If you had no idea who these guys were and this was the first video you’ve seen, you’d never know this was a sports show. Just a great convo from all of them
My first date with my current husband, we met at a restaurant. When the bill came, he proceeds to pull out his wallet. I told him, “I got it.” He said, “Really?” I said, “Yes. You forgot you told me it was your birthday and I said I was treating you.” Mind you, this was our first time seeing each other in person. We had only chatted on the phone and perused each others Facebook pages.😂😂. He almost teared up when I paid and fact that I remembered. It’s ok to pay and/or treat your man.
I’m with Chad ain’t no way in hell I’m paying $300 or $400 on a 1st date. We can go to the park and feed the ducks. Some of these women are out of their minds.
Some people enjoy fine dining and some don't. I've never experienced the rude behavior you're describing. My Daddy said, the pleasure of my company was an honor.
@@flashsanders1331 Not a question of enjoying fine dining. But the purpose of a first date is to get to know each other. Additionally, isn't the pleasure of HIS company an honor as well?
@@flashsanders1331 No disrespect to your pops but that sounds very simpish so only your company is an honor and not the mans? What makes your time any more valuable than his? Your not prince Akeem, ain't nobody throwing flowers at your feet when you walk 😂
@@61vulb To be real $159 is not crazy for a Seafood spot. How did the Brotha get into the situation? Why did they not establish these ground before getting seated in the Restaurant? If he can't put up $150 he shouldn't be outside dating.
My first date with my Gf of going on 3 years she drove to me about 45 min to a restaurant i chose. That restaurant was down the street from my apartment and i walked there. I wanted to see if she’d be down to go to me, and she didn’t mind at all. She walks in and we both just started talking. I was curious how she was gonna order and believe it or not, all she got was a margarita and 2 tacos out of the entire menu. She also didn’t even want anymore drinks after the fact. We were there two hours and she went back home with a total tab of $37. Second date again, we met up at a promenade to enjoy some burgers and fries. She got a cheeseburger, one beer and we shared a basket of large cheese fries. I went to the bathroom and i came back to her serving my plate with some fries (i was shocked). My tab was $55. Third date i picked her up and took her to a nice Italian restaurant and spent $150. Asked her to be my girl our 4th date and we’ve been together ever since. I’ve met some pretty wild chicks with crazy mindsets. She was the first i met in a long time who had good intentions.
Unc said they're releasing doves on Sunday!🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm go use that one! "Got a whole 4-door Benz with a car seat in the back." I love how honest and vulnerable these 3 black men are being. Kudos to them!
Yes in deed they trying to talk to chad he so hurt jr telling him try to talk it out see is going work she sad on her podcast they had a problem chad didn’t want sign prenup she sad she work hard for her stuff and hr did to she just want protect her stuff that’s the problem they having she want go Paris honeymoon chad not with it pluse expensive wedding in the bahuma Iiam j just saying she been married 2times 4kids he got all thes baby mama he being married lost his football caree f messing with her had go over seas got to the beach call it a day she want something for her girlfriend girl it’s beatful they got pay the bills he so heart he in pain
Don’t worry, divorce comes in the 40s 😂 just kidding. Never idolize a partner so much that you’ll fall apart if they depart. Put God or whatever higher being you believe in first, then love yourself, invest in yourself, treat yourself kind.
My First Dates was generally about conversation and getting to know one another a little. A clean quite public space like a coffe shop or nice quite Resteraunt. If she was about quantity and not quality it wasn't going to work.
I really wish these guys could find someone who's genuine. I'm newly divorced, and I'm so afraid to get back out there. I just want to be loved properly. That's it, and that's all.
I used to feel like I always had to be in a relationship for most of my life. Nowadays I enjoy my peace and don’t care about being alone. Sometimes I enjoy being alone more than having to try and make someone else happy
That's your problem. You can't make anyone else happy. Happiness comes from you for you. No man can make a woman happy. No woman can make a man happy. Once you learn that, that's when you'll succeed at dating.
I agree with you Ocho! Now, some guys push their agenda on ladies too - example (real) I was approached and asked if they could take me out. I replied and said, let’s grab a drink at a bar just to get to know each other (1 drink, and I bought money). He insisted on me getting dinner and I told him it’s not necessary! He asked where can we go, I said let’s go to Negril BK and I only got an appetizer and One drink! He then proceeded to ask me to pay my part when the receipt came - that’s when I went off - he paid and I paid the tip -- that’s was my fist and last date with this man, and I blocked him. Am I wrong?
She over did it with the ordering but she REQUESTED a steakhouse. I’ve never heard of someone directly requesting that. So I think he should have known what type of time she was on.
I live in NY $159 at a Seafood spot is not astronomical. I'm no simp advocate but cmon Brothers if we with a good Woman you should expect to spend a certain amount at a Seafood spot, why are you even at the restaurant if you cant afford it. I definitely wouldn't have just ordered a drink and put $100 on the table and walked out. I know we can't buy Love but we should Gird up our loins and realize its okay to spend a little. Thats just not Player right there.
I must be different cuz the money doesn’t impress me. Can you hold a proper conversation? How do you treat people? What would your family/friends say about you? That’s what I care about. Anybody can spend money. Cheesecake Factory still works! lol
This is from last week but exactly this! Money is important, meaning that people should live within their means, but what's really hard to find is trust and love and intelligence all in the same person!
@@carelvoltaire1654😂 that doesn't mean he needs to crawl back to her, it means he needs to work on himself. I hope you're not implying he should beg her to take him back.
JR on night cap is perfect
fax no funny hé the perfect median between em
Mi nikka high asf 😂
JR SWISHHHHHH
Unc has so many lines and wisdom, “You trynna be a partner, or sponsored?” 😂😂
depends how i see the longevity
@@KingSlat730 that's what she said...
😂😂 it's been said befo
@@mr.joshua6818😂😂😂😂
Shiiid $350 on one dinner. Bruh give me $300 for groceries and I’ll you cook dinner for the week and have you a lunch packed.🤣🤣
You said I need to bring that $300 where now?👀😂
@@remywhite4377😂😂😂
@@remywhite4377Shooters Shoot 🏀
😂😂Real talk!😂
@@remywhite4377😂😂😂😂
If you had no idea who these guys were and this was the first video you’ve seen, you’d never know this was a sports show. Just a great convo from all of them
Solid, mature, transparent conversation. Better than any Barbershop discussion 👌🏾
Club Shay Shay 4 the Win!
Nightcap
@ Understood, it all derived from Club Shay Shay. Either way Mr Sharp is a WINNER 🏆.
Thank you 😊
Love jr with you guys really good addition for the hoops episodes
Every once in a while an alley cat will find a whole chicken in a trash can.
Damn 😂
That’s classic!
A rat find a steak in the alley here n there
My first date with my current husband, we met at a restaurant. When the bill came, he proceeds to pull out his wallet. I told him, “I got it.” He said, “Really?” I said, “Yes. You forgot you told me it was your birthday and I said I was treating you.” Mind you, this was our first time seeing each other in person. We had only chatted on the phone and perused each others Facebook pages.😂😂. He almost teared up when I paid and fact that I remembered. It’s ok to pay and/or treat your man.
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When you pay for a guy the first he's going to expect you to pay every time you go out with him don't do it.
@@nancyelmon4544this has never happened
Exactly, I've no problem letting man know that I just enjoy his person.
@@nancyelmon4544No, not a real man.
If she can’t eat at Texas Roadhouse I have to find someone who will. Lol
Me! Those rolls are 🔥
Starbucks is more appropriate for a first date. Purpose is to get to know each other.
😂😂😂
I’ll go and my company gives us gift cards too lol.
31:50 Unc a lot of non married dudes have car seats 😂
Unc, Chad, and J.R. are funny. I'm in tears 😢 😭 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭.
Yes. I love their chemistry!
My boy J.R be higher than gas prices 😂
Full of that wine
Or Fourth quarter inflation 😂
Lmfaoooo that boy be on erything 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
"You use me for the ride i use you for the hide" 😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹
Dam thats was funny 😂😂
@ that man is crazy 😹
The is quality talk right here. Put JR on the roster!
I like him over Gilbert
"Somebody letting doves 🕊️ go on Sundays" I’m stealing that unc 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂
Thief
I ran that back 5 times lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Man that was funny af 🤣🤣
*PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT*
One of the BEST EPISODES SO FAR!That part about Shannon and his brother calling him and the face-time thing...
Thas REAL
I’m with Chad ain’t no way in hell I’m paying $300 or $400 on a 1st date. We can go to the park and feed the ducks. Some of these women are out of their minds.
Some people enjoy fine dining and some don't. I've never experienced the rude behavior you're describing. My Daddy said, the pleasure of my company was an honor.
@@flashsanders1331 Not a question of enjoying fine dining. But the purpose of a first date is to get to know each other. Additionally, isn't the pleasure of HIS company an honor as well?
@@flashsanders1331 No disrespect to your pops but that sounds very simpish so only your company is an honor and not the mans? What makes your time any more valuable than his? Your not prince Akeem, ain't nobody throwing flowers at your feet when you walk 😂
@@61vulb To be real $159 is not crazy for a Seafood spot. How did the Brotha get into the situation? Why did they not establish these ground before getting seated in the Restaurant? If he can't put up $150 he shouldn't be outside dating.
@@flashsanders1331This comment proves that all men aren't fathers.
My first date with my Gf of going on 3 years she drove to me about 45 min to a restaurant i chose. That restaurant was down the street from my apartment and i walked there. I wanted to see if she’d be down to go to me, and she didn’t mind at all. She walks in and we both just started talking. I was curious how she was gonna order and believe it or not, all she got was a margarita and 2 tacos out of the entire menu. She also didn’t even want anymore drinks after the fact. We were there two hours and she went back home with a total tab of $37. Second date again, we met up at a promenade to enjoy some burgers and fries. She got a cheeseburger, one beer and we shared a basket of large cheese fries. I went to the bathroom and i came back to her serving my plate with some fries (i was shocked). My tab was $55. Third date i picked her up and took her to a nice Italian restaurant and spent $150. Asked her to be my girl our 4th date and we’ve been together ever since. I’ve met some pretty wild chicks with crazy mindsets. She was the first i met in a long time who had good intentions.
You should marry her. Y’all sound like a good match. 🫶🏽
@@paige4128 I’m not against it 🙏🏼
Ken and Barbie
@@paige4128 thank you Paige 🙏🏼
@@higherway1036 nah. Ken tried to impress Barbie with his clothes and lavish life. I wasn’t trying to impress anyone ma dude.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 We are loving J.R.!!! Keep him on the show!!
This is why more guys are staying single instead of dealing with the bullshit.
💯
Or, guys should leave these lil girls alone, and go for a women. How about that?
@@VerleanHurdacting like grown women aren’t the worst spenders lol
Barbershop shop talk‼️
J.R. is the perfect addition to the show.
Agreed, he adds a perfect balance to it.
Unc said they're releasing doves on Sunday!🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm go use that one!
"Got a whole 4-door Benz with a car seat in the back."
I love how honest and vulnerable these 3 black men are being. Kudos to them!
Jr Smith crackin up at Unc 😂😂 he chill as hell
This was a good one especially when they got serious at the end
“Bring something to the picnic beside your appetite” 7:42 omg 🔥🔥😭😭🔥🔥
Uncle got the best quotables 😂😂 legit could be a comedian
This was the best episode yet
The way this episode got emotional at the end was absolutely great for us men.....real men talking.
This is one of the best Nightcap segments yet
It's crucial to take the time to heal after a breakup before moving into another relationship.
Thats why alot of people end up toxic cuz they never take time to heal
200 who? American dollars? 😂😂😂
Ocho : who shiiiid😂😂
I hope this segment was cathartic for ocho man you can tell he been hurt bad.
Yea idk how to explain it. But I can really relate to him and his expressions.
Man what an incredible conversation.
Need more topics like this episode. Shit got deep towards the end.
Unc said lobster. We know what comes with lobster, Unc lmao.
A alley cat will find a whole chicken in the trash!😂😂😂 LMAO!
Keep JR on the show during Basketball season. He is the third piece 😂
“ a alley cat will find a whole chicken in the trash he ain’t always gonna find scraps “ 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Make JR a permanent co-host
Yes in deed they trying to talk to chad he so hurt jr telling him try to talk it out see is going work she sad on her podcast they had a problem chad didn’t want sign prenup she sad she work hard for her stuff and hr did to she just want protect her stuff that’s the problem they having she want go Paris honeymoon chad not with it pluse expensive wedding in the bahuma Iiam j just saying she been married 2times 4kids he got all thes baby mama he being married lost his football caree f messing with her had go over seas got to the beach call it a day she want something for her girlfriend girl it’s beatful they got pay the bills he so heart he in pain
@@VickiePrice-n2fLost his career? The dude played a decade plus and he got with that doofy broad after his career was done.😂
@@remywhite4377 I don’t know how you understood anything in that comment lmao
I love this discussion....I can't stop laughing
Swish be talking that talk 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
Bringing in JR was brilliant. Ive never laughed so much watching night cap. 😂
They Was Preaching On This One. 💯
29:57 “you gon kill em unk”. 😂😂😂😂 ocho funny af
This had me crying😂😂😂😂
My ex got engaged 3 months after we broke up. That was when I was 28. I’m 30 now and that pain hasn’t left since. Forever changed me
Don’t worry, divorce comes in the 40s 😂 just kidding. Never idolize a partner so much that you’ll fall apart if they depart. Put God or whatever higher being you believe in first, then love yourself, invest in yourself, treat yourself kind.
That person did you a favor. They saved you from divorcing.
Get yourself together! There’s a better younger version of your ex out there! Find your value and see the world
Just understand my man, she was only there for you cause you offered her something. She isnt the forever one for you, keep searching.
Ocho acting like he taking notes from unc, boii we know you messaging relle back "Baby I misssssss yo fine ahhh" 😂😂😂😂
Based on his energy I doubt that
@@King77Lee I'm just playinnn fam, we love Ocho 😂🫡
These brothers preaching !!!
Jr said I’ll leave and go right to the sto and grab a whole bottle lmaooo
My First Dates was generally about conversation and getting to know one another a little. A clean quite public space like a coffe shop or nice quite Resteraunt. If she was about quantity and not quality it wasn't going to work.
YALL WE HAVE ALL BEEN THROUGH THIS SEASON...BUT REAL TALK, OCHO DOES SEEM SAD!
Man I truly appreciate and enjoyed this particular segment a lot of truth wisdom and emotion 💯💯💯💪🏻
Great conversation with Jr !
Best episode so far 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
15:23 😂😂😂 best part
Facts! 😂😂😂😂
I really wish these guys could find someone who's genuine. I'm newly divorced, and I'm so afraid to get back out there. I just want to be loved properly. That's it, and that's all.
That Ocho miss his Relle & I respect bro for being vulnerable
Damn chick left JR mid game and leveled up to courtside seats. Wowwww
Wow I'm impressed by the maturity of the conversation
Coffee first date, we’ll go from there!
I'm a woman and have no problem with this. We are both feeling each other out so why a long drawn out date?
@@MT-hk9cpPickmesheisha, stop it.
Not even Red Lobster or Applebee's? 👀
@@VerleanHurdNo, no foodie date for a 1st date. We know you women love simps that pays for a meal and then you bounce.
This was some real talk right here. 26:10 ... Ocho spittin! 🔥
ocho-You going to kill him unc 😂😂unc- ocho people will kill you ,that’s crime of passion 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I used to feel like I always had to be in a relationship for most of my life. Nowadays I enjoy my peace and don’t care about being alone. Sometimes I enjoy being alone more than having to try and make someone else happy
That's your problem. You can't make anyone else happy. Happiness comes from you for you. No man can make a woman happy. No woman can make a man happy. Once you learn that, that's when you'll succeed at dating.
@ I think you just wanted to type your little quote out instead of reading what I said
I agree with you Ocho! Now, some guys push their agenda on ladies too - example (real) I was approached and asked if they could take me out. I replied and said, let’s grab a drink at a bar just to get to know each other (1 drink, and I bought money). He insisted on me getting dinner and I told him it’s not necessary! He asked where can we go, I said let’s go to Negril BK and I only got an appetizer and One drink! He then proceeded to ask me to pay my part when the receipt came - that’s when I went off - he paid and I paid the tip -- that’s was my fist and last date with this man, and I blocked him. Am I wrong?
No you're not wrong and I'm a woman
Im a man and no you weren't wrong. He was on some BS
Who idea was too add jr smith need get raised he fits perfect
The irony of ocho signal “breaking up” when he said he was single😂😂😂😂
Listen to Unc, he grandpa out there looking for dem young ones w no brain 😂
Unc date to F!! He has never been looking for anyone stable 😂😂😂
Who asks for that on a first date??? I must be old because I would never expect something like that. Good lord.
They didn’t tell the whole story. She wanted her date to buy something to go for her friend. That’s why she got so much.
@@kenjones3205she was trifling as hell and showed that she's never been anywhere nice
29:55 ocho is hilarious bruh
She over did it with the ordering but she REQUESTED a steakhouse. I’ve never heard of someone directly requesting that. So I think he should have known what type of time she was on.
Shay is crazy...I'm just gone keep on jumping til I get back in the water.
Use me for the ride. I use you for the Hive. Real talk! 😂😂😂
@dtrain4350
...use you for the HIDE."
HIDE as in skins
This wastge realest conversation on NIGHTCAP
Love the real talk at the end! 💯
I live in NY $159 at a Seafood spot is not astronomical. I'm no simp advocate but cmon Brothers if we with a good Woman you should expect to spend a certain amount at a Seafood spot, why are you even at the restaurant if you cant afford it. I definitely wouldn't have just ordered a drink and put $100 on the table and walked out. I know we can't buy Love but we should Gird up our loins and realize its okay to spend a little. Thats just not Player right there.
Yall better learn how to drink in the car before going in lol
Unc said $200 Ocho said he’ll no.🤣Ocho Trying to take his women to Taco Bell 🌮🔔 😂😂😂
3:13 “Ain’t no where to go, you gotta go to the room” you hear the funniest sht on this podcast I swear😭😭😭
I think he said moon
@@jbhillz87 nah your right, I thought he said room cause that’s what you deserve after spending your retirement fund on a first date😂😂
@@Headsnatch314 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 turn the hotel room to a space ship
Ocho is indirectly talking his situation with Relle there. Deep!
Straight to the liquor store j r😂😂💯
This conversation is elite. Sheesh 🤧
I love the night show with Swish 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Grieving someone who’s still walking earth is the hardest thing ever!! 💔
This was gold. We need JR back on with y’all on the regular
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Uncle Need A Dating Show For Real!!
Uncle becoming A Kevin Samuel 2.0
Is it just me or does Ocho have that Homer Simpson shade beard?
“Depending on who’s asking you’re girl is single” I knew that but I had to hear it.
Unc be drop that Gem 💎 and heat every show.. that’s why he the GOAT 🐐
Every time I see a new video, I'm excited!
Best episode hands down...real talk
18:30 "Man work on that sh!t Ocho" im with Unc
These first date expectations are out of control.
Only coming from broke women. A woman that can, and do take herself to 5 star restaurants is reasonable.
I must be different cuz the money doesn’t impress me. Can you hold a proper conversation? How do you treat people? What would your family/friends say about you? That’s what I care about. Anybody can spend money. Cheesecake Factory still works! lol
THIS 🎯
You still care about status in some form. Most women do.
This is from last week but exactly this! Money is important, meaning that people should live within their means, but what's really hard to find is trust and love and intelligence all in the same person!
She dipped on JR mid game 😭😭 man I wonder who she was and who was the dude who got her floor seats 😂🤦🏾♂️
Funny as hell 😂😂😂😂 great podcast
Straight barbershop talk! For real!😂
16:47 these are facts by JR.
Those cocktails be getting em too hype.
lol
Glad Ocho is free.
He seems sad though 😢
@@carelvoltaire1654😂 that doesn't mean he needs to crawl back to her, it means he needs to work on himself. I hope you're not implying he should beg her to take him back.
Hurt people Hurt people. It’s a vicious cycle
Real talk! J.R. is on point! 💯
My first date with my wife was Applebees. Been together for 10 years married for 6.