Let’s remember that all these dudes are millionaires and have been for most of their adult lives so their advice on this situation is completely irrelevant.
You can tell who (based off of the comments here and on Twitter) was raised in and around a two-parent households post 1970s. "Pay all the bills" versus "50-50" convos don't happen in these households because these couples put most of their money in shared accounts that are used to pay bills. You could argue that's "50-50", but it for sure isn’t "the dude pays all the bills" 😂.
Those old cats taught Shannon wrong.. Chief. Aint nothing wrong with a woman taking care of a bill, trip or dinner.. If you find a woman like that, keep her....
The incompetence and corruption that runs through this administration are getting more ridiculous. I feel for people with disabilities not getting the help they deserve. Thank you June Renae Matthysse, imagine investing $1.5k and receiving $9k in 20 days
On the first date, I believe a woman should at least offer to pay half and let the man decide if he wants to accept or pay for everything, regardless of who asked whom out first because their was mutual interest. If a woman doesn't at least offer to pay for half, she is setting up the dynamic her time is more valuable than the man's and he has to pay to spend time with her. Lastly, if a woman already decided she's not going to go out with that man again during that first date, she should insist on paying for half. Finally, if a man and woman are dating, they should absolutely take each other on dates and let the other person just completely enjoy themselves and not have to do much or think/worry about anything
When I was married it all varied with our finances. There were times when I was in between jobs and she held it down exclusively. Vice versa and other times it took both of our incomes to make sure the household was taken care of.
100-0 is the only split until marriage. YOu got you and I got me. If you need some gas or food here and there then cool.But I won't be broke for nobody for no reason.
I’ll provide what my woman can’t afford. If you’re making money why would I be the only person in the relationship investing? The more you’re willing to invest the more it shows you believe in the relationship.
Well, yall can only go 50/50 if the money is the same and yall salaries are close. If I make 150k a year and she makes 70k, we CAN'T go 50/50. Personally, I pay the mortgage, and that's not negotiable. I also pay for trips. Then we start splitting the rest!
Old fashioned doesn't work when the average salary of an American is 50k or so. You guys are out of touch. The truth is that a woman doesn't really like you if she's not willing to go 50/50. You guys have lower standards where you pick women totally by how bad she is.
This conversation is coming from three adult males who don’t have functioning successful relationships. Life is about paying bills life is about enjoying one another and that means both of us go to work. Bring home a couple dollars the bill so we can.Enjoy one another
More sports should adopt this method. I don’t have a problem with this . The compute method is less biased and more efficient is my opinion. Major League Baseball will test robot umpires as part of a challenge system during spring training at 13 ballparks hosting 19 teams, which could lead to regular-season use in 2026.
I don’t get why the woman asked Unc what she was needed for just because he had people to handle errands and chores…didn’t she feel she she was with him to love him and provide companionship?? Or did Unc not let her play that role either
These dudes are in the top percentile of earners most Americans live paycheck to paycheck there’s really only one community having this conversation who subsequently are the least married but no shortage of having kids. Do what works for you
I am only responsible for taking you out on the best dates I can comfortably afford. That's it. Everything else is on you. People spend all their money on gfs and be broke by time they decide to get married. nope.
Shannon said he was incapable of playing football and taking care of his family. He has said it numerous times while on undisputed. But us average Joe Blows are supposed to do what he couldn't because "his" job was harder than ours. I served, and this was the most selfish take id ever heard. What a terrible and conceited take for selfish athletes. Another one..
Ladies, just because a man paying all the bills or most of the bills does not mean you don't have a voice, an opinion, or the right to say no. A good man wants to hear your opinion and what you have to say. If you are not with a man like that, just know you have a dictator. This is coming from a man. You're that man's wife, not his dog or his child. But i will say this, most of the time, a good man knows what's best so maybe you should respect what he puts down. A dictator wants what's best for him and him alone.
A good woman doesn’t want you to spend all that time working to pay for things alone. Nobody wants to go to work 8-12 hours just to pay for another adult. Ain’t enough washing or cooking in the world
Yall missed me with this. JR Smith? Really? Ash, do better. Yall just clowned real working men. And for what? Clicks? Dont insult me because i didnt play in the NFL/NBA. Ive dont right by man and didnt let "playing" a game keep me from being emotionally responsible for my family. 22 years in the military and this is all about money and physical possessions for yall? So upset at this BS. You wouldnt last one day in the military. Its not all about money you clowns.
Woman y’all better go 50-50 with ya mans if ya man is paying 60% and up he’s cheating 10 outta 10 times now to the hurt hoes out there he still might cheat going 50-50 😂😂 but he’s more than likely to come to his senses if he paying 60 and up he dont give a damn if you find out or not 💀🤷🏾♂️
If I was in the nfl I'd take care of my family both emotionally and financially from the start. Neither one of yall can give advice. Yall selfish giving out this bs advice because yall millionaires. Makes you better than me financially, that's it! Miss me with this bs! Don't take these clowns advice. Really Shannon? Really Ocho? Seriously?
Just because you paying all the bills doesn't necessarily make you the man. Neither one of have success at this. Yall selfish. Shannon put football over family.. his words, not mine, then got nerve to give advice? Terrible Terrible take... especially for black men. Yall aren't role models when it comes to this topic. Way over your ski's here. Total tone deaf, and way off. I wouldn't take advice from any on you. Seriously. Signed Black Man
For a wife or serious girlfriend, the man should be paying 100% of the bills OR at least striving to. Nothing wrong with a woman helping, but they should NEVER feel burdened or stressed about it.
@@vibecheck9459 Preach, Susan B Anthony didn't fight for this. In all seriousness, this is the main problem with these debates: convenient traditionalism.
Yall takes are irrelevant. Huge miss.. from both yall. Yall can't talk about the situation if yall haven't been in it! This is a huge miss. Delete this video.
$20 for haircut, and $15 for nails? These dudes haven’t been out in the real world for 20 years
Maybe because of who they're people give them discounts for the promo or clientele
Gng 20 for a haircut is very where I'm at lmao and 15 for nails is as well
They down south with it 7.25$ minimum wage
You ain’t lied at all
@@Vheinyou must be living in Tijuana
As long as women get half in a divorce, we're doing half with the bills 😂
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Facts my brotha.
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😂😂😂😂😂 dawg you onto something with this
That man on cloud 9 right now...
Fly J.R. fly 🕊️ 🕊️
Let’s remember that all these dudes are millionaires and have been for most of their adult lives so their advice on this situation is completely irrelevant.
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Most athletes go broke after retirement but these here have not so i would say it holds some weight
Actually...if you was listening...Ocho made THE best point and was 100 percent accurate...
Idk, in regards to average people, Ocho was cooking in this video.
@@DonVDaArtistexactly
Ok JR needs to be a permanent co host 🙌🏽🙌🏽
No
@@bryanholmes1019why not
Facts !!’
Jr looks high as a kite
Looks ? He IS 😂😂😂
😂 he is tired. He has a newborn at home
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Lmfao facts
He could've at least wore some glasses
“I got a key right now. I’m not sure that ma f*cka work” 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
You can tell who (based off of the comments here and on Twitter) was raised in and around a two-parent households post 1970s. "Pay all the bills" versus "50-50" convos don't happen in these households because these couples put most of their money in shared accounts that are used to pay bills. You could argue that's "50-50", but it for sure isn’t "the dude pays all the bills" 😂.
That boy JR is zootied 😂
Man always high and y’all still call it out
Always
10:41 Swish a real one
Those old cats taught Shannon wrong.. Chief. Aint nothing wrong with a woman taking care of a bill, trip or dinner.. If you find a woman like that, keep her....
Ocho look like GTA 4 character 😂
Basically Unk a trick and jr & ocho not 😂. Unk top level trick
He’s paying for all her bills. Car, house rent, hair and nails. The whole nine yards
Love how supportive Unc is in Ocho and Relle we need that energy
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JR struggling to keep his eyes open 😂
Yes
The incompetence and corruption that runs through this administration are getting more ridiculous. I feel for people with disabilities not getting the help they deserve. Thank you June Renae Matthysse, imagine investing $1.5k and receiving $9k in 20 days
That woman totally changed my life for good. I have come across individuals but none is as honest as June. So surprised you know her too
I've noticed a lot of people talking about June, she must be amazing for everyone to be saying so many wonderful things about her
On the first date, I believe a woman should at least offer to pay half and let the man decide if he wants to accept or pay for everything, regardless of who asked whom out first because their was mutual interest.
If a woman doesn't at least offer to pay for half, she is setting up the dynamic her time is more valuable than the man's and he has to pay to spend time with her.
Lastly, if a woman already decided she's not going to go out with that man again during that first date, she should insist on paying for half.
Finally, if a man and woman are dating, they should absolutely take each other on dates and let the other person just completely enjoy themselves and not have to do much or think/worry about anything
I 💯 disagree. If the man asked me out, he better pay for the whole thing on the first date. But if we keep on dating then we’ll take a turn paying
J.R IS THE PERFECT FIT....IOVE THE SHOW MANE
I really enjoyed you guys. Should add J.R (a.k.a) my street thug to the cast. Very good show .😂😂😂
This conversation had me on my neck😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Swish is the perfect companion to the show
Jr got resting high off my ass face😂😂😂😂
JR higher than a mink coat
When I was married it all varied with our finances.
There were times when I was in between jobs and she held it down exclusively.
Vice versa and other times it took both of our incomes to make sure the household was taken care of.
Ocho ain't gotta worry bout that bull jive now
OCHO GONNA BE OK,WE DONT CHASE WOMEN AFTER THEY DO US DIRTY,WE JUST MOVE ON AND CONTINUE TO GET THIS MONEY💪🏽💪🏽
Ocho so smoove & bald bro ts got me crying 😭
100-0 is the only split until marriage. YOu got you and I got me. If you need some gas or food here and there then cool.But I won't be broke for nobody for no reason.
They straighten up 🤣🤣🤣 he not lying shi getting sad out here
"I coulda fell in love with the right person that coulda been the swiss army knife"
Chad ain’t lying 100 or 50/50 you getting the same thang that whohaa don’t change colors or nothing 😂
Sorry Unc, if I’m paying for EVERYTHING, I AM THE KING…I’m all for you having a say, but you gonna have a say with these bills as well 🤷🏽♂️
Lmfao hahaha @ STRAITENING UP !!!
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I never heard that before 😂😂😂
I say the same thing ill listen. Probably aint gone do it but imma hear you out 🤣🤣🤣
I’ll provide what my woman can’t afford. If you’re making money why would I be the only person in the relationship investing? The more you’re willing to invest the more it shows you believe in the relationship.
Well, yall can only go 50/50 if the money is the same and yall salaries are close. If I make 150k a year and she makes 70k, we CAN'T go 50/50. Personally, I pay the mortgage, and that's not negotiable. I also pay for trips. Then we start splitting the rest!
My wife and I been going 50/50 for years
My haircuts are $20 Damn where you all in the chat get your haircuts at
I cut my own hair because the barbers in my area are charging 35 and 40 dollars . Shit crazy out here fam.
I had a key to a few lady’s house. The thing is I never used it n never will
You can come see your child😂😂😂 damn Relle ain't playing.
Old fashioned doesn't work when the average salary of an American is 50k or so. You guys are out of touch. The truth is that a woman doesn't really like you if she's not willing to go 50/50. You guys have lower standards where you pick women totally by how bad she is.
This conversation is coming from three adult males who don’t have functioning successful relationships. Life is about paying bills life is about enjoying one another and that means both of us go to work. Bring home a couple dollars the bill so we can.Enjoy one another
Spin dat block unc. She was a good one!😂
The fact he comes on a show high as kite sums up his NBA career.
JR high as hell 😂
I bet if Shanon grandma worked they would of had a working toilet lol
More sports should adopt this method. I don’t have a problem with this . The compute method is less biased and more efficient is my opinion.
Major League Baseball will test robot umpires as part of a challenge system during spring training at 13 ballparks hosting 19 teams, which could lead to regular-season use in 2026.
J.R. higher than inflation.
Great show. Rc cool. Go dig up that black book shannon
If it’s two adults in the house both should pay bills.Im not taking care of an adult.Once your kids get grown we don’t provide for them..
Jr high as a 🪁 kite
Im single and go 50/50 with myself which is peace/happiness 😂
Damn that rdc sketch of jr was accurate asf 💀
I don’t get why the woman asked Unc what she was needed for just because he had people to handle errands and chores…didn’t she feel she she was with him to love him and provide companionship?? Or did Unc not let her play that role either
Unc you never had a woman's key? Unc, she was spending your money on number 2😂
I’m with Unc! I’ll pay every single time, but at least offer here and there. I appreciate the gesture even if I say no. Just make an effort.
These dudes are in the top percentile of earners most Americans live paycheck to paycheck there’s really only one community having this conversation who subsequently are the least married but no shortage of having kids. Do what works for you
Yoooo JR is up there with FABO! 😂
You know what's funny? People with money are aways divorced, unhappy, disgruntled.
A lot are “looking for sponsors.” Facts. You’re grown lol take care of yourself. You’re not a child 😮
I dont understand this. Im married me and my wife have joint accounts. I work money goes in the accout thats it.
Lakewood nj finest. Jr Smith 🙏🏾
Shannon a full blown Trick Tracy
No they straighten up 😂😂 you ain’t lying bruh 🤦🏾♂️
I am only responsible for taking you out on the best dates I can comfortably afford. That's it. Everything else is on you. People spend all their money on gfs and be broke by time they decide to get married. nope.
6:36 - "A Different World" - underrated show. Whitley and Freddie were smoking hot . Not as hot as Sondra Huxtable though
Shannon said he was incapable of playing football and taking care of his family. He has said it numerous times while on undisputed. But us average Joe Blows are supposed to do what he couldn't because "his" job was harder than ours. I served, and this was the most selfish take id ever heard. What a terrible and conceited take for selfish athletes. Another one..
If I pay 100% of the bills I please lemme cheat in peace!
JR doesn't need to be on the show being high
And Chad love to sponser him a Spanish based woman
Damn if I got to do all that, I might as well marry the maid
Jr Smith Higher than a mothafuka😂
Lmfao quiet and trying to process the convo
Dem Unc allegations are in the mail bruh. He is too careful. He talks like someone who caught a body
Shannon I see why you are single 😂😂
Do you also see why I’m RICH?
@ClubShayShay Yes cause you sacrifice it all when you didn't have to Sir
Yes, they do still make women like us. However, we're in the house😂😂😂...minding our business oor businesses 😊.
Chad is out here telling us how much money to spend on a date but won't travel anywhere else airline but spirit.
JR is clearly under the influence. Don’t loose credibility by putting someone with altered mindstate on the show. He needs Ocho’s shades 😎
He sounds functional and literate
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Take advice from Shannon because he couldn't play football AND take care of his family emotionally? All for clicks? Chad, really?
You okay buddy? 😂
@@TimothyCornett-nr4xu yep. Perfect. Just calling a spade a spade.
@@theMANinc1 It aint that many spades in the deck bro 😂
@DezzFreeman lol..
Bros fadedddd
Chad is so cheap, giving advice as if he really knows. Gtofh My girl would enjoy flying first class on united or Delta.Or emirates
Ladies, just because a man paying all the bills or most of the bills does not mean you don't have a voice, an opinion, or the right to say no. A good man wants to hear your opinion and what you have to say. If you are not with a man like that, just know you have a dictator. This is coming from a man. You're that man's wife, not his dog or his child. But i will say this, most of the time, a good man knows what's best so maybe you should respect what he puts down. A dictator wants what's best for him and him alone.
A good woman doesn’t want you to spend all that time working to pay for things alone. Nobody wants to go to work 8-12 hours just to pay for another adult. Ain’t enough washing or cooking in the world
Comprehending and consideration is good for a relationship however majority of what women say should not be followed by the man.
@SunniMerlot I say, whatever works for that couple.
Yall are rich guys with major money
JR zooted
Have yall SEEN KeKe mama she doesn’t have a lot on f choices especially that’s gonna pay the bills her mom and her do not look alike
Yall missed me with this. JR Smith? Really? Ash, do better. Yall just clowned real working men. And for what? Clicks? Dont insult me because i didnt play in the NFL/NBA. Ive dont right by man and didnt let "playing" a game keep me from being emotionally responsible for my family. 22 years in the military and this is all about money and physical possessions for yall? So upset at this BS. You wouldnt last one day in the military. Its not all about money you clowns.
Jr look so fried 🍤
Woman y’all better go 50-50 with ya mans if ya man is paying 60% and up he’s cheating 10 outta 10 times now to the hurt hoes out there he still might cheat going 50-50 😂😂 but he’s more than likely to come to his senses if he paying 60 and up he dont give a damn if you find out or not 💀🤷🏾♂️
Now it fake ocho 😅.
Humble brag.
If I was in the nfl I'd take care of my family both emotionally and financially from the start. Neither one of yall can give advice. Yall selfish giving out this bs advice because yall millionaires. Makes you better than me financially, that's it! Miss me with this bs! Don't take these clowns advice. Really Shannon? Really Ocho? Seriously?
We don't take advice from ppl who aren't married. Goodbye
Yup😊
Yall conceited.
Just because you paying all the bills doesn't necessarily make you the man. Neither one of have success at this. Yall selfish. Shannon put football over family.. his words, not mine, then got nerve to give advice? Terrible Terrible take... especially for black men. Yall aren't role models when it comes to this topic. Way over your ski's here. Total tone deaf, and way off. I wouldn't take advice from any on you. Seriously. Signed
Black Man
So tired of rich men complaining about women wanting them for their money when they use their money to get the women they want.. Sit down
If she want you to pay 100%. She your slave. She is to do everything you ask. She can’t do without you but you can do everything without her.
Relationships 101: single people can't give advice on Relationships. All that money and STILL single. Literally. Stick to sports.
You don't need a key to any place you aren't living in.
It’s happening! Men are paying as they should, now I return the favor every now and then but I dnt date men who don’t have the mindset of a provider
For a wife or serious girlfriend, the man should be paying 100% of the bills OR at least striving to. Nothing wrong with a woman helping, but they should NEVER feel burdened or stressed about it.
You retated
What was the point of women voting for equal rights and the ability to work a job? So that was for nothing?
No way she gonna save all her money and we both working .
@@vibecheck9459 Preach, Susan B Anthony didn't fight for this. In all seriousness, this is the main problem with these debates: convenient traditionalism.
@@vibecheck9459exactly.....and there's more women in the workforce with higher paying jobs than men...people over look that tho
Yall takes are irrelevant. Huge miss.. from both yall. Yall can't talk about the situation if yall haven't been in it! This is a huge miss. Delete this video.