When I Was Afraid of Girls
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- Please don't stalk me.
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(I asked the girl for permission before making this video)
Music:
E's Jammy Jams - Present Day
Metal Gear Solid - Alert Theme
Kevin MacLeod - Dream Culture
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"She's just standing there...
*MENACINGLY* "
NANI?
“GET OUTTA THERE SPONGEBOB!!!” Haha love that quote
LOVELIVESERVE
Is that jojo reference
ゴゴゴゴ
"I'm coming to your school tomorrow."
" *h a h a* , no you're *N O T* "
Invasion 100
I wanna like but it's at the devils number and I wanna keep it that way
@@jovantosic2119 thank you I love you
@@yami6256 fck, it reached 667 already. Goddammit... LoL
Its 998 now
"Some girl is asking for you"
"We both know it's a lie, what are you up to dad"
You got likes thought I’d tell you
Lol true
1,4k likes and only 3 comments??
Best comment in this section for sure
@@byeheaven let's not reply to it- oh well did
So the moral is, *you were perfectly justified being afraid of girls since one was effectively stalking you, knowing where you went to school and where you lived despite never telling her.*
There is a public registry in sweden where theres information about every citizen there. Idk about minors doe.
@@ilililil490 They also meet because of a friend in common, she could've just asked that friend.
@@pop5705but still its creepy since house address is something only the person who lives in it should know.
@@animeuniverse5586 What?
@@braziliantsar idk what i was thinking while typing such a great sentence.
2:33 Are you winning son?
Lol
@Fons van der Linden bruh, same
I WAS ABOUT TO COMMENT THIS LMAOOO
Ooooh i get it
ctrl v same
Me, a virgin:
"I love you too, pretty stalker girl who i totally did not give my address to!"
Will be a waste not to
You Wont Be A Virgin If She Goes To Your Bedroom The Second Date
honestly yandere works for me, I’d die for a solicitor given time
This is why I sometimes wish I was a dude
@@AnnaHans88 Get in my van
Girl: Oh, you're approaching me? Instead of running awa...
Mattias: *runs away*
Nah its the other was around lmao
nigerundayo!
Mattias is a joestar confirmed
@@tarpulin8179 LOL
joestar secret technique
"All women are agents of the state. Any and all contact must be avoided"
And we avoid you.
@@lizythewizzmeow2621 !ky5
@@lizythewizzmeow2621 go back to the kitchen
@@lizythewizzmeow2621 ☕️
@@lizythewizzmeow2621 Mah maan Just got Roasted
Dudes say things like: ''Girls give mixed signals and I don't get them''
Also dudes: this video
Multumim Andrei. Forta.
Exactly
this.. 😔
They do sometimes though.
Blana tesculeane
That girl is definitely the antagonist of a horror movie.
You mean yandere ?
@@joditiarsutrisno5556 he means the fucking monster
Haha
Mostly because they found his school+ house wtf
@@EnDeRBeaT LMFAO
"Someone can help you the entire way but that person cannot help you stand up for yourself." -> important lesson
@Chileno fds
@Chileno final
@@-_Confessor-_ quanto Br aqui wtf
@@celo__4088 sim
@Chileno chill, dude
1:32 "and she's standing there..."
*"M E N A C I N G L Y"*
He was around 14 when all of this happened.
*_laughs in single_*
*laughs in not ever having a girlfriend in all 20 years of life*
@@PanzerMan332 Same
@@PanzerMan332All 21 years here
guys, i had no girlfriend until i was 28. and i had similar cringe moments with girls. when i decided to not give a fuck about them (not in an ignorant childish way) and enjoy my life, they started to approche ME. also please don't think you are worth less because you have no girlfriend...thats bullshit and kills your confidence
I didn’t have moments like this until I was 15/16 ish
I'm coming to your school tomorrow.
You better not buddy
@@markmcculfor6113 Why? He will take me to a cafe if I do and will run because I exist.
What do I have to lose?
hahaha you’re kidding; right?
no god please no no
Maybe it's the alternate universe version of the classic threat...
"Some of you guys aren't alright; I'm not coming to your school tomorrow."
The real lesson: "Life is not an anime."
*me looking at Promised Neverland
"Sure it is"
Only empty people think it is
I sure wish it was. I'm 22 and have never been with a girl and i don't think I'll ever be with one. Being in an anime could change that
@@joditiarsutrisno5556 umm ok sure ... 😤
@@hussein7517 I dont think so, with that mentality you would probably be a side character
My man had a girl simping for him and his reaction was *"I don't know what to do with my hands."*
More like "Stan"ing
Hey Mattias I have a pamphlet for you to read about stalking
Wait is this actually going to happen
456 like and heart 2 comments
The Reynolds Pamphlet
@@jdawg9722 Alexander Hamilton had a torrent affair, and he wrote it down right there
Highlights!
Mathias anime TAGs: romantic, psicologic, yandere, comedy, slice of life.
Im coming to your home tomorrow
Pairez I’m coming to your room tomarrow
The grammar police are coming to this comment section.
It's nhentai lol
What about going to srekx
Mattias: Doesn't remember literal first date
Also Mattias: Remembers the price of said date
I think I could be Mattias
I think he meant more of a general feel of the price, and how it was more expensive than expected.
Star-Man RainbowStar as my mother would say “Just like a man”
@@zipity2782 Hmmm money is to me more important than social relationships. Lol my dear money i love you!
Alright, you're allowed to be A Mathias, but not THE Mathias
There was a girl who I had a crush on for my entire 8th grade year. I was lucky enough to actually become friends with her, to an extent. Friends enough that we ended up working on a poster-making project, I don’t remember exactly what it was. Together. Just the two of us. I spent almost the whole time being scared and awkward, staying at a distance from her even though we couldn’t work on the poster at the same time that way. God, I felt like such a fool. I was making myself look both awkward AND lazy because I wasn’t helping as much with the poster. I still remember that day every now and then. It’s just something that stays with you, I guess.
I was also too scared to ask her to sign my yearbook at the end of the year, even though I spent the entire earlier part of the day psyching myself up for it. She went to a different high school than me, so those were my last memories with her. Even if I wanted to, I’ll never forget these things. They’re as precious to me as they are cringey and painful, I cared about that girl so much. That‘s my experience being scared of girls, I hope it means something to someone reading this.
Kinda had the same experience but i moved countries instead of high schools
It meant something to me.
awww
Damn bro
Bro your not alone I had similar experiences 😢 I had a crush too but never could tell her. I hated myself for being so afraid. Next time please don't be afraid to tell her
WE NOT GONNA TALK ABOUT HOW SHE ROCKED UP TO BOTH HIS SCHOOL AND HIS HOUSE WITHOUT HIM TELLING HER WHERE THEY WERE?
Well she's a friend of his friend, perhaps she just asked the friend where he lives
@EZO EZ Both of them are around 14, Pedophilla is out of the question even if they switched genders, Creep stalker is possible but it would only start to seem suspicious if they stays around after being given no answer to their confession, in this case she backed off and likely never sees him again because she was hurt
If you know someone's name and last name, you can find where they live in sweden, because it's public information.
Well she’s not gonna kill or rape him like men do
@@yb0805hw Huh?
Other title: "A Stalker Cured My Anxiety"
Get me a stalker, asap.
I need one too
Janbert Guerrero mee too
Y’all called for my help?
@@Weirdguy6 Yess
“I just talked to a girl!”
*Didn’t actually talk*
Haha, is that a My Hero Academia reference?!?
@@ginoyesano5649 yep
I love whoever wrote this comment.
MHA xD
"And then it stopped. It's raining now" BRO WTF I'VE ALMOST CRYED
And my dad comes in and says...
Are ya winning son?
HAHAHAHA I THOUGHT THE SAME
I want to join "I thought the same" gang
Made the likes 69
no dad i will be forever alone
This is what I want more than girls
"She confessed that she actually liked me."
Bro no way
i wish they lived happily ever after
@@AC-mp7cx 6:35
If a girl would look in my general direction for more than 10 seconds I'd be happy for the day.
@@vens1337 Trust me, you really don't. I've been in your position and you really don't want that.
@@pointynoodle Man, Ive rarely talked to a girl aside from a few words here and there for the past, like, 6-7 months. I want female interaction, and its not like im nervous or anything, i just dont have anything to say in the same way i do with dudes. Then again, i also rarely talk to people i dont know unless they approach me, so whatev for me.
I can relate.
I'm 28.
Lol. Listen to After Hours by Velvet Underground
@I’m Okay Are you really okay?
M H his name says he is
@@blinkcatmeowmeow8484 so he's not 28?
D. Khulu Nkabinde hes both 28 and Okay.
the most unbelievable thing about this story is that not only did she consistently reach out to you, but she actually opened up to you about liking you instead of the other way around. This breaks all laws of physics
I thought this was a interesting video 😁
How? its normal for people to have crushes and then tell them about it.
@@titandarknight2698 It's because girls are never the ones consistently reaching out and having to open up, it's always the other way around.
It's believable since he said they were kids or teens 🤷, it's more innocent, less games.
@@titandarknight2698 yeah it's normal when a boy confesses his love... you don't see the reverse often
Anime brought them together...but anime also broke them apart...
Who is the Anime.
God giveth, god taketh away
@@abeke5523 Therefore, anime is God
Anime only hurts you. And make you cringe when you look back
Anime is shit
Dude... didn't you ask her how she found your school and your house? You didn't find that creepy and weird?
I didn't at the time, but I think she contacted one of my friends and asked them. Even now I haven't asked her.
@@MattiasPilhede She's a hacker!
*anime plot intensifies*
@@MattiasPilhede This anime is deeper than i thought
Do it and then tell us. It's a perfect OVA... kind of
NEED SEASON 2 ASAP!
Actually I believe that girl never existed and was only his imagination. That would be a good example of fighting shyness
Kkkk mds Rigby
I really wish that that could happen to me..
that's what i was thinking the whole time
That's dumb
Thats the correct assumption of what happen and why this vídeo is calles shyness boy with girl when he gets a girl un love with him
Loved your illustrations, Matthias. They almost tell a story all their own. You should consider animating them as children’s stories (which, by the way, work excellently for adults, too). Best wishes!
I read that as illusions and I thought you were saying he was like schizo or something. I'm way too sleep deprived for this
Bro get some sleep😭
@@Cellulolytic
A very personal and emotional video is about to end,
Mattias: And I could finally say...
Me: Oh he is just about to say something very profound and meaningful about life
Mattias: Thank god life is not anime
He does this in every video and it still catches me off guard
I feel ya buddy
Ali Berk ÖZDERYA chough chough this story is very close to a something that happened to me just didn’t meet her on the internet
@@fallenangel9614 how did you meet her then?
Ali Berk ÖZDERYA school
@@fallenangel9614 lol of course the school, for some reason I was expecting something very unusual. I was like scratching my head thinking "what can it possibly be if it is not the internet?". Anyway, hope it is a good memory for you. Take care
*girl shows up at home uninvited, without being told where home is*
Welcome inside
me at my crush's bday be like:
It’s hilarious how guys always say that girls are “difficult to understand”
But guys in their teens apparently show feelings by moving their chair very far away from you and/or running away on the first meeting!
Yeah and some guys say that maybe, we should just not make huge generalisation about large groups of people.
He never said he liked the girl. He was uncomfortable so he behaved uncomfortably. Logic checks out.
Seems like those tactics worked put pretty good lol
Oh wait I saw the ending
TheDarkShip True but my comment was supposed a joke about about generalizations
Benjamin Garcia Might’ve been true with the second girl (even though he did say that they were at least friends white texting eachother before she came to his school)
But with the first girl he also specifically said that bc he got nervous around girls he moved his chair far away from her making her think he’s mad at her even though he wasn’t.
I let anxiety control my life, I avoided all social interactions and anything that could possibly make me uncomfortable. Now at age 23, my reward is no friends, no social skills, and worse anxiety. The path of least resistance is a path to nowhere.
I'm going through the same situation, and I'm only 17
@@Sun-God2 I wish I could go back and fucking beg my 17 year old self to just try reaching out to people no matter how awkward and painful it feels.
When I was 23 I was exactly like you, but guess what? Now I'm 40 and I'm still the same. Surprise!
same spot at 43😥life suck's
Your Dad has a villain mustache? Does he twirl it and make demands about paying the rent?
@Vladimir Lenin 😂
@Vladimir Lenin Oh. Okay.
it's a me WARIOOOO
@Vladimir Lenin What kind of parties..? **mushroom party intensifies**
Does he ask if his son is winning tho?
Homer: Marge, I'm confused, is this a happy ending or a sad ending?
Marge: It's an ending, that's enough.
You got likes thought I’d tell you
Oh man I can hear that
I remember that episode
Eh, I mean, good experience comes from bad experiences, it's learning that makes it good.
@@tlotro625good lessons from bad experiences. F me and my life if I was enjoying the bad experiences that taught me.
This guy draws with crayola to make 10/10 quality vids
Your drawing isn't better shut up
Whelp. I tried to be humorous...
@@user-hy3vi5wk5m Well I thought that was funny! 😊
@@adamromero :)
@@blueslime5855 r/woosh
The stuff they did feels low-key like an actual date.
This could have easily ended in "it was my imagination all along"
""I was so horny and alone I imagined a girl""
@@Crazyapple16 😂😂😂
@Abdul Rahman Mohammed eyyyy
For most of us
"Then a doctor wake me up and told me 'you were in a coma, i'm afraid its been 9 years' 💀"
She did all that just for you?! She must really like you
Your comment specialy make me feel wierd, because I was very like that whit EVERY person as like to me, and they in the box comments are leaving me lik a huge, ridiculous stalker, except may yours and a couple more :')
(I'speak spanish, sorry)
@@gabicci5210 Damn i didnt understood a single thing, sad
@@reese8050 I think he means that he acted just the way the girl on the video does, thus making this comment in particular make him feel weird about it.
And now everyone in the comment section makes him feel weird and like a stalker too.
@@gabicci5210 Hi!
Would you mind if I tried to "fix" your 5 day old comment?
@@Lucas-Nunes bold of you to assume its a he
Afraid of girls? Damn you almost became an anime harem protagonist.
Lori *mayo chiki! Intensifies*
Whats a harem
@@Lg-xt5eh oh you sweet innocent child
@@imcool2931 ok lol
@@imcool2931 Is it hent*i?
Can relate. In kindergarten and primary school I had some female friends, that changed in secondary school. In the last years I even had a reputation of being a mysogenist or something as I was rude? I simply did not know how to deal with girls, the "sit as far away as possible"-scenario happened to me aswell. Then, in December 2019 I was invited to a friend and he had a girl invited aswell, we did not know each other - the first time in 5 years or so I meat a girl outside of school. It went ok and as we had the same friends we saw each other here and there. She once said we would be friends, but honestly I don't think so, I mean... if only we two are together somewhere we can talk for an hour and then there is just akward silence... not what I would call a friend. Yet she is the closest I was to a girl in a long time. So I still don't know how to handle them, but it got better. And now there is Corona - problem solved XD
Also I have a female penfriend in Canada, it works. Luckily I live in Europe, so chances are I'll never see her.
It is wierd, isn't it? I can write to a girl, but as soon as there is one physically present my brain is in "girl-mode" and I don't know how to behave. I'm glad I don't miss it, so I don't "suffer".
The most infuriating love history that I ever heard.
You mean "never had"?
Ever?
I’m banging my head against the wall... but at the same time I would’ve probably done the same
If you like this I've got like ten of these
But I didn't pick up on the signals until like literally years later, so it's even worse 🤦
your profile picture is FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCKIIIIIIIIIIINNNNNG amazing
I FUCKING LOVE IT
I L-O-V-E IT
I LOVE IT
Dude same, im also afraid of girls...
And boys.
I have social anxiety
Y'all, I appreciate the advice and sympathy, but I don't have social anxiety. I didn't know what social anxiety was when I wrote this. At the time, I thought I had social anxiety, but no, I was just really awkward.✌
Do meditation, It will help a lot
Yeah....It's sweating like sweating about talking to guys ...and having a full blown fever and wicked adrenaline rush for talking to girls.
@@lightsfeed9541 I understand, I was like that but I'm good now, and my life is much better.
I also have social anxiety but thats from dealing with assholes a lot. Thats why I hate people in general
Then don’t have social anxiety
It's only been a minute and I already relate so much
Although, she never came to my school :/
bruh, i want your pfp
pls
Azerbaijani Mexican
Ur really polish Filipino ? :0 that's very interesting !
Lol same
“...and my dad asked me, Are you winning Son?” 2:34
"Literally means fear of heights" what a scary name, thank God here in Australia we have domestic names for rides like *KAMIKAZE.* Definitely not going on that thing.
Oh yeah. We have kamikaze at my local fair
@@M3I0n_Me yeah its at the yearly carnival here
I'm scared shitless of heights. I've never gone on those rides
American carnival rides are a while other league. They have names like "Super Mega Assfucker Toesucker Tilt-a-Whirl".
@@adrih8694 I really want that to become a real ride name. I mean at my local carnival the names are pretty basic, with "the cha-cha" being on the not at all scary side, and "The space roller" on the end of being totally over the top in design, size, and scare factor.
"you sit far away from her and she thinks she did something wrong"
Me : "OH NO-"
*sudden bad memories came rushing in*
I naturally sit far away from everyone who I’m not comfortable with um-
@@glitterkiitty ok who asked
@@elmothewise3915 Me
@@sirarthur9698 link?
@@elmothewise3915 why be an asshole?
Bad Protagonist + Manic Pixie Dreamy Girl... wait up... isn't that Evangelion?
I wouldn't call Asuka or Rei "manic" or "dreamy".
It's "Scott Pilgrim against The World" actually.
Rampant Mutt askua is definitely manic lol
"Get in the damn robot, Matthias!"
Ridho Affandi
And your goddamn profile is her in the video
AAAAHHHH
Thank you Mattias for sharing, being from Gothenburg myself it was extra wonderful to be able to relate to the scenes.
Hope you have a great time.
-Leonard
I consider myself awkward around girls but holy shit this man is on another level
Hah, wait till you see me
Oh, I thought this is how everyone behaves...
I'm awkward around everyone regardless of gender so I'm like this to everyone lol
she stalked him dumbass
this level of cringiness is similar to hollywood tropes. I didn't think anyone behave like this in real life to be honest!
Being a shy guy is really cute.
Only when you're handsome.
Hm what
A Lot of things works this way
HA HA
ha...
Hmmm, I'm shy, and not a handsome. Still enjoying my life.
@@milindsahoo4752 same here
"I'm coming to your school tomorrow"
take that out of context for a bit
@Unity wtf
It's even weirder with context.
Kind of crazy how many pubescent boys start off scared of girls and then grow out of it over time, while women more often become increasingly cautious of men and jaded about their intentions as they gain life experience.
It seems a bit sad
아니 이 그림?동화? 알고리즘 왜자꾸 뜨는건데.....심지어 제목은 한국어고 들어가보면 영어로 말하고 영어댓글밖에 없음...ㅋㅌㅋㅋㅋㅋ
그니까요ㅋㅋㄱㅋ진짜 넘뜬금없게 이런영상뜸...
제목이 한국어가 아니라 한국인한테 자동으로 번역돼서 보이는거임. 미국인한테는 영어로 보이고
유튜브 자막기능 키시면 한글 자막 나와요
ㅇㅈ
ㅇㅈ요....
Ok jeez we get it, you talked to a girl once stop bragging not everyone is that lucky
Lol
dude wtf??
true
@@uhhhi7573 Issa joke
i haven't talked to a girl in 8 months
*"I'm coming to your school tomarrow"*
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Lmao.
Its a word from our sponsor btw
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lmao
This made me lose my shit
When I was younger, I was that one loud kid in class who was friends with everyone in class. I could easily talk to girls, I even had 2 girls a crush on me(Im actually not sure tho, I only found out from my friends). Then middle school came hit me like a fucking bus, my personality did a 180, I became that one quiet kid who doesnt talk at all. I lost a majority of my friends because I felt like a bother to them, and couldn't fit in to their group of friend. I became self consious and kept putting myself down, and thinking that everyone is looking at me, laughing at me. Soon one of the girls that liked me went to another school, the other one lost interest in me (I actually dont know), but was still good friends with them. I then all of a sudden became nervous around girls, and it was extremelly hard to make friends with them. It was literally impossible for me to make friends in class. I could only make friends next to me and what was worse was that I was in Honor classes so everyone kept to themsleves and only talked when we were grouped together on projects, and what was even worse was that the majority of those classmates is girls, so it was even more harder to try to make friends. In the end I never changed, Im still that self concious, anxiety filled, lonely person.
Same dude, same.
Hey, Girls And boys are both Humans who all go through what most humans go through, its ok to be anxious around girls, But you should try talking to girls the same way you talk to boys, With trust and Honesty
we the same person 😔
Aw man, I’m sorry :c I have anxiety too and I’m always self conscious and things. I believe in you though! Everyone has good qualities and stuff to offer other ppl
@@bebetter6403 Thank you, I believe in you too!
Girl: *talks to me.
Me: ...[Loading Bar...]
If only you could somehow have a ten minute thoughts cutscene that lasts for one second (LIKE IN FUCKING ANIME!)
@@moriarty756
Friends: *talk to me
Me: ...[Loading Bar...]
Just say yes and shake your head while smiling. Thats what i do to guys.
@@pirateswiggity5278 same bRuH
Same 😭
"The time I was afraid of boys...
*and I am one-"*
Ah cmon we will just talk back normally
I'm straight so maybe I shouldn't be saying this, but a boy will always see you as just another bro and won't think anything of it unless you start acting awkward. I have always thought that this was the reason gay boys talk to girls so much, its because they don't feel awkward around them at all and they share the same attractions etc. Anyways I don't really know because I am not gay and I think it would personally be very hard to figure out if someone is gay or not just so you don't have your feelings crushed if you ask them out.
@@savary5050 we get that you're straight, bro. No need to repeat 3 times, bro.
Dude at least guys werent afraid of you-
@@vp3841 like im not gay, but i just wanna say that i am not a homosexual. Not that id know what that would be like tho cuz im not gay.
I used to get so nervous around boys, particularly boys I liked. You know that natural filter you have over your speech that takes all the mishmash coffee grounds pouring through your brain and filters it into a steady stream of coherent speech? Every time I was around certain boys, I was spitting straight grounds. I had no filter. I made a fool of myself every time and I'd look back on each moment wondering what had come over me. I didn't even _feel_ like myself.
I had a similarly awkward situation where a boy I had liked asked me out on a date. I had to sit myself down and tell myself "He's not interested in you. Stop melting and act like you do around your friends." And just like that, I let all my feelings and anxieties for him go all at once. I was way more relaxed, I felt more like myself, and we had a perfectly lovely time.
And I never had feelings for anyone ever again :)
@randall-flagg huh?
@randall-flagg huh?
Actually it’s creepy that she came to your school, then to your house, like I would be creeped out if that were to happen to me
Hahaaha ikr
yea but if shes really really cute then you would still be her friend.
ip grab
@@ravaloulicheyo still creepy
@@tt-qq4xq They are not exclusive to each other, with enough cuteness, it can overwhelm your brain that it produces enough dopamine for you to overcome the creepiness. Of course, its just an opinion of mine. More case studies are required.
I felt kind of bad for her... but then again I realized that she found out where you went to school and where you lived and she thought it was totally normal behaviour to just show up without telling you first ... BIG RED FLAGS
Sweaty Baby Powder Hands well she did tell him before
He said she was his friends friend so she probably just asked the friend
I mean, They were still kids you know
BIG MISTAKE. HUGE.
“Okay what? Just get a deodorant.”
😂😂
She Aint Taking a No
Thanks! This was really helpful. I feel comfort knowing that there are kids like me and that I can be okay someday. This definitely wasn't "cringey" mattias. I'm really grateful to you for making this video. Cheers!
"And my dad comes into my room and says..."
*"Are ya winnin' son?"*
Edit: HOLY- THAT'S A LOTTA LIKES! Thanks! :)
ruclips.net/video/-1yzoiUIGGs/видео.html
@@RareSquid 😐😐
I saw your comment at the exact time when he said this
@@a.i.m.f8567 really original reply
Credits roll
You know. You're good at this. You're very very very good at this
Thank you!
Good enough to fuck up my sleeping schedule. I’m currently on a marathon watching all his videos. Please stop
@@plokijum no
I didn't know guys were like this too! My friend (girl) is terrified of boys.
I always found it weird, though. Since Im comfortable with both guys and gals.
Yeah, it is a very common fear to have, I used to run like if I was chased by death when I saw the girl I liked, my friends tried everything to help but it didn't work. I was so depressed when I was like 17, then I finally decided to take therapy, and it was the best thing I could've done, I learned that it was just my complete lack of self confidence, then, I entered the gym, started hanging out with people, not to dance at a club( I hate it) and I even had my first girlfriend then! Now I feel so bad when I see you get guys or even the same age like me or older when they can communicate to girls, but, I can't do anything, since only themself can get out of it
It's very, very common, and it leads to a lot of poor communication.
I'm a girl (well...enby AFAB) who's also scared of girls that I find attractive
@@DZrache yeah, it is common for guys to have fear of handsome guys too, like we think, damn, that dude is so awesome! am i even in his legue of awesomeness or some shit like that
thats true im comfortable with gals too
when 4:46 hit i slammed my desk and said "you let it slip you goddamn idiot!" and then i laughed for a while lmao
Now I'm laughing 🤣
"When I was afraid of girls, I was a spider"
- Widowmaker 2016
Isnt that an Overwatch character
Good one
Mmmmh yes the shot gun that needs metal talks
Very good story, insecurity and awkwardness of being adolescent captured perfectly. This was not cringy for me, maybe because I have many similar ones from my youth and thinking about them from a perspective of an adult make me honestly happy.
@@ultraxred Alcohol.
This actually reminds me of my old crush. We were friends, I confessed, and he just kinda sorta ignored me for 3 months until I found out that he actually liked me too. Its just that he was really shy about it and didn't want people to make fun of him for liking me and he didn't like it when people shipped us together. I then tried to make the friendship work out again but its still kinda awkward
Man I hate how I lived an anime romance for like a year smh
be like that tho
Anime used to seem outlandish, but some of these love triangle stuffs make more sense as I get older lol. Like of course my crush who lived a 3 blocks away from me and went to my same school all my life is now dating my best friend, and now that it's been like that for a couple years I'm over her and of course now we talk all the time and are great friends.
So basically romance is stupid and I hope yours works out lol
@@davidolinger3948 I forgot to mention in my comment that I now have a boyfriend who isn't the og guy. I just moved on finally. I'm happy with my boyfriend and I hope romance will work out for you soon (even if it is a little stupid)
And I know you moved on but I'm still sorry about your crush
Bruh
well i completely understand your crush since same thing happend with me but my friends teased me so much i completely avoided the girl i liked for 2 years
I’m glad you were able to learn lessons like this when you’re young, I never talked to people much before senior year of highschool cause I was scared, but it made me so depressed that I broke out and for the next three years after I came out of my shell, I’ve felt like I had to emotionally mature and learn lessons fast cause I was so socially behind all my college friends. Now thankfully I feel like I’m at the level of emotionally maturity that I should be in at 22 but boy was it a hard few years getting to this point
What was your experience with catching up in maturity? Is there anything you did to help mentally grow?
@@exoticbomber137 I fucked up a whole lot, like a whole lot more than anyone should, and I learned from my mistakes slowly. Wish I could have gone about this better but I didn’t even understand the things I was doing was wrong or anything until things blew up in my face enough
Mattias: "Thank God life is not anime"
Godly words were spoken
It is time for you to look inward and start asking yourself the big questions.
If life were likep anime, then would we call life, as it right now, anime ?
Clems First Yes.
How on Earth did she find you?
@Angel Aniki They meant find their school and house. Having a common friend doesn't necessarily mean that common friend knows either pieces of info (and it's implied they didn't considering his confusion)
@@dooplon5083 Dont know how, but if i have to guess, that common friend tell her the address and everything.
hitta.se
王家晧 wtf
Any pictures can contain subtle clues. Landmarks, shops, school uniforms, etc. Pin down general area, then school, follow him home, boom. She worked up the courage then visites.
"The first time I met someone on the internet"
*_Tinder and Grinder intensify_*
"and"?
Steven Matthews
STD’s
It's Grindr there's no er it's just an r.
Stop stalking me pls
2:34 Arrrre you winning son?
I’m 14, and I hate being socially awkward, but quarantine makes being socially awkward much easier in school since classes are literally in my computer, much less interaction with people who I barely talk to! Much less awkward conversations! Genius!
Edit: I think I found my problem, I realized that around friends, I always have this vibe of high self-esteem, and generally an extroverted guy, with only some conversations being awkward and.. unpleasant, but when I’m around strangers, or facing serious questions or situations that will affect me somehow, or a girl I like, I guess that’s where I’m rather shy, and nervous, it took me a few hours to confess to a girl I liked a few years ago, and even then, I had stuttered, and quite literally was the most shy kid in the room. I guess it means that I’m socially awkward when it comes to other people or serious circumstances or problems, while in a friendly or casual conversation, I’m confident, and bold?? I don’t understand myself at all..
RIP
Dude.. fix this or you gonna regret why you did not listen to that random youtube reply... or if you are a girl then it's a little less.. painful..
@@amaansiddiqui6262 dude I’m fine im not lonely i have friends okay?
@@vak.o I had friends until online school started one year ago and I haven’t seen any of them since except for every once and while when they turn their cameras on.
Youll never be not socially awkward if you continue to not talk to anyone
We've all experienced cringey moments... Well, more than moments. As someone with social anxiety disorder I could relate so hard. It's nice to know we're not alone with our clumsy, anxiety-driven mistakes, there are other people stumbling along as they learn how to do social stuff too.
Y E S
Feels good to not be alone
It is social phobia? I just learn that this is a mentally disorder...
Girl : hi..how are you
Me : im 14...
Girl : *BRUH*
That's so me
Me:
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"I think that whether you're in a friendly or romantic relationship, you can't have one person whose role is to push and help the other person. That's a bad relationship."
There was this cute girl with glasses that I really liked for the last seven years from the summer going into my high school year up until after graduating from college during the pandemic. Our interactions always felt really short whenever we met up. She was the one to get me out of my shell and she's gone out of her way to invite me to things in the past. In a way she brought me into her world and I did the same back. She came to my last track meet back in high school, she came to my high school graduation, she invited me to a track meet event at Bowie State University, she invited me to see her grandparents, we've gone to the movies a couple times too together. It was a long distance relationship too. She was also a year and a month older than me so she was already in her college so I was getting doubts put into my head about it not working out anyways, her seeing more people etc. When I was around her, I felt happy and I wanted to do more but our time just felt too short. When I first met her, everything felt lighthearted but I was still nervous and uncertain, but I also felt like I had courage to keep talking with her. I remember giving her a drawing I made of her before she had left for school. When she got it she told me she was very happy and she really appreciated it. That drawing took me almost a week to get through. When she invited me to see her grandparents, I felt very uncomfortable for a brief period. Meeting her grandparents was still nice but I felt so awkward there. I had questioned myself while I was there. Questioning why I was there, I don't belong here, questioning my sexuality etc. It was very scary, but she helped to relax me a bit. I remember sitting by the pool with her and just sitting and talking with her. Its gonna sound weird but I remember rubbing her feet a bit in the pool and she didn't stop me then. That day was strange to me but it meant a lot to me then. It was even more strange when her grandparents told me they heard a lot about me through her. I don't think very highly of myself at all. I see myself in a very negative point of view. I don't easily trust other people's words or actions because I think they'll just use it to hurt me later.
We had reconnected again post-quarantine and everything felt nice texting and talking on the phone again. She said she wanted to go to the movies with me again but she wanted to go to one that was close to where I live. So we planned it, she came downtown and we walked to the theater from there. I was nervous then because something felt very different compared to the last couple of times we had gone to the movies together. For one, we were walking together and at this time I hadn't seen her in about two-three years so I was happy to see her again but I held back a lot because I didn't trust myself enough around her nor some of the mistakes that happened in the past. When we were walking downtown to the theater, I remember so many people just watching us walk by and it was the scariest thing I've ever experienced before. I never felt so many people staring at me when I was walking with her. We were talking a bit too but I was so nervous that I didn't say too much back to her. There was a moment where she had brushed her hand against mine but I pulled back because I didn't know what she was doing. Fast forwarding a bit, we got to the movie theater. Watched the movie, The Batman btw. Its difficult to pay attention to the movie and her sitting next me. I remember she asked me this weird question if I wanted some vaseline and just said no. She offered me gum too and I told her that I was fine. After the movie ended, we were just chilling in the lobby, sitting down at a table and we were just doing some light talking about the movie and what not. I remember asking her that day what did she think of me and she told me that I was cool, calm and quiet. Then I told her she was goofy and cute. I remember her smiling a lot and almost blushing at me. She even looked away a bit from me. I had asked her about the vaseline from earlier and wanted to know what it was for. She played dumb and said she didn't know. So I asked her if I could see it and she pulled it out of her purse. It felt really warm and dipping my finger in it made me lose my mind almost. I couldn't understand why it was so warm. Then she gave me this really seductive look, she was looking at my lips and she was biting hers. I had asked her if she was okay because she was looking at me for a while like that and she said she was fine but she wanted me to do something. It looked like she wanted me to kiss her but I didn't know it then. I just thought she was being weird. I was about to use the vaseline but then I felt there were more eyes around us. especially from these two women that were sitting a couple tables away from us. They were looking at us the whole time, smiling and laughing and it made me uncomfortable. I said the worst thing possible to this girl, this girl I spent so much time with, I told her I didn't trust her. I told her I didn't want her to talk to me. I felt incredibly uncomfortable. I had wiped off the vaseline too. Her parents came to pick her up and they offered to drive me back home but at first I refused then her mom insisted that I come with them plus it was pretty crowded that night downtown too. I agreed but I felt like trash when they drove me home. I didn't hug this girl when I got home nor did I offer to let her see my parents. What I said then was so terrible. I screwed up something so badly because I can't stand when people look at me like that. I really did like this girl a lot and I knew that she felt the same but I constantly sabotage myself because I don't think I'll ever be good enough for her or any other girl that was close to her. I did so many things wrong that day and I wished I could redo that day. That day has been playing in my head on loop for a year now and I'm only now starting to get out of it. I tried to reach back to the girl, but I haven't been able to call her and just talk thoroughly about this thing. Our texting and calls shutdown by a lot too. I did apologize to her through text but it took me so long to say something and it never felt right to text it. She did respond back and she said I didn't need to apologize and she was sorry for not taking my calls. I'm just not cut out for this stuff. I've always been ignored, ghosted, teased, hit or pushed out by the girls. That's why I don't try or even want to try with girls I'm interested in. I always felt isolated from the boys growing up too so I just never fit into anything they did. For the first time, I found a girl that accepted me and I screwed it up because I can't love myself enough to feel like this is okay. Maybe one day I'll feel like this is okay but I know I have a lot to work on. This is a very difficult lesson for me to learn too. I'm sorry for this long story but I appreciate whoever reads.
This is such a relatable story, I’ve had a number of similarly horrifically cringe things happen with the few girls who liked me in high school, so I get it. One that I really was crushing on hard for a couple years basically came right out and said she wanted to fuck me, and I just froze. I couldn’t even respond. I then just pretended she never said it. Eventually she moved on but I continued to crush on her for years.
Another girl later invited herself over and we were chilling in my room watching movies and she looked at me with that look. She wanted me to kiss her. My reaction was a surge of panic and picked up a pillow and lightly covered her face. I guess I thought it might have been interpreted as playful but she clearly felt hurt and offended by it. We sat in a really uncomfortable silence for what felt like an eternity and then she left. A while later we hung out a couple more times but I couldn’t get over my insecurities.
I just had no understanding of myself or them or the wider expectations of society. I grew very depressed and got involved with the rave scene and did a lot of psychedelics which I took both as an escape and as a kind of psychotherapy. In the end I just ended up more confused and prolonged my problems, which go beyond just failing at interacting with women.
It’s only now that I’m in my late 20’s and, since the pandemic began, have cut out the drug use that I’ve gained more of an understanding of myself and more confidence. Learning a lot about psychology through RUclips has helped a lot tbh, along with more life experiences. I feel like I’m finally actually processing my emotions and integrating my mind with my body if that makes sense. I feel like I might actually worthy of a woman’s interest now, which is a huge step forward.
Really nice story, you should send her this. There might be a chance you get hurt, but its worth doing it nontheless. At least she will understand
I’m so glad I read every word of this. The sweetest story, I hope all works out though. I would also love it if you reached out to her again, sending her this message. She obviously means so much to you. You’ve been through so much and if she knew, I think she would still have her caring heart in her response. I’m so sorry that most of us girls are so hard to approach, if this girl isn’t the nice girl she was before and ghosts you for some reason. You just tell yourself that you can grow from this, you’ve learned a lot so far, there’s more to learn along the way. I honestly hope that no matter what, if you get this girl back that you hold on to her, cherish her. If not, I pray that you find the most sweet and caring girl. Because you deserve so much! You have such a sweet heart. So many girls want your heart, TRUST ME ON THAT ONE.
My boyfriend and I both liked eachother as well, so awkward at first. We were also friends before we got together, made it a bit easier. As time went on, we got more comfortable.
Please never give up! You got this, no matter if you want to get a girl still or not. I believe in you!😁🤗
Nice Reddit karma. But if it isn’t fake, you are a fool. Not even because you messed up, but because your were simping around for 7 YEARS. 7 YEARS!!Whichever spineless person does that deserves what’s coming for them. Why pain yourself so unnecessarily? Are you going to simp around when the next girl comes for 8 years next? And this is coming from someone who hated themselves most their life, and is extremely shy and introverted and still recognizes folly of your actions. But seeing as how your screw up can easily be discarded(you didn’t indicate that you u genuinely tried an attempt to take back your word and move forward), and the 7 years of sitting, nothing would have come of it anyway. Your screw up on that day doesn’t indicate to me at all that any potential relation is completely over, however idling yet another year on it defiantly does. What you said that day wasn’t your screw up, it’s understandable in fact, people have said and done far worse things and resolved their issues. How you handled the situation as a whole before and after is the screw up.
Are those actual msn notification sounds? I'm getting feelings
Burda türk bulucagimi hic dusunmezdim
@@skyewinnd :D
Vay anasını
Cockroaches confirmed 😰
“I’m coming to your school tomorrow”
*-She forgot to mention she was bringing her AR-15-*
I thought that was obligatory in America
Herself
Good luck breaking into my school, non-enrolled students are not allowed in. That's a good thing about America, randos on the internet can't just walk into your school
Nick Right yeah. I was comfused
@@Nick-lx4fo yet the enrolled students exist and...
For times like this, RUclips should have some kind of translator for comments. Or I should just learn every language in the world lmfao
use fooview
Fr-
But there is probably an app for ot i donna
да я согласен))
Google translate.
The shoe falling off part was totally relatable
"A girl that changes school to spend more time with you"
Not relatable
분명 내가 왜 들어왔지라고 생각하고 보고있는 한국인 있을거야
알고리즘
엌
우유보고 들어옴
물론 알고리즘으로
@@jammin5359 헐 저도 우유로 시작ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
@@jammin5359 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ아 개공감
I’m 24 and still get terrible anxiety when in proximity to women I don’t know. I honestly think I needd to get help at this point lol
You need to talk to a psychologist, it helped me too
Denmo social
Make friends with a lesbian.
the future seems really bleak for me. don't mean to sound edgy or anything but i'm already in my mid 20s and i spent most of my life alone and not talking to anyone. and i doubt i'll get out of it by talking to psychologist or any of that.
@@cocopus get a hobby that involves talking and being with other people, go out a lot and exercise or something just get out of the house honestly thats what helped me the most
2:45 Well I’m a girl. I saw this. I’m confused. And scared.
I’m a 14 year old girl, and I’m afraid of boys for literally the same reason.
Small world, am I right?
Edit: A year later, turns out I actually just have anxiety. Nice 👍
so guys and girls are afraid of each other
No
@@iGhostr no to what?
@Kejriwal Jindabaad im 32 and im still afraid of girls too
When I was 12/14, I was afraid of boys too cause I've always been very shy, but it is a thing that you need to face, otherwise nothing will really change. It will be hard, and things will get awkward sometimes but it's normal, you're gonna be alright and learn through your experiences. Also, talking to a psychologist can help, I did that and It helped me a lot
What I’ve learned from PewDiePie, Roomie, and Matthias:
Swedes have American accents???
there’s a lot of american influence in our culture, so i think thats why ^^
A lot of countries that don't speak english as the first language use American culture to learn
At school we're taught British English but then we go home and consume American media.
The US has had some pretty solid cultural domination going on (at least in the English speaking sphere) for decades by this point, a ~lot~ of English accents are Americanising.
It's a little depressing to me seeing Australians talk like American landmarks and history have more emotional meaning to them than Australian ones, but it's pretty hard to miss.
nah, lots of swedes can barely speak english. Generalising that based off the internet is not a bright thing to do.
"I became so afraid of girls I became gay"
Is that how it works...?
worst comment i ever seen
@@savary5050 no. You became asexual. attracted to nothing
@@darthvader9173 no to both of you. You could be born bi and have a preference, or born allosexual and have trauma that kills your sexual attraction (which I guess could make you ace but this is VERY unusual, trauma does funky stuff and won't affect people the same way. I wouldn't say being scared of girls is trauma), but mostly people are just born as what they are. Og comment is a joke, it does not work that way
@@a-bird-lover how can you be born bi or gay? You can be born transgender but not bi or gay
I like the “are ya winnin son?” reference, great videos man :)
아니 우유도 그렇고 왜 알고리즘은 나에게 이 유튜버의 영상을 뜨워주는거지
wtf
ㅇㅈ
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
재미써
나돈데
“You can’t have one person whose role is yo push and help the other person. That’s a bad relationship.”
I’ve messed up. I’ve messed up so hard and I regret everything I did in the past 6 months.
So same. Two year relationship ended, because of me. That hits so hard. Thanks RUclips for reminding me.
You Should've loaded a save mate, increase her relationshipoint, bc if you collect all the ending there's a secret ending that will give you the answer of "The meaning of life"
Nah, that requires Matthias to go through all the possible routes of his life to unlock. Doesn't sound worth it.
Agreed, some people doesn't have motivation to get all the possibilities. As long I doesn't get to beastiality ending I'm fine
you sound like you know a lot about the many worlds interpretation of quantum mechanics
@@aleandrew fuck! i got the beastiality and necrophilia ending, should i be worried?
pretty similar to what i had, i had a crush on this girl that was and still is way out of my league.
we were 13 and she kept hugging me randomly and drawing on my hands in class and i was completely oblivious to this because i thought she would never want to go out with me, but now years later, she obviously had a crush on me.
for 3 years in school i wanted to ask her out but never got the courage to do so, she eventually asked me out but i was also really awkward, we met twice(she had changed schools for the last year) and it was the most awkward "dates" both of us have ever had, i was completely silent for the majority of it and even asked how she was doing at school, like grade wise, yea that's gonna get her going lol
then she met someone else and we have had stuff here and there yada yada
but good thing, we are now both single at 23 and going out on friday lol
Maybe you still got a chance with her!!
Update us bro
I think a lot of us guys have all been either afraid, nervous, or uncomfortable around girls.
my experience was caused by insecurity. It really is destructive, it was such a petty thing to be insecure about and now in constant regret about what happened. feelsbadman
When i was 14 .5girls came to my house and take me out for dinner. I legit scared but still keep my cool lol
Why are people scared of girls, i get even more happy around girls, even tho they don't like me.
@@Beeedolbh it’s a stage that goes away
I think it is not portrayed in media and there's almost no videos about this.