One Simple Tactic to Get Her Chasing YOU

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  • Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
  • systembytodd.com
    If you're going to get to an advanced level in game, you NEED to learn how to flip the script and get girls chasing you. In fact, on a technical level, this is probably the single biggest difference between intermediate and advanced guys in game.
    By the way, these clips are from Immersion program classroom sessions: toddimmersion.com

Комментарии • 455

  • @JavierCespedes90
    @JavierCespedes90 3 года назад +379

    Just ask her something like "What do you think is the best trait of your personality?", and she will start selling herself to you. That is a common questoin I use to qualify them and it works well.

    • @Goutamanram
      @Goutamanram 3 года назад +8

      this is golden

    • @JavierCespedes90
      @JavierCespedes90 2 года назад +5

      @@crimsonreactor1527 She is not interested in you my friend, or she seems pretty boring. Just move on to the next girl.

    • @patrusso7278
      @patrusso7278 2 года назад +1

      You just leave! She's telling you the truth!

    • @ViktorZethelius
      @ViktorZethelius 4 месяца назад +1

      Or maybe they reply: nothing, byee. Or: so what? Or: I'm not telling you.
      How d'you face that?

    • @JavierCespedes90
      @JavierCespedes90 4 месяца назад +2

      @@ViktorZethelius Mmm, if a girl responds with that, she is clearly not interested at all, you let it go.

  • @janjansen7983
    @janjansen7983 5 лет назад +1378

    ''Game is not a situation where you win by making the fewest mistakes. Game is a situation where you win by doing the most things right, you doing them so right your mistakes don't matter.''
    This is hella deep and underrated.

  • @metnoc10
    @metnoc10 5 лет назад +308

    This guy is doing humanity a service.

  • @AMusician11
    @AMusician11 4 года назад +215

    Basically what he said:
    -Seeking Validation from the girl is a NO NO

    • @ebeb6924
      @ebeb6924 4 года назад +1

      And yet, here you are, so desperate that you'll listen to ToddV, the kid who probably ate dirt as a child.

    • @hideyoshiq7813
      @hideyoshiq7813 4 года назад +2

      Pick Up Artists are Rapists JAIL TIME, BRO! 🧂

    • @k.i.d8442
      @k.i.d8442 4 года назад +22

      @@ebeb6924 Absolutely nothing you said made sense in that reply.

    • @ashleybanks-wm4cg
      @ashleybanks-wm4cg 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@hideyoshiq7813 your life is a joke if you believe that 😂😂😂😂dont be mad they took your gurl

    • @hideyoshiq7813
      @hideyoshiq7813 6 месяцев назад

      @@ashleybanks-wm4cg My life was four years ago, I won't lie... I don't associate with women who are so easily 'picked up' by other men. My opinion was that back then, nowadays I can see both sides of the coin and the outer picture. I respect these men for doing what they do, as most men are willing to have the drive and balls to approach in the manner 'PU artists' do. But when you look at them from an ulterior perspective, their degenerate.
      How does a life chasing and making women wan't you fulfill a deeper meaning to life? Its a constant want and more for a vice that ultimately cant be satiated.

  • @enlightenedtrucker739
    @enlightenedtrucker739 5 лет назад +401

    Drive away slowly in your Bugatti Veyron.

  • @Twisted_utopia
    @Twisted_utopia 5 лет назад +535

    You win the game when you stop playing.

    • @bahaatamer1245
      @bahaatamer1245 5 лет назад +62

      This actually makes sense when you think of it: you meet a girl, show interest and the moment you realize that shes trying to classify you as a beta/someone she finds unworthy of dating, skip to the next one! - somehow those girls will sense it when you actually find someone, and so the reverse chase begins!

    • @bahaatamer1245
      @bahaatamer1245 5 лет назад +2

      @Epoch plus5 call it as you wish to please, that's just the reality of how things work!

    • @robertdalton1582
      @robertdalton1582 5 лет назад

      @Epoch plus5 actually that's what you get by playing games with little girls. They're not gonna put out, because they're playing games

    • @eduardoclari_
      @eduardoclari_ 4 года назад +6

      Explore17 that happened to me not so long ago... everything was good and we even made plans for a date then I got ghosted out of nowhere.. I was like fuck that whatever.. so I just looked elsewhere. After she realized i wasnt going to chase she started chasing me .-.

    • @celasss
      @celasss 4 года назад +1

      Wargames.

  • @anitelufalemei4200
    @anitelufalemei4200 5 лет назад +127

    Lmao this guys talking about women like it’s a subject to study. I love it.

    • @Rsonny
      @Rsonny 5 лет назад +34

      'Subjectifying' women lmao

    • @Hshjshshjsj72727
      @Hshjshshjsj72727 3 года назад +1

      There's a thing called psychology and gender studies 🤦🏻‍♂️

    • @englishexperts1974
      @englishexperts1974 3 года назад

      @@Hshjshshjsj72727 no need to.. women should study us

    • @msredcurtains
      @msredcurtains 4 месяца назад +1

      @@englishexperts1974yes us women are watching these videos too and studying how men think these days. To help us steer away from men who subscribe to games to get a woman. Don’t you worry, we’re watching, studying you men and sharing this knowledge with other women as well.

  • @Apollyon.King.of.the.Locusts
    @Apollyon.King.of.the.Locusts 5 лет назад +41

    Never change yourself for a woman. First mistake, last mistake.

    • @loveispatientloveiskind2205
      @loveispatientloveiskind2205 2 года назад +1

      But yes, be your best self. If you have addiction issues. Don't put them on her, or aggression... walk off and let her feel secure and protected by you... don't compete too much with her. When you phone & text more, she'll be so relieved to see you are better at communicating than the men, that think they're clever by being too boring and silent. Mystery isn't everything, caring consideration is worth more. Compatibility is gold though

  • @wavedave1035
    @wavedave1035 5 лет назад +149

    Girl: I like rock music
    Guy: Oh, I like rock music too
    Todd: Congratulations, you just qualified yourself

    • @abhiraj5646
      @abhiraj5646 5 лет назад +6

      "oh so I'm not the only one who likes rock music"

    • @jackerylel
      @jackerylel 5 лет назад +12

      @@abhiraj5646 who actually talks like this lmao

    • @omnipotentgaming166
      @omnipotentgaming166 3 года назад +8

      A good way to flip a girls qualifier such as this one would be to Deny it and say something like “ no you aren’t you’re probably into nickelback or some boy band that call themselves rock” and then she’s now has to qualify herself to prove she actually likes “good bands” which again her answer doesn’t really matter, what matters is getting her to qualify. Good luck fellas

    • @tutorialheller5800
      @tutorialheller5800 Год назад

      if you're not a fan of these you could say: "I like it, but I'm not a fan... do you?"

  • @IAlexandreI
    @IAlexandreI 5 лет назад +41

    Make her qualify.
    Soft qualifiers, statements like : "You know there's something about sportive women / adventurous people..."

  • @oberynmartell8154
    @oberynmartell8154 5 лет назад +149

    4:04 bro starts rapping

  • @fusioninc.8187
    @fusioninc.8187 4 года назад +29

    A friend once told me that if a girl tells me she likes rock music I should pretend it's my favorite music ever etc to build attraction
    So I thought it's true until now, thanks for clearing that up for me!

  • @CommandoMaster
    @CommandoMaster 5 лет назад +81

    Whoever qualifies themselves to the other person is the one of lower social value.

    • @chicagoboy279
      @chicagoboy279 4 года назад +1

      What does he mean with qualify

    • @k.i.d8442
      @k.i.d8442 4 года назад +9

      @@chicagoboy279 trying to make the person like you

    • @ruburtoe1
      @ruburtoe1 4 года назад +1

      @@chicagoboy279 to demonstrate/testify-to/show their personal value/worthiness

    • @msredcurtains
      @msredcurtains 4 месяца назад

      Yeah instead of qualifying ourselves to others, we should disqualify ourselves to others 😂

  • @troytempleton736
    @troytempleton736 4 года назад +22

    This stuff Todd says is mad, I think about my own experiences of texting girls and believe I'm just 'friends' with them. I realise now that there are so many subtle signs that they reveal their hand with that I completely overlooked

  • @adamskyy8103
    @adamskyy8103 Год назад +18

    Damn what a game changer Todd V is. A year ago I was getting flaked on left and right, had no awareness of frame or blueprint. One year later later girls are inviting me back to their place on the first date.
    If you actually put in the work and don’t bullshit yourself, this will work.
    No one else has made game easier. We’re lucky to have this guy.

    • @christianmoreno7390
      @christianmoreno7390 11 месяцев назад +1

      Did you sign up for one of his courses? Or just watch his free stuff?

    • @ashleybanks-wm4cg
      @ashleybanks-wm4cg 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@christianmoreno7390someone actually going outside and applying his teachings doesn't have to pay for anything

  • @kompanjonac
    @kompanjonac 5 лет назад +52

    Basicaly its all nuclear physics

    • @mylegguy8115
      @mylegguy8115 5 лет назад +3

      david basically

    • @ghostridersinthesky21
      @ghostridersinthesky21 4 года назад +12

      Nah I think nuclear physics would be easier to understand than women.

    • @yokiweyy4770
      @yokiweyy4770 3 года назад +1

      @@ghostridersinthesky21 exactly. at least you know that nuclear physics work in a certain way, not in a totally random and unpredictable way that drives you nuts

  • @meetmenowasia
    @meetmenowasia Год назад +1

    Your insights into qualifying and creating genuine connections are invaluable. Love how you break it down step by step

  • @John-qh9se
    @John-qh9se 3 года назад +21

    I look at very closely to Todd’s reaction while he explains game. And every single time I get a deep feeling that this guy really knows what he is talking about! RESPECT

  • @jzk2020
    @jzk2020 4 года назад +20

    The best way to have women chasing you is by developing yourself as a man and being a status symbol. Looks, social status, money and intelligence. Be the best possible version of yourself, have lots of friends (female and male) - a leader of people... and have your shit together.

    • @ritaaleksandrovna4518
      @ritaaleksandrovna4518 3 года назад +3

      Word. I love high status men with their finances in order but I still won’t be cashing them. Men love to chase so I allow them to do that instead. It comes natural to men who are in their masculine energy.

    • @shueibdahir
      @shueibdahir 3 года назад

      @@ritaaleksandrovna4518 Which do you think matters more? Competence or Confidence?

    • @loveispatientloveiskind2205
      @loveispatientloveiskind2205 2 года назад +2

      Not all women want you to be like that! Some are glad to have you all to themselves....knowing that she is more important to you than all the rest of it... but planning adventures together or just snuggling up and cuddling is her dream

    • @Memesifoundonfacebook
      @Memesifoundonfacebook Год назад

      This is useless if you dont have game, this Alone can attract women but this alone wont work in keeping her attracted to you and maintaining her interest in you, u need to have a least decent game

    • @woudanborson2778
      @woudanborson2778 Год назад

      how to have more friends

  • @danh821
    @danh821 5 лет назад +17

    Question: How do I qualify women in a way that feels less button pushy and more natural? I usually get done with the premise phase and think "now its time to qualify" but it almost always feels forced.

  • @hippofly7313
    @hippofly7313 5 лет назад +11

    Explain game for college . Girls are in different mindset and in moods in college rather in club .
    Quite hard game because It's not easy to convince them as they Don't reply to us conveniently
    Because everyone in college and their frds would be looking at her.. so she hesitates to reply!! Any Advice and solution...
    love you man! 🙈❤❤

  • @AskToddV
    @AskToddV  5 лет назад +5

    Qualifying a girl properly, and not qualifying yourself (the evaluation stage of game based on the "System" model of game systembytodd.com) is probably the biggest difference between intermediate and advanced guys. So if you ever aspire to be anything beyond beginner/intermediate level in game, you should learn it. Clips in this video are from Immersion programs by the way toddimmersion.com

  • @filipbelciug
    @filipbelciug Год назад

    used Todd's disqualification technique at work and in under a week I got a girl with boyfriend (abroad) to come to my place. Literally minutes till she arrives home.. wish me luck guys. Haven't got some in 5 years

  • @Night-Sight
    @Night-Sight 5 лет назад +28

    "You qualified yourself"

  • @diarmuidbrady8987
    @diarmuidbrady8987 5 лет назад +17

    The way he said “well i liked volleyball” was so funny😂

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 5 лет назад +37

    *Push-pull*
    Communicate covertly and let her fantasies to make up stories in her head, engaging her emotions even more.

    • @bobbycole5159
      @bobbycole5159 5 лет назад +10

      Push-pull
      Hit the gym and so some pushups and pull ups💪😫👍

  • @michah321
    @michah321 4 года назад +4

    But it's fair and respectful to look for an indication that she actually likes you before preceding in getting to know a woman.

  • @MikeHydesOfficial
    @MikeHydesOfficial 5 лет назад +93

    Once in a relationship what are the things to stop doing from when you first started “pick up” with her. For example, do you still do push pull?

    • @voltage3692
      @voltage3692 5 лет назад +7

      +1

    • @1lemniscaat
      @1lemniscaat 5 лет назад +4

      Buy Girlfriend Game from Rsd Max

    • @EatYourVegs
      @EatYourVegs 5 лет назад +35

      Can't you just be yourself once she's your girlfriend? Like why would you want to be in a relationship in which you can't just be yourself. Girls love your vunerabilites as well. It's just that first interactions confuse us about that. Game is relevant when you create a relationship with strangers mostly. Then it's not.

    • @ao9297
      @ao9297 5 лет назад +12

      Yes. Once in a relationship, you need game is more critical; it cannot be 'put down'. Men have a different standard than women.

    • @ao9297
      @ao9297 5 лет назад +34

      @@EatYourVegs No. This is the type of blue-pill advice that gets turns you into a basement dwelling serial murderer.

  • @obtsfan
    @obtsfan 5 лет назад +13

    Awesome video, thanks a lot for the amazing content.
    I have a question: I’ll be traveling with a group of guy friends to another city soon. We’ll be clubbing each night. How do I use Tinder to meet girls that would want to bring their girlfriends out to join us? So far I’ve gotten girls interested in meeting with me for a weekend, but as soon as I mention that I’ll be clubbing with my friends and that the girl can bring her girlfriends, they disappear. Is there a way to word this correctly?

    • @shueibdahir
      @shueibdahir 3 года назад

      Basically you gave the impression that you think they're sluts and that they're easy. They knew exactly what you were actually up to and they were not interested. If i was a girl i'd feel used.

    • @obtsfan
      @obtsfan 3 года назад

      @@shueibdahir I am aware of all of that. You didn't really answer my question though, which was whether or not there was a good way to word that to these girls. If you're saying that there is absolutely no good way to word that, then I guess that's a valid answer too. Either way, it doesn't pertain to me anymore because I've been in a serious relationship for about a year. But thanks for the input.

  • @omnipotentgaming166
    @omnipotentgaming166 3 года назад +5

    This is so good, this is one of the most powerful techniques in game.

  • @TL-er5zr
    @TL-er5zr 5 лет назад +7

    I hope my question will soon be answered on your channel Todd. If women are intimidated by your value, does game then change? More to the point, it seems like it would open more opportunity for error and looking too try-hard if attempting to execute all the steps. How is this calibration adjusted to know how to adjust?

    • @maximiliankinzett2636
      @maximiliankinzett2636 5 лет назад

      It's simple, relax your game around her to begin with, let her feel relaxed that you're not trying to pick her up. Show her in your relaxed body language and speech that you are just another human being having a conversation with her. As she starts to relax then you can start flirting with her slowly bringing it to the boil.

  • @FlowsMedia
    @FlowsMedia 5 лет назад +5

    I was hanging with my friend and her friend. Her friend was trynnna talk to me a few times through out the night and I had went out for a smoke and ended chopping it up w this dude for a bit. when I came back she said she was worried about me, I didn’t think much of at first but later I was like hm let me follow her and she completely ignored it lol

  • @dr.feelgood.m
    @dr.feelgood.m 5 лет назад +7

    3:00 - What's your name ? I don't give my name to strangers...
    - When you think about it, we were ALL strangers at some point, your best friend, your parents, cousins, NOBODY is born with friends. xD
    Deez bitchiz bin trippin hard.

  • @Muathalshareef2
    @Muathalshareef2 5 лет назад +9

    Please can anyone explain to me what he mean about “qualify” ?
    I can’t understand how to qualify girls and why qualify is very important?

    • @akaaformentioned2yearoldfi910
      @akaaformentioned2yearoldfi910 5 лет назад +20

      "Qualify her" meaning to set a specific condition ("I like girls who"). If she relates, agree or react positively ("Yes, I agree" , "Yes, I'm that kind of person" "Yes, I totally have that mind set) to what conditions you've laid out she has agreed to that mindset, she has qualified to your conditions. That's a small investment she's made to you--she's a bit closer, a bit open to you. Women like man who knows who he is and what he wants. If you're bold enough to say what you want its a plus. If she "qualifies" herself and fits that mold, its a major plus.

    • @PeNGuiNZoMbiEUYA
      @PeNGuiNZoMbiEUYA 2 года назад

      To qualify her means you’re looking for something about her deep within before you have sex with her. Ya know cause you’re a high value man with standards and no time to waste.

  • @mikereilly9701
    @mikereilly9701 4 года назад +13

    Why is needyness unattractive? We all feel that way sometimes.

  • @AngeloortizOG
    @AngeloortizOG 5 лет назад +23

    Studying game almost 2 decades now?! Dude you look 28. props!

    • @jonathanharoun5247
      @jonathanharoun5247 5 лет назад +17

      He started when he was 8.

    • @regerbryan
      @regerbryan 4 года назад +6

      You do know he’s the youngest ever dating coach right? He was huge when he was 8 as a prodigy

    • @jasonvoorhies6431
      @jasonvoorhies6431 3 года назад +3

      Everyone in his class was drinking milk from cartons, he was drinking it straight from the teacher’s breast 😂

  • @mwirthr17
    @mwirthr17 5 лет назад +26

    I just want to thank you Todd for so much good advice

    • @carlosbravo2971
      @carlosbravo2971 5 лет назад +2

      mwirthr17 this guy got me laid like crazy and got me a girlfriend as well

  • @michah321
    @michah321 4 года назад +4

    I will never, ever, ever, ever chase a guy. I'd rather be single forever. It seems so wimpy, men who want women to chase them. It seems weak and helpless to me. A man who needs ME to chase him. Like a little boy who needs to be cared for.

    • @GAMS759
      @GAMS759 Год назад

      All these emotional blackmails don't work anymore Karen. It's 2023, women are more masculine and more entitled than ever😂 ofc the shadow side is game has become more scientific and boys are just adapting. Don't blame the player, blame the game.

    • @michah321
      @michah321 Год назад

      @@GAMS759 women ( and men) don't need to be in a relationship. So if a person doesn't find the right one it's better to be alone. It's not a game, that's just life.

  • @grs5597
    @grs5597 4 года назад +1

    Man! You are good! No, wrong. You are the best!

  • @lotfimouelhi269
    @lotfimouelhi269 5 лет назад +2

    I rather learn how to get rid off her,,to let her qualify to leave quietly !!!!!!

  • @shammarishammari8214
    @shammarishammari8214 4 года назад +1

    What I want to know is how to do the opposite. If you get into a relationship with a girl you THOUGHT you screened but after a couple of months into an actual relationship you see another side of her and want to get out, but she seems scarily stalkerish and you don't want her to mess up your life, how do you get HER to want to leave YOU alone?

    • @simosavustaja9420
      @simosavustaja9420 3 года назад +2

      i love you, i wanna be with you every second of my life, im afraid you leave me, i cry every day when i dont see you, don't you love me? lets get married.
      i feel strange even typing that.

  • @alexcruzship3683
    @alexcruzship3683 5 лет назад +9

    What’s the steps you need to go from Evaluation to Narrative and what do you need the girl to do to know I test to transition to Narrative.

    • @dax2480
      @dax2480 5 лет назад

      Narrative is present from the moment you open her. Think of narrative as the overall story of you and her in her mind.

    • @Georgious
      @Georgious 5 лет назад

      Kahlius Maximus is right Narritive happens from the first moment, perhaps we can think of narritive as a fase when you can safely bring it up.
      You know when todd infield says things to girls like; "like yeah, you just met this great guy at starbucks, and then he took you on a date and you told all your friends, and we lived happily ever after." Now he brought up what happend during the date and creates this picture of what will happen in the future.

    • @exposehim4601
      @exposehim4601 5 лет назад +1

      You’re thinking about this way too much

    • @ColtSSR
      @ColtSSR 5 лет назад

      @@exposehim4601 not getting any huh?

  • @thegoodkindofsimp7417
    @thegoodkindofsimp7417 4 года назад +2

    What do you say to follow up soft qualifiers? Like if she qualifies herself to you? Do you qualify her? Or do you push pull like “Oh that’s cool blah blah but idk there’s something about you that told me you’re not the sports type”

  • @berndlurk5548
    @berndlurk5548 5 лет назад +5

    4:06 "oh you are a pretty girl but beauty is ??? b ?? is ?? looks ??? besides makes me ??? more to get you know me better" what are you mumbling?

    • @ramiszinal5818
      @ramiszinal5818 5 лет назад

      This is advanced level dudeee

    • @NightOfCrystals
      @NightOfCrystals 5 лет назад +3

      Beauty is common so what else do you have to offer me

  • @addk4279
    @addk4279 5 лет назад +4

    How do you deal with girls that are going through heartbreak; they don't want to be flirted with or be in relationships?

    • @aidanbotha3320
      @aidanbotha3320 5 лет назад

      Add K when you find out let me know please🙄

    • @masteroflions1183
      @masteroflions1183 3 года назад

      Honestly its one of the best time to pick up a girl bec they are looking for validation

  • @qazmko22
    @qazmko22 3 года назад +7

    One of the powerful things that "nice guys" (sweet, emotional, vulnerable) can do as a super power is be very sensitive and tailor their qualifications based on very specific qualities that she has. They can also speak from their core, with both of those you can very powerfully qualify someone and very powerfully seduce someone.

  • @allenmciver1888
    @allenmciver1888 5 лет назад +5

    Thanks! Good information!!

  • @VeryCrazyBeaver
    @VeryCrazyBeaver 5 лет назад +1

    Why do girls start nagging and shit testing you especially hard when you move towards a relationship? For example, before and into your first trip to another country. How to deal with it?

  • @GrowGreenwithBen
    @GrowGreenwithBen 4 года назад

    Literally who the fuck is this dude. Lol. He is just too smart. "2 decades of game" bro is serious.

  • @lukaszwybieralski7516
    @lukaszwybieralski7516 5 лет назад +4

    Hey Todd, I gotta quite important question. I can get dozens of numbers by daygaming but like 50% of meetings I set up with girls are never happening. I usually get number and call/text her and after setting up the meeting, let's say in four days, i'm done with conversation. When the day of meeting comes, I call or text again and girls don't response or they text me they can't blabla. I always have plenty of numbers so it's not a big deal but i feel I must be fucking something up at some point but don't know what and where. Any suggesions?
    Btw. you're the best man ;)

    • @lewdkingdomdoujinshi8801
      @lewdkingdomdoujinshi8801 5 лет назад +4

      Lukasz Wybieralski they don't seem really interested in you and it may be that they are only giving you their number to get you to leave them alone

    • @lukaszwybieralski7516
      @lukaszwybieralski7516 5 лет назад

      @@lewdkingdomdoujinshi8801 I usually do indirects and talk with them first to see how i goes, usually talk is good. And I also used to do Mysterys trick to get the number "oh i gotta go but i'd finish this talk later" and like 9/10 gives me it. It's not the case though, sometimes they themselves suggest meeting at specific day and time and then they get flaky. I still get many dates though so don't give a fuck (nexting) but i cant understand logic behind it. But yeah, you must be right, apparently

    • @TheTeodor97
      @TheTeodor97 5 лет назад

      Man, you’re setting the date way too far after the interaction. In 4 days she has plenty of time to forget you, meet someone new and even go to a date with someone she’s been talking before meeting you. What’s more than 2 days it simply fucks you’re chances to meet her and increases the chances on her to flake. Another reason why girls would flake is that they aren’t yet feeling comfortable enough to meet you, that’s why you need to solidify your interaction by sending her voice/video messages and even FaceTime her (the best).

  • @bestprimal9790
    @bestprimal9790 3 года назад +1

    So pretty much you throw in a semi-statement that blends smoothly to not risk too much on into a girl qualifying herself subtlety. Hmm, sounds understandable Todd haha

  • @slej_hamer1212
    @slej_hamer1212 4 года назад +1

    First step is making her attracted to you, then she will be motiveted to chase you and invest in you its simple, you amplify and crystalize attraction by making her chase and invest.

  • @daniel100592
    @daniel100592 5 лет назад +13

    How do you recommend weaning off so much pickup theory when you're out, to just TRUSTING YOURSELF to have good interactions and remain in the process?

    • @SwagMuffin567
      @SwagMuffin567 5 лет назад +4

      Daniel Son it’s all about being yourself while having a good system when you approach a girl so you don’t embarrass yourself. you should be yourself while trying to implement different parts of game slowly.

    • @tophatsheep3747
      @tophatsheep3747 4 года назад +1

      Listen to what he said (Advaith padi, him)

    • @mikereilly9701
      @mikereilly9701 4 года назад

      Practice practice practice

  • @vicente3354
    @vicente3354 5 лет назад +8

    Wish I learned this stuff sooner. Would have saved me so much time and introspection LOL

  • @joilsongomes5
    @joilsongomes5 5 лет назад +3

    gold!!!!! so many things to learn its seems like will never be enough aaaahhhhhh!!!!! enjoying every step of the journey!!!!

  • @jehriko7525
    @jehriko7525 4 года назад +12

    you know something i love is when 2 different dating yt coaches tell me different things and at the same time manage to tell me logically why they work, so now im left convinced on both sides lol

    • @Mario-zt4lq
      @Mario-zt4lq 3 года назад

      It’s a paradox where they are both true but it’s our job to find out which applies to our specific situation more at a given time and when to implement each strategy.. it takes skill, just like football and basketball etc, there are a lot of competitors but only a few are seen as the most skilled and dominant in their specific field..

    • @Mario-zt4lq
      @Mario-zt4lq 3 года назад

      those are the ones who master the understanding and execution of those paradoxes consistently at a more successful and higher rate than the rest of the pack

  • @pashaboss6
    @pashaboss6 3 года назад +1

    The only piece i haven't nailed yet is qualifying.. then I'd be invincible

  • @realtruth97
    @realtruth97 4 года назад +4

    Us men have to do a lot of beggin to get women.
    You gotta talk to a bunch of them.
    A lot of rejection and humiliation in between.
    Women are too difficult.

  • @anshul8123
    @anshul8123 5 лет назад +1

    QUESTION: SOME DAYS I GET A LOT OF NUMBERS FROM DAY GAME AND SOME DAYS I GET TOTALLY BLOWN AWAY BY GIRLS. I'M GETTING SPORADIC RESULTS WHICH IS CONFUSING. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

  • @gpczeppelin9625
    @gpczeppelin9625 5 лет назад +3

    Hi Todd, so this is a somewhat rare situation but maybe a lot of people can relate: what if the girl says that another guy will be joining the date, when she was the one inviting me and planning it? If I agree, I look Beta and get friendzoned, cause it isnt a date anymore. If I say that it is a problem, I look jealous, even though it's entitled

    • @dbsllama6042
      @dbsllama6042 5 лет назад +11

      If it's a date, another guy shouldn't be there. Let her know she's free to go on a date with the other guy and she can hit you up 1 on 1 for a date between just yall. This establishes your willingness to walk away and your higher value

    • @jjlatinopedia
      @jjlatinopedia 5 лет назад +8

      Grow some balls! That's the first thing. If another man is joining bc she invited him, flake and move on. Simple.

  • @crorocoofficial9565
    @crorocoofficial9565 4 года назад +1

    Steal her purse and she will chase you... I know i know i am real player 😂

  • @BeOutstanding
    @BeOutstanding Год назад

    Yoz
    Thank
    You
    Man
    Dun chan ur beh
    Get the girl to qualify herself
    Do so many yhings to correct wrong
    Soft qualifier
    I used to do spoets and loce sports

  • @Mark-fe8qw
    @Mark-fe8qw 3 года назад +1

    My man be looking like David Guetta

  • @mrpoopoopantz4923
    @mrpoopoopantz4923 5 лет назад +5

    Todd i need advice, how do i get to be with a girl that knows that i’ve liked her for a long time.(btw we aren’t close, i just notice that she notices me whenever i look at her)

  • @brayanaldape5621
    @brayanaldape5621 5 лет назад +3

    What do you say when girls say ohh I’m ugly or I wish I was cute but there like a solid 8 do you say your gorgeous or ignore it???

    • @667DOOM
      @667DOOM 5 лет назад +3

      hot girls know theyre hot. never give them what they actual want. she was fishing for compliments, dont give her compliments. this is the only way to keep her chasing you instead of you chasing her. never comply with their demands!

    • @jjlatinopedia
      @jjlatinopedia 5 лет назад +4

      Tell her, "not everyone is pretty. You just have to have a great personality to make up for it."

    • @aygwm
      @aygwm 5 лет назад

      Whenever a girl talks about her own looks to you she is fishing for a compliment. Don’t validate.

    • @masteroflions1183
      @masteroflions1183 3 года назад

      Compliment the girl with her personality

  • @75w26__
    @75w26__ 2 года назад +1

    4:37 Q

  • @1stRedCommander
    @1stRedCommander 2 года назад

    the whole idea of qualifying was completely alien to me. value was also lost on me. i could understand it. but i didnt GET IT until i got into a horrible toxic relationship where it was obvious i was chasing. and she wasn't investing. getting a woman to look for ur approval and for her to qualify herself to u is the point of game. if u got he seeking ur approval shes urs for ever lol. ive seen 10s fall apart for drug addicts that are trash while they have good men at thier feet but thery are all trying to get her approval and she hates men liek that. she wants a man whos higher or the same value as her.

  • @AnteP-dx4my
    @AnteP-dx4my 5 лет назад +11

    Todd are you Based Zeus or did he bought System?
    The reason im saying this is because the guy in his most recent video was using all the words you use and I have never seen someone else use it( open,premise,qualifycation and bunch of others)
    It was really wierd to watch it.

    • @Georgious
      @Georgious 5 лет назад +3

      "Premise" I think is a Todd only concept, the rest is not! So are you sure he said "premise" then yes, if not than it's just game.

    • @TheActionTourist
      @TheActionTourist 5 лет назад

      Lol funny i noticed something similiar to this. Based Zeus seems to have very similiar tips not do long after Todd released them if i recall right

    • @alexwhittaker5477
      @alexwhittaker5477 5 лет назад +8

      Based Zeus definitely steals from Todd... Zeus is always trying to sell you some product or course to just make money. Todd helping most of us for free, real GOAT status

    • @AnteP-dx4my
      @AnteP-dx4my 5 лет назад +1

      @@Georgious he said premise for sure , at that moment I knew something fishy was going on.

    • @AnteP-dx4my
      @AnteP-dx4my 5 лет назад +1

      @@TheActionTourist I stopped watching him because his videos got longer and were more sellout so I found about Dan Beacon(if i spelled it correctly) and then upgraded from him to allmighty Todd.
      Then when I saw this... jezzz...

  • @alexvargas8955
    @alexvargas8955 5 лет назад +7

    Could anybody break these steps down? pretty sure everyone would appreciate it:
    Open
    Premise
    Evaluate
    Narrative
    Close
    Cheers!!

    • @borat5225
      @borat5225 5 лет назад +1

      Open: Approach, make a comment about her that teases or some shit.
      Premise: indirectly communicate that this is a man to woman interaction. “Make it known that you have a dick”
      Evaluate: judge her in a tongue-in-cheek. Make the interaction about her qualifying herself as a partner.
      Narrative: build some type of frame or story between you two that could allow for sex to happen in a none judgmental way. For example, if you’re a good artist you can comment that she has a striking face unlike most and you want to study it, you draw her on a few dates and eventually you could turn I into “dawning her like a French girl.” You don’t have to be that specific, this is just my thing. Maybe pretend that a girl is stocking you and tell your pick up that you need to look like you’re having a fun conversation so the stalker goes away. It can be pure bullshit, but it shows that you’re a fun guy.
      Close: after you’ve done the rest right, go in for the kill in what ever way seems appropriate. Try to make the close fit with the narrative (if possible.) for example;Take her to your place, maybe she’s never seen an episode of the office and you make a big deal about how it’s a modern classic and you want to enlighten the poor uncultured swine.

  • @riverdean7
    @riverdean7 5 лет назад +2

    looks wise i would say this guy is only about 6 out of 10

  • @gfr7270
    @gfr7270 4 года назад +1

    This shit is hard

  • @_jamesbradley__
    @_jamesbradley__ 5 лет назад +6

    Thank you so much for the excellent clip! 😎👍 ALL facts!

  • @stretfordend8990
    @stretfordend8990 Год назад

    I disagree thts called mirroring ..n it works by making how similar we are

  • @CorneliusMagnus
    @CorneliusMagnus 5 лет назад +2

    How can a generally relaxed and cool guy get with those really crazy girls?

    • @aryankumar87771
      @aryankumar87771 5 лет назад +1

      They don't

    • @667DOOM
      @667DOOM 5 лет назад +1

      never be with crazy. period.

    • @CorneliusMagnus
      @CorneliusMagnus 5 лет назад

      @@667DOOM I do not want to be with crazy but GET with crazy ;)

    • @aygwm
      @aygwm 5 лет назад +1

      Ummm, literally nothing different, other than be assertive and masculine. Chill and calm is half the battle.

  • @robertdalton1582
    @robertdalton1582 5 лет назад +2

    What was the one simple tactic?

  • @thorthegod3854
    @thorthegod3854 5 лет назад +1

    Todd i can get girls attracted towords me. But after some interaction my vibes with a girl seem like fading away. My Question here is how can i kept a girl attracted to me for a long term?

    • @HA-no3jh
      @HA-no3jh 5 лет назад +2

      Thor The God
      Dont smile and laugh too much to her
      because the one who is smiling and laughing in a conversation more is mostly the beta one, the one with the "please like me, you are so funny look how I laugh" attitude
      dont be too nice, be nice AND cocky. make her a little angy just to soften her instantly afterwards with "im just joking - topic change"
      dont answer all her questions
      when you answer all her questions as asked you will put urself in a beta position, she will get the feeling "oh look he is sweet slave, i get all the answers I need from him, he is my dog and I am the master"
      its all about being a nice, patient, self confident alpha

  • @ToAsTOnDeck
    @ToAsTOnDeck 4 года назад

    Todd the beat at the end of this video. Where can I find it?

  • @prajwal_tmg
    @prajwal_tmg 3 года назад +1

    Bro face at the camera

  • @zxcvbnm703
    @zxcvbnm703 2 года назад +1

    Make her like your music

  • @kaizenborntowin
    @kaizenborntowin 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you!

  • @ArikNewman
    @ArikNewman 4 года назад

    Hey Todd , My text game is great and huge amount of girls go out with me because i'm flirting , funny and playfull but in the real date i'm less that person how do i close that gap ?

  • @intention21
    @intention21 2 года назад

    “Oh I don’t talk to strangers”
    Here’s what I would say to that: “lol what are you 5? And still worried about strangers 🤣?
    I could stop there and wait for her to reply. Or I could go further and say: “and here I’m thinking you were a capable woman… sigh”

  • @50tigres79
    @50tigres79 5 лет назад +3

    why his eyes are always red. It's so scary, i'm surprised he doesn't scare girls.

  • @xRecklessLJ
    @xRecklessLJ 5 лет назад +10

    1:47 what the hell did he just do

  • @Dave-In-Greece
    @Dave-In-Greece 5 лет назад +4

    Todd! Man...I watched a few of your vida and you're a SOLID guy and coach...Bravo
    I'm starting a Personal Development and Dating business here in Greece soon...maybe one day we'll collab on some AWESOME projects...
    Be well...

  • @anavarzau4984
    @anavarzau4984 4 года назад +2

    😂 imagine going to a lecture like this! Wow

    • @michaelmota4602
      @michaelmota4602 4 года назад +1

      Lol like a class in college. Game 111: Qualification - Instructor: Todd

  • @ClearChoiceMethodology
    @ClearChoiceMethodology 4 года назад +1

    This is the type of stuff that you say Todd and its brilliant

  • @dwcushman1
    @dwcushman1 Год назад

    Very interesting how if we qualify ourselves to the women then it’s apparently game over but if they qualify themselves to us than it’s supposed to be the golden ticket. Why does that only implode on one side?

  • @alute5532
    @alute5532 Год назад

    Make most things right so that your mistakes don't matter
    Usually we qualify ourselves so how to get get to qualify her self
    Open premise qualify

  • @costanzauk
    @costanzauk 5 лет назад +2

    Didn’t seem all that simple lol :)

  • @erikbritz8095
    @erikbritz8095 5 лет назад +1

    Hey Todd love this cause investment is my bigggest issue but what about in relationships how to keep the girl invested in a relationship? and how to keep/raise your value inside the relationship cause i have noticed even if i am busy killing it etc. the girl i am with still get's disinterested or starts getting very low investment wise?

  • @Ry4nWTF
    @Ry4nWTF 5 лет назад +10

    what's the damn outro song dawg??

  • @Anteater_Slayer6656
    @Anteater_Slayer6656 5 месяцев назад

    The thing is that when a girl likes you she do not see your flaws to much and if she does not like you whatever you do is not cute for her!

  • @papaainsl3705
    @papaainsl3705 Год назад

    i have one question tho , what if literally we talk and there are many things in common , even on a level , of what kind of tea we like

  • @topsecret9813
    @topsecret9813 4 года назад

    I hate IT when you had a good Date and after you say goodbye you dont know If you See her again

  • @joshmoulton4783
    @joshmoulton4783 5 лет назад

    Hey Todd, love your content and your videos have helped me a lot but I was just wanting your advice for virgins. Do I lie about having sex and behave in a way where I’m sexually abundant? Just want your thoughts
    Ps. I’m 21 years old from Australia

  • @niinjaslayer6394
    @niinjaslayer6394 3 года назад

    Very good video, opposite of what you did to the large guy in the bar with her. You tried qualifying yourself. But yes, make her qualify herself to you by paying near zero attention.

  • @remissiveslave
    @remissiveslave 4 года назад +1

    If I take my hat off she'll runaway.

  • @ashleybanks-wm4cg
    @ashleybanks-wm4cg 6 месяцев назад

    Todd you legit got all the game we need more young men need to leave other channels and come to yours

  • @loganbrown6625
    @loganbrown6625 5 лет назад +1

    Who is he talking to