Our Long Distance Relationship story DO'S and DONT'S TIP for long time Relationship

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  • Опубликовано: 5 ноя 2024

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  • @reysmith2095
    @reysmith2095 Год назад +9

    Wow, what an awesome couple. Im so glad to see this ldr couple. After watching this last two vlogs, I subscribed! I got teary, hehe. He seems to be a classy, stand up guy! I am pinoy in the States and he is the kinda man that I hope all my pinay sisters fine in there searching for a partner. She is a typical filipina in my country, for the most part, appreciating the blessing of a great partner. Him loving your baby, is a great bonus! Cant wait to watch there future vlogs. Id love to meet this couple one day. From what I have seen so far, I believe they will end up married. Thank you for sharing.

  • @shawnayton
    @shawnayton Год назад +6

    Incredible!!! Jessel and John, I wish you two the very best. I look forward to following your story.

  • @StanHasselback
    @StanHasselback Год назад +8

    From watching Jessel's channel from the beginning it was obvious that she is honest, open and very transparent. She is also very bright and I'm sure she will do what's best for herself and her baby. John seems like a very nice person and I'm hopeful with a little work it will all work out. Good luck to both of you.

    • @jesselinthephilippines
      @jesselinthephilippines  Год назад +2

      Thank you Sir Stan❤️❤️you are so kind and always watching ❤️🥰🥰Merry Christmas❤️🎅🏼🎄

    • @StanHasselback
      @StanHasselback Год назад +1

      @@jesselinthephilippines Merry Christmas Jessel to you and your whole family. 🎄❄🎅

  • @tonymars1093
    @tonymars1093 Год назад +2

    All IO can say is NICE! I am so happy for you Jessel. I am pretty good at reading people and John seems like a fantastic guy! The type of person I would be friends with.

  • @williambreeze2659
    @williambreeze2659 Год назад +2

    I'm happy for you two. I hope for the best with your relationship!

  • @bradfordrobertson552
    @bradfordrobertson552 Год назад +3

    I’m glad John enjoyed his time there he looks so happy what a really nice guy I wish the two of you all the best

  • @gregsarah430
    @gregsarah430 Год назад

    Very well said , Honesty and Trust , otherwise LDR will not survive !

  • @bigjohnson7415
    @bigjohnson7415 Год назад +1

    You got a good one John! Wish you both the best!

  • @sizzykelly
    @sizzykelly Год назад +1

    Wow good to know that you both are compatible to each other I am very happy to the both of you.. Sana all na lang ko ani oi

  • @mrmadborg
    @mrmadborg Год назад +1

    Hi jessel and John, Best wishes to you both again and totally agree on all points you guys are spot on with whats needed from both . I wont do LDR, no more trust left for online, will wait. Then again not sure if i will bother to go there now. Must say big respect to John for joining in and bonding with the family and culture straight off. I see he was even feeding the little guy at first meal there. Thats the way to do it, so many try to force their western ways and not heed the culture there and wonder why they fail. Take care you two. 👍😀

  • @waraymeinthephilippines
    @waraymeinthephilippines Год назад +2

    Honesty, patience, and trust in an LDR😘

  • @RealGaryGibson
    @RealGaryGibson Год назад +1

    I had a 2 year LDR with my filipina. When we finally met last year in Manila, she was even more beautiful in person and we got along great! Some LDRs do work.

  • @MrSridharMurthy
    @MrSridharMurthy Год назад

    Great going Jessel and John ! I find Jessel a very warm and loving person who not only is very eloquent in speaking english but also very intelligent !

  • @JoeJennieJourney
    @JoeJennieJourney Год назад +1

    Congratulations kaibigan it's always best to trust sa LDR po

  • @bradfordrobertson552
    @bradfordrobertson552 Год назад

    That is so true you can’t keep promising if you can’t deliver things do come up to where your plans have to change but it’s important to be honest with that person to let them know you won’t be able to make it that way they can go on and see other people

  • @thomassflorida9886
    @thomassflorida9886 Год назад +1

    Saw your appearance on baby Mae complete with Facebook connection to make it easier for john ,been following your journey every since

    • @jesselinthephilippines
      @jesselinthephilippines  Год назад

      Thank you Sir Thomas❤️❤️for always watching❤️❤️Merry Christmas❤️🎅🏼🎄

  • @alexanderdonmichael
    @alexanderdonmichael Год назад

    Great Video! Please make more videos about your relationship.

  • @joceloulosbanos5043
    @joceloulosbanos5043 Год назад +6

    Wow thank you so much for sharing ❤️ 💕

    • @StanHasselback
      @StanHasselback Год назад +1

      Hello Jocelou, I hope everything is going well with you and your son too.

  • @FilipinaAndTheForeigner
    @FilipinaAndTheForeigner Год назад +1

    You're blessed to be together..we're just starting our Ldr right now

  • @charlesc.9572
    @charlesc.9572 Год назад +3

    Congratulations Jessel and John! Cheers to love! 🥂 🍾

  • @geraldturner3331
    @geraldturner3331 Год назад

    Hi Jessel. Thank you for the background information to your story. You seem very happy with your choice of bf and that's the important thing to remember, its your choice, nobody should criticise your life and how you live it. Great to see you so happy, love watching your videos and look forward to many more. Take care and blessings to you as always 😊

  • @steveramirezsr5342
    @steveramirezsr5342 Год назад

    Hello guys, very glad to know your story, like a book. John, I bet you won’t want to leave, the Philippines is very laid back and it’s like you don’t have a worry in the world. Congratulations both of you!!!

  • @Adventureswithjenny768
    @Adventureswithjenny768 Год назад +2

    Great video both of you.❤️🙏

  • @MrSridharMurthy
    @MrSridharMurthy Год назад +1

    Jessel and John are a very good-looking couple! They look very athletic too! I would like to see them getting acquainted with dive sites and scuba diving which I feel will complement them in a very nice way! Good luck guys!

  • @filipinamorena
    @filipinamorena Год назад

    My American boyfriend and I met in Facebook also. Happy that you're finally together in person. Congrats 🎉

    • @jesselinthephilippines
      @jesselinthephilippines  Год назад

      Wow❤️❤️good things can happen in an LDR we both are proof❤️❤️Best of Luck with your Boyfriend💞💞

  • @prescottosegie
    @prescottosegie Год назад

    Congratulations 🎉 jessel and John I'm happy for y'all 😊

  • @Niftynorm1
    @Niftynorm1 Год назад +1

    I was in a LDR with a Filipina that started just before COVID so it was rather strained but after she started asking for money and I finally realized the amount I sent would have paid for a trip there so I ended it. You two did it right, it wasn't easy but you seem good for each other. How tall are you Jessel as commented that you were smaller than he realized. Good things come in small packages!

    • @russcoight1586
      @russcoight1586 Год назад +2

      I never understand why they think it’s okay for a guy to send them money just because their in a “relationship”

    • @violettemagbanua7667
      @violettemagbanua7667 Год назад +1

      Good idea! I had a long distance relationship also with my Canadian bf for more than 3 years now but we have this rule that we both agreed; no money involved in the discussion. I can finance myself, in fact I supported my family in the Philippines also. A man will appreciate a woman more if she is financially independent.

    • @russcoight1586
      @russcoight1586 Год назад

      @@violettemagbanua7667 absolutely, you are so right! From a Filipina perspective, why do most Asians living in countries like Thailand, Phillipines etc, expect a guy to pay when they get involved in a relationship with them?

    • @violettemagbanua7667
      @violettemagbanua7667 Год назад

      @@russcoight1586 those mindset of many women who finds a western man, etc to be in a relationship for the purpose of support are those women who are lazy to find a job to earn money for a living. I am a Filipina but I can't hide this sad truth. My advice, if you try to find someone online or even in person, be vigilant. Know who she really is and her whereabouts, if it seems she asks something then consider it red flag

    • @semi5alpha
      @semi5alpha Год назад +1

      A woman asking money has no honor.. Decent Filipinas won't do that.

  • @buckfifty3470
    @buckfifty3470 Год назад

    Ya...had to be un-nerving going in knowing the % of LDRs that fail. I could never do it. Not in a thousand years. The chemistry in your first meeting at the airport was...sensational! Looking forward to following your journey. So, Jessel, when can we expect John in the jungle helping you collect banana heart?

  • @scotthummer1319
    @scotthummer1319 Год назад

    What a wonderful story I am so happy for you both. Thank you for sharing

    • @jesselinthephilippines
      @jesselinthephilippines  Год назад

      Thank you Sir Scott for always watching😍❤️and for your kind comment❤️❤️

  • @steveperyer4850
    @steveperyer4850 Год назад

    I am so happy for both of you. I am also in a serious LDR, with an older Filipina, and like you say, it is not for everyone, and you must trust, and sometimes that is the hardest part. If you find the right partner, you will never be sorry💞😊

  • @royceinparis
    @royceinparis Год назад

    I was in LDR for 8yrs and I can truly say that, communications,Trust ,comitment those are vital when in LDRWatching from Paris France.

  • @philippinesdreamorreality
    @philippinesdreamorreality Год назад

    This is awesome, I hope to see you both together soon in the near future. I mean here on RUclips.

  • @evacabello6347
    @evacabello6347 Год назад

    Hopefully all foreigners are same with your bf very patient in love being LDR AND GOD BLESS YOU BOTH

  • @johncooperpics6211
    @johncooperpics6211 Год назад

    Congratulations to you two. Y'all have found that special love that we are all looking for. I wish both of you much happiness and blessings. Thank you for sharing that it is true LDRs do really workout.

  • @Mydiary400
    @Mydiary400 Год назад

    This is genuine love, so much love from kenya

  • @fcaputo2012
    @fcaputo2012 Год назад

    Just subscribed to your channel after seeing you on Leah channel. You are so cool and nice

    • @jesselinthephilippines
      @jesselinthephilippines  Год назад

      Hello Mr Francis thank you so much 😍 hope you will enjoy god bless and 😍

  • @jonathanr971
    @jonathanr971 Год назад

    Great video 👏

  • @marksinger4415
    @marksinger4415 Год назад

    Congratulations to you both!!

  • @rubenramirez-fr9hr
    @rubenramirez-fr9hr Год назад +1

    the age difference between a young woman and an older adult is well seen in the Philippines, how old will John be, but fate is that the two meet as a couple God bless you and congratulations

  • @dimplypaprika7693
    @dimplypaprika7693 Год назад +4

    congratulations guys, you both look so sincere and happy. I'm not a high tech guy but it is amazing what you can do nowadays through technology when it comes to meeting people from other parts of the world. The scary part to me would be that when you finally do meet in person, your partner will not be how you expect them to be, but as long as you are honest to each other it should be fine. I'm glad you were patient and hope it works out in the long term. Your both very lucky! I am looking forward to seeing Philippines some time soon!

  • @rosaliefie7630
    @rosaliefie7630 Год назад

    kabayan napakabait ng partner mo let him go; nag enjoy ako watching your vlog while am on my work hehehhe greeting po from holland

  • @nolove857
    @nolove857 Год назад +1

    To me this is what becomes a problem. I'm here in the Philippines and we'll my wife is so jealous and controlling. And it's not good. I tell her she needs to change bcuz I'm not going to change my ways. I don't do anything here but chat to people I'm very outgoing person. I mingle in with the Filipinos. And to her it's flirting if I chat with the girls but it's not that I'm flirting I talk to everyone even the men here. And we argue about this at times. People here love to talk to me and I'll sit outside bcuz I'm bored being inside

  • @cy3969
    @cy3969 Год назад

    Happy new year best wishes. Will be flying over to meet my ldr 2yrs now on January 20th!

  • @vflandmarkvflandmark5523
    @vflandmarkvflandmark5523 Год назад

    Congratulation to both of you and 2.1k scrubcriber. Happyniess to both you

  • @violettemagbanua7667
    @violettemagbanua7667 Год назад

    When love is real, LDR doesn't matter. I've been in a long distance relationship also with my Canadian boyfriend for more than 3 years now. We tried to arrange our meet up during our first year anniversary to break the distance but Covid-19 came in. I am a Filipina also currently working outside the country so we need to wait. Hopefully next year we will see each other in person. To those LDR , keep the faith, trust God's process because it will happen when the time is right.

    • @jesselinthephilippines
      @jesselinthephilippines  Год назад

      Yes keep the faith ❤️❤️For John and I it was so worth it ❤️❤️ Merry Christmas🎄

  • @Denspion
    @Denspion Год назад

    Trust is my hardest thing with my current LDR, we've known each other over two years, but have not met in person yet. There are some people who tell me there are red flags, though I am biased, even now recently I've noticed some, such as her telling me she's going to a wet market, when it's 1am their time. Are markets even open that late/early? I want to believe her, but there are other flags to.

  • @pauldrew1130
    @pauldrew1130 Год назад

    Thanks for sharing!

  • @slainteron4027
    @slainteron4027 Год назад +1

    Interesting

  • @johntoscano2342
    @johntoscano2342 Год назад

    I’m very happy for you you look like both of you guys are in love❤

  • @scottandtheworldasiseeit
    @scottandtheworldasiseeit Год назад

    Congratulations guys. I wish you the best.

  • @josephlosbanos3410
    @josephlosbanos3410 Год назад

    I love you guys 😍😍 been following jessel since 😍

  • @dandonohill
    @dandonohill Год назад

    God bless you both.

  • @glennhiggins5425
    @glennhiggins5425 Год назад

    Hi Jessel, congratulations on meeting and being with John.
    May your relationship blossom and love for each other grow.
    Advance merry Christmas 🎅 🎄 to you, John, family and friends.
    Cheers 🍻 from Australia 🇦🇺

    • @jesselinthephilippines
      @jesselinthephilippines  Год назад

      Hello Mr Glenn thank you so much for always watching my video god bless you 😍 merry Christmas to you 🥰

    • @glennhiggins5425
      @glennhiggins5425 Год назад

      @@jesselinthephilippines welcome, looking forward to maybe see you & Shay when I visit Valencia 2023

    • @jesselinthephilippines
      @jesselinthephilippines  Год назад +1

      @@glennhiggins5425 that would be fun Mr Glenn hopefully soon 😇

  • @Kiwifilipinacouple
    @Kiwifilipinacouple Год назад

    Nice tips!

  • @hardeejohn
    @hardeejohn Год назад

    Best Wishes to both of you

  • @philippinesdreamorreality
    @philippinesdreamorreality Год назад

    You both seem genuine. If I may ask, what's the age gap. Don't answer , if you want to keep it private.

    • @jesselinthephilippines
      @jesselinthephilippines  Год назад +1

      Thank you it's fine no problem I am 23 he is 57 and we're doing great with our age gap in fact we're very happy 🥰 freely to ask me thank you 🥰

    • @philippinesdreamorreality
      @philippinesdreamorreality Год назад

      @@jesselinthephilippines That's really awesome, good luck to you both.

  • @dalethrockmorton2555
    @dalethrockmorton2555 Год назад +1

    Thank you for that I'm in an ldr with a Filipina for 6 months now she's amazing we have the same story as you wishing you all the best

    • @jesselinthephilippines
      @jesselinthephilippines  Год назад

      So good to hear thank you for sharing Sir Dale❤️❤️May God Bless you both❤️❤️Merry Christmas❤️🎅🏼🎄

  • @stevecollins8582
    @stevecollins8582 Год назад

    I like all but the UBS on your shirt they lost all our families money with poor non caring dishonest financial planner, can’t go the Philippines now thanks to UBS , you guys are great

  • @carolkerylow1586
    @carolkerylow1586 6 месяцев назад

    My grandson dated a lovely girl from your country for 2 years and now they have been married for 2 years and we are waiting for them to give us some babies.Im 83 so i hope they do it soon.lol😅

  • @Ty-dt8xv
    @Ty-dt8xv Год назад

    So happy for you both 🙏🙏🙏

    • @jesselinthephilippines
      @jesselinthephilippines  Год назад

      Thank you ty always supporting❤️❤️ Merry Christmas ❤️❤️🎅🏼🎄

  • @leachimnoyaba1615
    @leachimnoyaba1615 Год назад

    Love you both ♥️☺️

  • @alexanderdonmichael
    @alexanderdonmichael Год назад +1

    I didn't hear a i love you or let's get married.

  • @markingtime9723
    @markingtime9723 Год назад

    Hi John, Hi Jessel. lets get together for lunch or dinner or drinks.

  • @alexanderdonmichael
    @alexanderdonmichael Год назад

    What happened to the huge and kiss at the end?

  • @donabelanderson6027
    @donabelanderson6027 Год назад

    ❤❤❤😊

  • @kingdavid1614
    @kingdavid1614 Год назад +1

    Is that a ring on your left hand

  • @nolove857
    @nolove857 Год назад

    But jealousy and controlling will break a relationship

  • @garrylafferty100
    @garrylafferty100 Год назад

    What country do plan to live a early question in any serious LDR maybe moving Philippines not a option for him work how can you know if you never been there or 3 months of earthquakes with aftershocks like i did 2019 lol . i dont think you can fall in love online motive is her family more important than you? I talk to her 13 months before i landed in Philippines i made no promises of marriage even though a filipina may think so scary how fast they go there. I don't like talking negative wish the best to both of you there reality

  • @DonFashionBeauty
    @DonFashionBeauty Год назад

    I cannot have a LDR because of my lack of trust.

  • @bradfordrobertson552
    @bradfordrobertson552 Год назад

    So how long will it be before John gets to come down again

  • @RCFSULAW
    @RCFSULAW Год назад

    How could you not be allowed to come to the Philippines? What is an artificial issue? Only real issues would prohibit travel to the Philippines or meeting.

  • @Shizzle700
    @Shizzle700 Год назад

    When is the wedding?

  • @MichaelGinobbi
    @MichaelGinobbi Год назад

    How did you meet on FB?

  • @williamhughes962
    @williamhughes962 Год назад

    good bye lovely lady you cannot share love so all the best

  • @sedariataganna4330
    @sedariataganna4330 Год назад

    hello...ur so blessed dai to have a like john...Hope we both happy till the end...❤ and congrats ...Sana all dai...❤😊😊..i wish i find a right for me...❤ God bless both of u...

    • @jesselinthephilippines
      @jesselinthephilippines  Год назад

      Hello miss sedaria thank you so much for watching my video god bless you 💖