WIFE PLEADS WITH HER HUSBAND'S SIDE CHICK ! LET HIM COME HOME AS SHE HAS JUST GIVEN BIRTH. HEARTLESS
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Some of us were the loneliest during our marriages, no one is lonelier than a mother married to the wrong man.
Hmmmmm, say it again ,at anytime you get on with a wrong man as a woman, including the person damaging herself holding a 'husband 'ransome
Been there done that worst pain
Amen!
Bingo! I was so lonely.
Mundu wa Nyumba you have said it all 😍
Her HUSBAND is the one who owes her LOYALTY and FIDELITY. There is NO WAY I would be out here BEGGING another woman to send my husband home like he is a child that’s been kidnapped. I would send his bags right on over to his new address. I feel for the wife. She is in pain, but her HUSBAND is the one AT FAULT! That is a FULL GROWN MAN with a mind of his own. HE left his family. Even if the mistress tells him he can’t stay that doesn’t mean he will go back home. This is just sad. Women always place GREATER blame on the OTHER woman and let the man off the hook.
I just said the same thing some women have no self respect
AgreedIndeed💔
Exactly
Yesss!!! Exactly my rant. I'm so over it. Everything is a woman's fault. All the damn time. it's exhausting!!!
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I tolerated 8 years of relationship insanity and once it was done, my heart felt so much lighter. Being single is sooooooo much better for my mental health. I am free!!!
I am on my way there....
I wish I had known 😮😢
My note to women.
1. Find yourself before you decide to go down the marriage line.
2. Dear woman, you must have seen the signs. Please stop getting pregnant for him and take good care of yourself
3. Marriage is not an achievement, but a ministry. It is not mandatory too.
4. When he returns, kindly have a conversation and have try to settle and decide whether to flee or solve the issues.
5. Women, we need to do better who we allow to 'father' our children.
6. A man's is more than a sperm donor. He is a protector, show lead and be accountable to you as his spouse.
7. Dear Wife, do better for your sanity.
8. Take good care of yourself.
9. You need to find yourself. Self discovery and self identity.
10. You are loved.
Dear woman and men, let's marry right.
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Love love love this comment ❤😘
I give her a little grace because I'm sure she is more emotional because she just had a baby. However, I can assure you that I would never, ever beg for a man. I would never give a man that satisfaction - you can have him. I agree with you Fumi
"This is not a marriage. This is a circus!" Fumi is preaching on this good Sunday. 💯
Having watched the whole of the video, I shake my head and remain amazed that women keep blaming or wanting to fight the woman in their husband’s life. We come from a polygamous society so you are not chasing your husband so attack the girlfriend instead. The girlfriend that laughed at you with the same husband and then blocked you?? It does nothing to change the situation. At all at all.
If your man goes to another woman, especially at your time of need, he is no longer yours and no amount of pleading will change this, so time to pull up your self esteem, pray for strength and great health and focus on YOUR CHILDREN. It’s not easy, nothing great ever easy, but us aunties out here will tell you, wipe your tears and get off the internet. This will not bring him back. If anything, go and speak to his family. Not that will change the disrespectful behaviour.
Couldn't agree with you more! She should not begging him and put her business on the Internet on top! Just let him go
It’s definitely not easy, then again most things worth having are not. Pain can drive desperation and the shock can cause poor decision making, plus she’s post partum…once the fog clears. She will see she has been BLESSED to be freed from such a treacherous man and that low life of a woman has just let a demon enter her life-don’t cry when it’s your turn o! Remember how big and bold you felt when you laughed at another woman’s pain.
I'm just here trying so very hard to imagine myself taking my phone, putting it at the right angle and spot, pressing play, then off I go....begging, crying, inserting bible verses here and there, shaming and cursing another woman, all because an ADULT man DECIDED to leave me and went where his HEART DESIRES. MAY THIS KIND OF SELF DISRESPECT NEVER LOCATE ME!
"What you tolerate, you indirectly encourage" ... that is powerful 👏🏽 🙌🏻 👌🏽...
Have little room for men behaving badly.
Love and honor thyself.
And God will honor You.
What you tolerate will continue.. Am nit begging NO MAN. Bye
OMG! Im blown away by the desperation of the women.
Wow, they really think a man can rescue them from themselves? No one can rescue you from you.
Auntie Fumi, (even though I'm older than you) I just love your wisdom. Your husband, so quiet and unassuming, was so attracted to your radiant personality, that he married you and is now raising a family that was only in his dreams!...and vice versa! You are the epitome of class and self confidence. What man, worth his grain of salt, wouldn't be attracted to such a woman? Kudos to your husband for realizing your worth. BTW, I saw your wedding video a few years back. I just cried.
He did this to me , I just gave birth to our baby C section and still in hospital. He went to stay with his side chick. He friend brought me home no light at home with a new born baby. 25 and years later it’s still fresh in my mind and made me STRONGER
I pray that you left him there and moved on...😢😢
What did you do after?
@@delaholland6848 They are still Husband and wife
She didn’t kidnap him. Dear sweet wife he is with the side chick because he wants to be and he is laughing at with her to see you begging for him like that. You deserve better dear.
Why did i feel this in my soul!!!! I was screaming in my car. I feel so sad for the poor woman in distress who needs to wake up and turn to her Maker. My sister, will you address all his side chics???
I needed this. You are now my accountability partner.
Can’t wait for your shape-wear.
*That quote in the beginning is EVERYTHING!!🔥🔥🔥🔥*
Spoke to me on so many levels
That woman crying was embarassing
Amen, said it LOUDER Auntie Fumi!
Thank you for being brave enough and speaking the truth.
This is degrading!
I gain weight every where too, working on getting rid of the extra weight like you did Fumi.. you're an inspiration
WOW. Why is that woman talking to the other woman instead of her no good husband. WOW. And Mrs. Fumi you know that mistress cares nothing about the wife. Mrs. Fumi, your assessment and advice of this situation is spot on as usual. That’s why I Love You, because you tell us the truth. Thank you ❤❤😊😊
Auntie Fumi, thank you once again for your deep insight. When one tells them things like this in Nigeria, they brand you too western and call me all sorts of names. Living and loving oneself is the real reason for living and not marriage.
We’re both on our hair journey of “growth” and taking extra care of her! I love that retro pic too! ✨
Fumi, you are a great therapist ❤
There is no way I would ever beg another woman to “send” my man back. If he left, stay where you are but you could never come back to me!!!
LOVE THE DRESS. I CANNOT WAIT FOR THAT SHAPEWEAR TO COME OUT FUMI, IT IS A NEEDED ITEM IN MY WARDROBE.
Crying on social media, talking about being single at 39 and saying you would marry any man 😢 is so sad to me.
The other lady crying to the other lady to let her husband go is a joke. I mean, how stiff can you fall?😪 sad.
What does she mean "release him"? The guy is not in jail
Exactly my point too
Its the husband who went after the lady
Probably he might even lied to her about so many things…
Mrs, go after your husband and his family
But on the more serious note
if am the one the woman called and spoken to i will sack this man immediate immediately
I will never laugh with him together and stand against his wife
What happens if he picks up another woman?
@@monicarivers7769exactly
Jail.😂😂😂😂😂
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This poor wife who just had a baby- her hormones are still out of whack causing her to be extremely emotional. I pray "wifey" realizes if/when the tramp releases him, he'll find another one. Wifey needs to get stronger and move on❤❤❤
This is so tragic...I felt so embarrassed, upset and sorrowful for both of the women. Don't EVER plead like this for ANY man for any reason. HE is an adult and he made his decisions. Lean on your family and friends if you must and may GOD be with you!
It is the husband she should be calling out. He has not been kidnapped he wants to be there. Your husband has done a runner on a wife and his children. May God judge him may it be so severe. He is evil. Yes the mistress is evil as well. My sis stop embarrassing yourself like that, crying and weeping on social media he does not love you...
Beautiful fumi and the dress is absolutely stunning . Timeless
You are beautiful Fumi
The man is a baby husband and he does not deserve her tears.
I love you Auntie Fumi 💕
I swear. These modern day problems sound like skits😮😂
Unfortunately these problems are as old as time. People just didn't share back in the day. But I agree. I think it's a skit for attention
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It really sounds like a skit....a bad skit.
Skit or not, this issues has been happening for generationS. _Poppa was a rolling stone. Wherever he laid his hat was his home_ 🎶 1972 The Temptations
Honestly
I can't wait for the shapewear to come out. These limousines will be up up to the roof.
Single life is one of the best lives. I'm 67 single all my life and I love every minute of it. Take time to learn about yourself , what you can and cannot tolerate. Discoverd that marrage was not for me. LOVE ME 1ST, LOVE ME 2ND AND WHAT IS LEFT OVER, LOVE ME AGAIN.
Love this
I loved the way you’ve explained beautiful
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Good afternoon sister Fumi. I cannot agree more with you that karma is real. What makes the side chick think she is so special. It is definitely coming back to haunt that girl. And yes, why is she begging that husband to come back. If he wanted to come home, he would. let him go, take your coins. Take care of your kids live your life and forget about him. He will continue to cheat.love you sister Fumi you are always on point.
In as much as the side chick has her own faults, In most cases, side chicks are there for the benefits, most of these men aren't so great, its the perks that they come with that the side chicks wanna hang on to and the difference between a lot of side chicks and wife is that the side chicks are clear about how useless these men are so they don't commit by getting pregnant. The Man is truly useless for putting his family in such a situation. The Wife is even more foolish to keep getting pregnant for such a man even though she is married to him.
It’s a pity for women to feel they can live without a man! I have been married twice, am in my 60’s and refuse to tolerate nonsense!! I will wait until God sends someone up to my standards! In the mean time … I’m enjoying my singleness!! Fumi you ALWAYS say exactly what I would say and I love you!!❤❤❤
Even if she wasn’t happy in her marriage; that woman doesn’t care. Not about herself,kids.. not even about HIM. She just wants her marriage. Even if that man can shout from the top of his lungs. She wouldn’t hear a thing. As long as she has a husband; doesn’t matter how he treats her.
I agree with you, I know a lot of people think that American women think their value lies in marriage when I watch a lot of African movies the woman glorifies in idolize marriage even if they have an insufferable husband like this woman does
The main woman and the side chick are both enabling the man,so he's enjoying the game,he's playing them both
Exactly like how do they let these men get so much options huh.some Women 🙄
You look Fabulous Ms. Fumesi!! I'm still working to get back to where I was as well😊
This is hard to watch😢. Karma is real. It may take years sometimes weeks to happen but it does happen. No need for her to abuse the other woman.
Your shapewear business journey is so inspirational. Keep going!!! I had an idea for silk head wraps (back in the day before it became popular) and I remember having differences with the people sewing the product. I still use my head wraps to this day. I wish I had kept going. I pray that your product becomes a great success🙏🏽
@11:49 Aunty Fumi spitting facts. I never understood the mentality of having more babies for a husband that is cheating on you. Most women fall into this state of mind where they think they must compete with the mistress. And in all honesty you look foolish. You are speaking truth Aunty.
10:15 Auntie is preaching!!
Fumi i totally agree with your reasoning on this matter..we need to be focus on our choices that we make
😂😂😂suitcases without wheels. Aunty Fumi you never cease to make me laugh😂😂😂
Wow you spoke those words loud/bold so clear with confidence and wisdom so much so you've gained a subscriber. Your words are sharp and sound at the same time. Reminds me so much of my grandparents. Your advices will help others out there so much going through life difficulties. These words are the hardest truth but one that encourages a greater life for oneself! Thank you darling!
I think she was overwhelmed with emotions and the pain of giving birth, and sleepless nights. I hope she is ok.
Aunty spitting wisdom
THANK YOU MAMA!!!! ❤
as a 22 yrs old it is safe to say self love will save you as a woman, women who don't put themselves in a pedestal will 4ever go thru it
Preach Fumi, preach.
And even if she wasn't financially stable before, she still can.
Let us as females learn to love and respect ourselves and stop ✋️ in the name of Jesus, begging men to stay with us.
I feel so sorry for the second women. The one who was saying I need someone please marry me. 😢😢😢
Livingggggg and loving the dress my sis❤❤❤❤❤ The tantalising mentions of the shape wear???? Eh I can’t wait for Spring and fashion show.
As usual..analysis and recommendations true indeed Ms. Fumes.
Wifee should be addressing husband never the mistress and if in this situation hubby gets the boot..not worth a penny.
FUMI!!!! 😂 I know it's not a laughing matter at all. It's really very sad. But I'm a 60 y/o black American female. I felt everything you said. Sometimes growing up and maturing helps in these situations. Sometimes it's a personality issue. I can't say I was ever in that desperate need of a man. I do admit to being young and dumb. Fortunately I grew up. I truly pray for those women. But you tickled me! 😂
I needed this. You are now my accountability partner.
This is sad! Great advice!
Can’t wait for your shape-wear.
When the other women let him go he will just find another one lady! Fumi you are correct on all fronts!
You look fabulous as usual, Fumi! Thanks for modeling health for us. We can't wait for the shapeware from a source we can trust. The other woman is never the problem. She just identifies the real, expendable problem in your life.
Kelly is playing her role!! Let her play it. She will get hers. The lady who is a mother is giving her husband a license to continue to abuse her and treat her like rubbish. She needs to get out and heal. Do it for baby. Sisters, if you don't heal. These sharks will come for you like blood in water
THIS IS A SAD SORRY AND SINFUL SITUATION AND THIS IS THE SAD STATE OF SOCIETY SMH 💯💯💯
WELL SAID OUR BEAUTIFUL QUEEN FUMI WHO I LIVE AND LOVE 😍🙏🏽💯
Good Sunday afternoon Fumi to you and the family!!
❤
That Chanel dress is so pretty!
Our sister Fumi is a good example of how we women should carry our selves copy her
Fumi you are absolutely RIGHT!!!!!!!!!
You’re speaking truth here my sister. She needs make herself independent not dependent.
That man would be dumped! His karma is going to be very heavy 🔥🔥🔥🔥and his sidechick will have a taste of her own medicine
HEARTY LAUGHTER .. lol 😂..BLESSINGS🙏🏾🙏🏾💯
A woman should not have children if she by herself cannot afford to, no matter how rich your partner is, as one sheet of disaster could clean him out...then what ???
You are my inspiration fumi !! God bless you and yourfamily❤
Love it love it love it, your looking good darling Fumi💖
What if he doesn’t want to come home? The problem is the husband, he has to decide who and what is important in his life. These side chicks don’t care about anyone but themselves. Heartless people. Karma is a bi…a…tch
The problem is husbands never or very rare tell girls they are married. Also they never agree to show their papers to prove it, seeing it as low and unethical.
For girls, there is no good solution of this equation.
Only if you :
1) choose only virgin guys
2) marry them and keep them close.
3) never have relationships outside marriage
Still, prostitution will destroy this equation anyway.
Suppose that most men are prostitute-users and never mess with them is better way to go.
I really love you Fumi, your the aunt , friend, sister we all want ❤❤
Am sad for her but at the same time i pity this woman
Bcz such a man has looked down on you long time ago
Your actions even tells that you aren’t experienced and matured enough as a woman
Marriage is not just about flaunting the ring and having babies
You should have left this iresponsible man long ago
To make matters worst by calling out his girlfriend and shaming him will make you cry until dead end
Oh wow wow wow aunty Fumiiiiiiii. I just love love you soooo much. You just spoke wisdom. Women must learn to love and respect themselves. In everything, your sanity and peace of mind really matters. I will never ever beg a man to come back to me or fight his side chick for any reason whatsoever. I have come to realise that women who depend solely on the man and have absolutely nothing for themselves fall victim to these things. Women should know their self worth
Give me strength.
Beautiful woman, so sad, he is truly should be held accountable..The sad tales of 90% of nigerian marriages
Heeeey Love, Good Day to You all the way over there❣️🕊️🌹
Desperation!! I think it's imperative to understand the culture in which those women were raised. They don't feel complete in that society without a husband. Maybe the one with a baby doesn't have a source of income.
And the other one is willing to settle for anything in the shape n form of a male.
In Nigerian society, it appears the norm to be greatly stigmatized if a female remains single and LIVES freely. What a pity
This is the whole truth. This indoctrination is all on purpose to cause women to be begging and chasing men . Its sad . Women need to open their eyes. Marriage is not the end all be all.
I hear you Fumi... she's probably going through the Postpartum blues as well😕... pretty sad !!
Preach Girl!! They need to hear that. I wish I had a daughter like you. She probably would have been the same as you. I only have sons. God Bless. ❤❤😊
It is sad to hear this. But listen, your husband is the one that has made a decision to leave and go and stay or support that woman. It is time you just pull up your self , as hard as it, please try and get up and see if family can help with looking after the babies and resume work. This man will drive you down, this is just the beginning… an example of Yule Edochie…don’t put too much energy on begging this man or woman, they are enjoying you doing this, wasting energy.
The cursing my friend do not have any effect, this god elusion of god will deal with you?when? Please get up and just make the best of what you have.
Reserve your pride, this will never finish.
Dammm, Fumi, "you went to university and came out more stupid than you went in" she clocked her like Big Ben!
You have hit the nails right on the wall. Thank u big sis
I am not ny sister's keeper............
I AM MY SISTER 🙏🏾💚😇
Very well said Fummi. Self respect, they don't understand. Even if they know the guy, they still take it cos they want to get married and stay there regardless. The lady begging for marriage, i want to believe that its a joke for social media. Mothers please lets be part of raising good men. The men just don't start miss behaving, it starts and comes from how they were raised.
It's not just her, it's her husband leaving his family😮
Aunty Fumi you are right. It is high time we women start looking after ourselves. No one, is coming to save us. I learnt this the hard way. My heart goes out to this new mom. She is obviously broken. That is what loving on a non deserving demonic idiot will do to u. I wish her all the healing and strength and she,I pray she realises her value. And knows she is the one Jesus died for on the cross. ❤
100% WHAT FUMI SAID. GET SOMETHING DOING. FOR GOD'S SAKE. GET ON YOUR MOM, FAMILY MEMBERS TO SUPPORT YOU WITH THE CHILDREN, SO YOU CAN GO GET SOMETHING DOING, TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILDREN. Y'ALL JUST STOP THIS NONSENSE WOMEN. ENOUGH ALREADY. STOP GIVING YOURSELVES TO MEN ON A PLATTER, PERIODT.
Aunty Fumi, I saw you in the movie “Not easily broken”. Don’t know how I missed it before but couldn’t stop rewinding the scene 💃🏽🥰😍
Great video! Share your winter coat purchase ideas too… looking for one😊
Wow, this content if filled with wisdom words and advice. Fumi!
Fumi, please, please speak on the wonderful, beautiful Michaela DePrince. Her beautiful self was taken from the world at 29 years young.
This man clearly doesn’t want her all this begging shows major desperation. He wants to have a side chick and a marriage. This man is trash and his wife needs to file for divorce. She needs to move on. This is not what marriage is intended to be. Struggle love marriage ain’t it.
Fumi, you always look fabulous🤩 the weight loss looks healthy and goodT on you.
I looked older and felt tired and no confidence as he made sure he squashed down the real me. I am better looking in my fifties than I was in my thirties, because I left 😊🙏
Yo yo yoh 😮 what is wrong with these women 😢begging for a man to marry them that is just so sad
But on a more serious note husband’s that cheat should be fined , if they don’t pay they should be jailed. They signed a marriage contract of fidelity if they don’t honor the agreement they should divorce but cheating should be punishable by law…
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Well said. She needs to wake up.