Woman At My Show Would NOT Stop Talking
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- Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
- Drew Lynch (as seen on America's Got Talent and RUclips), a stand-up comedian known for incorporating and reforming his stutter, is challenged when an audience member repeatedly stands up, interrupts, and drags the show down. See how Drew handled the heckler and what he learned about himself in the process.
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I'll never understand people like that. You PAID to be there. You PAID to see entertainment. Why are you not simply enjoying the thing you PAID MONEY to see?
Because they want to be part of the show --and/ or they're trolls. They came to have fun.... It's just counter to anyone else's fun.
Mb she didn't pay or she thought "I paid so I do whatever I want". Many women think if they pay they deserve the whole world as a gift
@@rizztraininghamster Hold up, no need to gender that personality flaw - it's an equal-opportunity personality flaw.
@@plantyfan nope, it's about women. Men are used to paying and getting exactly what they paid for. Many women never knew the struggle of working for money, so when they start doing it they think their money should get them the whole world
Because of their huge ego. They would pay to hear themselves talk😂
I was at this show... Horrible, horrible, horrible woman!! You handled it very wel!!
Important question then, was the show at whole enjoyable at least?
@@orcajorca7215 100%, laughed my teenie tiny ass off. 5/7 would recommend!!
@@kiefts1 5 out of 7 stars? is that what you meant? Sounds above average... I am confused.
@@Aaackermannthey mean that 5 out of 7 people would recommend
@@doodlehead081 Are the other two the woman and the person she was talking to on the side?
"look at what everyone else is doing...f'ing do that" 🤣
Yeah that was so exactly right
😂😂😂
"you not stand up. me stand up." saying this as a stand up comedian is just extra funny.
You think that's snapping at someone? Man you handled it so much better than I think a lot of people would. You are so professional, so caring and compassionate. I think despite this whole thing, the audience still greatly enjoyed your show. If anything, they got to see that despite the shit show the lady was causing, you still handled it with professionalism and comedy. Good job Drew! One day I hope to come see you live!
Unfortunately Drew is getting too much experience dealing with these narcissists. A comedian should be able to point at a person and they are moved!
There are comedians that would have absolutely destroyed her. She's lucky this guy is nice.
I might have lost it and did the red faced stomping yelling "STFU STFU SHUT THE FUK UP!". Cuz I was in my head bro.
Exactly what I was thinking. Especially since, at least according to the captions, she's talking about his wife. Damn man! I wouldn't be so composed.
Mannn, as a Dutch person I'm embarrassed for her behaviour. She really thought it was an interactive experience for some reason.
Your reflection is pretty accurate in the sense that Dutch people tend to be very direct and subtext is usually not the best way to get a point across.
Which is difficult to infuse into comedy. Telling someone to shut up in a funny way is difficult.
This makes sense. I'm American but I'm autistic, and the subtext he was describing went completely past me
Luckily though I know social expectations at comedy shows lol
@@thesingingtown Haha, I'm also autistic. I think the convention of being quiet at comedy shows is quite logical. Even not knowing the social convention wouldn't really impact my behaviour. It's the illogical social conventions that bug me.
And yet, the rest of the crowd understood.
@@NLTops EXACTLY! I have so little patience for when the social rules are very predictable and easy to look up 💀
@@McTaco The rest of the crowd understood to begin with.
“YOU NOT STAND UP… ME STAND UP” is gold 🤣🤣
You handled that perfectly. Better than I've seen a lot of other comedians handle hecklers. She was being extremely and unnecessary rude and vocal when YOU were the main attraction.
For Dutch people, you can go directly to the "snap" part.. that was barely direct enough for a Dutchie..
Oh, yeah. I know only about what I've seen in Ted Lasso and that was very enlightening lol
Yeah, subtlety is not one of the strong suits of the general Dutch population. Just tell us 'shut up and sit down, you're disruptive'.
@@natashavanilla8170 A grown adult should not have to be told that, though.
@@sandydog426 Of course not; even more reason for direct (yet polite) confrontation.
@@JaySlay69 People in the US don't take direct confrontation lightly, regardless of its respectful or not. They all get defensive l
That's you snapping??? I think you were so calm and kind. And handled it beautifully. I love these break downs of how it works for you, mahalo!
I think he's probably aware how anyone with a following could accidentally start a dog-pile where people hate on her and dox her and send her hate mail lol so he's trying to be calm and level so no one can claim he "sicked his fans on her like an angry mob" you know?
I personally think you did exactly the right thing. Had I been sitting next to her and she had been ruining the show for me I would have appreciated you jumping in and saying something about it. After all I paid to see you not to hear her. So I have this to say... Bravo!
I’m a teacher and I totally get your frustration. Kids also try to do this and you know you can’t lose control of the whole class! You did amazing. :)
Kids try to put you in a handbag?
@@mikenolin8747 I wish! They put things in my handbag instead! 😂😂😂
@@dreamersleepwalker Sounds like a story....or a video?
@@dragoncubes1074 they had dropped cucumber tails in my bag, chewed gum, trash … I learned to leave my stuff in a cubby.
@@dreamersleepwalker Oops. No respect these days. Parents expect the schools to raise their kids, not just educate them.
Drew, I think you did a great job trying to redirect her. I think it's important for people to learn that *only* the comics who actively engage with the audience are welcoming that interaction. Very very rarely does it create a pleasant experience and it's all by accident.
Drew, you handled that great. I was fully expecting "Yes, you should leave" after she asked, but I understand your desire to ensure everyone has a good time. You're a good person for that, I've seen much harsher call outs for far less lol
Others would have been so mean and horrible to her. She probably deserved it, but you were surprisingly kind and patient with her. Your version of "losing your cool" and "snapping" at her was extremely gentle and more polite than her behavior warranted. You're great!
if he was mean, she wouldn't ve stopped much earlier
even the creator said it, she thought they became somewhat of a 'duo'
I've seen quite a few videos like this, but this is the first time I've seen a comedian breaking down his technique so professionally and selflessly. I'm not even a comedian, but I feel grateful for what you've done here. Thank you, Sir!
You handled it well. I certainly hope she wasn’t calling your wife a b!tch.
There needs to be a code word for security to move to action and escort people like this out! He’s trying to entertain and do his job and they add unnecessary stress to the situation.
There are code words in retail, for any kind of inconvenience with customers. I would not be surprised if there were key words for security in shows like these ones
🖐 I know a word...
There are a few words you can string together. It goes something like "security, can you get this bitch out of my show"
I think this is the best idea.
There is. But it's a last resort because having a security come to the front row to get someone out is more disruptive than heckling.
You’re a good dude and you have every right if people keep interrupting YOUR show. Have them removed. Because it does ruin it for you and the majority who are respectfully to you and who paid to see you. At least how I see it. Boundaries are good Drew! Even if you have to be a parent to adults.
Can't believe that it didn't occur to you when she first stood, to say "Ma'am, I think you've misunderstood the phrase "stand-up comedy".
That’s a great line. Abrasive way to offer it , though. Just commenting your last sentence would be better.
It probably would have gone over her head 😊
Maybe you can use it for your comedy show and your 2.4 million subscribers on your RUclips channel.
@@Hardcortes
Anything you say, Mr. Hankey.
@@manwithumbrella now kindly stfu and let the comedians do their job. 👍🏼✌🏼
Thats what you call "Snapped" ? My guy you are the kindest "Snapper" I have ever seen. good on ya!
Advice: One of my favorite comedians will say a phrase to let the security know to kick the person out but it isn't rude to start any issue during the show. "Hey can we get this person a drink?" Annoying person thinks they are getting a drink and actually gets escorted out.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Nice one. Can imagine them all smug and condescending trotting behind security hoping for glass of the finest bubbly only to have their sorry ass kicked out of the door and hear it lock behind them?
This is so wild to me. I've only been to a couple of comedy shows, and I sat at the very back both times so there was no chance of me being included in anything. How people are confident and shameless enough to interrupt a show like this is something I'll never understand.
I do the same. Comedians can be pretty hurtful and disguise it as being a joke, thus accepting no responsibility. I once went into a club at a festival just to sit down and get out of the heat. I didn’t find the comedian funny so I just sat there relaxing. Of course he called me out like the ass he was because I wasn’t laughing. Back row, or at least a dozen rows out.
Ego applies when you only think about yourself, you handled it better than I would have.
Please don't be so hard on yourself. The audience has those same experiences, and it was clear they were with you.
You being you is what makes you good at what you do. Sorry you went through that.
Dude, you don't need to explain or apologise. You handled it extremely well. The fact other audience members spoke up about it should have been enough for a security guard to at least have a word with her. That is their job. You shouldn't have to ask them to do it!
I mean you did better than Bill Hicks xD
“Would you ssshhUUTT THE F*** UP”
You did amazing either way!! Thanks for your apology and want to do better but you seemed cool and collected up there even if you felt quite the opposite. You handled that beautifully 💜
You handled this perfectly and rightfully.
Don't feel bad about it. It's not your fault. Other comedians have snapped far far worse and are still successful AF
I was honestly waiting for you to geet way angrier. Mate, you handled this so well. Love your stand up and interaction/handling of hecklers. You're a ripper mate!
And you have to be a fellow Aussie🇦🇺.
And yes... Drew's absolutely a top bloke.
your 'snap' was still so polite that she will probably go home and still think she was the funniest person in that room and did a great job. so as we dutch say "je bent zeker de leukste thuis"
Okay, a non Dutch speaker here...
You've piqued my curiosity, what does your last line translate to please?
@@elenawilliams32 it means "you must be the funniest at home", which is usually said when somebody keeps saying shitty/dumb jokes
@@Nyxxeonn Thanks, much appreciated .
I hope Drew learns that phrase/saying if he ever has the pleasure of touring there again... With the misfortune of her being in the audience again. 😂
Apologies for one of our lesser Dutchies ending up at your show. The rest of us are actually pretty chill ;) Handled this like an adult, something she might still be learning.
Mmm so I’ve been to your country quite a bit because a good (Japanese) friend of mine has lived there for 12 years.
Most Dutchies are pretty rude, honestly. No concept of what hospitality is - my friend said it’s normal in the Netherlands but you guys really need to see how the rest of the world lives
As an American, she acted awfully similar to a drunk American woman, for a Dutchie.
People who do things like that just prove how out of touch they are in the world. It reminds me of people with un-trained dogs off leash that can't recall them, or people who talk during a movie at a theater or literally anyone who talks while someone is giving a speech or anything that demands the crowds attention AND silence.
This person paints a bad picture of theirself and worse yet show's how selfish they are.
I think you handled it like a pro Drew. I appreciate how you said 'the part I lose my cool' when in all honesty, you seemed extremely calm and I didn't see a snap at all.
Awkward would have been what I would have done in your shoes and that would be 'lose my cool' and start yelling at her and calling her names like I was still in kindergarten.
Way to stay cool Drew! You are very humble and ,of course, freaking hilarious in all your acts! Can't wait to see you live!
I believed you handled that flawlessly! Like, even when you “snapped”, it wasn’t hurtful or mean or anything. It was mostly an acknowledge of “dude, you talk too much”. I can understand a comment throughout the night but going on and on about it? Bro, you are a bigger man than I am.
As a former alcoholic and loudmouth, WE DON’T HEAR HINTS. Be Direct or they Don’t Get it.
As a representative for everyone else, how about if you are an alcoholic, or a Dutch person, you can just stay home instead of burdening everyone with your existence
As someone who works in retail: Hints never work. Be direct, firm and everything will work out just fine for the most time.
@@99mage99 That was their point. If they don't stay home, then don't feel bad about doing what you have to do.
@MandrakeDCR No shit, Sherlock. That's why I very blunty and directly said what I said.
@@99mage99 Aw, got all upset did we? lol take a pill ff.
Drew handles these situations so well, it is crazy to see how much inner dialogue was going through his head. When you watch him do this uninterrupted, you would think it just slides right off. The way he is able to mask that, get laughs, and get on with the act is nothing short of amazing. I have long been a fan of Drew's version of the heckler takedown.
I appreciate Drew's candor at the end of the video about the situation. Also, the juxtaposition of his serious tone and the banana he's sitting on reaches an unintended perception of satire near montey python levels...
Thanks for being you, Drew. Keep up the great work!
When someone is being EXTREMELY rude, I see no reason to be polite to them.
Why some people feel entitled and so special in this world? There are like 100 people in that room and she thinks that she can be the only person talking and interact with the comedian.
You are not a special snowflake. You are just like everybody else. You paid a ticket to enjoy a show. If you don't like it then leave. If you want a refund, request a refund but not during the show, it is disrespectful to you, the comedian and everyone else in that room.
LOGIC HAS LEFT THE BUILDING.
I find it impressive how you can find improvised funny bits on the spot while being interrupted and all. While really disrupting for you (and the audience), you still manage to create something fun for everyone there. Real talent here 🙂
The thing I'm really liking about these vids is your analysis-type commentary-- the technical side of what you're doing; super insightful!
You responded with dignity and respect. Proud of ya man!
The conclusion is great! Recognizing your own ego is the best way to absolve it.
A common thread in these heckler videos is that you get nervous, that's ego at play.
You're a true inspiration, and I hope that I personally can improve by learning from your lessons. Stay strong! (And don't be afraid to ask people to stay quiet)
You really are very kind to your audience. Don't feel bad, everything you tried made sense to me. Couldn't know she wouldn't take the hints.
Omg you are such a doll! You losing your cool is still so mellow and mild💚 I’m really sorry that she was so oblivious, disruptive, and disrespectful. You’re a fantastic, talented, and hilarious entertainer and that lady literally robbed the entire audience of the performance that you prepared for them. I’m surprised that security didn’t step in after the third instance - instead they basically made you do their job 🤦🏽♀️
(Oh, and if anyone wants to see an absolute pro at demolishing hecklers I highly recommend checking out Steve Hofstetter. He’s a great comedian but he’s an absolute legend at annihilating hecklers in the best way!)
Love your stuff Drew! I really enjoy how you break down your thoughts and methods to handling a crowd, keep up the good work!!
U were so diplomatic! If I was an audience member that might I'd probably have told her to sit down & stfu but I'm a New Yorker so that's how we roll
It may not have made for a good live show, but it made for a spectacular RUclips video!
🤣😂🤣
It really sucks and is hard to watch because you're very empathetic with how you approach these kind of situations. Unfortunately, you're giving these people much more patience than they would ever give you if you dared interrupt them in their day to day life. I think a firm shutdown is the only way to get the point across because they don't understand subtlety, and if they still continue after that they'd probably have to be removed.
You handled it like a boss. You kept your cool, didn't cross the line, didn't throw horrible insults to show you were irritated.
I love comedian vs heckler videos and you've managed to put something of an educational spin on what I thought was pure entertainment.
Congratulations and thank you!
I have some experience with standup and a little with hecklers/ disturbances. Sometimes I think people’s brains just takes off on the track of “this isn’t a performance, it’s a conversation”. Sometimes with a little bit of “human on stage funny, get laugh, I want laugh to, I funny” in various degrees mixed into it. I think It can be caused by alcohol or drugs, bad social awareness, bad impulse control, a bit of unwellnes- or a mix of it.
Point is- WELL DONE. Drew is to this day the best at handling this kind of situations the I know of.
Are most hecklers drunk/high? Brain-dead? What is the use of paying for a live performance only to upstage the performer?
A lack of understanding of social cues, it is difficult to read the room for some people, we have differing brain types.
For me as someone with an AuDHD brain type, I find it hard to read social cues given by people with Allistic/neurotypical brain types, yet NT brain types seem to find it difficult to read neurodivergent social cues.
We speak different non verbal languages, studies have shown communication between the same brain types is more efficient than between differing brain types.
Neither is wrong, it's just a funny quirk present in our speciation.
Drunk ignorant narcissists
Usually argumentative types who’ve never been told no before. Probably bullies at school and work
If that's you snapping, then I've got a lot of work to do and I've been in therapy for anger issues for 20+ years now. You're a saint Drew.
Dutch people are very direct, when she asked you "should I leave?" you should've said YES, after the show she was acting annoying outside as well. I was at your show in Amsterdam, and I probably would have told her off a lot sooner. What I found more disturbing was at the end when that obnoxious couple tried to leave until you tried to tell "that" joke and he became all hostile, a shitty end to a difficult evening...I felt for you and your team, it's not the way to start in Europe. I hope this doesn't discourage you coming back to our sinking country in the future. Support act was great by the way (I forgot his name, don't tell him 😅)
Drew, I thought you did great. When you are in a setting that is out of your norm, it can be intimidating enough. I like the fact that you were trying to smooth out the problem. These kinds of people are everywhere. Keep doing you. Very talented.
Man I need to see someone about my anger issues if this is you losing it, you are more calm in your angriest than me when I am asleep.
I genuinely said "sit the fuck down!" Out loud while watching this
The bots are crazy
Dude I just saw it's insane how many there are
I know right, crazy!
Pron photos with chatgpt meets linkedin level questions.
I feel like every single comment on this video is a bot. Smooth brains.
Everytime I watch your videos, I am in awe of the kind of things and the number of things you have to deal with, manage and face as a comic. You are so sharp and articulate in your explanation. Some people are just unbelieavable....😮💨
i have been a fan since your audition on agt in 2015 ish? i appreciate you man!
I think you handled it well. You are incredibly gifted and the truth is, this day and age there are people who don't know how to act in public and some times they need the direction they didn't get throughout life. Keep doing what you do because we are loving it!
I've said it b4 but I love this format of analyzing ur performances and audience interaction, really let's us get in it head as a performer, so thanks... it's a cool insight :)))
Appreciate your commitment to your craft, dude. I’ve watched two of your videos addressing your viewpoint on these types of situations, and I find the way you articulate them to be very genuine and relatable. I’m not a comedian, largely because I couldn’t overcome the initial hurdle of just going out and doing the thing. Hearing an actual comedian share their honest thoughts, feelings and constructive thought process instead of fake alpha cope is both refreshing and a great reminder that we’re all just people. Subscribed!
i don't see it like you snapped. the part that you introduced with "and that's when I snapped..." was the best remark imho! calm, not hurtful, on point with a fitting energy... a good joke!!! maybe it triggers feeling awkward or misplaced when you tap into that not often visited part of yours, at least I'm at times when I do. But I thought it suited you and you handled it well.... and there will be less anxiety with more experience hence calmness in those situations! you know how to play and hit... keep trusting yourself, brother! 💪
Bro that wasn't even an outburst, you handled it to the best of your known ability at that time, people still laughed and you still delivered props to you famalam!!
I’ve never seen so many bots in one place
The way you were talking about “oh I snapped” I was expecting cursing, yelling, etc, you handled that really well
I'm not a comedian so tell me to stfu if I'm wrong. But doesn't continually engaging with her after she is quiet egging her on to keep going?
First bridge joke didn't work and so you did a second one and she thought the banter was continuing.
Seems to me like an attempt on your part to establish dominance, but it's just encouraging the troll to troll further.
I totally agree! Was looking for this comment!!!
There are a bunch of people sitting down in the dark with drinks and one well-lit guy standing up with a microphone. Guess who i paid to listen to
Very well handled Drew, I would have completely lost it! :)
I think you handled that better than I would, I love that you have the crowd on your side, I found you through a search of how comedians handle hecklers (because I'm considering going and trying out for open mic night) and I watch various hecklers to see what I'm up against. I find you hilarious, and if you come to Orlando, I'll try to get tickets to see a show,
I hate when people throw you off your game because every time you get back on a roll, you are so naturally funny.
Drew, go watch steve Hofstetter for tips on how to deal with hecklers. He's very good at it.
I was just about to say this. Steve is really good at dealing with audience members that aren't respectful.
I really like your format here and the way you broke down how you would have done it differently. It's not an easy thing keeping the show together and these are great lessons.
Another approach when you're about ready to blow -- like in this situation when they're not getting it; ask her to look at her ticket and whose name is on the event 🤣 And then be relieved "holy crap i thought *I* was the one confused. Thanks for helping me clear that up - hey everyone I'M THE HEADLINER" and you could even go so far as to walk out and come back to introduce yourself. It's funny and it would maybe reset the vibe too and you'd definitely have the control again.
The comedian version of "don't make me turn this car around"
I don’t understand why people talk during shows that they wanted to see
I'm sure this had been said but I'll say it again or now. Bro you handled everything perfectly!! It's a comedy stand up show. You tried to spin an annoying heckler into your stand up. Not easy sometimes. You gave everything you could. Most importantly, you gave in when you realized your audience was annoyed with her. That's when you turn up. Bravo sir!! You handled it perfectly.
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@@Tuzsuz12 Waiting for (3/94) ;)
Wait how come the original comment was 1 minute ago, but he reply was 11 mins ago?!
You were perfect. You couldn’t have handled it better.
I’ll never get to see you live, but I sure do enjoy your channel and your videos. Thank you for the smiles your bring. Your ADHD wife skit has been shared far and wide.
Blessings.
I think you handled it EXTREMELY well. Tons of respect. Yes, eveything can be a teachable moment but mostly for that girl who has an easy job when going to any show. Sit there, don't interrupt and enjoy. Pretty simple.
Great to hear you recovered, Drew. I happened to be your Uber driver once about 10 years ago when you were doing your circuit and working through your stutter. You were inspiring, and I watched your clip on (I think) AGT. It’s wonderful to see how far you’ve come along. Congrats. Not that you need me to say it, but keep it up.
a HUGE applause to YOU for how you handled that… you say you ‘lost your cool’ but you were so appropriate, direct, and still being respectful about it. why buy a ticket to come to a show to disrupt everyone around you INCLUDING the MAIN ACT. if she wanted to talk the whole time she should just stick to watching you on youtube
You have the patience of an angel my guy. I would not have taken a stab at my girl as well as you did. Kudos.
I come for the comedy and stay for the drama 😆
You handle it perfectly man.
I love how this gentleman, conducts himself. Bloody hilarious as well 😅🤣😂👍
I loved your line about getting her home before the rain began. You are compassionate, which makes your performance style pleasurable to listen to and opens the gate to handle controversial subjects in your material without provoking hecklers. Here it backfired but this was still good! Your compassion made dealing with interruption more difficult but it made your response better at the same time. I enjoyed watching you handle her without losing control. Sure,, you could have shut her up quicker, but you stick to YOUR style, and thats strong! 🎉
You're encouraging her. I understand your idea of what you're doing, but the effect is encouragement.
I acknowledge the difficulty of this position.
love from The Netherlands. Next time you visit, just be blunt, we are used to it. "hey lady! STFU!' XD
Drew, I really appreciate the way you break down this interaction. You definitely handled that lady much better than I could have even on my best day.
People having to deal with crowds in this kind of situation is so incredibly fascinating. It seems very difficult. I appreciate you sharing. There are some comedians who are soooo good at handling it and just turning everything so funny, and others who get very offended and it gets uncomfortable. You definitely did well
You never know how anyone will react no matter how you choose to handle it. Being firm could get the person to snap to and hush up, or it could make them become hostile (especially when alcohol is involved). At at worst, you gave her a light ribbing. You didn't pull a Kramer and start dropping n-bombs on her or something. You're allowed to be irritated.
Bro, you handled her in such a calm manner. And in showing vulnerability the rest of the audience was totally sympathetic. And you gave us all some good laughs at her expense.
nah nahnah, it was NOT YOUR EGO to TAKE UPFOR PAYING AUDIENCE MEMBERS.
it was YOUR SHOW and THEIR MONEY
you did the right thing.
always take up for yourself, your craft, and your audience.
you are amazing bro
You are fantastic at analyzing situations and navigating them in the moment. It speaks of your intelligence 👍
This guy is beautifully humble and wise tbh
Hey, be gentle to yourself. You did a great job hanging in there and I love your self-reflection. We all can learn from our actions. I am so happy to see your journey and to see you doing so well! Keep going!
“Tall Dutches of Nether Regions” 😂 omfg
Some people shouldn't be around alcohol. My sister is one of them. Evidently, this lady is another one. Great job, Mr. Lynch!