Her emotions are directly related to everything that she and him have been through, but her vulnerability to express them is because he makes her feel so safe. Just beautiful.
“I’ve never worried once since I was sixteen whether I’d be taken care of”...now that’s a man. And his response to her... they take care of each other and that’s what’s important.
A male friend of mine from high school wished his wife a happy birthday recently on fb. At the end he wrote "I will always take care of you" I thought wow. You don't hear that much these days. It is a different culture these days.
@@ivynya29 i will stay single unless I run across one with those values. I watched a RUclips video recently. There was this gorgeous lady explaining why she didn't want to get married. She said "You have to beat my alone" it took me 2 seconds but I totally understood what she meant.
@@Bint_S lol.. it's on soft white underbelly youtube channel. Hear me out ( lol) the videos are very raw. People from every walk of life, addicts,homeless etc. This particular one is a woman "Frenchie" my initial response was to turn her off, just bc she spoke very fast w/French accent. You could skip over the 1st 30 min & bypass what she does for a living. After 30 min or so she talks about her philosophy on relationships being alone etc. It is amazing. The 1st 30 min are a lot. But her take on life is amazing ( last 30 min or so) she is very entertaining
He has got to be the rock for her. It is not good for her if he freaks out. He needs to keep it all together, but she knows how much he is struggling in the inside and she appreciates that with all her heart. Also, it's hard for her to feel strong, when she feels like a burden.
They’re so deeply in love, mature love, real and raw love. I never thought you could be so connected to someone at such a deep level. I love them both, I wish them the best in their lives always ✨💛✨
I'm so glad she's being honest. Being sick is rough. It doesn't always feel like a gift. I feel like sometimes the world expects too much bravey from sick people. Especially the kind of illness that changes what you look like on the outside. That stuff hurts
Totally. If I had an uncomfortable or not positive answer when someone would ask how I was doing, people couldn’t handle it. No matter how much support you have it feels so isolating. Thank you for watching our video!
All of this! I always tell my friends that I am the one you can keep it real with. I don't need to hear the prepared responses when I ask you how you're doing, you can vent with me.
I think couples in serious relationships should take some questions and do them periodically through out their relationship journey. I want a real connection
I got their deck and it really is worth it! You get to talk about things you wouldn’t otherwise with your partner and it deepens your connection for sure. I love it so much that I’ve been buying it as a gift for other couples
My husband and I do this ! We are 36 & 38, we have been together since we were 17 & 19. The love that we have for each other is scary to us bc we know that it can never be duplicated, we agave grown up together and had so many firsts together. Asking each other questions like this keep us in tune with each other’s feelings and emotions.
This is all people should need in life. A honest, faithful, understanding partner with who you can share everything and love more even though years go by. Money, luxuries, fame, materialistic things seem so small and useless compared to what this couple has for one another.
This woman is so beautiful! I hope she finds security in the way she’s feeling about herself. No amount of scars can take away her beauty because her beauty is not only on the outside, she’s a beautiful person all around.
You’re so sweet, thank you! 💛 I work on it everyday, some days are better than others. I’m 37 and have had 33 surgeries now. Some scars are easier to accept than others. The newest ones from everything cancer related are the ones I’m still struggling with. 💛
CF5 TV I can only imagine how hard that is. Your body changing so quickly and you not having any say in the matter. And words are just words but you really are beautiful!! All those scars just add to it, it shows how strong you really are and that is just added beauty!
I absolutely love these two. Imagine how many relationships a connection like this can change. There are so many unspoken things and lack of communication in most relationships these days. Sometimes you really need to hear these questions/answers. I love their raw emotions. The honesty and just communication with each other. So calm and wholesome.
Okay I ugly cried the whole way through. This kind of love and commitment is sooo beautiful and so rare these days. My gosh, you can see the respect they have for each other. My husband and I are so very similar but we're early in our journey in comparison (married for 3 years).
This man is truly a man, he is appreciated in his role as head of the household. Protect and provides for his family and makes his wife feels safe and he appreciates her in all her aspects. God bless them 😍❤️
“You are the strongest woman I have ever met”....aaaaaand now I’m crying as well. You guyssssss! What a gorgeous, wonderful, amazing and inspirational couple ♥️
Thank you Chad and Sara for sharing a bit of your story with us, you guys have such a great bond. This episode made me emotional, especially as I can relate to some parts. Sending love your way !!!
This was absolutely beautiful. A raw, genuine love which has no doubts or unnecessary comments but just all round respect. Your connection soul mate is hard to find but you found each other. Congratulations on 20 years 🤍
I hope I'll have this one day. It's so tangible, real and raw. Their Vulnerability and dependance on each other is beautiful. Going through a lot when you don't have a person to merely hug is the worst thing I've ever encountered. I'm glad other people have this 😍❤️
This woman has gone through so much in a matter of months, holy smokes. You go girl ! And I hope you read this ...... you’re stunning (your scars are proof that you are a warrior) 🤩
Thank you! 🙌🏻 We have been together for 20 years (21 next month) and in May we will be married for 19. We met/started dating when I was 16, Chad was 18. Married at 18 & 20, first time parents at 19 & 21. We are currently 37 & 39 years old. 💜💜
Almost impossible for me to watch this cause I'm now divorced and 24 years together so much life is lost from it . I miss having someone you completely trust and need the most
I’m not crying your crying 😭😭 so beautiful love this couple and their rawness, they seem like a truly genuine couple and you can feel the love they have for each other. I admire we strength that through everything she proves you never stop being a mother and a wife which is so incredible. Superwoman indeed.
Keep telling me that! 🥰 Thank you! We have been together since the moment we met, I was 16 and Chad was 18. In April we will be together for 21 years, in May we will be married for 19. 💜💜
These people have been through the ringer in such a short span of time. The plus side of being at the complete bottom in life, is there is no other place you can go, other than up, unless there is some sort of tunnel system in place, in which case left and right is an option. I have so much love and hope these two stay as connected and remain healthy during rough times.
This was truly beautiful. Their love for one another is such an inspiration. This made my heart grow two sizes. Best wishes for the both of them, what lovely humans.
Sara from some one who has scars too from advanced cancer twice girl you are beautiful inside and out. The scars will get better mine did. Bio oil helped so much. I wish you all the best lovely lass and chad x
an absolutely stunning couple who have been through so much together. So grateful for them sharing their story. The mutual respect and open communication is just wonderful. X
What really makes a strong relationship is going through really tough things together. Trials test the strength and if you can withstand them together you create a stronger bond.
This one made me want to cry looking at them express genuine love and support for each other. So rare in this crazy world. 😘 As a breast cancer survivor, when she said “I don’t notice myself” I felt that. 🙏🏽 I wish them both many more years of love.
I love this couple. Imo the husband is calm, kind, supportive etc however, he seems numb if it makes sense. I hope he give alll the love, attention that he gives. He makes sure everyone is ok but I hope the same is done to him. Bless you guys...
@@SGill-ms5rq In no way was I him. My opinion was that he does for everyone but he seemed to be suppressing his feelings. Who is truly there for him. Simple... At times those who are making sure everyone is ok they also have needs to be met
He doesn't seem numb at all. He's holding space for and being a container for his wife. You can see the empathy and care in his eyes...which takes emotion. The opposite of numb. Men also feel and process their emotions in a different way than we women do. That doesn't mean they are numb. He's being a good husband. His wife has been through alot and he knows it. Good for him
She is a strong courageous woman with a strong husband to support her. Most couples would have been destroyed by their experiences in the last six months but they are still deeply in love. For better or worse at work here ,much love,health and happiness in the future ❤❤❤❤
Her emotions are directly related to everything that she and him have been through, but her vulnerability to express them is because he makes her feel so safe. Just beautiful.
Well said!
Thank you! 💛
Your making me cry man
Perfectly put, Imani 😁
Okay a whole proverb with this one girl SHEESH
“I’ve never worried once since I was sixteen whether I’d be taken care of”...now that’s a man. And his response to her... they take care of each other and that’s what’s important.
A male friend of mine from high school wished his wife a happy birthday recently on fb. At the end he wrote "I will always take care of you" I thought wow. You don't hear that much these days. It is a different culture these days.
@@numbernine3436 sooo different. Men like that are not very common. They aren’t raised like that anymore.
@@ivynya29 i will stay single unless I run across one with those values. I watched a RUclips video recently. There was this gorgeous lady explaining why she didn't want to get married. She said "You have to beat my alone" it took me 2 seconds but I totally understood what she meant.
@@numbernine3436 Hi which video is that if you don’t mind me asking
@@Bint_S lol.. it's on soft white underbelly youtube channel. Hear me out ( lol) the videos are very raw. People from every walk of life, addicts,homeless etc. This particular one is a woman "Frenchie" my initial response was to turn her off, just bc she spoke very fast w/French accent. You could skip over the 1st 30 min & bypass what she does for a living. After 30 min or so she talks about her philosophy on relationships being alone etc. It is amazing. The 1st 30 min are a lot. But her take on life is amazing ( last 30 min or so) she is very entertaining
Now this is masculine energy, that man is a rock, his presence and clam speaks volumes. I don’t know him but I hope to be this dependable.
Yes, he seems an awesome life partner 😌
Yes they're very lucky.to hv one another
Stop watching red pill content. Stop it. Get some help
You sound as though you're halfway there💙
💗
He seems like the calmest person on earth.
He has got to be the rock for her. It is not good for her if he freaks out. He needs to keep it all together, but she knows how much he is struggling in the inside and she appreciates that with all her heart. Also, it's hard for her to feel strong, when she feels like a burden.
There's a video like this with him talking with their 10 year old son, and he seems like a great dad too.
"Wonder Woman, that's great; I'm married to her."
What a line
trying to imagine this man in a durag is sending me😂😂
It wasn’t a great look for him! 😂 It went away soon after we started dating! 😂
Oh my, I thought it was just me 😂😂. Beautiful couple though. Love the connection.
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It was the jncos for me lmao
They’re so deeply in love, mature love, real and raw love. I never thought you could be so connected to someone at such a deep level. I love them both, I wish them the best in their lives always ✨💛✨
Thank you so much! 💛
That's the guy you want standing beside you when life is kicking your ass
I'm so glad she's being honest. Being sick is rough. It doesn't always feel like a gift. I feel like sometimes the world expects too much bravey from sick people. Especially the kind of illness that changes what you look like on the outside. That stuff hurts
You’re are absolutely right 😍😊
Totally. If I had an uncomfortable or not positive answer when someone would ask how I was doing, people couldn’t handle it. No matter how much support you have it feels so isolating. Thank you for watching our video!
@@cf5tv552 Thank you for replying! Sending you love
@@nolor8397 Same to you! Sending love for health and happiness! 💛
All of this! I always tell my friends that I am the one you can keep it real with. I don't need to hear the prepared responses when I ask you how you're doing, you can vent with me.
This is everything people hope to achieve as a couple. Thank you for sharing your story.
Thank you for watching! 💛
I think couples in serious relationships should take some questions and do them periodically through out their relationship journey. I want a real connection
My partner and I use these as prompts, super great way to strengthen your bond
I got their deck and it really is worth it! You get to talk about things you wouldn’t otherwise with your partner and it deepens your connection for sure. I love it so much that I’ve been buying it as a gift for other couples
My husband and I do this ! We are 36 & 38, we have been together since we were 17 & 19. The love that we have for each other is scary to us bc we know that it can never be duplicated, we agave grown up together and had so many firsts together. Asking each other questions like this keep us in tune with each other’s feelings and emotions.
@@mariyaa111 that is so heartwarming! wishing you guys the best ♡
to be married for 20 years..and still be in love..goals
He is definitely my favorite person! We both feel very lucky to have found each other so early. 💛
This is all people should need in life. A honest, faithful, understanding partner with who you can share everything and love more even though years go by. Money, luxuries, fame, materialistic things seem so small and useless compared to what this couple has for one another.
Thank you 💛 We feel very lucky to have each other!
You've been the love of my life since the moment I met you 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Sierra has more boyfriends then Elizabeth Taylor! ~Edward James olmos In Stand And Deliver
Now THAT’S a marriage!!! I wish them nothing but wonderful and amazing things from now on, phenomenal people!
Thank you for watching! 💛
@@cf5tv552 you guys are amazing, all the luck and happiness to your family always! 💖
I love how she said she never worried about being taken care of it that sense of security about him
I was looking for this comment
Yes!
Hot damn this looks like healthy relationship.
Hot damn 😭😭😂😂😂😂💀💀
@@R3nnyboo HAHAHAHAHAH I’ve never heard of that saying. But this is so funny 🤣 in a good way
This is real. This is raw. This is honest. This is love.
Thank you for sharing!
Thank you for watching! 💛
This woman is so beautiful! I hope she finds security in the way she’s feeling about herself. No amount of scars can take away her beauty because her beauty is not only on the outside, she’s a beautiful person all around.
You’re so sweet, thank you! 💛 I work on it everyday, some days are better than others. I’m 37 and have had 33 surgeries now. Some scars are easier to accept than others. The newest ones from everything cancer related are the ones I’m still struggling with. 💛
CF5 TV I can only imagine how hard that is. Your body changing so quickly and you not having any say in the matter. And words are just words but you really are beautiful!! All those scars just add to it, it shows how strong you really are and that is just added beauty!
I struggled not to cry but failed. Their love is palpable, and the security that permits this level of vulnerability is real. This is beautiful!!!
Same! 😭😭😭
I absolutely love these two. Imagine how many relationships a connection like this can change. There are so many unspoken things and lack of communication in most relationships these days. Sometimes you really need to hear these questions/answers.
I love their raw emotions. The honesty and just communication with each other. So calm and wholesome.
Thank you 🙏🏻
Okay I ugly cried the whole way through. This kind of love and commitment is sooo beautiful and so rare these days. My gosh, you can see the respect they have for each other. My husband and I are so very similar but we're early in our journey in comparison (married for 3 years).
Sara had me crying through this whole video. They both have been through so much especially her. I’m happy they have each other. 🥰
We both feel very lucky to have each other! 💛
This man is truly a man, he is appreciated in his role as head of the household. Protect and provides for his family and makes his wife feels safe and he appreciates her in all her aspects. God bless them 😍❤️
“You are the strongest woman I have ever met”....aaaaaand now I’m crying as well. You guyssssss! What a gorgeous, wonderful, amazing and inspirational couple ♥️
Thank you Chad and Sara for sharing a bit of your story with us, you guys have such a great bond. This episode made me emotional, especially as I can relate to some parts. Sending love your way !!!
Thank you for watching!
'Love of my life' is a very strong word, like that love is the only one you'll experience in this life and it's not easy to find that.
It is a very strong phrase but I absolutely mean it. Chad is my person and we both feel so lucky to have found each other so early. 💛
This was so beautiful. The transparency and honesty between them is so pure
This was absolutely beautiful. A raw, genuine love which has no doubts or unnecessary comments but just all round respect. Your connection soul mate is hard to find but you found each other. Congratulations on 20 years 🤍
I hope I'll have this one day. It's so tangible, real and raw. Their Vulnerability and dependance on each other is beautiful. Going through a lot when you don't have a person to merely hug is the worst thing I've ever encountered. I'm glad other people have this 😍❤️
I hope you’re doing ok now. Sending you hugs 🤗🤗
Watched because she looked really angry in the thumbnail and I was ready for her to unload on him. It was alot more than that. Strong couple
The emotional black hole on his face made it look like she had really given it to him too.
thanks for being so honest and vulnerable... Rough times have blended you together... you are a true example. God bless you ❤
This was beautiful. I was in tears. So moved by their strong and loving relationship. Sara, you remind me of myself. Thank you.
This woman has gone through so much in a matter of months, holy smokes. You go girl ! And I hope you read this ...... you’re stunning (your scars are proof that you are a warrior) 🤩
💜💜💜
😌 He’s the great dad from another video...I love ❤️ how they both present...kind and authentic
They look so good she's beautiful
Thank you 💜
I found it amazing that people are still making determinations about people's worth based on how they look.
@@samuelrosslee408 lol no one said that. It's simply a compliment
@The Honest Truth you're giving incel. This is literally just a compliment. And it's not just women who use looks to get a leg up, but go off.
Am I the only one shocked at the Married 20 years Bc they literally only look 30-35 💀
Thank you! 🙌🏻 We have been together for 20 years (21 next month) and in May we will be married for 19. We met/started dating when I was 16, Chad was 18. Married at 18 & 20, first time parents at 19 & 21. We are currently 37 & 39 years old. 💜💜
@@cf5tv552 wow! That's amazing!
Same 😆
@@cf5tv552 so beautiful. Thank u for sharing ur love story ❤️❤️
@@cf5tv552 you should have a RUclipsr channel your family seem very wholesome
I look at them...and then I look around me and I struggle to believe that relationships like theirs exist...but am glad that they have each other ❤️
Sending you love 💛
Almost impossible for me to watch this cause I'm now divorced and 24 years together so much life is lost from it . I miss having someone you completely trust and need the most
weak
@@loveiscactus4294 be quiet Love Is Cactus. Sending you lots of love Christopher
@@Lia-li3yc even weaker
I hope u heal and find better ❤
I’m not crying your crying 😭😭 so beautiful love this couple and their rawness, they seem like a truly genuine couple and you can feel the love they have for each other. I admire we strength that through everything she proves you never stop being a mother and a wife which is so incredible. Superwoman indeed.
Thank you! 💛
You guys are beautiful together..you survived even though you started young..and not just survived but also flourished.. just love this!!
Second video with this family and I'm already in love with them, more of them please❤🙏🏽
Their daughters Abby and Grace will be featured in the coming months!
Thank you! 🙏🏻
@@cf5tv552 you're a beautiful family can't wait to see the rest of the bunch❤
@@TheSkinDeep looking forward
Yep I agree, let's see more of this family please
Very attractive couple w a seemingly even doper bond, caring more about each other’s feelings than their own 💚
I feel like couples should do something like this WEEKLY.
dude its 3am rn and im bawling. I could only ever hope for this kind of love and vulnerability from a person whom I love
They’re so beautiful! What a wonderful son they have too. 🥺🥺❤️
Their two daughters will be featured in the coming months too, Abby and Grace.
@@TheSkinDeep I'm still waiting for these videos! Did you post them?
This couple are everything. This is grown up, solid love. Absolute couples goals.
Dang! Twenty years! They do not look like they are barely out of their twenties!!! ❤️
Keep telling me that! 🥰 Thank you! We have been together since the moment we met, I was 16 and Chad was 18. In April we will be together for 21 years, in May we will be married for 19. 💜💜
Oh man!!! couldn't help but cry during this one!
Sitting at work, balling my eyes out. May the both of you be loved and supported, always.
These people have been through the ringer in such a short span of time. The plus side of being at the complete bottom in life, is there is no other place you can go, other than up, unless there is some sort of tunnel system in place, in which case left and right is an option. I have so much love and hope these two stay as connected and remain healthy during rough times.
Loved the video with him and his son too. What a beautiful family
That was so pure gold. 🤌 Made me believe in everlasting love again!
They just suit so well such a beautiful couple inside and out!
wow this made me cry. Their love seems so pure. May God bless them and comfort them through this trying times. Praying for you, guys!
This was truly beautiful. Their love for one another is such an inspiration. This made my heart grow two sizes. Best wishes for the both of them, what lovely humans.
This. Is. Love. Blessings to them always.
Blessings to you too! 💛
Their love looks so real and honest. Couple goals
Sara from some one who has scars too from advanced cancer twice girl you are beautiful inside and out. The scars will get better mine did. Bio oil helped so much. I wish you all the best lovely lass and chad x
Thank you 💜💜
@@cf5tv552 stay safe people xx
I find it interesting that when ppl try to describe why they love their partner, it’s usually in relation to themselves.
This is what love looks like. Bless both of them❤
He should read and record kids bedtime stories.. Bestseller
Relationship goals !!
There bond is deeper than deep
y'all had me crying! how dare you!?
This is so beautiful. I love listening to them and their connection
She is different level beautiful when she laughs and her face lights up
an absolutely stunning couple who have been through so much together. So grateful for them sharing their story. The mutual respect and open communication is just wonderful. X
Geeez this was beautiful, yall are beautiful, it made me cry hard, i felt the love between you too...
They are couple goals
What really makes a strong relationship is going through really tough things together. Trials test the strength and if you can withstand them together you create a stronger bond.
This is exactly what I strive to have in a connection. I hope it comes sometime in my lifetime.💖
I believe it will. Thank you for watching our video! 💛
This one made me want to cry looking at them express genuine love and support for each other. So rare in this crazy world. 😘 As a breast cancer survivor, when she said “I don’t notice myself” I felt that. 🙏🏽 I wish them both many more years of love.
Their answers to “why do you love me” is are perfect lessons on how you make a marriage/relationship work.
I don't know why ... Suddenly have tears on my eyes
She's so beautiful
they’re such an attractive couple and seem really genuine too :)
Thank you both! 💜
I love this couple. Imo the husband is calm, kind, supportive etc however, he seems numb if it makes sense. I hope he give alll the love, attention that he gives. He makes sure everyone is ok but I hope the same is done to him.
Bless you guys...
He worked really hard to hold it together for me that day. It was a beautiful but very raw experience for us. Thank you for watching! 💛
If he does 95% of the things right, please give him a break on the last 5%. You can see he is doing absolutely everything he can.
@@SGill-ms5rq In no way was I him. My opinion was that he does for everyone but he seemed to be suppressing his feelings. Who is truly there for him. Simple... At times those who are making sure everyone is ok they also have needs to be met
He doesn't seem numb at all. He's holding space for and being a container for his wife. You can see the empathy and care in his eyes...which takes emotion. The opposite of numb. Men also feel and process their emotions in a different way than we women do. That doesn't mean they are numb. He's being a good husband. His wife has been through alot and he knows it. Good for him
i have never cried this much at a youtube video
What a great team they make. Sending all my very best.
She’s beyond beautiful
Very kind, thank you!
OMG I LOVE THEM. BRING THEM BACK
That was beautiful!!
That was deep. My god. Life and it’s trails and tribulations. Love conquers.
This was an incredibly powerful episode!
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️beautiful couple
What a rockstar she is. They both are. 🙌🙌🙌
This is the definition of genuine love ❤️
Err... Are tears contagious like yawning?? Cause 😭
Beautiful couple, inside and out 💜
You’re strong Sara. Believe me. You really are.
Real unselfish love...is what I see here. I wish you both the best blessings from our Lord God
She is a strong courageous woman with a strong husband to support her. Most couples would have been destroyed by their experiences in the last six months but they are still deeply in love. For better or worse at work here ,much love,health and happiness in the future ❤❤❤❤
Good lord, I keep crying. Beautiful couple
Oh great. Now I’m crying at work😭
So Sweet. These two are awesome. Couples goals.
GOD BLESS AND GOD SPEED-WISHING THE VERY BEST FROM NYC
The biggest gift he could give her is to stop driving crazy ✌🏼♥️
HE IS THE KING OF ALL CHADS!
Embodiment of love ❤️
Such a beautiful Couple ❤
So special to see that kind of love!
Beautiful couple!!! And she is beautiful! He is one lucky man.