Has been happening for over 40 yearsand yes I hold on to hope but I also have boundaries and I'm going to completely shut off anyone in my family that doesn't consider me important. God knows all the broken pieces of my heart and there's a whole lot of people in this that their name is on these pieces.
I'm dealing with the worst pain of my life. My daughter shut me out of her and my grandkids lives. The other things you mentioned I can deal with. And my daughter is a Christian.
My adult daughter has torn me apart. Wouldn't let me be any part of her wedding. Then told horrible lies about me. During the engagement his mom attacked me verbally its been a nightmare.
Hi Hey I thought l was the only one and l went through hell on earth with that wedding exclusion. It nearly killed me. So sad after all the love l did genuinely give and was glad to do it. Take care and hope for better days ahead somehow. Favourite music.
Remember your value was never based on your adult childs ability to recognize your worth. The pain is stifling even paralysing like venom without an antidote. Though the damage is rarely undone the knowledge and breath of understanding to be gained is permanent. Best wishes to you.
My daughter in law influenced my son to part from entire family, my 80 year old dad, myself, I cant see my 2 small grandchildren anymore, they wont know me😢
Your child can’t “break Gods heart.” It’s absurd! God doesn’t get sad. God has no expectations on us! He has a pure unconditional love that seems to be beyond your understanding, It brings Him joy when we follow Him and it brings him joy to see us following our will even if it takes us away from Him. This expectation and demand as a parent that your child act a certain way is the root of your disappointment and is unloving. The root of ALL “disappointment” in others is pure selfishness.
God is pure love but if you read the Bible and the ten commandmentsyou will find that children need to honor their mother and father in this is one of the many many things that God is quite angry about. Think about when he went in to his father's house the moneyand how angry he got he is not happy with any of us in children especially if they don't honor your mother and father God's not happy with them and we will suffer consequences God will make sure that
You got to let go with the children walk away put boundariesand when a parent dies remember don't go to the funeral crying when you caused breaking your parents heart
For those who do read and respect the bible they can see that the nation of Israel (as one example only) hurt God regularly with their disrespect and disobedience.
A man can no more diminish God's glory by refusing to worship Him than a lunatic can put out the sun by scribbling the word 'darkness' on the walls of his cell. -CS Lewis
Listening to this in April 2021 (Resurrection Day, as a matter of fact). I praise God for guiding me to your message.
My husband Chris and i have a daughter Grace she has been stolen since birth its been 16 years we are still praying and leaving it in Gods hands.💕🙏💕🥺
I'm so very sorry, Julie. I prayed for Grace.
Has been happening for over 40 yearsand yes I hold on to hope but I also have boundaries and I'm going to completely shut off anyone in my family that doesn't consider me important. God knows all the broken pieces of my heart and there's a whole lot of people in this that their name is on these pieces.
❤Thank you!!! I needed that so....much! God bless you!
Same here 😞. But Im in a peaceful place.😢
I'm dealing with the worst pain of my life. My daughter shut me out of her and my grandkids lives. The other things you mentioned I can deal with. And my daughter is a Christian.
My adult daughter has torn me apart. Wouldn't let me be any part of her wedding. Then told horrible lies about me. During the engagement his mom attacked me verbally its been a nightmare.
Hi Hey
I thought l was the only one and l went through hell on earth with that wedding exclusion. It nearly killed me. So sad after all the love l did genuinely give and was glad to do it. Take care and hope for better days ahead somehow. Favourite music.
I too was dismissed as the MOB. It has now ripped my family apart. I blame Parental Alienation from their Narc father.
Remember your value was never based on your adult childs ability to recognize your worth.
The pain is stifling even paralysing like venom without an antidote. Though the damage is rarely undone the knowledge and breath of understanding to be gained is permanent.
Best wishes to you.
My daughter in law influenced my son to part from entire family, my 80 year old dad, myself, I cant see my 2 small grandchildren anymore, they wont know me😢
Danika is there a way I can privately talk to u . Please
Your child can’t “break Gods heart.” It’s absurd! God doesn’t get sad. God has no expectations on us! He has a pure unconditional love that seems to be beyond your understanding, It brings Him joy when we follow Him and it brings him joy to see us following our will even if it takes us away from Him. This expectation and demand as a parent that your child act a certain way is the root of your disappointment and is unloving. The root of ALL “disappointment” in others is pure selfishness.
God is pure love but if you read the Bible and the ten commandmentsyou will find that children need to honor their mother and father in this is one of the many many things that God is quite angry about. Think about when he went in to his father's house the moneyand how angry he got he is not happy with any of us in children especially if they don't honor your mother and father God's not happy with them and we will suffer consequences God will make sure that
You got to let go with the children walk away put boundariesand when a parent dies remember don't go to the funeral crying when you caused breaking your parents heart
For those who do read and respect the bible they can see that the nation of Israel (as one example only) hurt God regularly with their disrespect and disobedience.
You should put a warning that this is about God not my heart.
Yep. Closing it now.
What do you mean
Listened till you started talk about Jesus. Mnaaahhh
netcalibur Thanx for the heads up, I got 3 seconds in, saw your comment and stopped the video.
A man can no more diminish God's glory by refusing to worship Him than a lunatic can put out the sun by scribbling the word 'darkness' on the walls of his cell. -CS Lewis