I just started watching the show and I can honestly say it is very insightful and therapeutic for me as well. I can relate to some of these discussions.
The first couple: if it starts RAGGEDY it will end RAGGEDY. The grass ain't always greener on the other side. You reap what you sow. I feel bad for her because he doesn't sound like he loves her at all. Not to mention the fact that he used her for money from the gate.
She wasn’t so smart giving a man money over and over. You can’t buy love. Also he said it was more lust than love. I don’t know but I think she will regret her decision to cheat and leave her husband
It's time for this son to get his own place,She is literally abusing this young man , verbally & physically. He needs the guidance and conditional love he didn't get from his mom. She is bitter because of losses and bitterness is never a good thing while raising kids,you end up taking it out on them and the alcohol abuse makes it worse, he stood up because for the first time ,he found his voice . No child is going to grow up respecting an abusive parent. I wish I could be this young man's Godmother ,he just needs guidance. 💕
As a mother of 3, I'm going to say the mom needs some intense therapy. Some young man broke her heart, and she is still living in the past. She is broken and without help, she will be all alone, the angry cat lady 😣
At that point, I would have thanked Karamo for trying, and I would have told my mom I love you, but I give up trying. I am gone like you want me to be.
The problem is that there's too much estrogen (Jaquan) and too much testosterone (Gina) living in the household. Moreover, Jaquan's self-esteem is shattered and battered from living with a physically and verbally abusive parent. Nevertheless, Jaquan needs to bounce and get his own spot. He's too co-dependent and needs distance between himself and his abuser so that he can live his truth peacefully. Hopefully, Jaqaun received counseling post-show.
@@RN-DNPthe problem is his mother is abusive and he learned to be on defense all the time. There’s no such thing as too much testosterone or estrogen living in a house. That’s nonsense
Poor baby! I feel so bad and sad for him! He’s really, really hurt! She is mean, bitter and abusive! She’s hurting too and grieving but damn hitting him with all kinds of stuff and breaking his trophies! Unacceptable! She doesn’t want to take accountability! Hopefully she sees this show and recognizes her faults for real!
I guess he figures why should he do that when he could just be an opportunist who exploit his ex-wife; since her self-worth is so low that she would do anything to buy his love back?
Her hitting him out of frustration is toxic.....the mother isn't the only one who has loss....they are both toxic he needs to move away from his mother and she needs space to heal
He doesn’t respect nor trust her smh. She basically bought him and it appears he’s feeling like if you could do it to your ex-husband, you would do it to me.. just messy!!!
One thing I learned over the years is that Black parents absolutely don’t understand that your relationship with your children should change as they get older. 5 or 35 they want to treat you the same. My daughter 17 now and I changed the way I parent her not my love for her. Never called her out her name, spanked her once her entire 17 years. We are very close and respect each other. Hitting your child with a case or skillet because they got smart is crazy.
This is so true!!! I had it with the constant disrespect from my mom when I was 35 and became estranged from my parents for a few years. We have a new relationship now and it’s much better.
Ewwwww Chile🤦🏽♀️ what in the world is happening with these parent child relationships! This is exhausting! My childhood wasn’t perfect but I couldn’t imagine growing up like a lot of these stories we keep seeing and I definitely can’t imagine being that way with my own child or my grand baby! What in the whole hell is happening!
This is sad. When you think the grass is greener on the other side. Thinking life is going to be better with this man. You left your husband for this. You repeat what sew.
Fred was looking for fun, he didn't expect all that came with it. Cheating and unsafe sex has consequences. Denying the child wasn't going to change that.
Big and simple woman. She thinks she has some prize, but in reality, she looks silly. May her ex husband and his ex wife get many laughs out of this trainwreck. Poor innocent baby being born into this.
The lady in the first segment was genuinely honest, but outside voices and the partner will always approach it like "a cheater is always a cheater". Her partner cheated on his spouse too, but you never once heard her question his loyalty to her.
"That questions my integrity my character who I am" Ma'am did you forget how yall got together in the first place? Your integrity character and who you are has already been in question that goes for both of yall. He is accusing because 1 he is cheating and 2 he doesnt trust her because he doesnt trust himself because of how they got together and he likes playing with her head and the control.
Fred should have told her everything he said on stage BEFORE she left her husband or laid it on her because if he had she would have stayed with her husband regardless of how unhappy she was.
Sounds like he is worse than your husband who you left to be with him. He will never Trust you because of the way he got you. Maybe you should take time to be alone stop jumping into relationships 😢
I think she is one of them that is just intrigued by black men, and she wanted one by all means necessary...so this is what she got...she did not have standards or self respect for herself or her marriage
The grass ain’t always greener on the other side I think she should have stayed with her husband now she with a man that isn’t in love with her but with her for convenience
I really felt for the second mom in this episode. There is a part of her that is pushing him away because she is scared she's going to lose him anyway. She's emotionally in a perpetual state of loss and she's just preparing for it. Trying to make it hurt less.
IMO, she keeps hitting him because of his size. To keep him in line and to make it clear who's in charge. She has to learn how to communicate better, without using her hands. Once he starts being disrespectful, just walk away. Silence is deadlier than any physical abuse!
He has 0 respect for her and obviously doesn’t really know her. Can be real about her but not real about himself. So, ur still talking & getting money from your ex wife? TF! He think’s everything is a joke
This young man he needs to move out and have a place of his own he needs his own space his mother got some issues and she don't want to face it or accept that she have an issue so she's in denial and he needs to have a place of his own so that way he can go and get away from off of this arguing and fussing and you know it don't make no sense as mother and son finding and everything then when you get drunk you lash on him he's not your punching bag he's your child
He sorry to. Why get married? Both cheats, he said it didn't matter if he did or didn't???? This is a whole human daughter ❤️ and Beautiful ❤️ Tye the past in a bow and move forward raise this beautiful baby girl 🌹
From the beginning he act as though she was all into him, the feelings weren’t mutual. His wife divorced him, not the other way around. He didn’t even want a baby with her. She wants to be rewarded for divorcing her husband, ma’am you were trifling period! So don’t sit there acting like ur this great woman, you knew he was married too. She spent that money and that what pulled him in. Karma maam!
While spending $20k on a man, I hope she has her children’s college tuition saved! Just pure ignorance! I’d rather be alone, before I have to pay someone! He can’t even say he loves her! ☹️🤦🏽♀️
I hope she finds herself and leave him. He is using her, he do not love or care for her. He uses women for his financial gain. She really do not need him in her life. She may have messed up with her husband but was honest not to continue to have both of two worlds. MOVE ON. Great advice to him for future, his daughter can be in that same position next 20 yrs.
First Story: What a disgusting man (1) He cheats on his wife (2) Stays in contact with his ex-wife (3) Mistreats women (4) And thinks his daughter will be fine just by him telling her right from wrong. This relationship is a joke.
If I could take you in my arms and let you feel real love from a mama. No matter what happened in your life you can not take it on your child 😢😢😢. Be some feelings mama
To leave your husband of TWENTY YEARSSS!!! & YOUR FAMILY for a temporary feeling is absurd…for her to even think Fred was gonna take her serious 😩she showed her character & knows she’ll do it to him!!..Fred was there for a good time not a long time lmaooo 🤷🏽♀️😫she definitely got wtf she deserved!!..& if she wasn’t happy she could’ve at least gave that man that much respect to at least communicate that to him smh that really shows the 20 years meant absolutely nothing to her!!
His ex wife is salty asf because she can't have children and thats a hard pill to swallow. The father also has doubts because of this very reason. He has also questioned his manhood and I get it but he also has that thought in his negative feelings about it because of how they got together on top of being married to a person for so long and not produce, yeah understandable insecurity. I hope this is his baby. Let me skip this long commercial and find out. 😂😂😂😂
😳She left her husband of 22yrs to be with a 2bit husler😨
exactly
Sad but True
That's doesn't want her
😂😂😂😂
Karamo has one of the realest, most therapeutic talk shows ever. You deserve recognition in a big way.
I just started watching the show and I can honestly say it is very insightful and therapeutic for me as well. I can relate to some of these discussions.
👍🏼I agree.. he is a good counselor
Karamo Is a Brilliant!!!! Talk host !!!!!
Yes! I agree and I’m sorry y’all but I gotta say it, the kid in the second story is a real life “Cleveland Brown Jr” 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Nah, he NEVER holds the women accountable for for these bad behaviors towards the fellows!!
I love the way Karamo got the first guy together…I hate when men leech off of women!!
Woman do it alot im not mad at him
@@JumanlifestyleIt's disgusting when anyone does it; whether male or female.
It’s even worse when women ALLOW it!!! I feel bad for her (slightly) BUT, I’m also NOT upset with him. She’s enabling him, and their both cheaters.
Exactly...@@thetaureanmisanthrope
I know that's right !!!@@thetaureanmisanthrope
He doubts being the father because she cheated with him .He is looking at it like you're not going to do to me what you did with me.
this is the one. THANK YOU!!
Absolutely 💯
exactly! lol... she wasc"married" when she was sleeping with him! why would he trust her...and she act like she don't have a clue why??🤔
Lmao right!
Fr people think you cheat one time then be with that person it’s gonna be roses but it’s gonna come with trust issues on both sides
The first couple: if it starts RAGGEDY it will end RAGGEDY. The grass ain't always greener on the other side. You reap what you sow. I feel bad for her because he doesn't sound like he loves her at all. Not to mention the fact that he used her for money from the gate.
Absolutely...I bet it's his child!
She wasn’t so smart giving a man money over and over. You can’t buy love. Also he said it was more lust than love. I don’t know but I think she will regret her decision to cheat and leave her husband
I agree except feeling sorry for her. Whatever happens that’s her own fault because they both were wrong.🤷🏽♀️
The 2nd session is like watching Precious Movie all over again 😢😢
😂
Yep.
That’s movie was traumatizing because she was SA by her mom and her boyfriend.
It's time for this son to get his own place,She is literally abusing this young man , verbally & physically. He needs the guidance and conditional love he didn't get from his mom. She is bitter because of losses and bitterness is never a good thing while raising kids,you end up taking it out on them and the alcohol abuse makes it worse, he stood up because for the first time ,he found his voice . No child is going to grow up respecting an abusive parent. I wish I could be this young man's Godmother ,he just needs guidance. 💕
As a mother of 3, I'm going to say the mom needs some intense therapy. Some young man broke her heart, and she is still living in the past. She is broken and without help, she will be all alone, the angry cat lady 😣
At that point, I would have thanked Karamo for trying, and I would have told my mom I love you, but I give up trying. I am gone like you want me to be.
If my 6ft son jumped up in my chest like that fellow did to his mother he would have ended up in the fetal position.
The problem is that there's too much estrogen (Jaquan) and too much testosterone (Gina) living in the household. Moreover, Jaquan's self-esteem is shattered and battered from living with a physically and verbally abusive parent. Nevertheless, Jaquan needs to bounce and get his own spot. He's too co-dependent and needs distance between himself and his abuser so that he can live his truth peacefully. Hopefully, Jaqaun received counseling post-show.
@@RN-DNPthe problem is his mother is abusive and he learned to be on defense all the time. There’s no such thing as too much testosterone or estrogen living in a house. That’s nonsense
Poor baby! I feel so bad and sad for him! He’s really, really hurt! She is mean, bitter and abusive! She’s hurting too and grieving but damn hitting him with all kinds of stuff and breaking his trophies! Unacceptable! She doesn’t want to take accountability! Hopefully she sees this show and recognizes her faults for real!
Fred looks able enough to get his own money.
I guess he figures why should he do that when he could just be an opportunist who exploit his ex-wife; since her self-worth is so low that she would do anything to buy his love back?
@@thetaureanmisanthrope not just his ex wife but her too
He thinks women "owes" him bc he thinks he is this handsome man. Better get a new mirror, Fred.
Why Fred always need money from women
@@Coach2Breal Because opportunists are always looking for someone to use. They have no reason for being who they are; they just aren't good people.
Her hitting him out of frustration is toxic.....the mother isn't the only one who has loss....they are both toxic he needs to move away from his mother and she needs space to heal
Lady you put yourself in that trick, and got trick by him. He used you for what he could get😂😂
He doesn’t respect nor trust her smh. She basically bought him and it appears he’s feeling like if you could do it to your ex-husband, you would do it to me.. just messy!!!
Mind you, he did the same. He was married for 22 years as well.
One thing I learned over the years is that Black parents absolutely don’t understand that your relationship with your children should change as they get older. 5 or 35 they want to treat you the same. My daughter 17 now and I changed the way I parent her not my love for her. Never called her out her name, spanked her once her entire 17 years. We are very close and respect each other. Hitting your child with a case or skillet because they got smart is crazy.
This is so true!!! I had it with the constant disrespect from my mom when I was 35 and became estranged from my parents for a few years. We have a new relationship now and it’s much better.
How cheaters ever expect to have a trusting relationship is beyond me
Baffling as hell…
😂😂😂😂right
This is the type of man that is unappreciative. She should have stayed with her first husband, especially if there were no problems.
There was a problem. She was cheating tf
@@MsBossy2UBustas😂
Karma at its finest
Karamo needs all the flowers 💐 🌹🪻🌷🌻🌼🌸🌹🪷
I don't know why they giving this man their money 😮😮😮
Why do men give money to women
They are buying him!!
No love
lmao she allowed another dude to trickbag her out of her marriage and now look at her. lmao i never pity these types.
Me neither 😅
This is her karma.... you never leave a man for another man. Especially for a man like this
Ewwwww Chile🤦🏽♀️ what in the world is happening with these parent child relationships! This is exhausting! My childhood wasn’t perfect but I couldn’t imagine growing up like a lot of these stories we keep seeing and I definitely can’t imagine being that way with my own child or my grand baby! What in the whole hell is happening!
This is sad. When you think the grass is greener on the other side. Thinking life is going to be better with this man. You left your husband for this. You repeat what sew.
The grass was greener on the other side, until she stepped on the other end, because it wasn’t her grass to step on. It was somebody else’s. 🤩
Real! Definitely Reaping what she sowed!
@@lindavenable3475how was the grass greener when that was a cheating man. His wife, is a victim
The grass is greener where you water it.
"Yeah, and I still cook with it today" comment from Mom almost took me the hell out. And she was so serious with it too🤣🤣😂
Example of a relationship doomed from the start 😮
Exactly
Fred was looking for fun, he didn't expect all that came with it. Cheating and unsafe sex has consequences. Denying the child wasn't going to change that.
Karamo is the best. He is just so smooth and sweet we he's speaking.
Why is He playing Her like this on national television, I bet behind the scenes it was a entire different story. Smfh 😖
Big mistake. Never walk away from your family for a man.
Big and simple woman. She thinks she has some prize, but in reality, she looks silly. May her ex husband and his ex wife get many laughs out of this trainwreck. Poor innocent baby being born into this.
She hits him hes nervous i mean idgaf how big he is using objects like pots vases and pans is crazy
1st couple: she cheated and left her 1st h6sband to be with rhis man,.... and she expected for them to have a blessed union? REALLY?😲
When she tried to throw his ex wife under the bus, and karamo hit her with "yep same way you do" 😭
😂
Right, that pi$$ęd me off! She wants sooo badly to believe that she’s better than that woman. 🙄
God bless the boy and his mommma I hope he gets the relationship and love from his momma that he so desperately wants and needs ❤️
But you ARE that woman! You cheated on your husband for a minute before leaving.
Dad definitely deserves grace , for doing the job of both parents
The lady in the first segment was genuinely honest, but outside voices and the partner will always approach it like "a cheater is always a cheater". Her partner cheated on his spouse too, but you never once heard her question his loyalty to her.
"That questions my integrity my character who I am"
Ma'am did you forget how yall got together in the first place? Your integrity character and who you are has already been in question that goes for both of yall.
He is accusing because 1 he is cheating and 2 he doesnt trust her because he doesnt trust himself because of how they got together and he likes playing with her head and the control.
Fred should have told her everything he said on stage BEFORE she left her husband or laid it on her because if he had she would have stayed with her husband regardless of how unhappy she was.
She didn’t want her husband. It would have been another man.
If you didn’t use protection then you wanted to get her pregnant.
Right
Sounds like he is worse than your husband who you left to be with him. He will never Trust you because of the way he got you. Maybe you should take time to be alone stop jumping into relationships 😢
I think she is one of them that is just intrigued by black men, and she wanted one by all means necessary...so this is what she got...she did not have standards or self respect for herself or her marriage
Don’t think he’s not going to cheat on you 😂😂
Y’all ever seen The Cleveland Show? The son 😂😂😂😂😂 he sound just like the son 😂
Omg😂😂😂😂 I was prepared to go through every comment... cause I knew I couldn't be the only one to think this😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣⚰️
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He do 😂
The grass ain’t always greener on the other side I think she should have stayed with her husband now she with a man that isn’t in love with her but with her for convenience
He don't think he the daddy because he don't Wana be, he is solely with her to not have to do a damn thing unless he wants to and not a second before.
She beat the fight out of that young man 😢😢😢
He was shocked into fatherhood' you play with fire you get burn
Fred EVADED that LOVE question to the end! Never did he say he love her!🤦🏽♀️
The masculine mom has her son feminine
When the devils in your house cause confusion
I love Karamo. Girl dont give this man no mo money 😂 Right!
See , golddiggers aren't only in female form
I really felt for the second mom in this episode. There is a part of her that is pushing him away because she is scared she's going to lose him anyway. She's emotionally in a perpetual state of loss and she's just preparing for it. Trying to make it hurt less.
She left the husband because she is cheater. And now she feeling the wrath called Karma. This isn't over she will cry to sleep every night.
Some women will choose any kind of relationship he can't have a conversation so why would you choose anything and have a baby with him out of all men
That relationship is gonna crash and burn
As it should
Karamo is doing the Lords work. He deserves credit for the families he has helped restore.
How do you play house when you're married😑
The momma wanted to fight her son so bad smh
Him saying “I’m sorry big dog” says it all💀
39:55 “Who you telling’ me?” Love it!
The ex wife and ex husband should be CACKLING over this mess.
This man Karamo is a refreshing always calm i want to aspire this calm. He truly cares about ppl
IMO, she keeps hitting him because of his size. To keep him in line and to make it clear who's in charge. She has to learn how to communicate better, without using her hands. Once he starts being disrespectful, just walk away. Silence is deadlier than any physical abuse!
Karamo you're the world's best love ur show from Nigeria
He has 0 respect for her and obviously doesn’t really know her. Can be real about her but not real about himself. So, ur still talking & getting money from your ex wife? TF! He think’s everything is a joke
The ex is upset. The baby is his.
no one else caught Karamo's read???? "lil raggedy boy" when i tell you i hollered when he said that and it went right over ole boy's head
I really love your show AND you! I hope you last as long as Maury did. :)
This young man he needs to move out and have a place of his own he needs his own space his mother got some issues and she don't want to face it or accept that she have an issue so she's in denial and he needs to have a place of his own so that way he can go and get away from off of this arguing and fussing and you know it don't make no sense as mother and son finding and everything then when you get drunk you lash on him he's not your punching bag he's your child
He sorry to. Why get married? Both cheats, he said it didn't matter if he did or didn't???? This is a whole human daughter ❤️ and Beautiful ❤️ Tye the past in a bow and move forward raise this beautiful baby girl 🌹
She is with the wrong man? He is not in love with her at all because he has his own issues and throwing it on her,
She made a horrible mistake with this man. I feel sorry for her other kids.
Pimping ain't easy 😂
If I was the ex wife. I wouldn't be a part of his drama and wouldn't care. I'm the ex.
From the beginning he act as though she was all into him, the feelings weren’t mutual. His wife divorced him, not the other way around. He didn’t even want a baby with her. She wants to be rewarded for divorcing her husband, ma’am you were trifling period! So don’t sit there acting like ur this great woman, you knew he was married too. She spent that money and that what pulled him in. Karma maam!
If you start a relationship with infidelity.... cheating will always be the first place the mind goes when anything happens. DUH.
This guy has so many excuses I am just tired because he isn't all that. What clarification when he was not using protection. Men
The first man is a MOOCH.
.the dude of the last story sounds like Clevelant's son. lol same outfit as well. 😂 😂
😂😂
While spending $20k on a man, I hope she has her children’s college tuition saved! Just pure ignorance! I’d rather be alone, before I have to pay someone! He can’t even say he loves her! ☹️🤦🏽♀️
He got me in tears. I feel his pain.
I am praying. for you Jaquan! it will get better for you I believe it
I hope she finds herself and leave him. He is using her, he do not love or care for her. He uses women for his financial gain. She really do not need him in her life. She may have messed up with her husband but was honest not to continue to have both of two worlds. MOVE ON. Great advice to him for future, his daughter can be in that same position next 20 yrs.
Sounds like the ex-wife wants him back. She big hurt.
Soooo REAAAALLLL KARAMO!!!!😂
First Story:
What a disgusting man
(1) He cheats on his wife
(2) Stays in contact with his ex-wife
(3) Mistreats women
(4) And thinks his daughter will be fine just by him telling her right from wrong.
This relationship is a joke.
First guy is a user and she fell for the hokey dokey…He trapped her with a child and now he wants to ship out.
And she wants to be with him???? He's a real 🤡
The lady in red is beautiful!
He’s looking for a way out. He’s a user ands she’s being used
And he think it’s a flex to say he didn’t love her and it was the benefits…She just smiling and still wants him😌😩 #thiscantbelife
If I could take you in my arms and let you feel real love from a mama. No matter what happened in your life you can not take it on your child 😢😢😢. Be some feelings mama
First couple is crazy. This man is using her and still using her. He doesn’t love her or the child. He appears to be a drunk.
She was a married woman and he was a married man?????? Who is the bigger cheater???? He was playing her
He is funny how he mentioned she spent money on him smh he is a user
To leave your husband of TWENTY YEARSSS!!! & YOUR FAMILY for a temporary feeling is absurd…for her to even think Fred was gonna take her serious 😩she showed her character & knows she’ll do it to him!!..Fred was there for a good time not a long time lmaooo 🤷🏽♀️😫she definitely got wtf she deserved!!..& if she wasn’t happy she could’ve at least gave that man that much respect to at least communicate that to him smh that really shows the 20 years meant absolutely nothing to her!!
23:00-23:08 ma ghaaad i LOVE Karamo! 😩😍
His ex wife is salty asf because she can't have children and thats a hard pill to swallow. The father also has doubts because of this very reason. He has also questioned his manhood and I get it but he also has that thought in his negative feelings about it because of how they got together on top of being married to a person for so long and not produce, yeah understandable insecurity. I hope this is his baby. Let me skip this long commercial and find out. 😂😂😂😂
In the second story, the son sounds like Cleveland junior from the Cleveland show
Best episode ever
Love your shows Karamo
Danielle, you r a lousy judge of character ! I'm sorry to have to say this to u . JSMDH This man is a straight-up PLAYER !!!