Couples Share the Happiness and Heartache of Interracial Marriage | National Geographic
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- Опубликовано: 11 мар 2018
- In 2015, 17 percent of U.S. newlyweds had a spouse of a different race or ethnicity. That’s roughly a fivefold increase since 1967, when the U.S. Supreme Court’s ruling in Loving v. Virginia made interracial marriage legal.
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Changing the law was a start-but it didn’t “necessarily do anything to change people’s minds,” says Syracuse University law professor Kevin Noble Maillard, who writes frequently about intermarriage. Partners of different races or ethnicities are nothing new, he notes: “But it’s very different when there’s public recognition of these relationships and when they become representations of regular families-when they’re the people in the Cheerios commercial.”
We sat down with 17 couples from the Washington, D.C., metropolitan area to talk about their experiences of being in a marriage that crosses racial or ethnic lines and to learn about their hopes for the future.
Read the full April 2018 article on intermarriage, “The Many Colors of Matrimony,” and check out the entire National Geographic issue on race.
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For some of these interracial couples, the criticism came from parents and other close family members. What do you think are some ways to foster tolerance and understanding when it comes to interracial relationships?
can you please not get involved in social commentary / liberal political narratives and keep making science videos.
The subtext and assumptions behind the intentions of this video are part of a liberal political narrative. it doesnt fit the format of national geographic at all.
nice strawman there, btw. very intellectual honest of you.
It's curious how interracial relationships were generally considered taboo in Western culture (and many other cultures as well) for millennia, while in the past five years or so the media has suddenly started championing them quite loudly. The truth, however, may actually be that there was some wisdom in that longstanding taboo after all. A pretty sizable body of evidence suggests that extreme exogamy (i.e., racial intermixing) can prove as problematic and destructive in its own way as extreme endogamy (i.e., incest) in its way. Of course, in some circles it's almost become de rigueur to label any such assertion politically incorrect, but there's a lot of scientific data out there that would suggest interracial relationships have a negative net result, not only for the individuals involved, but also for their offspring and for human culture in general. So, to foster tolerance and understanding of those who oppose the erosion of distinct races and cultures, here are two major reasons why racial mixing might not be such a good thing after all (please forgive any lengthiness in what follows, but I'm personally against the Twitterization of speech, where all ideas have to be boiled down to a sentence or two in order to appease people's ever-shortening attention span).
1. Interbreeding reduces genetic distinctiveness: Whites, blacks, Asians, Pacific Islanders, etc., have spent most of the past 100,000 years, give or take, in relative isolation. During that time, they've evolved genetic differences that run much deeper than mere facial features or skin color. How else can one explain the glaring differences between races when it comes to things like susceptibility to disease, academic success, crime rates, athletic prowess, etc.? Whites for the most part have evolved lactose tolerance, have a lower likelihood of developing diabetes, excel at upper body sports like weight-lifting and swimming, etc. Asians, by contrast, suffer from lactose intolerance among other ailments, have greater abilities in math according to academic aptitude tests, a more peaceable disposition given lower violent crime statistics in Asian countries, as well as a tendency to excel in gymnastic exercise. Blacks, on the other hand, typically do well at sports involving running, whether short distances (West Africans) or long distances (East Africans), suffer from lactose intolerance in addition to a higher rate of diabetes and other diseases, score significantly lower on intelligence tests, and exhibit a greater tendency to violent crime. That's not to say that there aren't lots of white people who are lactose tolerant, for example, or that every Asian person will score high on math tests while every black person will score low, but on average those are clear trends among the races as a whole -- statistically incontrovertible facts, if you bother to look them up. Of course, nurture also plays a big role in these differences, not just nature, but it would be naive to think that all races are totally equal under the skin and that their genetic makeup has nothing to do with these inequalities. The data just don't support that view.
Far from being a bad thing, though, racial differences are usually good. Each race, after all, has over thousands of years gradually evolved into a different sub-species adapted to a specific environment. Each race didn't have enough time to evolve into an entirely different species, of course, since Asians, blacks and whites can all interbreed (although, on a side note, anthropologists generally regard Neanderthals as a different species from Homo sapiens sapiens despite the fact they were able to interbreed with humans thousands of years ago). But modern races have obviously grown better at some things than others, and may have lost other abilities that were not as needful. When races mix, however, millennia of evolutionary advances and biological distinctiveness is lost, in much the same way as the rainbow of colors on a painter's palette is lost when mixed together -- afterwards all that remains of the dozens of different hues is a homogeneous, dull brown. Naturally, some might argue that mixing different races widens gene pools and introduces hybrid rigor, and in some cases that may be true. But as a general rule, mixing races is a diluting of genomic distinctiveness and rarity, with specialized, recessive traits (such as blue eyes, blonde hair, high intelligence in music, mechanics, math, etc.) likely to become even rarer within the overall population as a result. Indiscriminate racial mixing is likely to be bad for a population in the same way as inbreeding is bad for a population, since brother breeding with sister or cousin mating with cousin amplifies rare and recessive traits, including genetic diseases, while racial mixing has the opposite effect, leveling out uniqueness and engendering uniformity and mediocrity. Too much genetic diversity can prove just as bad as too little. Just imagine if, to use another analogy, dog breeders had simply allowed all dogs to mate indiscriminately: there would be no distinct and beautiful breeds left anymore, and only mutts that look and behave more or less the same as every other mutt would remain. Some of the genetic diseases that beset certain breeds would vanish, but so would the special skills, character, and beauty of the different breeds. This isn't to say that humans should be bred like eugenic animals, with great musicians being paired off with other great musicians in the hopes of producing even better musicians, or gray-eyed platinum blondes breeding with their like in order to keep those recessive traits alive and well, but neither does it mean the reverse should be encouraged or particularly respected.
2. Interbreeding also dilutes cultural differences: When cultures collide, the collision can provoke a mutually enriching exchange of knowledge and customs. It can, however, also prove utterly destructive to one or even both of the cultures in question. The persistent spread of the English language and Anglo-American culture across the globe, for example, has severely endangered many other cultures' native tongues and unique customs. It's a bit staggering to see even hunter-gatherers in the Amazon or herders on the African savannah wearing Nike t-shirts, carrying cell phones, or singing Lady Gaga songs. Again, without going into too much detail, it's a disturbing case of cultural homogenization -- like watching an endangered species slowly go extinct. Hopefully, unique customs, languages, and knowledge will get rescued from oblivion by ethnographers or other recorders of human behavior, but even a library of ethnographic books and recordings is not the same thing as a living culture thriving on its own.
In much the same way, interracial relationships steadily erode away at cultural heritage. Even among white Europeans, there are people who are an eighth Dutch, an eighth Russian, an eighth Romanian, and so on, which may be fine and good enough for the person in question, but nevertheless diminishes their chances of benefiting from a special cultural tradition with a different way of seeing the world, a different way of speaking, a different way of living. People of mixed background increasingly grow up without a real culture to nourish them, instead having to content themselves with vapid and generic global pop culture. They're left roaming, rudderless and alienated, among a clutter of conflicting cultures like an aimless window-shopper, struggling to find direction, focus, values, or a sense of identity to call their own.
The final irony in this debate is that the very people who so loudly applaud diversity are nevertheless undermining it by advocating for a global uniculture where everyone basically ends up looking, thinking, and acting the same as everyone else. A further irony is how these same people who lionize diversity don't actually seem to value diversity of opinion or ideology very much, as is clear from their all too frequent desire to label as a thoughtcrime anything that doesn't jibe with their particular set of beliefs, even when hard scientific data contradicts them.
Respect & love one another. Most ppl are close minded. That goes for all cultures. Time will change all this.
blackeminences excellent comment, thank you
As a Christian myself i really don't like to see people mis-use the bible to justify their hate, it's ashame.
As a race lover, I feel the same way when people mis-use the bible to justify race destruction.
Exactly . I hate it too
There is nothing in the Bible that says interracial dating or marriage is wrong
@@alexisf22 that is a real true statement
you sound like a fake culture christian. i know in black churches they chant death to police and death to animals. sounds like an evil occult
I am from India and married to a Chinese. For me key is to get my relatives know my wife and see how similar she is to us ! We're all very similar in this world it's just the stereotypes that's creating xenophobia
Yes, your wife has a different ethnicity than you, but she is the same race as you because Indians and Chinese are both Asian. I do understand what your saying, though because there can be a lot of discrimination from both sides (my aunt is Chinese and my uncle is Desi, so I've seen it).
@@haniyaa5117 indian are more european than east asian in genetics
@@djpagla1294 I understand that, but race is not based on science, its based on which continent your ancestors lived on and what you look like. Indians are still Asian. This is comparable to many Hispanic/Latin people who have a lot of European ancestry. They are still hispanic/latinx. Asia is a large continent and "asian" does not only mean people who are east asian.
India has all kind of peoples with different facial or skin features they may look like same to someone from other races but the genetics and dna is unique , most of indians whose ancestors are from this land has that same unique structure of dna. we should be in our own individual ethic group.
@@haniyaa5117 in the usa when people think asian they think east asian not lebanese for example also the definition of continent is very loose like most of asia and europe is in same tectonic plate in a single landmass also if i am born in mali but my ancestral origins is asian am i african? Truly race is a stupid concept better is ethnicity
"I'm now ... totally dominated by my wife"
"That has nothing to do with my culture"
"EXACTLY"
lmfao that was cute and funny lol
As an Italian, dominating your husband has EVERYTHING to do with our culture lmao
Being interracial marriage it's always important to understand one another culture, respect and learn from one another. I'm a British and my husband being Asian- Indian we have learn so many things from one another culture.
I was thinking lately about how most of my cousins are married now and the ones who are married interracially are the ones never having drama and seem the happiest to me.
Omg I couldn’t stop smiling! These people are so in love!! Who cares about what color your skin is the goal is to find someone who makes you feel this way.
CurlGirl Tonja Amen girl my boyfriend and I been together for almost a year now Our anniversary is in June and we are getting a new house sooooooo excited
andrew carson I’m so happy for y’all!!! I love love!! ❤️❤️
Their kids will have a hard time finding a blood doner is something goes wrong
@@pizza123425 What in the world are you talking about?
K Ybarra lmao why is that
God its hard enough to find someone you love who loves you back so why should we even include race in the picture? As long as you're happy then marry whoever you want to
@Nyarlathotep what
EXACTLY
💯
Yes!
Wrong.
Love is love no matter the race, color, gender, or if you’re a freaking person from outer space. It’s heartbreaking to know the prejudices towards something benign.
Love is love and people are people. I'm glad these couples stood against the odds and followed their hearts.
Indeed love is love and love always wins with a big Victory
Marry your mom then if love is loge, also you are saying misinformation
How has marriage changed you? “I am now after so many years, totally dominated by my wife.” -Best line! 😅😂🤣😅😂
I don’t see how that’s a good thing. Supposed to be equal relationship
Why is race such a big issue in the U.S? Everyone's obsessed with it over there...
Tyrone Saif I know...I'm in a bi racial marriage (24+ years) and have never had any issues in my own country ( Canada)...I'm sure some people have but it hasn't happened to us yet...
These people are pathetic.
It's Not. The US is one of the most open and Accepting. Just google Most racist countries in the world and you will see.
don't let the Media Fool you.
Probably because we are the melting pot of the world compared to other countries that dont have as many races. That being said most people do get used to it, except for a few idiots that can't see past someone's skin.
Leather Pants Guy Or maybe its because people constantly make them political issues?
I have been in an interracial relationship for 10 years and it wasn’t until about a week ago that my husband said something about it that I realized.. “oh yeah, I guess we are” lol. Luckily we didn’t deal with much opposition since we’re both minorities so we never really noticed before.
This video makes me smile throughout and also want to cry a little seeing how much all the couples love each other. Beautiful
I just love interracial couples. Love doesn't have a color. Be happy!!
Yes it does.
Aww such a beautiful video! Love truly has no color, race or sexual identity, love is love ♥️
We must move forward and look beyond the colour of our skin. After all, it's just SKIN colour, something that makes us uniquely us, but doesn't separate us as a species. The same human blood runs in every human being. Love is beautiful isn't it? Thanks National Geographic for sharing.
Mr. White Well English mastiffs and Chihuahuas look totally different but are the same species. Same thing with humans. There are differences in the phenotype but the genotype is close to identical.
Azliana Lyana YEAH!
COLOR*
We are all sons of God! Let love and peace create wonders!
Malaysian?
Awwww this video made me cry thank you national geographic for this video☺.
People shouldn't get so upset about "interracial" relationships. We are of one race. The Human race. Get over it.
open a biology book. stop denying science. This progressive mumbojumbo starts to sound like creationism. If you accept evolution, you accept the existence of human races.
Cin3 But mentally we are all humans. The biggest differences is in body structure and skin tone
Nah boi.
Human is a species. Race is recognized as a sub-category of species.
you try to sepparate the mind / cognitive capacity from the rest of the body as its somehow not biological, so not an effect of evolution.
No, totally wrong. Every type of environment has different evolutionary pressures.
"skin tone"
Its not a skin tone . . its a evolutionary adaptation to high uv, descendants are more likely to survive in warm climates. The skin is specialised to certain conditions.
Is it so hard to imagine the same can happen to intelligence? An environment that has multiple seasons with harsh winters is a pressure for the humans living in that area to plan forward. To create a model of the future and works towards achieving it (as farming crops and conserving them for the winter), this is a pressure for IQ, seeing that the humans that would not plan forward would just die out and not pass along their genes.
This is only one of the many scenarios for clear radical differences on how the different types human races evolved.
There is a reason why olympic long distance runners are almost always Ethiopians (black people in general overrepresent sports, even in white countries), there is a clear genetic advantage. Look at the average IQ differences between races, clear distinctions there aswell. Dont be a science denier, the data is there.
Cin3 The problem is when people make the presupposition that race is all that defines a person, that my friend is not only unscientific but it is also the catalyst of many bad things that have happened in the past.
Ethiopians are not just good at long distance running because of their genes,if you do the research you'll see these people also practice cultural norms and live in an environment that allows them excel at distance running.
Being biracial i love seeing and hearing about stories of 💞 love💝 and how the 👫👬👭💏 couples 😍 met.. Thank you National Geographic
Sincerely Tanja
to all those who made it together, tackling all the obstacles and everyone's criticism's
they're a meant to be together forever ♥
Why are we talking about this? It’s 2018 and it makes me so sad/angry that this is till considered an “issue”.
You'd be surprised. I wish it wasn't but unfortunately this is still in issue in many cultures.
Katherine De Jesus I agree with you love my boyfriend yes we are a biracial couple but that's not why I love him he gave me love when I needed he loves me for me regardless of my disability our anniversary is in June and we are getting a new house sooooooo excited we love each other so much
Katherine De Jesus Because racism still exist.
Are you mad that it's still an issue-or at anyone to be talking about it; that Guardian dares to acknowledge that it's an issue. Hugely so.
Katherine De Jesus unfortunately it’s still considered an issue, because it is. My fiancée and I have dealt with major issues with his parents not accepting me, because of what I look like. Because of my skin color. They would tell him that I’m not “the right kind of girl for him”, before they even knew me. It’s heartbreaking to know that this is still a problem.
Great work guys
Videos like this make my day and give me hope in humanity.
Loved this! And I love Nat Geo!
Being truly loved, respected and appreciated that is real love, everyone it entitled to fall in love with whom ever they want.
BEAUTIFUL my boyfriend and I are both a interracial couple we love each other sooo much our anniversary is in June and we are getting a new house sooooooo excited can't wait
im so happy to see this regardless of race and gender love wins it's hard to find someone you can be together forever
Woww this is very interesting and inspiring 😍😍😍
I think the contrast is beautiful and should be celebrated. They say love is blind, its a shame some people are too narrow minded to see the love
Being blind is not a good thing
The fact that others feel the need to control how people live their lives and how they love , is beyond me. Even the children we bring into this world aren't our puppets. We are here all just here as beings to lovingly facilitate one another.
"People fear what they do not understand. Thus they pass judgement purposely as what is norm to them and what is not."
-Mr. Hadouken
U think u r only smart
@@rajeevborah143 It wouldn't hurt to reevaluate your comment. Most primary students can be, surprisingly punctual.
Stop gas lighting
Great Video...
Good video. Now I know more about interracial relations.
This is so beautiful! !!!!💘
I am mixed race too and I support this kind of marriage
Bummer
That's not good
@@hello-sz7hp As a matter of fact, you are wrong.
@@pinkpinkpink7717 As a matter of fact, you are wrong.
@@own4801 danny
Beautiful to hear these stories (I liked the older, Indian-Italian couple as they seemed so comfortable around each other); it's disappointing to hear some people still see interracial relationships as a problem. I can appreciate there may be initial hesitation from families as there are cultural differences, but genuinely do not understand why other people (who do not know the couple) believe the relationship is wrong.
All the comments from people saying "This is 2018, this is not relevant!" must be lucky not to have experienced negative comments.
There is no power greater than love!
This remind me of my parents being in love so sweet they made a happy lil mixed kid💕💕💕
ohhhh
HERES TO A DIVERSE WORLD!! I REFUSE TO LIVE WITHOUT IT!!!!! there is no image without contrast
Why can’t people just be accepting and open minded? We’re in 2018 things as little as what color our skin is shouldn’t be an issue anymore, like come on people!
It wasn't meant for America to come together, read the Bible
BigKRITVEVO tf are you talking about
Like I said, It wasn't meant for America to come together.... Color of skin will always be an Issue
evilucario no you shut up the world needs to change. And I’m not a child
@Joan .
Whats your nationality ?
Keep on loving guys.
I have only have one significant other of the same race and have never really even thought about it . I've never dated a race, I have dated people.
The gay couples could retort to the public- "Atleast we are the same sex!" Hahahahaa
Love is such a precious thing, I don't understand how anyone can object to love experienced by two people.
Yeah the truth how refreshing.
I always support interracial relationships 💜💙💖💛💟💚
Shame on you
Babi I'll support it with you respect the marriage no matter what kind of relationship it is
Sorry to hear that
@@yellowyellowyellow7894 shame on you
When we can wotch full NG films in HD on youtube ?!?
nice!!!
This is beautiful
This's so kind , ?
i can relate to almost all of these. ''wrong religon'' ''inappropriate comments from other people'' ''the n word during a fight'' fyi yes he did say it. worst relationship ive ever been in. but it's not about race. its about the person, hence why these relationships look soo successful.
This made me happy. Truly happy.
2:16 reminds me of my mom and dad rip dad. My parents were the best black Indian couple in the world. Rip dad. My mom is multiethnic and people say she is so beautiful
Love this
Shame this
That was really inspirational and thoughtful
Beautiful!
They all will have beautiful babies 😍
the guy in blue cardigan looks like my Grandfather 😁🙌
Keen to know how to deal with the prejudice from my partner’s relatives. I’m Filipina and people think I’m not genuine and I’m just after money. It breaks my heart.
Yeah my family thinks the same with me and my wife but we have proven them wrong.
@@starseeker27 how’d you overcome it?
@@phetsoisa I'm gonna be completely honest with you, I've dealt with mental abuse all my life from other kids and my own mother and step father who told me that I couldn't mount to anything in life and my wife is the one who helped me realize that. My wife is African she was born in Zambia and we pretty much just let people stare at us. If you let people try to hurt you over a relationship it means they're either jealous or they don't like you. My own mother wanted control over everything in my life everyday and my wife god bless her soul showed me the love I really needed. I couldn't care less about how people call me names like disgusting or loser. I've made my choice in life and I intend to stay with it for the rest of my life.
@@phetsoisa the moral of my story is when you find someone who's willing to leave the old life behind to start a new life with you that person is one to keep. It doesn't matter how others feel.
I LOVE THIS,
Same. I'm Hispanic, but I am not really interested in dating women of my own race. I'm pretty sure it's because most of my family is Hispanic, so if I were to date someone of my own race it would feel as if I were dating one of my relatives.
Oh Know this all too well. I live it every day!!
What's yo name.. Little girl.. What's yo name (nrooklyn music starts playing)
I really think that intercultural and interracial marriages will greatly contribute to world peace and equality
Thanks for the great video. I am from India and married to a Chinese. We're all very similar in this world it's just the cultural stereotypes that's creating xenophobia and when you know someone from a different race you realize how similar you're to them !
Nice but remember the divorce rate is 55% in Germany take care
The other guy sounded like he is the voice actor of Manny in Ice Age
This helps. Literally
I understand what they go through
It breaks my heart that this would even be an issue to someone... But hearing tour stories put a huge smile on my face regardless!
Love is pure... it don't knows wht is racism...
Ignorance is pure… it doesn't care about grammar or spelling…
Implying that something that is uncommon is harmful just for deviating from the norm.
rakshith s naik Amen I met my boyfriend and we clicked been together almost a year now Our anniversary is in June and we are getting a new house sooooooo excited can't wait Love each other so much
Yes we are all humans.
Thanks for the show
All love is beautiful but Biracial love just hits different! Especially knowing the history and knowing stuff like this used to be seen as wrong.
The comments bellow show how uncomfortable some people are with race. Trying to be blind to skin color would be like trying to be be blind to how old a person is or whether they are male or female. It's okay to see race. It's okay to talk about race. We don't have to all be copies of each other to all be human.
I don't blame them
GOD BLESS
I have no problem with interracial marriage, but isn't it good to have diversity?
That was beautiful and I love their stories what they going through this has nothing to do with color no matter who you are or where you from Love Is Love I don't care if they dating outside of their race if I was in their shoes it doesn't matter who I date as longest I be happy it's my decision if you really love this person live your life so I just wanted to say I believe in interracial relationship if people don't like it screwed them and like I said before Love Is Love they can get used to it and besides people make decisions in life So get over it people
I believe there is a underreprsentation of asian and latino couples in film entertainment and media, stories. Sometimes it just seems as if asian and latino couples are rare.
"Love is not a color. Character is not a shade of skin.”
People saying "your destroying culture" but if your immigrant parents come to an anglo-saxon society, bring you into the world there and teach you only english, it's already "destroyed"
It’s genetic as well
@@asdawasdabuddy there’s no such thing a pure bred when it comes to humans.
@@baneofbanes there’s no such thing as pure in general. What you’re saying is meaningless
its just melanin... i dont get why people hate interracial relationships
Feels like people are going to argue ether way you go with this topic. (Interracial couple )
(Non interracial couple) people will complain about it’s how it’s nonsense anyway.
I am very excited about being engaged to a beautiful woman and yes she's black and I'm happy to be the part of her life that really matters everyday I'll never abandon my union with her
Next time someone comments on it, ask them what their significant others back ground is and you’ll see they have a couple different races mixed in their roots! Therefore, They as well, are in a interracial relationship!!! GET SOME!!!
Love is love.
So if I want to marry my cat or computer love is love?!?!?!?!?! I don't think so
@@yellowyellowyellow7894 why not, with the respect for marriage act passed now you can pretty much marry anyone you want remember love is love
the last girl making a comment about race is absolutely right. RACE is a SOCIAL CONSTRUCT! so wake up people and see/ know the truth!
So beautiful. It's great that NatGeo, who has covered the ENTIRE WORLD for over 100 years, is doing this study and series. I don't know anyone who did not learn about other cultures from reading a Nat Geo magazine as a kid. DNA testing and genetic genealogy really has taught me, as an American descendant of the Atlantic Slave Trade, color is truly "skin deep"; my mother's dna touches every continent,WOW! Yet the world define her as "Black" or "African". I hate societies have taught so many to understand the Human existence by marginalizing our natural cognitive way of thinking; with centuries of strict codes, ideologies, customs,heritages, traditions, and religions that shelter us from experiencing diversity, and how diversity helps us better understand humanity.
This makes me emotional.... look at all these beautiful people!
we belong to the same world .? why would it be a problem.... love defeats everything......
Love who you love. Your ethnicity should NOT matter! 💜💜💜
Stop unfair gas lighting. Interracial marriage is as unfair as hitting a baby for fun and then bring mad at them for crying cause of it
@@yellowyellowyellow7894 That is the stupidest comment ever....
@@yellowyellowyellow7894 and your point is?
@@animefan2454that ir is wrong and unfair
@@hello-sz7hpwrong again troll
I’m proud to be the product of an interracial couple; my mom is Filipino and my dad is American. Being biracial, I have different perspectives on the world and I embrace the culture of my parents. Please no hate, just love one another.
no surprises there.
Idk a year into my relationship I haven’t got any comments or weird looks
"You may kiss,😘 the bride!" 👰
Wow how little that has changed since 1967. The yanks are still throwing around race even though all of us belong to the same race, which is one of the reasons why I'm glad that I live in Sweden and not U.S.A because none of either my co-workers or family except for my youngest sister (who dated an Iraqi guy for 6 years, so she can take her preconceptions and shove them) have said even one word about me dating a Filipina.
I find this video puzzling. Is interracial marriage really a novelty? I've been in an 'interracial' marriage for 12 years and have two gorgeous interracial children. Nobody has ever mentioned the novelty of this, parents, friends, workmates etc everyone just thinks its normal. But perhaps it's because I live in London where if anything marrying inside your race is becoming the novel thing to do...
yeah, I think is an USA thing.
imagine a rainbow with one color, and now imagine a rainbow with many colors. which one is better!
There are bridges to cross in an interracial relationship. Fundamentally one is language, once that gap is filled it is hard to alienate a person or consider them as someone else. But true, as we rush to globalization things like this is bound to happen. Racial differences shouldn't matter much at all.
This was beautiful :)
At this age love is love ❤️ regardless ....
Go marry an animal then. You have no good boundries. Sad
"My parents are against it."
"They're your parents they're just doing what's best for you."
Justifying your hatred? Hope you feel good about yourself.
That filipino girl is gorgeous 😍
@shoahshanagoldberg-shekels5253 who are you to judge people based on their looks when you have the ugliest nose job ever, lol get out of your moms basement and get a job 🤣