Adrienne cmon your man took you to Paris & set up this lavish proposal & you think a dude writing something on a black board & putting the ring on the table was goon enough??? Please
I personally would have be enchanted with butterflies in my stomach, if I came home, there's a little black box on the center counter, there's a message that says, "Open this and come to the backyard," where he and a few of my loved ones (optional) were waiting for me to come outside, so he could ask me to marry him in person - a sincere surprise.
I came up with my previous comment, after I originally thought to myself, "maybe the ring was in the ring box; maybe he had to leave (for whatever reason, but wanted to make sure to ask her the big question maybe on a sentimental date); maybe he had the board decorated; maybe he was a little shy and was worried she'd say, No, and wanted to give her a little time to make a decision, but didn't realize how that setup could be negatively misconstrued; maybe in his mind, it really was a romantic surprise, simply because he thought that she wouldn't be expecting him to propose anytime, soon; maybe etc." and then I thought about it, again: without adding to what she saw, described, and thought (interpreted what she saw), then No, it was not an appreciate-able, acceptable, nor thought out proposal.
Tired of people telling women they’re ungrateful and they have unrealistic expectations. There are men out there who will do exactly what she wants so it’s not unrealistic at all to have personal standards
LadyChaos101 yeah bad enough people tell women how to look but now what standards to have!!! If I said I refuse to date a guy without a job, car, working phone and place of his own, a squad of people would be like what if blah happened. But let me say my bf has none of those, now I'm taking care of a losee
Agatha jay I don't think the expectations are necessarily massive. Massive to me expectations are if a guy wants a woman to look like something that is unrealistic. Like no one is exempt from aging therefore if their expectations are to always have somebody 20 years younger or to wake up with makeup on or anything I guess that's unrealistic but for a guy to have a ocelot car and a job that pays an hourly and stable income is more important not and high expectation actually I think that's known as adulting just to be stable
Agatha jay also remember lemon can get left with a child. People can say that a man can be charged child support but as with any system there is a loophole what are the guy moves out of the country changes his name kills himself gets an under-the-table job what have you that woman still has that baby so for us to look for a man that is financially stable above all things which is very changeable compared to looks seems a lot more reasonable
Agatha jay what are you talking about? Men openly judge women on whether they’re too fat, too thin, too dark, whether they’re a bitch, a hoe and so on. It’s been acceptable for men to do that for decades. Let’s not act as if men aren’t allowed to open their mouth just because women are speaking out against these stupid criticisms
Loni is right. They're already living together and have two kids so he probably felt like he didn't have to put in the effort since they're already living their life like a married couple
Goddessofthe Geminis Exactly. There's a lot of people like that.tl They feel like they don't have to put as much effort into you as they did then they were trying to get you to be with them. It's like once they have you they start doing the bare minimum
You have a point. She had children before he put a ring on it. I wonder how much effort he put on getting the cookie from her and her getting knocked up. I mean by now you should know your man. Did she really expect more??? They were already living an "unconventional" union. All of a sudden he's supposed to be prince charming? I bet you she married him anyway. Lol
I was fully prepared to be on the dude's side and say this chick was ungrateful but nah fam. If you put THAT little of effort now, just imagine in 5 years when ya'll aren't new anymore and he gets comfortable.
Snatched They are already living as a married couple, I'll say he is already comfortable. They are two children in, I do believe the newness has worn off.
She sounds like she is coming to herself, knows her worth, and tired of being taken for granted two kids later. It's not too late to have standards. Good for her!
Dswizzle90 I think the proposal was the tip of the iceberg... women should not be afraid to correct a man when they feel that their value is being compromised. Honor is very important in a marriage as I said it's never too late to have standards.
Dswizzle90 I agree too I will not have children out of wedlock either. But in the world of learning and unlearning I applaud her self awareness, when you know better you do better. Children or not we should not settle into a down spiraling union especially when our gut is screaming NO!
Devan Ford children are not a life sentence into an unhealthy union, and "too late" applies only to those in the cemetery. I am a big believer in growth. Be the best you at all cost.
Naw dawg. That’s not thoughtful at all. He didn’t have to go all out, but that wasn’t good at all. Don’t listen to those women girl. I agree with the woman.
Yea I feel like he wanted it to be lowkey. Like he put the ring on the kitchen table because that's where she would eventually walk in, see it, be surprised, and then he walks in (probably hiding) and maybe tells her how much they been through together, tell her how much he loves her and then asks her to marry him. I feel like they were quick to judge and not really assessed what this might have been. Idk, we'll never really know the guy's mindset.
Qetsia Puati Thank you. I am so sick and tired of people making women feel like we should just settle and take whatever. If you know what you want in a husband. DONT SETTLE just make sure you bring what you are asking for to the table. Not for nothing if she wanted more for the engagement... this life long relationship isn’t off to the best start lol.
Yes! People told me I was unrealistic and I am 12 years married at the age of 30 to a man who treats me like a damn princess. Its NOT ungrateful to have standards and I don't think any girl ever should compromise on it. Doesn't matter how early or late you find it, but dont compromise.
Milad Chow - The fact that you jumped to a conclusion about it being one way shows your negative mind. I'm not sure if I should answer you or not. I'm going to let you guess.
Yea no! If I give birth to 2 of your children out of my body. If I am your partner for 2 years. If I've supported you for even longer. Give me more than some damn letters and a ring on a counter! He didn't even try. I do not blame her. I'd be pissed too! She's got permanent body changes and he can't get creative for one dang day! 😒😔😂 Naw fam!
Milad Chow Where did abortion fit into this conversation? Stay on topic. Like I said she had two of his children which of course are hers...she made her sacrifice and he should show his appreciation. If you cant take 5 mins to ask a woman a very meaningful question then you dont deserve her.
I’m not sure how to feel. It seems she has been with this man for some time. They are living together and have two children. She already knows how romantic her man is or isn’t. If he’s never been romantic before I think it’s unreasonable to expect him to now. On the other hand, it does sound very lazy and throw together and engagements are very important to many women in this society. 🤷🏽♀️ Edit: I see many comments suggesting that people want women to have low standards, etc. Let me say this: If this woman wanted a romantic man, SHE SHOULD HAVE CHOSEN ONE! She dated, moved in with, and created two children with a man who is completely unromantic. That’s her own fault. That’s what she chose to accept. If she knew she was a woman that valued being romanced she should have made that a priority with this man BEFORE investing time, moving in, and popping out kids. If he refused to romance her in the way she wanted, she should have moved on to someone else.Women need to take responsibility for the men they choose to be with. Don’t be passive with your future.
StingingwithqueenC I agree and if you know the man isn't romantic and wouldn't be able to come close to your vision without help. You need to let him know it's okay to ask your friends for help.
The lack of effort might reflect how little he cares about getting married. That is how I might interpret it. Then again, he may think proposing is enough to show that he DOES care.
Ungrateful??????????? Unrealistic expectations???? People on the board were harsh toward this woman.....Why does society act as though women should swoon over anything a guy does, especially if it is a lackluster half-hearted or lazy effort......You always want to give people YOUR BEST EFFORT not just something hastily thrown together......This man didn't have to spend a ton of money.....I'm not a fan of that........but he could have found a more thoughtful way to propose than writing will you marry me on s blackboard and leaving her ring on the kitchen table......After all, this woman bore two children for him, he could have talked more about how she has positively impacted his life what he's learned through their journey etc....
Adrienne, I love you girl and I mostly agree with you more out of the whole table, but you stretching this one girl! If that was my proposal I would've bee PISSED
I hate how when Adrienne gives an opinion that not many people agree with she gets defensive and acts as if what she said was a fact. Like girl, if they don’t think it was romantic it wasn’t romantic! Your opinion is not a fact😂
Hard to judge the situation without knowing more about them. At first, I eyerolled at modern demands having to make everything so sensational. But then I thought if she's caught up being a mom in a busy house with kids and a boyfriend, then probably taking her out of that to somewhere relaxed and scenic could have helped them both experience the moment more meaningfully.
See, I agree with Adrienne. In my mind I'm thinking that maybe the blackboard had some kind of significance to their relationship (ex. Every morning when she gets up the first thing she does is go and write something on the board for the day,) in which case it would be a nice surprise for her. I think he should've included the kids as a sweet gesture but I don't think the woman should get too caught up in this
Her reason is unfair to her partner because she was dismissive of the proposal. Although, on the other hand waiting to only be disappointed is unfair to her as well. A proposal is meant to express a declaration of love, which means that if you aren't present whenever you propose then tone might be expressed incorrectly, so the message could've been read as sarcastic instead. Also, didn't Adrienne say before that her husband took her and her parents to their vacation in Paris? It's not fair to point out that she should've lowered the expectation of a lifetime since you can't take your own advice.
I personally would have be enchanted with butterflies in my stomach, if I came home, there's a little black box on the center counter, there's a message that says, "Open this and come to the backyard," where he and a few of my loved ones (optional) were waiting for me to come outside, so he could ask me to marry him in person - a sincere surprise. But what the lady described would be a "No" for me...
No, it wasn’t a proper proposal because he wasn’t even there to ask her. Was she supposed to say “yes” to the chalkboard?? What a waste of what could’ve been a great moment for her. She deserved better than that.
I want Loni, and Jeannie to have a reality show so bad. Sounds crazy but it would be entertainment gold. No it ain’t never gone happen, but is fun to think about. Anyway, all I can say is he was trying to do the right thing. *Also, what if the ring was a huge rock!??* He spent his time picking it out, getting a perfect size, and paying for it with hard earned money he had to work for with those kids. 🤷🏽♀️ Poor guy, hahaha
you have two kids with the man already, if you wanted a fairytale proposal you shouldn’t have popped those kids out before marriage 🤷🏻♀️ so what, she said “no I don’t want to marry you” but still lives with the man, going to lay with him, and continue her life in a common law marriage.
I would also be mad not because it was done in a basic way but because he didn't make an effort for his woman to feel he's sincere. It looks like the woman awe him something because he proposed to her.
Speaking from experience if you got a man who's going to have your back and loves you unconstitutionaly, It does not matter how he propose and how fancy the wedding is as long he is prepared to be your ride or die Boo .You dont tell your partner whom you claim to love and want to spend the rest of life with that you wont marry him because he was not romantic with the proposal. Now if he proposed because he was feeling pressured to which somtimes happens with couple who been together for awhile then she should not marry him at all no matter how extravagant the proposal is
He should know her well enough to know what she wanted, they’re clearly not ready to get married. I agree ANYTHING can be romantic with some planning. Couples need to talk about engagement and proposals BEFORE they get married. My husband knew exactly what I wanted and executed it perfectly AND made it his own so it was perfect for both. I would be upset if he left it on the table too but after TWO kids I would have already talked to him about my dream proposal. Clearly they lack communication.
I’m kinda tired of women living for men. Why is that supposed to be the biggest moment of your life? Ughhh. The biggest moment of your life is a man wanting to be with you? Lol please women. I don’t identify at all.
Mehzy Jav He didn't even put any effort into it tho. I'm not saying the chalk board idea was bad, but he wasn't even there to propose. Like he could have at least asked her himself rather than writing it down!
If you really loved him it wouldn’t matter how he asked you, all that would matter is that he actually asked YOU. gez. Some people man, not everything has to be a big show. Simplicity can be beautiful 💜
I get what Adrienne’s saying cause how did she reject it then. Like he went to work and left the ring on the table that said will you marry me? So she said no.
Being low-key is one thing, but this man basically just let her a note while on his way to work, like it was a shopping list. He couldn't even be bothered to be there. That's as apathetic as it gets.
Jeannie, "okay...but you're adding more to the story. Don't add to it Adrienne. We've got a black board and a kitchen table. Don't add to it. Just those two." 😂😂😂
No shade, but she should just be happy he asked after already having his children AND living with him. Many women in her position wish they would wake up to a ring left on the counter. All they get are dirty dishes. What is she going to do if he doesn't ask her again? Realistically, what's his incentive after being turned down once and already getting husband treatment anyway? Just my opinion.
I'm with Adrienne on this one. Maybe she was still feeling some type of way when she was describing the proposal and didn't fill everything in into the description accurately. Lolz.. exaggeration is like the super power for most women anyways.. especially when were passionate about something. Even I'm like that sometimes 💁 (mainly while arguing with my man...😕).
They had two children together before the proposal. What did she expect ? He got what he wanted for years and didn’t see any benefit in buying the cow.
No Adrienne..... Am a single guy, even I know that messed up. You don't ask your babies mama to marry you like that, what I would have done is have a booking at her favorite restaurant, get her to dress up for a night on the town, buy her some roses and at the end of the meal, get down on your knees and propose, obviously you get a nanny to look after the kids. He was just plain lazy and kinda of thoughtless if you ask me. He should have made her feel like a queen, but he didn't, so he failed😒😒😒
I think it also comes down to knowing who you are proposing to. One woman (ex.Adrienne) might love that proposal, but that other woman didn't....and I think it's more than it's"not creative enough", but it's understanding who your partner is & realizing what would be appropriate for them. I think that's why she might have also said no
That would have turned me all the way off. I would I cried so hard and left so fast. How disrespectful! You're not even THERE to ask me to marry you? Wow.
Wait..he wasn’t even there ? Damn 😂
It’s the least you could do man
Fanta Traoré im saying.. Im confused so he wasnt there? Lol
lateefa scott ni I think he wrote the message the board, and just left the ring for her to see it lol
haha
Fanta Traoré all bad
Adrienne cmon your man took you to Paris & set up this lavish proposal & you think a dude writing something on a black board & putting the ring on the table was goon enough??? Please
Henna Sahota that's what I was thinking 😂😂
Israel is wealthy af though, I think growing up she's more in tune with real life budgets. Her youtube videos reflect that too.
Hypocrite
Jenni Sagastume it’s the thought that counts ?
She got proposed to before too by here ex-fiance lenny which was real simple
Tamera looking like that snapchat filter
Iqra Qaali I WAS JUST THINKING THIS
Yeaaaaaaah sameeeee
Thats what i thought too😍
nimo abdulrazaq are u somali too?
SAME THING I SAID
LOLL! Loni’s face while Adrienne is talking about Pinterest proposals 😂
REAL TALK W. EMA STAR she’s been doing that ALOT latley to things Adrienne’s been saying lmao
I personally would have be enchanted with butterflies in my stomach, if I came home, there's a little black box on the center counter, there's a message that says, "Open this and come to the backyard," where he and a few of my loved ones (optional) were waiting for me to come outside, so he could ask me to marry him in person - a sincere surprise.
I came up with my previous comment, after I originally thought to myself, "maybe the ring was in the ring box; maybe he had to leave (for whatever reason, but wanted to make sure to ask her the big question maybe on a sentimental date); maybe he had the board decorated; maybe he was a little shy and was worried she'd say, No, and wanted to give her a little time to make a decision, but didn't realize how that setup could be negatively misconstrued; maybe in his mind, it really was a romantic surprise, simply because he thought that she wouldn't be expecting him to propose anytime, soon; maybe etc." and then I thought about it, again: without adding to what she saw, described, and thought (interpreted what she saw), then No, it was not an appreciate-able, acceptable, nor thought out proposal.
Did she roll her eyes? LOOOL
Juchille Jae yes she did lol!!
Tired of people telling women they’re ungrateful and they have unrealistic expectations. There are men out there who will do exactly what she wants so it’s not unrealistic at all to have personal standards
LadyChaos101 yeah bad enough people tell women how to look but now what standards to have!!! If I said I refuse to date a guy without a job, car, working phone and place of his own, a squad of people would be like what if blah happened. But let me say my bf has none of those, now I'm taking care of a losee
LadyChaos101 ABSOLUTELY
Agatha jay I don't think the expectations are necessarily massive. Massive to me expectations are if a guy wants a woman to look like something that is unrealistic. Like no one is exempt from aging therefore if their expectations are to always have somebody 20 years younger or to wake up with makeup on or anything I guess that's unrealistic but for a guy to have a ocelot car and a job that pays an hourly and stable income is more important not and high expectation actually I think that's known as adulting just to be stable
Agatha jay also remember lemon can get left with a child. People can say that a man can be charged child support but as with any system there is a loophole what are the guy moves out of the country changes his name kills himself gets an under-the-table job what have you that woman still has that baby so for us to look for a man that is financially stable above all things which is very changeable compared to looks seems a lot more reasonable
Agatha jay what are you talking about? Men openly judge women on whether they’re too fat, too thin, too dark, whether they’re a bitch, a hoe and so on. It’s been acceptable for men to do that for decades. Let’s not act as if men aren’t allowed to open their mouth just because women are speaking out against these stupid criticisms
Loni is right. They're already living together and have two kids so he probably felt like he didn't have to put in the effort since they're already living their life like a married couple
Goddessofthe Geminis Exactly. There's a lot of people like that.tl They feel like they don't have to put as much effort into you as they did then they were trying to get you to be with them. It's like once they have you they start doing the bare minimum
Esther Jean Exactly
Esther Jean I'm thinking the same thing
Call me old school but that's why you dont shack up before marriage
You have a point. She had children before he put a ring on it. I wonder how much effort he put on getting the cookie from her and her getting knocked up. I mean by now you should know your man. Did she really expect more??? They were already living an "unconventional" union. All of a sudden he's supposed to be prince charming? I bet you she married him anyway. Lol
I was fully prepared to be on the dude's side and say this chick was ungrateful but nah fam. If you put THAT little of effort now, just imagine in 5 years when ya'll aren't new anymore and he gets comfortable.
Snatched. Agreed
Same!
I think he already comfortable
Huhmm
I think this is why we are asked not to sleep with each other/ live together before marriage
Snatched. Exactly! She’s thinking of the bigger picture
Snatched They are already living as a married couple, I'll say he is already comfortable. They are two children in, I do believe the newness has worn off.
Adrienne stay beefing with the audience when they disagree lol
Shade House101 😂😂😂 that would be my level of pettiness 😂😂👏🏼👏🏼😂😂
Lmfao good thing I didn’t go I think I would have kept responding to her 😂😂
Shade House101 it’s so funny!
I looove when she interacts with the audience. She’s usually the only one that does that other than Jeannie sometimes. I appreciate that
She took that so personal lol
Sidetracked by Tam’s GORGEOUS LOCKS😍❤️🙌 looooooove the hair! Love the makeup , outfit, jewelry and that flower is the icing on the cake!
Tam looks super great like an Instagram spring filter: may God bless her!
Yeah, I had to replay the beginning a few times to hear what she said...lol
That's all I can look at
iloveu85 same😩
Omg yes!! That was my first reaction to this videoooo!!!
Jeannie said ‘don’t ADD to it’....lmao
Adrienne wouldn't settle for less in reality so she's fronting.
Faith Means Hope the first time she got proposed to was simple and she was happy
notice me senpai no she wasn't because they didn't get married. She settled for it. Because they had been together so long.
Her first engagement the guy gave her carrots in a box and she was happy 😂😂 luckily he was next to her with the actual ring
She sounds like she is coming to herself, knows her worth, and tired of being taken for granted two kids later. It's not too late to have standards. Good for her!
Dswizzle90 I think the proposal was the tip of the iceberg... women should not be afraid to correct a man when they feel that their value is being compromised. Honor is very important in a marriage as I said it's never too late to have standards.
Dswizzle90 I agree too I will not have children out of wedlock either. But in the world of learning and unlearning I applaud her self awareness, when you know better you do better. Children or not we should not settle into a down spiraling union especially when our gut is screaming NO!
Devan Ford children are not a life sentence into an unhealthy union, and "too late" applies only to those in the cemetery. I am a big believer in growth. Be the best you at all cost.
Devan Ford She demonstrated a lot of strength and maturity when she said no to him children and all. She will definitely make it in life.
Milad Chow He LEFT the ring on the kitchen table... obviously he didn't give her the attention/honor this moment calls for.
Naw dawg. That’s not thoughtful at all. He didn’t have to go all out, but that wasn’t good at all. Don’t listen to those women girl. I agree with the woman.
zero effort whatsoever
Lol he wasn't even there
M A 😂😂
Ivan Jimenez ummmm lol I don't think this situation is comparable to what you just said. Like at all.
Exactly like he couldve made a video collage like you do not need a whole budget to be creative & romantic
Tamera looking like that hawaiian snapchat filter 😍😍😍
Christy A she looks so beautiful
Adrienne.... LOL stop ✋
Neha Nandini exactly. I was about to say the same thing.
She’s a pickme
I think that maybe in his mind, it looked like how Adrienne was describing it, but in reality, it just didn't come off that way...
C'drick Henderson that a good thought
Yea I feel like he wanted it to be lowkey. Like he put the ring on the kitchen table because that's where she would eventually walk in, see it, be surprised, and then he walks in (probably hiding) and maybe tells her how much they been through together, tell her how much he loves her and then asks her to marry him. I feel like they were quick to judge and not really assessed what this might have been. Idk, we'll never really know the guy's mindset.
It’s sad that we bash women for having standards
I don’t call it „unrealistic expectations“ but real standards 💋 love you girls btw
Qetsia Puati RIGHT!!!
Qetsia Puati Thank you. I am so sick and tired of people making women feel like we should just settle and take whatever. If you know what you want in a husband. DONT SETTLE just make sure you bring what you are asking for to the table. Not for nothing if she wanted more for the engagement... this life long relationship isn’t off to the best start lol.
So true ! Every woman has a vision of her proposal.
Yes! People told me I was unrealistic and I am 12 years married at the age of 30 to a man who treats me like a damn princess. Its NOT ungrateful to have standards and I don't think any girl ever should compromise on it. Doesn't matter how early or late you find it, but dont compromise.
Milad Chow - The fact that you jumped to a conclusion about it being one way shows your negative mind. I'm not sure if I should answer you or not. I'm going to let you guess.
Why is Adrienne is always in her feelings. If the woman didn’t think it’s enough then it’s not enough
Yea no! If I give birth to 2 of your children out of my body. If I am your partner for 2 years. If I've supported you for even longer. Give me more than some damn letters and a ring on a counter! He didn't even try. I do not blame her. I'd be pissed too! She's got permanent body changes and he can't get creative for one dang day! 😒😔😂 Naw fam!
He was sure she was going to say yes. Awful way to propose.
He's not romantic and he doesn't care about that. Clearly.
Milad Chow Where did abortion fit into this conversation? Stay on topic. Like I said she had two of his children which of course are hers...she made her sacrifice and he should show his appreciation. If you cant take 5 mins to ask a woman a very meaningful question then you dont deserve her.
just skip to proposal and arrange the marriage...this whole " the greatest day of my live bs...."
Hahaha loni is so right! The dude wasn't even there for the proposal lol.
I’m not sure how to feel. It seems she has been with this man for some time. They are living together and have two children. She already knows how romantic her man is or isn’t. If he’s never been romantic before I think it’s unreasonable to expect him to now. On the other hand, it does sound very lazy and throw together and engagements are very important to many women in this society. 🤷🏽♀️
Edit: I see many comments suggesting that people want women to have low standards, etc. Let me say this: If this woman wanted a romantic man, SHE SHOULD HAVE CHOSEN ONE! She dated, moved in with, and created two children with a man who is completely unromantic. That’s her own fault. That’s what she chose to accept. If she knew she was a woman that valued being romanced she should have made that a priority with this man BEFORE investing time, moving in, and popping out kids. If he refused to romance her in the way she wanted, she should have moved on to someone else.Women need to take responsibility for the men they choose to be with. Don’t be passive with your future.
StingingwithqueenC I agree and if you know the man isn't romantic and wouldn't be able to come close to your vision without help. You need to let him know it's okay to ask your friends for help.
The lack of effort might reflect how little he cares about getting married. That is how I might interpret it. Then again, he may think proposing is enough to show that he DOES care.
Amaechi Jones i agree with y1iur fiest semtence.
Ungrateful??????????? Unrealistic expectations???? People on the board were harsh toward this woman.....Why does society act as though women should swoon over anything a guy does, especially if it is a lackluster half-hearted or lazy effort......You always want to give people YOUR BEST EFFORT not just something hastily thrown together......This man didn't have to spend a ton of money.....I'm not a fan of that........but he could have found a more thoughtful way to propose than writing will you marry me on s blackboard and leaving her ring on the kitchen table......After all, this woman bore two children for him, he could have talked more about how she has positively impacted his life what he's learned through their journey etc....
t she has two babies with this man.. if that's the case. We should be examining her standards. Ridiculous
*i love adrienne, but she's stretching all the way to jupiter* lmao
cameron Alexander she's stretching to heaven
I agree with Jeannie and Tamera, I would want the ring in his hand.
Adrienne was doing to the most trying to make this work LOL
Girl it ain't cute!
Adrienne literally just added her own details to the story smh
She always tries to give people the benefit of the doubt 😂 i do the same.
Adrienne, I love you girl and I mostly agree with you more out of the whole table, but you stretching this one girl! If that was my proposal I would've bee PISSED
Adrienne stay giving irrelevant opinions
She’s so loud and basic
Lol I think she was on topic actually. Her opinion just wasn't popular and very much fanciful.
i mean it is her show.. who are you ?
She's a host on a talk show.... if she didn't speak up you all would complain. Atleast she's sticking to her unpopular opinion
A Harris very bored. lmao
I hate how when Adrienne gives an opinion that not many people agree with she gets defensive and acts as if what she said was a fact. Like girl, if they don’t think it was romantic it wasn’t romantic! Your opinion is not a fact😂
Hard to judge the situation without knowing more about them.
At first, I eyerolled at modern demands having to make everything so sensational. But then I thought if she's caught up being a mom in a busy house with kids and a boyfriend, then probably taking her out of that to somewhere relaxed and scenic could have helped them both experience the moment more meaningfully.
Adrienne you’re changing the entire story to agree with it lol like always..
It was a trash proposal 😂
Tamera's hair is "BEAUTIFUL"!!!!!!
That proposal was thoughtless. Good for her for saying no.
Tamera sure checked Adrienne at 1:43. Adrienne was shook lol
Adrienne 😒 I get it. It could be romantic but it wasn’t. It was on a chalk board with the ring just sitting there.
See, I agree with Adrienne. In my mind I'm thinking that maybe the blackboard had some kind of significance to their relationship (ex. Every morning when she gets up the first thing she does is go and write something on the board for the day,) in which case it would be a nice surprise for her. I think he should've included the kids as a sweet gesture but I don't think the woman should get too caught up in this
I love how Adrienne is giving the opposing opinion.
Hahaha Loni "we not in school what are you doin? this ain't the prom!" 😂😂
Jeanie said “oh so you adding to the story” 😭
1:18 (loni) me cus adri been talking A LOT lately 😭 taking up the whole damn segment..
Tamera giving vacation vibes
Tam looks stunning 🙌🏽💕
Her reason is unfair to her partner because she was dismissive of the proposal. Although, on the other hand waiting to only be disappointed is unfair to her as well. A proposal is meant to express a declaration of love, which means that if you aren't present whenever you propose then tone might be expressed incorrectly, so the message could've been read as sarcastic instead. Also, didn't Adrienne say before that her husband took her and her parents to their vacation in Paris? It's not fair to point out that she should've lowered the expectation of a lifetime since you can't take your own advice.
Tamera looking like the Snapchat filter lol cute
I love Tamera’s hair
There’s no excuse lmaooo it’s too many creative ideas out there to be mediocre for a proposal ..... I would’ve been pissed
Why is Adrienne mad at the audience?? 😂😂😂
I personally would have be enchanted with butterflies in my stomach, if I came home, there's a little black box on the center counter, there's a message that says, "Open this and come to the backyard," where he and a few of my loved ones (optional) were waiting for me to come outside, so he could ask me to marry him in person - a sincere surprise. But what the lady described would be a "No" for me...
No, it wasn’t a proper proposal because he wasn’t even there to ask her. Was she supposed to say “yes” to the chalkboard?? What a waste of what could’ve been a great moment for her. She deserved better than that.
I want Loni, and Jeannie to have a reality show so bad. Sounds crazy but it would be entertainment gold. No it ain’t never gone happen, but is fun to think about. Anyway, all I can say is he was trying to do the right thing. *Also, what if the ring was a huge rock!??* He spent his time picking it out, getting a perfect size, and paying for it with hard earned money he had to work for with those kids. 🤷🏽♀️ Poor guy, hahaha
Sydney & Wolf Speak yeah they’re the two most entertaining 🙌🏾💯
Adrienne, just be quiet Thank you 😊
Maïsha like everyday be quiet
No I like her. She’s so cute
“what are you doing, this ain’t prom” -loni
I TOTALLY AGREE!
you have two kids with the man already, if you wanted a fairytale proposal you shouldn’t have popped those kids out before marriage 🤷🏻♀️ so what, she said “no I don’t want to marry you” but still lives with the man, going to lay with him, and continue her life in a common law marriage.
I would also be mad not because it was done in a basic way but because he didn't make an effort for his woman to feel he's sincere. It looks like the woman awe him something because he proposed to her.
Tamara's flower in her hair is giving me life, real life snapchat filter
Love Adrienne but girl be quiet! You will not be happy if your husband proposed that way...
Some people wait 10 years to get married. She should be grateful he was "thoughtful" enough to want to spend the rest of his life with her. 😕
He could've invited her family and the kids and have them involved.
Speaking from experience if you got a man who's going to have your back and loves you unconstitutionaly, It does not matter how he propose and how fancy the wedding is as long he is prepared to be your ride or die Boo .You dont tell your partner whom you claim to love and want to spend the rest of life with that you wont marry him because he was not romantic with the proposal. Now if he proposed because he was feeling pressured to which somtimes happens with couple who been together for awhile then she should not marry him at all no matter how extravagant the proposal is
Tamera looms adorable omg
Ughh Adrienne 🙄 please
2:45 Jeannie's response/input😂😂😂
If she wants a big proposal then why shouldn't she propose 😭😭😂😂😂
Adrienne you losing on this one ....adding on to the story😂😂😂😂
He should know her well enough to know what she wanted, they’re clearly not ready to get married. I agree ANYTHING can be romantic with some planning. Couples need to talk about engagement and proposals BEFORE they get married. My husband knew exactly what I wanted and executed it perfectly AND made it his own so it was perfect for both. I would be upset if he left it on the table too but after TWO kids I would have already talked to him about my dream proposal. Clearly they lack communication.
I don't know.. but I actually agree with Adrienne❤️ Maybe she could have told him after she said yes.. now the guy will never ask her again..
Adrianne knows damn well she wouldn't of accepted
I’m kinda tired of women living for men. Why is that supposed to be the biggest moment of your life? Ughhh. The biggest moment of your life is a man wanting to be with you? Lol please women. I don’t identify at all.
I’m actually with Adrienne on this one!
Adrienne’s reaching 😂😂
Those October Scorpios are so full of it. Adrienne, why you lying? 😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Adrienne needs to STAAAAP. Her opinion is so irrelevant because it’s not what the guy did. She’s trying to add more to the story.
Ladies one at a time , please. I dont know who to listen to at a point in this chat. LOL
Jeannie alllllways wants to interrupt. It’s hilarious
Not everyone’s the romantic type you know...
Mehzy Jav He didn't even put any effort into it tho. I'm not saying the chalk board idea was bad, but he wasn't even there to propose. Like he could have at least asked her himself rather than writing it down!
He dodged a bullet 👏👏👏
If you really loved him it wouldn’t matter how he asked you, all that would matter is that he actually asked YOU. gez. Some people man, not everything has to be a big show. Simplicity can be beautiful 💜
I get what Adrienne’s saying cause how did she reject it then. Like he went to work and left the ring on the table that said will you marry me? So she said no.
It sounds like the man felt pressured to propose and just bought a ring to shut her up. He's not into the idea of marrying her at all.
Being low-key is one thing, but this man basically just let her a note while on his way to work, like it was a shopping list. He couldn't even be bothered to be there. That's as apathetic as it gets.
Jeannie, "okay...but you're adding more to the story. Don't add to it Adrienne. We've got a black board and a kitchen table. Don't add to it. Just those two." 😂😂😂
No shade, but she should just be happy he asked after already having his children AND living with him. Many women in her position wish they would wake up to a ring left on the counter. All they get are dirty dishes. What is she going to do if he doesn't ask her again? Realistically, what's his incentive after being turned down once and already getting husband treatment anyway? Just my opinion.
Adrienne if he did what you are saying, She wouldn't have said NO.
Tamara looks like the Snapchat filter 😍😍 Beautiful 😍😍
I'm with Adrienne on this one. Maybe she was still feeling some type of way when she was describing the proposal and didn't fill everything in into the description accurately.
Lolz.. exaggeration is like the super power for most women anyways.. especially when were passionate about something.
Even I'm like that sometimes 💁 (mainly while arguing with my man...😕).
Tamera’s hair and makeup... she came to SLAAAAAAAYYYYY
Tamera’s ENTIRE LOOK is FIRE 😍
Ade as Jeannie said "stop adding to the story" --- making up a whoollleee story that didn't happen 😂
Ahahahaha I am living for Loni's face throughout all this 😂
They had two children together before the proposal. What did she expect ?
He got what he wanted for years and didn’t see any benefit in buying the cow.
tammmeerraa my gawd looks amazing
No Adrienne..... Am a single guy, even I know that messed up. You don't ask your babies mama to marry you like that, what I would have done is have a booking at her favorite restaurant, get her to dress up for a night on the town, buy her some roses and at the end of the meal, get down on your knees and propose, obviously you get a nanny to look after the kids. He was just plain lazy and kinda of thoughtless if you ask me. He should have made her feel like a queen, but he didn't, so he failed😒😒😒
Tamera's got the boom booms out lol... She looks great!
I think it also comes down to knowing who you are proposing to. One woman (ex.Adrienne) might love that proposal, but that other woman didn't....and I think it's more than it's"not creative enough", but it's understanding who your partner is & realizing what would be appropriate for them. I think that's why she might have also said no
Jeannie putting Loni's ring back on! So sweet.
He👏🏾 could👏🏾 have👏🏾 just👏🏾 BEEN👏🏾 THERE👏🏾
Adrienne's standards....LMBO!
She stay caping for the trash actions of men. Geesh!
That would have turned me all the way off. I would I cried so hard and left so fast. How disrespectful! You're not even THERE to ask me to marry you? Wow.
Tameeerrrra looks like the Snapchat filter 😍😍😍🌸
I’m yelling NO NO NO ,to Adrienne, to the screen
Tam, baby, if that is your natural hair PLEEEAAAASSSEEEE let it out more often 😍 its so beautiful ❤❤❤