How To Make a Long Distance Relationship WORK!

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  • Опубликовано: 22 окт 2024

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  • @Galloway737
    @Galloway737 3 года назад +12

    Simple small things mean a lot like you said... my asawa sends me a good morning txt every day for when I wake up and it really makes the start of my day special!

  • @tw2155
    @tw2155 3 года назад +6

    Every single point you made is spot on. I would put being faithful in the top 3. Integrity, Honesty & Respect are paramount. Without those traits forget about it. I speak with experience as Julie and I have been in a long distance relationship for a few years now. Thank god for face time. She works as an OFW in HK while I'm in Australia. But we both made a commitment to each other because we are in love.
    One day we will share our incredible journey. As it is a tale of love that most could not, would not endure. So alot of it comes from the person you are and the values you live by.
    Great subject matter guys.

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  3 года назад

      Thank you for watching and wish you two the best of lucky. When you find that person that your meant for it’s all well worth it

  • @davidwhite7955
    @davidwhite7955 3 года назад +7

    That had to be a difficult time, glad you guys found ways to make it work!
    Communication is key and sometimes culture, age and language differences can present some challenges, so patience is also important. You know your vlog is doing good when you start to pick-up the haters and negative comments! KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK

  • @ericbown1551
    @ericbown1551 2 года назад +6

    New sub, I’m back in Manila after over two years with my girl. Communication is the key in a LDR, if your into partner …it’s pretty easy to make time. Western guys that have found a great Filipina are truly blessed, they are true diamonds…feminine, sexy and caring. Good luck guys.

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  2 года назад

      Thank you my friend and you are 100% accurate

    • @ericbown1551
      @ericbown1551 2 года назад +1

      @@ItsMe_Philippines lol I’m going to be wearing a mask for the first time lol 😂 …I’ll be following your journey 🙏

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  2 года назад

      @@ericbown1551 these mask rules are killing me. Come on now Philippines it’s hot enough already without the mask! Lol

    • @ericbown1551
      @ericbown1551 2 года назад +1

      @@ItsMe_Philippines Not looking forward to it, my girl is a little rebel lol..all absolute nonsense.

    • @MakaiIELTS
      @MakaiIELTS 2 года назад

      @@ericbown1551 masks are not mandatory here. Filipinos are just used to it, but it is not strictly enforced anymore.

  • @Michael-mp1rq
    @Michael-mp1rq 5 месяцев назад +2

    You & Rachel are truly the exception and not the rule(norm). You both define what true love is. True love is honesty, as well as sacrifice. God Bless You Both Always.

  • @WhenTheManComesAround
    @WhenTheManComesAround Год назад +2

    I decided I'd start going through your back catalog of videos, and I'm not disappointed. Great stuff as always my friend 👍

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Год назад +1

      Thank you, appreciate another positive comment. That's how the channel grows my friend.

  • @rosalindaagas5173
    @rosalindaagas5173 3 года назад +3

    YES! I agree with all what you said. Its good to be honest all the time.
    Trying to tell him/ her what you do and where to go will make each one not to worry! Good!

  • @sylvainatoz2045
    @sylvainatoz2045 3 года назад +7

    You seems like an happy couple. I will try to follow your advise until the fu..ing border reopen for tourist. Thumbs up.

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  3 года назад

      Thank you. Yeah we cannot wait to get there as well. February is the plan and PRAY travel restrictions and quarantine are easy.

  • @brianmccallister2981
    @brianmccallister2981 2 года назад +2

    In a LDR and we set aside time every morning and every night. It has helped our communication

  • @iangalwey4876
    @iangalwey4876 Год назад +2

    Great advise, recently discovered your channel and going through the vlogs, my Filipina Fiancé and I were separated from February 21 to July 22 due to Covid (we only thought it would be a few months) and did most of the things in this vlog, daily communication, video calls and messages is key, it was hard at times, but we made it through. She has now been back in Australia for the last 6 months and we are doing great.

  • @jokergus
    @jokergus 2 года назад +2

    What a beautiful video , I am in love with a Filipina woman I am in Canada , and it is diffucult to get a visa for her to visit, she is also , separated from her husband for years but cannot get her annulment . I relate to everything you said and it was very touching and truthful , God Bless you.

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  2 года назад

      Thank you and keep waiting for you believe in. It may take some time but I’m sure you’ll get everything straightened out.

  • @stub4958
    @stub4958 2 года назад +1

    It isn't easy to make a long distance relationship work, I'm glad you were able to do it. Good luck and I hope you have many more years together ahead of you.

  • @krish6128
    @krish6128 Год назад +2

    spot on guys, thanks for sharing your real and genuine LDR experience

  • @jeremybrewer3289
    @jeremybrewer3289 9 месяцев назад +2

    You said it as I was thinking it. Your courtship was during covid so waited longer then should. My first marriage it was a year before I saw my wife. I did not get a chance to go back during the waiting period. Hopefully this time around wont be the same. I plan to visit more often, but I think marriage in Philippines is better. Means more to them and their family then I think it does for Americans. Some Filipinas think it is their sole purpose to marry and take care of the spouse.

  • @evildisaster8149
    @evildisaster8149 Год назад +2

    It would work, because they're both honest, calm, simple, caring and raised well by parents and loving. I wish you all the best! Love from Cebu Philippines.

  • @airwess3369
    @airwess3369 2 года назад +2

    Let this be a lesson to all. If your committing yourself to a relationship here, commit to getting some kind of residency visa here. I'm sure most had no clue, but prepare for the worst and hope for the best at all times for a LDR. Luckily I got mine right before lockdowns and was able to travel back and forth the entire time. But, the cost has double, triple, quadrupled at times. Goodluck to all dealing with this and if you don't have a residency visa yet, get one now.

  • @michaelfung694
    @michaelfung694 3 года назад +4

    Agree with most of what u said, in the end communication will be key, so that u and ur partner agree on what works for u both…..my wife and I vid chat everyday….Morning and afternoon…..it’s not easy, and definitely need to put some effort into the relationship

  • @cgsek
    @cgsek Год назад +1

    A very nice video Cory, thank you. You two are a wonderful couple.

  • @frankvelasco4602
    @frankvelasco4602 3 года назад +4

    I been 2018. 3 years with my partner..she philippina. But she lives in Hong Kong 🇭🇰 it's hard sometimes for us but we talk everyday. We are just waiting for paper work now. Yes gifts 🎁 lots of pictures.

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  3 года назад

      Keep it up friend and I wish you both the best of luck. Thank you for watching

    • @Rachel00813
      @Rachel00813 3 года назад +1

      That’s very sweet🥰

  • @ericmundsinger6
    @ericmundsinger6 Год назад +1

    I commend your due diligence to keep your relationship going during covid.

  • @BadCrayons
    @BadCrayons 3 года назад +3

    Hey! New sub from the Badcrayons....
    Great video and advice. We went through some lengthy time apart as well. Its all about how much you care about your loved one, instead of yourself.
    Were at 5 years together now...
    Were moving back to the Philippines, Eastern Samar specifically. This coming March. We still need to find land yet though, so it will be awhile before we can build our house.
    Maybe you could do a video on your experience acquiring land, build permits, etc.
    Great channel. We await new content.
    Take care.. Neil & Emely

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  3 года назад

      @@BadCrayons My apologies! That response was meant for someone else.

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  3 года назад

      I hear good things about Eastern Samar but never been myself. Look for land as soon as you get there. Land cost keeps going up and rumor has it that Gods not making anymore of it lol.
      Yes that's a topic I could do. I still have videos of the other properties we looked at.

  • @johncarlson6472
    @johncarlson6472 Год назад +1

    When you said it was important to "make time for each other," I had to shake my head because many women here in the States have said they want a guy to not be predictable, i.e., don't call her every day...I was like, WTF? I understand don't text every hour every day, but I thought it was nice to contact her at least once a day. But evidently, Western women need to be put "off-balance" once in awhile so they don't get bored by your "predictability." Jesus, you can't make this stuff up.

  • @williambreeze2659
    @williambreeze2659 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for the pointers guys!

  • @RandyandMaysLifestyle
    @RandyandMaysLifestyle 2 года назад +1

    We love you guys so much! Thank you for sharing!

  • @MikeSmith-cy3gp
    @MikeSmith-cy3gp 3 года назад +2

    All great points! Just sent this to my fiancée

  • @mzkariah11
    @mzkariah11 3 года назад +3

    Hayst sana all nalang ko ani nga naay magmahal na tunay..kinsay available diha wanted here🙋🙋😂😂

  • @maylenedomingo8311
    @maylenedomingo8311 Год назад +1

    such a good couple may I know what site did you met?thank you

  • @THENEWWRANGLER
    @THENEWWRANGLER 2 года назад +1

    My girl and I got lucky we both live and work in Canada , but we will come back to the Philippines soon i hope , when the covid crap stops too so we can pass back and forth easily, great video thanks guys from Trevor and May

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  2 года назад +1

      Thank you for the positive comment. Safe travels to you my friends!

  • @FullFinnoy
    @FullFinnoy 3 года назад +2

    Basic rules of engagement. Stay safe mate.

  • @whitedragon153
    @whitedragon153 4 месяца назад +2

    Great Video.

  • @joeangel2648
    @joeangel2648 3 года назад +5

    Hello, how did you meet and how long have you been together? Shout out from San Antonio Texas. 🤠🤠🤠

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  3 года назад

      Texas and Arizona are some of my favorite states. We met September 2016 😊

  • @MrRastanatty
    @MrRastanatty 3 года назад +1

    Good video. Since you guys are married I guess tracking each other is a good thing... In a girlfriend type relationship guys don't update your gf on your every movement she need to be on her toes.

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  3 года назад +1

      Hahaha well said! Yes, if this was a video on dating it would be different tips

    • @MrRastanatty
      @MrRastanatty 3 года назад +1

      @@ItsMe_PhilippinesHaha. Excellent. Thanks

  • @sadogeee4196
    @sadogeee4196 Год назад +1

    Went long distance after living with ex for a year it was rough i became very very needy and our communication was terrible both ends but we recently started talking more a month after the breakup still dont know if we would get together but ive learned to love myself a little more and also went back to doing my hobbies so if we ever in the same continent again at least we might meetup but for now the 17hr time diffrerence and my maturity did not help us at the time.

  • @waylinnelson
    @waylinnelson 3 года назад +1

    I was curious where your wife was. Great video.

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  3 года назад +1

      She has been back with me since last August. Should have only been until March 1st

  • @thewindowguys7564
    @thewindowguys7564 Год назад

    Love the channel guys! I am in a long distance relationship as well and am considering moving to where she lives . What are the details of your 5 year plan to get ready to move to another country? U guys are awesome!!🎉

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Год назад

      Wow, that was a big plan with a lot of details. Not something I could just throw in a comment

    • @thewindowguys7564
      @thewindowguys7564 Год назад

      @@ItsMe_Philippines I bet I have been dating a amazing girl that lives in Mexico for 3 years now , and I own my own company and make decent money but really wanna get away from the stress and ultimately move there, I’m going to be 41 next week so I was like wow . We have common stories 😀

  • @kabira5324
    @kabira5324 3 года назад +1

    Hope to find someone as well🤔i been talking random guys but they are just scammers at the end after all wasting my time having sleepless night just to talk to him its frustrating.

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  3 года назад

      Just keep your head up and smile. My wife and myself also wasted time on the wrong people as well. Then we found each other 😊

  • @ProdigalNomad
    @ProdigalNomad Год назад +1

    Lovely couple. Hey brother, I have a question on sending packages to the Philippines from the states. So what's the procedure and what is the best way? What company do you recommend? Also how long does it take to get to the Philippines? Please let me know because I'm in the same situation.

  • @jokergus
    @jokergus 2 года назад +1

    Just a note , we video chat every day , if we can.

  • @chrismadrigal8088
    @chrismadrigal8088 Год назад

    How did you find each other?

  • @abcammym
    @abcammym 2 года назад +1

    Great video,,I have filipino gf,,I can't wait to go back over again

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  2 года назад +1

      Thank you. What island is she on? Hope early if in the year it opens up for you.

    • @abcammym
      @abcammym 2 года назад +1

      @@ItsMe_Philippines mindanao

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  2 года назад

      @@abcammymNice, I lived there for a year back in 200-2001. How I came to live the Philippines.

  • @dr.who2
    @dr.who2 2 года назад +1

    Lucky you are God bless

  • @donalddemo
    @donalddemo Год назад +1

    12:00 (C) " flirt and send her Woody pictures" would have loved more if you didn't edit out Rachels response. 12:32 "Of course not" :-D

  • @johnrider7826
    @johnrider7826 6 месяцев назад

    When did you all get married?

  • @TheBoxster1998
    @TheBoxster1998 Год назад

    Dude, you look like Woody Harrelson here...🤣🤣🤣

  • @iwillpro
    @iwillpro Год назад

    What did you do in US?

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Год назад +1

      Director of operations for a very large corporation.

    • @iwillpro
      @iwillpro Год назад +1

      @@ItsMe_Philippines thanks for answering, very kind

  • @robertrichards4930
    @robertrichards4930 Год назад +2

    Only do this when you're married.

  • @jimtwotowns931
    @jimtwotowns931 Год назад

    Where's the baby man, that's the only thing lacking as you have everything already, 1 missing is a little cute baby running around

  • @Enjoy51690
    @Enjoy51690 Год назад +2

    Black shirts. Black couch lol
    You guys are talking heads

  • @BIG_AL_Channel
    @BIG_AL_Channel Год назад

    He does it because Filipinos are very jealous LOL

    • @ItsMe_Philippines
      @ItsMe_Philippines  Год назад

      huh

    • @BIG_AL_Channel
      @BIG_AL_Channel Год назад +1

      @@ItsMe_Philippines what I mean is that Filippino women can be very jealous. Mine would be jealous of the females I worked with at a hospital, especially when they call me about work-related stuff.