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There are two wolves inside you. One is a mobwife and the other is Drake
But they are both the same
They’re the same wolf
get him out please, he's tickling my stomach lining
Explains the fur
I'm imagining that as some glorious oil painting and ugly cackling. xD Thank you.
The mob is so private most of them dont tell their kids. No way in hell any of these women openly claiming to be mob wives have even a slight connection
Exactly. These people are so delusional
At best they had petty criminal parents/partners ??? 😭
I mean, there was a literal show called Mob Wives. It was sooooo good. I think they dont mind talking about their history because their husbands were either in prison or dead so there was nothing they could get in trouble for, anymore.
I mean, there was a literal show called Mob Wives. It was sooooo good. I think they dont mind talking about their history because their husbands were either in prison or dead so there was nothing they could get in trouble for, anymore.
I mean, there was a literal show called Mob Wives. It was sooooo good. I think they dont mind talking about their history because their husbands were either in prison or dead so there was nothing they could get in trouble for, anymore.
Did the FBI actually start this trend? Because it’s a genius way to get women to expose their husbands’ crimes.
410 iq play right there. (Potentially) 🤔
They‘re probably not involved with the mob. If they were, they all wouldn’t have posted anything since the day after "coming out" because of lack of oxygen in their lungs
Likely like when they gave them reality shows
Not really
😂😂😂🎉🎉😂
italian americans pretending they're not white is so bizarre
What’s bizarre is that most of them have African blood due to the moors so most of them are actually pretending to be white that’s what’s really bizarre i’m mixed race Afro Latina, and some of us have the same exact hair texture. I wonder why that is hmmmmmmmm
@@aderam648my brother got made of for being from the Middle East as a kid but he’s literally just half Italian. My grandma grew up in the hoods in Patterson in what was essentially an Italian ghetto and there used to be signs up around my mom’s hometown 100 years ago or less saying no “negroes no Italians” sometimes just the former and they meant Italians in that. These signs were by the Irish. The Irish were heavily discriminated against and in their own bizarre way considered less white at one point in time too. Whiteness is a construct and a strange one at that. Now granted, I 100% consider myself white. I have strawberry blonde hair, pale skin, freckles, and hazel-green eyes. And most importantly all the privilege that comes with that. I have no connection in any way shape or form really to those old moorish roots even if some of my family does. So I’m white. And my grandma and brother consider themselves white too. But then I look at another Italian friend of mine who is just assumed to be half blank because he’s THAT cicilian and wonder how he can be considered technically white lol. All this to say, it’s a pretty ridiculous construct. Ethnicity is an interesting one but race is fuzzy when it comes to white vs non white instead of ethnicities
Damn I need to get back to work I really just wrote a whole damn essay.
@@aderam648 humans originated from africa. We all have african "blood." Racialization is a socioeconimic process. While there was a time Italians werent white, they, like the irish, have been racilized white for a long time.
@@aderam648 My family comes from Italy and my uncle did a dna test. Our ancestors came from North Africa and my dad was SHOCKED like sir do you see how dark you are? Have you seen your hair and features? Idk why he was surprised. My Italian family members don’t pass the brown paper bag test even without a summer tan. Their hair is SO thick, curly, and dark. It’s pure denial.
@@aderam648its bizarre because they don't want to be white but they don't want to be poc either. It's like shadow the hedgehog
why do they sound like "oh youre a mob wife? Name 5 organised crime lords"😭
NAME 5 FAMOUS PIONEERING MOB WIFE!
Only appropriate response to that is “are you a cop? Because you have to tell me if you’re a cop…”
New interrogation strategy just dropped
*from a fictional story. 😂😂😂
I'm so disappointed they haven't. They just reference a show 💀
It's only called "mob wife aesthetic" because "70s/80s Italian American tristate area glam" is too long
“Now you see Perry the platypus, I plan to make ALL the women of the tri-state area to get into the mob wife aesthetic with the GLAMINATOR!!”
Genius
@@boomerangswingsbothwaysnow we gotta create a new aesthetic for Perry to use as the self destruct button
Right?? Mob isn't exclusive to Italian. 😂😂
@@UTTP298 hey, im autistic too, and jsyk, aspergers is an outdated term, and it has really bad origins. You should use autism or autism spectrum instead !
They legit sound like this "pagan girlies.. don't call urselves witches unless you've heard of Hermione Granger 🙄"
*"Wiccan girlies."
"Pagan" is an umbrella term for a lot of religions/belief systems, most of which do not involve witchcraft.
@@LunarElevenwicca is another religion, pagan does work here
Wicca is a religion. One which draws from pagan traditions and beliefs, but is not in itself paganism - paganism isn’t always indicative of witchcraft, but has historically been called witchcraft by religious groups regardless.
I think the only argument to be made in gatekeeping this trend is one tiktok I saw where a woman was discussing the abuse and domestic violence she faced as a mob wife (or it may have just been that mob wives face, don't remember), and she was calling out the fact that violent men should not be romanticised
The pagan girlies would come after me, I love dressing witchy and don't really think I need to earn it 😂. I just really love Stevie Nicks and I'm artsy lol.
It's giving "why the mafia isn't a FUCKING aesthetic: a thread"
i cooka the pizza
mama mia
aye pass the linguini
i cooka da pizza
I just think her reasons are wild. Like, you could say don’t romanticize a group of people who lead organized crime and participate in human trafficking and that’s valid, but you can’t say “you’re appropriating this” because the mob isn’t just Italian, it’s just called something else in other places.
Drake being a mobwife is so random but very funny
that’s not drake, that’s anita max wynn
@@annareesee anita max shmeat
cant see the name drake the same 💔
Drake will never recover 😬
it works so well
It’s giving military wives who act like they are their husbands rank 💀💀
LMAOOO u got it 😭
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
LMFAOO PLEASE 😭
I haven’t experienced anyone like that personally, only on TikTok. Yet, this comparison feels so accurate lol
Omg. My brothers were in army school and they would say the same about their teachers ( most were wives of officers), that they acted as if they were officers themselves. They would say it to people's face don't you know I am wife of a major etc. 😂
Lmfao all these “real” mob wives look like they just picked their faux fur coats from the thrift store yesterday and tried to pretend this is how they’ve dressed and acted for years
exactly and why are they so quick to claim victimhood ITS JUST A JACKET
Even if it was real fur why would you wear it?
I have a fur coat at my house that my grandma used to own and I never wear it because I don't want to get it damaged
Not to mention I have a feeling real fur coats would be hard to clean (another reason I don't wear it)
Lol they were cosplaying before it was popular and now are outraged they can't claim the trend as their invention.
@@darkcrydotmrihavetoomanyst1440Cause a legitimate "Mob wife" would just go get a new one
@@willy5838 I wasn't mentioning about if it's new or not I was saying that fur coats aren't that good
Alleged mob wives acting like they invented fur while slavic poor grandmas are rocking some badass fur coats out there
Paleolithic people are laughing with grandma for sure.
I still have the ushanka made from rabbit my mother brought me from Russia
Imagine being possessive of an identity that is responsible for large scale human trafficking. Because, you know, the mob is hugely responsible for human trafficking.
Imagine bragging about it 🤢🤮
Especially with the murder and drugs
Can't wait for the Yakuza aesthetic. /s
Literally, like imagine saying 'IT'S MY CULTURE' to organizing shoot outs and extorting people.
I agree, but I am 99% sure that these women are obsessed this out of sheer ignorance, because A) the outfits and 2) this is just another version of “ billionaire wives” wish fantasies, except birthed from some godawful romance erotica novel they read somewhere where the mob husband is twice as abusive and possessive, but still handsome, romantic and rich.
If you aren't threatening local businesses with acts of physical violence to extort money from them, you don't DESERVE to wear French tips!!!
"Ya gotta bash some windows to get that manicure, honey."
😂
Hey, it's called protection! Show a little respect.
Average crust punk:
😊
Your moustache looks like 2 schnauzers kissing. Thats not meant to be an insult. Its genuinely impressive
Oh no …. Now can’t unsee it 😂
Omg 😂😂😂 u right!!
That’s so accurate and so cute
I CAN'T UNSEE IT🤣🤣🤣
LMAO you're so right!
“I’m better at living with organised crime than you”
Babes that is not a flex
It’s crazy how they are forgetting the Irish mob, the Jewish mob, Russian mob and the massive Mexican and South American gangs. Italians aren’t the only ones who participate/participated in organized crime 😂
it's bc they only watch movies that romanticize the Italian mob, honestly
to add onto the list we got the yakuza and hong kong triads
Sometimes it's the government.
This!!
Yes, but they're the 'coolest' movie mob so everyone glamorizes it
Poor mob husbands just chilling legally on their legally aquired yacht smoking legal cigars and taking about non criminal hobbies getting notified that their mob wife just doxxed them on tiktok and their mansion is getting swatted
Hahaha 😂
DO IT FOR THE TOK!!!!
Deadassss! I’m dying laughing cause these women are really trying to send their husbands to jail. The funniest was the “probably” so the one woman could claim plausible deniability in court.
😂😂
i think that "making a costume of years of womens' pain" is definitely a powerful quote. We should be using that for actual poc women and not italians though
It's nothing to do with race, tho.
Mob wife aesthetics glamorize a culture built on women's pain, whether that's Italian uomini d'onore (cosa nostra), Japanese Yakuza or Mexican cartels... the concept is universal.
I mean, I guess it would be painful to fall in love with someone and then later find out they're a criminal. Idk if that gives you a monopoly on fur coats though.
women of color are not the only women who have that “years of pain” thing. but yeah the way so many of them turn it around to be like oh its white girls vs Real Italian Women (italian women are white, dunno how they managed to forget this) is the problem though, and the rest of the context of their arguments would be much more applicable to the way white people have co-opted and appropriated “aesthetics” related to decades-centuries of pain poc have faced.
@@frog_goblin i just think it's crazy how they keep telling them to keep to their "clean girl aesthetics", when there's much more of an argument for appropriation when it comes to the clean girl aesthetic, over fur coats and white people doing crime
@@frog_goblin i feel like these italian women forget the fact that they're also white bc their skin is like 1% more tan and they wanna feel special and don't wanna be roped into the "basic white girl" jokes while contributing to those very jokes
This whole thing feels just like this one thread on twitter about how mafia is not an aesthetic and one guy is like "i cooka da pizza" "mamma mia 😭"
In her defense, if her husband is in jail it's not that she's a bad mob wife. It's that he's a bad mobster.
Lmaoooo
Now that's comedy!
But I must add...Maybe he's an "upstanding" mobster because he took a fall for somebody who would have fallen further if they ended up in the system?
For example, a "clean" brother might go inside for his junky brother's crime, because the clean bro knows junky bro will relapse into heroin addiction in prison. Or "clean" might mean that the "dirty" brother avoids life sentencing, including being sent to a prison with rivals present, and/or no power.
Yes, I need a life. But I like turtles...
@@subwayfacemelt4325 I like trains...
*distant train noises*
@@subwayfacemelt4325 now that a... "Good" mobster
I'm a mob wife and my stupid idiot husband got himself arrested, here's a list of all his crimes, his face, and his full name.
Shame him for being bad.
wait someones at my door hold on-
theyre acting like hipsters "I did this before it was an aesthetic" "you can't wear that fur coat unless you can list five guys named Tony"
Help how come every Tony I know came to mind when I read that 😂
Gabagool
@@Sing_A_Rebel_Songyou must be a mob wife then
My partners name is Tony. Gimme that coat 😂
tony, tony, tony, tony, and toni
One thing I’ve noticed is that nobody complains when men on TikTok were making mafia boss povs or “mob fits” such as dressing in suits but when it became a trend for women to be “mob wives” suddenly loads of people had a problem with it. I admit that it’s a ridiculous trend but the way people choose to direct their hate on TikTok baffles me every time
I've seen people complaining about that too. To be fair it was a more understandable critique than "you've never had to be a willing accomplice to your husband's heinous crimes, you don't get to wear the fur coat 🤪", but I've seen it
The double standards are wild
Idk i feel like it's mostly women mocking these women though. I've seen quite a bit of critique on the mafia boss looks too, though on RUclips. I'm not on Tiktok but what i can gather from this small observation is that women on Tiktok tend to aggress their own gender for clothing more often than men do it to their gender. Personally as a woman i don't care a lot, i find it dubious for both parts to want to look like literal murderers and human traffickers.
The only people complaining about mob wife fashion is women who claim to be mob wives 😂
Also, tons of people criticized the mob boss tiktoks. They were made fun of by plenty of people. This isn't some double standard thing.
there are plenty of people who criticized that trend.
That first woman let the pot dealer she dated get to her head lmaooo
the oppression of poc (people of carbonara) never ends, glad these women are speaking about their very real and totally not made up experiences being mob wives 💔
People of carbonara I’m wheezing
Thank you 👏👏👏
AS A WHITE PERSON I IDENTIFY WITH PEOPLE OF CARBONARA-
I DID NOT SEE THAT COMING
Oh my god bro💀💀
This is annoying when every race / ethnicity does it
WHERE is my disembodied GOOOOLD voice i do NOT feel premium
I knew something seemed off. 😂
Askin the real questions
Today, we're just subpar
First thing I noticed, and it felt so wrong....
I was waiting for the special “gooooOoOld” and then I was lost and waiting when it didn’t show up
Can’t wait for dictator wife aesthetic
Lmao this is underrated im crying 😭
This video has changed my life. Now my aunt and I shout back and forth at each other "you ain't no mobwife" in bad New York Italian accents. It's wonderful.
I was fully expecting the backlash to be the much more understandable “Italians are upset their culture is being equated with literal crime” but no instead we’re somehow getting irish-americans who dated a criminal once
Yeah I thought 18:20 was going there with "why can't we just say we like Italian fashion?"
There are Irish mobsters. Not sure how broad their reach was or is. But I do know that a lot of Irish Americans used them to funnel funds or guns to Northern Ireland to help hoist out the British.
@@lone6718 the Irish-American mob stayed in the Massachusetts/ New England area while the Italian mob was predominantly in New York. There weren't a lot of "big take downs" for Irish mobsters like there were for Italians so it isn't as talked about. On top of that, Irish mobs were more weapon based vs Italian mobs were more business based.
yeah, my family is very *very* Italian but none of my family is from jersey, so the style and everything is all foreign to me. The tiktok mobwife stuff is just sopranos meets real housewives of jersey, is not really 'real'. Saying girls on tiktok wearing fur coats is somehow "appropriating" Italian American culture is almost more annoying.
Will admit the irish-italian thing is real oddly enough. I also have irish in my family, it's common. Idk, i guess the immigrants that were ousted at similar periods cross pollinated lol
@@Nyx_ofthenightyeah, now imagine being from actual Italy and watching all this american shenanigans. Pretty weird ahaha
this feels like the more grown up version of that "fairies vs fairy hunters" roleplay thing that was on tiktok a while back
What?? Huh??! Please elaborate on this topic I completely missed this drama
@@suspicious_snake756so what was going on was that there were these children pretending to be fairies doing things like pretending to fly and there were like crystals and rituals and stuff. It was just all fun. Then there was another group of kids who were the fairy hunters making videos about setting traps and killing fairies and stuff. It was kinda bizarre but honestly, to me it felt like playground roleplay online
@@voguishthrone5887 yep, the most bizarre element about it though was how seriously people took it. The style of videos wasn't like "look at this cool game we're playing / story we're creating", it was often these personal videos like "what it's like being a fairy and getting hunted", "safety measures you can use to not get trapped" or debates on the humanity and rights of fairies. If an alien saw those tags they'd probably assume fairy hunting was a serious societal problem on Earth. That's kind of what I was alluding to here, mob wife tiktoks feel like an elaborate roleplay that we're not in on
@@Egg_thingsurprisingly the most genuinely child-like thing I’ve heard tbh like I’d hope to catch my kid doing that instead of what I usually hear from tiktok
@Egg_thing i think it's exactly this, i think this is just competitive roleplay ??? 😂
i like how, when the "actual" mob wives are trying to prove their husbands are in the mob, the only proof they give is pictures of what their husbands are wearing. "being in the mob is more than an aesthetic!!!" *shows picture of husband in leather jacket and captions it "this is what mob husbands wear"*
not to mention the polaroids that were meant to prove _she_ had actual mob ties are just normal-ass pictures lol
This all just feels so icky. So many people have lost lives, gone missing, trafficked cuz of the mob and people just like ✨💅🏽New Mob Fashion Just Dropped💅🏽✨
It should be called the Soprano's wife aesthetic because this is based purely on fictional mob wives. Honestly even the Soprano's aesthetic was really just upper middle class Italian American woman from New Jersey.
Jersey shore wives 😂? I am joking but am from Philly so I understand what you meant
The show was based on real people's lives.
I giggled because they keep using Theresa from the Jersey Housewives. One of the OG wives left the show because everyone was trying to link them to the mob lol
@@jenniferwaidelich642 No it really wasn't. 2 real New Jersey crime families were the loose inspiration for the Soprano family but the show itself was not at all based on real people's lives. I know HBO has made multiple crime shows somewhat based on real people's lives, The Wire, and Boardwalk Empire come to mind, but the Sopranos was not one of those shows.
In reality, they dress very bland with furs. That's it. Everything else is appropriated from black culture
“Preferably an Italian designer” pulls out a French designed Louis Vuitton
yeah that was such a confusion moment like girl...google is free?
Exactly what I thought, girl probably said "european sounding name... Hmmm yes Italian designer"
that was a supposed parody, it was SUPPOSED to make dumb girlies mad, and here we are uwu
she almost definitely already had the bag and didnt wanna spend another $800 on an italian one
Thank you for pointing that out. I know nothing about design and fashion, I would've never found out otherwise. That's even better.
Weird that there’s a “terrible person, heinous criminal aesthetic” and then people being like “my crime isn’t your aesthetic, you have to actually have been a horrible human being”😂like don’t worry, y’all can have that
You worded it perfectly!
"I was the early 20s mob wife" damn, she's looking amazing for 100+ years old
that girl saying "we're talking messy hair" and showing clearly styled heat-curled hair just sent me back to the 00s..... please we cant b doing this again 😭
Oh no it’s messy buns all over again
@@lordknightalex it feels like she's implying curls are messy? which is uhh not good
@@UTTP298oh yeah? let's see your mob wife look, spambaby.
all of tiktok is just recycling 90s and early 2000s sexism
Sadly the 2000's "fashion" is trendy again
"Worried about the feds breaking down your door and your husband cheating on you, but you have to stay silent because it's a good life " Ma'am please reevaluate
Contradicted the second half of the sentence with the first one. Mob wives are not making it past an 8th grade education.
Yeah, I’m very confused on why this lifestyle is so romanticized
@@UTTP298nobody asked nobody cares you must have zero talent. If you have to comment bot to get people to watch your content, you could just try being actually talented and funny like Jarvis and you could have people who want to watch you because they want to watch you and not because you’re spamming comments
It shouldn't be romanticized but I feel like we are forgetting that if someone is already in that deep it might not be quite so easy to leave and live.
@@virvewirllos yes, that is exactly why it shouldn’t be romanticized
"i don't know anything about the mob, i am just a guy on the internet" and you're already a better mob wife.
“I know another guy named Tony but that guy is TOO turnt.” Lmfaooo
I’m just screaming over these women going on tiktok and publicly announcing to the world “my husband does crimes, like big huge crimes, and I’m so good at helping him and keeping my mouth shut about it. Do y’all hear how great I am at not snitching about these crimes?”
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 yes
lost it at the one who straight up posted his face 😭
Watch those women suddenly go missing 💀
The FBI agents watching these TikToks must be so happy 😂
It turns out if TikTok existed back then the mob would have been taken care of way sooner. All you need is clout
"My crime is *organized* thank you very much." Killed me 😭
Goals frfr
11:10 is so funny, just the phrase "crime aesthetics", but then getting hit with "My crime was ORGANIZED, your crime is an independent start-up." The "real" mob wives remind me of how much the mafia HATED Al Capone for flaunting his wealth and how he was a mobster, putting the mafia in the public light for the law to see and exposing things about their practices. Surely especially the wife with the photo of her husband's face showing, isn't actually in the mafia or they'd be a little smarter on social media exposing themselves...right?
13:47 her misuse of "psy-ops" is SENDING me i-
“…she’s italian AND irish. Which is great bc we love biracial representation” 💀💀💀 im dead omg your commentary is always so spot on and funny
I mean, historically, if anyone white has actually experienced racism from other white people, it would most definitely be Italians and the Irish.
@@olitapp5361 she was probably born in like 80s jersey lets be so fr pls
@olitapp5361
+ Slavs and Jewish people (European Jews definitely look "white" but they're not "white" for strange reasons)
Race is just a made up concept. It's just an excuse to treat others badly. As such if there's a dominant white ethnic group which want to subjugate another white ethnic group suddenly the other group looses its white status
Which is one of MANY reasons why I don't support white supremacy. Today I might be "white" but who knows who I will be tommorow
@@olitapp5361 While yes, but it would more often apply to darker Italians? As well as other darker European-Mediterranean people. Even they themselves sometimes make a distinction between lighter and darker Italians, Spaniards, Portugese, Greeks etc. Ofc I'm not denying anyone's personal experience with racism or discrimination, no matter their appearance.
@@olitapp5361 not within her lifetime, i seriously doubt she has experienced anything similar
As an Italian with extremely sketchy family from the south of Italy and parts of Sicily (mob central), this aesthetic is extremely disturbing. People forget that Mobs and gangs are responsible for a large percentage of human trafficking and horrendous crimes. Also, Italians are not the only ones with mobs. There are Irish, Mexican, Jewish, Russian and so many others that it’s hard to name them all. It is perfectly fine if people want to wear faux fur and animal print and expensive designer names, but it is never acceptable for people to glorify and romanticize a hostile and abusive group of people.
I never thought bout this from that perspective. I knew there was something off about calling it "mob wife" aesthetic, but I couldn't pinpoint it. But you're right. Like, maybe try to come up with something else to call yourself so that you are not in any way aligning yourself with a group of people who do those kinds of things? I get that it's basically Sopranos cosplay but I also feel like, due to the lack of context people receive by discovering something on TikTok, there's this phenomenon of glorifying really messed up things on accident. Thank you for your comment, you have given me a lot to think about.
Bump+
This makes a lot more sense than the cultural appropriation angle
Yeah! They should’ve just called it the ‘wealthy Italian’ or something so then at least it doesn’t sound so bad
People do halloween mafia outfits all the time tho. Like i get what you're saying but nobody is going to think mobsters are good people because a tiktoker put on leopard print
i’d love this girl to say a single thing in italian😭
This shouldn’t have been so much of a “you’re cosplaying my ethnicity” callout but more of a “you’re romanticizing something terrible” talk
I think mob wife entitlement is the parallel to military spouse entitlement.
I mean they are both soldiers to a ruthless authority who life and money are indebted to them.
as a military spouse i couldn’t agree more
It's the "my husband kills people" trope
My wife and I definitely experienced the terrors of officers’ and SNCOs’ wives while I was in. Knew an MP who told me how many times a Major or LTC’s wife would get genuinely angry if he didn’t salute her vehicle at the gate because he “obviously should’ve recognized the car.”
It still feels like a fever dream so I don’t even know if I’m remembering this correctly, but some military spouse must’ve recognized me from the unit, and had the balls to come straight up to me, and tell me that my hair wasn’t in regulation, and that I needed to shave my face. Hadn’t a clue who she was, but… okay, lady. Don’t even think I was in uniform.
if you were a mob boss you’d definitely make sure your wife isn’t posting anything about you 💀💀💀
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"how to get disposed of by your mom boss husband" speed run tutorials
@@zoeb3573 Mom boss husband is a double whammy of messed up.
@@pinkfurret6245 OH GOD 🤣🤣
There was a whole show called "mobwives" granted I think all the husbands were/are in prison.
This is the reason why my friend (southern Italian, grandparents grew up in super poor village in Calabria and are illiterate but their kids managed to become lawyers and are treated with so much suspicion because xenophobia) gets suspicious stares from other kids whenever organised crime is brought up
wait until these mob wives find out about all the POV tiktokers whove made "mafia boss boyfriend" their bread and butter for years...their poor husband's identity is being worn as a costume literally 😱
this mob wife aesthetic is literally how my italian aunt dressed in the early and late 2000s and she wasn’t in the mob she owned a salon and spa.
because salons and spas are famously never used as fronts...
The spa was definitely used for laundering money. Even mobsters need a treat day!
Yeah a MOB spa
It's just the The Nana
Or was she? 🧐
The whole "You can't be a mob wife if you don't know The Sopranos. 😡" is like saying "You can't be a drug addict if you haven't watched Breaking Bad." Like- What's up with the gatekeeping? Especially with such a popular show smh
Same with “you can’t be a mob wife if you don’t know big Ang”. Like…..she was a celebrity on a tv show 😭😭😭
I’ve only seen one episode of braking bad and I’m definitely still a drug addict lol
idk man white girls be feeling left out sometimes I guess
As someone who has never seen breaking bad, I am relieved
I must be a pro druggie cuz I love breaking bad 🤩
I threw my head back to holler "gooooold" but there was no echo. It's a dark day to be premium.
My goodness, this is the longest Sopranos ad I've ever watched
We're all mob wives because we've all heard of Tony Hawk, and I'm sure he knows at least one guy.
I've heard he even knows two
Oh he's definitely a gangster. I heard he made an American wasteland.
dude this is legit.
ever heard of tonys hawk underground ?
wel., a guy named Bam was ON the cover, i SWEAR and tony, rhis guy?
HE MADE HIM
DISSUPHEA
I sweahs to gawd the man was on the postah one day, and gawn tha next
I don't know what's sadder the people who want to have the "mobwife asthetic" or the people pretending to be a mobwife.
Both are equally depressing
this kind of drama is so chronically online that it makes the chronically online feel like they regularly go outside
I mean I've been wearing leopard print, furs and a lot of makeup for awhile now. it's just a look unless you're a try-hard. I'm gunna keep doin my thing and just not call it mob wife aesthetic lol
The former just want to dress like stereotypical mob wives, the latter think they ARE mob wives.
@@amberevoland I will admire your ability to wear a cool af fashion. I cannot make that look work, but damn I wish I could.
I do love changing the phrase to "the pot calling the kettle white"
So she got offended by someone wearing fur and in response started testifying
The “real” mobwives acting like they ever had to administer first aid outside of an occasional workbench boo-boo is hilarious
I'm 99% certain that most of these tik toks are women cosplaying as "real" mob wives.
I really can't imagine your organized crime husband would be down with you posting shit like this.
Acting like dating a criminal is somehow their minority culture that is getting appropriated is so fucking funny too
@UTTP298this is the worst way to achieve your goal.. you dont step on jarvis while trying to build yourself up.. or fucking spamming like.. two of the worst things possible.. i hope your page fails
@@punchbeard I can see some how traumatic the mob lifestyle can be for people considering the power structure and essentially losing your entire life for someone... Especially for people who grew up into organized crime. BUT it's very different than dating someone who did petty crimes ya know. Like I can see how survivors of those types of relationships can feel some type of way if there was abuse involved (emotional, financial, etc). But it loses the plot when it comes from people who forge their stories to fit into the title of a "real mob wife".
@@sumlem I think a lot of those relationships have abuse in them. Drita D'Avanzo showed how hard it was to struggle with her husband in and out of prison after being in organized crime. The thing with this being called an "aesthetic" is possibly hurtful to them. They lived thru hell and had to keep pushing forward from all the damage they dealt with and all the hurt they and their children endured.
i love how tiktok continuously gets people to self-report. just endlessly
I remember when "shoplifting hauls" were a thing
@@cutecece9952 I forgot about that. Wow
@@cutecece9952thats been a thing since early tumblr days and is iconic idc
The Chinese conspiracy
Mob wife aesthetic? More like Cheetah Girls aesthetic.
“I wear fur coats, designer clothes and jewellery my husband bought me from his mob activities. I’m clearly the victim here. This lavish lifestyle that I chose but didn’t contribute to is decades of my pain. Also let me tell on my husband real quick.”
😢😢😢 I'm so rich
I feel so oppressed because the cops keep trying to arrest me and my husband (we are responsible for many deaths)
“If you’ve never had the feds looking for your dad then you don’t deserve to wear this coat!” LIKE WHAAATTT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT????????
There are mobs of many ethnicities. There are Italian mobs, Russian mobs, Arab mobs, Moroccan mobs, Irish mobs, Japanese mobs… what even is her argument.
And when every one is mob, then no one is
@@martian8987maybe the real mob was the friends we made along the way…
Right! "mob wife" is not a culture!
@@dansyourjor5813 LMAOOO
@@dansyourjor5813 Dammit xD
I think some of these women aren't upset over cultural appropriation, but are saying that "mob culture" isn't something that should be an aspirational aesthetic, as it's actually pretty fucking horrific
But they're focusing on the struggle mob wives, and not the struggle of innocent people that the mob hurts
16:59 bro just ratted out her husband💀😭
And I can wear whatever coat I want😭😭
These women out here incriminating their husbands cause some girl wants to wear a fur coat💀 like calm down
when she said "you haven't earned the fur coat" lol... If I bought it from the store I think I've earned the right to wear it
She's saying that it's people glorifying her trauma, but she do seem to be bragging about it.
Sounds like women under 30
I also find it a bit ironic bc it’s like bestie if you really are connected maybe take a couple of seconds to think about how you’re glorifying the trauma of victims of the mob
@@rabbit6546and simultaneously ratting/alerting the authorities about her criminal ties with criminals. Brilliant work.
Stop glorifying my trauma!
My husband killed 35 people using only a Kodiak Camera and some glue! He then caught a shark, cut the shark open, put the bodies inside, and then sewed the shark back up and set it free.
He then stole all of their money and made us rich.
Stop it! Stop glorifying this trauma! I'm crying into a 100 dollar bill (which I own a lot of)
the way she even showed pictures and is exposing her face and name like its nothing 😭 people suck at lying
i thought that the woman at 18:21 had a point... until she continued talking. because organized crime rings aren't just a bunch of guys shooting guns and smoking cigars-they kidnap, traffic, assault, and murder people. i agree with her point that the aesthetic could have another name, but i thought she was going to talk about how the victims of actual gang violence might feel watching tiktokers name a trend after their oppressors. this argument is so bizarre.
Definitely a case study in People Who Think Movies Are Real Syndrome. Who's in it for the movie glam aesthetic? Who's complaining because they believe all depiction in media are meant to be 1:1 exactly real and effectual to the general public? Who's faking it for clout? Who's so tone deaf to not realize that the phrasing "my culture is not your costume" is kinda...rude to people who use this phrase when they're called slurs on halloween costumes every year.
Do y'all think "actual" Italians are seeing these and being like...."Why are they claiming organized crime is cultural? You're embarrassing us."
Yes, most of my family still lives in Italy and my cousins and I have had this convo 😂
I'm italian-american and from the north east, and as someone who's EXACTLY where and what the stereotype is (with the exception that I'm not named Anthony), it's fucking insane. That's not Italian-American culture or Italian culture, that's just mobs and hollywood
“If you’re not Italian…” from someone whose one line of Italian ancestors emigrated to New York in like 1905.
As an actual Italian, it just feels so weird… I have no idea who they’re referencing with all of *this*
To be honest, as an Italian, the thing that confuses me the most is why they keep bringing up skin colour in this discussion.
'friendly fire in the white community right now' took me out 💀
Yes, it's CRAZY!! The way she says "if you ain't italian ur fake" and then says she's irish is wild
Same 💀
@@seanraymond4358i mean technically shes still right with the irish mob 💀 but i see what you mean
I hooted out loud
17:36 this has to be a gov psy of in order to make people snitch on themselves so
The girl was literally describing Fat Tony from The Simpsons lol, also with the outstanding table in the restaurant, that's Luigi's!
I always say the "gooooooold" part with the little Jarvis voice in the beginning of every premium video. Can't even describe my surprise and betrayal when today I was the only one to say it.
That's not Jarvis' voice. That's Mike Meyers as Goldmember from _Austin Powers 3: Goldmember_ (2003) talking about how much he loves gold.
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white women on tiktok calling other girls white in various metaphors is like that scene in family guy where peter says, "whole lotta honkeys around here" and all the white people in the crowd glare at him
Im CRYING omg 😭😂😂😂
Lol they also glorify sex traffickers/ tax evaders/ GANGBANGERS!!!!!
Next is the Yakuza wife asthetic 💀
Being better then doctors at cpr and first aid… they usually aren’t the ones doing either of those things 😭
I'm better then a doctor at a thing they aren't trained for
jarvis clocking the mob wife square french tip nails without guidance is crazy
Totally gives him the pass to say “girlies”
your channel doesn't have any content@@UTTP298
@@UTTP298 no one cares
@@UTTP298"This channel does not have any content"
@@UTTP298passionate about fighting cyber bullying, promotes channel by bullying other channels.
As an Italian, born and raised in Italy, both sides of the argument make me so sad, knowing what it is the real power that mafia holds in my country and seeing this girls romanticizing being part of the mob or the other girls getting dressed up like them makes my skin crawl
Hit the nail right on the head. The real problem with this trend is the glorification involved.
Exactly!!! I don't know why would anyone want to be associated with pain, constant danger and crime. Can't we just name this aesthetic "dark glamour" or something
Yeah on one side you have girlies turning something that very much still harms people to this day into an aestetich. And on the other americans who are 1/16th Italian claiming to not be white and thinking they saw the "real" gangster life.
Meanwhile us Italians are sitting here with actual politicians involved with the mafia.🫠 I dont know man this whole thing gives me such a weird vibe
Being Italian and watching whatever Italian-Americans are up to always feels disheartening for some reason.
It's so strange. I've never seen people romanticizing things like Russian mafia because I guess it's not sexy enough. And yet both of those groups are evil
I don't care if I'm abducted into sex slavery by an Italian or Russian
10:24 the idea that Italians aren‘t white is a racist idea from the early 1900s, I don‘t understand why she would want to uphold a racist idea.
This is a difficult statement to respond to. If you are 1st generation, and family is from southern Italy, you may be biracial. Im Sicilian. 1/3 arab, 1/3 north African and yet I’m 100 percent Italian by nationality . My children are both Italian and American citizens too . Their dad is dutch and polish descent and hes generation 2. They are white, but mu oldest is brown and my baby has an afro
@@VanDGrrl I was mostly referring to the fully European Italians who were not considered white in America due to their slightly darker skin tone but of course, you are right. I appreciate your insight! Thank you!
Imma be honest ive known a guy who was a drug dealer and basically did everything she talked about, not really so much a mob wife thing and more just being the spouse of a criminal
When she showed A PICTURE of her husband I lost it… ma’am if you really are a mob wife you are doing a bad job
😂😂😂😂😂😂
“Being a mob wife is staying silent-“ then stfu girl 😭
"I don't know anything, I'm just a guy on the internet" is exactly what a Mafia Don would say...
Don't worry just forget about it
𝗳𝘂𝗴𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗶𝘁
Get 'im, boys!
I love how she talks about "women's suffering" and what not while also bragging about her old life "my husband was represented by the lawer who represented jimmy hoffa" like okay? Name drop
'I'm Italian' 'I'm Irish' 'I'm russian' No girls you're all americans. You have been for a couple generations now.
I'm white 🥺🥺🥺
What's that got to do with my comment?
@@agent_star I'm just making fun of the "I'm Irish too" girl
It’s so funny bcs like, it’s cool to feel/want to feel connected to heritage, extended family tree, cultural background etc. But it feels a little like they drop those details specifically bcs when they talk about their flavor of (the worldwide phenomenon of) organized crime they want you to be picturing a specific TV show cast lol
@asteridshydrangea-jt2hf claiming a culture just for the aesthetic is gross to me. Especially glorifying and cherry picking only the bits that appeal
It’s funny bc I think the “mob wife aesthetic” is closer to “high end escort aesthetic”. And I live for it! Italian Americans need to relax w thinking they invented fur coats 😭
“Italian Americans need to relax” ftfy.
Also, Irish Americans need to relax too.
Sincerely, an Irish and Italian American
What does high end escort aesthetic look like to you?
Also, when she said "you look like trashy white women with drug dealers as partners" I was like, "that's what I think you look like. "
“Preferrably an Italian designer” … pulls out French designer bag
literally 😂
i was SCROLLING to find this comment... you can't make that shit up
I think that girl was being a lil silly and goofy. I think that’s part of the joke
someone needs to tell italian people they're white because they keep forgetting.
Don't worry we don't, its Americans who seem to have memory issues.
Good job lady, now EVERYONE knows about the decoy safe! 😄😁
"if you don't know a guy who knows a guy at your favorite restaurant" im LOSING it
I know a guy who knows a guy at my favorite restaurant, its me. I know the guy at the restaurant. Its a good restaurant, we went to high school together. Im a mobster now.
My favorite restaurant is run by nuns who are forbidden to know guys… no fur coats for me :(
@@mossyrocks1096What kind of food do they cook? Asking for a guy
ah, the final evolution of those “sold to the mob boss to pay off my father’s debt” books
omg i can’t wait for ‘sold to one direction for my mom to get a pack of cigs’ summer !!’
@@lizzyizzywizzy I think they moved to getting sold to bts to pay off my family's debts last time I checked lol
I love when both sides of a tiktok feud are so perfectly matched in utter stupidity. Like wow I can't agree with either of you!
All of this feels like role play.
Literally it’s so crazy, my brain won’t process that these are real people being serious. It just feels like acting, sarcasm, roleplay ect and I’d rather pretend it is 😭🙏
It feels like a random kid in elementary school getting mad that someone else started reading the Warrior Cats series because “that was MY THING” and then saying they’re not a real fan.
These guys should just put a disclaimer that says "We are roleplaying" or something.
its so bad like it sounds like they watched the sopranos and decided to try posting their audition tapes to tiktok
@@NearsightedNarhwal omg I remember this askfhjd
people happily admitting to being mob aligned (supposedly) is so funny
update: WAS that ethnicity??? girlie what's your secret huh
Gotta love that she says you cant do the mob wife aesthetic, when there is also Irish and Russian mobs. Just let the girlies dress like a soprano wife
i've experienced more than half of the things that make you a "mob wife" just because i grew up with felon, addict, poor parents. it's wild how they think they're so individual because people around them have ... committed crimes 😭
Jarvis is watching racism in the flavors that existed before the atlantic slave trade
Came to the comments to point this out. Thank you
like why all of a sudden are we fighting like we’re in new york neighborhoods in the 1880s ??? 😭
No but it’s so wild that they’re calling each other white as an insult like they’ve never seen their own reflection 😭😭😭 like at least say “you British folks need to stop” not “you white girlies” bc uhhhh who’s gonna tell them?
I mean well after it as well.
Waiting for the Italian gangs to wage war against the Irish gangs with all kinds of old-timey slurs like ‘Potato Patty’ being thrown around.