Tamar Braxton Breaks Her Silence Following Suicide Attempt

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  • Опубликовано: 27 окт 2020
  • Reality TV star and singer Tamar Braxton speaks publicly for the first time after her reported suicide attempt. She details her battle with depression due to her portrayal on reality TV and addresses the allegations of domestic violence with her ex-boyfriend David Adefeso.
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  • @millieb710
    @millieb710 3 года назад +4793

    She is really struggling right now and it’s sad. Her and Kanye need to step away and heal without cameras or social media.

  • @iammahalieka
    @iammahalieka 3 года назад +1734

    She shouldn't be doing this interview right now. She's still not doing well.

    • @thefabulousmeujwara
      @thefabulousmeujwara 3 года назад +36

      My thoughts exactly. Who does this benefit?

    • @monkeyt28
      @monkeyt28 3 года назад +3

      Amen

    • @Crochetloveby_dee
      @Crochetloveby_dee 3 года назад +30

      Mahalieka Muhammad I think it's good she's speaking about it. Maybe she can use this as a healing session. I had no idea about her being raped/sexually assaulted, so very sad. Sending her prayers!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💙💙💙

    • @munab3666
      @munab3666 3 года назад +4

      @Sheree Palmer that's a good point, a good and empathetic interviewer may make all the difference

    • @steph_steph876
      @steph_steph876 3 года назад +4

      @Mahalieka Muhammad
      she really has a far way to go with her healing and although its not easy talking about it will definitely help her with that.

  • @shesonyoutube
    @shesonyoutube 3 года назад +675

    This just highlights how much childhood trauma, if unaddressed, can creep up on you, even in adulthood. 👌🏼❤️

    • @justice4ruthiebecauseherli853
      @justice4ruthiebecauseherli853 3 года назад +19

      So true. Folks that don’t address these issues often hurt themselves or others.

    • @shesonyoutube
      @shesonyoutube 3 года назад +16

      @@justice4ruthiebecauseherli853 FACTS! Hurt people, hurt people & the cycle continues........

    • @anjelkyssis8041
      @anjelkyssis8041 3 года назад +2

      Truth!

    • @claudiallamas6787
      @claudiallamas6787 3 года назад +2

      Thank goodness you guys gets t

    • @goose7574
      @goose7574 3 года назад +11

      @@justice4ruthiebecauseherli853
      So very very very true! I didn't address childhood sexual assault/rape until I was in my 30's and it was probably the worst mistake of my life... Something's are _EXTREMELY_ difficult to talk about.

  • @CorCor89
    @CorCor89 3 года назад +398

    She is NOT okay. She shouldn't even be doing this interview. It's all in her face that she is not okay.

  • @looper5070
    @looper5070 3 года назад +1229

    “I’m good”, fake smile, nice hair and makeup ,nice clothes/shoes... her eyes are soooo sad! Been there done that! It’s ok to not be ok and seek help my love, seek help!!!🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾

    • @autumnskai6383
      @autumnskai6383 3 года назад +46

      Exactly what I see.
      Estranged from her family, career stagnant, relationship drama, legal problems etc...
      She has a long road to healing. Hope this isn't just damage control, hopefully she's really gonna grow and do better.
      When reality TV makes u, it can easily break u... Gotta have other avenues for success.

    • @MmaIsGood
      @MmaIsGood 3 года назад +9

      It was just a downward spiral since they let her go smh

    • @god-loverlisa8120
      @god-loverlisa8120 3 года назад +31

      The way she backed that statement up with explanation: I'm better than before; (I can say) I'm good today,
      Is like when an addict has come into a new sunrise on an upturn, not looking back or forward,
      or her sister Toni, who has lupus sayind, "today is a good day."
      It's a manner of not over-pitching it--of staying thankful for that moment and staying humble.
      God's grace is giving her good insight. 🙏

    • @Darius19902
      @Darius19902 3 года назад +6

      "You can buy ya hair if it...."

    • @thetruth5098
      @thetruth5098 3 года назад +14

      Damn yall hating!! And yes She looks gorgeous!!

  • @destiny5316
    @destiny5316 3 года назад +1168

    She still has alot of healing to do! She is a work in progress like all of us. She just need to heal alone. Its ok to be alone and heal.

  • @taelorjayfit5599
    @taelorjayfit5599 3 года назад +684

    She’s not really answering the questions. She shouldn’t be doing this. She should get private help

    • @blaque53clay24
      @blaque53clay24 3 года назад +3

      Like they say if they talking about a celebrity it gives them more fan

    • @KSmith-qm6wr
      @KSmith-qm6wr 3 года назад +15

      Yep.....this is another one of her STUNTS. 🙄
      If not, why do an interview so soon🤔
      Nobody gets over a mental trauma like trying to kill yourself by going public THIS SOON 🤨

    • @thatoneweirdkidthatyoudisl6723
      @thatoneweirdkidthatyoudisl6723 3 года назад +20

      @@KSmith-qm6wr she probably isn't over it, but still wanted to do the interview

    • @edwinmaldonado8459
      @edwinmaldonado8459 3 года назад +21

      She did answer the question, rewatch the whole thing, she was humiliated during counseling about her rape story, and she was portrayed as someone who was always mean, and she is always fighting with her sisters, AND her job wasn’t making her happy, so she thought she was breaking, sorry I wrote alot

    • @ravenstamps4924
      @ravenstamps4924 3 года назад

      I agree

  • @GrowingwithTheGardners
    @GrowingwithTheGardners 3 года назад +191

    I met Tamar once in real life. She was the sweetest spirit - complete opposite of what we see on tv. I was nervous to approach her for photo, but I went up to her anyway. She was so welcoming of me in her space even though Vince kept nudging her away. Black women experience so much trauma - I am wishing her healing & the love only God can provide.

    • @mummyking1ofaustria925
      @mummyking1ofaustria925 Год назад +2

      Amen 🙏🏽

    • @Theanonymous133
      @Theanonymous133 Год назад +6

      That's amazing! People can have an opinion on Tamar but at the end of the day she is still human and I'm so glad she's still here and she's feeling better and doing better she deserves happiness.

    • @heidikirsch9100
      @heidikirsch9100 9 месяцев назад +1

      I met her too and yes she is incredibly sweet and down to earth. Don't believe everything you see or hear from media

  • @duediligence5844
    @duediligence5844 3 года назад +560

    What am I NOT understanding? Stop with the interviews, come off all forms of social media, continue your therapy in PEACE and solitude until you've completed your healing........

    • @deidrestephens8255
      @deidrestephens8255 3 года назад +7

      So much yes!!!

    • @tracyholloman9163
      @tracyholloman9163 3 года назад +5

      I agree. Now you doing a podcast.

    • @liquelique20
      @liquelique20 3 года назад +50

      Theres no such thing as completing your healing. Healing is a ongoing forever process. Theres always something to heal from. Some people have to stop running from themselves and show up as themselves and not this perfect got it together individual.

    • @melize7035
      @melize7035 3 года назад +12

      I wish she would do just that but if you quit a show and the trailer comes out and you’re the main topic it’s really hard to not say anything.

    • @CaramelMAK
      @CaramelMAK 3 года назад +5

      I've been saying the same thing! Just go heal yourself and stop going to the media. If you are healing you dont need to be talking to ppl abt it. It just needs to be her and her therapists. When will these celebrities learn that reality tv and the music business is the devil. You can be popular and successful in other
      ways without it

  • @GiGiChosen
    @GiGiChosen 3 года назад +860

    She obviously still loves David, but she needs to *love herself more* and completely heal.

    • @TooBlessedBabyDoll
      @TooBlessedBabyDoll 3 года назад +4

      Preach 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @nawal10
      @nawal10 3 года назад +20

      Well he doesn’t love her or want her back at all

    • @francessjean5861
      @francessjean5861 3 года назад

      Yes. 🙏🏽

    • @swright4twenty
      @swright4twenty 3 года назад +6

      she loved that money. she aint fooling me

    • @shad2434
      @shad2434 3 года назад +23

      Well when u fall in love with sum one it don’t just leave over night just bc y’all feel out and stop talking it took time to fall in love it’s gone take time to fall out of love u guys have to remember this is still fresh have some sympathy I went through a break up beginning of year I was in love and I’m just finally to a place where I don’t think about him everyday

  • @iamsheysaint5715
    @iamsheysaint5715 3 года назад +690

    No offense to the host. But when people are venting, the key is to just listen. All the questions and cut offs was unnecessary. Let her talk plz. She have a great story!! #tamar we love you

    • @princesssophiawise3560
      @princesssophiawise3560 3 года назад +12

      I think it’s editing. Oh well. God bless her, you and everyone 😇

    • @anniexoxo1839
      @anniexoxo1839 3 года назад +6

      I picked that up right away as I read your comment 🙄

    • @janaybreckenridge2795
      @janaybreckenridge2795 3 года назад +5

      I agree

    • @devettesmith6847
      @devettesmith6847 3 года назад +7

      I agree with you..this is really sad.. she's so beautiful and talented..Tamar needs all the love

    • @sharonwells1402
      @sharonwells1402 3 года назад +27

      Tamron is a television host not a psychiatrist. Her job is to interview Tamor, which calls for questions to be asked. Tamar needs to seek professional help and stop getting in front of the camera. She's not emotionally equipped right now to be an open book.

  • @rachelc586
    @rachelc586 3 года назад +285

    The host needs to be quiet and stop interrupting her

    • @siaosinuusila899
      @siaosinuusila899 3 года назад +2

      No fr lol

    • @DivineOracularEssense
      @DivineOracularEssense 3 года назад +6

      That makes me so angry when an interviewee has the strength to be vulnerable and share their story and the interviewer doesn’t even have enough respect for that by allowing her to share without cutting her off

    • @TH-eb7ob
      @TH-eb7ob 3 года назад +3

      TAMRON goes HARD!! She asking as I'm thinking lol

    • @missvida6251
      @missvida6251 3 года назад +1

      It's called an interview. Tamron asked her specific questions that tamar didn't answer. So she tried to keep her on track.

    • @nthatimofolo5873
      @nthatimofolo5873 2 года назад

      So irritating.

  • @tarnishermack94
    @tarnishermack94 3 года назад +843

    I feel she’s not being completely honest. She’s holding a lot in but crying out for help. It seems a lot of her pain is her family. Praying for her strength and healing.

    • @economicshield2192
      @economicshield2192 3 года назад +86

      I agree I always felt the BRAXTON'S have some deep issues. The mother is mean and bitter... remember Toni said if they were not her family they wouldn't be her friends. The brother NEVER comes around or spoken of at all.

    • @lifelife494
      @lifelife494 3 года назад +13

      All of these famous people are full of ishh... When women cry especially for a situation about suicide family and sexual abuse as a child not saying these things didn’t happen or she isn’t going through anything I’m just reading her vibe and energy she is faking for the cameras and probably got paid for this interview so how can anyone take it seriously on the level these subjects need to be taken serious on.!!

    • @shanel6102
      @shanel6102 3 года назад +29

      The sad part that people miss is this lady is a human being. At the end of the day we all have vulnerabilities. Have some compassion people. We all go through ish from time to time.

    • @newyorkapple6192
      @newyorkapple6192 3 года назад +26

      Yes, being molested/violated from the tender age of 6 to 16 is severe trauma! That has to completely take a toll on any girl/ woman. I believe that’s the core of her issues. A lot of her anger is derived from that. You can’t sweep something like that under the rug or pray it away. God gives us Therapist to get healed. God uses various vehicles/ways to heal us. Hopefully she gets the help she needs so she can be the real Tamar we’re suppose to know. Cause the Tamar we know is TOXIC and I’m tired of her antics and taking no accountability for them.

    • @justinaacorn5721
      @justinaacorn5721 3 года назад +35

      I don’t think she can be completely honest as the issues include family members, she is trying to be discreet but very difficult to discuss when it involves others.

  • @mcmic1212
    @mcmic1212 3 года назад +110

    It seems like Tamron wanted the answers instead of wanting to be a safe place. It sounded like a trial instead of an open convo. Too cold, Tamron

  • @adeyosola414
    @adeyosola414 3 года назад +345

    Betrayal from family and close friends is the worst thing ever: it hurts at such a deep level. Stay strong Tamar 💓💓💓🤗🤗🤗🤗

    • @Angelface11
      @Angelface11 3 года назад +2

      Yes

    • @heavensurvivor2097
      @heavensurvivor2097 3 года назад +9

      Yes it really does hurt, but only peace you have is when you forgive them, or you will never be free of the pain. Stay strong 💜

    • @missteann
      @missteann 3 года назад +3

      You are speaking the truth!

    • @travellovers1on124
      @travellovers1on124 3 года назад +5

      Yes it hurts very bad it’s the worst feeling ever . But usually everything come back around sand thing will happen to those people.

    • @nitapatterson84
      @nitapatterson84 3 года назад +4

      It’s a pain like no other

  • @learnandlead437
    @learnandlead437 3 года назад +565

    "Felling like I could never be myself " that really hits me.

    • @k.m.8516
      @k.m.8516 3 года назад +12

      You can always be yourself. Other's around you that are judging are being themselves.

    • @destinyk3612
      @destinyk3612 3 года назад +16

      Always be you. I promise the people who matter won’t mind. ❤️

    • @anetparks2266
      @anetparks2266 3 года назад +3

      *feeling?

    • @deehowe4141
      @deehowe4141 3 года назад +4

      learn and lead I see you and I hear you. Sending love. Reach out. Lots of folks on You Tube who will also see and support you.

    • @kenialee9024
      @kenialee9024 3 года назад +5

      The thing is i dont believe she even knows who that person really is to even be that

  • @TheGListed2
    @TheGListed2 3 года назад +635

    People are missing the fact that the news of the sexual assault that happened to her as a child is what triggered her. Who is helping Tamar to heal from that long suffering trauma?

    • @denasiarobinson6393
      @denasiarobinson6393 3 года назад +57

      Correct unhealed trauma is often not is not talked about

    • @a_noelle8595
      @a_noelle8595 3 года назад +21

      Regular visits with a therapist is her best chance of being helped. Learning to heal from her trauma isn't something that is going to just happen. At some point, we have to place the responsibility of Tamar getting help on Tamar's own shoulders. She has to be ready and willing to do the work it's going to take to get her healed.

    • @booboowright3984
      @booboowright3984 3 года назад +16

      It was exposed than swept under the rug

    • @denasiarobinson6393
      @denasiarobinson6393 3 года назад +4

      My sympathize with her deeply due to a family member that suffers with mental illness

    • @amazingg8238
      @amazingg8238 3 года назад +37

      People truly don’t care. The comments are DISGUSTING. 80% of people who commented, haven’t even listened to the interview because they’re still claiming she “hasn’t taken accountability”. When they hear the name Tamar, they instantly go into attack-mode! 🙄🤦🏽‍♀️ A SHAME!

  • @GameOn71213
    @GameOn71213 3 года назад +90

    You could always tell Tamar was broken, cause the way she put down others it showed, I'm glad she's speaking out now

  • @primarytruetrappboysoul6504
    @primarytruetrappboysoul6504 3 года назад +165

    She has allowed her tv personality to stop her from being her true self. The cameras do not lie but she put 10 on 10

    • @kshinokevin
      @kshinokevin 3 года назад +11

      "I love television. I can't be the "Angry Black Woman" all of the time." - Tamar Braxton (Tam Tam)

    • @EANDM71
      @EANDM71 3 года назад +13

      Just based on her plastic surgery alone, she appears to still be struggling from within. She was already a gorgeous woman before all that surgery.

    • @keshahunt1476
      @keshahunt1476 2 года назад +10

      Cameras lie all the time, they call it reality tv

  • @smeak9246
    @smeak9246 3 года назад +829

    I feel like she hasn't been truly happy with her career since the real honestly. I could be wrong but that's just my take on it

    • @t.a.ccoull2249
      @t.a.ccoull2249 3 года назад +19

      Watching Tamar with vincent say slot ..she mary for money.yet I love them together

    • @GrowwithNaomie
      @GrowwithNaomie 3 года назад +16

      I see it too. Sis needs help

    • @e.wilson9613
      @e.wilson9613 3 года назад +6

      Me too.

    • @t.a.ccoull2249
      @t.a.ccoull2249 3 года назад +29

      Tamara wanted her own success...forget about carrying her sisters or that her sister is toni braxton..she wants her own success and I def understand..no as far as abuse..that is a whole trip by itself .I know I wouldn't want to help family if the played with knowing I was being abuse and did nothing but it the sad truth that nobody does nothing and allow it to continue..broken world

    • @QuetzalcoatlTK
      @QuetzalcoatlTK 3 года назад +66

      I think her time after leaving the real she took a huge shot to her confidence

  • @aweeeleee
    @aweeeleee 3 года назад +185

    Can we just take a minute to acknowledge how good of an interviewer Tamron is. She asks the hard questions without flinching.

  • @tuch9992
    @tuch9992 3 года назад +40

    anyone suffering with suicidal thoughts don't let negative people and things take over your happiness you have to keep strong no matter how hard it gets

    • @jay-kq5kv
      @jay-kq5kv Год назад +4

      Easier sad than done

  • @ebony0836
    @ebony0836 3 года назад +242

    Why should EVERYTHING about life be on public display?!?!
    Social media has become the alter of worship for so many😔
    Society doesn't need to know EVERYTHING you are thinking or feeling or happening to you!
    The world doesn't have to be a stage🤐

    • @123minko
      @123minko 3 года назад

      Once money's involved i think she or anyone should do it if they want to! Never stop grind!

    • @BOSSLADY-cu8vs
      @BOSSLADY-cu8vs 3 года назад +11

      @@123minko
      Yeah I think as with anything else for some...being on television becomes an addiction.... You put on your pretty clothes you go out everybody sees you.... It's a hype at the beginning but a downer at in end

    • @nanaaduwaa3127
      @nanaaduwaa3127 3 года назад +1

      I agree!

    • @zioncallaham1068
      @zioncallaham1068 3 года назад +1

      That's a word right there!

    • @jessicawestbrook3730
      @jessicawestbrook3730 3 года назад

      Amen to that.

  • @mariadanielle7474
    @mariadanielle7474 3 года назад +565

    She's hurting
    She needs help
    Praying for you

    • @lisasmith8007
      @lisasmith8007 3 года назад +1

      I agree and am praying for her also. Tamar I am praying for you

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 3 года назад +1

      She's not hurting. She's performing 😂😂😂. STG yaw'll are the most gullible demographic ON EARTH!!

  • @biancarenee
    @biancarenee 3 года назад +649

    Self love takes time no matter who you are.. going though the emotions is a part of healing

    • @mother7278
      @mother7278 3 года назад +15

      I just began my journey and it’s not easy

    • @Dtzeo503
      @Dtzeo503 3 года назад +10

      Same self-love is hard. i am still dealing with it.

    • @RayRay-iy2ve
      @RayRay-iy2ve 3 года назад +4

      And it's even harder to learn self-love for a person that needs so much attention. Until she break that habit, she'll never get better.

    • @lightking533
      @lightking533 3 года назад +3

      Thanks for saying this 💯

    • @rqute2
      @rqute2 3 года назад +2

      Yes Lord!

  • @schaumdoll6699
    @schaumdoll6699 3 года назад +207

    I just hate that this lady keeps cutting her off with questions.... she’s literally explaining her hurt to you. If you would shut up and let her finish a sentence you would have answers. It’s okay to just LISTEN sometimes dang

    • @reginaldcruz8068
      @reginaldcruz8068 3 года назад +4

      FOR REAL im getting frustrated im just trying to hear Tamar speak like please stop cutting her off

    • @hbshearin
      @hbshearin 3 года назад +2

      I am not disagreeing but maybe it is the editing ? Who knows but yes Tamron needs to improve on her pace.

    • @missvida6251
      @missvida6251 3 года назад +2

      It's a damn interview not a tell all.

    • @missvida6251
      @missvida6251 3 года назад +3

      Plus, tamar was not answering the question. Which was what led to her attempting suicide. She wanted to gain an understanding but tamar kept going off track.

    • @christinecannibal844
      @christinecannibal844 3 года назад

      She does it in like every interview I've ever seen of hers. She just cuts people off. Constantly. I can't even watch her honestly

  • @impatriciaparker
    @impatriciaparker 3 года назад +71

    This beautiful soul has been traumatized since she was a child! It was her secret! Just the thought of holding in that trauma throughout her life is enough to make anybody lash out! We knew she was hurting and hurting badly...That trauma only leads to hurting others or yourself!! May GOD send his healing to you now and throughout the rest of your life and bring you the happiness that you deserve...Ameen..Much love to you sis......

    • @stephenchristian3636
      @stephenchristian3636 3 года назад +2

      @ Sabirah Parker Very well said!! I too am a Sexual abuse survivor an when I tell you at 32 yrs old I’m still recovering ❤️‍🩹/healing from it. Everyday it gets better & better… I was so full of anger ,hurt & even have trust issues to this day. Trauma/Mental illness is real I battle with Clinical Depression/Anxiety

    • @impatriciaparker
      @impatriciaparker 3 года назад +1

      @@stephenchristian3636 I pray for healing and happiness! Ameen..❤

    • @stephenchristian3636
      @stephenchristian3636 3 года назад

      @@impatriciaparker Thank You

  • @timietraelliott5919
    @timietraelliott5919 3 года назад +230

    People really underestimate the trauma “the angry black woman” stereotype causes. The sacrifice we make in terms of limiting our voice and in order to be accepted, considered valuable, or simply worthy to be in a certain position/environment is suffocating.

    • @tanitrarobinson7477
      @tanitrarobinson7477 3 года назад +4

      Say it louder!

    • @swisschoklate736
      @swisschoklate736 3 года назад

      nonsense!

    • @KLB1218
      @KLB1218 3 года назад +5

      Tamar was never speaking loudly about anything that made sense. It was her speaking loudly over her not getting her way. She was fighting for women’s rights, inequality etc. she was screaming how Vince was rich and better and everything else.

    • @lilpinkbubbles6592
      @lilpinkbubbles6592 3 года назад

      Amen

    • @iyansmit249
      @iyansmit249 3 года назад +1

      Well it’s her fault for her divorce, why should anyone care about how she feels.

  • @mrs.varela920
    @mrs.varela920 3 года назад +158

    Disconnect from social media and connect w God!! His love is real and peaceful. Best wishes to Tamar.

    • @liahknowsbest5092
      @liahknowsbest5092 3 года назад +3

      Yasssss Sista! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @azebtsegaye3591
      @azebtsegaye3591 3 года назад +2

      now you talking

    • @bluedragon4
      @bluedragon4 3 года назад +3

      Where was God when that 6 year old girl was getting raped? How about when she was 8? or 10? or 12? or 16? She needs real actual help. Not to be alone with her thoughts for a God that was never there for her.

    • @KENDALEE100
      @KENDALEE100 3 года назад

      🙌 🙌

    • @MIMIX015
      @MIMIX015 3 года назад +4

      @@bluedragon4 praying for you 🙏🏾

  • @banelemkovu9691
    @banelemkovu9691 3 года назад +81

    This woman is so insensitive. She shouldn't be interviewing people in Tamars state

    • @TH-eb7ob
      @TH-eb7ob 3 года назад

      Agreed. She interviews like a lawyer rather than a therapist

    • @niquesmith6563
      @niquesmith6563 3 года назад

      @@TH-eb7ob she’s not a therapist. She’s a journalist.

    • @MrIzaMe
      @MrIzaMe 3 года назад +3

      Seriously, when Tamar says it’s not an allegation, it’s a fact. And she says again allegation. 😣 I mean, I get that technically it’s an allegation but she should have just shut up and listen or used the word revelation. It’s not like Tamar is throwing a name, that she would be concerned about legal issues. 🙄 And it was others that revealed it! Tamar is simply addressing how their revealing something so personal affected her.

  • @justice4ruthiebecauseherli853
    @justice4ruthiebecauseherli853 2 года назад +25

    I’m glad she’s getting the help she needs. Everything just happened so quickly in her life. I feel badly for her because she was traumatized. I didn’t understand her at first, but now I do. Prayers for you, Tamar.

  • @faebalina7786
    @faebalina7786 3 года назад +254

    Fame is a drug
    Addictive and dangerous
    Certainly not for the vulnerable

    • @sobe9017
      @sobe9017 3 года назад

      @Curlyhead Nessaaa come thru with the comments

    • @judyjackson3576
      @judyjackson3576 3 года назад +1

      Unfortunately, most of those behind the camera are vulnerable.

  • @enormousbossmasterd5191
    @enormousbossmasterd5191 3 года назад +334

    Tamar has been extremely UGLY to her sisters. She talked horrible about her their marriages, about their parenting, financial situations, their careers or lack of and about their appearances. They seem to always give her a pass, because that was HER. Now she is saying the show painted her in a negative light, but every time something happens to her her sisters come to her defense.

    • @brentgomez8103
      @brentgomez8103 3 года назад +53

      beloved thats a sign of a mental broken person lets pray for her and her sisters

    • @mynameisirrelevant46
      @mynameisirrelevant46 3 года назад +34

      I remember when she was doing the antics and saying the awful things...This shows to prove that hurt ppl hurt ppl...Broken things rattle and make the most noise ..Same with ppl

    • @user-yh8jr8tk9z
      @user-yh8jr8tk9z 3 года назад +17

      @@brentgomez8103 Yes exactly. It came out of how she's really been feeling. It was a reflection of her pain.

    • @Chaka2nd1
      @Chaka2nd1 3 года назад

      Amen

    • @lzshow
      @lzshow 3 года назад +16

      She also treated Vince like a dog

  • @Deputyeula305
    @Deputyeula305 3 года назад +48

    I feel her %💯 Man I'm going through the same thing with my job, no one seems to really understand my frustration. Though I haven't had any suicide thoughts... I lack the ability to do things on the daily basis. Praying I get out if this dark place 😒😏

  • @christopheramparo4009
    @christopheramparo4009 3 года назад +198

    “It’s not an allegation
    It’s a fact” yes get her all the way together Tamar
    I love you queen you got this don’t give up ❤️🥺
    You can’t tell someone it’s a allegation when they are literally telling you what actually happened to them

    • @mzreneem
      @mzreneem 3 года назад +35

      Tamron can NOT say it's a fact......Tamar can, but not Tamron could be sued!!!!
      All journalists MUST say allegations unless it's been tried and proven in court.
      She wasn't being mean.

  • @fr0zenintimeee
    @fr0zenintimeee 3 года назад +1275

    i love her so much i hope she can heal

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 3 года назад +21

      You don't love her. You don't even know her. You love her manufactured image. It's not real.

    • @citiesinruin9435
      @citiesinruin9435 3 года назад

      First

    • @msreality8120
      @msreality8120 3 года назад +9

      I love to hate Tamar. Because she is sweet, dramatic, and messy all in one. I have relatives like her. Overall, they are good people just overly dramatic and immature. They reap what they sow and can't handle it. I can dish it and take it. She can't. Her mom spoiled her out of guilt. She may have not known until after the fact. Predators were more slick, and it was less expected. Kids were not always believed and predators used that to their advantage. Only God can go that deep and heal Tamar but she has to let God do the work and Tamar has to do the letting go healing, forgiveness healing etc. I disagree with u guys. Tamar seemed to love her fat Vince. She may still love the skinny version but he became toxic for her growth as a person. Like many men, he seemed a little controlling. Prayers for the Braxton family.

    • @msreality8120
      @msreality8120 3 года назад +18

      @@trawlins396 U can love people u don't know. It's a general love for humanity, not a personal love. U can an hate people u don't know too, right?

    • @citiesinruin9435
      @citiesinruin9435 3 года назад

      @Barack Obama UNITED STATES OF KOREA help me?

  • @shannongeorgiapeach76
    @shannongeorgiapeach76 3 года назад +332

    Love Tamar but I feel in this interview she is still holding back trying to force tears. She needs to step away for awhile, get 100% healthy. My prayers are with her.

    • @pamelacook9886
      @pamelacook9886 3 года назад +3

      Totally agree.

    • @Marion-vu9nv
      @Marion-vu9nv 3 года назад +3

      It's too soon.

    • @shad2434
      @shad2434 3 года назад +14

      I feel as if she trying to stop the tears from coming ijs 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @homeseries2268
      @homeseries2268 3 года назад

      This!!!!!

    • @deldu315
      @deldu315 3 года назад +1

      Agree 100%

  • @BlessedOne2k10
    @BlessedOne2k10 3 года назад +33

    I wish Tamron would've given her time to tell her story instead of repeatedly interrupting her. Nonetheless, Tamar I'm praying for you.

  • @buzvii6755
    @buzvii6755 3 года назад +39

    The host saying “that is a big allegation”
    What the actual fxxx? Who says that to someone telling their story about being molested? I mean even if you do not believe someone you don’t use certain phrases.
    This does not feel real for some reason

    • @MiamiPush2theLimit
      @MiamiPush2theLimit 3 года назад +1

      I think the allegation was that Iyanla brought up the sex abuse. Not the actual sex abuse. Tamron isn’t saying Tamar is alleging that sex abuse took place. She is saying that it is alleged that someone said that to Iyanla and that Iyanla brought it up on the show. None of that is proven.

    • @kellyleej
      @kellyleej 3 года назад

      whatever the “allegations” were, she specifically chose to use it like most hosts r trained to do cuz gotta save the network from lawsuits

  • @TooBlessedBabyDoll
    @TooBlessedBabyDoll 3 года назад +315

    Tamar must get to a place of accountability with how she treated her sisters over the years. She destroyed her relationship with them. Remember when Tawanda was at the attorney office about to file for divorce? She just dogged Tracey constantly. Insinuated Toni was jealous of her raising fame. Made numerous insensitive comments about Trina and Gabe’s marriage... Even made a song about it. Just horribly insensitive behavior.

    • @nikibanks4496
      @nikibanks4496 3 года назад +39

      Agreed, I think it's also ironic that a woman who has so many sisters has so few women friends.. on each of these shows.. and she violated tracy and disrespected her husband... and all the other sister's husbands..

    • @tipqti
      @tipqti 3 года назад +7

      Yep

    • @MonaLisa-kz8sp
      @MonaLisa-kz8sp 3 года назад +47

      Tamar reminds me of my narcissistic sister always creating drama, abusive to everyone in the family. Abusive to her husband who gave her the world. Had numerous affairs which destroyed her marriage then blame everyone else when her life crumbled because of her destructive toxic behavior. The professional victim, manipulative and destructive

    • @ridingtheroad185
      @ridingtheroad185 3 года назад +29

      SO right! When 4 out of 5 get along and the only issue is with one. That ONE needs to take a close look at herself and see where the issues are, because they sure are NOT with the other 4. They all said many times, she was always allowed to get away with or things were overlooked, etc...time for her to have accountability.

    • @sparr5132
      @sparr5132 3 года назад +3

      Agree

  • @TK-ix4cl
    @TK-ix4cl 3 года назад +581

    She was molested for 10 years. She’s not mentally ill she is traumatized because no one saved her from those monsters. Where was her mother??? Father?? Other siblings?? Was this happening in the church 🤔

    • @MyGodlovesme2
      @MyGodlovesme2 3 года назад +16

      My lord

    • @Tropical442
      @Tropical442 3 года назад +13

      @Danielle Iyanla didn't say no shit like that.. No footage Tamar tell the truth.

    • @BronzeLotus
      @BronzeLotus 3 года назад +36

      @@Tropical442 In this interview with Tamron Hall, it is Tamron who said to Tamar, "That's a big allegation." That's whom Danielle is referring to in her comment above, not Iyanla.

    • @TheSweetForever
      @TheSweetForever 3 года назад +52

      @Danielle probably because it’s still under investigation and she doesn’t want to get sued. Haha. You know this is tv and it’s full of legalities.

    • @ctjohnson8940
      @ctjohnson8940 3 года назад +36

      @@TheSweetForever exactly. It’s alleged until legally proven. And in journalism you have to have at least 2 independent sources.

  • @Tluv_1955
    @Tluv_1955 3 года назад +124

    God is with her she will make it through in Jesus name

    • @marjoredixon3846
      @marjoredixon3846 3 года назад +5

      SHE SHOULD HAVE TO FIRST CALL ON JESUS. HE IS LOOKING FOR THE BROKEN TO CALL ON HIM.

    • @MyAssefa
      @MyAssefa 3 года назад

      Amen

    • @aurepaschale7692
      @aurepaschale7692 2 года назад

      @Truegem Hearts: AMEN.

  • @kerrylarry8110
    @kerrylarry8110 3 года назад +152

    When it comes to black women being raped or molested no one willing to hear their story and that is what bothers me as black man. I don't think she should be doing interviews at this point because she is not all the way healed she is still hurting I feel her pain but she has to own up to her stuff as well. I as a male don't like this at all. See me I've been through worse than tamar. I was almost killed, raped, almost thrown out of a 4tn floor window, was beaten by my moms son father which I had to tell my pops on him. Moms and I don't get along we have no love for each other. My moms called and told my hiv status to someone and they called and told welfare and I gotten them fired. Moms and her son call me a fag and bitch all the fight none of them like me at all. I am taking all this and making something out of myself by putting myself through school but she hates it. She feels like her son is better than I am. Selling drugs doesn't get you no where on life but jail time and no good jobs. As I alwys tell moms your nothing but the devil and she still goes around telling folks hiv status. All we can do is pray for Tamar.

    • @debbyrichardson1552
      @debbyrichardson1552 3 года назад +24

      I know this is hard, But It is important for you to forgive, for healing. Keep your head up. May God Bless you and all of your endeavors!

    • @sexymskat
      @sexymskat 3 года назад +15

      I just want you to know that I love you and I believe in you though I don't know you brotha, im praying for you and if ever you need to talk or anything you can inbox me via FB or IG same name and we can go from there. Be the strong person you are and keep pushing, you can do it. Forgive those who have wronged you for the universe has something planned for them. Im soooo sorry for what has happened to you because it should never have happened and I will continue to pray for you. Keep doing and being you, sending a virtual hug your way, blessings!!

    • @kerrylarry8110
      @kerrylarry8110 3 года назад +7

      @@sexymskat Thank you and I will definitely look you up, I am a college student at the age 38 which moms don't like but it's ok I am making something good out of myself.

    • @kerrylarry8110
      @kerrylarry8110 3 года назад +2

      @@debbyrichardson1552 Thank you so much I appreciate it a lot

    • @sexymskat
      @sexymskat 3 года назад +1

      @@kerrylarry8110 absolutely and you keep doing great..im here.

  • @hannahsunshine8793
    @hannahsunshine8793 3 года назад +72

    That childhood hurt is the worse ...rather it's small or large..old associates, family, parents and siblings dont realize how much damage they cause you.. but when the hurt overflows out of you and eventually turns into anger and depression they always act like they dont know why

    • @rashimasimmons7583
      @rashimasimmons7583 3 года назад +1

      Hugs and kisses from above 🙏 KEEP ON SMILING 😊

    • @LaSheraMichelle
      @LaSheraMichelle 3 года назад +4

      YeS! And I learned when I started therapy last year that childhood trauma doesn’t have to be sexually & when I realized that, I was like damn I definitely have childhood trauma which effected me mentally and didn’t even realize it.

    • @msbrittneyjay5568
      @msbrittneyjay5568 3 года назад +1

      Very well said! I understand you completely 💕

    • @Angelcakes20
      @Angelcakes20 3 года назад +1

      That’s SO TRUE! 💯❗️

    • @Ariez___
      @Ariez___ 3 года назад +1

      This is so true

  • @angelravin77
    @angelravin77 3 года назад +218

    People are so insensitive and judgmental. This woman is hurting that's why she's acting this way and it doesn't excuse her behavior it does shed light on her behavior. She has a family and a son. Be mindful of what u say. Haven't u heard the saying hurt people hurt people. God bless Tamar.

    • @lyfesaquarium
      @lyfesaquarium 3 года назад +1

      I never saw her hurt people tho

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 3 года назад +9

      She's not hurting. At all. This is all scripted and concocted by her PR firm.

    • @sariaakui3703
      @sariaakui3703 3 года назад +4

      @@trawlins396 nobody believes those conspiracy theories 🙄

    • @skj3365
      @skj3365 3 года назад +4

      @Angelravin, Maybe she is hurting, but how do you know she's not faking and a very good actress. I'm sorry I just don't believe her. She's way too materialistic. Most people like that will do anything.

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 3 года назад +2

      @@sariaakui3703 they're not conspiracy theories. Believe what you want.

  • @BriannaMcCarty
    @BriannaMcCarty 3 года назад +34

    Woah.. I have so much respect for her. This just shows that money doesn't buy you happiness.. I hope she's healing and I really REALLY hope she heals. She seems like such a good human being! We cannot lose anymore people! Stay strong! ❤

  • @cherrylynn7173
    @cherrylynn7173 3 года назад +20

    Much love Tamar. That explains her anger towards things. Anger is never the first emotion.

  • @shalenef.5143
    @shalenef.5143 3 года назад +293

    Happy that she's taking the steps needed to be free. Her child need his mother and she needs her sanity. God Bless and keep her.

  • @One_Of_One.1
    @One_Of_One.1 3 года назад +64

    Tamar got tired of playing a character, a version of herself that is not who she really is at her core, just to satisfy the ratings for a "reality" tv show she played that role for too long. It is sad, very sad. I am praying for Tamar and her family.

    • @luvingg
      @luvingg 3 года назад +1

      Her family often mentioned that what we see is who she is.

    • @t.shakeena2797
      @t.shakeena2797 3 года назад

      Right! I always said that about niki Minaj too
      Sad

    • @makeithappenent11
      @makeithappenent11 3 года назад +7

      SHE pushed HERSELF in that role! WE ALL SAW THIS GIRL DO ALL SHE COULD TO BE THE STAR OF THAT SHOW ... OVER TONI!

    • @timothyandrews4326
      @timothyandrews4326 3 года назад +1

      you right she just a character on the show but what you don't know is that she's in character right now on this show fooling the dummies who believe in these people!

  • @nikkigee6477
    @nikkigee6477 3 года назад +22

    This interview is honestly amazing , my cousin unfortunately took his own life a few years back and no one saw it coming (our family will honestly never heal from this) but I really feel like Tamar is so strong and incredible for speaking out about this and hopefully can inspire other people to seek support. I really hope Tamar is doing ok (as best as she can be 💗) and that she knows there are people out there supporting her as well as her family and friends xx Tamar you’re a beautiful strong woman and I wish you nothing but the best ❤️❤️

    • @stephanieblanks5148
      @stephanieblanks5148 Год назад

      Me too,I love Tamar n the rest of her family,I use to watch The Braxton Family values.That's how I got to see how they live.I love all of them.Tony,Tamar,Tracy,Trina n Towanda n (Mrs.Evelyn)there Mother.So sorry that happened to u Tamar.You'll rock❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️The Braxton Family

    • @stephanieblanks5148
      @stephanieblanks5148 Год назад

      I miss Tracy too.RIP.Tracy u were a awesome lady.I miss you so much.❤️😘😥😥😥

  • @ecaldwell9
    @ecaldwell9 3 года назад +41

    Tamar can do this whole interview about herself. If the host just let her talk, then we’ll all know.

  • @KGEmpress
    @KGEmpress 3 года назад +43

    I can hear the pain in her voice. I really need her to get the full support she needs.

  • @iam_LunaMoonGirl
    @iam_LunaMoonGirl 3 года назад +149

    During the show "Get Your Life" I never saw anyone make Tamar act the way she did. She was rude, mean and unprofessional all on her own. 🤷

    • @LiveByDesign
      @LiveByDesign 3 года назад +6

      Exactly!

    • @lovewins8914
      @lovewins8914 3 года назад +4

      This👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @kgaogelokekana5595
      @kgaogelokekana5595 3 года назад +11

      You don’t understand.. the attitude, the drama and all that is what made Tamar Tamar. We were all intrigued by the fact that someone could be so over the top. It set her apart and got her a job on ‘The Real’, and many other gigs..it brought in the ratings.. Hello! But it was a facade..a persona..a fad and a TRAP! And she finally lost it.. felt that suicide was the only way out! I feel her!

    • @georgeanddenisebrinson6668
      @georgeanddenisebrinson6668 3 года назад

      Amen!

    • @TheRiverBelle
      @TheRiverBelle 3 года назад +3

      @@kgaogelokekana5595 The antics "me, she, her" .. a cry for help all along.

  • @beemonique8466
    @beemonique8466 3 года назад +80

    The old folks say:
    "Hair and paint will make a woman what she ain't" -
    Take all the time that you need to heal yourself Tamar! Put GOD, you and your son FIRST!!! love on yourself and silence the noise within and it will silence the noise around you!🙏🏾💞

  • @kells9492
    @kells9492 3 года назад +8

    She felt betrayed by her family and retraumatized. It’s horrible. It makes sense networks want drama & I do believe the pressure was from everywhere and that betrayal pushed her over the edge. They need family counseling.

  • @sierra2123
    @sierra2123 3 года назад +157

    Tamar takes accountability for NOTHING. She is the common dominator in literally every fight in her life. She played this same card when she was fired from the real.

    • @Aliasss
      @Aliasss 3 года назад +26

      Watch the ENTIRE interview before commenting. She has taken MAJOR accountability 🙄

    • @LeeLee-ux8gh
      @LeeLee-ux8gh 3 года назад +1

      RIGHT

    • @springlady8337
      @springlady8337 3 года назад +5

      I’m not blaming her, but she truly has been suffering mentally without treatment which I think she has been in denial about her mental health issues. I hope she is getting proper treatment now.

    • @morningsunshine0216
      @morningsunshine0216 3 года назад +12

      You’re so mean spirited

    • @amazingg8238
      @amazingg8238 3 года назад +8

      Did you even watch the entire interview? Find it, because this isn’t it. She did take accountability! While also telling her story.

  • @veewalker4472
    @veewalker4472 3 года назад +229

    She loves attention and until she understands her silence and being with herself is the top priority, she will continue to explode! Really a beautiful young lady, but she needs years of deep therapy and no media interaction.

    • @LadySunflower1224
      @LadySunflower1224 3 года назад +3

      I agree 👍

    • @TooBlessedBabyDoll
      @TooBlessedBabyDoll 3 года назад +3

      True

    • @QueenAsh16
      @QueenAsh16 3 года назад +6

      We all love attention and I agree she needs to step away from everything and get some help!

    • @swright4twenty
      @swright4twenty 3 года назад +1

      not that young

    • @sassygreen5024
      @sassygreen5024 3 года назад +3

      You said that. She wants tge spot light but seems to not want the things that come with that she gotta be on it 100% or be out 100%.

  • @blackbellanow
    @blackbellanow 3 года назад +34

    Tamar, do interviews with people that will respect you enough not to call your pain an allegation. You give all of us hurting women hope. Stay strong sis ❣

  • @ladykay8183
    @ladykay8183 3 года назад +8

    How much hurt can 1 person take when you’re at your breaking point and has tried everything you can do and nobody listens I feel so bad for her may God strengthen her and give her the guidance she need

  • @loliwemoyo5680
    @loliwemoyo5680 3 года назад +54

    Its imperative that a woman heal alone before she invites a guy in to love her. Boundaries will never be crossed if you feel whole.

    • @sarahgeorge7786
      @sarahgeorge7786 3 года назад +1

      True

    • @Noname-dg3pm
      @Noname-dg3pm 3 года назад +1

      You are right. I am only understanding this, as I am in the process of (and have been for some time) the journey of healing. I've realized this in my self reflection. I hope to fully heal one day. Help is difficult to get when i find i need it so this process seems longer because of that. Thank u for that comment I needed to see tonight.
      Kind regards and I wish u a peaceful life! :)
      💙❤💚💛💜

  • @icameisaws4829
    @icameisaws4829 3 года назад +250

    Iyanla's episode showed a lot about Tamar. It's like she's a child stuck because no one will correct her. She lacks accountability

    • @ibhacamtfrere1935
      @ibhacamtfrere1935 3 года назад +23

      She was 3 hour late, when iyanla called her on that she became defensive and keep blaming the network like she did nothing wrong

    • @therezthecreative
      @therezthecreative 3 года назад +5

      @Anne Day it’s called borderline personality disorder. I don’t take sexual allegations lightly but no one has seen this footage of Iyanla telling this to her family. Granted it very well could have happened and they just didn’t air. But if we take this out of the equation all the things you have mentioned shows that Tamar has a history of making up outlandish stories when she gets in trouble for her bad behavior typical sign of borderline personality disorder and she may need some serious help

    • @purplesweetpepperpepper2756
      @purplesweetpepperpepper2756 3 года назад +15

      This feels like acting. ...

    • @JLPerryTV
      @JLPerryTV 3 года назад +9

      She still lack accountability and credibility because Iyanla never revealed that Tamar was molested. Never in the entire episode did Iyanla say that

    • @yepisaidit7807
      @yepisaidit7807 3 года назад

      @@purplesweetpepperpepper2756 I was thinking the same thing

  • @loraleidoe
    @loraleidoe 3 года назад +25

    Praying for Tamar. She is really troubled. Only God can do it. If she digs deep and allow him to, He'll do it. Her past has affected her mentally, socially, and spiritually. Bless her Lord.

    • @toyacofield6342
      @toyacofield6342 3 года назад

      You are 100% correct❗❗❗ people keep saying she not mentally sick but SHE IS! To me if u are trying to commit suicide then you are completely broken on all platforms. Once u consider committing suicide then a person has hit rock bottom an thinks there is no way out! I had a friend that committed suicide bout 2 yrs ago right in front of the hospital in my hometown. She tried to get help by walking in the hospital an telling then she was about to do it an really wanted help but guess what they did..........THEY TURNED HER AWAY AN GAVE HER A NUMBER TO A SUICIDE HOTLINE. WELL UNFORTUNATELY SHE WHEN BACK TO HER CAR AN SHOT HERSELF IN THE HEAD. THE RECEPTIONIST AT THE FRONT HEARD THE GUN SHOT. TO ME THE HOSPITAL SHOULD HAVE NEVER TURNED HER AWAY. I KNOW ITS NOT THEY FAULT SHE KILLED HERSELF BUT THEY COULD HAVE BEEN HER SAVING GRACE IF THEY HAD JUST TOOK HER IN AN ADMITTED HER TO THE PYSICIATRIC WARD THAT THEY HAVE THERE AT THE HOSPITAL

  • @Tam_ruh
    @Tam_ruh 3 года назад +150

    Iyanla is the only person that could break through Tamar and that’s why she have a problem with that episode.

    • @kerrylarry8110
      @kerrylarry8110 3 года назад +7

      Exactly 💯

    • @lailaa.5736
      @lailaa.5736 3 года назад +23

      Excatly what I said!! Tamar wants to be healed, but she doesn’t want to actually go through the hard process.

    • @sonatural100ify
      @sonatural100ify 3 года назад +5

      Facts 💯

    • @kshinokevin
      @kshinokevin 3 года назад +1

      Iyanla Vanzant ?

    • @kshinokevin
      @kshinokevin 3 года назад

      iyanla.com/about/

  • @yvettetorres7829
    @yvettetorres7829 3 года назад +187

    Tamar is not hearing Tamron's questions clearly nor is she answering the questions that were put to Tamar. Tamar needs to get off TV, social media, and get intensive individual therapy to start.

    • @jeremyrussell4177
      @jeremyrussell4177 3 года назад +7

      Exactly!!!

    • @sassyintrovert
      @sassyintrovert 3 года назад

      She should but she truly can't

    • @Marion-vu9nv
      @Marion-vu9nv 3 года назад +3

      If what she is saying the family member was wrong.ilyanla maybe should have informed her what could happen? But they must have been informed how ilyanla works.tamar took a dislike to ilyanla. She could not work with Tamar that's why the counseling did not work. She needs to take responsibility for her self. I think Tamar and her ex are at fault equally. I just think he was played out badly.the best thing she can do is to go her way.her relationship is over. She has exposed herself too much. Get off social media. Money can't buy your health,respect or your dignity. Go and get yourself treated. Hope she gets the help. What she's experiencing is years of damage going back to childhood. Whoever exposed her it was wrong!

    • @connie3884
      @connie3884 3 года назад +8

      Nah, Tamron wasn’t a good fit for this interview. Asking the same questions but not active listening to the answers is clear here. Tamar is still weak and broken, pauses are due to holding back tears, and thinking about her answers. She has not healed. The interview felt like an interrogation and I dislike when interviews like this don’t add clarity or liberation. As far as accountability, did she not say she wasn’t being herself, she gave the network what they wanted for ratings but her livelihood was suffering. This interview wasn’t needed. I think someone like Iyanla would’ve been a better choice despite previous situations between them.

    • @TheRiverBelle
      @TheRiverBelle 3 года назад +3

      @Pretty Brown Eyes Exactly! Also, I'm not sure what Tay is speaking about because I swear I heard of the abuse well before the show.

  • @britbritnicole9211
    @britbritnicole9211 3 года назад +41

    When she said she used makeup and hair to cover her pain, I’ve been there. It’s easy to judge other people’s pain when it’s not you. I’m hoping she will heal and walk away from her past hurts.

    • @rashimasimmons7583
      @rashimasimmons7583 3 года назад

      Hugs and kisses from above 🙏 KEEP ON SMILING 😊 7777-8888 Great abundance Awaits JUST FOR YOU 💐 PROVERBS 31 Woman 🌻

  • @ViccyVale
    @ViccyVale 3 года назад +4

    My little brother took his life the same day as Tamar this year and man the healing process from the lost in that manner has been extremely rough. I thank God he kept her and is continuing to keep her I pray for complete healing for her and her family.

    • @LadyT06
      @LadyT06 3 года назад

      May your lil brother's soul rest in peace and your family be comforted... *BearHug!*

  • @anactivatedthroatchakra1637
    @anactivatedthroatchakra1637 3 года назад +37

    This felt weird.
    I do want her to heal.
    It's my prayer that she does.
    Shell just need to keep it 100 first.

  • @journey2greatness766
    @journey2greatness766 3 года назад +80

    The WE network continues to capitalize on the black community, tearing them apart for entertainment purposes. This is why I no longer watch their shows. Black people need to stop allowing these networks to pimp them. We need to tell our own narratives through our own lenses.

    • @GaiaCarney
      @GaiaCarney 3 года назад +3

      Journey2Greatness - well said🕊 our story, told our way, for ourselves. Beautiful, broken, blessed black stories

    • @browngirl4461
      @browngirl4461 3 года назад +4

      I agree we need to tell our own stories. However this family had issues way before WE TV. Tamar got molested and they just swept it under the rug. This happens too often in our community. It needs to be discussed.

    • @journey2greatness766
      @journey2greatness766 3 года назад +1

      @@browngirl4461 Yes, on our own platform for our learning, healing, and evolvement, and not for the profit and entertainment of others.

  • @teejaybee9
    @teejaybee9 3 года назад +136

    She definitely doesn't look as if she's doing well. She might be better than before but she needs to step away from the cameras because they are feeding the monster inside. She will also have to completely let go of the toxic people that are feeding the monster and grab a hold of those that love her.

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows 3 года назад +2

      It’s too early for these interviews

    • @Makemoneywithabena
      @Makemoneywithabena 3 года назад

      Well I guess she needs the money. And in some way the fame is addictive even though it is damaging. Just like any addiction, you know it's damaging but you can't stop.

  • @katashagraham2268
    @katashagraham2268 3 года назад +77

    This breaks my heart. Regardless of what’s true and what’s not, she’s struggling with something powerful and very real. I just pray for a break through for her and her family to get through everything and come out stronger than they ever were.

  • @tajang839
    @tajang839 3 года назад +39

    I don’t know what it is but it’s something off about her. I feel like she’s faking it, I don’t feel like she cured/healed emotionally/psychologically. Not to mention I also feel like she likes attention and likes to find ways to capitalize off of drama.

    • @babygirl369able
      @babygirl369able 3 года назад +4

      I Agree 💯

    • @tressamorgan1128
      @tressamorgan1128 3 года назад +3

      I 💯 agree as well. I don’t think she would leave her child. I don’t think she was trying to kill herself.

    • @politereminder6284
      @politereminder6284 3 года назад +5

      Did she claim to be healed already?
      I agree though, something is off

    • @ashara1na
      @ashara1na 3 года назад

      💯

  • @IZRElLO747
    @IZRElLO747 3 года назад +167

    "She's smiling for the camera but is still broken,in pain, and hurting deep nside!" 💔🤕

  • @sherarose-del
    @sherarose-del 3 года назад +211

    No matter what they say she is human and she has feelings. She needs to give her life to God.

    • @jessicawestbrook3730
      @jessicawestbrook3730 3 года назад +1

      Yes ma'am. Amen.

    • @laughing513stock
      @laughing513stock 3 года назад +4

      According to Tamar and her mother and sister her life has always been given to god. But... things still happened to her that mentally her mind couldn’t cope with.

    • @sha3157
      @sha3157 3 года назад +10

      Even when you give your life to God things happen. God put professionals on earth to help with mental illness. There are mentally ill pastors, priests, deacons etc in the church.

    • @elleluxe
      @elleluxe 3 года назад +3

      She has!!! God's leading her!!! That's why she's sharing!!!
      As someone who has struggled with the suicide demons, ONLY GOD CAN BRING YOU THROUGH!!!

    • @mburst71
      @mburst71 2 года назад +3

      @@laughing513stock she has Not given her life to God who is Jesus Christ as of this recording at least. You need to read the Bible so you know what it means to surrender to Christ, it means you repent and give it all up for Him. She needs to lose her life in order to save it. And I mean save her eternal life. Proverbs 31 outlines what a Godly woman is.

  • @Shelilah41
    @Shelilah41 3 года назад

    Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @iamDavidaRose
    @iamDavidaRose 3 года назад +26

    Through all the dramatics, she was always one of the most gifted, honest, and beautiful people in this world. Even though she didn’t think we could see her, we could. I love her so much. I knew it wasn’t going to be the end for her. She is too great of a gift to leave prematurely. I’m so proud of her. She is breaking through. Sending her love and light.

  • @JaayKaay2
    @JaayKaay2 3 года назад +27

    So much crying, no tears. Remind me of the kids I babysit

    • @msreality8120
      @msreality8120 3 года назад +3

      U can be choked up without tears, u know. Got to save the make up.

    • @tinaclark1975
      @tinaclark1975 3 года назад +2

      She always does that too😂

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 3 года назад +1

      Because she's acting. Extremely disingenuous.

    • @Dheal88
      @Dheal88 3 года назад

      lmao

    • @Sharmichelle3
      @Sharmichelle3 3 года назад

      I was thinking the same thing 😂

  • @reneejohnson4882
    @reneejohnson4882 3 года назад +97

    This interview is too early after her crisis. She needs to step out of the lime light and heal..Maybe in 2 or 3 years..and being asked the hard questions and responses trembling, trying to complete a thought that she is not ready to conform...l pray for you Tamar.

  • @Sckoka
    @Sckoka 3 года назад

    Okay tam with the interview !! Doing big things I see ! You’re show is sooo underrated

  • @janewanjiku804
    @janewanjiku804 3 года назад

    Thanks for doing this...

  • @ericahamilton4943
    @ericahamilton4943 3 года назад +69

    I feel like she’s not being 💯 percent honest for some reason

    • @veronicacooper4397
      @veronicacooper4397 3 года назад +3

      I agree

    • @bevstrong3651
      @bevstrong3651 3 года назад +8

      Yes I agree. Even when she said “I’m good”, her body language says the complete opposite.

    • @treneeciagilmore6
      @treneeciagilmore6 3 года назад +8

      I didn't want to say it but agree. She's giving off Latoya Jackson vibes. A lot of hidden truths

    • @jarhondagamble4434
      @jarhondagamble4434 3 года назад +1

      Absolutely

    • @tenmusicpage
      @tenmusicpage 3 года назад +4

      I don’t think she knows how to be real and honest anymore when you live your life in reality tv all the time you don’t know was real it’s always lights camera action smh 🤦🏾‍♀️ she needs to step away from this tv world if not it’s going to ruin her even more! These reality platforms were not created to uplift black women we are the underdogs and entertainment to them they don’t care about our well-being or our families until we understand that this will continue to happen.

  • @Teebee407
    @Teebee407 3 года назад +55

    Tamron is smart. She has to LEGALLY say allegation as to not face any possible backlash from whomever the perpetrator is

  • @sergiogonzalez1304
    @sergiogonzalez1304 3 года назад +4

    We love you Tamar . Glad to see you coming forward and talking about this . Stay strong

  • @teriannpaisley6033
    @teriannpaisley6033 3 года назад +6

    This is the first time that I have heard her talk without the 'extra' gestures she usually makes or dramatic behaviour. I feel we are finally hearing/seeing her true self. I am so happy she is still here with us. Life is a precious gift! Glad you are with us Tamar you are a bright spirit.

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  • @shamaracharmaine
    @shamaracharmaine 3 года назад +39

    This is what happens when you avoid doing the work. As a person who currently working on self and focusing on "The Shadow", you MUST go through those dark parts of yourself that it YOU! Trust its hard, its scary, but you gotta get to part to identify them so it cause chaos in your life. I saw one episode of that reality show and was like whhyyyy are you doing this? You need to be away from Television. I pray that she can go into a quiet place and be still so she can focus on her healing.

    • @LaSheraMichelle
      @LaSheraMichelle 3 года назад

      Yes, yes, yes. I started therapy last year, and I wasn’t really putting my all into doing the work but when I decided that I had to give my all, everything changed. So I totally agree. People have to do the work, they just have to, no matter how hard it is and it is hard but worth it in the end.

    • @instigatorfromdetroit2692
      @instigatorfromdetroit2692 3 года назад

      💯

    • @justinaacorn5721
      @justinaacorn5721 3 года назад +1

      Easier said then done, you are ready and that means you can be healed because you are willing. Obviously she is not ready...yet

    • @kyfy777
      @kyfy777 3 года назад

      @@justinaacorn5721 And healing is ALWAYS a work in progress even on days when you think you are completely OK.

    • @iyansmit249
      @iyansmit249 3 года назад

      She is a angry black woman who broke up with her husband and is ruining herself, just look at how much weight she put on.

  • @beljonn
    @beljonn 3 года назад +27

    All that crying, and not a single tear. I just...bless her heart

    • @Noname-dg3pm
      @Noname-dg3pm 3 года назад +1

      Okay!

    • @lallipoppin
      @lallipoppin 3 года назад +2

      We've seen this same breathy, tearless, "cry" many time on BFV. And we have also seen her sisters all give straightfaced, unmoved reactions to it...smh different show, same tamar

    • @gloriaharris8636
      @gloriaharris8636 3 года назад

      😂😂😂

    • @nadinelouis1129
      @nadinelouis1129 3 года назад

      All the years not once have I seen a tear ever

  • @twinky4_4
    @twinky4_4 3 года назад +17

    I can't even imagine going through something like this. As a child?! This is such a tragedy. We love you Tamar!!!!!💜💜💜

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  • @nzuzothwala9683
    @nzuzothwala9683 2 года назад +15

    I'd honestly want Tamar to know that, amidst all that she thinks has been portrayed in all her work in television, you are a ray of light, a source of inspiration for women of color. Just take your time, and know that we love and your fam and kids love and adore you 💯😊

  • @keishasiggers252
    @keishasiggers252 3 года назад +186

    There is a reason Tamron is phrasing her questions the way she is...because she has seen and knows what we all see. Ok so, Iyanla could not get through to really help this family do the work that each and every one of them needed...The narcissism runs deep in them allllllllll...from the parents to their kids. Tamar is right she is the most salacious of the bunch and therefore she has been made into tv gold. That is both unfortunate (giving that they are trying to produce as much drama as possible in order to keep the ratings or THE MONEY going at whatever cost) & it is also angering to the viewers who want to slap the ish out of Tamar primarily for being the "baby" who wants to dish it but sholl can't take it and then has the nerve to cry no tears about it the loudest. They need that therapist that Martel Holt was working with or perhaps Spirit off of OWN's Network who was couseling couples on Love Goals...OFF CAMERA! Then once they get down to some accountability, past individual & family hurt, direspect issues, wants, and needs from everyone...THEN AND ONLY THEN can this family get better. I do not wish distruction on anyone and I hope Tamar gets the mental help that she needs and.I do mean some serious therapy...& I DO NOT MEAN DOCTOR SHERRY EITHER...That woman is not a good therpaist, at least not for the Braxtons...they need somebody way tougher. #Fix it JESUS For Real

    • @gloriamaryhaywood2217
      @gloriamaryhaywood2217 3 года назад +3

      How bout Dr. Phil? Think he could sort them all out? I think a combination of tough, and yet empathetic, would work best for this family. Some therapists can't help much because their don't truly get how a manipulative, intelligent mind actually works. They wind up getting *played* while thinking they've accomplished something! Go figure?

    • @DorothyDandridge
      @DorothyDandridge 3 года назад +1

      💯

    • @danpatrick24
      @danpatrick24 3 года назад +11

      @@gloriamaryhaywood2217 Dr. Phil does not have the ethical or clinical ability. The help they need cannot happen on television

    • @natinapowell7990
      @natinapowell7990 3 года назад +7

      @@gloriamaryhaywood2217 TD Jakes couldn't help them! They're super strong minded women and jealousy plays a big part!

    • @Amburmist
      @Amburmist 3 года назад +1

      @@danpatrick24 ethical?? Why would u say that? U know something we don't about Dr Phil??

  • @scottg4441
    @scottg4441 3 года назад +268

    She needs to stay off tv and take tine to heal and she needs to take accountability she treats Traci like trash

    • @LadySunflower1224
      @LadySunflower1224 3 года назад +5

      That is so true i do not know what to believe,what Tamar is saying it is all over the place.She need help wish her the best,so sad the family.💔💔

    • @attitudeonaltitude..3507
      @attitudeonaltitude..3507 3 года назад +14

      She loves the spot light..

    • @CANDYSOULonline
      @CANDYSOULonline 3 года назад +1

      TRUTH

    • @flightshotel9286
      @flightshotel9286 3 года назад +6

      They all treat Traci like trash

    • @killlamas57
      @killlamas57 3 года назад

      She can’t, she’s broke and has a contract.

  • @shugga2036
    @shugga2036 3 года назад

    Great interview Tamron!

  • @crushingcolours
    @crushingcolours 3 года назад +7

    We love Tamar!!! Positive energy and healing sent your way🙏🏽🤲🏽

  • @maribelhernandez380
    @maribelhernandez380 3 года назад +256

    Seems like Tamar talks about everything but nothing at all....🤔

    • @NaturallyKristen86
      @NaturallyKristen86 3 года назад +7

      Lmao!!!!!!!

    • @sowintoyou7726
      @sowintoyou7726 3 года назад +14

      Listen Tamron asked the same question at least 4 times lololol

    • @serenity2655
      @serenity2655 3 года назад +20

      This has me mystified. I watched it almost twice. I just don't feel like I learned much at all.

    • @toniass8571
      @toniass8571 3 года назад +9

      Man i have ALWAYS thought that she skirts around the issue like no body's business.

    • @nancybreaux9684
      @nancybreaux9684 3 года назад +8

      Agreed this went no where.

  • @ericrosario5369
    @ericrosario5369 3 года назад +120

    Just goes to show money and fame don’t bring happiness. If you’re depressed in your old beater car when you’re broke you best believe you still will be depressed in the Lambo when you’re rich.

    • @Risingofthephoenix
      @Risingofthephoenix 3 года назад +3

      Not if you're depressed and suicidal cause you're poor I guarantee the depression and suicidal ideations will fade once money is no issue and you're sitting in that lambo

    • @ericrosario5369
      @ericrosario5369 3 года назад +5

      @@Risingofthephoenix Guarantee you you’re wrong. These people been depressed when they were broke, got it all and realized that they are still depressed. You’re thinking with a wrong mindset and instead you need to get right with Jesus because He is the only one who can satisfy.

    • @Risingofthephoenix
      @Risingofthephoenix 3 года назад +2

      @@ericrosario5369 you don't think people can and are depressed/ suicidal cause they're poor and struggling to survive or better yet thrive? If not then you really are not as in tune with people as you arrogantly think you are. And you're saying that im thinking or they are thinking with the wrong mindset? Really? That's another mighty cocky assumption to make. I'm very socially aware and have a high EQ and amounts of empathy enough to understand that people aren't as "black and white" as you think they are. I also have enough empathy and awareness to realize jesus and your christianity isn't the only way to inner and outward peace, light, goodness, and truth. The path to enlightenment and the teachings of the Buddha and the Tao Te Ching also leads a righteous path. And we are humble enough to know not to force our beliefs onto others because our actions and how we lead our lives speak for themselves.
      Namaste and Godspeed

    • @tendaichipato7308
      @tendaichipato7308 3 года назад +1

      m depressed cz I don't have a job

    • @elleluxe
      @elleluxe 3 года назад

      Thank you for that!
      I'm in the gutter AND BEST BELIEVE I'm getting my insides together REGARDLESS!!!

  • @BBROXY940
    @BBROXY940 3 года назад +11

    Tamar is a MEGASTARR, her energy is OTHER WORLDLY!!! I pray this queen heals and taps into her true potential. Rooting for her🙌🏾

  • @realiteatv4739
    @realiteatv4739 3 года назад +3

    So sad😥. I hope she gets better. Sending 💗 and Hugs to those struggling with mental illness. Your life matters.

  • @justrene6858
    @justrene6858 3 года назад +430

    To be honest, Tamar still won't acknowledge her faults and allow herself to FULLY heal. Its not the network, its herself. She has a loud personality and seems very spoiled but thats a cry for help and attention. I REALLY would love for her to just breathe and be transparent and honest with herself first.

    • @sunnybright8206
      @sunnybright8206 3 года назад +24

      Ok I’m not sure why all these idiots acting as if we didn’t see BFV from the first season I’ll say this is all Karma I used to literally cringe at the way Tamar treated her LOVED ONES. It’s nobody but Tamar she’s the issue.

    • @justrene6858
      @justrene6858 3 года назад +17

      @@sunnybright8206 yeah its not good, not bashing her because none of us are perfect but this is a 42 year old woman who I've never watched take accountability nor really apologize and mean it. I watched this clip and im still confused. The host asked her the same question 4 times?! She looked like she was trying to cry but couldn't, it just seemed like a show again.

    • @amandadupree1592
      @amandadupree1592 3 года назад +10

      That’s what I said. Until she take responsibility for her actions and realize it’s her she will never change she Is miserable and nasty to her sister and especially Tracey

    • @wendysefena9094
      @wendysefena9094 3 года назад +3

      True

    • @speaklife7333
      @speaklife7333 3 года назад +3

      you don't get it do you

  • @giftforgab9638
    @giftforgab9638 3 года назад +63

    These celebrities need to stay to themselves and heal. This is still putting yourself out there to be talked about. They never learn.

  • @denisecorbin1693
    @denisecorbin1693 3 года назад +24

    I used to be her. Until she gets out of her own way? The drama will continue. It's been over 20 years for me and I stopped the madness.

    • @elleluxe
      @elleluxe 3 года назад +5

      Any advice for me ....
      I'm wanting so bad to let the past go AND be me without "apology"!!!! How to STOP attracting the wrong people AND places.

  • @deandrecalixte9262
    @deandrecalixte9262 3 года назад +4

    This is a serious issue that alot of individuals experience including myself. I never have the thought of suicide but I struggle with extreme mental health and I hope and pray that we can get through this.

  • @greentrees2111
    @greentrees2111 3 года назад +24

    Being a sexually abused man, now in my forties I understand where she comes from. I've let no one know i was sexually abused as a child. It would be like opening the stitches up again. Very humiliating.

    • @christinamorales6099
      @christinamorales6099 3 года назад

      I wish the best for you. Stay strong

    • @sarahgeorge7786
      @sarahgeorge7786 3 года назад

      Me too
      Kept it in for years

    • @Brezzingtrulife69
      @Brezzingtrulife69 3 года назад

      Stay strong u are not alone❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @lisafrausto4687
      @lisafrausto4687 3 года назад +3

      Same,it took 15 years for me he's in prison now💪stay strong❣️

    • @Noname-dg3pm
      @Noname-dg3pm 3 года назад +1

      I'm sorry that you have had to go through this Green Trees.
      I like that name for 2 reasons:)
      I wish u strength and peace. Hang in there always cause it can really suck. Remember you did nothing wrong. Again, I'm sorry.