I used to think like that, so yes you need to talk with your self, your thoughts and figure out and resolve .Because its our responsibility. Tkank you the way you talk powerful 💯💯💯💯💯💫
@MCM: UR words r pretty powerful & encouraging too! 🙂 U + Shetty= Aids to True Self love & Self Empowerment! Thanks so very mush Guys☀️☀️☀️❤️❤️❤️🎶🎶🎶💯🌹🌹🌹🤗🤗🤗
"Taking responsibility for our own actions". Not many people will like to hear this, or accept this, but the reality is this is the most difficult for a large percentage of younger generations and women.
Accepting that this wasn't your fault, but understanding your role in how you got in the situation in the first place is important, empowering and necessary in order to be able to be the catalyst of change you need in your life to be able to heal and move forward. Self acceptance is acknowledging that ok this happened to me, so now what am I going to do about it? 💛
Thankful you & your wife share your marriage journey. We all need to listen more. Such good wisdom especially the 1 you shared about how you learned how you both respond differently. My husband is like the man & I'm like your wife. I need to think thru; I'm not quick witted mostly. My gusband is a Covert Narcissist & I find him very challenging. He's somewhat a genius & bipolar which can be very frustrating. I want to get to where we enjoy each other & are thankful for the gift of each other. He wants to constantly degrade me & blame & yet I'm so unsure of him as he's been a crack addict many years & now says he doesn't do drugs. They say they flip what they do to where they say you're doing it. How to stop this cruel blame & false accusations
@Cynthia Lammon: My dear Narcs need to decide to fix themselves like anyone else with such negative traits Or tendencies. Now it's time for u to Love yourself--leave - depart. Make for yourself a new start. Bipolar is a Serious mental health issue. So that's two strikes or issues he has & believe me most challenging. Hold on to ur love self esteem & be sure to remember to value U! Have true & devoted friends & relatives that care about u--then seek out their concern for u. They r a blessing to have to turn to & uplift ur heart & spirits. Good people r refreshing & a joy to b around. A blessed environment to heal n. U hv to n decisive n gaining & maintaining what is true & best for U. Go out & hv fun, seek new hobbies, travel, sing & perhaps write a song or 2☺️ "Don't worry that it's not good enough for anyone else but U; so Sing - Sing ur Song" For SURE it'll make U sooo VC HAPPY! Can't lose yourself for anything or anyone else. For that's a very difficult battle/situation to recover/recuperate from, right? U want to take good care NOT to bypass ur boundaries so as NOT to ever enter a similar relationship like that EVER again. My heartfelt good wishes goes out to u, my dear. If u believe n God then u must Pause, Pray Prepare to b on the watch with His help--& He will help u. If u want someone else n ur life; then from the Outset, talk, talk, talk. Listen to each other carefully & properly. Be honest with each other. Respect will help both of u to honor each other wants & needs--each & everyday--every precious day that u r blessed to be together. Never let the bustles & bustles of life interfere with your SPECIAL BOND. Things will get harder & most difficult if u do. Pray together too. Remem ber, that TRUE love is precious & RARE; comes with constant watering & CARE. Everyday! This will prevent any neglect & of taking each other for granted🙂 Both will b working for a " forever" love, right? Again all the best🌺🌺🌺💯💯❤️❤️❤️🎶🎶☀️☀️☀️🥲
I think when we accept a fault’ it gives us opportunity to understand and help others to avoid it in the future.. Fault has been transformed into a reason to punish’ rather then an opportunity to practice getting back up with grace’ for yourself .. knowing what cannot be undone can still be mended for others to see where the “break” occurred and how to step over that in the future.
You haven't done any struggle in life yet you know everything about anything. .. it's God's blessings upon you. Some people are chosen and I guess you are that one lucky man.
Sir...i need to learn a lot from you But my question is when we see others thoughts and ideas and we just want to accept it that's not what we are leaving on the basis of that ideas of others person???
I want to ask Jay sir, how to overcome breakup and not think how the other person is happy with someone else after breaking up with us. how to move forward. Please help me sir.
They choose happiness, and why you are choosing sorrow? Start from here. Advice and steps never work when you can't accept reality. I hope this can help you.
I know the truth but forgetting and moving on from this is tough, everyday its like a daily routine even i dont want but those thoughts come to my mind and then i just want to be alone.
You need to find the root that keeps you going back to what hurts you. What is the factor pushing you? When you treat the roots, you can work on the symptoms.
@@karthigah_careerguru I cant find the roots, its just i feel bad, I did everything I can, trusted with all my heart and soul and believed the other person will not leave me, but everything is shattered and whenever i see someone talking of love or telling their love story, my past hits me. I dont know. but it happens
We are all mechanised to create an image of anything and everything...before we understand it. So first we need to understand the real issue at the core. We don't accept our matters towards our oneself...because we feel bad to accept the real truth of the situation or things that makes us uneasy to see .n report.
God made humans in his image but he loves us so much that he gave us free will. Choose Jesus❤ “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” John 3:16 Put you faith in him and open your heart to him. Repent and believe the gospel❤
Ecclesiastes 7:20 Surely there is not a righteous man on earth who does good and never sins. John 1:9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness Food for thought
I am suffering from depression, anxiety I am anti social i always refrain from people and situation people see me as I frown and dont interact but that's not what i like i want to be happy ,joyful accepting myself .may God make it easy for us all ,Ameen
With Jay Shetty it's like you are listening to great coaches and people. And your 'internal thinking' will shift by and by and see things differently. You may need to consider it's better to be alone than with peers that are not good associations. May you find 'your tribe'.... Channels like this can help. Just you commenting is 'reaching out' in a mind consciousness. I hope you become aware even at those moments you are saying thank you to someone. I hope so much you receive good neighbors.... Especially one good one.
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” John 3:16💖✨✨✝️❤️
That's God!!!!🥰. ...the responsibility for your choices..,. that's the Apple God gave us through the serpent. ..the knowledge of good and evil...... you have the choise to choose what is right or wrong..(ok).... don't blame nobody but you.......it is your fault or your responsibility!!!🥰... this is where you have to understand. Jesus ...and the cross... (blah blah blah..) he died so your sins .. can be forgiven ......and all that..!!!😁...hello there....😁...if you sin....if you do murder sum one.. or you molest or rape a young innocent child.........than you're guilty!!!... Not God.... not Jesus......... you.,...... you're guilty.. you have the choice!?!🥰 Thank you God!!🥰 For the choice!!🥰🥰
This man is both a genius and an amazingly kindred soul ❤️
This is why I am passionate about people learning the truth about religion
You are helping A LOT of people most especially the youths, Jay.
Absolutely!
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I used to think like that, so yes you need to talk with your self, your thoughts and figure out and resolve .Because its our responsibility. Tkank you the way you talk powerful 💯💯💯💯💯💫
@MCM: UR words r pretty powerful & encouraging too! 🙂
U + Shetty= Aids to True Self love &
Self Empowerment! Thanks so very
mush Guys☀️☀️☀️❤️❤️❤️🎶🎶🎶💯🌹🌹🌹🤗🤗🤗
Needed to hear this. I've always taken it as my fault and becoming depressed over that
Thank you! Beautiful!!! 😊❤️
"Taking responsibility for our own actions". Not many people will like to hear this, or accept this, but the reality is this is the most difficult for a large percentage of younger generations and women.
Not because they have trouble to tske responsibility, but because they're blaming thémselves and it makes them feel iffy
Accepting that this wasn't your fault, but understanding your role in how you got in the situation in the first place is important, empowering and necessary in order to be able to be the catalyst of change you need in your life to be able to heal and move forward. Self acceptance is acknowledging that ok this happened to me, so now what am I going to do about it? 💛
Accepting your fault and not letting it happen again is a great quality .❤ from india
TRUE
THANKS JAY!!! ITS BRIGHT 🔆 AND CLEAR !!!!🥰🥰🥰
Thankyou for showing me a new perspective 🫂❤️
Definitely that's true my brother you are man wisdom God bless
This is so freeing
Yeah getting that message out is so Important.
thank you so very much sir for bringing this elightenment.....most especially to me 🙏
Best said
Absolutely! That's what I did in the past and am on the journey to do it the other way around rn
Thank you so much for this wisdom ; it helps me feel so relieved!!
Blaming self or others is leading to nowhere... It's okay to fail in some relationships. Forgive and move on...❤️🙏🏻
Thankful you & your wife share your marriage journey. We all need to listen more. Such good wisdom especially the 1 you shared about how you learned how you both respond differently. My husband is like the man & I'm like your wife. I need to think thru; I'm not quick witted mostly. My gusband is a Covert Narcissist & I find him very challenging. He's somewhat a genius & bipolar which can be very frustrating. I want to get to where we enjoy each other & are thankful for the gift of each other. He wants to constantly degrade me & blame & yet I'm so unsure of him as he's been a crack addict many years & now says he doesn't do drugs. They say they flip what they do to where they say you're doing it. How to stop this cruel blame & false accusations
@Cynthia Lammon: My dear Narcs need to decide to fix themselves like anyone else with such negative traits
Or tendencies. Now it's time for u to
Love yourself--leave - depart. Make for yourself a new start. Bipolar is a
Serious mental health issue. So that's two strikes or issues he has &
believe me most challenging.
Hold on to ur love self esteem & be
sure to remember to value U! Have true & devoted friends & relatives that care about u--then seek out their
concern for u. They r a blessing to
have to turn to & uplift ur heart & spirits. Good people r refreshing &
a joy to b around. A blessed environment to heal n. U hv to n
decisive n gaining & maintaining what is true & best for U. Go out &
hv fun, seek new hobbies, travel, sing & perhaps write a song or 2☺️
"Don't worry that it's not good enough for anyone else but U; so
Sing - Sing ur Song" For SURE it'll
make U sooo VC HAPPY!
Can't lose yourself for anything or
anyone else. For that's a very difficult
battle/situation to recover/recuperate from, right? U want to take good care NOT to bypass ur boundaries so as NOT to ever enter a similar relationship like that EVER
again. My heartfelt good wishes goes out to u, my dear. If u believe
n God then u must Pause, Pray Prepare to b on the watch with His
help--& He will help u. If u want someone else n ur life; then from the
Outset, talk, talk, talk. Listen to each other carefully & properly. Be honest
with each other. Respect will help both of u to honor each other wants & needs--each & everyday--every precious day that u r blessed to be
together. Never let the bustles & bustles of life interfere with your
SPECIAL BOND. Things will get harder & most difficult if u do. Pray
together too. Remem ber, that TRUE
love is precious & RARE; comes with constant watering & CARE. Everyday!
This will prevent any neglect & of
taking each other for granted🙂
Both will b working for a " forever" love, right?
Again all the best🌺🌺🌺💯💯❤️❤️❤️🎶🎶☀️☀️☀️🥲
I think when we accept a fault’ it gives us opportunity to understand and help others to avoid it in the future.. Fault has been transformed into a reason to punish’ rather then an opportunity to practice getting back up with grace’ for yourself .. knowing what cannot be undone can still be mended for others to see where the “break” occurred and how to step over that in the future.
I love your voice
Powerful!!
I really felt that still and juss gotta continue to be your own best friend tho to tha fullest!.
Thank you, I like that approach.
Right Buddy 🧿🇮🇳😊🤗🏅u r awesome man
Research of head weight people in certain department blocks public work - but my strength respect to elders responsibilities 🌼
You haven't done any struggle in life yet you know everything about anything. .. it's God's blessings upon you. Some people are chosen and I guess you are that one lucky man.
whatever you did in past,we should be forgotten everything to myself nd do accept your fault,then start our journey it would be well 🙏
Love you Prabhujii 😍
Wow thank you. I've been deeply struggling with this today
You are right my dear Jay ❤️ bruh
Yes ❣️
excellent 👍
100 % true
I like this one. Mehn #jay can not stop offering us nice content that helps you see things differently.
AMEN THANK U JESUS
Yes. 👍🏽💯
Thanks
Saying it's not your fault is lying to ourselves. That doesn't lead to responsibilities.
This hairstyle looks nice on you jay ji
Can we talk about his sexy voice besides him being so wow😅♥️
Sir...i need to learn a lot from you
But my question is when we see others thoughts and ideas and we just want to accept it that's not what we are leaving on the basis of that ideas of others person???
💕💕
❤️
Jay ....I will meet you one day ☺
👍👍
❤
Good
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Yes but in the same Time them can obligate to be responsabil 4 them errors and ofen Have to be agaist the errors of the others
I think you have to forgive our self
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I want to ask Jay sir, how to overcome breakup and not think how the other person is happy with someone else after breaking up with us. how to move forward. Please help me sir.
They choose happiness, and why you are choosing sorrow? Start from here. Advice and steps never work when you can't accept reality. I hope this can help you.
I know the truth but forgetting and moving on from this is tough, everyday its like a daily routine even i dont want but those thoughts come to my mind and then i just want to be alone.
You need to find the root that keeps you going back to what hurts you. What is the factor pushing you? When you treat the roots, you can work on the symptoms.
@@karthigah_careerguru I cant find the roots, its just i feel bad, I did everything I can, trusted with all my heart and soul and believed the other person will not leave me, but everything is shattered and whenever i see someone talking of love or telling their love story, my past hits me. I dont know. but it happens
♥️
Wow i used to think the same
☺️💯🥂
Bingo!
People: "don't worry"
Me: ok. I won't worry. I'll be concerned and possibly come up with a solution.
Its nobodys fault, that you’r conditioned the way you are
We are all mechanised to create an image of anything and everything...before we understand it.
So first we need to understand the real issue at the core. We don't accept our matters towards our oneself...because we feel bad to accept the real truth of the situation or things that makes us uneasy to see .n report.
God made humans in his image but he loves us so much that he gave us free will. Choose Jesus❤
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” John 3:16
Put you faith in him and open your heart to him. Repent and believe the gospel❤
It's not familiar to most people to assume responsibility in this world that's why it's easier to play the victim role. 😔
Ecclesiastes 7:20
Surely there is not a righteous man on earth who does good and never sins.
John 1:9
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness
Food for thought
I am suffering from depression, anxiety I am anti social i always refrain from people and situation people see me as I frown and dont interact but that's not what i like i want to be happy ,joyful accepting myself .may God make it easy for us all ,Ameen
With Jay Shetty it's like you are listening to great coaches and people. And your 'internal thinking' will shift by and by and see things differently. You may need to consider it's better to be alone than with peers that are not good associations. May you find 'your tribe'.... Channels like this can help. Just you commenting is 'reaching out' in a mind consciousness. I hope you become aware even at those moments you are saying thank you to someone. I hope so much you receive good neighbors.... Especially one good one.
This is the only way of life .
You don't think, someone already think for you. And who is Thinking.?
Please come to sandeep maheshwari sir channel.
Someone tell her that
i. know its from mark manson doctrine lol 😂
I heard he has lied about all his history, being a monk to further the Calm App, does anyone know if this is true
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” John 3:16💖✨✨✝️❤️
It wasn't my fault, but I depressed myself 🤔🙏
Kindly share your email. We wish to invite you to address CEOs in India during Nov 2022
Takes out choice
Its easy to say things when you have millions in the bank ac
This guy can say absolutely nothing in so many words.
God see we honest ly mean point not Karma karma is not good thank you
Everytime the problem isnt about acceptance......this so called motivator has a never anything new....
That's God!!!!🥰. ...the responsibility for your choices..,. that's the Apple God gave us through the serpent. ..the knowledge of good and evil...... you have the choise to choose what is right or wrong..(ok).... don't blame nobody but you.......it is your fault or your responsibility!!!🥰... this is where you have to understand. Jesus ...and the cross... (blah blah blah..) he died so your sins .. can be forgiven ......and all that..!!!😁...hello there....😁...if you sin....if you do murder sum one.. or you molest or rape a young innocent child.........than you're guilty!!!... Not God.... not Jesus......... you.,...... you're guilty.. you have the choice!?!🥰 Thank you God!!🥰 For the choice!!🥰🥰
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I think you are telling something important but iam not understanding which is not my fault because I think that it's not your fault..... 🤣
wow there are people who actually listen to this crap I would never have trust nor respect from anything he might have to say
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Ok but it definitely is your fault tho
nope