This video perfectly puts into words of how I have been feeling lately (and I am sure a lot of other freelancers have been feeling as well). Self doubt and unsure if we should continue fighting to be in this industry and becoming successful. There are so many things to worry about as an adult; relationships, running your business, taking care of your mental health, working out, etc. it is very easy to feel like the pile is always getting bigger and their is no light at the end of the tunnel. But I think just remembering that there is always a calm after the storm, to help push us to keep going to reach those difficult goals that aren’t always easy to achieve. We need to become uncomfortable with being comfortable.
Bro, I truly never right comments on RUclips videos but I cannot express how grateful I am for this video. This could not have come at a better time for me, I have been going through so much self doubt in my business and not getting the projects I wanted to get when I first got into video. But this has reminded me so much to just enjoy the process and realise that I am not the only one struggling with this. Thank you so much for making this video.
The whole contemplation of “I should be a painter, maybe I should become a bartender” was one I was having with myself for the past month. But I really cannot ever see myself doing anything else but filmmaking in my life, like you said, the grass could always be greener, I could work in finance, but those folks in finance probably want your job. Hence watering your side of the grass ❤
I just got laid off from a contract job that kept me at a good living (for filming) but still have another income coming in that allowed me to feel at ease, but at the moment it does feel like I am a failure. definitely needed this video to remind myself that sometimes its okay to take a step back and work on yourself, your craft and your goals that align with yourself. The feeling of giving up is always in the back of my head but it feels good that I'm not alone, this is the career I love and at times it will feel like its great and other times it will feel like its a lot, but balancing is the hardest part for sure. Thank you Carlo!
Carlo, those inputs from you are super helpful. Thanks for being open and honest! I’ve got my filmmaking and photography business for three years now and am one and a half years fulltime. These struggles have come up a lot recently
Love the message and the vulnerability, thanks for sharing man! It's always reassuring to see these difficult times not only hits you but also the people you look up to, makes it less dramatic haha
Man honestly I like your content and I just wanna tell you that the one who gave you those talents wants a relationship with you and he gave his life on a cross for this. Your loved and there is a true purpose with him !
I relate to this video a lot. I'm coming in in two months as a full time filmmaker and there are lots if ups and downs and stress. It's so easy and automatic for me to get distracted instantly. Thanks for sharing this - if anything it makes me feel not alone and that I can aspire to continue chasing the dream liek you do.
I love your work, the podcast, youtube, DP work. It always helps to know that I am not alone in it, hear some encouraging words, or see the BTS, not just the perfect end result. So continue doing what you love. You helped me so much, so thank you! You're my hero.
I absolutely love this style of content you're making as I think it's very important stuff that we all need to hear, both as reassurance that we aren't alone or maybe the truths that are hard to hear. I've been through all these emotions that you're talking about and I likely will many times over. Keep up the great content! Throwing support as an aspiring UK DP
Dropping straight gems bro, love this variety of videos that you’ve been creating lately, it’s showing how well rounded you are as a creative because it’s rare to only have one avenue for expressing our creative thoughts and when money is involved, of course going for the money making niche is tempting. But it’s not for everyone. We have to embrace our story.
This hit home.. I think it's important to follow your curiosity if it's a constant thought in your mind. Mine has always been ecomm, its something I constantly come back to and get excited by the thought of pursuing.. Using the skills I have developed over the last 5-7 years to try something that I have always wanted to and to build a brand that allows me to be creative. Lately the parts of filmmaking I don't enjoy are starting to outweigh the thing'sI do enjoy. Looking at the bigger picture and into the future has been an eye opener for me, is the lifestyle of a DP something I want when I have a family and Kids..
I needed to hear this today. Thank you so much for your volunerability and giving voice to some of my thoughts lately. God bless you brother and remain faithful with what you have a passion and gift for. Right there with you.
Wise words! Yep! I definitely find myself with many roadblocks as a person considering what’s next after 20 years of a career that’s lost it’s lustre. I think that time is gone for me but there’s something to having focus for the future and remove distraction and get out of the mindset of looking for some easy mode. Nurture the goals and dreams I might have or might be actively formulating and go from there nurturing, not neglecting, the life I have around me now.
Ugh I have the same thing.. I'm also an upcoming DP and when I have a lot of work I feel like I'm doing great but when its quiet I get major imposter syndrome and its hard to find motivation. But mindset is everything in this career keep up the good work 👍
The distractions... They kill me too brother.. I think we service the NYC/NJ area. There are soooo many distractions in our everyday lives as business owners. As video production company owners, we can't turn off our computers and "unplug." We are constantly having to going to YT and the rest of the internet for ideas, only to become distracted. I'm right there with you! I read a book called "indistracable." Actually, it was an audiobook. It gave me so many ideas and tools to battle the distractions. Goodluck!
@@zaccruz_ Its a tough one man! But ive learned to teust my gut even when things dont seem to be working. If I love it and cant see myself not doing it then maybe its important to stick it through
Felt you on the distractions part. Being realistic, much of my working day is spent distracting myself, and that comes from fear. I will always prioritise minor, irrelevant tasks over actual editing for example. But when I put my head down and actually edit, I get things done very quickly. Perhaps it's the fear that we need to kill, not the distractions themselves.
Just finished watching - thank you for this! You managed to put into words all the weight that was on my chest. I also think it's important to remind ourselves that some of these distractions, as long as they're positive, will eventually play a role in our business or creative journey in one way or another. For instance, you mentioned painting, and I recently picked up watercolors myself. Even though it has nothing to do with my work, it opened something up inside me. I found a new level of honesty with myself that I hadn’t reached before. It’s made me realize that I can truly become whatever I imagine. Just wanted to share and add my two cents. Thanks again for the inspiration!
I thought I was the only one who felt and thought this way. In all honesty, going through this right now. After being in this business for 30 years I thought it would get easier.
@@carlostigs I strongly believe that could be the case. Just trying to figure out the best way to manage all those ups and downs that come with this industry.
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This video perfectly puts into words of how I have been feeling lately (and I am sure a lot of other freelancers have been feeling as well). Self doubt and unsure if we should continue fighting to be in this industry and becoming successful. There are so many things to worry about as an adult; relationships, running your business, taking care of your mental health, working out, etc. it is very easy to feel like the pile is always getting bigger and their is no light at the end of the tunnel. But I think just remembering that there is always a calm after the storm, to help push us to keep going to reach those difficult goals that aren’t always easy to achieve. We need to become uncomfortable with being comfortable.
Couldn’t agree more, thanks for your comment man. Keep it going
mee too man
Bro, I truly never right comments on RUclips videos but I cannot express how grateful I am for this video. This could not have come at a better time for me, I have been going through so much self doubt in my business and not getting the projects I wanted to get when I first got into video. But this has reminded me so much to just enjoy the process and realise that I am not the only one struggling with this. Thank you so much for making this video.
Glad it helped!
The whole contemplation of “I should be a painter, maybe I should become a bartender” was one I was having with myself for the past month. But I really cannot ever see myself doing anything else but filmmaking in my life, like you said, the grass could always be greener, I could work in finance, but those folks in finance probably want your job. Hence watering your side of the grass ❤
Couldnt agree more
I just got laid off from a contract job that kept me at a good living (for filming) but still have another income coming in that allowed me to feel at ease, but at the moment it does feel like I am a failure. definitely needed this video to remind myself that sometimes its okay to take a step back and work on yourself, your craft and your goals that align with yourself. The feeling of giving up is always in the back of my head but it feels good that I'm not alone, this is the career I love and at times it will feel like its great and other times it will feel like its a lot, but balancing is the hardest part for sure. Thank you Carlo!
My brother, thank u for the raw authenticity of your channel and your soul, appreciate you from Spain, big hugs.
Carlo, those inputs from you are super helpful. Thanks for being open and honest!
I’ve got my filmmaking and photography business for three years now and am one and a half years fulltime.
These struggles have come up a lot recently
Love this bro.Been thinking about this lately!
Glad it can help
Love this mentality, especially the idea of nurturing what you have - doesn’t matter how nice of “things” you have if you don’t take care of them!
Absolutely
Love the message and the vulnerability, thanks for sharing man! It's always reassuring to see these difficult times not only hits you but also the people you look up to, makes it less dramatic haha
Glad you enjoyed it!
Man, I really, REALLYYYYYYY love these kind of your videos...
Man honestly I like your content and I just wanna tell you that the one who gave you those talents wants a relationship with you and he gave his life on a cross for this. Your loved and there is a true purpose with him !
I relate to this video a lot. I'm coming in in two months as a full time filmmaker and there are lots if ups and downs and stress. It's so easy and automatic for me to get distracted instantly. Thanks for sharing this - if anything it makes me feel not alone and that I can aspire to continue chasing the dream liek you do.
Great stuff man. Loved your reflective mindset and encouragement.
Thanks for sharing this! Love all the videos and podcasts you're pumping out. Keep it up
Keep making these videos man! Super relatable and very helpful.
Thanks! Will do!
I love your work, the podcast, youtube, DP work. It always helps to know that I am not alone in it, hear some encouraging words, or see the BTS, not just the perfect end result.
So continue doing what you love.
You helped me so much, so thank you! You're my hero.
Thanks for the kind words!
bro always comes out with the video at the right moment that we needed to hear
Needed this today. Keep doing yo thang homie
just love for your videos! ❤
There is so much in your words that I can resonate with. Felt really good to hear you talking about that topic
I absolutely love this style of content you're making as I think it's very important stuff that we all need to hear, both as reassurance that we aren't alone or maybe the truths that are hard to hear. I've been through all these emotions that you're talking about and I likely will many times over.
Keep up the great content! Throwing support as an aspiring UK DP
Glad you enjoy it! Thank you
Dropping straight gems bro, love this variety of videos that you’ve been creating lately, it’s showing how well rounded you are as a creative because it’s rare to only have one avenue for expressing our creative thoughts and when money is involved, of course going for the money making niche is tempting. But it’s not for everyone. We have to embrace our story.
Thanks man! Means alot
Don't usually comment much on things but this really hit home, thank you for this! Keep up the amazing work 👍
Thank you!
Great video Carlo! Push on man, your Geauxing far!
This hit home.. I think it's important to follow your curiosity if it's a constant thought in your mind.
Mine has always been ecomm, its something I constantly come back to and get excited by the thought of pursuing.. Using the skills I have developed over the last 5-7 years to try something that I have always wanted to and to build a brand that allows me to be creative. Lately the parts of filmmaking I don't enjoy are starting to outweigh the thing'sI do enjoy.
Looking at the bigger picture and into the future has been an eye opener for me, is the lifestyle of a DP something I want when I have a family and Kids..
Great prrspectiveb
Great message! Thanks for being real and honest. Keep up the great work on RUclips, your videos are inspiring!
Thank you! Will do!
Thanks for sharing this! It always helps to hear someone is having similar struggles!
Glad to help!
I needed to hear this today. Thank you so much for your volunerability and giving voice to some of my thoughts lately. God bless you brother and remain faithful with what you have a passion and gift for. Right there with you.
So glad!
Really needed to hear this, thank you brother
Wise words! Yep! I definitely find myself with many roadblocks as a person considering what’s next after 20 years of a career that’s lost it’s lustre. I think that time is gone for me but there’s something to having focus for the future and remove distraction and get out of the mindset of looking for some easy mode. Nurture the goals and dreams I might have or might be actively formulating and go from there nurturing, not neglecting, the life I have around me now.
Thank you!
thank you for sharing your thoughts and wisdom! I Really appreciate this.
Ugh I have the same thing.. I'm also an upcoming DP and when I have a lot of work I feel like I'm doing great but when its quiet I get major imposter syndrome and its hard to find motivation. But mindset is everything in this career keep up the good work 👍
Perfect timing. Thank you
Thanks!
Thank you so much for this video. It came at just the right time. I wish you all the best for your future. You are a great inspiration.
Glad it was helpful!
This is a no brainer, million+ sub channel, calling it. 🤟
Hahaha maybe!
The distractions... They kill me too brother.. I think we service the NYC/NJ area. There are soooo many distractions in our everyday lives as business owners. As video production company owners, we can't turn off our computers and "unplug." We are constantly having to going to YT and the rest of the internet for ideas, only to become distracted. I'm right there with you! I read a book called "indistracable." Actually, it was an audiobook. It gave me so many ideas and tools to battle the distractions. Goodluck!
Thanks for sharing!
You always make a video of something right when I feel it 😭 thanks Carlo
Been hard walking down a path of uncertainty and whether I should jump to something else with more “promise” financially even if I don’t enjoy it.
@@zaccruz_ Its a tough one man! But ive learned to teust my gut even when things dont seem to be working. If I love it and cant see myself not doing it then maybe its important to stick it through
This was timely and relatable 😮💨
Thanks. Needed to hear this today.
So glad!
Damn bro so recognizable. Keep up the good work you're doing great!
Thanks
Beautifull sincere words man
This video hit like a ton of bricks!
Felt you on the distractions part. Being realistic, much of my working day is spent distracting myself, and that comes from fear. I will always prioritise minor, irrelevant tasks over actual editing for example. But when I put my head down and actually edit, I get things done very quickly. Perhaps it's the fear that we need to kill, not the distractions themselves.
Thanks for your perspective man!
I needed this video.
needed to hear this 🙏🏾
Glad it helped!
I'm on the same boat! Keep going keep grinding!
Thanks, you too!
This struck home.
Just finished watching - thank you for this! You managed to put into words all the weight that was on my chest. I also think it's important to remind ourselves that some of these distractions, as long as they're positive, will eventually play a role in our business or creative journey in one way or another. For instance, you mentioned painting, and I recently picked up watercolors myself. Even though it has nothing to do with my work, it opened something up inside me. I found a new level of honesty with myself that I hadn’t reached before. It’s made me realize that I can truly become whatever I imagine. Just wanted to share and add my two cents. Thanks again for the inspiration!
Love this dude! Thank you for adding onto it. I agree, probably could have added a little section in the video about this. Thank you for sharing
I found this so motivating that I stopped before the end of the video to get back to work.
Hahahahah
amazing bro
I thought I was the only one who felt and thought this way. In all honesty, going through this right now. After being in this business for 30 years I thought it would get easier.
Hey Kevin, thanks for sharing. I wonder if its just something that we have to learn to manage than expect to disappear one day
@@carlostigs I strongly believe that could be the case. Just trying to figure out the best way to manage all those ups and downs that come with this industry.
Yoyeah.Thank You
:)
Such a great video...
Glad you enjoyed it
Wow the algo getting scary …the burnout hit hard yesterday
this is a great video
Thanks!
No risk no story
Amen
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