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    one of my personal favorite film genre's, today we decided to take a look at the history of the rom-com. from the screwball comedies of the 1930s, to the magical musicals of the 1950s, to the genre's hey-day in the 2000s, to its eventual decline in the 2010s. what's your favorite romcom?
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  • @mayruuh
    @mayruuh 3 месяца назад +3199

    "writer director actor AND predator woody allen" the way you had me rollering with this one 😭

    • @syd755
      @syd755 3 месяца назад +94

      a true multihyphenate

    • @nakamura_004
      @nakamura_004 3 месяца назад +48

      I rewound the video and turn on captions to make sure I heard right 💀💀💀

    • @itsmattbtw
      @itsmattbtw 3 месяца назад +29

      clocked him!

    • @wilsonneto7814
      @wilsonneto7814 3 месяца назад +7

      Eu perdi tudo nessa parte do vídeo 😂😂😂😂

    • @machiabaelli
      @machiabaelli 3 месяца назад +18

      I CACKLED I ALMOST CHOKED ON MY FOOD 🤣

  • @OKHolly
    @OKHolly 3 месяца назад +2121

    "While women fantasize about meeting our Prince Charming, men fantasize about doing the bare minimum and being rewarded for it." Go off, Queen! That had me cracking up!

    • @shizzlemywizzle1
      @shizzlemywizzle1 3 месяца назад +7

      Go off, queen? 💀

    • @weightycarlos
      @weightycarlos 3 месяца назад +7

      That was so real, I gagged!

    • @K.C-2049
      @K.C-2049 3 месяца назад +48

      they don't have to fantasize about it our society is built on men doing the literal least and congratulating one another for it

    • @melodysafo5437
      @melodysafo5437 3 месяца назад

      Preach it!

    • @Blood0range
      @Blood0range 3 месяца назад +1

      left NO crumbs 😏

  • @SD-tl4wf
    @SD-tl4wf 3 месяца назад +859

    Here’s something I noticed about older RomComs, the expressions in their faces added to the humor and charm. It’s getting harder to find leading actors that have full expression of their faces

    • @Alice-jj2rt
      @Alice-jj2rt 3 месяца назад +23

      It’s almost like we spend too much Time on a screen to get to know ourselves and build imagination

    • @swish3432
      @swish3432 3 месяца назад

      We shouldn't have to imagine an actor acting, they should drop the fillers and botox and be able to articulate their facial muscles. @@Alice-jj2rt

    • @princessnicki63
      @princessnicki63 3 месяца назад +88

      It's like Hollywood ONLY cares about casting hot people and making them just look hot the entire time. They forgot that most older romcoms had hot people who could also act well.

    • @Gen-ni8xb
      @Gen-ni8xb 3 месяца назад +14

      which is why we need ayo edebiri on a romcom! hot AND expressive!!

    • @tonialston1968
      @tonialston1968 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@Gen-ni8xb she was great on SNL!

  • @MinisDunyasi5
    @MinisDunyasi5 3 месяца назад +1449

    One thing I’m not a fan of in newer romcoms is the romanisation and glamorisation of toxic and sometimes even abusive relationships. For example, this is done extensively in The Kissing Booth.

    • @cristenkray5192
      @cristenkray5192 3 месяца назад +77

      Oh absolutely! I really dislike how problematic tropes are always being used to drive the story or characters. Even when something is a product of its time, there’s so many things that were still problematic in those periods but are used for laughs or romance in those films.
      It’s worse when they’re used in teen films, which have significant influence over young people, specifically young girls.

    • @mchjsosde
      @mchjsosde 3 месяца назад +134

      Let's be honest, toxicity and unhealthy relationships are a staple in classic romcoms as well. They're movies meant to appeal to our fantasies and part of what we love about them are the unrealistic premises. I guess my point is they are escapist stories and not aspirational. And that's ok- after school specials have their place. There is definitely a line of course even in something meant for entertainment that has and can be crossed. And we can discuss them, I think this dynamic has actually made romcoms much less offensive and toxic over the past couple decades.

    • @Mai2727
      @Mai2727 3 месяца назад +87

      this isn't just newer rom-coms. Old movies had consent issues, 80s rom-coms had straight-up assault, even 2004's The Notebook was quite toxic. And don't get me started on 40 nights and 40 days. A lot of "sex comedies" of the 2000s were very toxic.

    • @devilinred3319
      @devilinred3319 3 месяца назад +25

      I have to say something here, those romcoms born in wattpad and were made by teenagers that sometimes havent even being in a relationship, or even have a small social life so they dont know more... this narrative has to do a lot in the way we teach women since a very early age "how love should look like" and how they interpretate that fantasy.

    • @shizzlemywizzle1
      @shizzlemywizzle1 3 месяца назад +13

      This has always been an issue in romcoms, not just modern ones but I agree

  • @kenz.hiireath
    @kenz.hiireath 3 месяца назад +508

    if they want to bring back romcoms, they need to bring back actual goofiness and pay attention to what made us love them in the early 2000s

    • @redheadgwiggy2619
      @redheadgwiggy2619 3 месяца назад +26

      Amen! I really hope Barbie's success will end Hollywood's weird fear against whimsy and joy!

    • @rimshakhalid777
      @rimshakhalid777 3 месяца назад

      FR NOW DAYS NO OFFENCE THEY ARE ALL SHIT RN I HATE IT theres too much cringe , toxic behaviour and bad plots / characters im literally so done

    • @TheKarebear666
      @TheKarebear666 3 месяца назад

      That's what I loved about Anyone But You

  • @Callisto_52Hz
    @Callisto_52Hz 3 месяца назад +128

    fashion element is completely missing from modern romcoms and romance movies in general. its almost like they told the actors to wear whatever's available.

    • @tonystonem9614
      @tonystonem9614 3 месяца назад +13

      It’s as if they only steal off Primark and H&m racks. There needs to be more diversity in ppl and clothes

  • @aronc24
    @aronc24 3 месяца назад +411

    As a millennial who grew up loving romcoms, I’m just tired of them being horribly written (Netflix = 🤮) with bland people.

    • @niinuu7222
      @niinuu7222 3 месяца назад +13

      Exactly. People who grew up watching them feel tired cuz we can see how formulaic they are. Same archetypes characters, same plots/anatomies, we know what is going to happen, etc... And yes... All these new actors lack screen/presence, no charisma, they all seem 😂 like thinking their chatting between scenes, like they cannot wait to check Instagram. They arent into it, acting isnt that inmerseve 😢

    • @MermaidMusings7
      @MermaidMusings7 3 месяца назад +5

      I love 80s, 90s, and 2000s romcoms. Modern romcoms don't do it for me.

    • @niinuu7222
      @niinuu7222 3 месяца назад

      @@MermaidMusings7 Why they dont do it for you? Cuz you find them like a lazy attend of the old ones, or they are to far of what made the old ones good (new/ modern structure romcoms are not, you prefer the old way)???

    • @MermaidMusings7
      @MermaidMusings7 3 месяца назад +5

      @@niinuu7222 They lack the magic of its predecessors. I don't know how else to describe it.

    • @niinuu7222
      @niinuu7222 3 месяца назад +2

      @@MermaidMusings7 Okey I get it. Maybe it have to do with the chemistry between actors, screen presence like you can feel the charisma of the actors, like they are awake. Or it just the way filmmakers were building these movies.

  • @justagalwhocomments
    @justagalwhocomments 3 месяца назад +583

    no matter how cheesy they can be romcoms can rlly be fun to watch

    • @gabrielleduplessis7388
      @gabrielleduplessis7388 3 месяца назад +6

      And it adds to the charm. I don’t always like it when films are overly cheesy, but some cheese makes it fun, especially when it adds to the humor and the best actors can pull it off.

    • @jamiecrucefix4078
      @jamiecrucefix4078 3 месяца назад +2

      I think the supporting actors are most important I always remember the supporting cast in films like Bridget's friends in Bridget Jones or all the town folk in Runaway Bride or Nottingham hill Underpants scene, Five weddings and a Funeral. I thinks thats what made Easy A so good was the supporting cast.

  • @rowans1256
    @rowans1256 3 месяца назад +594

    writer, director, actor, and predator woody allen
    omg stop 🙃🙃🙃

    • @paulinemuscatvlogs
      @paulinemuscatvlogs 3 месяца назад +16

      This SENT ME lol I cackled!

    • @Tnya099
      @Tnya099 3 месяца назад +5

      Sameee

    • @romanroyboytoy
      @romanroyboytoy 3 месяца назад +8

      when i tell you my jaw DROPPPPPED

    • @Missmagazinebura
      @Missmagazinebura 3 месяца назад +1

      A rainy day in New York movie Starring Selena Gomez and Timothee chamelet

  • @ananyasrivastava8771
    @ananyasrivastava8771 3 месяца назад +88

    Its probably just me but I also feel like the film camera vs the digital camera makes a difference too most times. Most older movies filmed on a film camera have this grainy filter which feels nostalgic and dreamy, whereas digital kinda makes it feel like idk a music or a youtube video. The only modern movie i feel had that charm was 'To all the boys..' because it had this very 2018 vsco girl vibe ? lol
    I mean ofc the writing , chemistry etc matters too , but just something I noticed

    • @Callisto_52Hz
      @Callisto_52Hz 3 месяца назад +19

      yes, and they don't put effort into colorgrading, adding filters or anything so it gives off a cheap vibe like modern hallmark movies and or tv dramas like "days of our lives."

    • @leslievanhouten
      @leslievanhouten 3 месяца назад +9

      You should check out the movie Blue Valentine starring Ryan Gossling and Michelle Williams. When they fall in love, the movie is shot on film; when their relationship disintegrates, it switches to digital

  • @kamsismith
    @kamsismith 3 месяца назад +323

    Yes because with the release of Crazy Rich Asians in 2018 in theaters and To All the Boys following suit for Netflix. I feel like rom-coms will mostly remain popular on streaming services with a few successful ones in theaters.

  • @kaylaharriss8702
    @kaylaharriss8702 3 месяца назад +29

    A CRIMEEE that Love Rosie was not mentioned in this video!!! One of the best romcoms to have come out in the past decade!!

    • @kaylaharriss8702
      @kaylaharriss8702 3 месяца назад +9

      Me Before You also gets a special mention- Sam Claflin was really in his romcom bag in the 2010s

    • @elinanasimova
      @elinanasimova 3 месяца назад +2

      I looove Sam
      So sad he’s so underrated
      Hoped for great fame for him after daisy jones but don’t really see much of him(

  • @flowersandperfume355
    @flowersandperfume355 3 месяца назад +146

    the thing about rom coms is the only way it works is if the leading stars arre talented and were casted due tot their chemistry and not their names (which is the point of screen tests which hollywood seems to have forgot about to help the nepobabies). my personal favorite rom com at the moment is float starring andrea bang and robbie amell. its such a nice atmospheric film

    • @krisjustbegun9740
      @krisjustbegun9740 3 месяца назад +6

      Honestly Hollywood really slept on Robbie Amell. He’s not only good looking but also really funny and charismatic on screen. I also love him in The Duff

    • @roadrollerdio565
      @roadrollerdio565 3 месяца назад +7

      Older romcoms also had proper actors and stars as leads. A lot of modern (Netflix) romcoms have B/hallmark level casting which makes the genre seem unserious.

    • @jamiecrucefix4078
      @jamiecrucefix4078 3 месяца назад +1

      I just went watched the trailer will keep an eye out for when it's released. I been a big fan of Robbie Amell he can do comedy really well in Upload but also great in action like Code 8.

  • @joeyjoey9940
    @joeyjoey9940 3 месяца назад +192

    I watched Only You with RDJ and the chemistry he had with Marisa Tomei is insane like I thought I was interrupting them in some scenes.

    • @Crazycatmum17
      @Crazycatmum17 3 месяца назад +5

      That explains some stuff 😅😅

    • @jamiecrucefix4078
      @jamiecrucefix4078 3 месяца назад +1

      will look that one up not heard of it. thanks

    • @jamiecrucefix4078
      @jamiecrucefix4078 3 месяца назад +1

      One the films I always thought had great chemistry is Before Sunset with Ethan Hawke.

  • @ladydiamond6611
    @ladydiamond6611 3 месяца назад +44

    I'm surprised La La Land didn't get a mention, one of the best movies from 2016, and 2016 had a lot of good movies!!

    • @bb-mf6qh
      @bb-mf6qh 3 месяца назад +2

      2016 did have a lot of good movies but lala land was a bomb

    • @ladydiamond6611
      @ladydiamond6611 3 месяца назад +6

      @@bb-mf6qh me when i lie

  • @Blood0range
    @Blood0range 3 месяца назад +44

    "While women fantasize about meeting our Prince Charming, men fantasize about doing the bare minimum and being rewarded for it." This was everything! Brava! 👏👏👏

  • @ZeldasMask
    @ZeldasMask 3 месяца назад +31

    I think not mentioning the impact of kdramas on rom-coms is an injustice to how influential they’ve been in bringing back the current boom with the genre. Especially with how accessible they’ve been in the past few years to a world wide audience with Netflix

    • @SrtaLJCarneiro
      @SrtaLJCarneiro 3 месяца назад +6

      Also Korea is quite a conservative country so the success of kdramas just shows that woman wish for more tradicional and inocente romcoms.

  • @LulaRu
    @LulaRu 3 месяца назад +28

    My favorite romcom is Austenland and I still can't believe how the regency/period + comedy formula isn't used more often. Hopefully shows like Brigerton will bring more of those 💜

  • @mimibadge
    @mimibadge 3 месяца назад +84

    One of my all-time favoirtes is Ms Pettigrew Lives for a Day. A bit subservise for the rom-coms of its time, being a period film and having the main couple almost be secondary characters, with the title character almost being a self-insert for the viewer. Frances Mcdormand and Amy Adams are charming as hell.

    • @ModernGurlz
      @ModernGurlz  3 месяца назад +24

      love that movie! amy adams singing if i didn't care makes me misty eyed every time 🥹

    • @AngryTheatreMaker
      @AngryTheatreMaker 3 месяца назад +7

      Yes. YES. That film is one of my go-to comfort watches (and it introduced me to Ciaran Hinds, so I'm not complaining).

    • @mrsclark78
      @mrsclark78 3 месяца назад +2

      I LOVE that movie

    • @roadrollerdio565
      @roadrollerdio565 3 месяца назад +2

      The only thing that takes me out is Frances' accent. It's good for a US actor, but it slips a lot. Still, I rewatch it for the its warmth, the old romance and Amy Adams/Lee Pace!

    • @amandalewis8590
      @amandalewis8590 3 месяца назад +1

      ❤❤❤

  • @lovefromwonderland
    @lovefromwonderland 3 месяца назад +54

    I don’t think rom-coms ever left. We had our ups and downs throughout the 90s and 00s and we’ve definitely had some flops in 10s era. But we’re sort of rediscovering what makes rom-coms so special to us again.

  • @Tabbycatreads
    @Tabbycatreads 3 месяца назад +29

    I think because romcoms are so character based, you need to have actors with lots of charm and chemistry with their fellow actors and viewers. That’s why I think pairing up actors worked so well, they had more time to work together and it showed. My favorite romcoms are Easy A of course, and this 8 episode series that came out on Netflix over Christmas in 2023 called Dash and Lilly! The actors have so much chemistry! It’s based off this book series and I think the producers framed the show (shot the show idk) in a super interesting way, each episode would switch perspectives between Dash or Lilly and follow them in their parts of the story. I really liked it being shot this way because we got to see so much more of both the main characters, not just one. I’d definitely recommend watching it if you have the time^^

    • @TheKarebear666
      @TheKarebear666 3 месяца назад

      Have you watched 'Anyone But You' yet? The director shot 'Easy A' and I actually enjoyed ABU more surprisingly.

    • @Tabbycatreads
      @Tabbycatreads 3 месяца назад

      @@TheKarebear666 no but ill totally check it out!

  • @masha_dot
    @masha_dot 3 месяца назад +200

    Anyone but you was ACTUALLY like one of those 2000s romcoms, and the first movie in I don’t know how long I would like to REWATCH. A win

    • @Lilithmaynot
      @Lilithmaynot 3 месяца назад +13

      I was so pleasantly surprised by Anyone But You

    • @venceslavgeorgiev2295
      @venceslavgeorgiev2295 3 месяца назад +4

      I am unwritten

    • @beneesodeinde5170
      @beneesodeinde5170 3 месяца назад +9

      @@LilithmaynotI’m not trying to hate but as someone who went into it with high hopes, and was GREATLY dissapointed, what did you enjoy about it exactly?? Because I feel like I must be missing something 😭

    • @mxngos7493
      @mxngos7493 3 месяца назад +1

      same here, i watched it the other day and I actually LAUGHED several times! Like genuinely laughed, not just a huff! Sydney Sweeney is an awesome dramatic actress, but I truly think she pulled off the romcom as well! Her wit, charm, and emotional reactions made the movie for me!

    • @begam_nilofar
      @begam_nilofar 3 месяца назад +3

      @@beneesodeinde5170 Me too. But ig that's cus of our expectations. It was a decent rom com. definitely a fresh air in the middle of all these netflix "romcoms". and really gives off a 2000s vibe. but it isn' t all that.

  • @mayruuh
    @mayruuh 3 месяца назад +48

    if you guys are looking into a solid romcom featuring non-white leads, check out Rye Lane!

    •  3 месяца назад +2

      Yes! Loved Rye Lane! ❤

  • @jessienerdis4179
    @jessienerdis4179 3 месяца назад +8

    "Writer, director, actor and predator Woody Allen" had me CHOKE on my tea XD XD

  • @jaymesEo6
    @jaymesEo6 3 месяца назад +9

    Wow. I'm surprised no mention of Anne Hathaway at all. She arguably was the other most known and ubiquitous name attached to rom-coms.

    • @sarasamaletdin4574
      @sarasamaletdin4574 15 дней назад +2

      No Jennifer Aniston mentioned in the narration either, although she was seen in some of the clips

  • @carmeni1593
    @carmeni1593 3 месяца назад +20

    Set it Up is soooooo good! definitely my comfort rom com that's come out in the 2010s- i probably rewatch it once every 2 months or so lol

  • @BenChanNYC
    @BenChanNYC 3 месяца назад +86

    1 - I'm surprised Judd Apatow's films were left out. They had an impact and were a subgenre of its own for a time.
    2 - I think a significant factor in the decline of rom-coms in movies is that tv shows have gotten a lot better in terms of serialized storytelling and leaning into romances that can captivate viewers for *years.* It's simply more difficult to craft something in two hours that can create the same level of emotional investment.

    • @ModernGurlz
      @ModernGurlz  3 месяца назад +50

      i'd consider apatow's movies as part of the raunchy romcom subgenre! (nudity/gross out humor/shallow female characters/"loser" male leads/etc)

    • @BenChanNYC
      @BenChanNYC 3 месяца назад +2

      @@ModernGurlz I think those films have more substance than that, especially where the "loser" male lead undergoes genuine growth rather than do the bare minimum to "get," the girl, but okay.

    • @user-lt1dy8ox8u
      @user-lt1dy8ox8u 3 месяца назад +21

      ⁠@@BenChanNYCI haven’t seen any of the films but I remember Katherine Heigl complaining about how the movie she was in that he directed was misogynistic and lacked substance. And she was kinda blacklisted bc of that. So I think it’s fair to say she knows more about how bad those films were than any of us. It’s ok to like art even if it’s problematic but you shouldn’t deny the clear bigotry in certain works.

    • @alylopez3721
      @alylopez3721 3 месяца назад +16

      @@BenChanNYCI do think there is something to say about those films but I also think you’re giving them way too much credit. Those movies weren’t romcoms for women or a general audience, they were for men.

    • @BenChanNYC
      @BenChanNYC 3 месяца назад +3

      @@alylopez3721 Yes, they were from the male pov, but I don't think that discounts them from the discussion as they were different from other films that had been targeted towards men - focusing on emotion more than typical male achievement/ conquest and were quite successful at the box office meaning there was an audience for male-centric rom- coms. Absolutely they were flawed, I just think they were noteworthy.

  • @cornflakes-does-stuff
    @cornflakes-does-stuff 3 месяца назад +14

    "while you were sleeping" is my favourite 90's rom com, it's a comfort movie of mine even tho if it wasn't a rom com the set up to the plot could be of a horror/thriller movie's lol, but you gotta put on your rom com googles and get swept up in the charm of the leads and the whole cast tbh and do along with the story :")
    Another one that I barely see get mentioned but I love it to bits is "something new" from 2006, the romance is top notch in it and it's light hearted but there's enough realism and drama in it to not be pure fluff!

  • @melodysafo5437
    @melodysafo5437 3 месяца назад +15

    Everything you said in this movie is so true! Romcoms barely get respect in the movie industry, and it's so heartbreaking!

  • @kimberlymerrick3475
    @kimberlymerrick3475 3 месяца назад +15

    ‘It’s Complicated’ is still one of my go to rom-coms. It’s just so good

  • @yoditan
    @yoditan 3 месяца назад +32

    I feel like it slowly started with Crazy rich asians and To all the boys and then continued with Bridgerton and so on. With Sony making Anyone but You. Netflix also just released the show One Day and although it isn't a RomCom but it has a lot of romantic elements to it. I do feel like ever since 2018 we are seeing more of it.

    • @roadrollerdio565
      @roadrollerdio565 3 месяца назад

      Speaking of current romcoms, I Want You Back from two years ago with Jenny Slate and Charlie Day was one of the more charming but overlooked ones in recent times.

    • @jeffersonhassan4558
      @jeffersonhassan4558 3 месяца назад +1

      Not to forget Amazon's Red,white and Royal Blue that surprisingly blew up

  • @ActuallyAnanya
    @ActuallyAnanya 3 месяца назад +41

    I need everyone in this comment section open to watching foreign movies to watch Jab We Met immediately. It's honestly the perfect rom-com, with non-toxic leads and even a deconstruction of the manic pixie dream girl trope.

    • @roadrollerdio565
      @roadrollerdio565 3 месяца назад +4

      This! It has wonderful arcs for both leads who have tons of chemistry, a very vibrant supportive family, lots of comedy and so much heart. I rewatch it with my grandparents!

    • @begam_nilofar
      @begam_nilofar 3 месяца назад +4

      Bollywood rom coms are definitely in a league of their own. They don't make much these days. But 2000s and 2010s bollywood romcoms are just mwah😘👌

  • @ten-ze1pq
    @ten-ze1pq 3 месяца назад +83

    I always get jumpscared when people categorize The Wedding Banquet as a romcom. There’s a horrifying corrective rape scene against a gay man that people love brush under the rug teehee

    • @electrictwilight
      @electrictwilight 3 месяца назад +7

      Yeah, there are a lot of movies listed in this video that I would not classify as romcoms, like the Wedding Banquet, How Stella Got Her Groove Back, To Wong Foo and But I'm a Cheerleader.

    • @lunaoliveira7965
      @lunaoliveira7965 3 месяца назад +1

      I’ve never watched this movie wdym corrective r*pe? I’m genuinely confused

    • @kaitlin7475
      @kaitlin7475 3 месяца назад

      A similar example is if a lesbian is raped by a man in order to "make her straight." I haven't seen the movie, but I would imagine there is a scene where the gay male character is forced to have sex with a woman in order to 'correct' his sexuality. It's homophobic in nature @@lunaoliveira7965

    • @amethyst034
      @amethyst034 3 месяца назад

      @@lunaoliveira7965 i believe an attempt to 'make' him straight- the correct sexuality. idk

    • @bb-mf6qh
      @bb-mf6qh 3 месяца назад

      Idk if you were aware but movies, and books and even music, can have a tiny part in them that would be a completely different genre if it was it by itself, but because Its just a tiny part it doesn't change the genre. For example if a screamo band makes a song with a 30 second Spanish guitar solo (see pierce the veil) it doesn't change the music genre to Spanish folk lol it's still "metal" or wtv. Or like sisterhood of the traveling pants, the sad sub plot with the mom dying could have been it's own movie with a totally different genre label, but it's just a tiny moment from a movie it doesn't change the whole genre. The movie Barbarian had two people meet cute by accidentally renting the same air b&b and they drank wine and danced lol I didn't see anyone saying "how can you classify this as a horror movie it should be a romcom" 😂😂😂 I happen to believe rape scenes are completely UNNECESSARY. There's NEVER a reason to film a rape scene, if it's important to the story then theres ways to tell the viewer other than THAT. But I don't think one scene can totally change the genre of any film.

  • @danicee
    @danicee 3 месяца назад +6

    I actually think that network TV added to the fatigue of romcoms by the end of the first decade of the 2000’s (Lifetime and Hallmark) which is why they were performing less favorably. We haven’t lost interest in the genre, only that if they started treating plots as formulaic which is why so many people stopped watching them regularly, due to oversaturation. My favorite romcom, the only one I’ve ever bought, is Just Friends and that one is so unique and hilarious that I watch it at least twice a year.

  • @mmmchkplss1203
    @mmmchkplss1203 3 месяца назад +19

    Book adaptations are probably the industry's best bet since quality original screenplay writing has gone down hill. The success of book adaptations in the genre in recent years has further proven this, and considering the growth that online book communities have had lately, it shouldn't be too hard to find a book that people would be happy to see adapted.
    But knowing Hollywood, the bag WILL be fumbled.

  • @milky_quartz
    @milky_quartz 3 месяца назад +21

    me: [not really caring about the subject matter , but also needing background noise to do laundry with] *Tell me sister* !

  • @Heyheyhaleyd
    @Heyheyhaleyd 3 месяца назад +8

    Another sub-category of romcoms I would point out is this fan fiction styled ones like “After”, “Beautiful Disaster”, and “The Other Zoey”. They are like in the same category as “The Kissing Booth” and “To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before”.
    I love romcoms. Some of my absolute favorites are “He’s Just Not That Into You”, “Pretty in Pink”, “10 Things I Hate About You”, and recently “Set it Up”.

    • @mxngos7493
      @mxngos7493 3 месяца назад +2

      I was not expecting to like Set It Up as much as I did!

  • @jesssinclair3366
    @jesssinclair3366 3 месяца назад +15

    Love that you talked a lot about classic Hollywood! Some of my favourite romcoms come from this period - I definitely recommend Libeled Lady (1936), The Philadelphia Story (1940), Roman Holiday (1953) and Some Like It Hot (1959)! Think that you put clips from all of these films in the video so I'm pleased that you're clearly interested in Old Hollywood as well - love your channel!!

  • @tangibleghooosty
    @tangibleghooosty 3 месяца назад +7

    My favorite romcom (and favorite movie in general) is What If? (2013) with Daniel Radcliffe and Zoe Kazan
    I never see anyone talking about it either

  • @tatumgallahair7729
    @tatumgallahair7729 3 месяца назад +12

    I want Glen Powell to become a romcom mainstay, he was great in Set it Up and Anyone But You, he amazingly charming

    • @electrictwilight
      @electrictwilight 3 месяца назад +3

      Wait til Hit Man comes out. It's a blast and he's a star in it. I really wish it was coming out in theaters.

  • @flora7195
    @flora7195 3 месяца назад +14

    I can’t believe clueless wasn’t mentioned! I loved the charm, set design, wardrobe and music of 90s and 2000s romcoms. Everything these days seems rushed and romcoms are the fast fashion of the movie world. Maybe I’m just older now and it’s the nostalgia, but the Netflix romcoms are just terrible I feel bad for gen alpha

    • @splendidsey
      @splendidsey Месяц назад

      Yeah. When the „multiple movies based on Shakespeare came out“ line dropped, I thought Clueless was gonna be mentioned by name, but I guess not.

  • @yurilucas206
    @yurilucas206 3 месяца назад +2

    And Just Like That…my watchlist has grown. Loved video, though I always wonder which ones is the best when “No Strings Attached” and “Friends with Benefits” conversation starts.

    • @hannahf7984
      @hannahf7984 3 месяца назад

      In my opinion Friends with benefits but everyone thinks so differently. 😱

  • @PrincessJas24
    @PrincessJas24 3 месяца назад +10

    I’ll admit I almost tried to skip the ad but those dresses were wayyyyyy too good!! They look amazing on you too 😍

  • @tritaoph
    @tritaoph 3 месяца назад +50

    Romcoms are back. The world is healing!!

  • @BlankCanvas88
    @BlankCanvas88 3 месяца назад +5

    You always do such great work putting together these video essays! This one was about romcoms, but it got me thinking about dramatic romances that I love (romdroms?) like Ever After, A Walk to Remember, and A Walk in the Clouds.

  • @isabelmurphy9516
    @isabelmurphy9516 3 месяца назад +35

    I love the movie “the wedding date” such a perfect mix of funny, happy, sad, romance and i love the use of the destination and setting to tell the story.

  • @AKookieForYou
    @AKookieForYou 3 месяца назад +5

    RomComs will always be one of my favorite movie subgenres! While there are some definite misses, movies that are cringey, boring or just plain bad, there are way more that are really engaging, emotional, heartwarming, and funny. Some of my favorites are "A Cinderella Story", "13 Going on 30", "Legally Blonde", "10 Things I Hate About You", "Pretty Woman", "Easy A", "Too All the Boys" etc etc.

  • @hollywooddarling
    @hollywooddarling 3 месяца назад +4

    Romcoms are still huge in Asia and have never had a low point. Romantic dramas, romantic comedies have never ever suffered in Asia just because we aren't the ones churning out mindless Marvel trash. Recent favourites: (From Taiwan) Till We Meet Again, Our Times, You Are the Apple of My Eye, (From Japan) Tonight, at the Movies, (From South Korea) My Sassy Girl, Cyrano Agency, Innocent Steps, Finding Mr Destiny. For me, my all-time favourite romcoms are the gold standard, screwball comedy queen Babara Stanwyck's: The Lady Eve with Henry Fonda and Ball of Fire with Gary Cooper. Also love the Audrey Hepburn, Kate Hepburn ones, and How to Marry a Millionaire with Marilyn Monroe and Lauren Bacall. In the 2010s, I love Leap Year with Amy Adams and Matthew Goode, and also 27 Dresses with Katharine Heigl and James Marsden.

  • @melissarains1017
    @melissarains1017 3 месяца назад +9

    I was just talking about Romcoms and how I still watch the ones from 20 years ago instead of current movies!

  • @Samalys71
    @Samalys71 3 месяца назад +4

    it happened one night 1934, one flew over the cuckoo's nest 1975, and the silence of the lambs 1991 are the three films that won all 5 major categories -if you were curious like i was 😂

  • @kalliap.8983
    @kalliap.8983 3 месяца назад +16

    Great analysis as always! I would like to add two very different romcoms that I think deserve a shout-out. Silver linings playbook is not just a great romcom with a beautiful and unique backstory, but also was a big hit during the award season, with Jennifer Lawrence winning the Oscar. It's very surprising that it's not talked about more. For me it's both hilarious and tragically realistic at times, all wrapped up in a very beautiful and unique way which makes you feel like you are watching real people, sort of like a Sunday lunch withh your family. Another very different, but also quite underrated film is Netflix's Always be my maybe. It's one the very few romcoms that have come out recently, that I thoroughly enjoyed. The best part is that I didn't even know about Keanu Reeves' cameo, so when he appeared on screen I had the privilege of being just as shocked and excited as the characters in that scene. And I am not even going to mention the soundtrack... Best believe I punched Keanu Reeves has been living rent free in my mind ever since😂😂

  • @noobmasterruben5167
    @noobmasterruben5167 3 месяца назад +5

    Elemental, Palm Springs & To all the boys Ive loved are my recent favorite romcoms

  • @Christina-sc1px
    @Christina-sc1px 3 месяца назад +4

    I need a master list of all of the romcoms named in this video ASAP

  • @helendrew3640
    @helendrew3640 3 месяца назад +2

    I will maintain 'What's your number?' is an underrated classic

  • @natwone
    @natwone Месяц назад +1

    i don't know why, but i can watch 27 dresses again and again without getting bored by it. i really do like crazy stupid love and easy a, and while the writing is good i think the cast and chemistry IS a huge factor of it

  • @marquisehebbler9471
    @marquisehebbler9471 3 месяца назад +43

    It’s funny how i only recognized the movies from the 1940s and then the 1990s. It’s just something about style that draws me in

  • @tonialston1968
    @tonialston1968 3 месяца назад +2

    I think rom-coms unfortunately are going to be stuck in streaming platforms. It's not a reliable genre to send to the theater anymore in a time where people are more likely to wait for a digital release (unless it's something so big you think it needs to be seen in theater like a action or with special effects). When I was growing up, it was a lot of rom coms and teen buddy movies. My fave is Maid in Manhattan with JLo for some reason

  • @kate.b97
    @kate.b97 3 месяца назад +4

    glad I'm not alone in my semi-annual viewing of my comfort rom com you've got mail!

  • @gabrielle.j
    @gabrielle.j 3 месяца назад +2

    I’m obsessed with the Nicole Miller dress on you!!! You really shine ❤

  • @keenoled
    @keenoled 3 месяца назад +3

    Personal rewatched a thousand times faves: Jerry Maguire, Baby Boom, and one that didn't show up in the video, Something New! Highly recommend! He's white, she's black, he transforms her bleak backyard lawn into a magical fairy garden, my hearrrt. Movies that might not count as romcom but with excellent romance: The Bodyguard, The Abyss, Twister, A Walk In The Clouds, It Could Happen To You, Romancing The Stone.

  • @pookiebeshie
    @pookiebeshie 3 месяца назад +4

    awww romcons are back❤❤ the world sure is healing 💗💗

  • @jeremyud
    @jeremyud 3 месяца назад +1

    Leap Year is my favorite romantic comedy. It's quick, easy, and Matthew Goode wearing a cableknit sweater will never not be sexy to me.

  • @117mel
    @117mel 3 месяца назад +4

    no mention of rye lane the best romcom in recent years yet 💔

  • @sawyer6264
    @sawyer6264 3 месяца назад +53

    I’m very picky when it comes to romcoms and can count on one hand which ones I genuinely like, but if people are happy with the rise of them, then I’m happy

    • @lovelybrokenpony
      @lovelybrokenpony 3 месяца назад +1

      Need to know which you like!

    • @sawyer6264
      @sawyer6264 3 месяца назад +4

      @@lovelybrokenponyTop 5 (though they might be a little unconventional)
      Moonstruck
      Christmas In Connecticut
      But I’m a Cheerleader
      The Great Race
      The Princess Bride

    • @redheadgwiggy2619
      @redheadgwiggy2619 3 месяца назад

      Same here, and What If (2014) is one of my favs. It's SO SLEPT ON, even though both Daniel Radcliffe and Adam Driver is in it!

  • @may.k_me
    @may.k_me 3 месяца назад +14

    The issue with modern romcoms is that they are either adaptations of wattpad stories, or other badly written scripts.
    You can have all the classic tropes, but make it interesting. That's where scenes and dialogues come in.
    But more than anything, the acting. And most people try to act over the top when doing a romcom when really it's a balancing act.
    I really enjoyed Set It Up. I even rewatched it recently and it was fun.
    I also watched Anyone But You. And it just didn't work for me. It should have, but it didn't. It was too corny and cringey and the acting felt off

  • @molly_lf
    @molly_lf 3 месяца назад +1

    The video I needed! In the last month I've started watching and rewatching a lot of the romcoms of the 90s and 2000s!

  • @FlowerEmblem
    @FlowerEmblem 3 месяца назад +6

    This is pretty great timing. For my bookclub this week, we were planning to each share a poem/verse/very short story about love as a Valentine's Day special. Needless to say I'm not into watching/reading romance, so I don't have any ideas. Any ideas welcome 😂

  • @denisedavidson3823
    @denisedavidson3823 3 месяца назад +5

    Great video, thank you! These rom-com movies are in direct relationship to the romance book genre and direct condemnation they receive.

  • @makenzievan6058
    @makenzievan6058 3 месяца назад +1

    Saving this because you mentioned A LOT of romcoms I haven’t seen yet

  • @pookiebeshie
    @pookiebeshie 3 месяца назад +9

    i love your icon wall so much💕💕💕

  • @TheLegendaryMovieCritic
    @TheLegendaryMovieCritic 3 месяца назад +3

    Crazy Rich Asians, Isn’t It Romantic, The Lost City, Free Guy, Ticket To Paradise, No Hard Feelings & Anyone But You so glad that hit romcoms are coming back!

  • @tacocat9844
    @tacocat9844 3 месяца назад +2

    anyone but you was AMAZING i can’t stop raving about it. it was perfect and also hilarious, i was cackling out loud while watching

  • @val7323
    @val7323 3 месяца назад +5

    anyone but you was so bad i couldn’t finish🫢 and i loveee rom coms

  • @ColombianTica17
    @ColombianTica17 3 месяца назад +1

    Im surprised you didn’t mention Warm bodies from 2013. I know its also considered horror but its a romcom technically and its one of my faves. Love your vids! ❤

  • @caitlynwinders6709
    @caitlynwinders6709 3 месяца назад +1

    girl the ad inclusion in this is perfect and seamless! also, all of the fits you wore are so cute.

  • @selfieignite
    @selfieignite 3 месяца назад +7

    Can you talk about TV romcoms like Crazy Ex Girlfriend and Selfie?

  • @audreysheeks9036
    @audreysheeks9036 3 месяца назад +4

    I think the reason Rom-Coms are failing in the past 10 years is because everyone feels the need to find something to HATE. It's unfortunate because it doesn't hurt to watch a happy-go-lucky movie. But everyone loves to nit-pick instead of just enjoying the ride.

  • @Sarah-zt3oc
    @Sarah-zt3oc 3 месяца назад +3

    dont forget about the romcom to historical romance pipeline

  • @amandalewis8590
    @amandalewis8590 3 месяца назад +1

    Some of my favourite rom-coms are “Friends with Benefits” “The Mummy”(yes I would consider it a romantic film with action tossed in to ‘masculine-ize” it) “Stranger Than Fiction” and “Deadpool” (another controversial pick true).

  • @bogwoman
    @bogwoman 3 месяца назад

    What a beautiful, stupendous ode to the genre! I have to give you credit for this, great work ❤

  • @nbunnysnowboard
    @nbunnysnowboard 3 месяца назад +1

    My two favorite rom-coms star the same people- 50 First Dates and the Wedding Singer. Adam Sandler and Drew Barrymore both know how to pull off sweet, charming characters who can be absolutely hilarious when needed. I love these movies 🥰🥰

  • @lynseyfahs8628
    @lynseyfahs8628 2 месяца назад

    Another A+ review.
    I also love romcoms and it bums me out that they have gotten so left behind. I loved the history and the millions of movie suggestions!
    Thanks for another awesome video ❤

  • @iscfia
    @iscfia 3 месяца назад

    i love all your videos, you're so articulate and your videos are always fascinating 💗

  • @MrPk266
    @MrPk266 3 месяца назад

    A very enjoyable and well researched video! Great to watch! 🔥

  • @junkonatsumizaka5149
    @junkonatsumizaka5149 3 месяца назад +4

    Some of my favorite rom-coms include: When Harry Met Sally (which I enjoyed with my boyfriend last Valentine's Day), How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days (the Valentine's Day before that), Coming to America, and Overboard. I watched this video looking for more recommendations, so the movies you named (most of which I'd never heard of before) got me excited. Thanks!

  • @meganschmittou1191
    @meganschmittou1191 3 месяца назад +1

    I watched Couples Retreat so many times in early adulthood because it was one of the few DVDs my parents had at their house still after I moved out. It's a ridiculous movie with what I'd call a small ensemble cast, but the comedians in it really carry the movie. It's goofy and memorable, and doesn't take itself seriously at all.

  • @finegerie
    @finegerie Месяц назад

    I really loved this video and I also liked that you gave visual nods to queen Latifah but I wish you would of spoke on her more she was the queen of rom coms! 😭love your channel ❤

  • @ladisneyprincesse
    @ladisneyprincesse 3 месяца назад +6

    To me, the RomCom died in the early 2000’s!

  • @vivienaboud7786
    @vivienaboud7786 3 месяца назад

    Your videos are the best!!!!!!! The girls love you and appreciate you

  • @indiiedreamer
    @indiiedreamer 3 месяца назад +2

    I think I watch Pretty Woman and My Best Friend's Wedding at least 3 times a year, and The Holiday for every Christmas ♥

  • @michaelcain9324
    @michaelcain9324 3 месяца назад +1

    My favorites: My Best Friend’s Wedding, It’s Complicated, Deskset, The Holiday, Something’s Gotta Give, Sweet Home Alabama, Love Simon, Trick (you’ve got to see it if you haven’t already), Moonstruck and You’ve Got Mail.

  • @brandyloutherback9288
    @brandyloutherback9288 3 месяца назад +1

    I want to see more Historical Fiction-type rom-coms! Some Historical Fiction Rom-coms I adore are Anything Goes: A Musical Comedy and The Boyfriend, set on the French Riviera in the mid-1920s! Then there's At Long Last Love, set in 1930s New York, starring Madeline Khan! I also loved Singing In the Rain, set in the late 1920s! All of them involve romantic entanglements of some kind!

  • @pookiebeshie
    @pookiebeshie 3 месяца назад +1

    love this video so much❤❤❤

  • @purpleturtle395
    @purpleturtle395 3 месяца назад +1

    it's an indie but Big Eden (2000) is a beautiful gay rom com and one of my favourite films of all time! "Big Eden follows thirty-something Henry Hart who returns to his childhood Montana home to confront his unrequited passion for his high school best friend."
    It's so sweet and funny - the whole town (lovingly) meddles and has such a beautiful found family element

  • @hamdialihassan1048
    @hamdialihassan1048 3 месяца назад +2

    I really love the proposal and clueless ❤

  • @daniellepilon7433
    @daniellepilon7433 3 месяца назад +10

    Favourites are Pretty Woman, Notting hill, the Holiday, The Family Man, the kissing booth, Sabrina, working girl, the hating game, pretty in pink, sixteen candles, Jerry macguire, Bridget Jones, when harry met sally, runaway bride, set it up, ten things I hate about you, and four weddings and a funeral.

  • @WorldXplorer1
    @WorldXplorer1 3 месяца назад +6

    Confessions of a Shopaholic (2009) is sooo underated!
    Some of fave Rom Coms from the 2010's (that weren't featured in the video):
    Monte Carlo (2011)
    Just go with it (2011)
    Jumping the Broom (2011)
    Baggage Claim (2013)
    The Other Woman (2014)
    The Choice (2016)
    Some Faves from the 2020's so far :
    A nice girl like you (2020)
    The Hating Game (2021)
    Father of the Bride (2022 version)
    Wedding Season (2022)
    Rye Lane (2023)
    I tried so much to like 'Anyone but you' but they had more chemistry on the press tour than in the movie as you said!
    Honourable mention: Can you keep a secret (2019)

  • @alexissprowl844
    @alexissprowl844 3 месяца назад +1

    I would like a whole video analysis on No Strings Attached vs Friends with Benefits

  • @wthv8925
    @wthv8925 3 месяца назад +1

    fire island is so good tho, we need to talk about it more

  • @cristinasantana6602
    @cristinasantana6602 3 месяца назад +1

    your description of WOody ALlen. amazing