So cute, me and my second eldest brother used to fight all the time. It got to the point where I figured out if I ran into my room and put a shoe against the door, the rubber would stop him from barging in 😂😂 good memories tho, we talk about them all the time. Once he hit me with a sliotar and I put a plaster on the bruise, which made him mad for some reason lmao
Looks like you watched none of the short. Kids who are disciplined through conversation as opposed yelling and physical altercatios will learn boundaries through verbalizing their needs. Do you do that? @@sylvia7958
@@sylvia7958 yes. It’s 2024. It’s a very common income. It’s so important new moms or even older moms, see other moms discipline methods. You don’t have to share a thing hahahahhaa let them make the $$$$ 🥰
I love it when she said, " don't push people that way, instead of ' don't push your brother that way" . In this case, its not only his brother but anyone else. Waw may God bless you 🙏
Really. Is see it different it tell my nephew/nieces don't push ur brother/sister. Love an respect. Anyone else fair game take bo shit (exempt cousin's)
@@aadilharoon1807it is easer to just do nothing it’s takes more time and energy to do good parenting n sometimes ( more often than not) some ( a lot ) they ( the parents ) don’t know good parenting. And that is the saddest part of the rest of the story
Notice how the youngest boy was comforting his brother when he was crying. That is how you know they are being raised in a discipline yet loving household.❤❤❤
'Now give me a hug' is so important. The little child now knows his mother only rejects his behaviour he showed, but not the child as a person. Socialy smart mother.
Was searching for this comment! It's really important. In this way, the child will not be embittered against everyone. Children's psyches are very vulnerable. Therefore, it is necessary to make it clear to the older child that he is also loved, despite his mistakes.
Yes never label a child as ‘naughty’ . Focus on reprimanding his behaviour .. *You still love your child, but you don’t love his behaviour, in that moment.
Telling your 2yr old 'Give a hug’ is fine. Asking 3-5 yr old ‘What can you do to make your brother feel better?’ is appropriate also. *Encourage your child (3yrs +) to think of a solution themselves
This is what a strong foundation looks like. I bet she'll not need to discipline them much as they grow older because she did so well as they were younger. And don't you think they'll want to be just like mommy, someday! Some cultures the parents just scream & are out of control. So sad.
This was plenty for this small child to think about what he had done and apologize for it. That’s all he needs at this age. Parental guidance with love.
@@bb7961 I agree.I feel pain as he runs to his room to sit on his bed. Maybe he accidently pushed in enthusiasm and I would say sonething like be careful, no pushing. But making it a huge issue creates a rejection for him. He is the bad guy and sent to his room. I think it could be handles lighter while still explaining him to be gentle with his brother.
This is how I raised my sons. Growing up they have always just had a nice, easy going, respectful, let’s talk it out, kinda personality! Good job, mom.
This is why we’re soft as shit. My mother raised her voice my father chased me around the room. I grew up joined the military served my country now I own my own business. Brother is a cfo at successful company. The world doesn’t hug you when you fall down. I’m not saying you should hit your kids whatsoever but this coddling shit does them no good.
Chyyyllle I remember these days like it was yesterday! Had 3 young boys too and the oldest would run the youngest ones over until the baby figured out at 3 that he was not having it. I always made sure that they knew why they were in trouble and I always made them say sorry to each other to kill that pride in them at a young age. It's hard for men to apologize because we always say that they have to be tough, but the toughest man I'll EVER know is the one who said sorry to God for me by giving up His life for mine. You're doing a good job mom, and that baby with his lil hug was the star of the show and it wasn't even about him. May your boys rise up and call you blessed in Jesus' name I pray Amen 🙌🏾🙏🏾
I love that her emphasis was not punishment, but learning, change, and reconciliation. I love that she didn’t lose her temper and speak out of anger, but spoke firmly, calmly, and lovingly. That’s great parenting.
This comment deserves far more attention and likes❤ The only thing I can see that should be different is a little bit of explanation about feelings. Explaining empathy is really important
I agree! Her voice was clear and firm, as well as calm and even toned. There was no attempt to shame or I still fear. She also maintained that with Hudson and didn't switch to an overly coddling tone, which can be confusing for children and potentially create a friction between siblings. Great job mama!
@1nf3ctedd Not all the time, some times kids develop their own personality and it could be more aggressive then another. This is why parents of many tell you all their kids have different personalities. Even if the parenting style is soft and gentle.
I like how it's was calm and assertive but she didn't talk to them like babies. She talk to them like human who are going to be adults one day and need to know now how it ought to be
@ceeejay9112 yesss , goes ti show u can teach kids and discipline them without making them feel like shut abt themselves because really what does that even do. Accept your mistake apologize and move one good mama. No need to go on an on an on this will prevent alot in the future :)
I actually felt the tone to be harsh more than assertive and you can tell the child was scared and felt shamed. I believe the tone should be much lighter.
I also appreciated the Mothers tone of voice. It let the child know that this was serious and Mom's not joking around. Great lesson in how to administer proper discipline with hugs all around afterwards.👍🙌
I agree with everything you said, I really do. Now what happens when the child does the same thing a bunch more times and in the same day. That's the reality.
@@juliasnow-xz4kt It's obvious the kid is aware it isn't right, he is being taught totally decent manners by a mother with a kind and honest heart and a great set of brains. The little tantrum is ignored, not criticized, as a child that age can hardly control his emotions when felt overcome by them, but mom handles everything with respect to herself and every child around her, appreciating good traits, making them aware of bad traits. Only a mother with respect and kindness in her heart and mind would do this. One without would not do any effort to raise the kid as she should, but would fall prey to any mannerisms badly taught to her in her youth.
@@TheEijkmanProject Are you speaking from theory or experience? How many kids have you raised, just curious? There's a reason you see frazzled Moms, Moms who raise their voice or Moms who ignore their screaming child in a store. None of that is good, obviously. I was lucky in that of my four kids only one of them would do things on the sly when I wasn't looking. The others would respond to discipline much like these cute kids, but I also adopted my sister's kids when she died and I also did daycare and there are kids who don't learn lessons the first time, or the second, or the third. They have a stubborn streak or get moody, are young and don't want to share. It's reality. That's all I'm saying. I thought I was such a good Mom because I genuinely didn't have a hard time with my own kids, but when I tried to apply the same rational, talking it out and explaining like this Mom did I didn't have quite the same results and was often left frazzled at the end of a long day of fits and tantrums. (both my sisters kids are ADHD). I stopped judging Moms like I used to after that. Do what works. Every child is different. Start with what the Mom in the video did, but don't be surprised if it doesn't work and you have to move to time outs, taking things away etc...
Maybe he accidently pushed in enthusiasm and I would say sonething like be careful, no pushing. But making it a huge issue creates a rejection for him. He is the bad guy and sent to his room. I think it could be handles lighter while still explaining him to be gentle with his brother.
This simple calm discipline and awareness of teaching accountability and forgiveness is so important to the child's development of character it's wats missing in many families because we clearly see the results of it out in Public
And this is the reason why you guys, women, do that. I think you have the best intentions but you do it because you want to feel something and not because you want to teach the best lecture to them. I think stuff like the woman does in the video makes them weak as a man. I mean what has the other one done? He pushed him down is what she said? I tell you to shame a boy because of being a little bit aggressive makes them weak and is the best way to make them that they never can get beautiful women and make a family. It just makes toxic shame in them.
Once they go to school and outside influences start shaping their life, we’ll see if “no yelling” works. Because the bully at school who was constantly yelled at and that is the only way for them to actually change their behavior won’t care what Little Timmy says in a calm demeanor. So Timmy will have to figure out a way to stop the bully in another way that isn’t “having a civil conversation”. And Timmy will learn yelling. Greatest parent in the world, but you can’t keep your kid in a protective bubble 24/7. (Technically you could keep your kid in a protective bubble 24/7. But would you be the greatest parent in the world anymore? Releasing them at 18 or 25 or 30 into the real world after being sheltered and shielded for decades. )
I want you to imagine that other person standing in the room with the camera right on top of those kids and in their faces. And then tell me how the HELL this is “amazing”
@@gabbysegura7453 She's a highly irresponsible mother. I am a single male, 39, with no kids. The reason I am boldly prefacing with that is because what I am about to say is blatantly obvious to all human beings 30 years and over: It is highly inappropriate to film, and broadcast your children like this, in general, but especially for cash. Also, they are so used to being constantly filmed they are not even looking at whoever if filming them. This broadcasting would have been unthinkable 15 years ago but the new generation can not longer distinguish trash. To her defenders, that a mother needs to make a living, how do you think mothers made a living prior to tictok 5 years ago??? The answer: a real job, not posting their children on the internet.
@@debussy842i totally agree but it’s also showing examples for a good cause it’d be nice if her kids didn’t have to be involved though to get the point across
@@debussy842 you are so right. I am male, 37, father of one Kid. Never ever would I film such a highly emotional situation and load it up. Also this is not how to eliminate narcism. This is narcism at its best. Selling the emotions of your kids on the Internet.
Yea then 5 years later we hear she’s been arrested for abuse of those same children. I don’t trust any RUclips channel that profits from their kids anymore.
I love how you kids are so kind and respectful. I'm so happy for you because you have kind and respectful kids. I'm going too have a kid I am 8 weeks pregnant I hope my kids are just like yours. I found out my baby's ginger its going to be a baby girl. Ween I was a little kid I wanted to have kind and respectful and honest kids so I hope she is just like that. You kid are also honest. And you are sooo pretty are you are a great person and mother. And also ween I was younger I always wanted to have a baby girl but I am haveing a baby girl I would be also fine with a baby boy but I always wanted a baby girl I am coming a mother I don't have any kids yet but I just wanted to till you that and I subscribe your channel. 😊
Hudson saying “you’re ok” was just so precious. Huddy loves his big bro no matter what? This is amazing parenting and the children are just so sweet. Good job mom and dad!
We need more mothers like you. Perfect example not needing to yell or scream or threatening just calm collective and explained what he did was wrong and why he shouldn’t do that again and punished him without abusing him. Great job. 👏 👏👏
The right kind of parenting ❤ In a perfect world 🌎 all parents would be doing this and raising better human beings. Thank you 😊 you will truly be rewarded because of it your children will love and respect you all the more
@@darylmorrison6598exactly what I was gonna say. That word shizz don’t work with ADHD. They need to be affected by the repercussions. It’s technically a mental illness even though they aren’t acting out 24/7 like some of the more extreme illnesses.
Nah she didn’t kid is gunna be soft as can be when he’s older he started crying more when his mom sent the other kid away your suppose to make your kids tough not little girls crying just cause a feather hit their shoulder
@@sorenludwig3978yes you can, what I wouldn't do is make them say sorry, saying sorry means nothing if you don't mean it. But the rest, especially because if the age, is amazing. When this happens with an older kid you can encourage them to think about other solutions in time out and talk with them about it afterwards, but i think that kid is too young for that.
I do this with my kids and I feel like it gets me no where…but then I hear them playing in a room together and apologizing for things and forgiving one another. It’s working even when we think we’re failing. ❤
This was the perfect combination of sternness and compassion. A lot of parents are way too soft today but she was very clear to him with her tone, choice of words, and eye contact that what he did was unacceptable. She made him understand that there are consequences for bad behavior when she sent him away and allowed him to reflect on his behavior. Then she reassured him that she still loves him and that he can make it up to his brother by apologizing and setting things right.
She did a great job! Explained without shouting or getting upset. Teaching respect and being kind is so much better. Gentleness is not taught, it is a blessing! I wish more mothers could see this and teach their toddlers kindness and to be caring!
And it's so cute how siblings can Forgive each other so quickly!!..Boys need very firm, but kind, boundaries, & she did it SO well for them!!- Kudos!!- :)
It's the best example of loving-kindness and patience. And making the time teach in such a way that their children are not damaged by it. I saw the video and I started crying. It's so wonderful to see someone actually take the time. To love on their kids
Exactly. I never had to strike my children. Little ones can understand consequences and time outs and then corrective experiences. Really sweet little brothers. Boys can get super aggressive and it’s sweet to see a Mama take time to patiently teach her children how to be better humans.
What an amazing mom! She's teaching her little boys really well, no yelling or screaming made them understand the meaning of love for one another..great job mom! Happy mother's day to you! ❤❤❤❤
I'm OLD and LOVE THIS! She does it all perfectly: Accountability, modest transfer of displeasure, specific about misconduct, age appropriate consequence, relationship restoration, status quo. GOOD GOOD!!!
my concern is that she never asked him why he pushed his brother. it’s possible that he was responding to something inappropriately. he could be getting the message that other people can do bad things to him, and he can’t do anything about it. if that’s the case, he also hasn’t learned an appropriate way to respond when his brother treats him badly. he also may have hugged his mom for the purpose of regaining favor, when hugs should be reserved for authentic love. that’s why i never demand a hug, i only ever ask. she also told him to apologize instead of asking if he wants to apologize, which is bypassing his own moral compass and forcing him to abide by hers instead of his own. if he didn’t want to apologize, she could have explained to him why she would apologize if she were in his shoes, or she can explain how he and his brother will feel if he doesn’t apologize so he can have a better understanding of how to apply the skill in the future. there’s nothing inherently wrong about what happened here, especially when you’re busy, but there are many opportunities for teaching and connection that were missed here.
There's no universal textbook. Case by case. Family by family. Individual by individual. What works for her, might not work for others. Also, this is a montage. We don't see what happened between cuts.
@@trrulieeeeeI used this method with my kids and they are all adults now. They are emotionally stable and know how to treat people as well as how they expect to be treated by others. I guarantee that this mom addresses both sides before making a final judgement.
@@dreamchaser7177no you didn’t, if they’re all adults then you’re a liar. Look at how confused this kid is when they have a camera recording the situation. They did this for views and it’s disgusting.
He did not show the least smidgen of remorse. He would not look her in the eyes. He knows from prior experience that his misbehaviour is easily dealt with by 5 minutes of sitting in his own room, which is no punishment at all.
Kids can be very happy to play in front of camera and watch themselves again. Let everyone live their own life. Fpr this stupid privacy reason one day in the UK they will arrest you if you take a picture of a kid that's not yours! Not everyone does things for bad reasons
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Ffs, it's common sense. THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE NORMAL, not some outlier
No, she is growing CASTRATED GUYS, who in the future will not know how to act like the real men. NO BALLS, CRYING LIKE BABIES when they are adults. She is deeply indoctrinated by this stupid propaganda which is running around nowadays and which is PLANNED...
My brain registers this as wrong because I grew up with chaos, arguments and shouting. You're doing an excellent job of teaching those kids, they are lucky to have you.
Best way to teach your child. Let them tell you what they did wrong. Then you know they have learned. I do the same thing. Love it. Your a great mom and your kids are amazing. ❤
@@tur74d56 this is different, the situation happened in front of the parent so they know that their mom knows and they cannot lie. why would they? also this gives them a chance to explain if something else was bothering them like "he pushed me first!' or "I didn't push, he tripped!" clears up the situation. always give kids a chance to talk
@@megv7481the punishment was reflecting and reviewing.... She almost had it.... Everything she did was great except there were no actual consequences. It'll be a rude awakening in society for him when there are still consequences after reflection and apologizing
I miss these days. My daughters are in their 20’s. It makes you realize how much influence you have over their lives and shaping their character in these teaching moments. ❤️
Just wait until your daughters start mimicking YOUR parenting! That's what I'm seeing as my kids are in their 30s & raising their own kids. Its awesome! I love it!! However, my own parents couldn't say this because they were physically & verbally abusive, but I was determined to never ever be like them.
I love how people these days are seeing parenting as a important thing. Much love to everyone who is working on themselves to make the next generation better.❤
That was so excellent. You covered everything perfectly. You explained things beautifully and gently, you were down at their eye level, you sent him to his room for an age appropriate amount of time as a reasonable punishment, you had positive, loving reinforcement, you had him explain to you the reason for the punishment to ensure his understanding, you had him apologise to and hug his brother, and you gave him the choice to continue playing on his own or come out & play. Everyone was happy, no hard feelings by anyone, including your viewers. I highly commend you and your life-teaching methods. You're outstanding. I can't think of how you could have done better. You're raising some wonderful kids who will go on to bring your teachings to their children, friends and/or coworkers to help bring about a beautiful future. Thank you.
She is one amazing mom. I love her! I love how she’s firm but gentle, gets down on their level and talks and explains. She’s perfect and her boys will be amazing men
Give me a break. All she did is sent a kid to his room while blasting him in front of everyone for show and likes at his expense. Yea grate mother she is. SMH
@@3pleSss You obviously don't have children or shouldn't have a child be in your care! This was amazing from a mom of 3 to achieve such respectable results means so much in the moment not for the camera ...you jackass!
_Beautiful_ example of Peaceful Parenting. Calm and gentle, yet firm and assertive of the consequences of actions with guidance towards preferable behaviors. The world needs more of *THIS* from all parents/guardians in children's lives.
We need more parents like Her! These kids are gonna grow up to be such great men and gents! I thank my parents for always being tough and never let me cross the line even if I thought it was stupid. Now that I'm on my 30s I thank them for not letting one bad behavior pass without them correcting or letting me know I was not right!
Good parenting ❤ One amendment I would make (from experience) is instead of ‘I want you to say sorry’ you could ask ‘What can you do to make Hudson feel better?’ .. Otherwise ‘sorry’ will just become a word that ‘gets me out of more trouble’ . Encourage him to think of a solution himself - some children ask ‘Are you ok?’ Others go get a toy for the hurt child or ask if they could play a game together.. Otherwise spot on 👍🏼
@@Tanorolife You're welcome 😉 I was 'Behaviour Management Coordinator' for over 2 decades. Was very challenging at times, but also very enjoyable.. especially when you see chidren learning to deal with their emotions in a positive way.
@@camillelamb7377 Happy to help 😃 Some children may struggle with this at first. So you could help by offering sugestions. Also if a child just wants to say 'sorry'. you can ask .. 'Ok, what are you sorry for?' - After some discussion the child may say someting like 'I'm sorry for throwing sand in your eye.. are you ok now?’
“Sorry Huddy”
“It’s okay”
Those 2 sentences took me out. They are so precious
So cute, me and my second eldest brother used to fight all the time. It got to the point where I figured out if I ran into my room and put a shoe against the door, the rubber would stop him from barging in 😂😂 good memories tho, we talk about them all the time. Once he hit me with a sliotar and I put a plaster on the bruise, which made him mad for some reason lmao
That's a good mom.
The two phrases melted my heart.what beautiful little humans they are.well done mimma❤❤❤❤
Sentences 💀 but anyway it’s still super adorbs
Me too.
Awesome work, i am hopeful this next generation will be kind and understand boundaries
Unterstand boundaries by broadcasting children, crying children to millions of strangers on the Internet?
Looks like you watched none of the short. Kids who are disciplined through conversation as opposed yelling and physical altercatios will learn boundaries through verbalizing their needs. Do you do that? @@sylvia7958
@@sylvia7958 yes. It’s 2024. It’s a very common income. It’s so important new moms or even older moms, see other moms discipline methods. You don’t have to share a thing hahahahhaa let them make the $$$$ 🥰
NICE FUCKING JOKE BUD
@@kyranx602 who even are you
ہم سب کو چاہیئے کہ اپنی بچوں کو اسی طرح خوبصورت اور نیک تربیت دیں تاکہ کل ہمارے بچوں کا مستقبل ہمارے لئے فخر کا مقام سابت ہو ❤
My dad growing up “you gonna take that sh*t? Hit him back!” 😂
For real! This shit don’t work!😂😂
Nope.
It all depends on what type of environment a child grows up in whether this type of discipline works or not. So yeah it can work.
@@angiemanges7945 Oh I’m not saying this ladies wrong and my dad was right. The man’s advice certainly had a habit of getting me in trouble lmao
qays, in the making 😮
The way the baby hugged his brother warmed my heart ❤️
I pretend he's leaning in to whisper, "I'm gonna git you later"
So cute! He wanted to get in on the action 😂
Me to ❤❤❤
Me too so cute!!❤❤❤
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I love it when she said, " don't push people that way, instead of ' don't push your brother that way" . In this case, its not only his brother but anyone else. Waw may God bless you 🙏
Really. Is see it different it tell my nephew/nieces don't push ur brother/sister. Love an respect. Anyone else fair game take bo shit (exempt cousin's)
@@seanhughes6697they're probably a little assholes then
I hope to be a wise mother one day too this is a great example thank you
Genau so 👌❤️🔥🤝❤️🔥🤲🤲🤲
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Thank you mom for not being afraid of be a parent and teach your children. You are raising them well!
She literally doing what she should be doing
@@aadilharoon1807it is easer to just do nothing it’s takes more time and energy to do good parenting n sometimes ( more often than not) some ( a lot ) they ( the parents ) don’t know good parenting. And that is the saddest part of the rest of the story
My heart is literally melting.The little one trying to comfort his brother ❤
Notice how the youngest boy was comforting his brother when he was crying. That is how you know they are being raised in a discipline yet loving household.❤❤❤
"sorry huddy." the CUTEST ever!!❤
thx for the likes!!
Ikr ❤
MELTED
God bless this beautiful mom for doing the very best for her children 🙏 ❤lovely little family - blessings to all of you❤❤
Supermom❤
Ain't it!
Congratulations Mom for teaching your children how to respect.
How do they take care of each other
Amazing
Blessed and saved
Ameen
This is so precious. She is an excellent mom. These years go by so fast. These boys are in good hands. “Sorry Huddy” is priceless.
'Now give me a hug' is so important. The little child now knows his mother only rejects his behaviour he showed, but not the child as a person. Socialy smart mother.
Was searching for this comment!
It's really important. In this way, the child will not be embittered against everyone. Children's psyches are very vulnerable. Therefore, it is necessary to make it clear to the older child that he is also loved, despite his mistakes.
And the "good boy" comment.
Hugs are for celebrating after you score a goal and/or girls
Yes never label a child as ‘naughty’ . Focus on reprimanding his behaviour ..
*You still love your child, but you don’t love his behaviour, in that moment.
Telling your 2yr old 'Give a hug’ is fine.
Asking 3-5 yr old ‘What can you do to make your brother feel better?’ is appropriate also.
*Encourage your child (3yrs +) to think of a solution themselves
She is a good mother and sets a good example for those of us who have children, teaching them values and respect in time.
Cute❤❤❤
This is what a strong foundation looks like. I bet she'll not need to discipline them much as they grow older because she did so well as they were younger.
And don't you think they'll want to be just like mommy, someday!
Some cultures the parents just scream & are out of control. So sad.
Not really isolation is not good for kids
She’s such a good example of what a good mother should be. I can learn a lot from her on how to be a good father one day
This literally the most basic parenting skill you don't need to watch a video to learn this
Best education.. comes from a responsible and loving mother..
The way he ran back to his room the second time shows how he was happy and confident that he is loved
saying, 'Don't' to a child gives way for an unhealthy child.
you are defying their natural instinct to survive (learn).
thx
No, it made him feel like he doesn’t deserve love and playtime for a small
Mistake. Children don’t know what’s boundary and space
no, it shows that being sent to a place with toys isn't punishment, and the kid learned nothing.
This was plenty for this small child to think about what he had done and apologize for it. That’s all he needs at this age. Parental guidance with love.
@@bb7961 I agree.I feel pain as he runs to his room to sit on his bed.
Maybe he accidently pushed in enthusiasm and I would say sonething like be careful, no pushing. But making it a huge issue creates a rejection for him.
He is the bad guy and sent to his room.
I think it could be handles lighter while still explaining him to be gentle with his brother.
This is how I raised my sons. Growing up they have always just had a nice, easy going, respectful, let’s talk it out, kinda personality! Good job, mom.
She's doing a 1derful mom.
And good job to you too what a wonderful gift to give the world
Good job to you mama
This is why we’re soft as shit. My mother raised her voice my father chased me around the room. I grew up joined the military served my country now I own my own business. Brother is a cfo at successful company. The world doesn’t hug you when you fall down. I’m not saying you should hit your kids whatsoever but this coddling shit does them no good.
GOOD JOB TO YOU
Chyyyllle I remember these days like it was yesterday! Had 3 young boys too and the oldest would run the youngest ones over until the baby figured out at 3 that he was not having it. I always made sure that they knew why they were in trouble and I always made them say sorry to each other to kill that pride in them at a young age. It's hard for men to apologize because we always say that they have to be tough, but the toughest man I'll EVER know is the one who said sorry to God for me by giving up His life for mine. You're doing a good job mom, and that baby with his lil hug was the star of the show and it wasn't even about him. May your boys rise up and call you blessed in Jesus' name I pray Amen 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Great job mum talking and addressing the problem
Her tone of voice used for disciplining was perfect. Way more effective than yelling and screaming.
yelling and screaming should't even be an option.
I don't know about that, but she did do a GREAT job!!!
@@markmitchell4400why would you want to yell and scream and be aggressive towards your children
I love that her emphasis was not punishment, but learning, change, and reconciliation. I love that she didn’t lose her temper and speak out of anger, but spoke firmly, calmly, and lovingly. That’s great parenting.
This comment deserves far more attention and likes❤
The only thing I can see that should be different is a little bit of explanation about feelings. Explaining empathy is really important
I agree! Her voice was clear and firm, as well as calm and even toned. There was no attempt to shame or I still fear. She also maintained that with Hudson and didn't switch to an overly coddling tone, which can be confusing for children and potentially create a friction between siblings. Great job mama!
Wait, this is great but, every kid is not as gentle some kids need a lil more aggression.
This is how Supernanny do it
Love to watch her videos
@1nf3ctedd Not all the time, some times kids develop their own personality and it could be more aggressive then another. This is why parents of many tell you all their kids have different personalities. Even if the parenting style is soft and gentle.
Beautiful thing to see when good parenting skills are at their best raising better kinder humans 🫶🏽ty
Excellent mom..We need more parents like you
She has such a calm voice. Very patient. Teaching her children at the same time. Beautiful
I like how it's was calm and assertive but she didn't talk to them like babies. She talk to them like human who are going to be adults one day and need to know now how it ought to be
@@Venus_baby_18 yes and she also wasn’t shouting or raising her voice
She simply had a calm and firm tone of voice when addressing them
perfect tone, when disciplining and when validating etc also
@ceeejay9112 yesss , goes ti show u can teach kids and discipline them without making them feel like shut abt themselves because really what does that even do. Accept your mistake apologize and move one good mama. No need to go on an on an on this will prevent alot in the future :)
I actually felt the tone to be harsh more than assertive and you can tell the child was scared and felt shamed. I believe the tone should be much lighter.
I also appreciated the Mothers tone of voice. It let the child know that this was serious and Mom's not joking around.
Great lesson in how to administer proper discipline with hugs all around afterwards.👍🙌
I agree with everything you said, I really do. Now what happens when the child does the same thing a bunch more times and in the same day. That's the reality.
Facts @@juliasnow-xz4kt
@@juliasnow-xz4kt It's obvious the kid is aware it isn't right, he is being taught totally decent manners by a mother with a kind and honest heart and a great set of brains. The little tantrum is ignored, not criticized, as a child that age can hardly control his emotions when felt overcome by them, but mom handles everything with respect to herself and every child around her, appreciating good traits, making them aware of bad traits. Only a mother with respect and kindness in her heart and mind would do this. One without would not do any effort to raise the kid as she should, but would fall prey to any mannerisms badly taught to her in her youth.
@@TheEijkmanProject Are you speaking from theory or experience? How many kids have you raised, just curious? There's a reason you see frazzled Moms, Moms who raise their voice or Moms who ignore their screaming child in a store. None of that is good, obviously. I was lucky in that of my four kids only one of them would do things on the sly when I wasn't looking. The others would respond to discipline much like these cute kids, but I also adopted my sister's kids when she died and I also did daycare and there are kids who don't learn lessons the first time, or the second, or the third. They have a stubborn streak or get moody, are young and don't want to share. It's reality. That's all I'm saying. I thought I was such a good Mom because I genuinely didn't have a hard time with my own kids, but when I tried to apply the same rational, talking it out and explaining like this Mom did I didn't have quite the same results and was often left frazzled at the end of a long day of fits and tantrums. (both my sisters kids are ADHD). I stopped judging Moms like I used to after that. Do what works. Every child is different. Start with what the Mom in the video did, but don't be surprised if it doesn't work and you have to move to time outs, taking things away etc...
Maybe he accidently pushed in enthusiasm and I would say sonething like be careful, no pushing. But making it a huge issue creates a rejection for him.
He is the bad guy and sent to his room.
I think it could be handles lighter while still explaining him to be gentle with his brother.
This simple calm discipline and awareness of teaching accountability and forgiveness is so important to the child's development of character it's wats missing in many families because we clearly see the results of it out in Public
As a school director for many years, this is perfection!! How blessed those boys are to have such a wonderful mom!
When he said "sorry Huddy" my heart melted. so cute and sweet.
And this is the reason why you guys, women, do that. I think you have the best intentions but you do it because you want to feel something and not because you want to teach the best lecture to them. I think stuff like the woman does in the video makes them weak as a man. I mean what has the other one done? He pushed him down is what she said? I tell you to shame a boy because of being a little bit aggressive makes them weak and is the best way to make them that they never can get beautiful women and make a family. It just makes toxic shame in them.
So perfectly handled. No shouting on the lil boy , yet your message was very clear to them.
Once they go to school and outside influences start shaping their life, we’ll see if “no yelling” works.
Because the bully at school who was constantly yelled at and that is the only way for them to actually change their behavior won’t care what Little Timmy says in a calm demeanor. So Timmy will have to figure out a way to stop the bully in another way that isn’t “having a civil conversation”. And Timmy will learn yelling.
Greatest parent in the world, but you can’t keep your kid in a protective bubble 24/7.
(Technically you could keep your kid in a protective bubble 24/7. But would you be the greatest parent in the world anymore? Releasing them at 18 or 25 or 30 into the real world after being sheltered and shielded for decades. )
@@AG-yc7vtare you suggesting we teach our kids to be the bully because they may get bullied?
@@AandM8 I’m saying no matter how well you parent. Outside influences will throw a monkey wrench into your plans.
the little one was enjoying it all along😭💗
I cried how the mother is good and teach his kids how to love and respect
This mother is amazing. She knows how to raise children. She communicated with her children. Disciplined, comforted and reassured that she loves them.
knows how to raise them except for the fact their lives are documented for millions to see...
Not my experience of life with kids!!!!
Not my experience of life with kids!
I want you to imagine that other person standing in the room with the camera right on top of those kids and in their faces. And then tell me how the HELL this is “amazing”
Almost like she’s done this before. I wonder if those are her first kids she’s killing it as a mom
Firm, fair and reasonable. This is how discipline should be.
the Americans in will buy GUNS.
but not on camera in social media!!!
@@conny-zk7etthere are parents who need to see this. Why is it wrong to post this?
What a great older brother! He is such a sweet boy!
this world needs more mothers like the one in this video
That's the kind of parenting that eliminates narcissism. Good job.
She is a amazing mom to show her kids responsibility
@@gabbysegura7453 She's a highly irresponsible mother. I am a single male, 39, with no kids. The reason I am boldly prefacing with that is because what I am about to say is blatantly obvious to all human beings 30 years and over: It is highly inappropriate to film, and broadcast your children like this, in general, but especially for cash. Also, they are so used to being constantly filmed they are not even looking at whoever if filming them. This broadcasting would have been unthinkable 15 years ago but the new generation can not longer distinguish trash. To her defenders, that a mother needs to make a living, how do you think mothers made a living prior to tictok 5 years ago??? The answer: a real job, not posting their children on the internet.
No it DOESN’T! That’s a physical condition!
@@debussy842i totally agree but it’s also showing examples for a good cause it’d be nice if her kids didn’t have to be involved though to get the point across
@@debussy842 you are so right. I am male, 37, father of one Kid. Never ever would I film such a highly emotional situation and load it up.
Also this is not how to eliminate narcism. This is narcism at its best. Selling the emotions of your kids on the Internet.
This is what REAL gentle parenting looks like. Setting clear boundaries with your children and still maintaining an atmosphere of unconditional love.
No such thing as 'unconditional love'
@@kainejoyes2981everyone has their own standards, don’t ask others to abide by yours
We use the Bible method!
Yes there is unconditional love. Actually all love is unconditional. When something it is conditional, it is not love
Yea then 5 years later we hear she’s been arrested for abuse of those same children. I don’t trust any RUclips channel that profits from their kids anymore.
"Facilitate reconciliation " is KEY! the lack of this step destroys siblings relationship when they're young
This is gentle parenting done correctly 👏
Man, the self control and sacrifice it takes to be a good parent.. it's so touching. Thank you for your service to this world and your sweet kiddos ❤️
Thank you for your kind words and your support ❤️
I love how you kids are so kind and respectful. I'm so happy for you because you have kind and respectful kids. I'm going too have a kid I am 8 weeks pregnant I hope my kids are just like yours. I found out my baby's ginger its going to be a baby girl. Ween I was a little kid I wanted to have kind and respectful and honest kids so I hope she is just like that. You kid are also honest. And you are sooo pretty are you are a great person and mother. And also ween I was younger I always wanted to have a baby girl but I am haveing a baby girl I would be also fine with a baby boy but I always wanted a baby girl I am coming a mother I don't have any kids yet but I just wanted to till you that and I subscribe your channel. 😊
I'm crying and that is sad bc now he thinks he isn't allowed to play with his brother bc his mum disciplined him
@@kaylamccorkell8453 What? Where did you get that from?
@@kaylamccorkell8453lmao did your brain fart or are you a troll?
Hudson saying “you’re ok” was just so precious. Huddy loves his big bro no matter what? This is amazing parenting and the children are just so sweet. Good job mom and dad!
We need more mothers like you. Perfect example not needing to yell or scream or threatening just calm collective and explained what he did was wrong and why he shouldn’t do that again and punished him without abusing him. Great job. 👏 👏👏
The right kind of parenting ❤ In a perfect world 🌎 all parents would be doing this and raising better human beings. Thank you 😊 you will truly be rewarded because of it your children will love and respect you all the more
I really appreciate that you didn’t tell any of the kids to “Stop crying.”
Oh she did a perfect! Appropriate amount of time in timeout, repetition of the reason why in terms a child can understand. Love it!
thats totally bs. You cant handle a child like a small adult.
Try that with a kid with ADHD or ODD. Good luck!
@@darylmorrison6598exactly what I was gonna say. That word shizz don’t work with ADHD. They need to be affected by the repercussions.
It’s technically a mental illness even though they aren’t acting out 24/7 like some of the more extreme illnesses.
Nah she didn’t kid is gunna be soft as can be when he’s older he started crying more when his mom sent the other kid away your suppose to make your kids tough not little girls crying just cause a feather hit their shoulder
@@sorenludwig3978yes you can, what I wouldn't do is make them say sorry, saying sorry means nothing if you don't mean it. But the rest, especially because if the age, is amazing. When this happens with an older kid you can encourage them to think about other solutions in time out and talk with them about it afterwards, but i think that kid is too young for that.
I do this with my kids and I feel like it gets me no where…but then I hear them playing in a room together and apologizing for things and forgiving one another. It’s working even when we think we’re failing. ❤
Thats called being a mom 👏🙏🏼
This was the perfect combination of sternness and compassion. A lot of parents are way too soft today but she was very clear to him with her tone, choice of words, and eye contact that what he did was unacceptable. She made him understand that there are consequences for bad behavior when she sent him away and allowed him to reflect on his behavior. Then she reassured him that she still loves him and that he can make it up to his brother by apologizing and setting things right.
Either too soft or don't care enough. Alot of the bad kids in our area. Have parents who don't give a shit about the kids. 😢
She did a great job! Explained without shouting or getting upset. Teaching respect and being kind is so much better. Gentleness is not taught, it is a blessing! I wish more mothers could see this and teach their toddlers kindness and to be caring!
And it's so cute how siblings can Forgive each other so quickly!!..Boys need very firm, but kind, boundaries, & she did it SO well for them!!- Kudos!!- :)
Then giving him a choice....loved that.
More Mothers and Fathers...
Salute to this mother for such teachings❤
Now thats called good parenting.
A rare example of a positive short video. Well done to you the creator 👏 ❤
It's the best example of loving-kindness and patience. And making the time teach in such a way that their children are not damaged by it. I saw the video and I started crying. It's so wonderful to see someone actually take the time. To love on their kids
Exactly. I never had to strike my children. Little ones can understand consequences and time outs and then corrective experiences. Really sweet little brothers. Boys can get super aggressive and it’s sweet to see a Mama take time to patiently teach her children how to be better humans.
Positive parenting with clear communication of consequences. Love is demonstrated after discipline is administered. 💙💙💙
What an amazing mom! She's teaching her little boys really well, no yelling or screaming made them understand the meaning of love for one another..great job mom! Happy mother's day to you! ❤❤❤❤
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we need more moms like her teaching her sons how to be kind and gentle to one another. little brother just wanting to comfort his brohters
I'm OLD and LOVE THIS! She does it all perfectly: Accountability, modest transfer of displeasure, specific about misconduct, age appropriate consequence, relationship restoration, status quo. GOOD GOOD!!!
my concern is that she never asked him why he pushed his brother. it’s possible that he was responding to something inappropriately. he could be getting the message that other people can do bad things to him, and he can’t do anything about it. if that’s the case, he also hasn’t learned an appropriate way to respond when his brother treats him badly. he also may have hugged his mom for the purpose of regaining favor, when hugs should be reserved for authentic love. that’s why i never demand a hug, i only ever ask. she also told him to apologize instead of asking if he wants to apologize, which is bypassing his own moral compass and forcing him to abide by hers instead of his own. if he didn’t want to apologize, she could have explained to him why she would apologize if she were in his shoes, or she can explain how he and his brother will feel if he doesn’t apologize so he can have a better understanding of how to apply the skill in the future. there’s nothing inherently wrong about what happened here, especially when you’re busy, but there are many opportunities for teaching and connection that were missed here.
@@trrulieeeee Вы абсолютно правы! У Вас абсолютно ЗДРАВЫЙ взгляд на ситуацию! Спасибо Вам за мудрость и привет Вам из России! 🙌😊
There's no universal textbook. Case by case. Family by family. Individual by individual. What works for her, might not work for others. Also, this is a montage. We don't see what happened between cuts.
@@trrulieeeeeI used this method with my kids and they are all adults now. They are emotionally stable and know how to treat people as well as how they expect to be treated by others. I guarantee that this mom addresses both sides before making a final judgement.
@@dreamchaser7177no you didn’t, if they’re all adults then you’re a liar. Look at how confused this kid is when they have a camera recording the situation. They did this for views and it’s disgusting.
They are amazing..... The way he said sorry,just kill me. 😘😘😘
I like how she said people so he knows this behavior is not good for anybody not just his brother, good job mama!
More Parents need to be like this, INSTEAD of yelling and screaming at their children !!
Yes. We do.
only on camera 😂
@@YesThingsyep
Why does your comment seem like you're yelling at others with the explanation points??
🎀Some people have not been taught another way. Don’t be judgmental.🎀
Ncoooo how he said "it's ok" melted my heart. ❤
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 I am why did you push him off it's okay he's crying because you that's me what did you do that your mom is the best
Handled perfectly, a great mama x
SSO
He did not show the least smidgen of remorse. He would not look her in the eyes. He knows from prior experience that his misbehaviour is easily dealt with by 5 minutes of sitting in his own room, which is no punishment at all.
Now that’s great parenting with Love and teaching!!!
Little boy has a golden heart.. so much of love for his elder brother...
This is powerful parenting right here. Imagine how the world would be if all children had this kind of parents. Wow! ❤
@@millieyinaski8495agreed cause it doesn’t work for everybody
Kids can be very happy to play in front of camera and watch themselves again. Let everyone live their own life. Fpr this stupid privacy reason one day in the UK they will arrest you if you take a picture of a kid that's not yours! Not everyone does things for bad reasons
Ffs, it's common sense. THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE NORMAL, not some outlier
It would be more flowers and same gender lovers
Taken over by the neighboring country.
You are not only growing up a good children, but a good gentlemen. Great Mother,Respects madam😊
No, she is growing CASTRATED GUYS, who in the future will not know how to act like the real men. NO BALLS, CRYING LIKE BABIES when they are adults.
She is deeply indoctrinated by this stupid propaganda which is running around nowadays and which is PLANNED...
Exemplary mother really appreciate her the way she is cherishing her kids is good.respects for her
My brain registers this as wrong because I grew up with chaos, arguments and shouting. You're doing an excellent job of teaching those kids, they are lucky to have you.
Best way to teach your child. Let them tell you what they did wrong. Then you know they have learned. I do the same thing. Love it. Your a great mom and your kids are amazing. ❤
True but kids do lie a lot
@@tur74d56 this is different, the situation happened in front of the parent so they know that their mom knows and they cannot lie. why would they? also this gives them a chance to explain if something else was bothering them like "he pushed me first!' or "I didn't push, he tripped!" clears up the situation. always give kids a chance to talk
@@megv7481the punishment was reflecting and reviewing.... She almost had it.... Everything she did was great except there were no actual consequences. It'll be a rude awakening in society for him when there are still consequences after reflection and apologizing
@@megv7481normally I would never tell someone how to treat their own children but she is posting this like a smug tutorial. She needs humility.
Love the caring way she disciplines!! So important and her kids will be happy people!!
Yes.
Wow what a powerful teaching moment. Bravo!
This is hope for tomorrow.
Thank God for good mothers.
I miss these days. My daughters are in their 20’s. It makes you realize how much influence you have over their lives and shaping their character in these teaching moments. ❤️
Just wait until your daughters start mimicking YOUR parenting!
That's what I'm seeing as my kids are in their 30s & raising their own kids.
Its awesome! I love it!!
However, my own parents couldn't say this because they were physically & verbally abusive, but I was determined to never ever be like them.
I think this was a narcissist thinking that you're having right now
Precious mom, teaching how to play correctly & be
respecting others!
God bless your family & your husband!
That’s exactly what my mom did with us. She never ever let us go to sleep without apologizing to each other.
Thank you mom for showing your kids good behavior God bless you
I love how people these days are seeing parenting as a important thing. Much love to everyone who is working on themselves to make the next generation better.❤
Yeah, but CLEARLY they are NOT PRACTICING IT. We would not be coming apart at the seams as a country.
@@kelliintexas3575bro did you not watch the video
That was so excellent. You covered everything perfectly. You explained things beautifully and gently, you were down at their eye level, you sent him to his room for an age appropriate amount of time as a reasonable punishment, you had positive, loving reinforcement, you had him explain to you the reason for the punishment to ensure his understanding, you had him apologise to and hug his brother, and you gave him the choice to continue playing on his own or come out & play. Everyone was happy, no hard feelings by anyone, including your viewers. I highly commend you and your life-teaching methods. You're outstanding. I can't think of how you could have done better. You're raising some wonderful kids who will go on to bring your teachings to their children, friends and/or coworkers to help bring about a beautiful future. Thank you.
I remember the days when dogs were trained.
I hope next generation will listen to this 🙏 blessings 🙌
Very nice viedo, very good lesson❤
She is one amazing mom. I love her! I love how she’s firm but gentle, gets down on their level and talks and explains. She’s perfect and her boys will be amazing men
You don't know that off a 45 second staged video. She could be a piece of shit. But made this video to look good.
I wish I had their upbringing. What a wonderful mother. Those children will grow up to be productive, kind and happy adults!
Give me a break. All she did is sent a kid to his room while blasting him in front of everyone for show and likes at his expense. Yea grate mother she is. SMH
@@3pleSssthat’s not why she posted it she posted it to show the effects of proper parenting
Molim prevod komentara na srpskom..hvala
@@3pleSss You obviously don't have children or shouldn't have a child be in your care! This was amazing from a mom of 3 to achieve such respectable results means so much in the moment not for the camera ...you jackass!
hope your sterile lol
Thank you for the practical instruction. Very affirmative yet with parental love.
The way he went to his room for a while 🤣
This kind of woman deserves to become a mother of dozens!
Thank you for helping making the new generation better ❤
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making what generation better ??😂 wtf are u talkin abt
If all children could have a mother like this the world would be SUCH a better place.
Yahh❤❤❤😊
Parents*
The youngest one is so cute like when his mother hugs him he also came from behind to hug his brother ❤❤
It's very encouraging to see young parents today disciplining children the right way. Thank you!!
_Beautiful_ example of Peaceful Parenting. Calm and gentle, yet firm and assertive of the consequences of actions with guidance towards preferable behaviors. The world needs more of *THIS* from all parents/guardians in children's lives.
Mother is the best teacher in the world
I almost crying cause i am lucky enough to have back-to-back brother on my side like this
UR A GOOD MOM I CAN SEE IT IN UR EYE'S . BOY'S ARE BLESSED WITH A BEAUTIFUL MOTHER.
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I love the way the baby brother came up and hugged the middle child to comfort him.
We need more parents like Her! These kids are gonna grow up to be such great men and gents! I thank my parents for always being tough and never let me cross the line even if I thought it was stupid. Now that I'm on my 30s I thank them for not letting one bad behavior pass without them correcting or letting me know I was not right!
So cute when he ran to apologise to his little brother, good parenting here
Nice job mom. Brings the siblings together. If only all parents understood the importance of discipline.
Good parenting ❤
One amendment I would make (from experience) is instead of ‘I want you to say sorry’ you could ask ‘What can you do to make Hudson feel better?’ ..
Otherwise ‘sorry’ will just become a word that ‘gets me out of more trouble’ . Encourage him to think of a solution himself - some children ask ‘Are you ok?’ Others go get a toy for the hurt child or ask if they could play a game together..
Otherwise spot on 👍🏼
Yessssss tyyy
@@Tanorolife You're welcome 😉
I was 'Behaviour Management Coordinator' for over 2 decades. Was very challenging at times, but also very enjoyable.. especially when you see chidren learning to deal with their emotions in a positive way.
I like this! Thank you for the tip!
@@camillelamb7377 Happy to help 😃
Some children may struggle with this at first. So you could help by offering sugestions.
Also if a child just wants to say 'sorry'. you can ask .. 'Ok, what are you sorry for?'
- After some discussion the child may say someting like 'I'm sorry for throwing sand in your eye.. are you ok now?’
Best part brother walking " quickly " to his room .time out
you see how easy it is to reprimand children when you have the patience and you want to talk to them what a smart mother .👍👏👏👏👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
She is a good mother. She is teaching her children respect for each other.
🤜🏼🤜🏼 I I love you good boy