IF YOU ARE EARLY POSTPARTUM WATCH THIS | YOU AREN'T ALONE | 11 DAYS PP WITH INTENSE BABY BLUES

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  • Опубликовано: 19 ноя 2024
  • Hey guys! This was a real raw video here, I almost feel embarrassed to show this but it really did happen the way I was feeling this way, and I know many many of you also feel these dark feelings during such a crazy time, just know you aren't alone.
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  • @Odiekins
    @Odiekins 9 месяцев назад +3

    It is completely normal not to feel enamored by your baby right away! Even more so when you’re not fully connected to the pregnancy. The relationship develops with time ❤

  • @GGPop808
    @GGPop808 9 месяцев назад +2

    I had really bad ppd after my daughter in 2021, it creeped up on me like a thief in the night. The fact that it gets better is hard to see at times, but knowing you aren’t alone is more rewarding. We as moms go through so much! Mentally & physically. I pray for your mine today mama that God gives you peace in your mind. . You are loved, heard & it will get better. But right now in this emotion I uplift you in prayer. 🌿 you got this mama! We are meant to be strong! Your kickin butt! 🩷

  • @sharonk212
    @sharonk212 9 месяцев назад

    I feel this so much!! So accurate! Those baby blues are no joke but it gets better. I didnt want to go anywhere and i didnt want anyone to touch her, not even family.. Its hard to feel so alone when you thought you would feel so happy and full of excitement. I feel like i missed out on the first few weeks to months because i just wasnt myself. Hopeful youll feel better soon. ❤

  • @sarapnina
    @sarapnina 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this video! You are so brave 😊 People expect us to be perfect and only feel what is social accepting to feel. But we are humans, and we are humans with a ton of hormones. It's ok to mourne a gender expectation or a pregnancy belly. Even if we used to complain about the weight of it. That is so much tabu around this stuff, so thank you so much for being brave enough to open up! ❤

  • @Elizabeth-ladybug22
    @Elizabeth-ladybug22 9 месяцев назад +2

    I definitely understand mama,i was crying horribly the first few days with my baby girl,she was originally due the 18th but had her the 17th,i kinda felt a disconnection when she was born,it felt like a shock,still learning to manage the new baby life,this is my 4th.Thank you for sharing this.Congrats on your lil one.

  • @abbyvargo3759
    @abbyvargo3759 9 месяцев назад +1

    Love this so much! Thank you for your honesty! Coming from someone who had PPD with her third baby, mom’s need to hear this stuff ❤

  • @haleymoon657
    @haleymoon657 9 месяцев назад +1

    I’ve had three children now, currently 11 days pp with my third and I can honestly say this has been my best and easiest pp experience because I had a good idea of how it was going to go. My other two pregnancies the recovery and pp time were extremely hard for me emotionally . I think a lot of the time the mother is over looked as soon as the baby is born and that definitely doesn’t help.

  • @SimplySami13
    @SimplySami13 9 месяцев назад +1

    just had my first baby 2 weeks ago and i was not expecting how crazy this hormonal shift is!! crying at everythingggg. i would sit in bed all day the first week watching tv, nursing him and crying nonstop. i had too much anxiety to leave the bed but things have been so much better this week. i went to the park and saw people setting up for a gender reveal and full on sobbed lol

    • @meetingthemiones
      @meetingthemiones  9 месяцев назад

      Yup the crying over nothing is so real 😩 I couldn’t keep the tears away. I just let myself feel the emotions at the time and let myself cry. It eventually went away around 3/4 weeks 🤍

  • @juliemiller4288
    @juliemiller4288 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for being open and honest. I like real ❤❤❤❤

  • @keshiamontgomery1069
    @keshiamontgomery1069 9 месяцев назад

    This video is very helpful for first time moms I wish I would have had this before I had my first! I have two boys almost 4 and almost 2 years old and this happened soooooo hard with both kids but with my first I felt like something was wrong with me because no one ever shares this! Been there, very relatable, so good for first time moms to know yes this IS normal nothing is wrong with you and it will get better!

    • @meetingthemiones
      @meetingthemiones  9 месяцев назад

      Yes it feels very scary that first time happening and when you don’t understand why 😢 not many people talk about those first two weeks with that intense hormonal drop it’s crazy

  • @luckyme1795
    @luckyme1795 9 месяцев назад +1

    I can so relate 😢 I just wanted everything back to normal, nothing felt normal

    • @meetingthemiones
      @meetingthemiones  9 месяцев назад +2

      Ugh yes!

    • @Odiekins
      @Odiekins 9 месяцев назад +1

      I struggle with this too! Major life changes and finding a “new” normal ❤

  • @MamaGee2024
    @MamaGee2024 9 месяцев назад +1

    It will get better I promise! ❤

  • @valeriespatorico4346
    @valeriespatorico4346 9 месяцев назад

    ❤ You just described my post partum experience to a T
    Unbelievable how similar! And yes, by the 3rd month, there was a bit of a lift from the blues.

  • @Odiekins
    @Odiekins 9 месяцев назад

    Curious on your take! Do you think women who might already experience anxiety and/or depression will be pre-disposed to experiencing the effects of hormonal shifts both during pregnancy and post-partum? Or do you think those women could be better armed to ride those waves?

    • @meetingthemiones
      @meetingthemiones  9 месяцев назад +2

      I personally think yes if you already have issues with depression / anxiety that it will higher the chance of getting PPD /PPA. I’m more of an anxious person and I always notice my anxiety drives up way worse when I’m in the PP phase. So much has to do with hormone imbalances. Such as the happy hormones your brain puts out when it’s normal, all of that gets disrupted during a time when your hormones keep going up and down which is why women feel so up and down

    • @Odiekins
      @Odiekins 9 месяцев назад

      @@meetingthemiones Completely agree! I’ve always been an anxious person too, and even just in my luteal phase I experience a noticeable increase in my anxiety.

  • @southernbelle2478
    @southernbelle2478 9 месяцев назад

    I dont feel bad with anybody that has opd after multiple children you choose to have all those kids you knew there was a possibility of getting ppd you did that to yourself.

    • @meetingthemiones
      @meetingthemiones  9 месяцев назад +8

      This is baby blues, that is related to a huge hormonal shift in such a short period of time, lol and PPD can happen with someone that only has one child. And I don’t have PPD either. Not done having kids also 😙

    • @juliemiller4288
      @juliemiller4288 9 месяцев назад

      Omg!! You are something else
      We as women need to support each other not bring each other down. How dare you come on here and shame her for having kids. You sound very uneducated, unintelligent and just a huge bully!!!

    • @Odiekins
      @Odiekins 9 месяцев назад +3

      Wow… lol southernbelle, you sound bitter af! 😂

    • @keshiamontgomery1069
      @keshiamontgomery1069 9 месяцев назад +4

      You must have zero children

    • @juliemiller4288
      @juliemiller4288 9 месяцев назад +2

      Get off her channel then. Wow!! You have 0 clue