Divorced Dad and dating! No women with long lashes. Have pretty feet. Be fit and naturally pretty
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- Divorced Dad and dating! No women with long lashes. Have pretty feet. Be fit and naturally pretty
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Dude is speaking facts about health being wealth. Constantly having to go to the doctor will keep you broke.
Very true! People need to prioritize health 🙌🏾
@problactive285 and in some cases it ll kill you
For the preventative care. Yearly physical which includes that lab work, for women mammograms, and throw those occasional colonoscopies in there. Most insurance covers these. And get reimbursed for them. True life can play a trick on you & blind side you. However our bodies will let us know somis going on pretty early on.
@@SandrawilliamsJlukey you have to have a certain level of employment and income to get that kind of insurance
Interesting conversation. Attractive guy, I am the exact demographic he is targeting. Everything with this man would be extreme negotiation. The main issue is that he has a 20 yr old daughter living in his home but asking for a child free woman, who will contribute to the bills in that home? He does not want to take care of any woman period. Fend for yourself ladies! Extreme negotiation is anxiety inducing. This is not a generous, thoughtful guy. A hard pass. Good job Kendra. This was a nice change!!
He’s honest, intelligent and healthy. After 17 years of a marriage that “ran its course “, he wants to date. He has lots of options. Whoever decides to “date” him, and have thoughts about eventually moving in with him, just know that his daughter will always come first. There can only be one queen of the castle, and you will never be the queen.
I don't know if he's healthy.... What does it mean when a relationship has run its course? That sounds very strange..... Relationships take work. That's never a good answer and always a red flag...
That Kobe portrait 🔥🔥🔥💛💜💛💜
42 likes for kobe😮
Yes!!
Yes I love it 🥰
In addition to 2 PAC and Jordan. Nice taste in decor.
@@user-cx8hf8gp4bI agree, but that's the one that stood out to me the most due to the color palette and placement 🎨
I've dated men like him and he seems very controlling while still having insecurities. It's seems his way or the highway. I wouldn't want to date a man that already knows that he's looking for flaws that may not be there.
He said he is a fault-finder and impatient.
Good luck
And expect a lady to accept his 20 year old non bill paying, live in daughter. I don't think so. Kids are fine , but I wouldn't want an adult from jump in the home. 🙄 Maybe if she came 'back ' home for a short period to gather herself.
Those of you who think he's a catch need to really listen...it has nothing to do with his physical requirements, but everything with how he moves in the dating world... doesn't sound like a reasonable, kind individual...not a good partner. Self-sabotage relationships. He will expect the woman to contribute but does not expect that of his own daughter. He admits to being a fault-finder, which means he is critical. What did i miss?
He doesn't look 47! Nice job keeping yourself up brother 👍🏾
He sounds like a reasonable man that isn’t asking for much. He seems like a good catch for someone that lives in reality
Marriage “ran its course, nothing major” 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Does anyone take marriage seriously these days? 😫
Never heard someone say that before 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@dhqbrandi People say it in different ways. We grew apart is the most common.
He had two kids with one woman and was married to her for 17 years. He took it seriously.
Are you married?
Maybe he just didn't wanna drag his ex wife and over spill. Or call her a narcissist and accuse her of being abusive etc. Us men tend not 2 play victim or dodge all accountability as much.
I agree with a lot of what this man says. Except, paying all the bills. Some of us women are established and don’t mind adding to the pot.. 17 years married to ONE woman means a lot.
Yeah it means they wasted each other's time...
@@shintikas3722 how so? Marriage is meant for riding it out
Has 2 children, one is still living at home, but he is looking for a childfree woman who is in shape and she has to contribute to the household....Unbelievable
The audacity🤦♀️
@@a.e1785 delusional indeed
I'm a man. It's the contribution to the household that got me and that's if he's talking about bill bills. not just regular little household things.
And yeah even then that's a stretch for a child-free woman and he has 2 already.🤦🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
Men like this always demand but come with baggage
@@bboss7874 It's a bad deal only if she has better options. If she lived alone, she would be responsible for 100% of her living expenses, including rent, utilities, groceries, and other costs. Even with a roommate, she'd still cover at least 50% of those expenses. Contributing a small portion to the household bills not only shares the financial load but also fosters a sense of partnership and shared responsibility.
@@bboss7874 So she should move in and not pay anything? He's not having any more kids. She's not changing diapers of a 20 year old. Is she working? Why would she not contribute anything? That's weird to me.
Children are a lifetime commitment, it doesn’t stop at 18. If you have children you should date others with children. Leave the child free women in peace.
He Didn't Say "No Children" Though🙄
Why is your photo filtered
Exactly!
You should date who you want just as you eat what you want. 😊
It's not like he is putting a gun to a woman that doesn't have kids and forcing her to date him lol. That's her choice to date him, can't get mad at him for that.
Every time someone says "Their relationship ran its course" I think of Diary of a mad black woman movie😂
How does a marriage run its course?
@@maiangellove8949he waited until the kids were 18 so he doesn't have to pay child support etc
And I immediately think of that scene when dude got rolled into the hot tub. Left there and she came back & sad you stink lol 😂😂
I was just watching this😂
i love they way he was breaking it down, for the people on the back "contributing IS NOT to be confused with 50/50
I wish people actually understood relationships with other people. Support is not just money. Money makes the real problems you have either magnified or minimized. It's impossible to be in the same household with other people and not have any supportive relationships with those individuals. It's not realistic.
Thank you! Just because a woman won't be providing financially to your children doesn't mean she won't have to make significant contributions to and for your child's well being.. especially if that child lives with you and even if they're grown.
He sounds like a good dude.
Who dates for 8 or 9 years😂 boy just say friends with benefits
Dude seems solid, wish him best of luck
Why do us black men want dominance over our women. Why don’t we work together and put relationship in front of our personal egos
White supremacy ideology.
he's a time waster run ladies
Why do you say?
Really I didnt get that vibe
@@1BeautifullyBlessed because he's merely out for the experience #divorcedanddating. I don't think he truly wants anything serious, right now
I like him. Around the same age, level headed, nice looking, very well spoken. Our lives are kinda similar. I really enjoyed this conversation.
Message him if you’re single, maybe it’s a match made in heaven 🙌
Soon as a man say a women got to be fit. These comments turn upside down 😂. Y'all just looking for reasons to find why he isn't a good man. A man with a career, a plan and his kids are grown.
The same way the comments turn upside down when a woman says a man has to be financially successful. 🤷🏽♀️
@DreamAboutMe823 the difference is women want a man making 100k but arent making that themselves
@@DreamAboutMe823 LOL, he's in reasonable shape. All these women are broke and begging. And have absolutely nothing to offer. They won't even get in shape. SMH...
@@DreamAboutMe823 nearly anyone can get up and go get in shape. not everyone can get up and be "financially successful." for a society to even function, majority of people have to make less. if you think this is inflation, let a large % of americans start making 100k.
@@meloran2571 They will NEVER comprehend that. Most of them can't even comprehend that having 5 by 5 is NOT a flex.
😊Fred Is A Good Man, I Completely Understood What and Where He Was Coming From, This $hit Ain't Rocket Science, He's Been Extremely Clear With Articulating His Needs, Wants and Desires😏Be Selfish King
I’m flabbergasted. He’s speaking in absolute (((as matter of fact way)))but all he’s giving are potential examples of personal experience. If I do something for someone it’s going to come from my pocket. Gifts are acts of kindness!
Even when you do something for your significant other’s child, you do it because they are an extension of that person. His mentality seems merely transactional. We as a society have lost the power and value of love!
Wait a an minute kids are lids . Order or not them grown ones be hell too !
Cause I see so many adult children still running their parents households smh
@@SandrawilliamsJlukey especially women with sons , them dudes be Jody and the grown daughters be independent. We avoid son husbands
Yep especially if entitled, and unprepared for survival. I couldnt live with a man with an adult daughter at home unless she is in school, or on the way out of the home......
@@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 she is in college. And I would never let a freeloader live with me or poison my kids the modern women thoughts
@@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164shes only 20 jeez why he gotta kick her out 20
Ain't no double standard that man kids grown 🤷🏿♂️ A solid brotha, and they are steady trying to tear him down 🤦🏿♂️
He just needs to be real. Just say, I want a woman with no children who has no desire for children in the future that are willing to put up with my children, even the adult one living with me. The back and forth, plus his explanations are making him look flaky. Many women would be interested, even with his preferences.
But she’s in the houses living with him like as if she’s a kid……
Like my parents always said “you ain’t grown until you move outta my house” 😂
But the thing is a woman with her 20 year old son still living with her will still be looked at as not an option.
Marriages don't typically "run their course" 😢
I love that he's an intellectual, some things he said went over Kendra head,she interrupted him right when he was answering her question, dating is a case by case thing,I'm glad he reiterated his answer,like I said dating is a case by case thing. Shout out to him for knowing what he wants.
Thank You, Cuz Kendra and Kousins Were Over Complicating His Answer, He's Very Direct and Knows What He Wants.
Love cousin but She ALWAYS does that & some ppl aren’t intellectual enough to rephrase or reiterate their stance. They end up backtracking and talking in circles cuz Kendra will twist ur words real quick
He's not intellectual, he just had red pill talking points
😂😂😂😂 nothing he said went over my head. You must like him 😂❤ hopefully you are his type
Correct @@queene3oh3
You want someone to come in and except your grown kid living there free but pay bills? Boy bye!
THIS!!! He is asking for a child free professional woman who most likely owns her own home and travels lol...
In this day and age it’s highly delusional 😂 a childfree woman wouldn’t be bothered with a man’s kids in her personal space.
His weaknesses are red flags!!
Would never move in with a man an pay bills smh
Aren't most people red flags 😅
Who wants a freeloader
@@thecoolreviewFor real !!!! Even if it’s buying groceries and toiletries..
@Nonnies.Glam1 it's pure math keep paying $2k or more a month to not give me $700 a month . Both ways I'm set
Ask his ex wife what he's really like...?
That's fair. I mean that's up to the woman that decides to go out with him. I mean he's the one who called so all u have is his side and he didn't say anything other than they grew apart. You probably should ask your mom that question because you're projecting
I think he would be *CONTROLLING!!!*
@@aroukapenn just like your dad and grandfather. If you even know them. The hatred for men in this comment section is astounding. That's for the lack of respect for therapy you God zillas need someone to talk to besides your vibrator u angry birds 😅
@@JustBree716Oooo chile…. Bree!! #praisebreak 💃🏾💃🏾🙌🏾👏🏾
Love this guy, I'm not looking but I live his straight talk.
Pocket watching with JT is looking for love 💕.
I thought you were an accountant. Leave the relationship advice to the professionals.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I can't unsee it, Lol BTW, I'm a Pocketwatcher!🤎
@@Tephiffanyme too! I enjoy his content 🙌🏾
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 man I look better
What does ran its course mean in terms of marriage? We gave up?
Yep and got tired of each other. Maybe they married too young
Great guest, best of luck!
To Kendra and the guy who made the comment: appoint is not mute. It’s moot, which essentially means irrelevant.
Capricorn ♑️ man 100% cutting ppl off , self Sabotage and being super critical is the Capricorn way lol
Dumb comment
@@professionalpookie go away Pookie. No one sent for you. Keep it moving
@@love_reka_777 nah, delete your comment
Solid brother. Wish him the best
We on a plane and you gotta get two seats 😂😂😂😅
😂😂😂 that's a liability
@@Evaselfmadea big liability at that
Asking for a natural aesthetic, yet looking like an angler fish.
Exactly...
He’s right about health is wealth… And I agree with roughly 90% of what he stated.
The new woman would most likely be paying the bills she came with, like her car, insurance, and cell phone. He's already paying the bills. His children are grown. There's no need to be a step parent. The comments ts were stupid and irrelevant. He's a great guy. I like him!
If you are married to a man with a child regardless of how old the child is, what does that make you? The child’s Step-Parent. 🙄
@@Jai0234who is parenting a 20 year old. Lol.
@@Jai0234 True, but its not the same dynamic. Im a step mom and dont parent my step kids. I watch the grandbabies and basically a friend. I dont have to give them money, or do things as if they are minors....I help my adult son even though he lives on his own, and doesnt need help... I bought him a new couch today because I saw one on sale, and wanted to.....
@@Jai0234are you dumb you’re not parenting a 20 year old. especially one with their mother in their life. the parenting is done she just live there damn
So how do you think it will be living with some man's adult daughter? You think is going to go smoothly? Some of you are so short-sighted, sheesh...this is why you keep losing...
Yes Kendra some people have to buy two seats on the airplane.
The point is “moot” not mute.
17 yrs of marriage that failed isn't a flex 🙄
Did he flex tho? 🤔
Are you married
@johnjay3308 by saying his track record of being a married man, is saying he is proud of that.
@@stevensondebe6360 yes.
And saying that a marriage ran its course is a total cop-out.... What does that even mean? Relationships are supposed to be work.... When a person says that a relationship or a marriage ran its course, they are really showing how immature they are...
I like him ! Hope he finds what he’s looking for
Who's name at the top of the DIVORCE PAPERS.
This brother is asking for a LOT! No lashes, be in shape, be in natural state... The audacity! 😂😂😂 They are going to come for you fella.
Funny cuz it takes less effort to be natural, than to put that bullshit on 😂😂
That’s not even a lot it’s plenty of women like that
😂😂😂😂 The way you said they , has me dying 🤣
@@zay7443 In your estimation what percentage of women don't wear lashes, are natural, no makeup and are in the correct zone of the BMI?
@@zay7443doesnt mean they want him !
Idk 🤔 I like him..good luck! 👏🏾👏🏾 definitely work on the patience and self -sabotaging
Fam was on point! Nothing selfish like that one commenter put forward!
No one is going to live with you and your twenty year old child. If the women has kids she has to worry about the safety of the children.
He seems reasonable! Great catch.
If the woman has an adult child living with her as well, would he still date her, be ok with it and let her adult child move in with them ...Just A thought...
If she pays 75% of the household bills, then he might consider it fair. Otherwise, it's not a fair comparison. From what I understand, the woman who moves in with him will only pay a small percentage of the household bills; appx 25%.
Great question!
@@MarvAuthorbecause she’s gonna pay for that extra 25% by dealing with a bratty 20 year old who will of course jump in any private arguments/disagreements. Eventually the woman and the daughter will run into some issues with each other ESPECIALLY being that the daughter is grown AND living there, leaving the father to pick a side. I would never move in with a dude and his 20 YEAR OLD even if all bills were paid for and I could live for free. Recipe for disaster. People with kids should only date people with kids. PERIOD
@@prettykitty5416 That's your opinion, and you have every right to it. Millions of women worldwide would gladly accept that deal. A man should date and marry the best option that makes him happy.
@prettykitty5416 A provider man with kids might consider not dating a woman with kids for several reasons:
1. Financial Strain: Providing for additional children can be financially challenging, especially if he is already responsible for his own children's expenses.
2. Emotional Complexity: Blending families can introduce emotional complexities, including jealousy and competition between children, which might create tension in the household.
3. Limited Quality Time: With children from both sides involved, it might be harder to find quality time for the couple to nurture their relationship.
4. Different Parenting Styles: Managing different parenting styles and rules can be difficult, leading to conflicts and inconsistencies in raising the children.
5. Scheduling Conflicts: Coordinating schedules for multiple children, especially if they have different visitation arrangements, can be logistically challenging and stressful.
6. Jealousy and Rivalry: Children from different families may experience feelings of jealousy and rivalry, which can impact the overall harmony of the household.
7. Reduced Attention: The man might feel stretched thin trying to give adequate attention and support to all children involved, potentially leading to feelings of neglect.
8. Emotional Baggage: Both partners may bring emotional baggage from previous relationships, which can complicate the new relationship and family dynamics.
9. Household Dynamics: The dynamics of the household can become more complicated with additional children, potentially leading to power struggles and conflicts.
10. Potential for Favoritism: There is a risk of perceived or real favoritism, which can create resentment and division among the children.
Considering these factors, some men might prefer to date women without children to avoid these potential issues and focus on building a harmonious and uncomplicated family environment.
Hes right about dating women who might be missing the part , it can actually be valuable practice imo
Girl! Whoever I’m talking too. Please don’t approach him if you aren’t healed, and still confused about what you want.
He’s definitely a player
Intuition or experience? Just curious
This dude isn’t a player yall don’t listen to understand . He has morals ‼️🆗
y’all are slow😂 he’s making much sense. sorry he wants his woman to pay something wtf
@@shedeserves365he will date a woman for years without marriage.... He has no morals! Did y'all even know what the definition of morals is? Goodness...
He is nice good luck sir!
Women with children come with more hassle than man with adult children. He doesn’t want any problems. Good luck King! There are plenty women with no kids…
He’s Well Spoken.
Have you every dated a man who's adult daughter, particularly, lived with him?
No single child free woman who’s a professional will want to share her personal space with a man’s adult children 😂 too much drama and baggage.
I like him he speaks the truth
No lashes from Temu the size of wings 🪽 of the American Eagle
Another hir the wall single bsby father .
He's not asking for much. I like him.
Love is patient
I could only move in if my man's adult daughter was on her way out. Is she in school, working a stable job? She cant just be chilling , and not focusing on her future.... I agree there are alot of professional women with no kids, or 1 adult child like myself.....
47 and divorced......already sounds like a problem
I think he has a really good head on his shoulders and would possibly be a good catch. He isn't asking for too much.😊
I ttotqlly agree with him on contributing to the household.
It's not rocket science
I like him❤good luck cool breeze.
Dating him will scare me.
If she got bad kids than no 🤣🤣🤣😩
Man heard her 😂😂😂
It sounds like he's asking for the perfect partner and everything in between just to kill time. We can tell he's divorced and dating, trying to date anyway.
He said he wants one of these non traditional Boss Chicks who puts their career first and don’t want kids…..
He wants a lil bit of this and and a lil bit of that. Whatever flavor is in season with Fred lol.
His double standard explanation makes no sense.He just wants a childless woman because he’s selfish like the rest.Also children will tell their moms if they don’t like her boyfriend.
Selfish? SMH
He wants a childless woman because he's done raising kids. Why would he move in a woman with a 6 year old when he's all but done supporting his 20 year old? Selfish is these women looking to leech off a sucker.
Well to a lot of BW in order for a man to not be labeled selfish, he has to gladly accept a baby mama and her six kids by Pookie, Ray Ray, Tyrone, Lil' Boo Boo, Dontavious, and Cave Man.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@reneegoldberg3580You know children are quick to tell their moms the truth about someone they’re dating.
MOOT! not mute😂😂😂
English isn't Kendra first language 😅
@@JustBree716😂
@@JustBree716where is she from?
I was rocking with you until you started talking about toes. Sir feet 👣 are made for walking. 🙄
Lol
@@candorsspot2775He may have to go take a dip in the snow. If he starts dating a big back with kangaroo feet. The first time she gets upset. You'll not be able to see my toes for the next 2 weeks. 😂😂😂
Feet are made for 👅 😂😂😂😂😂
The movie "Boomerang". Nuff said. 😆
@@thecoolreview😂😂
“If you attract a lot of homeless men, you’re a homeless shelter.” My God today!!! 🫢
😅😅😅 right.
😂🤣😂
He's one intelligent, available strong minded brotha. Appears to be no nonsense. I like his approach.
I guess some of you are okay with a man being cold with no compassion. A man who is willing to date you but doesn't think that you're good enough to be his wife. A man who requires more of the woman in his household then he requires of his adult daughter...
He probably wants them to give money to utilities
Him throwing in “fit” in there is going to piss a lot of women off! 😂
They better get with it! 🤷🏾♀️🤣
That's the least of his problems.... It's his attitude and thinly veiled red pill talking points that's the issue...
Yo who still naming their kids Fred , lol
🤣🤣 My bff husband is name fred.🤣🤣
Civilized people
you know this dude named Jederious or Glocktavius..smh
He is almost 40, and he could be named after his grandfather.
I’m sorry , did I miss something ? Did he say he was 47 or 4 ??
Ran its course… 🎈📌
I agree but that's where Kendra's nosiness would be an asset. Nothing wrong with a few questions like ie: who filed for divorce, did y'all try marital counseling, what do you think you did to contribute to the demise of the marriage. They don't necessarily require long answers. But the problem is people like me don't ask those kinds of questions. These days it's not really about correcting the past to have a better future it's about it's my time and I want and need a man now
Somebody will reach out. He’s not aesthetically pleasing to my eyes. Good luck to him.
It looks like he dyes his beard....
I do , letting it go salt and pepper for a hot sec . So you right
@@thecoolreview let the grays come out. There's nothing wrong with that. You've earned them.
@lovette7684 my kids be clowning me
@@thecoolreview are you dating your kids or are you dating grown women who understand that gray hair comes with a mature man?
He’s a bit picky BUT on point & very direct !!! Great conversation though
He's of sound mind and wants realistic simple characteristics. One million percent more realistic and possible than what I've heard required by the women on this show. Very good.
For those who get married on Biblical terms.. You failed your marriage if you divorced for any other reasons outside of adultery. Point blank period.. So your 17 years of marriage doesn’t mean a thing. He’s being way too picky for a divorcé. He has all this information as a man but couldn’t lead his marriage enough to keep it. I don’t see the great qualities that KG says he has. He’s no longer a husband but an adulterer. Before y’all come for me. Read a Bible 😂
That applies to people who read and believe in the Bible. But telling someone who thinks the bible is a bunch of hooey to read it is silly. You can't use the bible to prove something to people who don't believe in it.
@@Coolsnacker You must’ve missed my first and last sentence???? Which makes everything you just said invalid.
@@valpooh7532 Actually your last sentence was "Read a Bible". Not everybody wants to.
I agree with you but why off the jump assume he couldn’t lead his marriage or that he caused the divorce? Some women initiate divorce for trivial reasons.
This video is a whole atrocity
Dating does not mean seccx ewww
Lol "the women that men don't typical like/want" lmaooo I hope the women he is dating don't hear this Geesh 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I understand what he meant. Men are always saying they dont want independent women with degrees and their careers and assets. He's saying he's fine with those types of women, and many high value men usually are ok with women who are high achievers.
Kendra like to press the men on her show but go easy on the women. She was getting triggered
The women that move in with him bills will decrease.
That's a fact. She would probably cut her living expenses by 75% or more.
@@MarvAuthor Definitly.
Exactly. As a woman I agree with him. He is not asking 50/50 but as an adult you need to contribute. His daughter is only 20, probably still in college and trying to figure her way out.
The woman is cutting her own bills significantly.
@@nicolew8932 Yes, plus the daughter, she will be out the house soon anyway. They also forgot she has a mother too.
@Themusicalhealer Nice work on your RUclips channel. I subscribed!
Responsible adults need responsibilities. I don't advocate carrying no adult 100%. I pay the full house note, car note, insurance here hold this electricity & cable down. Most women today don't even possese that level femininity to carry them 100%. Too each his own but I ain't doing it.
Kendra was annoying af in this vid
Oh wow!!!
Kendra said "mute point" multiple times 😂😂. And him having a 20 year old daughter live with him is not anywhere close to a single mom with school she kids I'm the house and a man moving in. Likely he's gonna be paying all the bills regardless.
Typical Capricorn😂
The divorce ran its course and nothing major happened? Somebody was building resentment…
That feedback sound doesn’t bother you guys? I tapped out within the first two minutes.
alot of people don't want the easy life, they want the hard knock life who does he think he's fooling.
If I were Lil yunger..but im not blk😂😂
sounds like he may need to work on patience and self sabotaging before he gets into the relationship pool again