you go!!!! Energy not serving me, OUT!!!!
Clap your hands and command it out!!!
Love the Dr Seuss quote, it got me thinking “matter” origin is “mater” (Latin) which is “Mother”…so
“Those that Mother, do not mind, those that mind do not Mother” ….
Fun play on words 🤷♂️✨….fit where appropriate
Edit: “Alma Mater” ring any bells? It means “nourishing mother”
@@randomelvis3359 hi, i am a left brain word fetishist myself!
Not sure I approve of using Blake ("Brody") as an example here. It seems vindictive to me. I get that you're hurt & angry, but this also seems like a petty move, putting him in here like this, even if it's true. I'd be pissed.
O vow! Thank you! this explains a lot. Much Love to you Teal 🙏❤️
hiii could u pls make a video on social anxiety and/or maladaptive daydreaming🙏🙏
Thank You Teal. ✨
Some of us are still really missing our dad and wanting to go back to him.
We had that...pretty extremely. Two rivers becoming one.
Some of us would still give up everything and do everything it takes to get back to that state.
Developed sense of self ---> work, skills, talents ---> service to humanity ---> money
This is the most fulfilling cycle and the best way to live life
Everything else just feel upside down and ineffective
Dear @Teal, Great video! I'm glad to see you're back to providing educational and helpful videos💗 while leaving behind the haters.
4:21 ".. the only access a person has to a sense of self is when they're ALONE!"
whoah that speaks the truth loudly! i'm a 12H person with chiron in 7H. i wonder why ive to feel pains in every human interaction i have, turned out it's because my NN is in Aries. I've to develop a sense of self. God designs me having chiron 7H for a reason. so i can have more time to be alone and finding myself again. Btw, i had bad codependency issue with BPD traits. there's a sense of emptiness within me and i had no strong sense of self. I've started my healing journey for quite some times now. And i'm grateful for whatever happened to me.
I was 10 when I first learned what a chameleon was, and I remember thinking 'that's what I am'! I had no sense of self in my childhood and teens, I would even unconsciously adopt the laugh of the person I was with. In high school I could only handle having one close friend at a time because otherwise it got to confusing. Now I don't do close friendships at all; I'd rather be alone than lose myself (which still happens with some close family members).
In relationships with men, as an adult, I attracted the opposite. Men would mold themselves in to who they thought I wanted them to be so I would be their partner. These relationships were relatively short once they inevitably revealed their real selves. When I discovered I was in a relationship with someone who didn't really exist, I'd end the relationship. Now I would rather be on my own until such time as I have sufficiently healed enough to attract a healthy relationship, because when a relationship pattern repeats the problem obviously lies in me.
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Teal I get it! You AWESOME! 💜
Excelente again Teal. Useful. The comedy. The comedy. The comedy.
This woman is dangerous. Research her before following this. She is known for lying
In case you need it Teal, we love you! 🥰🌈💜🔥🔥💜
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That’s just it! I know you’re not Teal! You’re an impersonator! Troll.
enlightening vid teal💙
Thank you. Thank you so much