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This guy isn't a hero. He's a crook. The guy goes into other country, especially in Asia just to make asian women look like "Free for all" as he calls it. I am surprised this guy isn't serving life in prison yet. At this point, no one respects white people.
@@JulienHimself I'm Really going through the alomost similar situation, Thanks for making my mind calmer by helping me forgive myself for the mistake I have never done.
Holy shit...this is the only channel that's unpacked some major trauma. I'm starting therapy tomorrow, so I was looking for some things to start preparing for doing some serious healing. As I watched this, I decided to look at my reflection in the mirror and envisioned it was "little" me. I absolutely broke. Like, broke. But, I told little me that I was so sorry she didn't get the protection she deserved, nor did she get the security and love she needed. I told her it wasn't her fault. I'm going through a MAJOR life transition that has forced me to heal deep wounds. I mean, truly forced. Suppressing and ignoring is no longer an option or I might actually not survive much longer. These wounds and severe trauma CAN kill you. Please heal.
Same approach I took 1 year ago. I met Julian 2 months ago. Huge transformation. Don't scape diving deep into your shadow. It is scary, but the only way out of pain, is through!!! Hope you are experiencing some changes, wish you could bring me up-to-date a bit !
Thank you, Julien. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend two months ago. It was me who initiated the breakup because this relationship made me doubt myself and I wasn't happy. I'm still going through an emotional low point until now. However, after the breakup, I read many books and watched videos, and I finally realized that my ex-girlfriend was gaslighting me, constantly diminishing my self-worth in this relationship. Making the decision to leave her was probably the right choice. I deserve to be treated better.
Same here. And I still cant convince myself that I did right. But it got way too toxic. But my partner is forcing me for 2 years now and I cant convince like I never ever wanted to go back there.
@@Shiva-zd8uw Thank you for your response! I believe this will take time, so let's take it slowly. It's really tough to stick around in such a toxic situation. Your wellbeing should always come first. Just make sure you’re taking care of yourself, alright? From my own experience, I can confidently say that breaking up with my ex-girlfriend was the wisest decision.
@@rin99999 Thanks a lot for your response . Do u think leaving a relationship due to toxicity is bad when your partner still loves you and doesnt want to leave? Like they cant move on. But you are feeling so much better out of that relationship. Earlier it was suffocating. But then there is this guilt trip that maybe I should one more chance maybe they change or like I could have handled it more wisely? But then again the thought comes like what if they dont change and you again trapped there bcoz we do discussed it earlier still it doesnt work out.
@@Shiva-zd8uw Leaving a toxic relationship isn't a bad thing. If the relationship makes you feel suffocated and you feel better after leaving, that alone says a lot. Perhaps you already know the answer in your heart. Although we sometimes feel guilty and think we should give the other person another chance, if the issues have been discussed and there’s still no improvement, the likelihood of the situation repeating itself is very high.
@@rin99999but u know like its been 2 years and my parnter hasnt moved on and repeatedly asking me to come back and abusing me and like threatened me multiple times with suicide threats. I shut off myself and completely blocked and shut out from everywhere. Even my friends are like pestering me because I never showed how much I hurt but like my partner just broadcasted it everywhere so. I sometimes become overburdened by all these things and feel like guilty of leaving or breaking up
What a lovely person she is. The way when she was coping with her parents fighting her concern was her brother. hope its better now. Everyone deserves it but i really really want it for her
Crazy how this video shows up in my subscriptions feed after bracing myself this past weekend as my ex got married to another woman less than 2 years after he dumped me. I needed this video today. Thank you.
Sam you were great. I hope you realize how awesome it is that you can reflect on your most unpleasent feelings and talk about it. That is crucial in the healing process and you are not running from this hard task. I am a big fan of yours and I hope you will find the love for yourself within yourself that you deserve!
I just had my first relationship with someone and im 30 years old. I pushed her away and did alot of things that she couldn't get past. I learned my mistakes but this pain is never ending. We were together for 15 months. Its been 2 weeks. I just wanna heal and forgive myself and move on. 💔😪
Good one! "What is most personal is most universal"....and healing/helping the child of you, the root cause & tapping into that. I continously still do the work on myself from TM. Thanks for the video Julien much continued success bro! & We All Got This!!💪
Hej Please Talk more about that " we are all equal but different " Well I believe thats a big society lie People are not equal even If we WANT it to be that way Its a good idea Its ideal Maybe BUT We lie When we say that I mean Does one stranger on the other side of the world whom you never ever met before as much worth for you as your Child? You would 100% love your own Child and family more Soooooo then we are not all equal are we?😮
Ive been hesitant to watch this video as I wasn’t in a break up scenario but last night my girlfriend dropped a bomb on me and I’m seriously considering having to end things. 😢 Thank You Julien, videos like this really help me see clearly, I know that if this is a route I go through, I’m going to be okay and I saw myself a lot in the young lady on stage. 💔 I genuinely pray for healing and love for everyone watching this video. May you find your forever person that will grow with you. ❤
Thus was very helpful. When she couldn't help her inner child, that really resonated with me. I feel the same. Also, I'm in a loop with texting. It's so hard to stop.
I wish I found Julien before in life, way before I ended up giving permanent choices with someone temporary and now I have a baby on the way and my ex doesn’t want me involved. Crazy how life works that way.
She wanted to give him a hug like 15 minutes before he was done. He already pushed her in a direction and then gave more wind to help her fly. Now only she is the one who can flap her wings… Great work to both of them!
I am currently working through a breakup right now... A lot of core experiences she is experiencing right now, I am going through right now as well. It's hard. But, I am trying to be better. I'm trying to talk to the 'me' that has been neglected for so long. Even thought you said that 'everyone feels like they're not gonna get another person ever, but gets one in the near future' I... Still somehow feel it. Maybe because it is still fresh... But, I will continue to work on myself to be better so that if they do come, I will be able to give them the best version of me I can 😊
God, I so totally identify with this girl. I totally gave my power away to ex. I was unhappy. I wasnt getting what I wanted in rship, but I looked up to him like a God. It took a lot of strength to walk away.. I am still struggling with, what if he calls, could I say no to him. The quest is to feel my own power, and be whole without someone else. When she looked down at Julien and had no emotion for her inner child,, its blank, that is me. No connection. I wish her much love and self acceptance, and a way forward to regain self love and her inner strength
Thanks man i dont even know who or where you are, But really helping many including myself to unpack the emotional damage, Traumatic events thanks thanks thank you so much
Helped me now since going trough rough breakup with little baby and shit trying get trough the emotions etc. i feel like that im over and never gonna get over it and get a new partner etc. Thank you for advice this made me feel better already..
The most frustrating thing is that you know how you are conditioned but cannot pin point what exactly that happened in the past is the root cause of what's running, root cause of your body, especially when you're not sure if you have that incident in your memory.
Your Beautiful you will be fine Really try to work on your inner child. I didn't get it till I was 48. Long long time.many hurts and toxic relationships... yes no people pleasing. Me again... I'm 51 now and have a very different out look... you can do it. 1st love always makes us think its all over forever. Life is Good you got this girl... and at 23👏👏👏
A bit insecure, but yet brave, compassionate and intelligent young girl. Put down that insecurity and the rest alone is already damn attractive, and I think she's cute btw. She'll do fine, especially after this lesson 😊
I feel guilt/shame for not knowing all of this before my last relatilbship and never wished this uppn myself nor my partner. All I can do now is learn and better myself, but it hurts
She wasn't shown love and has no reference, showing yourself love without receiving it is very hard because it feels fake. Even receiving love in a relationship can feel fake and even giving it can feel fake.
Acompanho Julien desde 2015, quando saiu na mídia a proibição dele entrar no Brazil , nao vj outro para ser tão certeiro em suas colocações, estou passando por uma fase ruim como essa dessa menina, vc tem um lugar muito lindo la no céu, pela ajuda que esta dando a todos nós.
Hope to speak to you soon Julien. I've already filled out the info on your site. I haven't been doing too well mentally & really need to get out of this current state that I'm in.
Almost 2 years... and i still suffer, remember everday, and ive been with other girls, i was with a girl last weekend, but even while sex i remembered my ex... i HATE my self for that, i Know i shouldnt remember or suffer, she was so mean to me it broke me appart on the inside...she got another dude so fast... i feel like shit... it feels so bad still... i remember EVERY fkcing day... every night before sleep...
It makes me insane when thoughs of her with other man passes through my head... suicide feels like the only way out that desperation it comes... i didnt deserve that... she was so mean... so evil... why...
The book you mentioned "Crucial Conversations", who authored it? I was looking it up but there are a lot of different authors who have written a book with that title.
Do we subconsciously choose these partners to teach us a lesson. ?? Therefore, the experience doesnt happen to us, randomly.. We actually in some part of our psyche choose this to happen. and choose theis specific person??
What about I see younger me - so scared, alone, pleasing for help, lost in the world, with no love - and I want to give him all. Want to hug him, say to him he's safe, he won't be alone no more. And I feel like I'm yelling af, but he can't hear me. All I can see is his suffering and tears, but I can't do anything even tho I want do to best for him
This was a good chance for auto-correction for women but missed it.During the whole dialog there was not given a way to explain why she was angry at him most of the time while also enjoying spending time with him,he saw what she became and called it quits ,i feel sorry for him to keep up for even a week with this person. This is not only her problem its a global female problem where we use nice words" like a guy like that will show up again"well not if you keep that behavior he wont.
19:00 my therapist did this with me last week trying to get me to talk to my younger self. Literally the most uncomfortable thing ever. I feel her pain literally.
in a nutshell girl got bored... And that is literaly the biggest ``sin`` a guy can commit in relationship. and the fact that girl previously had only expierence with casual fun made her unable to deal with boring everyday routine... how to know if you good at long term relationship? well ,how good you are at dealing with boring every day stuff and making it fun? remember...no one goes into long term relationship for survival or to unite families like in the ancient times...people goes into long term relationship if we being honest to make our everyday lifes more fun. i am being super simplistic here but you get it what i mean by that
Her longest "relationship" is 3 months. Whats that tell you? That doesn't mean she hasnt been with guys, it just means she never in commitments. Yeah... girls like this get bored and self sabotage the relationship
Sounds to me like you didn't listen to the video. It ended because of a lack of communication and some childhood trauma on this gals part. She clearly wanted to be in a loving relationship, but she didn't love herself or have the right tools to get what she wanted. She's gotta love herself first and forgive herself. Took me ages to do just that. I think she'll get there.
Julien said nothing out there will make you whole, but only you can. This is only half true. Yes, nothing out there will. But you cannot either. In the Bible it says your heart is deceitful. You can't trust or rely on yourself, but only on Jesus. Every human being has a God-shaped hole in their heart, whether they accept and believe it or not. That said, thank you Julien for your advice and imparting of your experiences.
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Pain is the first teacher, don’t let it be the last teacher.
So thankful for this!
Glad this spoke to you!
I believe pain will always be there but we just have to learn to deal with it the best we can.
Thank you, Julien! This is the 1st day after a breakup and I really appreciate that the Universe brought this video through you.
🙏🙏🙏
This guy isn't a hero. He's a crook. The guy goes into other country, especially in Asia just to make asian women look like "Free for all" as he calls it. I am surprised this guy isn't serving life in prison yet. At this point, no one respects white people.
@@JulienHimself
I'm Really going through the alomost similar situation,
Thanks for making my mind calmer by helping me forgive myself for the mistake I have never done.
Holy shit...this is the only channel that's unpacked some major trauma. I'm starting therapy tomorrow, so I was looking for some things to start preparing for doing some serious healing. As I watched this, I decided to look at my reflection in the mirror and envisioned it was "little" me. I absolutely broke. Like, broke. But, I told little me that I was so sorry she didn't get the protection she deserved, nor did she get the security and love she needed. I told her it wasn't her fault. I'm going through a MAJOR life transition that has forced me to heal deep wounds. I mean, truly forced. Suppressing and ignoring is no longer an option or I might actually not survive much longer. These wounds and severe trauma CAN kill you. Please heal.
Same approach I took 1 year ago. I met Julian 2 months ago. Huge transformation. Don't scape diving deep into your shadow. It is scary, but the only way out of pain, is through!!! Hope you are experiencing some changes, wish you could bring me up-to-date a bit !
Thank you, Julien. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend two months ago. It was me who initiated the breakup because this relationship made me doubt myself and I wasn't happy. I'm still going through an emotional low point until now. However, after the breakup, I read many books and watched videos, and I finally realized that my ex-girlfriend was gaslighting me, constantly diminishing my self-worth in this relationship. Making the decision to leave her was probably the right choice. I deserve to be treated better.
Same here. And I still cant convince myself that I did right. But it got way too toxic. But my partner is forcing me for 2 years now and I cant convince like I never ever wanted to go back there.
@@Shiva-zd8uw Thank you for your response! I believe this will take time, so let's take it slowly. It's really tough to stick around in such a toxic situation. Your wellbeing should always come first. Just make sure you’re taking care of yourself, alright?
From my own experience, I can confidently say that breaking up with my ex-girlfriend was the wisest decision.
@@rin99999 Thanks a lot for your response . Do u think leaving a relationship due to toxicity is bad when your partner still loves you and doesnt want to leave? Like they cant move on. But you are feeling so much better out of that relationship. Earlier it was suffocating. But then there is this guilt trip that maybe I should one more chance maybe they change or like I could have handled it more wisely? But then again the thought comes like what if they dont change and you again trapped there bcoz we do discussed it earlier still it doesnt work out.
@@Shiva-zd8uw Leaving a toxic relationship isn't a bad thing. If the relationship makes you feel suffocated and you feel better after leaving, that alone says a lot. Perhaps you already know the answer in your heart.
Although we sometimes feel guilty and think we should give the other person another chance, if the issues have been discussed and there’s still no improvement, the likelihood of the situation repeating itself is very high.
@@rin99999but u know like its been 2 years and my parnter hasnt moved on and repeatedly asking me to come back and abusing me and like threatened me multiple times with suicide threats. I shut off myself and completely blocked and shut out from everywhere. Even my friends are like pestering me because I never showed how much I hurt but like my partner just broadcasted it everywhere so. I sometimes become overburdened by all these things and feel like guilty of leaving or breaking up
What a lovely person she is. The way when she was coping with her parents fighting her concern was her brother. hope its better now. Everyone deserves it but i really really want it for her
Crazy how this video shows up in my subscriptions feed after bracing myself this past weekend as my ex got married to another woman less than 2 years after he dumped me. I needed this video today. Thank you.
So sorry, and hope u are on a better path, nowadays.
Also, and this might be weird but a breakup can also uncover a lot of childhood feelings towards your parents (codep - narc dynamics). It did for me.
Yep! KEY data to process! 👌
A great thanks to sam, for speaking truly about the situation for julien to help.
You both really helped me a lot.❤
Sam you were great. I hope you realize how awesome it is that you can reflect on your most unpleasent feelings and talk about it. That is crucial in the healing process and you are not running from this hard task. I am a big fan of yours and I hope you will find the love for yourself within yourself that you deserve!
I just had my first relationship with someone and im 30 years old.
I pushed her away and did alot of things that she couldn't get past. I learned my mistakes but this pain is never ending. We were together for 15 months.
Its been 2 weeks.
I just wanna heal and forgive myself and move on. 💔😪
Good one! "What is most personal is most universal"....and healing/helping the child of you, the root cause & tapping into that. I continously still do the work on myself from TM. Thanks for the video Julien much continued success bro! & We All Got This!!💪
Amazing! You're so welcome! 🙌
Thank you, Julien. I truly needed to hear those words and your advice. Keep carrying the torch of light and hope.
He's got a lot to offer. Very inspiring.
I was in a relationship for 3 years, and I’d rather not be in another but you help me understand that it’s okay. Thanks!
Hej
Please
Talk more about that " we are all equal but different "
Well
I believe thats a big society lie
People are not equal even If we WANT it to be that way
Its a good idea
Its ideal
Maybe
BUT
We lie When we say that
I mean
Does one stranger on the other side of the world whom you never ever met before as much worth for you as your Child?
You would 100% love your own Child and family more
Soooooo then we are not all equal are we?😮
Well said! I wish I would hear this 8 years ago, might not waste them for nothing.
Better late than never!
Ive been hesitant to watch this video as I wasn’t in a break up scenario but last night my girlfriend dropped a bomb on me and I’m seriously considering having to end things. 😢
Thank You Julien, videos like this really help me see clearly, I know that if this is a route I go through, I’m going to be okay and I saw myself a lot in the young lady on stage. 💔
I genuinely pray for healing and love for everyone watching this video. May you find your forever person that will grow with you. ❤
Thus was very helpful. When she couldn't help her inner child, that really resonated with me. I feel the same. Also, I'm in a loop with texting. It's so hard to stop.
I wish I found Julien before in life, way before I ended up giving permanent choices with someone temporary and now I have a baby on the way and my ex doesn’t want me involved. Crazy how life works that way.
She wanted to give him a hug like 15 minutes before he was done. He already pushed her in a direction and then gave more wind to help her fly. Now only she is the one who can flap her wings…
Great work to both of them!
Thank you! And yes, massive respect to her! 🙌
She’s super brave 🫶🏽
You got this SAM!!!
a live therapy session, thanks Julien, we doing the work !
Thank you for the insight. I enjoyed my stay!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Top Takeaway: Blessings come in disguise. Therefore, blessings will not seem like blessings when you receive them.
I am currently working through a breakup right now... A lot of core experiences she is experiencing right now, I am going through right now as well. It's hard. But, I am trying to be better. I'm trying to talk to the 'me' that has been neglected for so long. Even thought you said that 'everyone feels like they're not gonna get another person ever, but gets one in the near future' I... Still somehow feel it. Maybe because it is still fresh... But, I will continue to work on myself to be better so that if they do come, I will be able to give them the best version of me I can 😊
Not the best version but the most authentic version..
Much love to you Julien. Will always be one of my heroes
Wow I have watched so many videos on break ups and this is by far the best.
23:53-27:02 For me its was the most valuable part of the video
God, I so totally identify with this girl. I totally gave my power away to ex. I was unhappy. I wasnt getting what I wanted in rship, but I looked up to him like a God. It took a lot of strength to walk away.. I am still struggling with, what if he calls, could I say no to him. The quest is to feel my own power, and be whole without someone else. When she looked down at Julien and had no emotion for her inner child,, its blank, that is me. No connection. I wish her much love and self acceptance, and a way forward to regain self love and her inner strength
I've sort of gone through the exact same thing that she did it's unbelievable. I guess we have the same personality type.
Thanks man i dont even know who or where you are, But really helping many including myself to unpack the emotional damage, Traumatic events thanks thanks thank you so much
so much wisdom in one video
Amazing video. Brought tears to my eyes!
Helped me now since going trough rough breakup with little baby and shit trying get trough the emotions etc. i feel like that im over and never gonna get over it and get a new partner etc. Thank you for advice this made me feel better already..
I swear your and Owen’s content timing for the last 10 years feels like you’re observing my life 😂 thank you for existing lmao
The most frustrating thing is that you know how you are conditioned but cannot pin point what exactly that happened in the past is the root cause of what's running, root cause of your body, especially when you're not sure if you have that incident in your memory.
It's actually very easy to identify this when you have the right tools and guidance... My clients have no problem with this in my mentoring program.
I resonate with her so much! This is day one my break up, this is hard
Top notch content man. This really had an impact on me.
Yes Julien. Blessings come in disguise. Life is giving you vegetables.
Your Beautiful you will be fine
Really try to work on your inner child. I didn't get it till I was 48. Long long time.many hurts and toxic relationships... yes no people pleasing. Me again... I'm 51 now and have a very different out look... you can do it. 1st love always makes us think its all
over forever. Life is Good you got this girl... and at 23👏👏👏
A bit insecure, but yet brave, compassionate and intelligent young girl. Put down that insecurity and the rest alone is already damn attractive, and I think she's cute btw. She'll do fine, especially after this lesson 😊
I feel guilt/shame for not knowing all of this before my last relatilbship and never wished this uppn myself nor my partner. All I can do now is learn and better myself, but it hurts
I really love your videos ❤
She wasn't shown love and has no reference, showing yourself love without receiving it is very hard because it feels fake. Even receiving love in a relationship can feel fake and even giving it can feel fake.
It's been 7 months since my breakup and my ex is in a new relationship. But this helped me I guess . Thanks
Helped you for what? It was an experience itself
Thank you
You’re welcome! 🙏
LOVE heals the heart and the fastest and best way of healing comes from loving yourself.
💙💎💙💎💙💎💙💎💙💎
Acompanho Julien desde 2015, quando saiu na mídia a proibição dele entrar no Brazil , nao vj outro para ser tão certeiro em suas colocações, estou passando por uma fase ruim como essa dessa menina, vc tem um lugar muito lindo la no céu, pela ajuda que esta dando a todos nós.
Yes I remember years ago hearing this about Dax Shepard and her . I love them ! It stuck w me
Yes.
Narcissist can be passive agressive, run away :)
I feel like it's about me...crazy.
Hope to speak to you soon Julien. I've already filled out the info on your site. I haven't been doing too well mentally & really need to get out of this current state that I'm in.
Hang in there, hope u are feeling better.
Almost 2 years... and i still suffer, remember everday, and ive been with other girls, i was with a girl last weekend, but even while sex i remembered my ex... i HATE my self for that, i Know i shouldnt remember or suffer, she was so mean to me it broke me appart on the inside...she got another dude so fast... i feel like shit... it feels so bad still... i remember EVERY fkcing day... every night before sleep...
It makes me insane when thoughs of her with other man passes through my head... suicide feels like the only way out that desperation it comes... i didnt deserve that... she was so mean... so evil... why...
The book you mentioned "Crucial Conversations", who authored it? I was looking it up but there are a lot of different authors who have written a book with that title.
Do we subconsciously choose these partners to teach us a lesson. ?? Therefore, the experience doesnt happen to us, randomly.. We actually in some part of our psyche choose this to happen. and choose theis specific person??
True
Got nothing for ya kid! Now beat it!
What about I see younger me - so scared, alone, pleasing for help, lost in the world, with no love - and I want to give him all. Want to hug him, say to him he's safe, he won't be alone no more. And I feel like I'm yelling af, but he can't hear me. All I can see is his suffering and tears, but I can't do anything even tho I want do to best for him
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yes i love analysing .. more videos !!!!!
Glad these live breakdowns resonate with you! Let us know your TOP TAKEAWAY! 🔥
Shes a perfect mold ready to be taken and worked on if she wants
Feel Feel Feel
Hi How do I send through a comment without it being public? I’m wanting to send an observation privately.
Thank you ❤
when will be the adress of the event in berlin?
The address will be sent out to everyone a few days prior... See you there! 🔥👊
dg always crack me up
19:00 Damn, tried putting myself in her shoes and it hurts to know that i also don't have an answer 😢
Today we're breaking up with my wife of 13 years.
🤔
@@JulienHimself Honestly, I'm terrified.
@REMUS UMA how did it go?
@@Squirrel-zq6oe Eh... Not too well.
@@usandutz How bout now?
This was a good chance for auto-correction for women but missed it.During the whole dialog there was not given a way to explain why she was angry at him most of the time while also enjoying spending time with him,he saw what she became and called it quits ,i feel sorry for him to keep up for even a week with this person. This is not only her problem its a global female problem where we use nice words" like a guy like that will show up again"well not if you keep that behavior he wont.
At 17:40 i be like stop or she will start crying.
19:00 my therapist did this with me last week trying to get me to talk to my younger self. Literally the most uncomfortable thing ever. I feel her pain literally.
It's supposed to be uncomfortable
Sounds like she's experiencing limerence
💯💯💯
🔥🔥🔥
in a nutshell girl got bored...
And that is literaly the biggest ``sin`` a guy can commit in relationship.
and the fact that girl previously had only expierence with casual fun made her unable to deal with boring everyday routine...
how to know if you good at long term relationship?
well ,how good you are at dealing with boring every day stuff and making it fun?
remember...no one goes into long term relationship for survival or to unite families like in the ancient times...people goes into long term relationship if we being honest to make our everyday lifes more fun. i am being super simplistic here but you get it what i mean by that
Her longest "relationship" is 3 months. Whats that tell you? That doesn't mean she hasnt been with guys, it just means she never in commitments. Yeah... girls like this get bored and self sabotage the relationship
0.50 timestamp "he was like, I just don't think this is going to work." She didn't end it, he did.
A lot of projection going on here...
Sounds to me like you didn't listen to the video. It ended because of a lack of communication and some childhood trauma on this gals part. She clearly wanted to be in a loving relationship, but she didn't love herself or have the right tools to get what she wanted. She's gotta love herself first and forgive herself. Took me ages to do just that. I think she'll get there.
This guy didn't even watch the first five seconds of the video- the girl got broken up with and it was also her first relationship lol
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Julien said nothing out there will make you whole, but only you can. This is only half true. Yes, nothing out there will. But you cannot either. In the Bible it says your heart is deceitful. You can't trust or rely on yourself, but only on Jesus. Every human being has a God-shaped hole in their heart, whether they accept and believe it or not. That said, thank you Julien for your advice and imparting of your experiences.
without neediness, no one have able to fall in love
ITS JULIEN BLANC OOOOOOOOOO - TYLER COOK Brilliant that was brilliant very well explained and relatable life changing ~