🏳️🌈Queer Parents at School
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Kids should not be outed to their parents without their consent you could put a child in real danger because of this
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No lies here … I know some horrid families as far as world views that would undoubtedly beat their child if the school reported this …. And it’s knowing those type of ppl even exist is what hurts . Smh
I completely agree with this, as the mama of a trans bean.
and i doubt if a school outed a child to extremely homophobic parents, that they'd take responsibility if the child got serious injured or killed because of that they did
Absurd. Unethical and disappointing to see young libs willingly suggest the school system has rights over parents.
For many years, Samuels have chosen to be called "Sam", Abigails have called themselves "Abby", so why can't trans/non-binary people be referred to as their chosen name?
as someone by birth named Abigail/Abby who’s non-binary and goes by the name Sam I love this comment sm 😭❤️
side note- my mom doesn’t support so :/
Me, who is named Abigail/Abby, uses they/them pronouns and goes by Never online:
let me add more. Michael - Mic, Mike. Johnathan - John. Daniel - Danny, Dan. Elizabeth - Liz, Izzy, Eli. theres so many more too
Because its not changing your whole identity?
They can identify as what they want, but they can’t force other people call them whatever they want
I am non-binary, in my 50's and my legal 1st name is Jerri. That's the name I was given at birth by my Mom and Dad. You would not believe how many people over the past 10 years or so have insisted I named myself Jerri because I am queer.
I have had people who spread rumors I was born male. I am AFAB. Infact, someone outed me in 2011 on social media, but were made to legal take it down. It got ugly.
To be outed as a child would have been devastating. I grew up Mormon and it would have resulted in shunning. I would sue if I were the parents of this child. Perhaps after a few hundred people do, the law will be history.
I grew up Mormon too. I’m in my early twenties and the big thing I hear from my family and my old ward rn is that it’s a phase and I’m going to know better and regret transitioning when I get older. It’s always comforting to hear from older Exmos or queer people cause it makes me feel less like I’m making a short sighted and juvenile mistake leaving and transitioning, something I’ve been waiting to be able to safely do for years
There is no such thing as non binary
Happy to see a fellow non-binary person,enjoy your day 🥰
@@nikrose5229nonbinary people have existed for millions of years. Words change and so do people
Its always great to see older queer people, I dont know why but it just feels so comforting to know that they are able to be themselves too and havent been forced to remain silent by years of hatered. STAY STRONG OUT THERE!!!
If a teacher outed me to my parents, I’d be living on the streets by now 😰 This is why I don’t tell anybody except my friends
Aww, I'm so sorry! Are you okay?
@@Sh3IIs Yeah :)) I’m not dating anyone so it’s easy to keep it a secret
Womp Womp
same!!! but the problem is i _have_ a partner, and both of our parents are homophobic, so its such a danger to both of us and vital that we cannot tell anyone
Then Why tell the school? Just go to school get your education and keep your personal life personal! Law and policy applies because children are minors. That will never change I'm sorry to tell you this.
“It’s legally Monica”
It’s legally Joseph but he goes by joe. It’s legally Kendall but she goes by KJ. It’s legally Alison but she’s goes by Ally. It’s legally George but he goes by Ed. No one has to go by their legal name and most don’t. These are some examples from my personal life.
Exactly, my boyfriend's legal name is Douglas but he prefers to go by Doug unless it's family
Or even a middle name. Some people even go by "American" nicknames and no one had a problem calling them that.
Since police can’t ticket anyone for not using the exact name on their birth certificates, you can’t legally control what name they go by. 😂
Exactly, like I changed my name (not bc I’m trans or anything but I just don’t like my legal name) and it was so freeing having people call me by a name I want to identify as, so the name thing shouldn’t even be a valid argument from people 😭
even before I came out as or even figured out I was nonbinary nobody had called me by my legal name in YEARS. I never went by it to the point I'd sometime fail to answer to it if there was a substitute teacher or something, my friends literally _forgot_ my nickname wasn't my full name a couple times, and my parents were (and still are) more likely to call me by our cat's non-human name than my full name
I was expecting her to say “god is my supervisor” 😂
😂
This is why I laughed every time I see a stanzi short about this type of woman being in h**l. Miss we're glad you're spreading the word of God, but list of the people who just hate you is way long too for us who actually feel his love.
"god is my supervisor"
"god's nonbinary too you goober"
”Then why don’t you act like you actually loved your neigbor? Gotta be in a big trouble once you meet this boss of of yours…”
@@ayyymacaroni 🤣🤣🤣 amount of times that question came up in Sunday school and they usually try to avoid answering it. It's true, I guess doesn't apply to the rest of us. However, wanting to be non-binary to be closer with God, now that's a statement that I haven't heard enough about.
No one gives a damn about calling anyone their legal name unless it's a trans person...
You’re absolutely right
Exactly! My name is Oisín but my nicknames are Ush and OJ. There is no issue with either of these names and I won't scream if you don't say my full name because I am a normal human being.
@@bigmanmccheez5342 yes!! like, can you imagine anyone being mad over their cis male friend alexander introducing himself as alex?? never would happen!! cause they couldn't care less about legal names, they are just transphobes trying to find any excuses to hate...
“Person”
@@gamerman3904 what? you don't think transgenders are people now? geez just say you're a bigot and go...
LEAVE CHILDREN ALONE
Yes, the TEACHER *should* leave Mo alone, respect them, and not put them in potentially life threatening situations.
@@Izzy-cp8ytPERIOD!! ❤❤❤
@@Izzy-cp8ytno we need to get this lgbtq bullshit out of the world
@@proodjjuice-hz5snIt's Mo. And they're not a girl they're non binary they/them.
YEAH LEAVE THEM THE FU- ALONE 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️💯💯💯
“Well legally it Monica.”
“We can change that!”
It's not very easy
@@pollyhannahestherbriggs Trust me, I know. :’) Just making a little joke
It’s pretty easy to change a name on its own. It’s the gender marker that’s more difficult depending where you live.
In my state both are very easy to change. You can even get an X for non-binary instead of M
or F
@@ashleyburbank3129 Mine was complicated lol. I live in Wisconsin which doesn’t allow gender changes but I was BORN in Illinois which does, so I basically just flipped Wisconsin the middle finger and did it anyway 💀
I'm an educator and I don't care what I'm told, I'm not outting any kid to anybody.
They are human beings and I'm going to treat them as such.
Keep going with this channel, you're a gift!
This is why i plan on home schooling my children. I have zero interest in little secrets being held between adults and children. Look at the poor child who ended up with bruised ribs because a teacher gave them a secret binder. Actions have consequences.
@@dcat5817 uhm when did this happen 💀💀 if this happened then it'd be on the news n shit I didn't hear about ANY of this 💀 also what if the parents could harm the child EVEN WORSE than bruised ribs if they know about them being lgbt.
@@oliver_om0ri This just happened in Maine. Google teacher gives child a binder in secret. Can't find anything about a parent killing their kid for being trans tho.
@@rachelpontillas5901 I know as an educator, I am.
@@dcat5817 Imao what. Source? Some parents will turn violent if they find out their kid is not straight or cis.
Why is it that people are perfectly happy to use nicknames for cis people but not a trans person’s chosen name?
Because nicknames are still their name. They can either use their legal name or their nickname. This is not going from the name George to Susie.
We are not going around and choosing a new name.
@@MalphasMikaelson riiiight. Okay. Perfectly reasonable. That’s totally not you just trying to justify deadnaming people
Normal people can have nicknames because a nickname isn't trying to get you to think that person has magical genitals.
@@MalphasMikaelsonI not Dale nor is my name anything close to it and as a full on woman I get called Dale because I remind everyone of Dale from King of the hill, nicknames can be anything bruv not just a play off your actual names. Just like boo boo nobody's damn name is actually boo boo.
straight
Me:Legally? Let's fix that.
Them:What?
Me:Kid! Your getting your official name change :)
No words.
@@Goshawty345💀 you act like it can't be changed back at any point in your life lol. It's a bit of a process, especially in certain places but it's not the end of the world if they change their mind
The look of fear at the end once the parent asked who the supervisor was 😂😂 I loved when my parent did things like this when I went to school
@@peeder1417more like someone who will curb stomp you if you hurt their child. 💁🏽♀️
@@peeder1417 what do you mean, "like a Karen"? Parents should definitely take things to the teacher's/Daycare's/babysitter's higher up if their kid is being mistreated by the teacher or the teacher does nothing about a kid harming their kid.
@@peeder1417 again, how is it being a Karen by raising things up to a teacher's higher up's when the teacher is disrespectful or not doing anything about bullying?
@@peeder1417 asking for a manager does not make you a Karen. Asking for a manager after your attempts to harass innocent employees who are just trying to do their job/enforce the establishments rules is what makes you a Karen
@@peeder1417 I'd definitely be asking for a supervisor for this kind of behavior. It's none of a teachers damn business and they need to be taken to task for being a nosy busy body who could be putting kids in danger
Her duty is to teach kids! Not potentially put them in danger!
Yeah i agree!
also i rlly like your ranboo pfp :)
^
They are kids they don't need to have a certain sexuality.
@@Watermelonsone what- I don't think you understand how being lgbt works
@@Donquixote0 Yes you are influenced by your surroundings especially when you are a kid
When ma’am busted out the “legally” I was about to throw hands. As a nonbinary child myself I would have hated to be outed to my parents and no one deserves that .
You aren't nonbinary lmao it isn't real
@@Goshawty345 r/confidentlyincorrect
@@Goshawty345explain why
Mo is a really cute name
No it's not mo is the ugly dude from the Simpsons 😂😂😂😂
Fr I love the name Mo
Fr!
Ummm my mom's nickname is mo...........
if i was their friend i would call them moo
That is super dangerous, my mom had threatened me when i was 12 during "the talk" that if i ever come out as lesbian or get pregnant that she would kick me from the house, since she has actually "helped" to kick a gay cousin who was also a minor i took her threat seriously and kept my sexuality and identity to myself. To this day she doesn't know and won't know as any parent that is willing to kick a minor into the streets with only the clothes on their back isn't a real parent, that's a monster because not even animals throw out their young.
Nope the animal parents just abandon or unalive them. Which is just as cruel.
@@sabersky1134 That's out of necessity though. We can't compare ourselves to wild animals. A wild animal will abandon or kill their young for survival reasons not their personal preference, morals, or religion.
Ironically, being lesbian ensures you won’t get pregnant.
@@Robynhoodlum not at all
Well... some animals eat their young. And yes, some animals also reject their young. I agree with everything else you said, but that is not a good comparison.
In my state we are actually legally prohibited from outing kids to their parents.
W state
That’s awful. Withholding information that parents should know seems like poor practice to me.
@@MajesticJoshua Information like this isn't always "good" for parents to know. If a minor wants their parents to know they WILL tell their parent. This is a million times better than the states that legally force teachers to out children and possibly put them in danger.
@@tarotkinq If a child is in danger from their parents then there should be something in place to protect them. Under no circumstances should the parents be phased out of important information about the well-being and metal stability or instability of their child.
Pretty sure this violates 1st am
mendment, and If the fear is the child being hurt if outed maybe they don't need to be in that home in the first place. You can still disagree with your child without a need for violence.
I had an issue when making my daughter (mtf) a dental appointment. The person i spoke to was so troubling and her excuse was the same as that teacher... We have to call "him" by "his" legal name which is 100% not true in speech it is only needed for insurance & paperwork. I spoke to her supervisor but chose not to expose my child to that office. Luckily her primary care dr was great & able to make more suitable referrals for her. I am the mama bear 😊
I’m so happy that you’re supporting your baby girl!! All the best for you two girlies ❤❤
So is your child male or female
How old is you daughter?
Your
@@Belovedfire
They literally say mtf💀
I hate when teachers do that, when I told the head of year I was transmasc. Her first reaction was, ‘cool, now im going to email our entire conversation to your parents’
Just yesterday, I had the pleasure of emailing my 16 year old's high school counselor to find out the process to officially add my son's preferred name to his school records and inform his teachers. It took a lot for him to tell us, but once it was out there, he felt so relieved. I'm happy to support him in every possible way, he knows that, but many of his friends don't have that same support at home and he is used to having to hide their identities and use their old names. Not here buddy, I'll keep their confidences, but we use whatever name you want to be called in this house.
Thank you for being so supportive not only to your own son, but to all of his friends as well. I guarantee those kids will all remember you for the rest of their lives as someone who made them feel safe in this dangerous, scary world.
Damn I wish my parents were like you lol, I can tell your son and his friends will have a great relationship with you when they’re older
Your an amazing parent!
@@callmesummon entirely out of context but i love your mikey pfp, and also yeah same
@@rainniebee lol thanks! I kin him
“Well legally it’s Monica” yeah and legally it’s Johnathan but you’d still call him Johnny if he asked you to
True
But it’s not a real situation
@themightyzim1477 My sex never changed, neither did my gender. I was born with a female sex and male gender. They're different things.
@@leovaldez9698 ?
@@leovaldez9698 wtf r u talking about....sex and gender are the same
I hate that this is a thing! I went to my counselor and begged her not to tell my dad that I was getting bullied for being non-binary and omnisexual and she said by law she has to tell him. I cired for a week not knowing when my dad was going to find out and what he was going to do.
If you're not binary, what *are* you?
@@iamjurella wall
@@Decamon-Demacon I mean, can't say it's a surprise-- although I still somehow expected you to be a mammal of some kind.
what happened did he accept you?
Womp Womp
I’m not LGBTQ, but I’m very lucky to have supportive parents because I know not everyone does unfortunately
These forced outing bills are very dangerous, the ones for it think that kids shouldnt need secrets when those people are why they have secrets. It opens venues to anusive situations. As well as, not allowed to have nicknames?? The heck? That's just asinine.
It shouldn't be a rule to put them, but if the parent asked no matter what the kid says the teacher should tell them, there should be nothing kept from the parent on purpose.
@@Jayjay-cd6ch ok so if a kid says "please don't tell my dad he will kill me if he finds out I'm trans" the teacher still outs them, then that kid is subjected to psychological torture (loss of phone. Computer. Outside. Grounded indefinitely. Loss of any sort of privacy.) How is that fair to the kid?
@@Jayjay-cd6ch you realize children have rights too?
parents don’t “own” children, and secrets like this are not the teacher’s to share and ultimately don’t hurt the child more than if the secret was told to the parents.
stop treating children like they’re not human beings deserving of privacy.
@@Jayjay-cd6chTeachers are supposed to be people you can trust. And aside from that, kids shouldn't HAVE to keep secrets like this from parents. At all.
@@Jayjay-cd6ch it's not on them tf ?
Literally was outed by my school to my grandma. By the time I was home, I had cans thrown at me, I was homeless and 16.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. You don't deserve to be treated that way.
@@hawklegs6940 Thank you, 😊.
Are you somewhere safe now?
Do you have a house now or a motel do you have a job
Are you good now? And I'm sorry that happened you don't deserve that, no one does
Me, a Christian Conservative & my friend.
L: Ravenna, I'm trans.
Me: Okay.
L: You're not mad?
Me: No. Not at all. Babe do whatever you want.
L: I love you.
Me: I love you too girl.
W conservative religious person, way to be a supportive/neutral friend
@@i_ate_the_context hey, God says not to judge other people. I may not agree with everything she does. But I love her. I loved her when she was a man. She was one of my best friends. When she changed to a woman my feelings didn't change. She's a part of my family. Besides, she respects me as a real woman so I give her that same respect back.
@@RavennaRose928 I hope others can see the great example you set and learn from you
The best kind of “let me speak to your manager!”
I got outed to my father by my school. Thank god he didn't flip out but it was so so incredibly scary! Never ever out a child!
Oh no, how horrible that the school informed a parent about his own child, that's so awful that he now knows more about his own child, how date the school inform him of the goings on of his own family 🤦
@@James_Mular I spent two months in the hospital after being outed. So yeah, how dare the school cause something that could've been prevented by basic human decency.
@@sockenjoyer yes, because hiding something from a parent about their own child is decency, if you don't want the parent to know don't tell people that may tell your parent, it's that simple, keeping a secret is as easy as keeping it secret
@@James_Mular I didn't tell anybody that knew my parents. KEEPING CONFIDENTIAL INFORMATION CONFIDENTIAL IS DECENCY.
@@James_Mular dude. Stop defending someone putting kids in potential danger
Several of the schools I’ve been in actually have a policy where you CAN’T tell the parents without child consent. There is too much potential risk involved where a child may be hurt or even abandoned by their family if they find out.
That would be great. Unfortunately there are other places where they are putting in laws to do the opposite such as in Florida, USA the "dont say gay" bill as its been called
That's great!
@@Raddiebaddie you misspelled the state, its actually spelled Dark Ages
Parents has right to know.
If anything happens to child teacher and school will forget it in a month or two ...
But the loss will be permanent to the parents...
Don't act like school cares about children more than their parents... Ok
@@jugabratjsdeka3207so the safety of kids from potentially crazy parents that could hurt and abandon the kid is okay just over an identity of one’s self?
ONG I told my friends I use the name ollie/Oliver now instead of my deadname and my friend lilly wrote me a note pretty much saying
If *deadname* is on your birth certificate and your teachers and parents call you that so will I
So pretty much saying that their transphobic
And I gave it to my friend Bella my my teacher just snatched it and guess what SHE COMPLETELY OUTTED MY TO MY MOM I didn’t even tell her yet it sucked
(to the person in replies, it is not your place to decide that, also my pronouns are he/they, I’ve clarified That to my friend’s multiple times and they are aware my parents are homophobic and transphobic, literally my entire town is, so yes, it is indeed transphobic)
I'm so sorry that happened to you
That's not transphobic.
@@MalphasMikaelsonbro in what way is it not transphobic
@@ThatBlueMew Her own friend simply wants to keep using the name that she knows her as? Just because she wants to become a "he" and change her name doesn't mean that her friend should have to oblige. Nothing wrong with that, not transphobic in the slightest.
She even says that her parents and teachers call her by her given name so the friend will do the same. If the parents don't even call her Ollie/Oliver, why should her friend? Makes no sense.
Once the name becomes a more permanent thing that's probably when they start using the correct name.
@@MalphasMikaelson or they could just respect the trans persons choice and call them a different name? Yea maybe it’ll take some getting used to but it’s really not that hard, and what do you mean “when the name becomes a more permanent thing”? When do you decide if it’s permanent? Just call them what they want to be called, because chances are it’s already permanent. Even if it isn’t, so what? Call them that until they don’t want you to. It’s their name. It should be their choice.
Teachers like these are a danger to kids.
@@Anonymous-ir9zxnot at all
@@1mh1asf7what do u mean
yeah
@@mission_apollo teacher like this are good for kids to realize trans is not real.
@@1mh1asf7 so ur saying- for the kid to realize trans is "not real" they have to be put in life or death?? bc that's what happens with these kids
We love how people are completely fine with using nicknames for students but the minute they use what could be considered a nickname or other name and it’s combined with their gender they completely flip out
Hmm, should maybe introduce the nickname a year or so before the pronouns, so everyone's used to that at least already?
@@conlon4332 that’s a good idea but people’s who’s name are very far from their deadnames it wouldn’t make much sense. But that’s a good way to bring people in
I completely disagree. With their terrible salaries, and complaining parents and students about grades and whatnot, teachers deal with enough. If the teacher is not bothering the student, suck it up, and let them go on with their life. Just because you or someone you know is trans, does not mean you are in any way better than them. The teacher is giving you respect, you should do the same.
If the teachers are required to they have no choice
@@juderadday1661 dude telling the wrong parents about a kids identity can get the kid hurt, killed or kicked out and not respecting the kid's preferred name is disrespectful and upsetting.
You are defending teachers disrespecting students and putting students at risk in situations the student cannot get out of.
YES!! Report the teacher!!!!!! Protect your child!!!
Edited to be clear that I meant to report the teacher, who was given no pronouns, not the child.
Protecting the child would be reporting the person who is trying to indoctrinate them with false ideology that through thought alone a mammalian species can simply change its entire gender and structure. When this person grows up and becomes an adult and has gone through the puberty process they're going to realize that they were lied to by medical professionals and by their parents and my people they trusted and are now living a life of a irreversible side effects do the gender hormone therapy and possible body mutilation
@@raccoondx try formulating a full sentence
@@mattybearxo4372 ok. I believe that you are out of touch with reality based on this comment, and thus, should make contact with grass
@@cheese0827 okay now explain your point. Why am I the one who is out of touch with reality when the entire ideology of gender spectrum stems from two names you've probably never even heard of, Simone de Beauvoir, and John money. 1947 'The Other Sex' I believe
Correction 1949 'The Second Sex'
how do you know that person uses “her” pronoun?
I live in Florida, if our teachers call us by anything but our legal names, they loose their teachers license
Really? What if someone just has a nickname, ex. Robert preferring to be called Robbie?
@@i_ate_the_context yeah, it doesn’t matter, if it’s not their legal name they get fired
@@Jel_likes_rabbits that’s crazy
@@i_ate_the_context yeah it’s hell, please send help
Florida is messed up right now. Can we get an ETA on when you're getting rid of DeSantis?
Notice how before when she said we’re having a problem with Monica, the parents still said oh no are THEY having a problem in class. Like she already knew.
at my old school there was a trans guy and he only told a handful of people, but one of the teachers overheard and told all of his teachers and they treated him really weirdly after that. We're at a different school know and they're much more friendly
This is pretty much how my English teacher found out that I’m trans. She heard someone call me ‘Elijah’ and was confused, but figured it out and asked me about it later on. She now calls me Elijah. And I came out to my mom by telling her, and I’m now being called Eli, and referred to as the bird and cat’s brother(I think of the animals as my siblings)
BTW: I no longer go by Elijah/Eli. My name is now Skyer (online, as shown by my YT username) or Kai (irl bc I’ve told ppl that’s my name, and Kai, could also be spelt as Ky, which could be a nickname for Skyer
Oh no, they have another 1. Please know that the medical community & pharmaceutical industry are profiting handsomely by pushing for the transing of healthy kids, creating patients for life.
I don’t care
@@pescadoblub._.6143 Okay? No one asked.
@@pescadoblub._.6143 it would be weirder if you did bruh
You don’t have to care about a random individual to acknowledge society’s improving treatment towards trans youth and work towards a better world 👊
But hey you just have fun thinking that you succeeded in hurting a total stranger. Whatever gets you off I guess 👌
@@Lov3lyDay Wow I can’t believe you got hurt by some total random stranger that you will never see in your life and I most likely live across the world from you. Addicted to social media muxh
This is why I'm getting out of teaching. It is literally becoming illegal to use correct pronouns or non legal names for students. Some of our states are threatening teachers with jail time or fines if we call a child what they ask to be called or if we offer them any kind of emotional support as they transition or come out
That’s crazy
I get it... But schools need teachers like you!!
Anything besides he/him if you’re a male and she/her if you’re a female are incorrect pronouns
Those laws are bullishit and what about nicknames
The people pushing this crap is what has ruined our education system. I see it everyday. We dont know how to handle it. So we ignor everything, get a paycheck, let all this stuff go on. Dont engage..... just dont. Lgbtq... dont say anything..... bullying, dont say anything..... let it all go. In the education system, you can get pulled into something by actions. Its best to do nothing.
They only get mad at names when its queer kids. Is a cis girls name is Samantha but her nickname is Sam, peopel would respect that. If someone was named Jeffrey but wanted to be called Jeff, they would respect it. But when its a queer person they're all "Noo your legal name!!1!"
This is very dangerous. We don't know why that kid didn't tell their parents. Some kids are beaten, raped ,and killed for even the possibility of being in the LGBTQIA+ community.
No, they’re not. Stop dramatizing.
So are normal people
@@eriktaylor1225 Just because you've never heard of it happening, doesn't mean it doesn't happen.
@@Cap_Briggsyso tell me one time that it happens :)
@@truonglexuan5293 It happens all the time, I don't personally know anyone but it happens. You really think you just did something?
It’s so weird how no one ever has a problem with nicknames, acronym names, or abbreviations, which can often be assigned without a person’s consent, but can’t keep up with a name the person actually wants?? Make it make sense.
Mhm
Because they’re changing their whole ass name nicknames are usually similar to their original name
@@Niko-Frombestbuymo is pretty similar to Monica and easy to remember tho
@@Um_236 but what if her last name is Lester 🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨
@@Niko-Frombestbuy 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I hate the fact that I have a straight mom that does *NOT* like the fact that I’m a Demiboy
Your human not a Demiboy
@@Cringeshorts69 demiboy does not mean nonhuman. It means identifying with a masculine gender only partly
Don't take my word on this because I'm not demiboy just a similar identity
Whatever happened to tomboys? Or is that concept hopelessly out of date? I'm a cisgendered female, but I prefer dress slacks to dresses and hate heels. I also don't own a car and have to walk a lot, so I'm relatively fit and love outdoor stuff like birdwatching.
@@letitiajeavons6333 wut
@@letitiajeavons6333 being a "tomboy" is more of a personality/style thing. Completely separate from gender.
This is a perfect example of amazing parenting
This is the exact opposite of good parenting
@@bazz6745 standing up for your kids and treating them like people isnt good parenting?
Outing them is illegal in Canada (or at least Ontario) bc it could endanger the life of the child in extreme cases so the teacher actually legally cannot tell the parent AND must respect their pronouns/new name/etc.
This is dangerous hyperbole with absolutely no supporting evidence.
@@username.not.known2473 elaborate?
@@username.not.known2473 I- what- using your big words aint gonna make it less confusing especially since you dont know how to use the word and how to spell it in a sentence. I know what hyperbole is but do you know that in that context its spelt hyperbolic.
@@Kayllister_ Gee. One day, when you've dropped out of school and grown up, you're going to figure out the difference between a noun and an adjective, and be somewhat embarrassed.
@@SpiralGDTelling the parents may actually put the child in danger.
Teachers caring more about a student name and gender identity than their student’s physical safety is just sick.
What's gender identity?
@@ashleyluna4497What they identify as I think
@@kitkatandanongacha6339 what do you mean?
@@ashleyluna4497 Ya know, like boy, girl, non-binary
@@kitkatandanongacha6339 and what does that mean?
STRAIGHT PEOPLE LINE UP
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Cool, glad to know y'all are watching their videos!
@@GaySatanicClowns nah I just was scrolling then I sall this
For the idiots who dont get that this isn't a choice or some identity forced onto children:
Nobody told me to be trans. I grew up not liking pink, preferring to gang out with boys, but I got told that 'girls dont do that", so I always felt out of place with girls.
Socially, I had a lot of dysphoria. I didnt know it or understand it, but having my long butt length hair cut just above my shoulders felt right, and i didnt let it get much further past my shoulders.
I saw an A Current Affair episode about a trans girl who tried to use scissors to remove her genitals, and thought trans people only hated their bodies.
When i learnt what non binary was, the feeling that I didnt fit in with my fellow girls and women came back to me, and I went by they them, and eventually tried using he and they.
I needed a binder for most of my early 20s, and at 24. Ive been on Testosterone for over a year. I finally feel like me. If this was forced on me, or if this was a phase, i wouldnt have spend over $1000 on medications to alter my body forever.
I am a man, and I will never be a woman again: it was my own idea, nto something I was fed by other queer people.
Keep telling yourself that. Our stories are strikingly similar as I have a ton of masculine traits. I'm not very fem, but guess what? I'm still 100% woman. You are not a man just because you hate pink and didn't get on with the gals. Stop falling into stereotypes and labels, that had you known nothing about, you'd still believe you were a woman. There's nothing wrong with being a woman with masc traits. You are being fed lies that you can't accept yourself as the wonderful, unique person you are because of a dumb ideological societal trend.
@kaygee2121 That's just it. You are a woman with masculine traits, but for me, that doesn't fit. It never has, and I am far happier calling myself a man than I ever was wearing dresses. If you don't agree with me about an identity I found which suits me, so be it, but don't disrespect me a human being by telling me I'm not a man. I feel this way, nobody told me to.
Well, legally, you respect when Elizabeth wants to be called Ellie, and when Tyson wants to be called Ty.
I know it's not exactly the same, but it's pretty close.
True that
I had the preferred pronoun/name battle with one of my kid’s teachers until I copied the assistant principal (who presented as NGC, although I never asked of course) on a letter stating that I knew the teacher was aware of my child’s chosen name and preferred pronouns, but I continued to hear they were not being observed by the teacher. It was my expectation that my child be respected by all of their teachers by being addressed by their pps/chosen name. To address my child by their dead name at school (with explanation of this term) created a hostile learning environment, which was at direct odds with the school’s mission statement and its function as an alternate school for kids who already struggled with ED, truancy, and learning differences. I said that whether the teacher approved of my child’s gender identification or not was irrelevant, but I did expect the teachers and staff to both model and demonstrate respect to all of the students as is demanded by the most basic professional behavior. There was never another incident. The teacher occasionally slipped, but would apologize and correct himself. That assistant principal showed up at the next IEP meeting to check up on how things were going. She was amazing, and I always wished I knew how she handled things with that teacher.
@@Jayjay-cd6ch Are you saying "don't respect your children"?
@@maapauu4282 No actually, I'm saying don't feed into this kids delusions, and don't force teachers to "respect pronouns" and further feed into this poor kids confusion.
@@Jayjay-cd6ch my kid told me she wasn't sure if she wanted to use she or they pronouns and might be non-binary. I and my partner used they/them pronouns for a month, at which point she told me she preferred she after all.
I don't see how this is at all different than when my cousin, at the same age, insisted on a different pronunciation of her name before deciding she was okay with the name she was given AND its pronunciation.
Respect is a basic human right. Even if minds change.
@@Jayjay-cd6ch most nonbinary people aren’t the ones going for hormone supplements and surgeries. That’s just some transgender people.
@@Jayjay-cd6ch Also, how can you be like a comment? A comment is a group of words formed to make a concept of a message someone wants to convey in communication. It is not tangible. How can a human being be or be like a comment? For basic grammar, you may want to edit your sentence because it doesn’t make sense.
Thats the type of parents we all deserved
No
@@peacekeeper6614Yes
@@AverageMLPFan_ why would you want parents training you to start ww3
@@peacekeeper6614 they're not. They only ever told me to be myself. That has nothing to do with a world war, pookie.
@@AverageMLPFan_ The LGTV community is starting a civil war within the US
I actually had a sort of opposite situation with this. When I was student teaching, one of my students was trans, but his family didn't support it, saying we weren't allowed to use his preferred name and pronouns. All the students called him as a boy, no issue. Some teachers were afraid to do it and then get in trouble with his parents, but my supervising teacher and I called him by his chosen name and pronouns. He was always a very good student, very active participant in class and socially. Admittedly I worry about him sometimes, because the world can be hard on trans kids, especially because his family isn't supportive. I hope he does well wherever he ends up going.
No worries, more than likely he has become bored with the novelty
Bro this genuinely could have been me. Most likely not bc internet but I was in a completely identical situation. If it is, I'm doing great now! Got a whole little life for myself, on T, loving existence. Even if it isn't me, thank you for being supportive!!!
@@outoforbit- Google the percentage of detransitioners right now before you continue making an ass of yourself, please :)) living as the person you truly are isnt a novelty my guy, and it's not very fun either.
@@stinky-smelly yes I have seen loads of vids on detranisioners and it turns out they were just gay. But the governments and the media have convinced young people they are Trans as if a man been a bit effeminate or a woman a bit masculine is wrong and needs fixing. It never was wrong in the first place and hardly anyone in the past made any particular issue out of it.
@@stinky-smelly Loving existence is a beautiful thing. Glad to hear you're doing well! :D
In that moment I would say “ legally I named them”
“Well, LEGALLY, you just tried to endanger my child’s saftey for no good reason, so LEGALLY I can press charges for child endangerment. So LEGALLY, it would be wise that you resign and find a job that doesn’t tempt you to put kids at risk.”
How exactly is the "child's safety is risked" ?
By telling the parent ?
Then parent is the Threat !
Sadly, soe school districts require parents be notified of students gender identify.
@@Redpilled_Tradcon It happens here to. about a quarter of trans youth are rendered homeless by their parents in the US
In the states where this is the law, (such as my state) child endangerment is explicitly legal in these cases.
Ok but fr though why do you guys say it's dangerous to tell a parent what their child is doing...?
Mo is such a cute name!
How to get a child kicked out 101
That is literally the point of these laws saying teachers must out their students to their parents, conservatives just don’t wanna say that out loud because they know how monstrous that sounds, but let’s not mince words, these conservatives are attempting a queer genocide and one of the methods of killing us that they have chosen to us is making us homeless at as young of an age as they can get away with and criminalizing homelessness
I think I would've just started misgendering the teacher on purpose.
And that is your right, just as the teacher has the right to call the kid a she
@@zero____76 So, no right at all. Got it! 👍🏻
@@harleyquinn5774 yes rights, the right to free speech
@@zero____76 alright, Ma’am
I do that all the time with mfs who think there are only two genders😂
If a child is harmed because a teacher outed them that teacher should be changed as an accessory.
The child needs rehabilitation
@@peacekeeper6614how so?
@@AverageMLPFan_ why is a kid an LG TV
@@peacekeeper6614 Do you mean LGBT?
@@peacekeeper6614 assuming you mean LGBTQIA++ then the child in question -if we're referring to this video- is nonbinary which means they just don't prefer any gender/ dont like any gender and they'd rather just go by a nickname in; context to what is stated.
No one should be outed nor should kids should be worrying about gender at a young age
I was like 12 when I found out Im trans (Im non binary now)
@@elliot22131 now that I’m thinking about it I don’t understand how you feel so I shouldn’t be telling you what you should feel at that age
The school I work at actually has rules against outing kids to their parents. It is also against the rules in my district to not recognize a child the way they prefer (name or gender) unless of course they are in front of their parents who don’t know. I am so happy that my district respects and protects LGBTQ+ students. Sadly there are people in my town who hate that.
W teacher
I love how you handled this. Outing a child can be extremely dangerous as they could be abused or in some extremely bad cases they could be killed by blood family.. and this is horrible what the teacher did. Your an awesome parent keep up the good work!
You can also out the parent to CPS
@@mo.ka.9661 unfortunately it’s not always that easy
@@mo.ka.9661 might be too late by the time anyone knows
You are saying that parents hate their children?
Nice fake story to fit your propaganda.
My girlfriend's mom almost kicked her out when she came out. I fear for what would happen if my family found out about me being trans. :( 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
Edit: My girlfriend's mom fully supports her now and does her best to make her happy. :)
I am so sorry you're going through that. Whatever you're going through you are not alone others have gone through too and are willing to listen and be there for you
@@blizz2748 Thank you. I hope you're also doing well. :)
@@kaylalapensee774I respect your girlfriends mom
@@peacekeeper6614 When did I ask?
If you haven’t actually put in any work towards transitioning, you’re not trans
This reminds me of the time my parents were called to my school a series of times because there was a rumor I was a lesbian and the psychologist agreed I was despite I denied sincerely, they pushed sooo hard with arguments "why I was a homosexual" and I "needed help" or they would kick me out of school, because it was a catholic school and that went against their *values*.
I experienced homophobia being cis and straight (..or a sort of 😁)
Edit: I never harrassed anyone or actually caused ANY trouble, I was actually the "example student, good girl with good grades" so its not like they were concerned about anything else but my sexuality
I knew a number of effeminate straight boys growing up. They caught more hell from peers than actual gay kids at times. Misogyny is real. Kids are cruel. Legislation policing these things will only make them worse in many cases. When teaching empathy is “woke”, we cannot be headed in a good direction.
I’m not gonna judge until I at least hear their side of the story
Gayism should be banned
Schools can be so backwards sometimes
I mean it a catholic school that follows the Bible.
people have been going by preferred names for literally decades.
it's very common in aged facilities and even in HACC to have clients go by their middle names as their first name.
every time the right media comes up with some bullshit issue it astounds me that people forget this kind of thing was already normal before they made a big deal out of it
W teacher
@@JoinMyRealm69Sentence is less than 5 words, bot found.
Me-kissed a trans man
Girl coach- GiRlS CoME HeRe! *tells my family in a call*
Parents-*fighting yelling std talk* “if you don’t want to be in this family GET OUT….
Me-*try’s to leave but ends up badly and I get grounded and not allowed to ride the bus*
Parents-yeah you shouldn’t try to do that, oh mom was just angry and didn’t mean it, well you’re the one running away, now I had to cancel our universal trip!*sad dramatic* you’ll probably try to run away again!~
The heteo kids that f-ed in the hall-oooh hi coach lady ☺️
Skill issue
Actually mo can be a nickname for monica its really cute
It's not being a karen, it's veing a good parent
Yes, everyone should ve a good parent
@@noahhose5655 Agreed, would you like a spot of ve?
@@TheGreenSystem No, cuz then I’ll have to go ve ve
@Noahh556🇺🇸 maybe not everyone, bit certainly every parent :D
As someone who grew up Asian idc if i get whooped
The way she looked so terrified when she asked “whos your supervisor” 😂
As a parent of a 13 year old daughter who recently told us that she was gay, I can tell you that as much of a shock as it was to me and my wife, we let her know that she has our unconditional love. It’s my belief that most parents would have the same reaction. Please stop with the insinuation that parents our somehow dangerous. I can tell you that I would literally take a bullet for all of my children, regardless of sexual orientation.
PS I also teach religious formation at our Catholic Church.
If anyone is dangerous it people hiding information from parents and try to keep secrets.
I love how you handled it, but unfortunately a lot of parents may not have the abilities to take it well. I hope you understand that we are just concerned for the kids’ wellbeing, because there is always a possibility that being outed could ruin their home life.
@@i_ate_the_context yeah it's also a possibility that teacher might be sexually indoctrinating a kid for pleasure or an ideology.
@@i_ate_the_contextYes, but y'all make it sound like MOST parents would do something detrimental to their children, when MOST parents wouldn't. There is no greater love than a parent has for their child in MOST cases. This ideology and social media has just conditioned you to believe otherwise.
@@kaygee2121 you make a good point, thanks for the reminder
It's over when hey bring the supervisor and the face 💀
My school has a policy of only telling the parents after the student has a talk with the counselor to confirm that their parents won't react badly. Also Teachers are obligated to use a student's preferred name and pronouns, and the student can change them without Parental Consent.
Oh, no, no
Stop usurping parental rights.
@stephj9378 Of what? Of abusing their kids?
Parents have the right to know and if they react violently then the school can take action but they are obligated to inform the parent
@@Tsoukis_06 No they dont bc thats called professional secret also
What I don't understand is that when I was going to school for my Education degree, we were told when taking attendance to ask if there was another name students would like to be called by because many of us go by nicknames or a "Get to Know the Students" letter was sent home where parents could also fill that in along with stuff like favorite colors, books and stuff like that. It was also a subtle way to let students who were not "out" to have some autonomy and feel safe. We would just make note of it on attendance and when talking to parents we used their legal names.
We were told that sometimes we were the safe adults that children may need help from and we were to keep them safe even if it was from their own parents. Now we couldn't like work miracles but we were allowed to give advice when asked. Unless they were a danger to themselves or others would we have to cross that line but not to this extent. If they can't be safe at home, they need to be safe somewhere. My beliefs should not endanger a child that may be beaten, killed or abandoned.
I don't understand the rules we have these days. This isn't the right way to do things.
"Well legally it's Monica"
Me: and legally you now have a lawsuit. Have a nice day. ✌️😇
what
So we can fix IT!?!? If they wanna be called they/them let them they are not an it! They are a human being
"Yes Ms whateveryournameis, Mo may *legally* be Monica and I can *legally* call you all sorts of mean things yet I won't because unlike you, I'm not a piece of human garbage."
this is why i don’t tell my teachers my pref name/pronouns cuz i’m scared that they’ll tell my parents and i’ll get in trouble :,)
i hope your parents stumble upon a reddit thread from a queer/trans kid one day and it breaks their hearts and then they hang up a pride flag to show support and become incredibly supportive and awesome and then if you ever come out to them they tell you that they love and respect you and call you by your pref. name and pronouns and you are happy and supported and loved and such.
@@ayyymacaroni aw thank you :D i hope so too
That actually happened to me :')
@@ayyymacaroni ur huffing on that copium
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My parents' response to the "Well legally..." bs is just "If a child named Jacqueline asks to be called by Jackie, would you still call her Jacqueline?"
Same thing happened to my friend, his parents were not happy w my school lmao
Wtf why do people care so much is it hurting you does it cause them physical pain to give them the bare minimum of human respect.they are more aware of themselves than any onlooker is ever going to be people need to stop telling others how they "should be" and just accept people either get on board or leave them alone.sorry if this doesn't have entirely to do with this video but I'm add and I got distracted by my anger at the teacher.these videos are really good.
Because lying to someone is more disrespectful.
You are either a male of a female.
If you can asexually reproduce, you aren't either but humans cannot do that.
LMAO the irony... why should I accept people that can't even accept their own body and reality?
@@soraya2218 True.
They pride themselves on acceptance yet all of them are taught to hate their body so much that the only way in life is to mutilate it.
@@soraya2218you don’t have to accept them, you just still need to be respectful unless they disrespect you.
@@Mistress_of_red I agree. There's nothing respectful about feeding someone's delusions. We have to have compassion and telling the truth comes with that.
oh what so if someones legal name is kathryn theyre not allowed to go by a nickname like kate or katie? yet another example of flawed conservative logic 🙄
Obviously those are nicknames. Charley would be a completely different name so if Kathryn asked me to call her Charley I’d ask if that’s what her parents called her
@@pianoismyforte682 So I could nickname myself "Toast" and you'd be fine with it, but as soon as I made it my chosen name, you'd flip out? Sounds like mental gymnastics, if you ask me. Chosen names are a part of self-expression and identity, much like nicknames, except you don't get to call the person by their deadname whenever you like.
This is why my children will be home school as a queer girl myself I will support them 🌈
Hi, you mind having a convo bout this?
Sure what do you want to know?
So where I am from teachers get fired if they look the wrong direction (one got fired for putting her hands in front of her face when a kid spit at her) and teachers are payed so poorly they cannot afford to lose their jobs. If somebody found out they withheld this info they would be fired. Thankfully, my school does not require teachers to do this.
Look, many parents are strict about this. Outing students to parents without their consent can put them into danger, and possibly even fatal positions depending on how strict they are!
Nice fake story to push your propaganda 🙄
@@queenbee7749It's not fake. Horror stories do happen. However, MOST parents aren't like this. Most parents want the best for and love their children. It is a fallacy that this ideology has pushed on younger people. But don't pretend like the atrocities that make them cite these reasons for not being outed, don''t exist, because they do. In order to make proper progress, there must be understanding from all sides.
Most teachers ask if there is a name you like to go by and that’s what they call those kids in class and all. I think this way of teaching is great so it’s not all by what’s on file and stuff makes things a lot more comfortable for people who don’t go by their given names.
“-as a queer lesbian parent,”
The look of shock on her face im dead 😂
I know that outing kids literally puts their lives at risk. I had queer friends who would just disappear either because they were “sent away” or moved states to escape “bad influences”.
Had this happen to me, deadass. Except I was openly bi. The science teacher that was always terrible to me tried to out me to my mom, my mom already knew by then so my mom was just straight facing.
Do u agree children should talk about this with parents first rather than trusting a school or a teacher.
This is the exact opposite of Rebecca Rogers' video about accidentally outing a kid to his mom. This time, it's the teacher who's an asshole, and the parent a saint
If someone pulls the "well legally-" card on me Im just gonna go "do you work for the government?"
I don’t think anyone will ever understand how upset I got when the teacher had said “so you can fix her”. I literally stopped moving and had to process what just happened
(((Hugs)))
The child should know that you can only be what you were born as
@@landenmorgan1469 sex ≠ gender
Sex is your personal parts and gender is how you present yourself. A form of personal expression of you will. They don't need to "fix" anything nor do they need to learn anything.
From a RUclips video?
@@landenmorgan1469the child should know that your can only ever be a baby
If the parents say don’t call them that, then don’t. Your job is to teach, not bring politics into school
Someone's gender shouldn't be political
Someone's name isn't political.
It's not fucking politics
THANK YOU... i don't understand the teachers that try forcing their political beliefs on children in their classrooms and act like it's law... "legally" NOTHING. legally *you* are not supposed to discuss/force politics in a classroom (unless in history or debate classes) just as you're not supposed to discuss/force religion in a classroom. people like this are hypocrites.
@@emilyr3458
What does religion and politics have to do with gender and names lol
This is so wrong. Also the teacher seems like the person to say ✨legally it’s Monica✨ But goes by their middle name😭
Legally it may be Monica but I’ve seen kids tell the teacher that they prefer their nickname so honestly, just treat Mo as if it’s Monica’s nickname
You’re absolutely right
Her face at "Queer lasbian parent" had me gagging
Same
Tbh I’m SO glad our school isn’t like this..like there are severely homophobic teachers and students but they’d never out you. Our pride club leader doesn’t need or take signups either for this reason, if we wanna go to a pride meeting my friends have legit lied about having chorus practice to go and anyone can just join or stop going to the meetings randomly. It’s fun, the school never calls about it or anything unless it’s to confirm transportation home.
Now what will your friends do if their parents randomly drop by one day to pick them up?
@@mo.ka.9661 most likely run to the chorus room😊
"legally it's Monica 😊"
so... nicknames are alright, but if someone wishes to specifically use a different name it's wrong and you have to deadname? smh
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No not cool
Protect your kids. Help them to survive in a toxic environment. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Love this parent.
How do you protect your kids if you don't know what's going on with them?
@@mo.ka.9661
If the kid tells me that it is not safe to tell their parents, I would not do it.
I proactively told my kids in kindergarden that there are more gender identities and more preferences than cis het. When they asked me about marriage and where the babies come from. And I love the books of Anna Fiske to bring knowledge to my kids.
I know that they will trust me on this issue.
@@ninaschust3694 Why wouldn't you alert someone that the kid lives in an unsafe environment?
@@mo.ka.9661 My OP was cut to the video. The school had provided the parents with information about the kid behind their back. The parent called that out and thus was protecting their kid.
Maybe I didn't understand the video as well as you did, but I thought that was the point.
@@mo.ka.9661 School can be a toxic place and we need to support our children to get by.
warning for all y’all, don’t use your name and proper pronouns in a mental health or school setting if you don’t want your parents to know. someone WILL out you whether intentionally or unintentionally. i’m saying this for safety reasons because it’s a risk you shouldn’t take if it means getting hurt.
And this 100% how you should react if the school tells you some bs like this. Even if your child isnt out to you yet it doesn't mean you arent a safe space, it could just mean that they need a bit more time to process it by themselves before they feel confident enough to tell you.