Man Claims Fiancée’s Spending Habits Have Destroyed His Credit

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  • Опубликовано: 17 апр 2018
  • A couple in their 20’s say they’re over $60,000 in debt because one of them can’t stop spending.
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Комментарии • 94

  • @LuxeMindsetVibes
    @LuxeMindsetVibes 3 года назад +71

    She would be removed from ALL my accounts and credit cards.

    • @jaredfleming5085
      @jaredfleming5085 3 года назад +2

      Why tf would u give her that in the first place

  • @dalaynamedina8608
    @dalaynamedina8608 3 года назад +50

    Poor guy. Leave her before your in debt for the rest of your life!

    • @gwendolynosler3930
      @gwendolynosler3930 2 года назад

      And you got that right she do not really
      Care about him just her self

  • @terrancelewis8136
    @terrancelewis8136 3 года назад +36

    Why does he give her access to his accounts? Cut off the credit cards simple as that

  • @sav1922
    @sav1922 3 года назад +35

    Who is “we” bro leave

  • @elora179
    @elora179 3 года назад +21

    What a selfish woman.

  • @prachirawat6963
    @prachirawat6963 3 года назад +36

    Poor guy. Just leave her before you go bankrupt

  • @blueravenchick
    @blueravenchick 3 года назад +47

    It would be better for her to hit the gym and diet to make her feel better about herself, instead of blowing money.

    • @kristopherryanwatson
      @kristopherryanwatson 2 года назад +1

      exactly. but you would agree, the problem with most Americans is that such an endeavor like that takes effort without an immediate oayoff. so for her that is likely impossible.

  • @desireevandermei
    @desireevandermei 3 года назад +37

    How come nobody ever mentions this kind of behavior is offensive to the vast majority of people who hardly have money for food, let alone for designer bags??

    • @lvega5606
      @lvega5606 3 года назад +1

      Ethics are tricky. Would it be better to use the money to give to able-bodied people who don't work so that they can buy meat (i.e. murdered animals) to eat? 1 human life means about 10,000 animals killed for that person to consume if they are a dead body eater like most people.

    • @lindseywarren44
      @lindseywarren44 3 года назад +3

      I am being evicted because of COVID. This is hard to watch....

    • @starryskies113
      @starryskies113 Год назад

      @@lvega5606 o

  • @sharonharris9782
    @sharonharris9782 2 года назад +4

    Wtf? They're not even married and have joint bank accounts?!! Why?

  • @lindalove9008
    @lindalove9008 2 года назад +8

    He is so kind! My husband would flip out

  • @notofthisworld5267
    @notofthisworld5267 2 года назад +5

    Over shopping and constant spending is actually a sign of underlying depression.
    It most certainly can be! It fills a void, where something is missing within

    • @ibobeko4309
      @ibobeko4309 2 года назад

      I thinking the feel emptiness, the only way to compensate are those impulsive buys.

  • @ggreddy3568
    @ggreddy3568 3 года назад +8

    Really she calls him a jerk for taking out loans to pay her debt.. leave this woman..my husband would simply leave me if I behaved like that, or my marriage would be in trouble.. he is still being nice to her despite not being married., she is selfish and irresponsible in spending 1000$ after she knew he took debt to pay her loans .don’t marry this woman else she will drive you to bankruptcy..

  • @boop8849
    @boop8849 2 года назад +5

    When Dr.Phil was naming and counting all of her makeup products, he missed the perfect opportunity to add “and a partridge in a pear tree” lol

  • @cats.m.2853
    @cats.m.2853 3 года назад +6

    He should have gotten a separate account a long time ago.

  • @HersonAvalos
    @HersonAvalos 3 года назад +9

    imagine being this much of a pushover lmao

  • @lauraanderson958
    @lauraanderson958 3 года назад +12

    I don’t understand why someone would spend soo much on a purse or wallet , I spent 10 dollars on a purse and I get compliments on it ( it has black lace) and It gets dirty and messed up ( I have to wash it by hand a lot ) , I’d be terrified to carry around a purse costing more then 50 bucks lol

    • @desertgirl30
      @desertgirl30 3 года назад

      I spent close to $30 on a purse on Amazon with Christmas money and I about fainted. I love the purse, it's awesome quality and it'll last a long time but damn that still hurts me today. Haha

    • @ggreddy3568
      @ggreddy3568 3 года назад +2

      They are some luxury youtubers if you watch them spend thousands of dollars on purses..I m like if I have thousands of dollars I will keep it in my purse for any useful thing rather than spending on purse which is to meant to carry stuff at end of day.

    • @lindseywarren44
      @lindseywarren44 3 года назад

      The most I EVER spent on a purse was $180 and I have taken very good care of it. I have had it for 20+ years now. It's beautiful.

    • @notofthisworld5267
      @notofthisworld5267 2 года назад

      I just carry a thrift store backpack, lol
      It’s bigger and holds more.

  • @rayfreeman1059
    @rayfreeman1059 3 года назад +5

    She doesn't need all of these things she should return all of it

  • @july1996ful
    @july1996ful 3 года назад +6

    They’re not uncontrollable spending habits you just ran out of money to play with and now you need more

  • @Notavailableatthistime
    @Notavailableatthistime 2 года назад +1

    The way she smirks as she talks about spending money….

  • @handlingthehowards9543
    @handlingthehowards9543 3 года назад +4

    So they’re not married yet thankfully. If she can’t change her spending habits I definitely would not stay the knot

  • @nicolemann7092
    @nicolemann7092 3 года назад +5

    I'd break up with her

  • @matty2time
    @matty2time 2 года назад +5

    She isn't even good looking lmao she don't need expensive clothes

  • @bhavnams5540
    @bhavnams5540 3 года назад +9

    eh she forgot to mention she spending money on food as well

    • @firstnamelastname-vt6et
      @firstnamelastname-vt6et 3 года назад +1

      she’s obviously not spending too much on food if this is what they’re bringing up. stop trying to shame people for their weight

    • @pengwen3582
      @pengwen3582 3 года назад +1

      @@firstnamelastname-vt6et I think they’re only saying that Bc in a lot of older pics she was a lot smaller

    • @lvega5606
      @lvega5606 3 года назад +3

      I have a feeling that both the money spending and weight gain are symptoms of a primary problem.

    • @stuff1784
      @stuff1784 3 года назад

      LMAO

  • @Michael-hb4wc
    @Michael-hb4wc 3 года назад +5

    Send 'em to Dave Ramsey!

  • @katlynw6279
    @katlynw6279 3 года назад +2

    He looks like stingy from Lazy Town

  • @BooImmaGhost
    @BooImmaGhost 2 года назад +1

    My fiance and I aren't rich but it sure is nice to be able to turn the AC or heat on whenever I please without worrying about the cost on the electric bill. No one will think you're rich or fancy when the electric or water company comes to turn your utilities off

  • @andrewf7781
    @andrewf7781 3 года назад +1

    Run as far away as possible

  • @domjones_who3849
    @domjones_who3849 3 года назад +1

    ALL JOKES ASIDE...IF A HUMAN DOES NOT AF "VALUE" TO YOUR LIFE...THEN YOU DEVALUE YOURSELF!!!

  • @Sushiyoda
    @Sushiyoda 20 дней назад

    Run! She can’t catch you

  • @kellyvasquez9807
    @kellyvasquez9807 2 года назад +1

    How about weight loss???

  • @EPSGplayer
    @EPSGplayer 2 года назад

    Boy he sure settled with her… lol

  • @kathvinson9594
    @kathvinson9594 3 года назад +1

    go Dr Phil

  • @mahalaksmi1
    @mahalaksmi1 2 года назад +1

    I don't spend my husband money even 1$
    I control myself

  • @shawnsmith8487
    @shawnsmith8487 2 года назад

    Could u imagine if this was the other way round

  • @andredaking2037
    @andredaking2037 3 года назад +10

    He should've done something sooner

  • @Bibblesupremacy1992
    @Bibblesupremacy1992 2 года назад +1

    I love make up and if I had the money I would definitely spend that much but when you’re taking someone else’s money it’s not Okay

    • @elora179
      @elora179 2 года назад

      Called a ‘relationship’. What bull huh?

  • @maryf.7041
    @maryf.7041 7 месяцев назад

    This chick's just a greedy fiend! She could care less about the damage shes doing to him! Shes wrecking his entire future!She's trying to look pretty by buying it! WITH HIS MONEY! Kick her to the curb cause she's using you hard-core!😢

  • @wobbyenna
    @wobbyenna 2 года назад

    Not married yet run, run far far away

  • @virginianewman7738
    @virginianewman7738 2 года назад

    leave her now !!!!!

  • @geethapapa
    @geethapapa Год назад

    Why does she need so much make up and bags ? Can’t she save her money. Have a few nice items and use them

  • @boop8849
    @boop8849 2 года назад

    dude. RUN.

  • @mateovation4689
    @mateovation4689 3 года назад +21

    Hes gonna be broke and have a land whale for a wife. Winning!!!😂

  • @joannapebbleworthy9343
    @joannapebbleworthy9343 2 года назад

    She would have done much better to invest in sports apparel and a gym membership. Both are blatantly lacking.

  • @Junitunes
    @Junitunes 2 года назад

    Wow he’s so attractive too, way out of her league in many ways.

  • @ivorypoacherplays
    @ivorypoacherplays 2 года назад

    May as well spend every last dime and makes sense she is depressed and eating and this makes her happy

  • @lovingsunshine3515
    @lovingsunshine3515 2 года назад

    If he stayed with her, then he’s an idiot. They’re not married and have no kids I assumed. If I were him, I’d run now!

  • @thegoodsathome
    @thegoodsathome 9 дней назад

    LEAVE HER!!!! If you think going to Dr Phil is going to change her behavior you couldn't be more wrong!!! I caught my wife doing this #3 times and finally enough was enough. Of course she has since remarried and is over 100k in debt.
    You're not married so get out while you can and just remember this life-altering experience with the next girl.

  • @traneseboles5791
    @traneseboles5791 2 года назад

    And you still decided to be with her? Boy you fool

  • @GirlsNDragons
    @GirlsNDragons 6 месяцев назад

    If you’re buying makeup and purses with a credit card, nobody is impressed lol It just shows you’re broke.

  • @susanh1447
    @susanh1447 Год назад

    Hon, designer bags are not $3-400. They are thousands. You should get happy in the real world, you aren’t impressing anyone.

  • @gracehatcher4591
    @gracehatcher4591 3 года назад +2

    The comment section is open

  • @Razmataz_
    @Razmataz_ 2 года назад

    She’s low on powder and designer watches

  • @vickykessels6358
    @vickykessels6358 10 месяцев назад +1

    I have a shopping addiction too and i always will be an addict, but i haven't bought anything useless for 60 days. I learned what triggers me and that shopping does not make me happy.
    I totally get her about the rush that she gets from shopping. I had the same feeling, but when you're item arrives all you feel is emptiness. And i din't want this anymore. It sucked. And let me tell you one thing: shopping addicts are NOT happy.

  • @MyHeart1955
    @MyHeart1955 2 года назад

    Mateo, he’s as much to blame for allowing it as she is for doing it. I know a couple who did the same thing. However, when you turn 60 you start getting smart - that couple, us, me and mine. Debt free and ready for retirement. Believe me hubby just as much to blame.

  • @christine3941
    @christine3941 3 года назад +7

    This infuriates me! First of all, lose a lot of weight before you become a whale since you don’t feel good about yourself! Second of all, go see a doctor for this behavior! Third of all, ask yourself why you need it and what you’ll do with it!!! Fourth of all, to the man, leave her! She doesn’t learn and it’s going to continue and put you more in debt! Maybe him leaving her will teach her a lesson! She’s burning his money and hers and maybe if she’s on her own she would think twice before spending too much on herself.

  • @TheWhitetailrancher
    @TheWhitetailrancher Год назад

    I know I am going to seem like a complete jerk, But I would say that most or all of her problems are caused by her obesity. Most of the time, not always, obese people are VERY unhappy people that have an addiction to food no different than a heroin addict has an addiction to the drug. She is trying to escape her life. But spending money on clothes * to make her appearance better make up to make her appearance better, expensive jewelry to enhance her appearance. well sister two phrases come to mind 1) ya can't make a silk purse from a sow's ear and throwing pearls before swine. Neigher of them work. Get fit, get in shape, learn self-control, and everything in your entire life will be much better! That being said, I honestly can't think of someone that is much more fun that a happy fat person to be around. I used to weigh 150 pounds more than I do today. That was one year ago. No surgery, no weight loss magic potions, to be completely hones no increase in physical exercise or even going to a gym once. Never picked up heavy stuff just to put it down again. Didn't take up walking, running, rowing, ZERO cardio. in fact, I am in a wheelchair. No one will ever convince me they cannot lose weight. such a notion is as ridiculous as hey can't control their emotions. it's simply called making good choices not matter the short term uncomfortable "side effects".

    • @eustab.anas-mann9510
      @eustab.anas-mann9510 Год назад

      It's a big urban legend that losing weight is mainly achieved by exercise. It's 90% diet and perhaps 10% exercise at most.

  • @eustab.anas-mann9510
    @eustab.anas-mann9510 Год назад

    Capitalism in a nutshell.

  • @jaredfleming5085
    @jaredfleming5085 3 года назад +2

    Lols he gives his credit card to a woman

  • @starryskies113
    @starryskies113 Год назад

    I’m