Destiny Moderates MrGirl vs Lav Debate (Gaslighting, Boundaries, Abuse)

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  • Опубликовано: 22 июл 2024
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    ►Timestamps:
    00:00 - Watching Mrgirl Call-in Show w/LavenderLunee (Gaslighting and Abuse)
    29:45 - Quick advice to LavenderLunee
    49:50 - Critiquing MrGirl
    01:09:43 - Talking w/LavenderLunee (Mrgirl, Streaming)
    01:34:40 - Women
    01:37:00 - Talking w/MrGirl (LlavenderLunee, Boundaries)
    01:57:28 - Destiny moderates a Debate between MrGirl and LlavenderLunee
    ►Date: 12 jun, 2022
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Комментарии • 131

  • @jakecalhoun5187
    @jakecalhoun5187 2 месяца назад +4

    The beginning of the end started here.

    • @Asilaysheepless
      @Asilaysheepless 2 месяца назад

      Haha foreal though

    • @shiiswii4136
      @shiiswii4136 10 дней назад

      disagree with destiny = eventually pushed out of the community, and the narrative of it will be that you "stabbed destiny in the back" rofl. dgg cant handle destiny losing so they turn on anyone who beats him in a debate

  • @KHJohan
    @KHJohan Год назад +98

    Hours of mrgirl and some lady not understanding basic human interaction

    • @connor4169
      @connor4169 Год назад +14

      Truly a woman moment here. She never adds anything to any debate/panel she touches

    • @romnesia7729
      @romnesia7729 Год назад +9

      @@connor4169
      Pretty sure Mr. Girl is a man, even though he's named "Mr. Girl."

    • @ryanwbourquin
      @ryanwbourquin 7 месяцев назад

      @@romnesia7729yeah no shit thats what a Mr is..like Mr
      green os a man but not green.

    • @tombombadil-ej7lf
      @tombombadil-ej7lf 27 дней назад +1

      its hilarious looking at these comments from parasocial video game audiences not knowing how normal these conversations actually are between people who are talking about long and deep relationships. anytime anything is slightly uncomfortable dgg resorts to npc takes like "this is like two robots talking to each other"

  • @unimpressedalchemist
    @unimpressedalchemist Год назад +24

    Had this on in the background and forgot this was a Destiny "reaction" video until 6 minutes in when he says "uh oh".

  • @squirrel1331
    @squirrel1331 Год назад +96

    I love it when Mr girls actions contradict his stated principles and motivations

    • @user-uq4gr5nl5o
      @user-uq4gr5nl5o Год назад

      You can see his brain short circuiting lol

    • @ataridc
      @ataridc Год назад

      you are filled with hate demon squirrel

    • @dylankempthorne
      @dylankempthorne Год назад +3

      Not defending him but what did he contradict?

    • @cybersteampunk191
      @cybersteampunk191 Год назад +10

      @@dylankempthorneI think in one of his first interviews with destiny he stated that he despised the confrontational/angry conversations being had online about topics and wanted to lower the temperature. His main thing was spreading empathy and being empathetic of other people.

    • @doobas2171
      @doobas2171 Год назад +1

      @@cybersteampunk191 yeah but his main thing is also setting boundaries for yourself

  • @mydroogies5529
    @mydroogies5529 Год назад +58

    A conversation between a recovering narcissist (mrgirl) and a newly formed one (lav)

    • @onlyuseful6962
      @onlyuseful6962 Год назад +5

      In what ways has he shown himself to be recovering?

    • @mydroogies5529
      @mydroogies5529 Год назад +7

      @@onlyuseful6962 *pending recovery

    • @doobas2171
      @doobas2171 Год назад +1

      He’s a recovering people pleaser, him setting boundaries is not narcissistic

    • @onlyuseful6962
      @onlyuseful6962 Год назад +5

      @@doobas2171 Heh, right. I know he's said that, but if you believe that dude has ever tried to please anyone other than himself, you're gullible as hell.

    • @shiiswii4136
      @shiiswii4136 10 дней назад

      dgg whenever someones disagreeing with destiny: bridge burning yayyy. meanwhile they blame the bridges that have been burnt on the other person, not on DGG or destiny. this cult is hilarious to watch

  • @kobitz9001
    @kobitz9001 Год назад +18

    2:55:06-2:56:23 the moment Destiny actually tells Mr.Girl wtf his problem is.

  • @paddlingcat1339
    @paddlingcat1339 Год назад +23

    I keep watching 3:05:45 to hear Destiny scream "Shut the fuck up. I'm a big boy, okay?"

  • @rubssi8741
    @rubssi8741 Год назад +21

    I was actually losing my mind at the amount of cutting off from Mr. Girl. The amount of talking towards the end has to be 65% Mr. Girl, 25% Destiny and 10% Lav.

    • @doobas2171
      @doobas2171 Год назад

      Because she’s a slippery and scatterbrained debater

  • @ultraviolenc3
    @ultraviolenc3 Год назад +33

    It was the perfect example of pseudo intellectual talk.

  • @opiumaddict8693
    @opiumaddict8693 Год назад +43

    im a black guy

  • @VinnieGer
    @VinnieGer Год назад

    That piano work is straight up bumpin’. So happy it returned this debate.

  • @FondestAlloy56
    @FondestAlloy56 Год назад +7

    Wow this months episode of "Mrgirl yells at a woman and Destiny helps after" was pretty good can't wait for next month 😀 😊 😭

  • @ant7891
    @ant7891 Год назад +7

    I usually side with MrGirl at least a little bit but he just comes off as extremely uninterested in actually trying to understand what Lav is saying here. The dude is practically arguing with himself half the time.

    • @deckleberry
      @deckleberry Год назад

      Because that would be a waste of time.

  • @Tabnito
    @Tabnito Год назад +3

    I watched it all, and have no idea what just happened. I was working and playing games and all that, so I didn't have my attention fully on it, but there were parted where I just tried to focus and I just...What is happening.

  • @yellowknite9
    @yellowknite9 Год назад +23

    Lav and Brittney are both cringe, Dan is still based

  • @classypotato9255
    @classypotato9255 Год назад +6

    Incredibly interesting seeing mrgirl's narrative about Lav vompletely chsnge

  • @byronbraddock
    @byronbraddock 9 месяцев назад +1

    I'm not a Lav fan at all but when they said she was more aggressive than Max, I disagree. I think she was just more aggressive than they were expecting.

  • @OmniUniv
    @OmniUniv Год назад +6

    And born in 1999 yet she says she not a zoomer I swear cry some more

  • @GeetardHD
    @GeetardHD Год назад +16

    God what an absolutely horrible conversation. Mrgirl calls having hope: "trying to keep an iron grip". And after that whole fucking conversation, that feels incredibly telling.

  • @Aya..19
    @Aya..19 Год назад +2

    God this conversation was fucking exhausting.

  • @christopherwillson
    @christopherwillson Год назад +3

    As much as a mess as this was I think it's a work of art

  • @backtonovember5306
    @backtonovember5306 Год назад +2

    Ohhhhh mannnn this aged wonderfully

  • @DavidFregoli
    @DavidFregoli Год назад

    where does the debate start?

  • @alexanderfrench9236
    @alexanderfrench9236 Месяц назад

    The hilarious thing is that MrGirl is dead right on his read of Lav. And Steve missed it, not fully tracking the initial conversation. He does also correctly read MrGirl later in his feed back. And because he is right about MrGirl's excesses he incorrectly determined that MrGirl was wrong about Lav.

  • @nwgverified
    @nwgverified Год назад +3

    Mrgirl derailing these convos on purpose i swear

  • @ericspoor8175
    @ericspoor8175 Год назад

    Toppest content

  • @MrAndyCretin
    @MrAndyCretin Год назад +2

    Mrgirl should just date Lav.

  • @vladimir.mishel
    @vladimir.mishel Год назад +1

    "Channel update: 💔"
    :(

  • @xilofone8166
    @xilofone8166 Год назад +9

    ok i always liked mr girl through destiny, never went into his stuff
    but this time he clearly lost, you can even tell at times he loses himself by himself
    he always impressed me and proved somehow he was never wrong, if you try to interpret what hes saying but this time he was 100% unfair and maniacal

    • @romnesia7729
      @romnesia7729 Год назад +3

      Why did you like him? What do people find interesting about him?

    • @xilofone8166
      @xilofone8166 Год назад +1

      what dont you
      hes infinitely sincere and has the most unexpected thinking process

    • @romnesia7729
      @romnesia7729 Год назад +3

      @@xilofone8166
      He's incredibly bad faith. He never admits when he's wrong, and he never extends olive branches. He has absolutely infuriating double standards, where he gets to talk as long as he wants about absolutely nothing without interruption, but the moment someone talks, he jumps in like a prick.
      I swear, the only people that genuinely enjoy MrGirl's are terminally online, borderline inçels

    • @xilofone8166
      @xilofone8166 Год назад +1

      well you clearly doesnt get it

    • @romnesia7729
      @romnesia7729 Год назад +4

      @@xilofone8166
      Great explanation. And great grammar, from a typical mrgirl fan

  • @playcations
    @playcations Год назад +2

    2:55:23 Well this didn't age well.

  • @righteousrawb7225
    @righteousrawb7225 5 месяцев назад

    1:58:00 + 3:30:59

  • @StFido
    @StFido Год назад +15

    This convo really went off the rails. I felt bad for lav by the end.

    • @onlyuseful6962
      @onlyuseful6962 Год назад +9

      I feel bad for anyone that has ever had a conversation with Mr. Girl.

    • @wartortise3599
      @wartortise3599 Год назад +4

      I feel bad for Lav every time I see her, she's not a debater and it actually hurts to watch

    • @ataridc
      @ataridc Год назад +16

      @@wartortise3599 She is literally forcing herself into these conversations. Why does anyone feel bad for her?

    • @thepubquiz3198
      @thepubquiz3198 Год назад +4

      @@ataridc Having these debate's/conversations on streams is obviously something she wants to pursue, but she's new to it, and she's kind of throwing herself into the deep end, as this opportunity has presented itself to her.
      If you saw a young basketball player, playing their first game, and struggling a little bit with the pressure, can you not feel bad for them ?
      And then throw into the mix the opposing team arguably not playing fairly, and that makes the young basketball player appear like a bad player to some fans, can you not feel bad for them ?

    • @doobas2171
      @doobas2171 Год назад

      @@thepubquiz3198 not playing fairly? Please, Mr white knight, how was max not playing fair ?

  • @MO-zk8qs
    @MO-zk8qs 8 месяцев назад

    3:17:56 in retrospect, removing all the disaster that surrounded Lav and mrgirl, Mrgirl was right here. There is a difference and destiny refused to accept it for some reason

  • @OmniUniv
    @OmniUniv Год назад +1

    Ok sorry she doesn’t get fucking bullied sorry but someone that got everything handed to them and one convo where someone does agree with them they scream victim

  • @Lemonteaxi
    @Lemonteaxi Год назад +8

    Seems pretty clear Mr. Girl came out on top here.

  • @PoorEdward
    @PoorEdward Год назад

    55:00 thats what he did with brittany though

  • @HostileTakeover555
    @HostileTakeover555 Год назад +8

    Ugh this girl is unbearable. He’s providing content and entertainment and she’s blathering on and on. He was right to tell her to get to the point. She’s so self absorbed.

  • @RachelGerrard
    @RachelGerrard Год назад +1

    When nerds have relationships

  • @bozilla1996
    @bozilla1996 Год назад +2

    I hate when MrG cusses it always feels forced like hey I'm cussing I added emphasis and said it Abit louder so focus on me and what I'm saying I just wanna make fun of him about it 😂

    • @SBF-qv9jd
      @SBF-qv9jd Год назад

      Holy fuck, this is exactly how I feel. I've always wondered what the fuck it was. Thanks

  • @Rallylabs
    @Rallylabs Год назад +6

    Oh my god there’s a female version of him.

    • @MrAndyCretin
      @MrAndyCretin Год назад +2

      Mrsboy

    • @doobas2171
      @doobas2171 Год назад +1

      That’s insulting to him, lav would wish to be as smart as him

  • @BanditoRios
    @BanditoRios Год назад +1

    3:05:46 IM BIG BOY

  • @craigos1983
    @craigos1983 2 месяца назад +1

    I haven’t seen one video where Max is talking that doesn’t dissolve into talking about how they’re going to talk about things and breaking down what the other person did when saying something. It’s mind numbing.

  • @thescarygary
    @thescarygary Год назад +12

    No one owes anyone sex. It's not abusive to deny sex.

    • @amazin7006
      @amazin7006 Год назад

      It is abusive to use it as a tool of coercion
      and more importantly, a society where sex can only be had through coercion or self-sacrifice is doomed to fail. A society full of incels will collapse on itself from hypergamy

    • @thescarygary
      @thescarygary Год назад +1

      @@amazin7006 If someone manipulates me, I'm not having sex with them. How I feel matters just as much as anyone else. What does any of this have to do with incels?

    • @StFido
      @StFido Год назад +11

      It’s not necessarily about owing anyone sex, it’s more about using sex as a weapon. If you say something like “if you do this I’m not going to have sex with you”, or use it as a reward for good behavior that’s pretty toxic.
      Sex should be something you do because you want to not something you use to get what you want out of someone.

    • @thescarygary
      @thescarygary Год назад

      @@StFido I agree. If someone is scream crying in their office I'm not going to be interested in doing anything with them. That's just me.

    • @StFido
      @StFido Год назад +3

      That’s understandable but if you were to be like “if you keep crying we’re not having sex for a week” that’s a huge problem IMO.

  • @OmniUniv
    @OmniUniv Год назад +1

    Don’t even really like girl that much but honest do think this girl is ok with playing bull crap games with words all the time daddy didn’t hand you every waaaa

  • @joncolumbino744
    @joncolumbino744 Год назад

    3:05:00

  • @saheerumar2443
    @saheerumar2443 Год назад +5

    i still don’t get how people haven’t figured out Mrgirl’s whole grift. it’s a character. the goal of this character is to draw out conversations as long as humanly possible. it generates both outrage and content. it’s a win-win. that’s it. thats the grift. why people take anything he says seriously baffles me, daily

  • @annablabka8653
    @annablabka8653 Год назад

    This is worse than a soap-opera

  • @milkcatdog394
    @milkcatdog394 Год назад

    Second 🤘🏻

  • @TheEccentricPoet
    @TheEccentricPoet Год назад +9

    Val: "I'm afraid of being you like you're afraid of being Stephen Crowder." and later, "I watched your discord and everyone obliterate you after your doll review, and I was like how can everyone not think Shaelin is the problem, and then I realized, Ohhh, I get it now- I'm the actual problem."
    Yes, Val, you and Max are the problem. I at least have a disgust vs interest, and so a kind of love vs hate, reaction to watching Max in that arena I suppose, but to you I took such an immediate and intense hatred I've never felt before, in all of my 46 years. It was hate at first sight, and now I have full blown Val derangement syndrome. To have you go away from any online spaces we have in common would be my beautiful dream.
    I hate how nakedly manipulative you are, how clearly abusive you are (your poor fiance, my God - blink twice for help, sir, if you actually exist and are not just a lie she made up), I hate how you manipulatively use therapy speak to justify your behaviors, which is anathema to me, since my soulmate and husband of 28 years is bipolar and so I hold therapy in reverence.
    I hate how you aggressively chirp out radfem formulae with virtually no nuance, while simultaneously hiding behind it when it suits you as a shield from criticism, and also to hide your general pleasure in manipulating. I hate the skin-crawling gleeful and playful tone you use while doing your manipulating.
    You're a sick sick person and if it came out that if someone found bodies in your basement and asked me, "can you believe that?" I would reply, "yes. That she would turn out to be a modern day Countess Bathory to is in no way surprising to me..."

    • @onlyuseful6962
      @onlyuseful6962 Год назад +2

      I kinda like her. Heh.

    • @MrEWaKid
      @MrEWaKid Год назад +3

      Homie I think you might just be MrGirl obsessed.

    • @doctor_who5203
      @doctor_who5203 Год назад

      @@TheEccentricPoet You are actually schizophrenic

    • @MrEWaKid
      @MrEWaKid Год назад +3

      ​@@TheEccentricPoet Maybe chill with the pseudo-intellectual videos for a bit I think it's getting to your head.

    • @MrEWaKid
      @MrEWaKid Год назад +3

      @@TheEccentricPoet Why did you say you have impressive achievements and then list things your husband has done?

  • @chuck9483
    @chuck9483 Год назад

    A conversation between two Jews trying to one up each other like this is something to behold.

  • @fffoolishnomore3834
    @fffoolishnomore3834 Год назад

    That's anal but probably necessary when deeling with Internet fan girls, "keep notes incase I'm dealing with a sociopath and I need proof in the near future."

  • @sigmundsigma6888
    @sigmundsigma6888 Год назад

    Third

  • @watcheem
    @watcheem Год назад

    First

  • @manuelantuna26
    @manuelantuna26 Год назад

    More like SIMPstiny... Amirite guys? lol

  • @aricmoen8955
    @aricmoen8955 4 месяца назад

    Buldshieldd

  • @dominiks5068
    @dominiks5068 Год назад +2

    Destiny strawmanned mrgirl so hard.

    • @Azraelmaximilian
      @Azraelmaximilian Год назад +2

      Destiny's Child man-strawed my girlfriend so hard

  • @klabauther
    @klabauther Год назад +1

    I smell mansplaining