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Advisory for you ma'am ...pls change your house locks asap.. it's better to be safe then sorry. Thank you
THIS
You are right... You are very right... The girl who can send her belongings without Sambhavna's knowledge...can do anything...
Right
True
Right
अगर अमिता इतना जूठे बोलती है तो प्लीज आप उसे वापस मत रखना क्युकि एसे लोग पर कभी भरोसा नहीं कर सकते
Ryt
Gher pr cctv lgao, front door pr aur drawing room me, for safety and security. Usko sab pta h gher ka, camera lga do koi bhi aayegi next uske liye bhi camera shi rhega
Yess, it's necessary for your security mam please do it👍👍
Please change your locks and don't entertain her under any situation!
I would like to say ki Jo hua wo didi Kam mein khatam ho gaya aap sochiye Jo insaan aapke pichhe apna saman bhej di aapko pta nhi chala wo koi crime bhi to karwa sakti thi aise logo par vishwas karna bohot bada risk hai aree usey ek baar yaad nhi aaya aapne n Avinash Bhai ne kitna pyar Diya hai usko she is shameless n sachme bolna nhi chahiye but kehte hai na standard matters humein itna sar chadana nhi chahiye bas didi ek hadsa hote hote Bach Gaya ab plz Amita ko aane mat dijiyega kuch bhi ho don't forgive her plz coz aap n Avinash Bhai are very kind but No mercy plz
It's not about Amir and Garib..... Koi bhi yekdam se successful nahi hota.... Everyone have to struggle for their post work and all ..... Amita ne Jo Kiya vo galat hai... Aap dono ko bina bataye apna saman chupkese bahar karna... Not good behaviour... Matlab vo itne din se aapse zhut hi bol rahi thi aur vikas ko Jo baat boli vo bhi galat hai.... Kam ke paise milte hai to kam karna padega.... Aap dono itni care karte the.... Chodo AAP dusari maid dekho aur ho saka to jyada attachment n karna good for your mental health.... Love you ma'am and Sir ❤❤❤❤❤
Amita agar sach bol deti ki main ek mahena late aungi tho better hota. Amita ke wajah se Didi bhe chali gayi. I felt didi was sincere and genuine. Amita ki galt adat ko badawa mat do. Even god wants you all to move on. Bekar ka moh paal rakha hai uske liye jisko tumhari kadar hi nahe. Usko loss hai. Koi aur behtar insaan.dhoondo, bahut milenge. Amita is not honest.
Can anyone explain what exactly happened? I've missed few episodes
@@AISHA_UNBOXING Her house help, whose name is Amita, she left for her village promising that she will be back soon may be a week or two but then after reaching her place she ended up doing the ghosting act.
@@sara-pr5hs thank you ..
I think this is happening for twice or thrice time
Amita ko kya nhi mila apse pyar, paise, acha living, acha khana peena, ghumna, aur yha tkk ki popularity bhi dilai apne usko...gifts tkk uske liye aate the apki wajah se but kya hua....dhoka dediya na. Dii pehle apne ek aunty ko rakha tha to wo bhi btake gyi na isko jana hota to btake ja skti thi
I think you shouldn't entertain Amita or anyone with such careless behaviour. Rather move on and keep another house help. Also, if she returns back don't keep her again.
Yes totally agree, pls don't keep her if she comes bk. Once bitten twice shy & in this case sambhavna u guys hv got ditched by her twice already.
She is big chor
Please do not keep her back
Maids 90% asi hee hoti hai...Mera khud ka personal experienced hai ... Sambhavana di bilkul sahi keh rhi hai
Agreed ...
Exactly! Inki aadat me shumaar hota hai jhooth bolna aur bahane banana, chahe jhooth bolne ki zarurat bhi na ho aur inke ke liye kitna bhi kar lo magar ye log use apna haq samajh ke leti hain bajaye useke liye thankful hone ke.
Agreed👍
Even I have same kind of experience in ko inki limit me rakhna chahiye
Yes absolutely true. Don’t over do for them ever. It’s their job and they are being paid for it. My personal experience is the same. My full time helps .. have done the same always.. bahana bana kr jab mann aaya chod kr bhaag jaati hai and I have suffered a lot.. now I don’t have any empathy for them. Kaam karo aur paisa lo.. that’s it.
I totally agree with you. The same feelings I too have with the maids like you have. This is very heartening Sambhavna ji
Sambhavna ji, you spoke my heart out. Exactly same thing i am going through. My husband is paralysed. We hv a caretaker called ramu since last 2 yrs. Lk every year this time also he went to his native on feb 22nd, saying 10 din me aa jaunga. He was lk son to me. My son got married in December, we gave him all the new cloths lk us only. We had a theme outfits. He was also a part of it. I can't tell you...what not we hv done for him. Then after 10 days, he didn't call or msg. We called he answered after several calls, saying yaha network nahi hai. Now he is saying wo nahi aa sakta.
I don't mind if he want to discontinue...we can't force anybody to work. What bad i felt was...he didn't inform us. 3/4 baar 2 din me aa raha hu kehke latkaya....fir communication bandh.
You said it correct, inko family member kabhi nahi banana chahiye. Wo jo hai unko wohi rehne dena chahiye.
I totally can understand your situation.
It was planned...ab vo kisi or ke Ghar kaam karegi or nahi jamega to phir aapke saath emotional drama...
Better to keep new 24 hr house helper.
Correct
Agreed
But this time no emotional attachment with the new one
sahi
Usaki family hai thoda time do
It's your soft corner for Amita jiski wajah se fayeda utha Rahi hai wo. Ki kal ko koi zarurat padi to fir kahani me le legi aap logo ko. Aur aap log for excited ho jaoge ki Amita ke sath bachhe bhi comfortable hain, rakh lete hain. Such patterns should be broken. Even I have been watching your videos for so long that even I felt attached to her watching your videos, but she shouldn't be able to leverage from your love on these levels. Twice is too much, dont trust her again.
People who are saying that amita was exploited by avinash and sambhavna, should also know if amita was that hard working wo kahin bhi kaam karke utna kama legi fir. Sambhavna aur avinash ke pas hi kyu aati hai har baar! Mere ghar me 7 billi ek kutta hai, aur koi khaas kaam nahi hota bachho ko sambhalne me, and coco cherry candy chhunchhun sab trained hain jo ki normally ghar me susu potty bhi nahi karte hain. Ghar ke kaam jo karte hain wo 3000-4000 me bhi kar dete hain, aur cook bhi do logo ka 5 hazar me 3 time ki meal bana deta hai.
No more chances to Amita.
And people who are saying ki exploit hoti thi amita, to khud dil pe haath rakh ke batao kaun si kaam wali ko aap gold earrings dilate ho, international trips se gifts la ke dete ho. And when Sambhavna mentions ki ek mahine ki chhutti le ke jati hai, toh remember they are PAID offs. Ab khud ko is kahani me rakh lo aur batao kaun exploit hua
Itihas likha hai yeh😂
Very true. You are absolutely right
@@cherrym6599kuchh logon ke liye zaroori hai itihaas Jann na...ab sab itihaas padhe zaroori nahi hai kuch geography bhi padhte hai..
Vese yeh itihaas sambhavna ke liye tha sab padhey zaroori nahi... have a great day and God bless you always
Exploited?? Amita ki aukaat se zyada usko mil raha tha. They were gifting her clothes, gold and all. Bahar trips pe jaati thi free me. Acche hotels me rehti thi. Kutte billi sambhaalne me kya lagta hai. Apna apna din bhar lete rehte hai wo. Sirf ghumaana, khaana dena, hafte Dus din me ek baar nehelaana, itna hi hota hai. Ghumaane ke liye to walker vikas hai aur sambhavana Avinash leke jaate the. Baaki kaam 5 mins ke bhi Nahi hai
Baap re itna guide Kiya aapne 😅
Do not keep amita again instead thank god ki us ka asli chera samnae aagya
Nahi humy jrurat hai amita k baary m hi soch rahy thy kul mila kr JITNI INNOCENT VO DEKHATI THI UTNI THI NAHI AMITA MAM AAP USKO MTT RAKHNA PLEASE OR JALDI SY JALDI KOI OR HELPAR DUNDH LO ❤❤❤❤
Sambhavna ji, now even if Amita lands on your doorstep please dont keep her for work. Appoint a new maid with full home address phone no details and police verification.
True.
Yes
humlog yahaan itni discussion kar rahe hain but i am sure they'll hire her again , if and when she comes back.
Absolutely right
That's true..
Change all the locks ... it's important, might sound snall but serious. It was pre-decided. She has earned what she wanted...now she will relax for few years now and then will hunt for a new job.
Also, like I had told you earlier that she left her suitcase in Village last time only.
Please have 2 house helps - one part time and the other stay over one - so that when you both go out of station someone is there at home for kids.
Be alter.
So practical....not judging anyone but one needs to use more brains to survive...do not exploit anyone and also don't get exploited by others
Changing locks is vv important.Great thought👍
Changing locks is vv important.Great thought👍
Changing locks is a great thought...
Sumbhavna you must over do it!
My recommendation would be for house work Jadu pocha kapde local locality maid should be kept, who lives near home. Then one person who can come in morning and go by evening should be kept so that even when you are not there dogs can manage by themselves at night. On top of all this if you get a live in person like Amita should be used for only cooking and taking care of house like a security should be used. This way dependency on live in person would be less. Should ensure that regular maid and regular dog care person on duty morning 8 to evening 8 should be from local locality
Aap dusri Maid Dhundlo lo ..And 1 nhi 2 Maid Rakho Taki surgery ke time ek ghar sambhalegi to dusri baccho ko sambhalegi and bich bich wo alternate kaam bhi kar legi taki aap full time free hoke Avinash ki Medical condition pe Dhyan de sakoge ...And Avinash ki jagh aapko bahar ke bhi kaam krne me easy jayega So maximum khudko free rakho ...Taki Aap sabkuch time pe Manage kar sakogi ...🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
Ink yha kon tikega ek saal flat me bnd??? Bharti k blogs dekhe h kitna ghumati h parlor etc bhi lekr jti h
Surgery k liye u can ask your mother in law's help, she can come and atleast accompany you both ❤ Stay strong ho ahead and find a new helper 🤞
Unke kaam b kerne pad jaye ghe Sambhavna ko or koi house help b ni hai
New maid full task hai har kaam shuru se samjhao
It's not about Amita ki burai...uska sach samne aana chahiye...and ab ye aur tolerate mat karna AAP....Jo b Karo make sure...but usko mat rakho wapis...
Amita ny ziadati ki hai
Plz don’t keep her
Without knowing her story no one should comment.....ho sakta hai uski family mey koi problem ho
Abe bhai sahab ss ne clear to kar liya how much she spoke juth to three person papa ji ,vikas nd also ss aap to apni birbal ki tarh khichdi alag se pkka rahe ho@@reemahub9042
Ok koi problem hui hai to sach bolo itna ghuma fira ke baat kyon kur rahi hai. ye log jutti pur hi rukhne layak hain pyar inko hazam nhi hota
Hi sambhavna just saw Ur this vlog I use to see ur vlog regularly before but due to some reasons I left .. I know it's v difficult to manage home without a helper but how emotionally we get attach with these poor house helpers alas is basically our fault plss dnt get disheart u r lovely humble n a good soul n listen next helper KO jub bhi assign karna contract base p karna or emotional fool nhi bunna they r doing their job n u r paying heavily to them...keep shining 😉 n make us alive lots of salam
Maine flying beast ki bhi vlogs dekha unki jo 24 hrs maid thi Rashi k liye dekhbhal krti thi wo maid to unko bolkar gyi k8 wo wapas nhi ayengi aur hum sb viewers bhi ye jante the lekin this time apki maid ne aisa kiya .
Sach mein Itna reliable nhi hona chaiye maid pe
please dont keep her again, my maid who was with me for 10yrs did same. this is the reasob
they dont come up in life,
Koi permanent nhi hota apni life mein 🙂 I can understand ur problem 🙂💗
Please change all the locks of your house , because their might be some pre-planning happened and she might get in when you're not in home or not in station.
Yes I am agree with this
@@sushreesangita2719yes, me too
I also agree 💯
Yes i also thinks very bad behaviour worst be safe mam
Yesss
Hum jitna ye maid k liye sochte hai utna wo log humare baare mai nai sochte hai...Maine b same recent face kiya hai..I stay in Dubai and my maid did same with me...meri 3 yrs ki baby k liye new maid k saat firse adjust hona was so difficult I did so much for my maid m her family. But usne b aise hi kiya aur zara sa b maan nai rakha...as avinash bhai said...it bttr v don't get attached with our helpers.
Hello Sambhavna ji
I am commenting first time, but I regularly watch your vlogs, I always appreciate your efforts and hard work.
I totally agree and understand what Amita has done to you.
Same happened to me as well.
I would suggest you not to let her in , in your house again at any cost.
You are a very strong lady and I know you can manage everything in your life.
Your direct talk to us forced me to text you.
It is a great time watching your vlogs.
You both are right
You should just leave Amita.
She should not deserve people like you who took care of her like her own family.
Dusri baar bhi same galati karna is not at all tolerable
Very bad attitude Amita... Saaf bol dena chahiye...aisa krne ki zarurat nhi thi ....
She did it for 2md time.. N woh uski fitrat ban gayi hai
True
she shown that aj kl srf log matlb k lie acche bnte h usko hr chiz provide ki apni choti bhan jesa treat kia uske baad to ye bhut bda dhoka dia h amita ne
@@poojanirmal6682 right, Amita to ekdam behen jaisi thi aur Coco ke saath bhi kitna khelti thi aur ab Aisa Kara , jab pehle amita apne gao jaati thi tab ham sab ko aur sambhavna di ko kitna wait rehta tha uska , lekin ab doosri maid aayegi 😭😔😔
True..logo ki galti maf kr skte Hain lekin wo agar fitrat ban jaye toh just cut off
Amita ka husband darubaaz hai aur usko wapas nahi jaane deraha hai. Main Amita ke gaao se hi hun. Uski majboori ko samjho. Uske bhi bacchey hain.
Yaar apka comment unhe padna chahiye, itne comments mai kaise read karegi sambhaavna
@@tank706 sambhavana ko pata hai Amita ke husband ke baarey mein .pata nahi vo Amita ke liye galat kyun soch rahi hain. Amita agar ana bhi chahey toh uski zimmedariyan uthaney wala yahan koi nahi hai. Uskey bacche bhi ab badey ho rahe hain. Isliye shayad vo clear jawab nahi de paa rahi sambhavana ko
Toh sach bolde na ki husband nai aane de rha hai ...jisko sach nai bta paaye usse sath ki umeed na kre
Sam and Avi , i totally understand your hurt . i have gone through the same several times .Being from a family with 3 kids and 3 pets always kept live in help ...when we could afford only 1 we kept 1 ...now i have 4 all girls from jharkand ...the ammount i do for them i know and i can understand from your behavior how well you look after them .
they have no one in BANGALORE...so i send all 4 every 2 months on a staycation ...book rhem a guest house so that they get a break from work. Get them clothes on every festival and their birthdays.
Give them a raise without asking .YET the one i loved and trusted most as my own child ....went home ...saying she is getting married...actually she was already married and i git to know from all other helps thar she was already married !!!! i bought her sooo much stuff for her wedding ...even then she never said anytning ....THE SAD PART IS THAT SUCH PEOPLE KILL THE FEELING OF EMPATHY IN US ....WE FEEL CHEATED AND CAN NEVER BE THE SAME AGAIN !!!
Having said that Sam NO ONE IS IRREPLACEABLE!! YOU WILL GET A BETTER PERSON !!!
WE Live in hope that good people are also there.
And let us not change our good personality for them !!!
THEY ARE NOT WORTH IT !!!
lots of love and blessings to you and your beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️ children !!!
OMG
Mam I think u should find some another helper for you as Amita is just misguiding u people
Yeah Amita di is taking Sam didi for granted...
Aaj je jamane me kisi ke sath achchha karo to wo aapke sath bura karte hai
Amita is not trustworthy anymore...aap pls Mumbai ki hi koi helper kriye ... atleast ye sb nhi hoga or ab aap log Amita ko 3rd chance Mt dijiyega pls
Anita kharab ladki hai dhokebaaj
Ab ye ghalati dibara se mat karna please ...
Don’t worry about Amita.. remember the good times it will give u peace.
This has happened to me where we treat them as a part of the family and they keep going and coming…
Don’t keep her again…
They reach a stage where they don’t want to work anymore coz they miss their families and are tired of working but at the same time they need the money…
So they keep doing this going and coming back…
Don’t keep her, coz it won’t work for you…
Aap bilkul sahi ho sambhavna ma'am you deserve much better than Amita.I know it hurts pr kehte hena ek din essay ata hai ki apne bhi praye ho jate hai don't worry sambhavi family is with you have a healthy life and ya always be happy,blessed love you sambhavi and ha all the best Avinash sir and Sambhavna maam we all are with you.❤
Maine Amita ke jaane wala vlog dekha to usmein Coco ko pata chal gaya tha ki Amita ab nahi aaegi isliye vah bar bar lift ke paas Jaa raha tha🥺🥺Coco ko feel ho giya tha 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
Yesss, you are right.... These voiceless innocent souls can see and feel that can only God... Oooo what a sense.
Yeah its very true...dogs jo hote hai...wo bhaap lete hai...honi ko...k ab ye toa ja rahi hai...ab nahi aayegi...
Amita ko jiyada bhav mat do ,dusri maid rakho
Aur Amita didi bahut hi achi hai woh jis tarha candy Coco cherry chunchun ka khayal rakhti hai wase koi nahi rakh sakta
Are chhodo yar 🙄 behen yeh log ko bolna, yeh log ko hamesa ka natak hai, amita ne phir yeh kiya wo kiya bolke viewers ko comlain karega,
Woh amrita
Aise hi karti rahegi,
Yeh log usko rakhega hi,
Kyunki
Aur koi nai inko jhel nai sakta aur koi tik nai sakegi
@@paramitamaity8593usne bola hai na comment karke batao ,Tum Amita hi ho kya fake account se 😂😂😂look at ur language
@@paramitamaity8593aur tere baap ka ja raha hai
@@paramitamaity8593agree
Ma'am, you and me have the same nature when we love someone we give our 100 percent but when that person does something wrong then that person doesn't exist for us. aapki beautiful soul hai aapne accha karam Kare,that's all matters woh Amita ke karam hai. You are absolutely right ma'am and she is wrong. AAP ek new helper rakh lo and forget about Amita.
Assalam o alikum sam main aap ko tab se follow kar rahi hn jab se aap ne vlogging start ki thi aap aur Avinash Amita ko kitna pyaar detey ho hum sab jantey hain aap dono ki wajha se aap ki family frinds aur even aap ke subscriber bhi Amita ko izzat detey hain aur us ka khayal bhi rakhtey hain magar mere dil main ek baat thi jo main aap ko aaj batati hn main ne aap ke vlogs ke zarye ye jana ke Amita aap logon ke saath kabhi bhi Emotionally attached nahi thi main ne hamesha us aurat ko bohat ghor se dekha hai aap sab ke pyaar ka us par kabhi koi asar nahi howa insaan koi janwar bhi paley tu us se mohabbat ho hi jati hai magar mujhey herat esey insaano par hoti hai ke jinhein aap kitna bhi pyaar kar lo unhein koi farq nahi padta mujhey wo wala vlog achey se yaad hai jab ye chotti se wapis aai thi aur aap itne pyaar se isey keh rahe they ke Coco ko milo tu isey Coco se mil kar koi khoshi nahi howi us ka reaction bohat hi normal sa tha khair ab jane do isey ab dobara kabhi mat rakhna jo log mushkil main saat chod dein wo aap ke saat wafadar nahi hotey aur wo log jo bohat mahan ban kar ye keh rahey hain ke aap ko Amita ke barey main nahi bolna chahiye in ke liye arz hai ke aap daily vlogging dekh rahey ho samne wala aap ke saath apni pori zindagi share kar raha hai phir wo kese kuch chupa sakta hai aur agar chupaey ga tu aap ko tab bhi takleef hi honi hai ke btaya kuon nahi? Kisi haal main khosh mat rehna aap log.par mujhey bohat acha laga ke same ne Amita ki baat share ki hum sab se. Apna khayal rakhna aap dono. Love from Pakistan ❤❤❤
Mam doosro ko maaf krne m aur phirse bewakoof banne m difference hota h plz don't give her a second chance
This is 3rd time happened to them
Avinash should atleast make chai and not depend on Sambhavana for minor things, it makes things easy. In foreign countries men and women take up equal responsibility, only in India majorly men want to be spoon fed.
Mummy ne shikhai hai
😅😅😅😅
Yes, typical raja beta behavior, specifically boys from small towns, I've also noticed him making food demands to Sam even when he's free, it's understandable when he works late & come home tired.
Exactly why does he always like chai bana do yeh bana do vo bana do bhai kabhi apni biwi ke liye kuch bana de sam boht khush ho jayegi
Men in homes where women are financially independent are taught households work, I've always known to do basic cooking, cleaning & other household chores after school because mom used to come late & my father always helped in kitchen in morning for breakfast
You know what, my mother used to tell me “bete ehna da jinna marzi karlo, eh kade thode sakke ni hunde” means “inn logon ka kitna bhi karlo yeh kabhi aapke sakke nahi hote” and after what Amita did to you & my helps did to me, I feel that is 100% true.
U r right dear .same happened with me. Inko lagta aapne kiya hai toh ehsaan kiya kya , aapne अपने मतलब के लिए हमारा किया है .
Bilkul such
True my nana used to say that wo kehte thy ye kame kameene hote hai ye kisi ky saky nahi hote means in ky ghr kuch nahi hota phir ye humare ghr cheezain dekh kar in main lalch aa jati hai😊
Eggs and poha( we call it chuira) is a great combination.
When I was small, my mother used to make her special dish aanda pizza(egg pizza) by mixing chuira(poha), eggs, onions, coriander, and spices and cooking it by putting oil in a pan and closing the lid and flipping it over and serve with ketchup. It was the tastiest lunch ever ❤❤❤
Amita has crossed all limits. Dont let her come back and have some genuine enforcements. I would recommend aap dono milke Amiyaa app pe week ke meals plan karo. And do some pre preparation like making tomato purée, boiling aloos, soaking dals etc which will help during the actual preparation. Also Avinash if you cannot cook, you can help with other cutting, chopping and making tea/coffee tasks. My husband was like you in India completely far from any house duties and now in Europe he has slowly started learning and contributing. Honestly it’s not just Sambhavanas job to do all the cooking and planning 😊
No no no .... this could never happen 😅 yar they are professionals.Sam Avi keep another maid
Avinash cannot cook. It's his surgery. And Sambhavna alone cannot do all the household chores.. take care of the dogs too. She needs help coz Avinash will need her time post surgery
@@shivaniS1983why don’t they call Avinash’s parents from Delhi during surgery to monitar new maid and support hospitalisation hassles and other work can be handled by Sambhavna
They rarely eat at home for such pre preparations.
@@manifestgameon wo hume kya pata..and kitna bhi bahar kha lo at least din me ek full meal to banana padta hai na? ofcourse Mumbai me to kafi available hai delivery options so ya if they prefer that then perfect!
I am not exaggerating a bit. I have faced such kind of behaviour from maids several times. No matter how much you do for them, they don’t think twice before leaving. They will lie and cook up stories. My maid took leave for 5 days and never returned. Before going on leave, she gave assurance that she will come back but actually she planed not to return. We treated her like a family but she left us when we needed her the most.
Like you guys, we were also extremely hurt and resolve not to be too cordial and friendly with the any maid henceforth.
Yes mere saath bhi hua tha same, when i had surgery, she took even advance money keh kehkar ki usko bahut jaruri chahiye but then never returned. I was sick and alone in surgery. Some maids are very heartless and habitual liars
Also I have seen they do have feeling of jealousy in them. U do anything for them, jitna marzi karo yeh dhokha hi deti hai. I think maids se achcha to koi robot rakh le
It hurts a lot
You need to keep two maids because it's a lot of work.
You can never trust house helpers, the more you love them the more they take you for granted... don't take her back no matter what... maybe someone needs you more than Amita...i have been through this and I totally understand what you are going through. Amita was getting paid for her work done, all work hard to do better in life...i remember you buying for her gold earrings, showed yours and Avinash ji heart...she will regret some day for 😊 sure
Earlier also amita had gone to village for a long time and then when she came back you kept her. Dont do it this time evn if she comes back. Dont trust her anymore. Look for 2 maids now.
And what you said is absolutely correct. Everybody works hard to earn money, no big deal. She chose this job leaving her village. And she was getting handsome salary too. Moreover you and avinash always treated her like family. You never forgot to buy something for her when you went out. So ya you have done whatever you could. So you are not at fault by telling her truth through your vlog.
I think hume kisi pe full depend nhi hona chaye bcz agr hum depend rhete h toh voh hamara fayda uthate practical rhena is best thing of life
Behan but hum log ziada se ziada office work krte ya phir full time ghar mai hote n humare sath humari family bhi hoti but ye suggestion dene se pehle socho tou wo kaise akele sb manage kare unka kaam aisa hai traveling hai shows hain shoot hain unke work ki koi timing nahi hoti dogs ko sath le k work traveling nahi ki ja sakti full time trust worthy maid zaroor chahiye n sam ka itna bada health issue hai wo akele kr rahi hai apni himmat se bs
@@emaanali8451 choro aise log bas kuch bhi bol denge ake ...khud nahi sochte
Apne toh Amita ko gold ka earrings v dia tha I remember 😢 , same goes to me also jitna v pyaar karo always dhoka deta hain yee log 😢 i love you both ❤ love from Assam
and for surgery you can ask your any relative, also please change your mail door lock and place cameras
Surgery k tym help k liye Avinash ji k parents AA sakte h plz call them for help it's not easy toh handle all things after one gets some surgery
Dii..ab amita in future me fir se aane ka bole to uss par trust mat krna plz... Or aap near by ki hi maid dekho plz..to fr ye jhanjhat nahi rahegi aapko
To those who are criticising Sam and Avi for disclosing the entire fiasco created by Amita, may you never have to face such situation.
Amita left these guys at a point when they needed her the most. She knew it all very well and left anyway. It doesn’t matter that she’s a poor woman who left her village to earn a livelihood. What’s wrong will remain so, regardless of someone’s financial or social status.
It’s women like Amita because of whom many others, who are genuine and in dire need of financial assistance, can’t be trusted. Whatever she did, I believe everyone should know about it, so that people can handle such issues appropriately.
It’s so disheartening that despite doing everything for her, Sam and Avi had to go through all of it. Everyone has to work to support themselves, irrespective of their background. Amita’s workload was usual, nothing major. She was getting paid for it, Sam and Avi were not forcing her to work for free or exploiting her in any manner.
Leaving on the false promise of returning in a few days, not answering calls, lying, etc. will never get her any work in future, especially in metro cities. She’s lost out on a lot of opportunities, and serves her right.
Sambhavna you are absolutely right, bcoz I have also gone through the same and we know how they behave despite of the fact you have not done anything wrong to them. Aap unhone extra hi krte h (i have done the same) still at the end they do like this which is hurting as a person (human heart). And please don't think much about amita bcoz they don't deserve your energy when they themself dont want (like she is behaving not answering phone, cutting the call) you enjou your life stress free and absolutely dont think anythinh bcoz YOU & AVINASH HAVE DONE 100% RIGHT. Let other people say anything but as a human I know you guys are correct. Loads of love to you both❤
Amita ko thora nhi Bahut ghmnd ho gya hi ignore kro or age badho 😢
Sab maid shayad 1 jaisi na ho par...Amita ne Jo Kiya use emotions se khelna kehte hai...
Haan laghbjag sab..hamare saath bhi aisa hi hua tha...bahot jhoot bola tha..fir hamne use mana kar dia aane ke lie
Exactly
Saari maids ek jaise hi hote hain hum in se emotionally attached ho jate hain but ye kbhi nahi hote n jhoot bolte humare sath tou hr maid yahi krti 1 week ki chutti le k jati n 1 2 months k liye ghayab phone bhi off kr deti n jb 2 months baad paisa khatam ho jata tou wapis aa k aisa aisa jhoot bolti kisi ki shadi bol k jati n wapis aa k mamu mar gaya chacha mar gaya us ka teeja chaliswa sb kr k aati mujhe tou ab lagta poora khandan hi maar dala hai in logo apni jhooti stories mai
right
All the best for ur surgery avinash bhaiya god is with all of us ....❤all will be good just keep faith on god🙏🙏
Some maids are not reliable and also install camera in your house
Gharme CC TV lagao Sambhavna ji. Jab gharse bahar hote ho you can track what is happening in ur home.
Cctv is already installed in the house but they cannot track everything that what is happening…they only look for babies
Already lga hua hai
Bahan Already laga hua hai
Ab kitna cctv lgega bahut phle se lga h😂😂😂
Aapko lagta hai ki inke ghar mein CCTV nahi hoga already 😂😂
After surgery coco was looking for amita... Feeling sad for him... Usne already apne kapre bhej that clearly means that she obviously wanted to shift... She literally cheated on you guys...
For your kind information Amita loves coco a lot, wo Amita k sath hi sota tha. Aur usko anna hi nahi tha toh wo call hi kyu karti?
No one is taking side of Amita but if she has worked for Sambhavna and Avinash for so many years how can they come to such strong opinions about her and so easily.
@@sahil_writes_officialuhmm i am not hating or i am not angry , I am just telling my opinion.........agar Aisa hota to wo aise unke papa ka call cut kyu karti , aur wo vikas se aur sambhavna di se alag alag time kyu batati
Again I am saying it's only my opinion
What sambhavna Ky Lia Kam kia hai to paise bhi Mily hn ehsan nhi kia or ye Amita ny 2nd time kia hai Or Agr Sachi hai to Uncle ki call cut Kyu ki??? Jhoot Kyu hola phone kha gya hai??? Vikas sy jhoot Kyu bola???? Kyu?@@sahil_writes_official
@@sahil_writes_officialfor your kind information itna hi pyar hota tou wo ye sb game nahi khelti jhoot na bolti mobile chori ka na natak krti sam se kaha 1 2 din mai aa jaye gi vikas se kaha 1 2 month mai aajaye gi actually us ne contact kiya ta k jb us k pas paisa khatam hojaye tou phir se wapis aajaye gi sambhavna usy double pay krti hai us k sath sath uski family k liye itna krti hai even hum fans tk amita k liye gifts bhejte thy n avinash k mummy papa tk wo bhi amita knliye gifts late thy n amita ne un k mu pe phone kaat diya iska kya matlb hai? Ghar mai kaam krti thi tou double payment bhi milti thi free mai nahi krti thi n aap bhi kaam krte ho koun sa boss ya client aapki shakal dekhne k paisa deta kaam krte hogy tou hi milta hoga even boss tou jb tk aapka khoon na nichorr le salary nahi deta us mai bhi late aane pe tou chuttiyon ki salary cut jati amita ko tou chuttiyon ki bhi advance pay mil rahi aur kya hi chahiye amita dhokebaaz hai n aap new ho hum 5 saal se vlog dekh rahe humain pata hai shuru se saari story
Yes I totally agree if she was planning to leave she could have sir and discuss with u both and spl when u know how they give you so much importance. This is really wrong.
AAP,Aarti Singh ki sangeet me nahi gaye kya ., we have seen you with Kashmira at times ..
किसी के घर पर काम करने से पहले उससे पता होता है कि क्या और कितना काम है।पैसे भी वो उसी हिसाब से तय करता है।पर जरूरत पड़ने पर जो धोखा देकर जाए ऐसे झूठ बोले उस पर दुबारा भरोसा नही करना चाहिए।आप वाकई बहुत अच्छी है। क्योंकि जो जानवर से इतना प्यार करता है वो इंसान को कितनी अच्छी तरह रखता होगा ये सब समझ सकते है।
Aapne Usko Bhut Pyar Kiya tha ..mujhe Clearly yaad hai aapne ek baar Usko Gold earrings Dilaya tha (if am not wrong) Mae 5 saal se apka Vlog dekh Raha hu or mae Keh sakta hu ki aap logo ne Amita ke sath bhut kiya literally ekdum Family member bana kar rakha .... But usne apna Asli Rang Dikha diya ...aisa Humlogo ke sath bhi hua hai
Even for that amita chose thw biggest earing
@@StrawBerry-mm1iy yes
Ye baat sach h ki hum log maid ke liye kitna bhi achha soch le lekin bo apni aukat dikha hi deti h mera bhi yahi haal ho rha h ghr me problem chl rahi hai lekin fhir bhi chutti Bina bataye koi call ni humko padi rhti h hum hi call krte h are bhai majboori hoti h tbhi mhelper rakhte h n maine apni family members jaise rakha fhir bi ye log ni BDL sakte h
I am not saying what is or who is wrong, but you only have taken wrong step that you gave Amita second chance to ditch you, after the first bad experience, if that second Didi which you have kept for work was doing good work than you was not supposed to again keep amita for work. We should not think that she is poor or needy, no one is but the fact is that we are actual needy one, although we pay them good, appreciate their work , treat them as a family is our hood part but they don't fell gratitude, honesty, work responsibility....
No problem, just stay positive, because their is bright, enthusiastic day after every night.
Try harder and you eill get the success, because still their are good honest persons in the world.
The main thing Is that just because one has done wrong yo you don't loose trust, hope, humanity on others and with God. 😇😇👍
I wanna tell uu one thing diii...amita ko ghr ka sabkuch pta hai to apne sare locks chnge krwao nd cameras chk karo jb aap bhar jate the to kya pta peeche se kya kuch deti hogi uthakr..jaise apne suitcase kpde phonchaye bhar
This is important
Very important thing
Yess
Absolutely correct..
Yes
Sam....no more Amita.....there are many agencies to give you,24 hrs helpers.
If they go, for even a few days on leave..the agency provides a replacement.
All this for a month commission.
Your husband is ryt..in maids ka aap kitna bhi kar lo but ye kabhi kisi ki sagi nhi hoti, me myself also try to not get any sought of emotional feelings with them bt eventually we get attached as they work they live with us..
Anyways search another one it takes lot of time and patience to keep new maid bt we have to move forward n leave this kind of ppl aside they don't worth it.
Same meri maid pushpa ne v yehi kia. salary lena k baad gayab 😮...Fir mob bnd 😢 fir 3din baad jab call laga tho uska v mobile chori ho gaya ...
tha 😢fir kya chor isko mob wapes de gaya😮 Mai tho Roj uske aane pe Breakfast krwati fir kaam karne bolti taki vo mere pass se kaam chor k kanhi na jaye....last day jab kaam ki thi Aaloo k parathe aur Tarbooj diya tha apne hatho se bana kar....fir office nikal gyi mai.....agle din farra
Aisa hi hota hai Sam...Meri bhi maid ne aisa hi kiya...maine use hamesha family member ki tarah rakha...uske bachchon ko bhi khub pyar diya..jab Mere husband ka cancer treatment hua, sath me Mera bhi ek operation hua...tab vapas mai jab aayi apne city...to wo kahkar bhi nahi aayi...kaam par vapas nahi hi aayi, milne tak nahi aayi..mujhe aaj tak es baat ka dukh hai ki kaam na karti but milne to kam se kam aati..uska ghar bhi paas me hi tha..jab humdono husband wife ke liye bahut hi difficult time tha..sath me meri beti bhi..Meri family ne tab mera sath diya...agar kaam nahi karna hai to clearly bol dene ka ki nahi karna hai..achanak boli jab mai airport par thi ki nahi aa paungi..jabki ek din pahle night me boli thi ki jaruri aaungi.. yaar bahut dukh hota hai, specially jab aap use etna pyar dete ho..human being hain, kasht hota hai..koi baat nahi Sam dear, positive rahne ka, koi kaam rukta nahi...sab achchha hoga..koi nayi mil jayegi..love you always
Ye log aisa dikhate hai jaise free me hum par ahsaan kar rhe hai. Baat Ameer garib ki nhi hai
In logo pe trust kar hi nhi sakte ho. Ye hamari majboori ka pura fayda uthate hai. Mere saath bhi abhi yhi ho rha hai jabki m akele rhti hu or 9month pregnant hu.ek 5 saal ka baby already hai.
Never call her again..we have already faced this types of result of our loving n soft nature.
I totally agree with Sambhavna ki garibi ka koi excuse nahi hota. Yeh ek tarah ka dhoka hai. They were depending on her and trusted her. Pata nahi why people can't think that even rich people are people and everyone needs to be upright in their dealings.
Blame toh khair kisi ko nahi karna chahiye kyunki kabhi kabhi logon mein himmat nahi hoti sach bolne ki. They want to avoid a difficult conversation.
Best to be detached.
Anyways all the best for getting an excellent house help.
Same thing happened with me years ago ..my daughter was only 8 months old and i was all alone..husband was also out of country and she used to cook and clean for me..she was very friendly and nice to me..i went to meet my husband abroad and when i came back she didn't pick up my phone for whole month.I suffered a lot and was very hurt as me and my daughter were very fond of her..bahut baad main call kiya per phir maine ekdum avoid kar diya..jab uski itni zaroorat thi tab usne sath chor diya..
आपकी गलती हैं आप ने उसे जरुर से ज्यादा इज्जत दी तारिफ की,लोग कान भरने वाले होते है.पहेली बार वो गायब हुई थी ,उसी वक्त उसे बाहर का रास्ता दिखाना चाहिए था
I agree.. Wapis nhi rakhna chahiya tha usse
Ismei galti kya hai. Aapne ghar mei kaam karne walo ki izzat nhi kar sakte??
Yes very true
As for my opinian i would say that i have been watching there vlogs for a long time and they favour her not like a maid but a family member thats why they are hurt and dont wanna talk about her anymore
@@janvikhattar5911jarurt se jyada nhi krna chahiye maid ko kya kisi ko bhi
Jarurt se jyada pyaar sirf kuch hi logo ko krna chahiye
Request mummy papa to come,when Avinash ki surgery time
Yes
Yes true they should come
Yes
Yes ask ur parents to come
Right mam
Itna kuch kaam nhi Tha Amita ko ...aur second thing sambhavna di.. aap every year maid ko change krte rhiye...ek hi maid ko continuous mat rkhiye..for precautions..aaj Kal ye dangerous h....
Ye chiz mene bhi handle Kari thi. 😢ek bar ki baat hai Jo hamara ghar tha usme ek nouker thi voh chuti pe gai thi voh pehle mere papa ko call kara fir usne mujhe call Kara usne papa ko call kar ke papa ko bola ki meri train chut gai aur usne mujhe call kar ke bola ki mara phone chori ho gaya hai fir hamne usko call Kara ki dono ko alag call kyun Kara to usne call cut kar diya.
13:28 actually jab Amita 1 month k liye gayi thi tab ek suitcase lekar gayi n 1 shoulder bag but if u all remember return jab ayi tho sirf shoulder bag tha Sam ne poocha b bag kaha hai tho kuch tho bahana bol Diya isska matlab hai ye sab pre planned tha
Yes got your point 😮
How bad of Amita, Amita should be ashamed of herself. Shambhavna mam did everything for Amita from giving saree, dresses to even gold she should be happy she got to work in an amazing house which treats her nicely but still how can she do this I also thought sometimes Amita acts rudely with u but still u ignore it and talk nicely. Mujhe lagta hai ki ap koi aur maid rakhlo Amita dhokebaz hai.
They are not owner, they are employer
Hello.
I can relate to your story. Kyuki jaise avinash jiju ne kaha hum jinke sath kaam karte hai ya jo hamare liye krte hai hum unse attach hojate hai . Waise hi mai bhi apne 2 maids k sath bhot attach thi... i used to leave my whole house as me n my husband r wrking and my kids studying.. unhone mere sath bhot ganda kiya... they robbed my money... jab cctv police tk baat gai to unhone confess kiya and maaafi maangi.. muje b bhot hurt hua tha kyuki maine unhe family smjha tha..
Unke itne din k sath ke badle lekin maine unhe maaf kiya after they confessed but ab maine ye jageh ya trust kisi pe nahi kar sakti hu....
Aap apne jageh sahi ho.. jo aapko judge kr rhe hai .. they are not in ur shoes so let them.. bt aap strong raho... lots kf love and hugs ... jiju ko salam
Chote logo ko jitna mooh lagaoge aisa he hoga jyda pyar aur izzat in logo ko hazam nhi hoti simple h
Apko salary b btani chahiye..logon ko pta lage kitni salary h uski...Ye kaam wali ..kisi ki sachi nhi hoti..jitna marji krlo....jitna marji bhar do inka ghar...bag b chota le k gai...usko gold k earrings...lucknow se suit...kitna kuch diya ..subscribers ne sadiya di gift diye...besharam amita
Agree
Dubai ka suit bhi
Right...sab samet ke gai baimaan...gold earrings lete mai bol deti mai kaam nahi krne wali zyada din...
Sirf Dubai lakhnow ke suits hi nahi bahut sari cheezen off the camera bhi di hongi sambhavna ne knowing her she has a very big heart...shame on Amita
Amita ko ab mat rakhna aap log ye thik nahi hai aap log ke liye
I will be a bad and many of u dislike my comment , to be honest we feel petty about maid and people below poverty line and try to built a flexible relation with them, try to help them as much as we can , I personally did for my maid too and she did exactly same , hum Khud bhi bechare hain , hum bhi apni family chhod ke kaam karne bahar cities mein jaate hain, mehnat karte hain tabhi paisa milta hai, par janha hum maid ko dekhte hain wanha bechara feel karte hain unke liye, it is the gap of mentality and the way they have been raised, hum ek baar phir bhi family samajhne lagenge par wo nahi samjhenge.in short sambhavna ma’am they don’t have same heart as us. Kisi ko ye baat buri lage to lagti rahe, kam padhe likhe aur gareeb log matlabi hote hain by default.
Dnt know but now i dnt pity these people...i faced the same situation dnt know how many times...they just think about themselves chahe ap unke liye kitna bhi kr do..."and ap kr rhe toh apko uski need hai isliye kr rhe" -- this is what they think....just find another person and move on...dnt get too much involved with them...i know ho nhi pata but still...😢
Amita ko ab vapis rakhne ki zarurat nahi hai.
Bhot fayda utha rahi h wo ap logon ka.
Aur please aap ab 2 maids rakhna aur uski salary bhi disclose karo taki logon ko pata chale.
I told u last time also sambhavna hire the maid from Mumbai only secondly hire two maids in same salary which you used to give Amita ...both maids should have knowledge of caring pets and house work properly ❤
Hum bhul gae usko jane do didi our mere liye dua kijiyega
Namaste dear....I m from Kolkata n very in love with you n my pyaare choto bhai....To be very frank to say dat ad soon we find the perfect Servant...we pupils Always becomes dependent automatically towards them....n dis the worst ways they demoniated us with many unusual Emotional attachments...well, the only way to get rid of them..just be very professional attitude towards them...only the heavy salary will talk....nothing else should be included...You both are very strong n honest human being ...stay Blessed Always both of you 😊
Purani wali Didi was much better .. Amita K ane K baad poor lady had to leave ..
Ho sake to unhi Didi ko wapis bula leejie
She went as her wish . Sambhavna kept her also ,both together
Nope, unko aur kaam nahi karna tha
Usko wapis mat rakho... Bhaad me jane do usko
Nice sharing ye jaruri है share kerna about maid because we are depend on them but they are not faithfully we are always good behaviour with them but they are not Trusty
Maan aapko humne apne initial blogging days say follow kiya hai and apne jo bola sab puchengay bilkul sahi socha because we wanted to know everything and jaha tak baat rahe Amita ki galat baat hai itne support k baad baad yeh sab karna , mujhe jhoot ka ek reason lagta hai Amita knows you are very emotional and connected to shayad vo late bhi jayegi to aap maaf kar doge . Simply trying to play around . She did this earlier also par wapas agaye thi and you were very neutral
It’s difficult to find someone you trust, someone who knows how your home works.
But, it’s time you moved on, find someone else and if Ameeta ever approaches you for her job you should not take her back.
Aap logo ne amita ko jyada hi sir pr baitha lia....usko lgne lga ke ye log k pas mere alawa koi option nhi h....ab plz us ldki ko waps kaam pr mat rkhna
Same happened with me
Anita ko Vapas mat rakhna jo aap ke imosan ke Sath khele vo aap ka pyaar deserve nahi karti
God bless you both❤