She is trash. OP slept with her AP in their marital house/bed, right after a fight with her husband. She says it was purely physical, but that is obviously BS.
He wants kids and she doesn't. He 'is a good man and stable' but that 'stability is a prison'. They don't have the same wants or values but she wants his money and his kindness so she doesn't just divorce. This is why I've given up on ever being loved.
Story 1 wow the mental gymnastics she does to avoid accountability is not surprising cheaters always do the same. Story 2 the classic misery loved company I hope the hisband divorces her
This is definitely a: there's a special place in hell scenario for the OP in story 1. No matter how you look at it cheating is cheating, she betrayed him
Well i mean her husband IS in a Coma, Holding on by a thread but the good thing IS she got to feel alive again from the deathgrip that IS His stability... Good for her
She bet she cheated and made sure to get caught as a way to get out of her marriage. She might feel guilty but she's not guilty enough to take the blame for her actions.
Story 1- All she was worried about was that Matt will wake up and tell the truth to everyone and her reputation would be ruined, but now he's gone, she is relieved but hiding it from reddit in the name of moving on.
S1: “It was purely physical…” Oh that’s alright then, no problem. lol Could a real, living OP really be this delusional/conceited? Notice how very few of her concerns were for the husband? She didn’t even cry when he died… You hear about ragebait fiction and I think this might just be that.
You should hear some of the other stories then. Like the OP who cheated with their brother’s wife (claiming that the brother was the golden child), married her and then was upset his family refused to celebrate the fact he was having a baby with the stolen wife and forgive/reconnect. The OP that cheated on his wife and continued to blame everything on her, claiming she was being selfish for refusing to come back and forgive him. The OP that cheated with her husband with her old college boyfriend (the husband revealed this in his own post about the matter) while being ‘advised’ by her divorced sister (who’s only divorced as she mistreated her husband for not becoming her slave). Or the OP that was caught by husband telling her friends he wasn’t that exciting and ‘settled for him’, and assumed he was having an affair when he filed for divorce.
Story 1 - OP cheated, blamed him, drove him insane to crash, only thought about herself, lied about AP being his friend, refuse to tell his parents what really happened and now he's gone and OP's like mehh "what's done is done"
If you aren't happy in your marriage, here are the things you can do: -Go to couples counciling -Talk to each other about the problems and try to come up with a solution -if you cant work through your issues, get a divorce so you can get what you want out of life What you cant do: -Cheat on then -Just assume their going to change their mind on something. Because this aint gonna fix anything, it will make your life worse. This world clearly is not full of adults, it is full of old children who would rather destroy eachothers lives than have a few hard conversations.
Like the wronged partner is going to say 'oh, you were horny and I wasn't around so that's OK'? She's lying though. It wasn't just physical. She describes him as giving her attention and support. It was an emotional affair first.
Story 1: "I ruined enough lives already, i can't let it ruin mine too", without a doubt, your life is the only one that should've been ruined in all this, and it's beyond infuriating that you're walking away without consecuences. Your so called "regret" and "guilt" means nothing if you're still hiding from the consecuences. She's just glad Matt passed away before the consecuences could catch up to her.
It isn't shared interests that lead to a healthy, lasting relationship. It's shared values. If they have a different attitude than you about kids, LEAVE. If they want them and you don't, LEAVE. If you want them and they don't, LEAVE. If your values don't align, It's not going to last.
it MIGHT be worse if he survives just so she doesn’t have to come clean?? she’s such a horrible person that she would rather this man dies than deal with the fact that she’s a cheater
1st story: I hope she gets outed and is forced to face the consequences of her actions. Every step of the way it was someone else's fault and never did it sink in what she'd done and how that messed up countless lives - all that mattered was to keep hers intact. Absolutely abhorrent. Her parents must be proud.
What do you hope she is outed? That will not make his parents hurt less, AT ALL. And I do not blame Op for her husband crashing the car. As harsh as it sounds, he should not have been driving (assuming it was a one vehicle accident). Their marriage was on its last legs. I just wish they had called it quits before all this.
S1 Wow... At least Matt's family isn't going to be there for her when she'll inevitability grieve her husband. I mean if a family you married into, disowns you when your spouse passes, you really must have sucked as a partner. She is selfish to the bitter end and will most likely go back to her AP; She has learned nothing
S1: It doesn't matter if it was just freaking physical! You cheated! These people act like others it's okay that there is no emotion involved, it does not matter! People freaking don't understand about STDS, or the fact that a lot of men have physical touch and intimacy as their main love language so you might as well have had it emotional.
Funny that all cheaters say that they felt so suffocated in the relationship, but at the same time, they never had an idea to quit it and breathe freely 😂 No need to say about the idea to just speak to your husband/wife about it and try to fix the problem. At the same time, despite thinking that it's not their fault they still don't want to expose the situation, trying to avoid responsibility for their actions 🤣 2nd story is pretty sweet 😊
All stories were very good. I love the efforts you put into making the video wonderful to watch while listening to the story. Excellent job. Thank you.
Story 2 it took nearly losing her husband to finally be a better wife and mother.I doubt she'll keep this up. It feels like when she's back in the safe zone she'll fall back into her old behavior.
@@Sauceboss1992so do I, but I doubt it. People like that tend to pretend they changed, then when they feel they can get away with it, they’ll go right back to their old ways.
@@Sauceboss1992 I’m not assuming. I’m just making an educated guess based upon my own personal experience. I’m not saying it’s a definitive fact, hence the “tend to.” I know there’s people out there who would actually change permanently, but I know there are just as many who would change for a while before going back to their old ways.
Bruh we need to make a law to Punish these cheater’s out here..I’m just saying like for example if a Adulterer committed an a affair with someone else even tho they’re married.they should get 5 or 10 years of prison time for mental trauma and pay the victim compensation but I want to hear someone’s else’s opinions although op in S1 is going to hell for what she done
I hope Aaron lets Matt’s parents know what really happened as payback for OP. Because she killed him. If she wasn’t cheating Matt would still be alive. And instead of OP telling his parents the truth, just to give them closure, she acts like a coward, glad she didn’t get caught.
Story 1: The psychology researcher Lawrence Kohlberg has created a theory of the development of morals. It identifies 6 levels of understanding of moral behavior. Level 1 would be "I should do the thing that lets me avoid punishment". An example of that would be to lie about having eaten a cookie, to avoid a scolding. Small children and some criminals have this level of moral understanding. OP is also level 1. And at her current pace, she won't ever reach adulthood, mentally. Another 40-80 years won't be enough.
I don't know what can be the consequences of her actions. Not just cheating, but also not coming clean even after the guy is fighting for his life, and especially the lack of taking accountability even after his death.
Whether it was long term emotional cheating, or just a one-time spontaneous physical scratching of the itch is irrelevant. It was a violation of trust, and there is no excuse.
She's just so wrong. If he wanted kids and she didn't, she should have had the decency to divorce him rather than cheat. Don't marry gents. It's a lose-lose. They're incapable of loyalty and honesty.
The words "loyalty" and "honesty" only appear in the same sentence the word "woman" is, when the following is in the middle in some way, shape or form: "can't be found in".
Incel much? You forget that a cheater cheats with someone, right? Otherwise it is just masturbation. And all affair partners are not single. So there are equal numbers of disloyal and dishonest men.
For not revealing the truth op on story 1 is bound to repeat the torture of how she caused someone’s demise. Karma never forgets and we can never escape it and it will come for her in the most brutal unexpected and full of pain way. The ap has a big set of ⚽️ to come to the hospital karma will get him as well
Exactly! Everyone is only focused on her cheating, but there is so much more going on here that is unsaid, and it was very irresponsible of him to get in a car and possibly deliberately crash it.
S2: I liked this one and hope it’s true. There was good communication, eventually, and reasonable changes were made. These stories do sometimes make you wonder how many people in a friend group are merely there for the drama potential.
Drama or they are jelly someone like OP got someone like her husband. Some try to be flirty but others, I noticed, will try to cause contention be cause they are jealous
special place in hell for OP, but their husband should have used his brain and well....NOT crash into a wall (or even drive after seeing what she was doing)
Story 1: This is all your fault OP! You did put him in life support when he caught you cheating on him! Try telling Matt that the affair was only physical! It does not make it right!
I don't think so. I think enough reddit readers read her the riot act and opened her eyes to the juvenile behavior of her "friends". She needs to find some married friends instead of doggedly holding onto these women who act like they are still in elementary school.
One commenter said Op was selfish for refusing to compromise. There is no compromising when one person wants kids and the other doesn't. They were not compatible and it seems neither of them could realize that. Too often couples ascribe to the sunk cost fallacy, and instead of pulling the plug on the relationship they try instead to rationalize cheating or mistreating the other person under the mistaken idea that all that is better than divorce. All that said, Op is definitely not the best narrator, but we will never get a more fleshed out story because her husband did not live. But there is absolutely no upside to telling anyone but a therapist the whole story of what happened that day, and she needs to find one ASAP. Under no circumstances should she tell ANYONE else. She should just look at keeping her mouth shut as her punishment for her actions.
Not trying to be a smart ass, but I have to ask: why shouldn't she tell anyone, especially his family? Her part in this is irredeemable, but imo, she could've had some integrity and came clean about the situation to his family, at least to his parents. I don't care how strained their relationship was, #1 this is not about her, and #2 that's that man's mother and father and they deserve to know the whole truth and get the closure they deserve and to deny them that is a piece of shit move by OP. Also, how is keeping her mouth shut any kind of punishment for her hand in this? Again, I'm not trying to be a prick, I honestly just wanna know how you'd justify that.
While shes definitely deserves to feel that guilt, she’s the catalyst for acccident but he’s ultimately responsible for his accident he chose get behind the wheel of a car and drive when he mentally wasn’t in the headspace to be driving he could have hurt someone in addition to himself. Also there’s no such things as a compromise when it comes to kids. I feel like people have intellectually regressed and don’t know what the word compromise means both parties meeting in the middle, y’all say compromise but really mean someone should just give in to the other person.thats called acquiescing. How does that work with kids when one person wants them and the other doesn’t, she’s selfish and trash for cheating but she’s not wrong for refusing to acquiesce or give in to having a kid.
"Yeah i cheated, but don't worry it was meaningless so it's ok" Ah so she got away with cheating, now she can take all of his shit. ---- 'Best wife ever' is a nice roundabout way to say overcompensating. 'He should have' no. Pushing accountability onto him as per usual. Dude's an idiot, she WILL accuse him again. And again.
S1 now this is a sad outcome the husband was betrayed and almost died In the same day. The moment it was made clear are interests didn’t align id have left her but that in no way excuses cheating she’s trash. 12:08 you know what the right thing to do it you just won’t do it cause you’re terrible. S2: and this op is just stupid.
S1 . Op was lame. He caught his wife cheating, she then blamed him?! N op left in a fit of rage n then he drove off n got into a car crash?! Then the wife still met w/ ap while op was in hospital n op later died surcommed 2 his injuries. Wife Str8 devious. But op leaving like that was weak. He was 2 throw them tf out, period. These op's more times than not in these stories always leave thd house after catching wife having affair in their home. The wife can kick rocks, narcissistic 304. Str8 evil. Acting broken, she just gonna continue being a 304. S2. Wife let her "friends" gaslight her into thinking her husband was cheating, her single friends btw. Then she followed him n saw he wasn't cheating. She believed her (jealous) friends be4 trusting her husband. Y is she friends w/ them n they were even belittling him since be4 theywere married. Smh.
St 1 I hate people that rationalize cheating it was only physical it was repetitive thing so yea you killed him. There is no explanation the reason you didn’t want kids is cause you a selfish self centered individual.
Story 1 instead of tryna to feel sry for yourself and paint yourself as a woe is me victim do this: tell them the truth, accept your 100% blame, turn all responsibility of your husband to his parents, separate your assets and take what’s only YOURS, and leave If he wakes up or not you don’t know but you playing the downtrodden wife holding his hand and worried about herself is absolutely disgusting and I’ve barely made it 5min in
All right, let’s get this out-of-the-way, she was 100% in the wrong to cheat but read it is full of idiots. Blaming her for not wanting to be a mother and “compromising“ on a life decision to make him happy. These two had a good relationship, but we’re not compatible in the long run. She very clearly said that she could never be a mother, and he refused to respect that and continue to try and push for her to become something that she never would be. It’s not an excuse for cheating, but some of you are really absolute morons to think that, that is the core problem and not just that two people who were in love, could not be together. She is to blame for the cheating, hell I think she even drove him to drive into the tree on purpose, but let’s not be moronic about this
Story 1
Notice how she wishes what she could have done to stop him from leaving, not if she didn't cheat in the first place. She is too selfcentred.
She is trash. OP slept with her AP in their marital house/bed, right after a fight with her husband. She says it was purely physical, but that is obviously BS.
He wants kids and she doesn't. He 'is a good man and stable' but that 'stability is a prison'. They don't have the same wants or values but she wants his money and his kindness so she doesn't just divorce.
This is why I've given up on ever being loved.
Sometimes cheating is OK. Her husband didn't address all of her needs and make her happy, she therefore needed to get it from somewhere else.
@paulinejackson5861 in that case, why not end the marriage?
Story 1 wow the mental gymnastics she does to avoid accountability is not surprising cheaters always do the same. Story 2 the classic misery loved company I hope the hisband divorces her
This is definitely a: there's a special place in hell scenario for the OP in story 1. No matter how you look at it cheating is cheating, she betrayed him
Well i mean her husband IS in a Coma, Holding on by a thread but the good thing IS she got to feel alive again from the deathgrip that IS His stability... Good for her
She bet she cheated and made sure to get caught as a way to get out of her marriage. She might feel guilty but she's not guilty enough to take the blame for her actions.
Story 1- All she was worried about was that Matt will wake up and tell the truth to everyone and her reputation would be ruined, but now he's gone, she is relieved but hiding it from reddit in the name of moving on.
What's done in the dark will come to light. If she doesn't drunkenly tell on herself one day, then her AP might spill the beans.
Someone will track her down and tell the truth
I feel like Matt's mom coming in on OP and AP was Karma TRYING to get her cheating, lying, selfish ass caught.
S1: “It was purely physical…” Oh that’s alright then, no problem. lol
Could a real, living OP really be this delusional/conceited?
Notice how very few of her concerns were for the husband? She didn’t even cry when he died…
You hear about ragebait fiction and I think this might just be that.
You should hear some of the other stories then.
Like the OP who cheated with their brother’s wife (claiming that the brother was the golden child), married her and then was upset his family refused to celebrate the fact he was having a baby with the stolen wife and forgive/reconnect.
The OP that cheated on his wife and continued to blame everything on her, claiming she was being selfish for refusing to come back and forgive him.
The OP that cheated with her husband with her old college boyfriend (the husband revealed this in his own post about the matter) while being ‘advised’ by her divorced sister (who’s only divorced as she mistreated her husband for not becoming her slave).
Or the OP that was caught by husband telling her friends he wasn’t that exciting and ‘settled for him’, and assumed he was having an affair when he filed for divorce.
I hope so.
Story 1 - OP cheated, blamed him, drove him insane to crash, only thought about herself, lied about AP being his friend, refuse to tell his parents what really happened and now he's gone and OP's like mehh "what's done is done"
If you aren't happy in your marriage, here are the things you can do:
-Go to couples counciling
-Talk to each other about the problems and try to come up with a solution
-if you cant work through your issues, get a divorce so you can get what you want out of life
What you cant do:
-Cheat on then
-Just assume their going to change their mind on something.
Because this aint gonna fix anything, it will make your life worse. This world clearly is not full of adults, it is full of old children who would rather destroy eachothers lives than have a few hard conversations.
GOATED response.
S1. It's ALWAYS 'just physical, never emotional'
If Op's husband woke up with amnesia she would probably sigh with relief
Because it is always emotional, then physical
Like the wronged partner is going to say 'oh, you were horny and I wasn't around so that's OK'? She's lying though. It wasn't just physical. She describes him as giving her attention and support. It was an emotional affair first.
I think physical is way worse because it makes it seem like they weren't good enough
Matt it's going to be haunting her dreams for years to come.
Wow, the guy who sleeps with another man's wife in his own bed has boundary issues? I'm shocked.
Story 1: "I ruined enough lives already, i can't let it ruin mine too", without a doubt, your life is the only one that should've been ruined in all this, and it's beyond infuriating that you're walking away without consecuences. Your so called "regret" and "guilt" means nothing if you're still hiding from the consecuences. She's just glad Matt passed away before the consecuences could catch up to her.
She basically murdered him and got away with it.
@@leedavis-m2o She did not murder him.
People really need to stop assuming people will ‘change their mind’ about kids.
People obviously don’t care or couldn’t care less about what others feel when it comes to having a family or bringing an animal companion
yes because that totally excuses the cheating
@@TheNaughtySenpaimissing the point. Doesn’t excuse the cheating. But the husband’s an AH for expecting someone not wanting a child to want a chuld
@@nicklausdavisexcept for the fact that she was well aware of his desire. What we gotta stop doing is getting with people that you know want kids.
It isn't shared interests that lead to a healthy, lasting relationship. It's shared values. If they have a different attitude than you about kids, LEAVE. If they want them and you don't, LEAVE. If you want them and they don't, LEAVE. If your values don't align, It's not going to last.
it MIGHT be worse if he survives just so she doesn’t have to come clean?? she’s such a horrible person that she would rather this man dies than deal with the fact that she’s a cheater
S1: the second she said Matt was a nice guy and safe, I knew she didn't actually love him. she loved what he gave her and the stability he provided
1st story: I hope she gets outed and is forced to face the consequences of her actions. Every step of the way it was someone else's fault and never did it sink in what she'd done and how that messed up countless lives - all that mattered was to keep hers intact. Absolutely abhorrent. Her parents must be proud.
What do you hope she is outed? That will not make his parents hurt less, AT ALL. And I do not blame Op for her husband crashing the car. As harsh as it sounds, he should not have been driving (assuming it was a one vehicle accident). Their marriage was on its last legs. I just wish they had called it quits before all this.
S1 Wow... At least Matt's family isn't going to be there for her when she'll inevitability grieve her husband. I mean if a family you married into, disowns you when your spouse passes, you really must have sucked as a partner. She is selfish to the bitter end and will most likely go back to her AP; She has learned nothing
We don't know what his family was like or what their marriage was like, but from the little Op says about MIL, she was no peach to deal with.
OP in story 1 should never have a moments peace the rest of her life
S1, his blood is on your hands. You will never be able to forget about what you've done. I hope he haunts your dreams forever.
S1
"What should I do?"
Saving us the oxygen would be a good start.
Story 1 husband should have left long ago
Story 2 her "girls trip to Nashville" is where her friends would convince her to cheat
S1: not only that you cheated on him, but you cost him his life & i don't blame his parents for itfor losing his son & i hope karma cones for you
S1: It doesn't matter if it was just freaking physical! You cheated! These people act like others it's okay that there is no emotion involved, it does not matter! People freaking don't understand about STDS, or the fact that a lot of men have physical touch and intimacy as their main love language so you might as well have had it emotional.
Funny that all cheaters say that they felt so suffocated in the relationship, but at the same time, they never had an idea to quit it and breathe freely 😂 No need to say about the idea to just speak to your husband/wife about it and try to fix the problem. At the same time, despite thinking that it's not their fault they still don't want to expose the situation, trying to avoid responsibility for their actions 🤣
2nd story is pretty sweet 😊
Oh man poor husband 😢
1) even when she admits her regret she doesn't take responsibility
All stories were very good. I love the efforts you put into making the video wonderful to watch while listening to the story. Excellent job. Thank you.
Story 2 it took nearly losing her husband to finally be a better wife and mother.I doubt she'll keep this up. It feels like when she's back in the safe zone she'll fall back into her old behavior.
Bingo
I hope this is awake up call and does better.
@@Sauceboss1992so do I, but I doubt it. People like that tend to pretend they changed, then when they feel they can get away with it, they’ll go right back to their old ways.
@@arielrife3792 alot of assuming for the worst ain't ya bud?
@@Sauceboss1992 I’m not assuming. I’m just making an educated guess based upon my own personal experience. I’m not saying it’s a definitive fact, hence the “tend to.” I know there’s people out there who would actually change permanently, but I know there are just as many who would change for a while before going back to their old ways.
Do cheaters not believe in taking accountability for their actions in these stories cuz wow this woman in Story 1 is very self centered
No, they do not.
Really appreciate all the YTA stories lately 😭❤️🙏🏾
OP might not have pulled the trigger but she gave him the loaded gun. The scales might not level today or tomorrow, but it is coming.
She should go to jail for murder
WTAF?!!!
Story 2: Thanks for that one it ended well
She killed him
people like her get away with it
Story 1 - i hope you never find love in your entire live, I hope you grow old without a husband or a kid or a family to take care of you
First story op is the major yta 😱😱😭 karma is coming her way
I feel like Matt's mom walking in on OP with AP partner was Karma TRYING to get her caught.
Bruh we need to make a law to Punish these cheater’s out here..I’m just saying like for example if a Adulterer committed an a affair with someone else even tho they’re married.they should get 5 or 10 years of prison time for mental trauma and pay the victim compensation but I want to hear someone’s else’s opinions although op in S1 is going to hell for what she done
Story 1 - May she never gain true peace.
She's doesn't care. She was only ever worried about her reputation.
I hope Aaron lets Matt’s parents know what really happened as payback for OP. Because she killed him. If she wasn’t cheating Matt would still be alive. And instead of OP telling his parents the truth, just to give them closure, she acts like a coward, glad she didn’t get caught.
If Matt did not drive recklessly he would still be alive. Emotionally devastated, but still alive.
Story 1 me me me me me that’s all I hear I hope the guilt un-alives OP
S1 she must have felt so relieved when he passed
OP1 shouldve just left now you gotta live with that guilt lawl.
I don't think she will. I don't think she feels guilty at all
S1: She killed him and she knows it. I hope she never recovers from this.
Story 1: The psychology researcher Lawrence Kohlberg has created a theory of the development of morals. It identifies 6 levels of understanding of moral behavior. Level 1 would be "I should do the thing that lets me avoid punishment". An example of that would be to lie about having eaten a cookie, to avoid a scolding. Small children and some criminals have this level of moral understanding. OP is also level 1. And at her current pace, she won't ever reach adulthood, mentally. Another 40-80 years won't be enough.
Agreed, she's clearly emotionally stunted.
She cheated in family home
"before you get out the pitchforks, let me explain..."
Do you think that any of what you said makes it any better?
S1
This woman is disgusting
Story 1 sounds like total whoa is me kitty party. Karma has a crazy way of catching up to people and she will get hers.
I don't know what can be the consequences of her actions. Not just cheating, but also not coming clean even after the guy is fighting for his life, and especially the lack of taking accountability even after his death.
Whether it was long term emotional cheating, or just a one-time spontaneous physical scratching of the itch is irrelevant. It was a violation of trust, and there is no excuse.
s1 the lion the witch and the audacity of that ....
She's just so wrong. If he wanted kids and she didn't, she should have had the decency to divorce him rather than cheat. Don't marry gents. It's a lose-lose. They're incapable of loyalty and honesty.
The words "loyalty" and "honesty" only appear in the same sentence the word "woman" is, when the following is in the middle in some way, shape or form: "can't be found in".
Incel much? You forget that a cheater cheats with someone, right? Otherwise it is just masturbation. And all affair partners are not single. So there are equal numbers of disloyal and dishonest men.
Well when OPs life comes to an end, and lucifer welcomes her with open arms, the husband will have some closure.
For not revealing the truth op on story 1 is bound to repeat the torture of how she caused someone’s demise. Karma never forgets and we can never escape it and it will come for her in the most brutal unexpected and full of pain way. The ap has a big set of ⚽️ to come to the hospital karma will get him as well
In story 1 I’m thinking he purposely crashed.
shes obviously a terrible person but he definitely shouldn't have got in the car in that mindset
Exactly! Everyone is only focused on her cheating, but there is so much more going on here that is unsaid, and it was very irresponsible of him to get in a car and possibly deliberately crash it.
Story 2 is definitely an example of ‘single women keep women single’.
S2: I liked this one and hope it’s true. There was good communication, eventually, and reasonable changes were made.
These stories do sometimes make you wonder how many people in a friend group are merely there for the drama potential.
Drama or they are jelly someone like OP got someone like her husband. Some try to be flirty but others, I noticed, will try to cause contention be cause they are jealous
"I don't know if I can ever make this right"
You can't.
Gets in a fight with an husband and immediately call affair partner to come over.
Story 1: this is quite possibly the worst human being in the world
special place in hell for OP, but their husband should have used his brain and well....NOT crash into a wall (or even drive after seeing what she was doing)
Story 1: This is all your fault OP! You did put him in life support when he caught you cheating on him! Try telling Matt that the affair was only physical! It does not make it right!
The fact that the affair was only physical make it so much better! Snark! Snark!
Story 2, I’ll give it a month or two before OP runs back to her friends and this all happens again
I don't think so. I think enough reddit readers read her the riot act and opened her eyes to the juvenile behavior of her "friends". She needs to find some married friends instead of doggedly holding onto these women who act like they are still in elementary school.
Story 2: I hope that your husband never takes you back because what you did was a massive betrayal which can not be undone!
Story 2: Go no contact with your friends completely!
If the story is true, then sounds like it might be a deliberate attempt.
S2: single women keep women single
That's not always true.
One commenter said Op was selfish for refusing to compromise. There is no compromising when one person wants kids and the other doesn't. They were not compatible and it seems neither of them could realize that. Too often couples ascribe to the sunk cost fallacy, and instead of pulling the plug on the relationship they try instead to rationalize cheating or mistreating the other person under the mistaken idea that all that is better than divorce.
All that said, Op is definitely not the best narrator, but we will never get a more fleshed out story because her husband did not live. But there is absolutely no upside to telling anyone but a therapist the whole story of what happened that day, and she needs to find one ASAP. Under no circumstances should she tell ANYONE else. She should just look at keeping her mouth shut as her punishment for her actions.
Not trying to be a smart ass, but I have to ask: why shouldn't she tell anyone, especially his family? Her part in this is irredeemable, but imo, she could've had some integrity and came clean about the situation to his family, at least to his parents. I don't care how strained their relationship was, #1 this is not about her, and #2 that's that man's mother and father and they deserve to know the whole truth and get the closure they deserve and to deny them that is a piece of shit move by OP.
Also, how is keeping her mouth shut any kind of punishment for her hand in this? Again, I'm not trying to be a prick, I honestly just wanna know how you'd justify that.
Wat a real peace of sht story 1
While shes definitely deserves to feel that guilt, she’s the catalyst for acccident but he’s ultimately responsible for his accident he chose get behind the wheel of a car and drive when he mentally wasn’t in the headspace to be driving he could have hurt someone in addition to himself. Also there’s no such things as a compromise when it comes to kids. I feel like people have intellectually regressed and don’t know what the word compromise means both parties meeting in the middle, y’all say compromise but really mean someone should just give in to the other person.thats called acquiescing. How does that work with kids when one person wants them and the other doesn’t, she’s selfish and trash for cheating but she’s not wrong for refusing to acquiesce or give in to having a kid.
Story 1. Explain what? Whats to explain! A picture is worth 10,000 words! He saw enough! Delusional 304! She should be in prison!
Phew 😮💨 story 2 was a close call. Things could’ve gotten way worse
Dont get married guys, protect yourselves from common women like OP.
What is this game bro, I need to know
Story 1. I hope she falls deeply in love and finds him in their bed with someone else
So you took the advice of your single friends that are probably desperate to get with your husband
"Yeah i cheated, but don't worry it was meaningless so it's ok"
Ah so she got away with cheating, now she can take all of his shit.
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'Best wife ever' is a nice roundabout way to say overcompensating.
'He should have' no. Pushing accountability onto him as per usual.
Dude's an idiot, she WILL accuse him again. And again.
S1 now this is a sad outcome the husband was betrayed and almost died In the same day. The moment it was made clear are interests didn’t align id have left her but that in no way excuses cheating she’s trash. 12:08 you know what the right thing to do it you just won’t do it cause you’re terrible.
S2: and this op is just stupid.
S1: being blue pilled kills. It’s AI tho.
S1 . Op was lame. He caught his wife cheating, she then blamed him?! N op left in a fit of rage n then he drove off n got into a car crash?! Then the wife still met w/ ap while op was in hospital n op later died surcommed 2 his injuries. Wife Str8 devious. But op leaving like that was weak. He was 2 throw them tf out, period. These op's more times than not in these stories always leave thd house after catching wife having affair in their home. The wife can kick rocks, narcissistic 304. Str8 evil. Acting broken, she just gonna continue being a 304.
S2. Wife let her "friends" gaslight her into thinking her husband was cheating, her single friends btw. Then she followed him n saw he wasn't cheating. She believed her (jealous) friends be4 trusting her husband. Y is she friends w/ them n they were even belittling him since be4 theywere married. Smh.
Story 1 normal narcissist sociopath female nothing new no remorse what so ever true female
You have argument about kids and you cheat on uour husband lmao. Amd you make it seem like you did nothing wrong. Woman have no loyalty
was it a wall or tree? the AI should decide before it generates.
St 1 I hate people that rationalize cheating it was only physical it was repetitive thing so yea you killed him. There is no explanation the reason you didn’t want kids is cause you a selfish self centered individual.
Story 1 instead of tryna to feel sry for yourself and paint yourself as a woe is me victim do this: tell them the truth, accept your 100% blame, turn all responsibility of your husband to his parents, separate your assets and take what’s only YOURS, and leave
If he wakes up or not you don’t know but you playing the downtrodden wife holding his hand and worried about herself is absolutely disgusting and I’ve barely made it 5min in
All right, let’s get this out-of-the-way, she was 100% in the wrong to cheat but read it is full of idiots. Blaming her for not wanting to be a mother and “compromising“ on a life decision to make him happy. These two had a good relationship, but we’re not compatible in the long run. She very clearly said that she could never be a mother, and he refused to respect that and continue to try and push for her to become something that she never would be. It’s not an excuse for cheating, but some of you are really absolute morons to think that, that is the core problem and not just that two people who were in love, could not be together. She is to blame for the cheating, hell I think she even drove him to drive into the tree on purpose, but let’s not be moronic about this
Explain yourself? WTF
and then wonder why incels exist?
Fhe first one is some bait troll ai story.
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