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  • Опубликовано: 7 ноя 2017
  • Tamar Braxton bared her feelings out in a long message on social media, stating why she actually divorced her husband, Vince Herbert, after almost 9 years of marriage. Tamar alluded to that Vince had several girlfriends and also revealed that she can no longer fake being happy in her marriage. She said when Vince threatened to pushed her out of their home, she was officially done with the marriage.
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Комментарии • 767

  • @mikaally8111
    @mikaally8111 6 лет назад +166

    lol i made the too close home comment and now im feeling myself😂😘. But I honestly never really liked tamar til her recent breakfast club interview. I feel like she is just now being herself.

    • @nope.4254
      @nope.4254 6 лет назад +11

      I believe she dealt with a lot of insecurities that lead to her relationship with Vince and in turn he kind of maybe started feeling himself. I think Christina Aguilera spoke about something similar in her relationship to her ex husband who she worked close with. She has a song called "Stronger Than Ever" about it which kinda detailed her husband coming into her life and then making her feel like she wasn't always good enough and how she lost herself. Her song "You Lost Me" is also about their relationship.
      So, sometimes you go through these relationships and when they're over you're allowed to become yourself. Tamar does seem like a handful but again, Vince seems like he started feeling himself a bit and she started pretty much giving up everything to be with him. Almost as if he wanted to be the PROVIDER and in charge and she pretty much said "OH WELL YOU LEAD THE WAY" and shit fell apart.
      Anywho, I hope she returns to music. She's so talented. Demi Lovato has a song called Cry Baby that IMO sounds so much like something Tamar Braxton would've sang and passed on for her new album. Good luck to her.

    • @shirleygarner3724
      @shirleygarner3724 6 лет назад

      DreamCream Cupcake

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      @limaalex5330 6 лет назад

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    • @onacorona2323
      @onacorona2323 6 лет назад +3

      Why didn't her Mother do something like call 911 if all this beat downs were going on, also when he got sued and lost......it really looks like she is try to make sure she doesn't lose her money. She does have a lot of mouth, and I couldn't stand some of the stuff she yanked about.
      I love her to death but sometimes every thing a person says is just not the full truth, there are two sides and the truth is some where in the middle. I hope they both find happiness, and always do what is correct for Logan.

    • @kimsims9293
      @kimsims9293 6 лет назад

      yeah thats what i was tryin to say!

  • @22972nono
    @22972nono 6 лет назад +649

    That's why I tell my friends:Don't put celebrity couples on a pedestal. You never know what's going on behind closed doors.

  • @aprilshowers3331
    @aprilshowers3331 6 лет назад +165

    It takes the upmost strength and courage to walk away from a toxic relationship, stay strong Tamar!👸🏽

  • @naturallysharon749
    @naturallysharon749 6 лет назад +540

    I'm glad she chose her happiness over people's expectations

    • @ritap7458
      @ritap7458 6 лет назад +7

      Sharon Phiri Agreed. I think it's a wicked awesome example for a woman to set. Shit happens, and when a woman is ready to leave she will. Good for her!

    • @renewedgyrl
      @renewedgyrl 6 лет назад +1

      Sharon Phiri THIS.

    • @illcelebrateyoursuccess8907
      @illcelebrateyoursuccess8907 6 лет назад +4

      Sharon Phiri Right. Too many people stay in situations that are draining all for the bragging rights.

  • @MsCarter8719
    @MsCarter8719 6 лет назад +681

    I see why she wanted her mom to live with her so bad, and why Ms. Evenlyn didn't want to.

    • @Blonde50
      @Blonde50 6 лет назад +65

      Ms. Carter exactly, and if anybody paid attention on how Evelyn was upset about Tamar and Vince trying to have a baby, you can see it in her eyes and her expression and that's why Tamar didn't tell no one about her miscarriage or that she was even trying to have another baby.

    • @socaqueen8186
      @socaqueen8186 6 лет назад +9

      Ms. Carter It's crazy you say that cause I thought the same thing!

    • @GinaJonesStillettoQueen
      @GinaJonesStillettoQueen 6 лет назад +2

      Ms. Carter I said the same thing on another post. Yup

    • @cicicollins9835
      @cicicollins9835 6 лет назад

      Toy Smith i j

    • @ra6094
      @ra6094 6 лет назад

      Fg

  • @DistressedAndImpressed
    @DistressedAndImpressed 6 лет назад +1291

    It's unfortunate that people don't believe Tamar. People assume that Vince is all innocent cause he's more reserved, but abusers are sometimes like that in public. I remember when she gave birth and he took the baby inside and left her in the car with all of the bags and stuff...😒 Always telling her to "watch her mouth." Always seeming annoyed when she's joking around trying to make him laugh. I remember a scene where she flinched when he touched her. Tamar has been abused in the past where she ended up with a broken nose. Abusers try to silence people like Tamar behind closed doors. Why do you think she's always doing the most? She's finding her voice. Vince knows no one will believe her cause she's "loud, ratchet, petty" etc. That doesn't mean she's not being abused. And let's not forget about how he bit her finger last year. And that new video of her mom speaking out. She ADORED Vince, treated her as her own (cause his parents are deceased). I feel bad. No wonder she was crying so hard about her mom no longer living with them. No wonder they called each other 'Ike and Tina'...☕

    • @aprilshowers3331
      @aprilshowers3331 6 лет назад +80

      Anaiah Z yes seems like the classic narcissistic and empath relationship, Vince has fed on her energy long enough #BoyBye

    • @sweetpea06112
      @sweetpea06112 6 лет назад +85

      Anaiah Z That episode when Vince did that with the baby really made me angry.This woman just had your child and you treat her so harsh because you don't want the blanket off the baby. Come on Vince you are not a celebrity like that for you to have went off on Tamar over some picture of the baby getting out.

    • @thedaileybeatbybrittneyd.423
      @thedaileybeatbybrittneyd.423 6 лет назад +60

      Everything you stated makes so much sense.. I never even thought about it how excited she was for her mom to be living with them/her.

    • @ladeja8
      @ladeja8 6 лет назад +60

      Exactly!! I think in the media she's going to take the brunt of fault. Because she is loud and outspoken!! I believe Tamar.

    • @Rio_Monique
      @Rio_Monique 6 лет назад +38

      This! This! THIS! I wish this comment was pinned!

  • @nette3800
    @nette3800 6 лет назад +204

    Her sisters never seems to be a fan of Vince, said he had bad energy etc etc and even her mom and dad said something was off between the couple when she told them about her miscarriage.

    • @TimahR
      @TimahR 6 лет назад +4

      Nette Not to mention Tamar is always calling Vince Ike Turner!

    • @Southerngirl0828
      @Southerngirl0828 6 лет назад +14

      Breahna Davis
      yep...that's why she always worn blonde hair...now i see she stepped out with Red hair in a recent photo. damn shame..if he wanted a fucking Becky with the piss colored hair then he should've chosen that in the beginning...Oh..but he didn't because them cave beasts wasn't checking for his unknown flabby ass back in the day...he ain't always had money.

    • @sirbey9608
      @sirbey9608 6 лет назад +1

      Nette the sisters and mom was riding off Vince and Tamar when the coins were up and Poppin

    • @shitbag21
      @shitbag21 6 лет назад +1

      Sir Bey, How so?

    • @karaokecatlady
      @karaokecatlady 6 лет назад +4

      Nette
      Didn't Toni, Vince's former client, introduce them?

  • @jaytaylor5420
    @jaytaylor5420 6 лет назад +402

    Is that why Tamar always called Vince "Ike Turner"? Cause he was abusive

    • @FrozenAuroras
      @FrozenAuroras 6 лет назад +39

      Jay Taylor Yess she said it many times on the show!

    • @AlesiaDillard
      @AlesiaDillard 6 лет назад +18

      Jay Taylor makes so much sense now

    • @lhuff1069
      @lhuff1069 6 лет назад

      she does that to make you think she is abused cause he called her a name back after she picked on his weight , marriage fights dont count cause people do all kinds of abuse in a marriage fight so if you ging by that your wrong, she wanted people to think he hit her long before she said he did , setting it up like her moma taught her , she smart and street the gays taught her how to set it up . and she did sehe probably paid ms evelyn to say vince hit her , now you know vince aint gonna have that woman mother see him hit her ? even if he did lord they can lie

    • @chelapettyjohn4198
      @chelapettyjohn4198 6 лет назад +1

      Jay Taylor right now that u said something it definitely make sense now lol

    • @sugarandspice2136
      @sugarandspice2136 Год назад +2

      And I noticed he called Tamar "Anna Mae" in one of the earlier seasons of BFV. I caught that immediately 😒

  • @ambermarie8027
    @ambermarie8027 6 лет назад +180

    I believe it. You have to watch the ones who you can't imagine it coming from. Vince seems super sweet and charming and they're usually the ones who abuse their family (emotionally and physically) behind close doors. The ones who are usually loud and outspoken are the ones who are most sensitive and innocent (in part).

  • @jodynanci
    @jodynanci 6 лет назад +131

    When u tired, u tired

  • @Rio_Monique
    @Rio_Monique 6 лет назад +27

    "When a woman's fed up/There ain't nothing you can do about it/it's like running out of love/then it's too late to talk about it" ✌🏾🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @blessingmeeveryday3962
    @blessingmeeveryday3962 6 лет назад +45

    I will never understand why some females continue to stay in a relationship that them themselves know is toxic. Tamar needed to move on after the first sign of physical abuse or cheating. Respect yourself and other's will respect you.

  • @Puppylove890
    @Puppylove890 6 лет назад +55

    I knew they weren't really happy for a long time. It showed. She was just hanging on to hang on.

  • @Mrs__G
    @Mrs__G 6 лет назад +39

    I loved her message she made so much sense. Society encourages us to live a lie and continue to endure the pain and cheating just to say we made it 🤷🏽‍♀️.

  • @lulamanjuza
    @lulamanjuza 6 лет назад +25

    Wendy’s husband is friends with Vince and that’s why she didn’t want Tamar on her show. Her husband is the one who probably said no

  • @beautifulblackness3225
    @beautifulblackness3225 6 лет назад +25

    If it's broken , don't try to fix it.

    • @EmmanuelLewis2
      @EmmanuelLewis2 6 лет назад +2

      Black Beauty Speaks Dumbest thing I've heard in a while... Which is the reason we have such a high divorce rate.

  • @destinystarr3837
    @destinystarr3837 6 лет назад +193

    I feel so bad she's going through this 😞 she's such a beautiful person inside and out. I hope she finds her peace. #Tamartian4Lyfe

    • @destinystarr3837
      @destinystarr3837 6 лет назад +1

      janes amazon A HELL OF A STORM You wrote all of this to say nothing. Lol you don't know shit. You're just assuming all of this because you're bitter and you want to jump a bandwagon because other people hate her. People like you annoy me! How do you know she only married him for his money? SHE HAD MONEY AND A WHOLE CAREER BEFORE SHE MET HIM! How do you know her family is greedy???? Bitch gtfoh. You don't know shit! How about you actually watch her TV shows and listen to her music before you want to dissect someone's life. And you call me a stupid bitch???? Ho learn how to spell and form correct sentences before you call someone else stupid. You misspelled alot of words and your Grammer is pathetic. Learn how to write before you address me next time.

    • @heatherking8689
      @heatherking8689 6 лет назад

      Dee Xscapes Tracey still married to same man for 18 yrs so not sure where she gets they all lost their husbands. She had her own money (maybe not his kinda money. But her own money and someone would've picked her as an artist) she really can sing (even though her extras gets on my nerves) one can not say she cannot sing, cause all them, Braxtons even brother Michael can sing! Why should anyone including celebrities stay in a marriage/relationship that their not happy with or they want to be with someone else etc... They shouldn't, and why ppl start running ppls name through the muds bc they choose the right thing for them is to go instead of staying and cheating or running around on each other etc... Its so awful what ppl have to hear and go through when their marriage ends. Its hard enough wo all that extra-ness. Then ppl wanna bring up the kid/kids, she won't get sole custody, so what? Just bc your marriage doesn't work doesn't mean everyone wants to keep the kids from the other, that don't make one or the other a bad parent. Its called joint custody bc the kid deserves and needs both parents and ppl wanna start with that keeping the kid as a way to get back at the other and tries to keep them from one another and it has nothing to do with the kid and the kid is the only one that suffers and gets hurt. I so agree with you... I don't see why ppl think when someone is going through divorce they wanna say whatever and mean and hurtful untrue things.. Like its hard enough wo all that you know! Im glad there's still ppl that's not blind to the truth still out there and ppl that has sense about them! (Sorry for shitty grammer, my brain goes faster than my fingers sometimes!) lol! #tonifan4life #tamarkeepondoingyou

    • @eugenecoxjr.791
      @eugenecoxjr.791 6 лет назад

      Play

  • @robinbaldwin8835
    @robinbaldwin8835 6 лет назад +11

    A few months ago i went back and watched all the old seasons of Tamar and Vince on Hulu. I’ve been in emotional and mentally abusive relationships. The things that he did in the show reminded me so much of the things that person used to do to me. He broke my spirit so much that when we were out to eat i only looked at my food and him. I literally put my head down on the table once when a guy i knew walked in, so the guy wouldn’t come over and speak. I wish Tamar the best. Being in that type of situation is literally hell.

  • @CandieP
    @CandieP 6 лет назад +455

    Jesus Christ. Social media is truly the devil. We have celebrities and even regular folk writing bibliographies, thesis statements and SYNOPSIS on social media to complete strangers. To ppl who’s waiting to beat you down and not build you up, to ppl who don’t have your best interest at hand, to ppl who have limited thinking skills, are immature, inarticulate, no analytical skills and are self absorbed. Why must ppl have to prove anything to their fans or followers??? Is their lives that incomplete? I’m from the old school so when things like divorce and trauma is happening in my life I️ turn to my family, my pastor or my therapist. F*ck letting the world know because all they will do is pick apart every word you said and exaggerate it. This over sharing on social media has got to stop. 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @deannanyacole1393
      @deannanyacole1393 6 лет назад +7

      Candie P yep. glad you said it!!!

    • @brionmoyd1259
      @brionmoyd1259 6 лет назад +10

      I want to know everything. I hope they continue to overshare. Nothing better then seeing a celebrity going through things we deal with everyday. Its sort of a reminder that they are human too. Its easy to forget

    • @BubbleLush16
      @BubbleLush16 6 лет назад +3

      Agreed

    • @LovettbalngoodsLLC
      @LovettbalngoodsLLC 6 лет назад +14

      Candie P you mean like the way you was sharing on social media as others DID? it's called a difference of opinion.

    • @Amanda-be7eq
      @Amanda-be7eq 6 лет назад +6

      Maybe it's her way of venting

  • @LovesofJBNeet
    @LovesofJBNeet 6 лет назад +13

    I understand100% I'm leaving my husband for these reasons. I cannot anymore. I'm tired of being the secret wife only good enough to take care of our home and children. I started to love myself and care for me more and he hates that. I'm so much happier. I remember thinking I would never get over him until I learned to love myself

  • @kayjewels1488
    @kayjewels1488 6 лет назад +11

    I remember dating someone that was a horrible person/boyfriend. However when females try to call him out about it they would get attacked because he was the popular one in the relationship. Popularity wins every time which is sad. It's sad that people think if someone is dramatic or act a certain way they can never be the innocent person.

  • @bellaxoxo5271
    @bellaxoxo5271 6 лет назад +178

    Tamar is real as ish for this!

    • @90sbaby4lyfe7
      @90sbaby4lyfe7 6 лет назад

      yeah she spoke right thru me going thru the same shit trying to get out its hard but I know it has to be done

    • @nicolenunya984
      @nicolenunya984 6 лет назад +1

      +Hannah Johnson you will get through it and as more time pass you will be kicking yourself like "damn I should have been left". one day at a time sis

    • @90sbaby4lyfe7
      @90sbaby4lyfe7 6 лет назад

      Thank you so much, I appreciate your kind words . God bless you!

    • @sophiawilliams70
      @sophiawilliams70 6 лет назад

      Who cares. She only was with him for his money. She was married twice now devoce twice.. If u marry for the wrong thing it will never last. So now she was abused in both marriage, hope she learn this time

  • @mbm9907
    @mbm9907 6 лет назад +22

    Klump lost that weight and turned into Buddy Love.

  • @amakalorraine6213
    @amakalorraine6213 6 лет назад +72

    So Wendy can speak on someone's life but won't let them speak . Well she better not speak on them then

    • @nickinick5219
      @nickinick5219 6 лет назад

      Shasmeen Muhammad you really thing she gonna speak on it when her husband is standing in the audience? He gonna beat the shit out of her when they get home 😔

    • @MrMonaebrown
      @MrMonaebrown 6 лет назад +2

      I find it interesting that she brings it up on her show but refuses to let Tamar come on and speak.

  • @LailahLynnTV
    @LailahLynnTV 6 лет назад +12

    I’m praying for both Wendy and Tamar as they make their different decisions. 🙏🏾

  • @curtistinemiller1560
    @curtistinemiller1560 6 лет назад +10

    WHEN IT COMES TO MARRIAGE. IF YOU AND YOUR PARTNER ARE GETTING COUNSELING AND ACTUALLY WORKING ON YOUR UNION. GIVE IT TIME AND. PRAYER ..IF THAT DOESN'T WORK YOU MUST SAVE YOUR SELF..LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE!.

  • @justbeingveetv3423
    @justbeingveetv3423 6 лет назад +22

    *We all can learn from this!! Always live in your truth*
    *Now she can begin to heal*

  • @Cat_cuteness82
    @Cat_cuteness82 6 лет назад +31

    Sad to say Tamar we already knew that business transaction I mean marriage was a lie stop it😒

  • @mzreneem
    @mzreneem 6 лет назад +11

    Unfortunately any kind of abuse IS abuse. Mental, emotional, physical, verbal, spiritual, psychological, financial ......that was NEVER one-sided. Watching ALL the shows, confessionals, dinners, trips, and etc Tamar ain't innocent. (towards Vince or her sisters or employees) She's an abuser TOO! PERIOD!
    I'm NOT saying what Vince did or did not do, but I SAW Tamar with everybody and her words & attitude towards others.....she's guilty TOO!

  • @lenorapeoples4543
    @lenorapeoples4543 6 лет назад +3

    Ok, In my first marriage my ex-husband said to me to get out of his house. I guess he was surprised when he went home one night and found me and everything in the house gone. A man should never tell his wife to get out of his house. That boiled my blood. Tamar was fed up with BS. Period.

  • @xuxushushu
    @xuxushushu 6 лет назад +16

    She made the right decision and to the naysayers, y'all would never have the ability to share your insecurities like that and that's why you hate it and want to bash her for having the courage you never will. Go check your facades and see if the world would still like you and what they see without it. I still like Tamar. Good luck, Taytay.

  • @ddoubleu170
    @ddoubleu170 6 лет назад +16

    Be strong, Tamar!♥️

  • @mariaducksworth2140
    @mariaducksworth2140 6 лет назад +7

    I'm happy for Tamar... Tamar was in a abusive relationship before Vince.I'm so PROUD that she had enough courage to get out of this abusive marriage. She probably was hiding it from her family and the public because she didn't want to be a victim of domestic violence again. She probably didn't wanna hear I told you so or what's wrong with you WHY you keep choosing these type of men.Also people saying girl you must like to be abused.I believe Tamar and her siblings will write a tell all book about their LIFE and they probably will tell us more about their parents divorce. I believe it's more to it because they all have been through or going through a divorce.

  • @fire_rasss
    @fire_rasss 6 лет назад +84

    I️ thought it was really messed up that Wendy didn’t let her talk on the show about this. What type of friend is Wendy?

    • @22972nono
      @22972nono 6 лет назад +29

      Shanell Hughes Maybe she's just too close to the situation and doesn't want to choose sides

    • @fire_rasss
      @fire_rasss 6 лет назад +32

      nono honestly, I️ think it’s because Wendy wants to stay with her raggedy ass husband so her husband don’t want her getting ideas from Tamar.. You ALWAYS side with your home girl.

    • @skinnylegend2082
      @skinnylegend2082 6 лет назад +30

      She's on the verge of getting divorced herself. She needs to keep her -psychopathic cheating husband- *cough* man.

    • @22972nono
      @22972nono 6 лет назад +18

      Q W E E N Exactly. If she has Tamar on her show, people will give her the side eye like ok you're supporting your friend who's divorcing her *alleged* cheating husband but your husband is cheating as well and you're not leaving him.

    • @deirdrasj1
      @deirdrasj1 6 лет назад +15

      Crazy part is when the news first came out Wendy said she was waiting on Tamar to call in on the air so she could talk about it

  • @omphilemoerane2569
    @omphilemoerane2569 6 лет назад +19

    When I saw the pic of Sharina I was like "yo is she pregnant" and the you said "allegely, she is pregnant" Lol there is nothing alleged about that belly.

    • @sugarbear9118
      @sugarbear9118 6 лет назад

      Omphile Moerane Ever heard of a fat belly?

  • @kay-caycewilliams4516
    @kay-caycewilliams4516 6 лет назад +60

    I was waiting on you to come threw!

    • @sophiasabrina3865
      @sophiasabrina3865 6 лет назад +3

      Kay -Cayce Williams But instead she came THROUGH!

  • @alisharobertson4260
    @alisharobertson4260 6 лет назад +5

    Aside to all the drama you always see the softer side of things and you always consider everyone whose involved when you to do your Vlogs I just want say to you sister keep doing what your doing as you are one of the only ones if there's anymore on RUclips I've yet to see anyone else have so much compassion for others be blessed I'm a new subscriber 🙂

  • @rayan9194
    @rayan9194 6 лет назад +21

    That is so true the one that sitting there pretending to be quiet and innocent does normally be the abuser, I see that with my own sister her boyfriend beats, punch and bit on her, and people will never believe cause he so quiet..

  • @mandeelaw8410
    @mandeelaw8410 6 лет назад +3

    So in other words...
    She got tired of faking it...

  • @janiceorr1872
    @janiceorr1872 6 лет назад +61

    When she said last time was the last time is a quote from r Kelly's song you deserve better
    Hmmm

    • @janiceorr1872
      @janiceorr1872 6 лет назад +1

      Beinglively FUCKYOU!

    • @nicolenunya984
      @nicolenunya984 6 лет назад +2

      I feel so conflicted when listening to r. kelly

    • @janiceorr1872
      @janiceorr1872 6 лет назад

      Beinglively not that it's your business I support his music. And what he does or anyone else does on their private life is not for us to judge. Too much judging going on in the world by humans. Good day

    • @alexisfeliciano2905
      @alexisfeliciano2905 3 года назад

      @@janiceorr1872 EVERYBODY NEEDS TO STOP ATTACKING TAMAR AND THE OTHER SISTERS INCLUDING THEIR BROTHER MICHAEL AND LOGAN AND VINCENT

  • @tatianaragland4007
    @tatianaragland4007 6 лет назад +2

    Her grammar errors and her writing in third person had me confused! It was so hard for me to even read her reasons. So this video definitely helped me out alot.

  • @WW-ox9dp
    @WW-ox9dp 6 лет назад +14

    Do you know honestly I just can't believe that Wendy is going through this and the fact that she's acting like it's not going on is more shocking I love watching her show and always feel like she speaks the truth but on this matter she is not saying anything and I think that's the worst

  • @roter13
    @roter13 6 лет назад +2

    Tamar's breakfast club interview made me realize that she was ready for the marriage to end. She used to be like "no girl better even look at my man" and then in that interview she was fine with him having another girlfriend

  • @thisworldiscomingtoanend6630
    @thisworldiscomingtoanend6630 6 лет назад +30

    Excellent move Tamar !!!. Whatever happened to the strong confident independent woman ? Ladies, men will never respect a weak woman whose to afraid to leave. Strengthen up that back bone and instilled some self respect. Stop being so thirsty.

  • @stephk1466
    @stephk1466 6 лет назад +3

    They didn't look right together when I first saw them years ago.

  • @truqueeniam1831
    @truqueeniam1831 6 лет назад +37

    Tamar fell in love with Vince's money , then him, any blind person saw that,,,wise person knows it, Real Talk!!

    • @karaokecatlady
      @karaokecatlady 6 лет назад +1

      Queeniam*LiveLoveLearn*AKA*MSC* MSC
      Stevie Wonder saw it!

    • @tancymilligan
      @tancymilligan 6 лет назад +5

      I thought about that too because I heard he is having financial issues and then I was thinking how ironic that now is the time she wants to divorce him.

    • @diamond4360
      @diamond4360 4 года назад

      Um no she was generally in love with this man like you can honestly see that she was in love with this man. He treated her so bad so she had to leave so at situation so bad

  • @lexiaaforever437
    @lexiaaforever437 6 лет назад +148

    I wish people would let them handle they issues in private . Even if they a celeb couple let them handle it alone. the same don’t need too many public opinions . Plus a child is involved

    • @earthangel6858
      @earthangel6858 6 лет назад +57

      Lexiaa Forever She's on social media writing a damn near book...she's making it our business

    • @tamekiawilliams5216
      @tamekiawilliams5216 6 лет назад +24

      I understand what you are saying, but its hard to let them handle their business in private when Tamar is putting out posts like the ones in this video.

    • @christiepolke1893
      @christiepolke1893 6 лет назад +9

      Lexiaa Forever she put it out there and that's what her next season of Tamar and Vince is supposed to show. She did thus knowing people would talk and she wants them to.

    • @AfrykaUnyque
      @AfrykaUnyque 6 лет назад +1

      But she is venting publicly. Now Wendy yes!

    • @DCpuddles
      @DCpuddles 6 лет назад +5

      Lexiaa Forever they are the ones who put their business out there for the public Tamar wrote a whole 3 paragraphs telling the public what's going on so how are we invading their privacy????

  • @daniellez.2462
    @daniellez.2462 6 лет назад +9

    I do believe her but it doesn't excuse all the BS she herself has done and the way she acted toward others, trying to make her family and her relationship seem perfect while putting her sisters' on blast.

  • @rhondanewson4495
    @rhondanewson4495 6 лет назад +1

    I’m glad Tamar is sharing her hurt within her marriage, women in that light have to smile thru the hurt for the Glam Life, House, cars etc, to keep that Reputation of Perfection, but in all this will make her stronger, humbled and closer to GOD.

  • @NiniBonita
    @NiniBonita 6 лет назад +1

    Wishing Tamar all the best on these hard times🙏🏽 🌹

  • @LadyMusse
    @LadyMusse 6 лет назад +1

    I’m so glad Tamar is living her truth, life is way too short to spend it unhappily. I wish her the best and while i don’t know her personally I pray that she finds the strength to keep going forward with this. I never felt comfortable with the way Vince would speak to her he is a complete ass to her and i hope she moves on and finds true love, if not with another with herself . She is raising a son and has to be her best for herself and for him. I am so proud of her she is so brave and courageous for this and she will be a better person for it. She will also be helping A LOT of people who may be in her shoes
    #allTheBestTamar

  • @DollarTree259
    @DollarTree259 6 лет назад +7

    She didn't have to share nothing idk y she did that is personal even though she is a celebrity her personal life should b off limits..

    • @DollarTree259
      @DollarTree259 6 лет назад

      K T I understand and u r so rite I just feel that if she is willing to tell this what isn't private. I would have said Vince and I grew apart and left it at that she was angry when her sisters were all up in her business but from this statement she left nothing to the imagination ..

  • @princessgigiking
    @princessgigiking 6 лет назад +5

    I know Tamar was getting tired of his shit.

  • @reneemitchell3829
    @reneemitchell3829 6 лет назад +1

    When it's time, it's time. A real woman always knows.

  • @Mehrunissah93
    @Mehrunissah93 6 лет назад

    It's crazy I woke up to her post about an hour ago. I'm glad she's spoken out.

  • @taj010405
    @taj010405 6 лет назад +1

    Oop, Ms. Empressive were you talkin about the message I sent on your last video? 😁😁😁 Thanks Boo

  • @Iluv2bblk
    @Iluv2bblk 6 лет назад +1

    Never Never share your marriage problems on social media .. go to your marriage counselor and pastor

  • @ebonywhite1388
    @ebonywhite1388 6 лет назад +23

    I never liked Vince

  • @mallyworld4.013
    @mallyworld4.013 6 лет назад

    U been dropping all the tea

  • @mya632
    @mya632 6 лет назад +4

    Most people get married due to societal pressures.

    • @karaokecatlady
      @karaokecatlady 6 лет назад

      Mya Jones
      So true; & so sad. Also, many have unwanted kids for those same reasons.

  • @staceycollins4366
    @staceycollins4366 6 лет назад +2

    Sounds about right. I can see Tamar getting lost in conversation and turning to Wendy for validation . That would be pretty awkward but that's how girlfriends dish.

  • @Aliasss
    @Aliasss 6 лет назад +4

    How was that shade to Wendy ? I don't get it ..
    Anyway, although I don't feel social media is the best way to "air out" personal business, I get why she would feel the need to share HER truth somewhere because it has become so public and everyone has spoken out BUT her .. I appreciate her sharing her testimony. People don't have to like her, but she's not perfect and that's the reality of being a human. 🙇🏾‍♀️

  • @illcelebrateyoursuccess8907
    @illcelebrateyoursuccess8907 6 лет назад +6

    Tay Tay, I hope you get your Complete Life in the future with a New Man that puts your heart, mind and Spirit on cloud nine. Hope you get therapy first to get to uncover the best you to avoid another abusive coward.You represent strength to so many, but I love how even your moment of "weakness" transparency, admitting it was a lie reflects strength. It takes courage to draw a line and leave. Thanks to you, so many others I believe will leave as well.

  • @angellg25
    @angellg25 6 лет назад +1

    Thanks for this video...I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOUR CHANNEL!!!!! keep up the good work!!!💖💖💖💖💖

  • @FancyAlly
    @FancyAlly 6 лет назад +2

    I'm disappointed Wendy didn't let Tamar go on her show. I hope Wendy speaks the truth on her own marriage soon.

  • @MzVan21
    @MzVan21 6 лет назад +6

    That why need to stop with this relationship goals b.s you never know what be going on in peoples lives

  • @ispy368
    @ispy368 6 лет назад +2

    She called him Ike Turner for a reason on the show...no women do that for nothing....Vince fit the profile of an abuser.....Something was off with Vince... he was too jealous if Tamar.... Nobody is doing this for TV ratings...nooo we saw this coming for awhile now....it took longer than l thought!

  • @jennolove22
    @jennolove22 6 лет назад +3

    Man I felt that 2years of being seperated 8 years of marriage....he told me so many years he told me get out of "his" house smh I agree with what she said...smh my husband also got someone else pregnant...i found out about the baby when she was 2....smh kept telling myself I could do it..be supportive be that string wife....i kept saying we could work pass this ....but in reality when someone is so wrapped up in "self" instead of "us" "we" or "team" you have to ask yourself when's enough? Who do you love more ....your life or his lifestyle....its sad that you love someone who isn't worth your potential nuts it's even more saddening and hurtful that you love someone who wasn't ever intended to love you the same way you loved them 😎

  • @ItsaPaytonThing
    @ItsaPaytonThing 6 лет назад +6

    Wishing them the best!!

  • @lolabolds4992
    @lolabolds4992 6 лет назад +4

    Let's get two things clear from. my point of view . 1 . Ithink Tamar has the voice of an angel , and even outsings her sister Toni . BUT ----- 2 . Tamar has always been "over the top" and not the most truthful angel in the choir . Vince probably abused her , yes , but in a way , she abused him with her mouth . Their show demonstrates that they were never compatible as a couple . I believe Tamar wants her sie of the story out there before Vince assassinates her character . Remember , when two people break up , the truth lies somewhere in the middle of both sides . As far as Logan goes , he will be even more injured if he grows up in a toxic environment . Bottom line , I wish them both well but this was never a good marriage . Count your losses and move on . And , to Tamar --- keep singing , girl ! Your talent shines and is a true gift from your creator .

    • @lhuff1069
      @lhuff1069 6 лет назад +1

      tamar can not out sing tony you nut ,, now thats a lie , tony cant out sing alicia keys christina agular or ahanti even miss me with this lie do you see the super bowl calling her she has not even been ask to sing the national athem people dont like her , just some 20 year old females like her ghetto acts , thats her tamarsians come from kids

  • @tajadavis
    @tajadavis 6 лет назад +1

    If she was to get out of his house 🏡 she'd still be making that coin 😇❤️ "Vince" needs to realize that he created an complete icon in the making that could make it on her own music wise.

  • @ashleybradley7657
    @ashleybradley7657 6 лет назад +1

    Wow that's insanely deep.

  • @glentaylor864
    @glentaylor864 6 лет назад

    Thanks for your kindness,honesty,not cursing as many do.God bless you.

  • @koolaid4315
    @koolaid4315 6 лет назад

    Your commentary was excellent presented. Thank you

  • @miamiller7585
    @miamiller7585 6 лет назад +10

    Blue Bird title mean sad bird and she is going to fly away. It did not mean that story she expkained at her album release party. Vince should of figured that out then because i did. I knew there marriage was in trouble when Vince took the baby in the house and left Tamar in the car when Logan was born. Now he wants to beg her back. Run for the hills Tamar you deserve better that that and you are to cute for Vince any way.

    • @therealeastchick2778
      @therealeastchick2778 6 лет назад +1

      Mia Miller lmfao no it doesn't, bluebird is the bird of happiness and always has been, there's a famous book about it and play called *bluebird* its always been a symbol of happiness, even in ancient China. 😕
      Idk why people just type shit like its facts without researching.

    • @miamiller7585
      @miamiller7585 6 лет назад

      TheRealeast Chick What ever it's my opinion and I'm sticking to it.

  • @skinnylegend2082
    @skinnylegend2082 6 лет назад +33

    5:20 YOU are shady for those pics.

    • @Empressive
      @Empressive  6 лет назад +12

      I promise I wasn't being shady lol. Daily Mail took those pics. I just used them in this video to point out the fact that Wendy is going through it

    • @skinnylegend2082
      @skinnylegend2082 6 лет назад +13

      Empressive One thing's for sure though, judging from those pics. She ain't going WELL through it lmao

    • @candacematthews1987
      @candacematthews1987 6 лет назад +2

      Lol.. that's what I said

    • @shariscott9538
      @shariscott9538 6 лет назад

      Q W E E N 🤣🤣🤣

  • @juliandstewart5660
    @juliandstewart5660 6 лет назад

    It's her truth. People saying she just needed to say "I don't want to be married anymore". It's not your decision it's hers. For a long time I viewed Tamar and Vince. I saw beyond her exterior. I'm good she got out. Wish them both the best.

  • @larryy3133
    @larryy3133 6 лет назад

    I think all your observations are spot on.

  • @diamond4360
    @diamond4360 4 года назад

    He told Tamar to get out the house on there show Tamar and Vince and I was so shock to hear him say that while the cameras was on

  • @TeeKnottyWigs
    @TeeKnottyWigs 6 лет назад

    I️ can understand why she is leaving. Being married and my husband is the Primary breadwinner and try to keep me in his shadow. His friends is HIS friends and my friends are OUR friends. I feel Tay Tay 💯! She finally can walk please let her do what’s best for her and her son! That last 🤛🏾 PUNCH LINE “the last time WAS the last time!” Damn! Read between the lines! 💜💜 no one should have to go through the bs bc a “man” feels the need to CONTROL his Wife. 🙌🏾 Prayers for Tamar and Lil Logan!

  • @95741980
    @95741980 6 лет назад

    She’s getting HER LIFE! More power to them. I hope they can CO-parent as they go through this and start to heal.

  • @kimberlynatasha7
    @kimberlynatasha7 6 лет назад

    Kiddos to Tamar for taking a chance to speak her truth.

  • @mhnbysheterrambeauty7784
    @mhnbysheterrambeauty7784 6 лет назад +2

    I'm glad she's speaking her truth... She's a strong woman thank God, she found her worth... #teamtamar mm I'm convinced he's the reason behind her getting fired ...

  • @moriahaddison
    @moriahaddison 6 лет назад +4

    I believe it. I don't think any of this is for publicity.

  • @TheRatchetRelease
    @TheRatchetRelease 6 лет назад +33

    Nothing about this is shocking. Tamar has always been a spectacle. Everything about her has to be a Grande stand. When people put on like that, allllllll the time, it's because they're masking. So no, their divorce does not surprise me at all. The dynamic we saw between them just on T.V. seemed abusive. Her all up in his face, yelling and screaming. Him allowing her to brat out. It's unhealthy..very, very unhealthy. I can see both of them contributing equally to the destruction of their marriage. Tbh...their relationship seemed like doomsday from the beginning.
    And her posting about it on Instagram is exactly what I mentioned earlier, Tamar grand standing. She's adding to the messiness of this already messy divorce. But again, that's ALWAYS been Tamar's m.o. She lives for the mess. Anything to keep her relevant. For the sake of their CHILD she AND Vince need to keep it hush for a while. Get the divorce and move on.

    • @NikkiGloom
      @NikkiGloom 6 лет назад +13

      Again and again its always women blaming women, and never hold men responsible for being fuckups... thats probably why a lot of you get stuck with kids for checks or you dont want, or sit there when you never had no sense to see what was in front of your fucking faces in the first place. men who aspire to successfully be fuckmen.

    • @Tigerkem
      @Tigerkem 6 лет назад +6

      She blamed the both of them not just Tamar. No one knows what's truly going on except for them and it would be irresponsible to blindly support just Tamar just because she's a woman.

    • @Jennymule1
      @Jennymule1 6 лет назад +2

      You don't even know her on a personal level. All you know is what you've read. Just like the rest of us you on the outside looking in. You speak as though you know them or have actually been in contact with them. Let's get the facts straight before we over analyze

  • @blueyson
    @blueyson 6 лет назад

    Love your voice not boring not monotone but soft and assertive what ever that means !!! You should be a talk show host !!!

  • @LovettbalngoodsLLC
    @LovettbalngoodsLLC 6 лет назад +1

    But that's a part of THE PASSION in the Relationship. To build on and continue to build on a healthy relationship,is to WORK THROUGH THINGS... & This doesn't have nothing to do with Wendy!!! This is about Tamar and Vince.

  • @1destineylove
    @1destineylove 6 лет назад

    That video of her and Vince in the beginning made my stomach turn ew lol

  • @ashleemcbride8855
    @ashleemcbride8855 6 лет назад

    I commend Tamar for walking away , not being messy shaming Vince and doing what best for her First but also keeping in mind that she has to still share a child with him , their son Logan. She is strong and has a great family. Vince is crazy for all those horrible things .

  • @CandyTre1
    @CandyTre1 6 лет назад +1

    I’m very proud of Tamar. I wish her the fullest happiness in life.

  • @queenv4340
    @queenv4340 3 года назад +1

    I'm so glad she divorced her husband

  • @dshaunodayhollywood4680
    @dshaunodayhollywood4680 6 лет назад +20

    Wendy look sick

  • @yvonnewade8641
    @yvonnewade8641 6 лет назад +2

    I sort of figured that when the show was on. He is to much in her space, telling her what to do when to, yea that is not cool at all and very disrespectful. He would have been beat down along time ago. Tamar hat God has for you is for you. He bought you this far he I'll not leave you ever. I knew by her actions she was angry, her sister's should have been there as well as her dad, to assure her she had support. That's what family do. Drop that zero he is all about himself, you are a beautiful young lady, I love you Tamar. Walk with God sweetie.

  • @imalover4011
    @imalover4011 3 года назад

    Anyone who expects to be "loved" is only being" tolerate". The attachment is a feasible emotion. Selfishness, egos, insecurity, pride ruins any acceptance.

  • @legenalways1214
    @legenalways1214 6 лет назад

    Ms Evelyn knows her daughters
    & love can
    never break between a mom & daughter.

  • @4alicia
    @4alicia 6 лет назад +16

    Abuse is one thing but almost all the other reasons you can over come with time and counseling. Today people give up on marriage a little too quickly. If you were to talk with a couple that was married 40 or 50yrs they would tell you there was a few years when they could not stand each other. The vowels you say really does mean something so be careful who you decide to take this journey with. Now don't get me wrong sometimes you have to separate to remember why you fell in love with that person in the first place.

    • @razzberry9612
      @razzberry9612 6 лет назад +5

      Alicia Mitchell *Vows* not vowels

    • @4alicia
      @4alicia 6 лет назад +2

      De'Sea Boone 😀 thank you 😀

    • @razzberry9612
      @razzberry9612 6 лет назад

      Alicia Mitchell no problem love

    • @jwatkins6447
      @jwatkins6447 5 лет назад

      Alicia Mitchell well how many ass whippings you gotta take to be considered as not giving up too fast ??? 😳

  • @tcamille82
    @tcamille82 6 лет назад

    Whoo that tea was served steaming hot baby....prayers for Tamar and Wendy. I'm sure these issues are very stressful.

  • @CourtneyThompson41
    @CourtneyThompson41 6 лет назад

    Lol they lost me when they said Vince told Tamar to get out of “his” house. I about died laughing😂😂😂.. what’s his is also hers end of story 💯 I wish my man would put me out of something which is also mine 😂😂

  • @TheNaturallyComplex
    @TheNaturallyComplex 6 лет назад

    Marriage is a lot of work, and I can only imagine how it feels when you feel like you're the only one putting in that work. Recently her vibe has been very sad to me, so I hope that this will bring some happiness back into her life as she gets to know herself again. It can be so easy to lose yourself in your marriage, so I hope she finds the happiness she deserves.

  • @deejay3690
    @deejay3690 6 лет назад

    I’m super proud of Tamar! Happiness is yours and she is claiming it. Many more of us women need to take heed. God bless and good luck Tamar