That’s care and I got to the point years ago I don’t want a African American woman in my head anymore only a man women have negative thoughts I was getting some tracks glued in and I couldn’t even where it from Thursday evening until Saturday morning
@@delilahsorensen855 no, they could threat it like a Korean hair but they didn't. I'm Japanese and I go to Koreans salons a lot. They don't do that normally. People don't use curly /afro hair here, like never. So they usually do it straight, flat Idk what the English word for it. Even perm is different than your perm here. We only love to get some "slight" waves. But I've never seen a Japanese or Korean hair salon do Afro hair ever in their lives and I live in Tokyo normally. It's a big touristic city. Even they don't do, Koreans don't do that either. But still they try to make her best and managed to NOT RUIN it. I have a black friend and he got a haircare in a different country and they ruined his curls it took to long to make them nice again. Koreans and Japanese people are too passionate about everything they do
You have such beautiful hair! I was afraid they were gonna straighten it! I'm so happy they styled it, even if they weren't experienced with your hair type. It came out beautiful!
They don't necessarily need to learn. Korean and Asian hair is usually straight. They have no obligation to learn how to deal with other types but it's very sweet how much she tried@@user-ayiy824jbd
Literally! I agree 💯! I came to the comments to say the same thing! But I'm glad I found your comment! I second this! Spread understanding and love xxx
the thing about this is that normally, we DO this already. when we complain it’s BECAUSE of something egregious, like how black hair is still treated in hollywood. that differs from this, because there was care and respect that went into everything; that’s why we commend it. basically just don’t get it twisted! we say what we mean and we say it WHEN we mean it.
Oh she was focused. Even if she didn't know how to style you, she still gave a beautiful service! It looked so healthy, and so relaxing. Good job 👍🏿🩷🩷🩷
I’m so glad she didn’t brush or try to straighten it. She was very respectful without knowing what to do exactly. So glad you had such a wonderful experience.
Why did I get choked up a little? It's just so admirable and nice that she tried. She didn't turn her away and gave her client the best she could even without the expertise. Beautiful.
Why do so many keep pointing out that she tried? She successfully treated her hair and styled it in its natural form., the fro came out perfect it was actually cute.
I LOVE that she chose to lightly blow dry and scrunch sections of your fro to “style” it. That is proof that you can know absolutely nothing about black hair and not damage it!!!
I'm not a beautician, but I would have to assume that when you learn how to do hair, you learn about different types. Not to the same extent as the one that you see most often. They'll teach you something about other types for the experience if nothing else.
@@andromedaloveless1120 yeah they teach you principles but nothing specific to coarse or tightly coiled hair. My sister graduated recently from cosmetology school and she really had to advocate for herself (she has a texture similar to this) during the course to have her texture of hair addressed in lessons. They tend to focus on silkier and looser textures of hair during schooling. Most beauticians learn about other textures from experience, post graduation. You’d be surprised how many clients with this texture of hair end up with severe damage to their hair simply bc of lack of education mixed with hubris on the stylist’s part.🫣
@@andromedaloveless1120 since there is such a small percentage of the population there with this kind of hair most are not really taught how to style it at all. they probably learn about how curlier hair tends to be more prone to damage and breakage with heat treatment but thats likely the extent of it. I see a lot of videos where the korean stylists are actively being taught by their POC clients how to handle the hair texture cause theyve never even touched something like 4c hair.
@@NaishiYTbrush it for what? It just causes unnecessary breakage and it not going to straighten the hair. You get better results using your hands and fingers that way you can control untangling the knots.
Despite not knowing how to style your hair, they did pretty good all things considered. They did their best to fix it nice and your hair is sooo cute! I'd love to see you with an afro more often tbh
I'm glad she didn't try to straighten your hair and focused on scalp treatments and you came out with a nice fro,even not knowing how to work with Black hair.
Okay but that Afro was froing. She wasn't just playing in your hair. She did okay. Can you imagine if she actually had the knowledge of doing black hair? 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 Wow!!!!!!!
Girl they jacked UP her hair and you know it. Her hair is already damaged pretty badly but that lopsided afro with no moisturizing products they let her leave with is not giving.
@@CanineGrowTimeso.. what is that product being scrunched into the head during the styling process… also if you’ve ever used Korean epidermal care then you know how amazing it is. I bet the shampoo alone moisturized and repaired damage in her hair!! 😂
So cool! Love how you both were great. You didn't blame her but complimented her and she did her best and kept you comfy. There are places that don't know how to deal with regular curly hair without straightening it so this is really nice!
I love that she played to her strengths when it came to styling. She didn’t know how to style it but she had enough care to make sure you looked good. Shout out to her!
I LOVE the way she wasn’t afraid of or turned off by your hair. So many times I’ve seen people who look like they are disgusted by and/or afraid to touch our hair like something’s going to come out and bite them or give them a disease that it’s super discouraging to think about having salon experiences in most places in the U.S., let alone another country. This was so heartwarming and encouraging to see!
I was thinking the same thing!! Can't even count how many salons just flat out turned me away at the door back when I was in college... My friends and I had to do each other's hair. So I love seeing videos like this!! Make me want to go try a head spa now 😊
@@teej80MAYBE THEY TURNED YOU DOWN BECAUSE YOU COMPLAIN AND TALK NEGATIVE ABOUT THEM. ESPECIALLY WHITE PEOPLE. YOU COMPLAIN ABOUT MAKEUP, ABOUT POLICE ABOUT GETTING JOBS. BUT THE WORLD NEVER COMPLAINS OR SPEAKS ABOUT YOU. TURN TO ADONAI GOD IF YOU WANT CHANGE. THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE. REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND.
@@teej80But this is a good thing that they turned you down if they don't know how to style your hair. It's better than taking your money, pretending to know what they are doing and just fuck up Your hair.
Literally, the epitome of blessing your heart! Aka go get your hair cleaned really well. But, if you want it done well... you gonna need to go somewhere else. Lol At least she tried!
When I was based in Korea, I went to the mall in Camp Humphreys area…the ladies always slayed my hair! Braids, flat twists, short cuts, relaxers, weaves!!!! They did it perfectly!!!!!!
I've never ever had an Asian hairstylist complain or make me feel bad about my 4c hair, they've been by far the most gentle with my hair/scalp as well, it never hurts. For 11 years I've had the same Korean hairstylist, I followed him when he opened his own salon, he's been amazing every single time.
Yes! I don't understand how people travel to other countries and expect them to know how to treat your kind of hair... if it's different from their culture and nothing else is said that they specify in your type of hair, then you shouldn't expect that. So happy to see Darcei didn't, and was happy with what they did.
@ellacarter1442 The spiritual aspect is more likely to be affected or implemented by those that know exactly how to handle our hair type than OTHERS trying any spiritual wickedness
I'm Black and these comments are misleading. As a Black person I know FULLY WELL that not everyone knows how to do my hair. I DON'T EVEN KNOW HOW TO DO MY HAIR. OR OTHER BLACK PPL FOR THAT MATTER. Bc it's different then "regular Black hair". It's wavy curly. So why TF would I go to a homogeneous country and act a fool bc some Korean lady can't do my hair. That shit does NOT happen. You're just using the angry Black woman stereotype to say we'd act out, when normally, we're actually THE MOST understanding. Thought you'd slip this covert racism through and nobody would notice? Eith your fake ass "omg I'm so happy she was understanding 😊, unlike most ppl." Gtfoh
I love Korean stylists, they will do their level best. Way back in 1988 I was newly stationed I'm Korea andxmy hair had fallen put a couple of months prior due to a horrible perm. I went to a Korean stylist, no foreign hair stylists were in country, who put a curl in my head using the tiny red rods. I had practically no hair at all.. Baby, I saw her every 2 weeks and when I left Korea 9 months later my hair was down the middle of my back when blown out. They will always try♥️
I think the “problem” is in the fact that they just did the one thing they’re probably most familiar with when it comes to black hair styles, but I’m sure most black people know you’re only guaranteed results when you go to a black hair stylist. She still slayed tho
I applaud them for actually trying to do your hair. And, instead of pretending to know how to do leading to damage, they were straight forward and said they didn’t know but attempted to style in the most safe style possible.
When Korean salons start learning more styling methods for curly, thick hair, it'll be like they have hairdressers with superpowers. That is so clean, and the whole experience seems so therapeutic and relaxing.
Oh that's so sweet. "I have no idea what to do with this hair, but you are about to have a scalpgasm." Just treat the person with respect and professionalism, and do the best you can esthetically with something totally out of your wheel house. I love the wonderful treatment you received, and I think your gorgeous hair came out looking amazing. I love the natural look on coily hair. I think it is beautiful.
😂😂😂duvido que vc pense assim mesmo,cabelo bombril é feio,difícil de cuidar,dá muito trabalho todas nós que temos,odiamos,😢só que não temos escolha,para de falar do que não faz ideia🤬
@@lilianelopes6093your self hatred doesnt need to be projected on everyone else. A TON of black women love their coily hair. And this person in the comment above also clearly loves the natural look. Just because you hate yourself doesn’t mean others do.
It’s nice to see that you understood why they wouldn’t know how to style your hair. It’s probably so extremely rare they see hair like that. Of course they aren’t going to know! You were so nice and understanding I love that. They were trying and did a good job. I hope you had a good time 😊
lol of course they don’t know and ofc it’s okay to understand it. you say about it like it’s some kind of magic. they don’t have to know how to style this type of hair.
Not being an asshole to people is standard. You guys’ bar is in hell. Koreans don’t have hair like this. Of course they don’t know how to take care of it. Bet it’s this woman’s first time she’s even seen such hair in real life - let alone work with it. She did her best. It’d be really unfair to get angry at her.
Only because it’s more understandable that Korean hair stylists in KOREA wouldn’t know how to do Black hair. In a country like the UNITED STATES that is not understandable
In Korea, I wouldn't expect a racially homogenous country to know HOW to do a black woman's hair whereas in the USA, Canada, UK, or France, if you go to a salon, you would expect them to know how to do your hair (especially if there are advertisements with black women in them from the company). And often times, most of us just let the situation be as is without complaint. It's not about bitching over any little thing that doesn't go our way.
Shaping the afro and so confidently is all the styling you need ❤ They're being gentle and not phased by the curl pattern or texture and still doing all the things in a great way. Also, I love the idea of being able to see where your hair is thinning and damage that might be occurring. Love this
I was stationed in Korea while in the military, and when I took my braids out. I went to a Korean stylist who cut and styled it. She was the bomb, I tell ya. I asked how she learned to do Black hair, and she said they take classes on the US and keep updated. That equipment is everything! ❤
These people are so smart and hard working. I was stationed in South Korea when I was in the military. So smart. Just incredibly hardworking humble decent people. I’m Black. Visited their salons. No problems. They did a good job. They used a ruler to braid my hair. EVERY braid was perfectly aligned AND they were nice and professional. Nobody’s baby was crying in the back. Nobody was on the phone arguing with their boyfriend. The shop was not dirty. It was not over priced. They did not talk crap about every customer the moment the customer left. 10/10
American once use to pride themselves on great customer service. It has since gone by the wayside. You never forget wonderful treatment while receiving services.
She was so respectful with your hair too! I've seen hairstylists in Asia do some strange things with black hair, treating it like some toy to be played with. She kept it professional though! She may not have experience with afro textured hair, but the shaping was pretty cute ngl
I had an Asian friend who went to beauty school and learned how to work with black hair, because many of his friends were black, he was better than a lot of the black hair stylist and ended up with most of his clients being black, I so miss this guy
I have a Korean hairstylist who does hair better than most black stylists I have been to. She went to beauty school and trained for it. Most of her clients are black women like me. She’s really good and has a very gentle touch.
it honestly looks good that way! no product or anything just your full natural hair edit: i know curly textured hair needs product and i have curly hair irl, i'm just saying that it might feel good with little product and a clean scalp
One thing I love about most Asian cultures is they’re perfectionist.She did amazing for not knowing how to deal with your texture and your fro looks bomb!
I love that she understood how to at least shape your hair simply by touching it. That’s a woman who cares a lot!!! She’s in the right career field for sure.
Korean people are very nice! She was so gentle and accommodating to you even though she didn't know how to work with your type of hair...really wonderful! ❤😊
They're cool when they regard you as a genuine friend, buddy, etc. If you're acquaintance level or lower, affection is absent. But for most races, this is generally true! Of course there are the famously warm cultures like Mexican, Italian, etc. Just sayin'.
I like that she worked within her limits when styling your hair instead of trying to do something she didnt know how to do and possibly causing damage or letting you leave looking wacky
I love how relaxed she is even know this is SO different than what she’s used to. The Respect she shows is something We never get from Euro/US and it’s commendable ❤
@@HOXHOXHOXwhatever helps you sleep at night bro 😂 I can guarantee you Japan is statically much more accepting than Korea but that doesn’t make Japan perfect 😭
I know we’re really proud of miss girl doing her best with your hair but I can’t stress it enough!! Like she didn’t try to straighten it, she didn’t try to brush through it with an actual brush, she just did her best to style it with what she had!! I know there’s a chance that you probably instructed her with what she had on hand, but even then, props to her for listening to you if that were the case because then that means that’s a learning opportunity that she accepted with the intent to learn.
She’s a doll. I imagine she doesn’t see your 4C texture often, if at all. She seemed determined to give you a good experience, regardless of her inexperience with your hair texture. Edit: I just learned that this creator’s hair is 4A-4B, and not 4C. Doesn’t change the spirit of my comment, I just wanted to acknowledge that I was wrong about that. I’m not a hair guru girlie, and I don’t want my original comment to be misleading to anyone with 4C hair
Thank you for being so nice about them not knowing how to do your hair. They tried. It looked like it was a great experience I hope your scalp feels amazing. I’ve always wanted to go to SK and try all of their salons! ❤
I love how BOTH of you showed such RESPECT & open mindedness towards each other. I applaud you for going to a Korean hair salon & try something new & not be afraid of it. We need more ppl like that in our world... great job! I'd also like to applaud the hair dresser for doing her job at 100% even though like you said in the video, she wasn't knowledgeable about how to deal with black ppl's hair (don't even try it..y'all know this isn't being racist. Just facts). She did her best, and asked if that was ok with you, which was nice & again you were also very understanding which was just really sweet & beautiful to watch ❤❤️❤️ I do believe however that IF more black people went to Asian hair salons... you'd be surprised to see how quickly and eagerly they'd learn how to deal with different types of hair. 😉 It'd be a win- win situation... I know many black hair salons where you have to wait HOURS for the next person to be done. This might ease the load 😅
I really like how you didn't focus on the fact that she didn't know how to style black hair but on the effort she put in to doing the best she could with your hair. Very respectful and I do think your hair looked healthy then when you went in, so great job to both of you.
Yeah, considering how much practice it can take for us black folk to be able to handle our own hair, I really can't stand when people get upset that other people that aren't used to it can't handle it.
I never get offended when stylists are upfront about not knowing how to style my hair bc girl i didn’t know either until i was in my senior year of high school and i live with my hair. It’s about managing expectations and being honest with your client. Every time i go to the salon for color my stylist shows me new techniques and products thats she’s been practicing with for my hair type 😂 i love it so much ❤
I love this! As much as they're not very familiar with the hair texture, she gave you one hell of a positive experience, and never let you leave with the bear minimum! Thank you for using the platform to be respectful and show us that not every experience is going to warrant negativity. ❤
The fact that they don't deal with this hair texture often but still manage to take such good care of it just shows how good they are
And it shows how others should & are capable of doing better ❤
You could also say "hair type"❤
Facts
That’s care and I got to the point years ago I don’t want a African American woman in my head anymore only a man women have negative thoughts I was getting some tracks glued in and I couldn’t even where it from Thursday evening until Saturday morning
I'm glad she kept it natural. Beautiful
I love that they didn’t try to alter your natural hair I feel like they let your hair go where it naturally wanted to go.
I absolutely loved that too!
Because they don't know how to. 😂
@@delilahsorensen855 no, they could threat it like a Korean hair but they didn't. I'm Japanese and I go to Koreans salons a lot. They don't do that normally. People don't use curly /afro hair here, like never. So they usually do it straight, flat Idk what the English word for it. Even perm is different than your perm here. We only love to get some "slight" waves. But I've never seen a Japanese or Korean hair salon do Afro hair ever in their lives and I live in Tokyo normally. It's a big touristic city. Even they don't do, Koreans don't do that either. But still they try to make her best and managed to NOT RUIN it. I have a black friend and he got a haircare in a different country and they ruined his curls it took to long to make them nice again. Koreans and Japanese people are too passionate about everything they do
I loved it and you look great, they handled your hair with care and let it go naturally
@@yumihara14100%!!!
You can tell she tried really hard to handle your hair with respect and professionalism.
Omg fr. Working with a different hair type can be difficult but this would be so worth it
You have such beautiful hair! I was afraid they were gonna straighten it! I'm so happy they styled it, even if they weren't experienced with your hair type. It came out beautiful!
Because she went to a super expensive exclusive salon, its the minimum they can do
That alone would entice me to go. She really did her best and you could tell it was important to her! Love it! ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
Absolutely she did, love that! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I love that you respected their efforts rather than giving them a hard time for not knowing how to deal with your hair.
Should they learn? Yes. Will making fun of them and being rude help them learn? No. tldr I agree w u
They don't necessarily need to learn. Korean and Asian hair is usually straight. They have no obligation to learn how to deal with other types but it's very sweet how much she tried@@user-ayiy824jbd
Literally! I agree 💯! I came to the comments to say the same thing! But I'm glad I found your comment! I second this! Spread understanding and love xxx
the thing about this is that normally, we DO this already. when we complain it’s BECAUSE of something egregious, like how black hair is still treated in hollywood. that differs from this, because there was care and respect that went into everything; that’s why we commend it. basically just don’t get it twisted! we say what we mean and we say it WHEN we mean it.
@@eggiboiroi you put this into words perfectly thank you !!
The focus in her eyes, she was NOT letting you leave without giving it her absolute best. 👏👏👏
I know 😂 She’s so cute
Definite hair professional
I agree 😅❤
Koreans and Japanese people specifically take their reputations and work ethic very seriously.
Absolute best!
Oh she was focused. Even if she didn't know how to style you, she still gave a beautiful service! It looked so healthy, and so relaxing. Good job 👍🏿🩷🩷🩷
Respectful and professional stylist....
I’m so glad she didn’t brush or try to straighten it. She was very respectful without knowing what to do exactly. So glad you had such a wonderful experience.
It didn’t look too bad.
Why did I get choked up a little? It's just so admirable and nice that she tried. She didn't turn her away and gave her client the best she could even without the expertise. Beautiful.
Right!? This is just so adorable.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Sorry. I Balled...... I'm Still Balling!!! That Water Fall. Squeaky Clean. 😝🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🍂🤣
I loved it! The stylist did her best and she was thorough ❤
Why do so many keep pointing out that she tried? She successfully treated her hair and styled it in its natural form., the fro came out perfect it was actually cute.
I LOVE that she chose to lightly blow dry and scrunch sections of your fro to “style” it. That is proof that you can know absolutely nothing about black hair and not damage it!!!
Like that warmed my heart. Preserving the integrity of hair is so lost these days
It was beautiful
I'm not a beautician, but I would have to assume that when you learn how to do hair, you learn about different types. Not to the same extent as the one that you see most often. They'll teach you something about other types for the experience if nothing else.
@@andromedaloveless1120 yeah they teach you principles but nothing specific to coarse or tightly coiled hair. My sister graduated recently from cosmetology school and she really had to advocate for herself (she has a texture similar to this) during the course to have her texture of hair addressed in lessons. They tend to focus on silkier and looser textures of hair during schooling. Most beauticians learn about other textures from experience, post graduation. You’d be surprised how many clients with this texture of hair end up with severe damage to their hair simply bc of lack of education mixed with hubris on the stylist’s part.🫣
@@andromedaloveless1120 since there is such a small percentage of the population there with this kind of hair most are not really taught how to style it at all. they probably learn about how curlier hair tends to be more prone to damage and breakage with heat treatment but thats likely the extent of it. I see a lot of videos where the korean stylists are actively being taught by their POC clients how to handle the hair texture cause theyve never even touched something like 4c hair.
She diligently tried to make your hair presentable, and you were gracious. Very sweet
They may not know how to do your hair specifically, but they made it look so fluffy and bouncy and full of life. It looks so healthy!
Yeah i feel like fluffy is there hair goals here
What I love most is that she didn't try to straighten it. She tried to add volume instead. Beautiful.
I love that she at least shaped your fro!
Right. ❤
Yup
:)
i bet she had fun doing that😂
Exactly. She didn't tear up her hair at all. She handled her hair with care which is so nice.
You know what, I love that they respected the texture and didn't try to brush it out.
❤❤
w another black lady they tried to and they loved that she brought her own brushes.
That!
I don’t understand how it’d be disrespectful to try brushing it out🤨
@@NaishiYTbrush it for what? It just causes unnecessary breakage and it not going to straighten the hair. You get better results using your hands and fingers that way you can control untangling the knots.
Despite not knowing how to style your hair, they did pretty good all things considered. They did their best to fix it nice and your hair is sooo cute! I'd love to see you with an afro more often tbh
I'm glad she didn't try to straighten your hair and focused on scalp treatments and you came out with a nice fro,even not knowing how to work with Black hair.
Okay but that Afro was froing. She wasn't just playing in your hair. She did okay. Can you imagine if she actually had the knowledge of doing black hair? 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 Wow!!!!!!!
They respected tf out of your hair!! I’m shedding tears as a Black woman 🥹
Also Darcei, you have such a cute AND beautiful face!
You are crying when they did nothing???
Girl they jacked UP her hair and you know it. Her hair is already damaged pretty badly but that lopsided afro with no moisturizing products they let her leave with is not giving.
She purposely went to a different country where they don't encounter this hair type often and you're complaining lmfao @@CanineGrowTime
darcei is such a cutie patootie 😂❤
@@CanineGrowTimeso.. what is that product being scrunched into the head during the styling process… also if you’ve ever used Korean epidermal care then you know how amazing it is.
I bet the shampoo alone moisturized and repaired damage in her hair!! 😂
Even if she didn’t know how to do your hair it looks really cute.
It was fluffy at the ends making it look like a cloud, I loved that ☺️❤️❤️
That’s what she said.
The stylist does know how to do your hair😊..She enjoys the Afro look ..Wake up..
Wtf😂😂 no
Right, like no excuses
That lady was CONFIDENT in trying to do your hair plus it looked cute
😂 The way she never smiled tho 💀
@@danysanerd2383gurlie was working and focused with a person that probably didn’t talk her native language. She was just doing her job
@@danysanerd2383cuz shes focused
@@danysanerd2383 Why would she smile??
Right... Like come on sis
So cool!
Love how you both were great.
You didn't blame her but complimented her and she did her best and kept you comfy.
There are places that don't know how to deal with regular curly hair without straightening it so this is really nice!
I love that she played to her strengths when it came to styling. She didn’t know how to style it but she had enough care to make sure you looked good. Shout out to her!
I LOVE the way she wasn’t afraid of or turned off by your hair. So many times I’ve seen people who look like they are disgusted by and/or afraid to touch our hair like something’s going to come out and bite them or give them a disease that it’s super discouraging to think about having salon experiences in most places in the U.S., let alone another country. This was so heartwarming and encouraging to see!
Yes Agreed
I was thinking the same thing!! Can't even count how many salons just flat out turned me away at the door back when I was in college... My friends and I had to do each other's hair. So I love seeing videos like this!! Make me want to go try a head spa now 😊
Turned off?
@@teej80MAYBE THEY TURNED YOU DOWN BECAUSE YOU COMPLAIN AND TALK NEGATIVE ABOUT THEM.
ESPECIALLY WHITE PEOPLE.
YOU COMPLAIN ABOUT MAKEUP, ABOUT POLICE ABOUT GETTING JOBS.
BUT THE WORLD NEVER COMPLAINS OR SPEAKS ABOUT YOU.
TURN TO ADONAI GOD IF YOU WANT CHANGE.
THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE.
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND.
@@teej80But this is a good thing that they turned you down if they don't know how to style your hair. It's better than taking your money, pretending to know what they are doing and just fuck up Your hair.
"just know that if you're black, they're not gonna know what to do with your hair but your scalp is going to be super super clean" 😂😂
😂 bless her heart
I'm dead with that line 😂😂
Literally, the epitome of blessing your heart! Aka go get your hair cleaned really well. But, if you want it done well... you gonna need to go somewhere else. Lol At least she tried!
I have locs so I can deal with that 😅
Same 😂😂 @@SimpleeKomplex
Loved this! To me it looks like she knew exactly what to do with it.
Wash, Condition, style! ❤
When I was based in Korea, I went to the mall in Camp Humphreys area…the ladies always slayed my hair! Braids, flat twists, short cuts, relaxers, weaves!!!! They did it perfectly!!!!!!
were the women doing your hair korean?
@istoleyourmilkandcookies
" WHAT ?!! "
@@NormaBracey-u4d were they korean or were they immigrants?
@istoleyourmilkandcookies A slay is a slay.
@@samaraisnt no, i get that! but i wanted to know if the women understood her hair because they had the same hair texture/racial background
I've never ever had an Asian hairstylist complain or make me feel bad about my 4c hair, they've been by far the most gentle with my hair/scalp as well, it never hurts. For 11 years I've had the same Korean hairstylist, I followed him when he opened his own salon, he's been amazing every single time.
You're lucky, they have been the most racist and condescending to me😢
Who is your stylist? Please share his salon details
girl don't be mistaken they are saying all sorts about your hair behind your back in korean
@@linuxducky😂😂😂😂
@@sasa95fylies
What I admire is the fact you were understanding of their lack of knowledge when it comes to your hair type.
That’s gracious and mature. ❤
Yes! I don't understand how people travel to other countries and expect them to know how to treat your kind of hair... if it's different from their culture and nothing else is said that they specify in your type of hair, then you shouldn't expect that.
So happy to see Darcei didn't, and was happy with what they did.
Beware of OTHERS doing our hair. there is a spiritual aspect to it😍
Absolutely rather then the usual
@ellacarter1442
The spiritual aspect is more likely to be affected or implemented by those that know exactly how to handle our hair type than OTHERS trying any spiritual wickedness
I'm Black and these comments are misleading. As a Black person I know FULLY WELL that not everyone knows how to do my hair. I DON'T EVEN KNOW HOW TO DO MY HAIR. OR OTHER BLACK PPL FOR THAT MATTER. Bc it's different then "regular Black hair". It's wavy curly. So why TF would I go to a homogeneous country and act a fool bc some Korean lady can't do my hair. That shit does NOT happen. You're just using the angry Black woman stereotype to say we'd act out, when normally, we're actually THE MOST understanding. Thought you'd slip this covert racism through and nobody would notice? Eith your fake ass "omg I'm so happy she was understanding 😊, unlike most ppl." Gtfoh
You are a breath of fresh air! Thank you for you and your amazing outlook and positivity! I love your sense of adventure to the salon! Keep smiling 😊
You know what? That’s mad cute, and much respect to her for clearly trying her best. I think she did a good job!
So Hair texture is more complicated then technology these days?…hmm
@@aanandapoorvak5791 Korea is a monoculture. When would she have a chance to learn?
@@CloudslnMyCoffee when ignorance has been defeated
I respect her, she knew she didn’t know how to do black hair but she tried
I love Korean stylists, they will do their level best. Way back in 1988 I was newly stationed I'm Korea andxmy hair had fallen put a couple of months prior due to a horrible perm. I went to a Korean stylist, no foreign hair stylists were in country, who put a curl in my head using the tiny red rods. I had practically no hair at all.. Baby, I saw her every 2 weeks and when I left Korea 9 months later my hair was down the middle of my back when blown out. They will always try♥️
Wow, that's an interesting experience for sure
Okay, just tell us where this is at.
Nothing like that in S C., probably none in this part of the Country, PERIOD
I need this!
That was a blessing African American women have negative feelings so I don’t go anymore
@@barbaraaharris9616I would like 👍🏽 that too in Chicago
Now I want to go to Korea ❤
This is cute she shaped your hair the shape of the dryer. Blessed her heart.
honestly your hair didnt look bad when they tried styling it 😀
edit: woah 21k is a lot, well okay thanks ❤
Absolutely! Embrace the 'fro Miss Darcei. It was a look
lol maybe not bad but it definitely wouldn’t last. If you paid for a style that is the bare minimum.
@gracegreen1859 but it's not a harstylist salon, it's a head spa.
Its “head spa” !!
I think the “problem” is in the fact that they just did the one thing they’re probably most familiar with when it comes to black hair styles, but I’m sure most black people know you’re only guaranteed results when you go to a black hair stylist. She still slayed tho
"Just know that if you're black, they're not gonna know how to do your hair, but your scalp is gonna be super, super clean" 😂❤
For the record I've been black for my entire 41 years of living and I can't do my hair that well 😂 my applause to the stylist ❤❤❤❤❤
@@violette010but black stylists know how to do black hair. Even some non black ones can
Yeah fr😄
😂❤
I’m 57 and didn’t learn how to work with my curls until I was in my 30s 😂
I applaud them for actually trying to do your hair. And, instead of pretending to know how to do leading to damage, they were straight forward and said they didn’t know but attempted to style in the most safe style possible.
Exactly. She didn't try to 'fight' her hair. She was comfortable.
They will Never turn down any $$$ 😅😅 but she did a great job!
When Korean salons start learning more styling methods for curly, thick hair, it'll be like they have hairdressers with superpowers. That is so clean, and the whole experience seems so therapeutic and relaxing.
Oh that's so sweet. "I have no idea what to do with this hair, but you are about to have a scalpgasm." Just treat the person with respect and professionalism, and do the best you can esthetically with something totally out of your wheel house. I love the wonderful treatment you received, and I think your gorgeous hair came out looking amazing. I love the natural look on coily hair. I think it is beautiful.
You are correct. Respect and professionalism. Don’t forget a nice smile goes a long way. 😊
😂😂😂duvido que vc pense assim mesmo,cabelo bombril é feio,difícil de cuidar,dá muito trabalho todas nós que temos,odiamos,😢só que não temos escolha,para de falar do que não faz ideia🤬
@@lilianelopes6093your self hatred doesnt need to be projected on everyone else. A TON of black women love their coily hair. And this person in the comment above also clearly loves the natural look.
Just because you hate yourself doesn’t mean others do.
And to be honest, Koreans are such sweethearts. Very respectful & kind. I loved when I lived in Korea. They were so dope!
That's the impression I get!
No they're not
Are they racist?
@@angelayeboah6183 the whole world is racist lol you should know that by now
@@angelayeboah6183 Are you an idiot? She was just paying a compliment.
It’s nice to see that you understood why they wouldn’t know how to style your hair. It’s probably so extremely rare they see hair like that. Of course they aren’t going to know! You were so nice and understanding I love that. They were trying and did a good job. I hope you had a good time 😊
Right either their excited to work on something different or completely intimidated. But it seemed like she was eager and tried her best
The thing is everyone and anyone would understand. Some people just like to be Karens about every little thing and complain senselessly.
@@Ebunoluwa13 some people are very entitled yeah. Unfortunately
fr a lot of people would just scream “they’re racist they’re racist!!”
lol of course they don’t know and ofc it’s okay to understand it. you say about it like it’s some kind of magic. they don’t have to know how to style this type of hair.
When you're naturally beautiful, doesn't matter how your hair is styled!!!!!!! They did a nice job!!!!!
It's really refreshing that you didn't get upset that she didn't know how to do your hair. You're so kind and insightful
I came to say the same! So many would gripe about that but she just appreciates the effort. I love that!
Not being an asshole to people is standard. You guys’ bar is in hell. Koreans don’t have hair like this. Of course they don’t know how to take care of it. Bet it’s this woman’s first time she’s even seen such hair in real life - let alone work with it. She did her best. It’d be really unfair to get angry at her.
Only because it’s more understandable that Korean hair stylists in KOREA wouldn’t know how to do Black hair. In a country like the UNITED STATES that is not understandable
@@sapphiresparkle9181 Thank you.
In Korea, I wouldn't expect a racially homogenous country to know HOW to do a black woman's hair whereas in the USA, Canada, UK, or France, if you go to a salon, you would expect them to know how to do your hair (especially if there are advertisements with black women in them from the company). And often times, most of us just let the situation be as is without complaint. It's not about bitching over any little thing that doesn't go our way.
Honestly the afro is cute, the hairdresser did good
Agreed. I need to go to the hairdresser for a good wash
😂
Shaping the afro and so confidently is all the styling you need ❤ They're being gentle and not phased by the curl pattern or texture and still doing all the things in a great way. Also, I love the idea of being able to see where your hair is thinning and damage that might be occurring. Love this
The stylist was so focused. I love that! And your fro looks really cute.
I was stationed in Korea while in the military, and when I took my braids out. I went to a Korean stylist who cut and styled it. She was the bomb, I tell ya.
I asked how she learned to do Black hair, and she said they take classes on the US and keep updated.
That equipment is everything! ❤
That's great. Are they still in business?
Yes, same for me. Her name was Mrs Kim and she was in the SED. She could do any texture
I wonder if certain places do, specifically because they’re near foreigner hot spots and military bases?
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Honey they handled that fro with so much grace💖 Super cute!
“Everything in the salon is from the year 3000”! Love that!!! And I want everything they did, done to meeee!!!
Me too!
Right?!
Right. Me 3 😁
I walked into a random, nameless salon in Korea once and I had the same experience with scalp analysis, head spa and whatnot. It was amazing
ME TOO, ME TOO 😂😂🎉
The hair stylist is just plain ADORABLE!
She really tried to make your hair cute... and it was! ✨️
These people are so smart and hard working. I was stationed in South Korea when I was in the military. So smart. Just incredibly hardworking humble decent people. I’m Black. Visited their salons. No problems. They did a good job. They used a ruler to braid my hair. EVERY braid was perfectly aligned AND they were nice and professional. Nobody’s baby was crying in the back. Nobody was on the phone arguing with their boyfriend. The shop was not dirty. It was not over priced. They did not talk crap about every customer the moment the customer left. 10/10
American once use to pride themselves on great customer service. It has since gone by the wayside. You never forget wonderful treatment while receiving services.
Used to be like that in America, but people who hate her ruined her.
❤ wonderful
I had the same experiences when I was stationed there. Humphreys and Dragon Hill Lodge, those ladies did wonders on my 4C and always kind 😇
So many people stationed in South Korea!!
She was so respectful with your hair too! I've seen hairstylists in Asia do some strange things with black hair, treating it like some toy to be played with. She kept it professional though! She may not have experience with afro textured hair, but the shaping was pretty cute ngl
I had an Asian friend who went to beauty school and learned how to work with black hair, because many of his friends were black, he was better than a lot of the black hair stylist and ended up with most of his clients being black, I so miss this guy
I have a Korean hairstylist who does hair better than most black stylists I have been to. She went to beauty school and trained for it. Most of her clients are black women like me. She’s really good and has a very gentle touch.
Your fro looked happy, free, hydrated, soft and fluffy. ❤
So, so soft!! 🥰
DIDN'T IT! 😁 Looked like she enjoyed it too.
Agree! It looks super cute.
Lies😂
it honestly looks good that way! no product or anything just your full natural hair
edit: i know curly textured hair needs product and i have curly hair irl, i'm just saying that it might feel good with little product and a clean scalp
Yes!
The only problem is that Black hair needs product.I lived overseas 40 years ago and since all oils were available,I just made my own.
It might look good, but I don't envy her the aftermath. Dry, tangled, frail, unconditioned, afro textured hair is no joke.
You can quite literally see her adding product by scrunching her hands into her hair. Idk y’all
@@maddieb.4282 i don't if you have curly hair, but that's not nearly enough product.
One thing I love about most Asian cultures is they’re perfectionist.She did amazing for not knowing how to deal with your texture and your fro looks bomb!
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
I love that she understood how to at least shape your hair simply by touching it. That’s a woman who cares a lot!!! She’s in the right career field for sure.
Korean people are very nice!
She was so gentle and accommodating to you even though she didn't know how to work with your type of hair...really wonderful! ❤😊
This doesn’t apply to and for everyone, so don’t try to make it a stereotype
❤❤❤❤🎉
@@Rina-jl6yb at least better than you❤❤🎉
@@Maojinping-wg3gw how? Because I stated an honest educated opinion and a fact? That shows a lot about your character..
They're cool when they regard you as a genuine friend, buddy, etc. If you're acquaintance level or lower, affection is absent. But for most races, this is generally true! Of course there are the famously warm cultures like Mexican, Italian, etc. Just sayin'.
You look so beautiful when you have your hair like that. Honestly, I love it when black women do their hair in Afro. They look absolutely gorgeous.
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Agreed 💯
I love how confident the stylist was even though she had no clue what she was doing.
WOW that’s beautiful the way you both respected each other. You look great 😊 and the stylist is very professional and diligent 👑
Can we talk about that waterfall hairwash thing?? It looks so soothing and relaxing!💆♀️
That has to be at least a 10,000 chair.
its really nice,i have one and it feels so nice
@@JettMommy0-0what’s the name of it?
They did a Great job and zero discrimination was shown. Love it!!
She styled your hair into an AFRO. I give that 'fro a 10 of our 10 😎🥰🤗
Me too!
I’d give it a 5 if we being real
The fact that she actually tried is so cute🥺 it turned out pretty good too!!!
What I LOVE is the focus on the HEALTH of your scalp and scalp ... Seems like a really RELAXING experience!!! Thank you for sharing!!!
She actually did a great job with the end result! A cute, CLEAN, MOISTURIZED, natural fro. Respect 🇰🇷
The focus on her face even tho she didn’t know what to do is so cute. She was like “I have no idea what I’m doin, but ima do this girly right!”
watching her focus so hard on scrunching her hair to make it pretty was really cute actually
I like that she worked within her limits when styling your hair instead of trying to do something she didnt know how to do and possibly causing damage or letting you leave looking wacky
Yesssss!!!!!
my thoughts exactly
Totally agree!
Same
The Afro she gave you was adorable honestly!!
I love how relaxed she is even know this is SO different than what she’s used to. The Respect she shows is something We never get from Euro/US and it’s commendable ❤
Do you have a link to this Korean salon?
What is the approximate cost of her gentle touch for the washing of this lady's hair??
You sound like a Korean😅
영상 마지막의 미소가 너무 해맑고 예뻐서 계속 돌려보게 되네요🥰
This is why I love Koreans. The way they give strangers respect is so sweet and cute
They were rude when I visited, especially some of the older ones 😂 went to Japan after and loved the people there!
@@dani4845stop spreading hate based on lies baby boo. They more respectful than your whole entire family.
@@HOXHOXHOXwhatever helps you sleep at night bro 😂 I can guarantee you Japan is statically much more accepting than Korea but that doesn’t make Japan perfect 😭
@@HOXHOXHOXif that’s her experience then that’s her experience. You can’t tell her what she experienced
oh youre in for a rude awakening
Not overlooking your lovely white teeth and clear smooth beautiful melanin skin. Blessed! Girl you are preeeety!!!
All skin is beautiful.
I love how sweet and caring you were with your word choice since they didn't know how to style your hair.
Yes, this was a wonderful review and not by a Karen.
You were very sweet , this made a wonderful review.
@@lisaolivo3101I thought exactly the same.. this is one of the best reviews, best interaction IN GENERAL I have seen in a long time ❤
Both the client and the worker are so beautiful 😍
The fact that they tried...
Everything is ever evolving..so because you did this video..there will be changes the next time...that's awesome
I know we’re really proud of miss girl doing her best with your hair but I can’t stress it enough!! Like she didn’t try to straighten it, she didn’t try to brush through it with an actual brush, she just did her best to style it with what she had!!
I know there’s a chance that you probably instructed her with what she had on hand, but even then, props to her for listening to you if that were the case because then that means that’s a learning opportunity that she accepted with the intent to learn.
This is such a great comment. Really well said, and didn't miss any important points!! 👍.
She didn’t know how to do your hair, but she definitely did that. You look so good with the natural fro
Your hair looks great. Natural and beautiful 👌🏼👌🏼🌹
She’s a doll. I imagine she doesn’t see your 4C texture often, if at all. She seemed determined to give you a good experience, regardless of her inexperience with your hair texture.
Edit: I just learned that this creator’s hair is 4A-4B, and not 4C. Doesn’t change the spirit of my comment, I just wanted to acknowledge that I was wrong about that. I’m not a hair guru girlie, and I don’t want my original comment to be misleading to anyone with 4C hair
that's 4C?? man, i need her hair routine cause mine do not look that loose. it's a dry brillo pad the next day xDD
Darcy is certainly not 4C
@@KoiinuNe it's not, she has 4a/4b hair, I have that exact hair texture
@@Kira-bo2lq thank you for clarifying! Like I said, I’m not an expert 🤣🤣🤣
@@shiqingxuanirl thank you for clarifying. I’d rather be corrected, than be loud with my ignorance.
I love how gracious you spoke about them trying to do your hair ❤ You're so kind.
I love that all the Asian salons at least attempts to style our hair. And the fro was cute
Thank you for being so nice about them not knowing how to do your hair. They tried. It looked like it was a great experience I hope your scalp feels amazing. I’ve always wanted to go to SK and try all of their salons! ❤
Some upscale Black salons here in the US have this too, your fro turned out cute you can tell she tried
Yeah and they charge an arm and a leg too
I love how BOTH of you showed such RESPECT & open mindedness towards each other.
I applaud you for going to a Korean hair salon & try something new & not be afraid of it. We need more ppl like that in our world... great job!
I'd also like to applaud the hair dresser for doing her job at 100% even though like you said in the video, she wasn't knowledgeable about how to deal with black ppl's hair (don't even try it..y'all know this isn't being racist. Just facts). She did her best, and asked if that was ok with you, which was nice & again you were also very understanding which was just really sweet & beautiful to watch ❤❤️❤️
I do believe however that IF more black people went to Asian hair salons... you'd be surprised to see how quickly and eagerly they'd learn how to deal with different types of hair. 😉 It'd be a win- win situation... I know many black hair salons where you have to wait HOURS for the next person to be done. This might ease the load 😅
I really like how you didn't focus on the fact that she didn't know how to style black hair but on the effort she put in to doing the best she could with your hair. Very respectful and I do think your hair looked healthy then when you went in, so great job to both of you.
Yeah, considering how much practice it can take for us black folk to be able to handle our own hair, I really can't stand when people get upset that other people that aren't used to it can't handle it.
You can tell by the locked in eyes, she was trying her damndest to give you a great service 🖤
I never get offended when stylists are upfront about not knowing how to style my hair bc girl i didn’t know either until i was in my senior year of high school and i live with my hair. It’s about managing expectations and being honest with your client. Every time i go to the salon for color my stylist shows me new techniques and products thats she’s been practicing with for my hair type 😂 i love it so much ❤
The awkwardness of them trying and me saying no it's ok, and them still trying would've killed me 😂😂 You handled it very well and with a smile 😁
The level of respect she gave to your hair is so beautiful
They treated you so sweetly! I love your hair!
She tried and it looked cute ❤
I love this! As much as they're not very familiar with the hair texture, she gave you one hell of a positive experience, and never let you leave with the bear minimum! Thank you for using the platform to be respectful and show us that not every experience is going to warrant negativity. ❤
I loved all the tools and the washing. However..I would have stopped before the styling begun and cashed ou!❤😊
I love that you didn’t get upset that they don’t know how to style your hair but instead appreciated the effort!
Nice tha you were gracious about the fact they didnt know how to do your hair and you still found positive things to say. Class act
Yeah, but, girl, YOU AND YOUR HAIR LOOK BEAUTIFUL!!! I LOVE HOW RESPECTFUL THEY WERE!!! AWESOME!!!
she looked so sweet, she tried her best and it came out so adorable.
Omg you are the sweetest! I love your positivity. Even if they had zero idea how to do your hair you like weren’t even mad. Love this vibe so much ❤