Lesbian Bed Death and Flirting With Women (Lesbian vs Baby Gay Ft.
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- Опубликовано: 25 фев 2021
- Lesbian bed death, flirting with women, KISSING, me and Ashley Gavin chat about it all.
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Ok but wouldn't it be amazing to have Lesbian v. Bisexual where ALAYNA Is the lesbian and the GUEST is the bisexual!?
ACTUALLY..!
OH IT'S COMING
@@AlaynaJoyOfficial Melanie Murphy (or sis)? Jamie and Shaaba? Anna Akana? Dodie (her new album/songs...)? Or is it Jessie Paege (her recent evolving things/music). Or someone more masculine or non-RUclipsry... Can't wait either way.
PS have you had any bi guys on the show before really? In mention/quick promo I think, trying to remember through all those so many Don't Bi It episodes....
@@AlaynaJoyOfficial OMG YES
@@johnlondonbimeetup7961 I think there was a bi guy but it was more focused on his trans experience at pride. If I'm wrong someone correct me😂. EDIT: I found the video. His sexuality is in the fluid spectrum, but he refers to himself as queer.
"I don't know what the vibe of your channel is"
Chaos. it's chaos.
but heartwarming, fun chaos.
This comment wins
@@AlaynaJoyOfficial my life is now complete
I thought she said she knew Alayna.
How can she not know about I Don't Bi It?
Of course Alayna is always 100% serious. No joking allowed.
@@ireallyreallyhategoogle this is a no nonsense channel
@@zen.9034 exactly
I’m starting a petition for us to be called the joyriders 😂
where do i sign?
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I love it!
Agreed
Sub-petition for the channel to then also have Roxette's "Joyride" as the theme 👀
“You have a kid and he’s half republican” 😂💀 absolutely terrifying.
Sorry for the echoey audio at parts!! I should have worn headphones, I’m new to this whole virtual collaboration thing and am learningggg 💛
just sounds like the lesbian queen speaking to her kingdom :D love it
No worries the echoes in the end just made what she said about being yourself sound even more important and epic :)
kept it real and gave visual echoes of Phil Donahue walking through audience
I didn't notice.
Ashley Gavin is the frickin best. Great video 🏳️🌈
we are the joyriders now like if you agree
joyriders/joybabies i apologize
i agree. i am so proud of this.
Am I the only one who thinks it sounds kinda dirty? Lmao
@@rhymemelodies1018 nope
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ALAYNA I LOVE IT!!!!! ZOOM ZOOM ZOOM
This is the collab I never knew I needed
Welcome to this channel.
As a member since before Alayna first came out as Bi, i think you will fit right in.
We always take everything very seriously.
omg joybabies and joyriders is killing me
edit: I really actually like these names and I hope they stick omgakhdfahsjkasdjh
yay :)
Emoji to help the sticky factor: 🍭
YESSS!!
today i learned: sexuality is a choice, but political stances are inherited
nature vs. nature.
Its not always a choice sometimes you are born like that
@@Whitewolf1827 i know, it was just a joke. i was referring to 14:16 and 14:56
I know it's a joke, but research actually suggests there is far less choice involved with political stances than we typically believe... Check out jonathan haidt :P
LMAO
"I'm afraid men are republicans" 😂
i am.
@@ashgavs So, you're not Canadian then?
@@ashgavs as a straight woman its a very real fear. The last thing I want is a child who is half republican
@@lilabs_ as a lesbian, I wouldn’t date a democrat.
@@boozoochamp Same here. Glad I'm not the only one. Lol
Joy babies and joyriders I’m here for it 100%
yay
As a 30 year old baby gay I really needed to hear that point about being with men and liking it in the past making you less gay now. I really needed to hear that.
I'm only 19y old, but I've known I'm a lesbian for like 5 or 6 years and I just wanted to say, you're valid no matter when you come out (to others or yourself) and what or whom you've done prior
@@lovingweirdo4727 😊😊 Oh my gosh you are so so sweet, thank you for taking the time to reach out and say that. Its really kind and you made my day x
@@theopinionatedwoman Of course! It made my day that it made your day :) Everyone should know their identity is valid
Oh gosh, thank you for also writing your age...I’m 33....and I’m so confused with my sexuality right now...
I'm 15 and i identify as an elderly geriatric gay. c: im so tired
I am 23 and I have been tired for 25 years
Well...you made me feel like whatever is beyond "elderly geriatric gay." I came out five years before you were born!!! :)
This must mean that I'm like a thousand in gay years 🤣
@@mjp2palmtree Hahaha! That’s literally what I was thinking! In a few more years, perhaps we will obtain “Immortal Gay Status!” 🌟🏳️🌈😇😹👍
I am a baby gay in a very tired and decrepit adult body. It’s a weird mix of wanting to do fun stuff and thinking “I’m to old, tired and lazy to do new things”.
If she’s looking at your mouth she might be a bit deaf. Just saying. Not understanding what you're saying is also a really good reason to fixate on someone’s mouth.
As a person who's hearing periodically gets bad, I agree with you. However, it's important I think to note whether they're looking at your mouth looking focused like they're trying to figure out what you're saying, or if they're looking like they're admiring you suggestively lol.
@@maggieo1683 that's true haha 😂 however, I do think the different isn't always as obvious as one would hope
@@alienorfrei6867 Yeah that's valid sadly. I hope I'll be able to tell, because I need a girlfriend lol
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I get what you're saying but it's easy to tell the difference.
My Brain went “are baby gays like baby carrots?”
I couldn’t figure out how they are similar after I asked this question.
Well, like baby gays, baby carrots are just new to the carrot game! It doesn't make them any any less of a carrot. They're not really sure how to "be" a carrot, but you know, they're figuring things out. Every seasoned carrot has to start somewhere!
I apologize. That was truly awful lol.
@@cecel6643 thank you
some people pass on us even tho we taste the same
@@cecel6643 unfortunately baby carrots are just full grown carrots cut into a small size, which is DEFINITELY not what baby gays are
Who else needs the "You can be gay if you want to" slogan on a t-shirt or button or sticker or something?
Stay tuned 😘😘😘
But it does make it seem like a choice.
@@ireallyreallyhategoogle Yep, I'm not sure why Alayna keep saying it this way. Should be more like, "if you want to be gay it probably means you are, so go on and love/accept yourself".
@@mariebourgot4949 Much more simply "It's Okay To Be Gay."
@@mariebourgot4949 It seems to be in a more tongue in cheek kind of way. I think queer people should be able to express their feelings about their orientation and identity however they want, even if that's playfully and even if that might be misinterpreted by homophobes already looking for reasons to delegitimize queerness. We're not responsible for 'being gay is a choice' rhetoric anyway, so I don't think our self-expression should be limited by it, and I think it's awesome to be able to reclaim it. The argument that being gay isn't a choice, while obviously true, can sometimes be based in framing queerness as undesirable and inherently bad instead of framing homophobia as the thing that's bad.It can limit queerness to victimization and even make it seem like we're being victimized by our own queerness or that it's something that we all want to run away from. So espousing the message that 'Being gay isn't a choice but even if it were, it would be a great one because queerness is great' is super positive and refreshing. It obviously has personal meaning for her because her wanting to be gay was a reflection of the fact that she actually was gay, but sometimes having something that says 'hey! You're allowed to be this way if that's a desire you have' is something people need to hear. And it's kind of a fuck you to the idea that everyone should want to be straight or that your only relationship to queerness is one where you are victimized by it or have no other choice. None of us want to be oppressed, but that doesn't mean we want to be straight. I realized I was gay because I wanted to be and having the permission to have that desire was a big deal for me!
Ashamed to admit I had no idea this amazing lady existed but as a newly minted joybaby I can safely say I’m OBSESSED
WELCOME
The echo kinda adds to the celestial, seasoned lesbian vibe here. XD
“So you fucked that guy and you liked it, you can still be gay” THANK YOU BOTH FOR THIS VIDEO. That was literally what I needed to hear and now I feel like I can be who I am fully
JOYBABIEEEEEES assemble.
ALL OF YOU STOP THIS RIGHT NOW
@@AlaynaJoyOfficial im sorry, we're on a.. joyride.. that cannot be stopped 🤪
@@AlaynaJoyOfficial never
@@anrtruss0 keep ridin' that joy.
@@AlaynaJoyOfficial You're right, Joy Riders is much better.
I notice bed death occurs when a couple is living like they're attached at the hip, never apart and becoming more and more the same energetically speaking. Electro-magnetic attraction starts to drop if they lose their differences. So my advice would be to read up on codependency and avoid it!! Keep your separate activities, separate friends, separate hobbies, separate interests - don't just do everything together or become mirrors of each other - and definitely don't meld into one person. Be able to bring to the table things to talk about that you experienced separately. Sleeping in your own separate bedrooms can also help keep the sexual charge alive, so if you must spend a lot of time together (if you're running a business together, for example, so you're together all day), that's another possibility for keeping your own unique energy your own (thus keeping the sexual charge alive). Keeping your energies different from each other's seems to be what keeps the attraction charge going. Otherwise the magnetic charge dies over time.
With the echoey sound she just sounds like a celestial messenger. 🙌 It's beautiful and I'll listen to her wise words with joy
wow, i appreciate this so much.
"I'm actually always crying like a little bit" SAME! 😂
The question about knowing if the friendship has a vibe or not, it's sooo much harder when she's also gay and you're like "oh, fuck"
THIS D:
I feel like the "gay or European" thing americans apply to m how men dress could also apply to the touching thing. If she's touching you she might like you, or she might be European/Latin American.
She might just be Alayna or Willow.
I mean some girls in high school literally bullied me that me and my friend weren't friends because we didn't hug.
I used to not touch people but now i do
When alone with my gay gang we just lay our heads on eachother or whatever. Or with my best friend (straight) even head on chest. No attraction to her, she js like my sister love her to death.
And in the netherlands we are more distant than other places. The tree kisses but me and my cousins have switched to a bro hug type thing.
And my boyfriend wants to take me to spain. Where he has already warned me i will likely be touched a lot although maybe that will be not such a thing given corona will not completely be gone. I am bisexual hence the bf but also gay group
That might be true, but also I have to say that not all European cultures are touchy. For example the nordic countries. (I live in Finland)
Well some og us are touchy (Danish here). Especially females.
Agree on the not in the North (from Sweden). I had a friend from East Europe and she was very touchy, just her way. But when a swede touch me it may meen something? 😅
Hey Alayna! Long time viewer, first time commenter. Wanted to touch on the "lesbian bed death" question. My wife and I have been together for 21 years, and for us and some of our friends, both straight and gay, have gone through long periods of no sex. But seeing them together you can see how much their relationship transcended physical shows of love to a more cerebral one. Not to say sex isn't important, it is, even in long term relationships. There is the emotional depth of love as well. My wife and I are still physical, we do have make out sessions, but we can go long periods without sex and still feel that intense closeness. We have moved beyond the idea of, "well, if she ain't getting it at home, is she getting it somewhere else?" I guess what I am saying is this: sex should not be a definition of a strong relationship, in my opinion. All of that being said, sex is awesome!
I use to think that happened with "married straight couples" until I met a few lesbian couples. And either one of them would hit on me and then tell me her dead sex life...😬🧐.. I've never experienced lesbian death bed.. I've met a few lesbian couples who are in these relationships!
That's a nice insight.
The combination of Alayna Joy and Ashley Gavin is golden and brilliant. I'm a 58 year old straight guy and if other straights can't enjoy content like this they just need to relax and enjoy all the different kinds of lovely humans ...
After 5+ years watching you, we finally have a name!! Joybabies!
glad to be of service.
I found it very healing to hear Ashley, who I perceive as this deacon of the lesbians-so self-assured, so unapologetic, so HERSELF as a long-out person-talk about her teen years of hoping she would some day like men.
I've gone through a ~journey~ very similar to Alayna's, and am still trying to find my sea-legs, so to speak. It's really validating to hear that it isnt just "late bloomers" who grow up desperately wishing for het attraction and relationships up to the point of actually lying to ourselves. To know that this is a more common experience in the community makes me feel good... like I can still grow into the confidence that Ashley exudes in her identity and in general. That is something I deeply admire and strive for.
Ashley Gavin is 🤣🌈 🔥💜😅 Thanks for introducing another cool lesbian to us!
thanks!
i kinda like “joy babies”
me too.
@@ashgavs the queen has decreed
Joy Riders is better.
i also think “if i was bi i would choose to be gay” and that’s how i finally decided i’m a lesbian, cause if i was really bi/pan i wouldn’t think that (bi people you’re valid and awesome btw ily)
As someone who just dove deep into their lesbian side, and fell madly in love with my best friend who constantly cuddles me and kisses my cheek and all that, this video broke my heart bc they aren’t ready to date me and I respect that so much but bc of how overly sensitive I am I had to take a step back from the friendship
Been there too, it's not easy :/
Ouchie .. yup been there...good luck with that
😭oh man I’m sorry
"If she's looking at you're mouth"
* sweats in hard of hearing lip reader *
Disclaimer: not a lesbian, not even a woman, I just love this channel.
Ashley’s energy reminds me of Entrapta from She Ra and I’m here for it
Omg now i cant unsee it yesss
I appreciate Ashley because unconditional love and unconditional roasting is exactly what I love.
GO WATCH ASHLEY'S VIDEO PART 2: ruclips.net/video/rjM0f8SyDr8/видео.html
PLZ AND THANK YOU!
@@ashgavs Say hello to your newest subscriber!
Mom and Dad back in the early days!
My vote is for Joyriders🤟🏻
me too. where do i vote?
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Watching these two flirt is really touching. I love you both
LOL paused cause when she said if she’s looking at your mouth I was like oof I hate looking people in their eyes idk it freaks me out lmaooo and I feel like at least if I’m looking at their mouth it looks kinda like I’m looking at their face and maybe they can’t tell now I’m questioning my whole reality lmao but also I think my adhd sometimes makes it hard for me to hear idk how to explain it and sometimes just like subtitles idk I feel like I understand people more looking at their mouth
I was looking for other comments on that. I always look at people’s mouth because otherwise I get so lost with what they are saying (exactly like subtitles too XD ). Also d/Deaf and hard of hearing people would stare at people’s mouth to understand. Another trick I’ve heard to deal with not wanting to look at people in the eyes is looking at their nose, but somehow that makes me very uncomfortable too. Like, noses are weird. Plus they don’t move when you talk.
@@alienorfrei6867 noses are so weird lmaooo I can’t stare at someone’s nose id start to laugh I’m so glad I’m not the only one who does this LOL tik tok has shown me my weird quarks arent just a me thing and I’m so greatful
I'm the same way!! My friend got pissed at me in highschool bc i was staring at her bf's mouth when he talked and i was like "lmao wut"
This video made me audibly laugh out loud MULTIPLE times. I love both of you so much. Your loving energy combined with Ashley’s chaotic one makes the perfect vid. This is my new comfort video lmao.
Also this was iconic! I feel like there were so many things you all discussed that just made sense! It was awesome and helped! Like Alayna how you couldn’t tell the difference between a strong platonic love and a romantic love I felt like you explained that well. And how I forget her name...... ☹️ she offered the suggestion on asking a girl out!!! Omg I’m like honestly saving this video and coming back to that. That was immaculate, iconic, and 10/10 will use! Thanks you two are the best!
This collab was both hilarious and informative, and I absolutely loved it. You two are so funny together!
I'm so excited for the bonus content on patreon from this one omg
OMG I didn't know I needed this collab SO BADLY.
I did.
I really love the god like echo happening as Ashley gives solid advice.
This is so incredibly helpful and informative, and I really wish this convo had been more accessible when I was younger.
That is by far THE MOST HELPFUL advice I have watched on how to tell your friend you're in love with them! So well put! Thank you millions. Also the colab vid was great.
wow didn't know I was a genius, thank you
LOVE this collab! Totally here for more of it! 🧡
I freaking love your content so much Alayna!!
This video was awesome, super enjoyable, and helpful. ♥️
Longtime gay but bad at the dating and social stuff this had good hilarious information 😂 thanks ladies!💜
youre welcome!
thank you guys for this, it's amazing. I loved watching this. Just. Thank you.
Who is this very good looking and funny veteran lesbian and how can i marry her? Also, I'm all on board with Joy Babies as our new collective name #TeamJoyBabies
it me.
I am living for this outfit Alayna
Also this was so entertaining
This was actually so helpful and funny, thank you!!
I can't believe she didn't call out your cough intro after you called out her zoom 😂😂😂
YAY! Two of my favorite creators!!
OMFG I haven't even watched the vid yet but when I saw your faces next to each other in the thumbnail I actually gasped aloud
this validated the HELL out of my feelings thank you so much
This was such a wonderful serotonin boost!
I loved this video! Your dynamic with Ashley is excellent
Oh my God, I'm fans of both of you separately. I was so excited to see this. Ashley telling Alayna how much she loves her. So cute
So glad this series is back, although under a new name 💕
i loooooved this! Ashley is hilarious! great start to my day :D
I love the chemistry you two share in this video and would love to see more content with you both, maybe a part two. That would be amazing. Thank you💗👯♀️
Okay but WHY DOES EVERYONE IN THIS SERIES DO SUCH A GOOD JOB!?!?? Please bring all of them together in an episode!
This was my dream collab omg, great video
youtube just recommended this video to me and you and ashley are both so baby faced and bright eyed in this video 🥺
I laughed so much, love this series!
This was so fun to watch!
I loved your episode on Ashley's podcast! It's so interesting seeing her face instead of just hearing her voice lmao
It's really very interesting and informative
Thank you for making it😄
So glad u said 33 is prime I’m 33 this year and recently single lol so yay thanks for that xx
"I'm afraid that men are republicans". Uhm yes I feel this
I kinda avoid talking to any new men soooo....
meanwhile non-americans: ...
@@ripmyfictionalfriends Canadians too
Log cabin republicans exist, dude
@@ireallyreallyhategoogle ah right
This was so hilarious and I laughed so hard through this video and loved this video a lot thank you for sharing this video. Alayna you are so great and enjoyed this a lot
the duo I needed in my life!
Loved this!
This is amazing!!! Definitely checking this podcast out and love you as always Alayna! I'm down with being a joyrider joybaby too haha! I too am a baby gay so this is just so wonderful!
I love Ashley shes hilarious! Instantly subbed to her podcast
Gah, I loved this video. Helpful, to the point, and hilarious. I'll be looking into Ashley's stuff now and you two mesh really well. 👌 Hope to see more collabs between you two in the future.
I'm crying from laughter. From one joybaby; That was awesome!
Wow! I knew Ashley was funny but she actually has really good advice too!!
😂😂 Ashley Gavin is hilarious! This was great
thank you!!
When my two world collide, I LOVE Ashley 😁
hi!!!!
@@ashgavs I’m deceased 😭💕
I love Ashley!! You guys are hilarious together
lol I feel like I can relate very deeply with alayna's journey although I'm not a gay woman, and I really love that I experienced a very similar case of comp het, it was almost as if the universe lead me to this channel so I can get help from her ❤️🐨
Hiiiii i loved this
i have a question and it has nothing to do with this but HOW IS YOUR SLEEP PARALYSIS????? i haven’t heard u talk about it in so long and i’m just curious. anyway i like your channel(: much love from spain
Omg I didn’t know who this other person was and then as soon as I clicked on the video I knew. This is actually so exciting.
My first crush was towards a female and I just always knew I was a lesbian. Never had any sexual or romantic experiences with men which I am so glad I didn’t! I agree, some people just have the gut feeling and don’t need to be with a man to figure it out.
OH GOD I'M LAUGHING SO MUCH! HAHAHAH! GREAT VIDEO!
Wow I did not know i needed this coupleeee
this video is pure chaos and I love it
buahaha this was pure chaos!! thanks for making my day!!!
I LOVE YOU TWO SO MUCH, you bring me so much JOY 😏😂 oof
This is my favorite episode ever.
Not Alayna telling Ashley she hesitated reaching out to go on WHGS and them now having a podcast together 😂❤
This is amazinggggg
the data thing makes so much sense! I always felt bad for not being able to tell for sure who I was attracted to without actual experience.
Love Alayna. Love Ashley. When the two collab it's incredible.