I’m so sorry. I know this is hard. I pray that at the end of your journey you have your little miracle in your arms ❤️🙏🏼 I’m 39. My infertility journey started when I was 28 and after lots of trials, failure, crying and lots of praying I finally had my son at 33.
Everything you are saying resonates with me. Our first FET transfer failed and we had a chemical pregnancy early last month. Hang in there and keep fighting all of you who are trying! Keep praying! Allow yourself to feel all of the emotions.
Thank you for the book recommendation. Just ordered it. I also have low AMH and a failed IVF. I’m currently in the middle of my second IVF. This has been such a painful journey. I pray that you will feel God’s comfort and strength during this season.
Thanks so much Lydia! I’m sorry for your loss with your first IVF not working. It is a painful thing to experience. Hope the book can speak to you and remind you that God uses and comforts us in the brokenness and hurts in our life.
Just started following your journey not to long ago. My wife is going through ivf .. she’s half way there.. she’s doing a frozen embryo transfer. I’m so sorry for your outcome. I can only imagine how hard it was for you. We were so heart broken getting our 3rd iui negative not to long ago.. I hope you and your husband stay strong like you have been through this whole process and I hope you get your baby soon.. much love from me and my wife we wish you the best ❤️
Thanks so much! I hope you GUYS have success with your IVF treatment! I know it’s a big jump from IUI and I’m sorry you guys were not successful with that and had to move on to IVF.
I have been praying for you guys. We really wanted to look at the success rates of IVF and focus on them. Our hope was to have enough embryos so we could have 4 children. Our doctor told us we did not have enough. They would not tell us how many children to expect out of our numbers, but from our research we found that over 90% of couples are successful within three transfers. So we said that’s what we would focus on. 1/3 should end with a child. We knew there would be losses in our journey and so we are trying to keep that in mind as we go. This journey is long and sometimes feels too heavy, but the support from groups on FB and the bump is amazing. You guys are doing great. Stay strong each embryo is a chance.
Hi Im Lilian from Brazil. Undergoing my first IVF cycle, low AMH. Im 100% you will have a positive soon!! You are Young, and your embryos will be of good quality!! God is with us!!
This is truly such an emotional journey. This video hit home. It may seem strange but it IS grief over these little potential humans that don’t make it. Thanks for sharing the most vulnerable aspects of yourself. I’m praying for you and the rest of us out there on our own individual journeys.
I can so relate to your feelings in this video! Our FET also failed. We've decided to take this next month off to recover emotionally, physically and financially. Good luck to you guys - we're still praying it works out!
Thanks so much for your prayers! I think taking a break is such a great idea. I know this whole journey is full of waiting but sometimes we just need a break! 😊
Hi, I've been following along all of your videos, and can relate to your story. Thanks for being so open. I am 31 with low AMH, currently halfway through my first IVF cycle, and already scans not looking too hopeful. The letters 'AMH' instantly stress me out now! Doctors keep telling me its genetics...but I feel like it's got to be more than that.
My first FET also failed a few weeks ago. Did not anticipate how difficult it would be. I felt like such a failure. :( Must keep moving forward, I guess. This is going to be a long tough road.
I am so sorry for this loss. I (so did my dh) watched a few of your videos and we can completely understand this frustrating journey. We have been ttc for 2 years, 1 mc, and starting our first round of IVF/ICSI in 6 weeks. Everything that could possibly be wrong, we have it! Low amh, stage IV endometriosis (with ovarian endometrioma; one compromised ovary) , severe male factor (count, motility , morphology) , and SDF . The good side, I am 28 and dh 29. Everything else sucks. Hahaha gotta laugh Anyways, don’t give up just yet. Be resourceful/creative with your treatment options so y’all don’t spend a fortune. And always get that second opinion, or third. Good luck!
Hi Shayla! Thank you for your empathy and your comment! I’m sure it can be so discouraging when they have diagnosed you guys with so many things. Glad you guys are young! Hoping your first round goes well! Praying for peace, trust and a healthy pregnancy! 😊
Thank you Bonnie, I understand you were diagnosed with low amh. Do you mind if I ask you how old you are? Also, were you ever diagnosed with endometriosis or had an endometrioma found on ovary? The reason I asked is that after my diagnose of low amh in March, endometrioma was found a couple weeks ago. I was wondering if that was not your case by any chance? And if so, what were you advised by your RE. I am having doubts about how much my RE understand about endo.
Hi there! Don’t mind at all! I’m 34 right now. When I had my blood work I was 33. I have not been told I have endometriosis. I sometimes suspect I might have it because I can randomly have very painful periods (not every cycle though). They have never seen anything to suggest it on ultrasounds, like an endometrioma. But they said the only way to know for sure it through laparoscopic surgery. I have never done that, but may consider it in the future. My RE has said that the outcome of IVF is the same for those with endo and those without, so he is not really pushing me to do the surgery.
Bonnie Lee I am glad to hear that your doctor thinks IVF chances are same/similar for women with endometriosis. My current RE is not making it to be too much of a big deal except for monitoring my endometrioma. If gets above 4cm will need surgery to remove before another IVF round. But I went for a second opinion and this other RE scared the crap out of me. Pretty much said if I did not do a laparoscopy to clean everything out before IVF, it will fail. Mind you, I didn’t even know I had endometriosis until 2 weeks ago. I never had any pain, heavy cycles, nada. We started IVF due to male factor and now I have this RE saying I need some invasive surgery to get pregnant 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ If you are able to get pregnant, and you have no pain, and nothing visible on ultrasounds. I would not go for an exploratory LAP. Good luck on your journey!! Hopefully you can have a rainbow baby soon 🌈 👶
I’m so sorry. I know this is hard. I pray that at the end of your journey you have your little miracle in your arms ❤️🙏🏼
I’m 39. My infertility journey started when I was 28 and after lots of trials, failure, crying and lots of praying I finally had my son at 33.
Thank you for sharing you’re empathy and prayers! ❤️ so happy for you to finally have your son, I’m sure was a very hard road.
Everything you are saying resonates with me. Our first FET transfer failed and we had a chemical pregnancy early last month.
Hang in there and keep fighting all of you who are trying! Keep praying! Allow yourself to feel all of the emotions.
Z. Zee on Deck Praying for you! Our second one stuck and I’m so excited. I’ve never seen a positive pregnancy test in the seven years of trying.
Sending prayers to all families suffering from infertility!
Thank you for the book recommendation. Just ordered it. I also have low AMH and a failed IVF. I’m currently in the middle of my second IVF. This has been such a painful journey. I pray that you will feel God’s comfort and strength during this season.
Thanks so much Lydia! I’m sorry for your loss with your first IVF not working. It is a painful thing to experience. Hope the book can speak to you and remind you that God uses and comforts us in the brokenness and hurts in our life.
Just started following your journey not to long ago. My wife is going through ivf .. she’s half way there.. she’s doing a frozen embryo transfer. I’m so sorry for your outcome. I can only imagine how hard it was for you. We were so heart broken getting our 3rd iui negative not to long ago.. I hope you and your husband stay strong like you have been through this whole process and I hope you get your baby soon.. much love from me and my wife we wish you the best ❤️
Thanks so much! I hope you GUYS have success with your IVF treatment! I know it’s a big jump from IUI and I’m sorry you guys were not successful with that and had to move on to IVF.
I have been praying for you guys. We really wanted to look at the success rates of IVF and focus on them. Our hope was to have enough embryos so we could have 4 children. Our doctor told us we did not have enough. They would not tell us how many children to expect out of our numbers, but from our research we found that over 90% of couples are successful within three transfers. So we said that’s what we would focus on. 1/3 should end with a child. We knew there would be losses in our journey and so we are trying to keep that in mind as we go. This journey is long and sometimes feels too heavy, but the support from groups on FB and the bump is amazing. You guys are doing great. Stay strong each embryo is a chance.
Thanks for your reminders and encouragement! 😊
Hi Im Lilian from Brazil. Undergoing my first IVF cycle, low AMH. Im 100% you will have a positive soon!! You are Young, and your embryos will be of good quality!! God is with us!!
Thanks for your encouragement Lilian! 😊
This is truly such an emotional journey. This video hit home. It may seem strange but it IS grief over these little potential humans that don’t make it. Thanks for sharing the most vulnerable aspects of yourself. I’m praying for you and the rest of us out there on our own individual journeys.
It definitely is grief. Thankful for your sweet prayers! ❤️
I can so relate to your feelings in this video! Our FET also failed. We've decided to take this next month off to recover emotionally, physically and financially. Good luck to you guys - we're still praying it works out!
Thanks so much for your prayers! I think taking a break is such a great idea. I know this whole journey is full of waiting but sometimes we just need a break! 😊
Hi, I've been following along all of your videos, and can relate to your story. Thanks for being so open. I am 31 with low AMH, currently halfway through my first IVF cycle, and already scans not looking too hopeful. The letters 'AMH' instantly stress me out now! Doctors keep telling me its genetics...but I feel like it's got to be more than that.
Totally get where you’re coming from Katie! That low amh diagnosis can be scary! Hoping things go well for you!
@@BonnieLeetripletmom Thanks! Retrieval day is Friday. Did they ever explain possible causes for your low AMH?
Hi .plz tell me how I knwn about my amh my fiv treatment is start in dec
I am one week past our first FET which failed and it has definitely zapped my hope.
My first FET also failed a few weeks ago. Did not anticipate how difficult it would be. I felt like such a failure. :( Must keep moving forward, I guess. This is going to be a long tough road.
I totally agree with it being more difficult that expected. It really hits hard when you do so much and wait so long and it doesn’t work. ☹️
I am so sorry for this loss. I (so did my dh) watched a few of your videos and we can completely understand this frustrating journey.
We have been ttc for 2 years, 1 mc, and starting our first round of IVF/ICSI in 6 weeks.
Everything that could possibly be wrong, we have it! Low amh, stage IV endometriosis (with ovarian endometrioma; one compromised ovary) , severe male factor (count, motility , morphology) , and SDF .
The good side, I am 28 and dh 29. Everything else sucks. Hahaha gotta laugh
Anyways, don’t give up just yet. Be resourceful/creative with your treatment options so y’all don’t spend a fortune. And always get that second opinion, or third.
Good luck!
Hi Shayla! Thank you for your empathy and your comment!
I’m sure it can be so discouraging when they have diagnosed you guys with so many things. Glad you guys are young!
Hoping your first round goes well!
Praying for peace, trust and a healthy pregnancy! 😊
Thank you Bonnie,
I understand you were diagnosed with low amh. Do you mind if I ask you how old you are? Also, were you ever diagnosed with endometriosis or had an endometrioma found on ovary? The reason I asked is that after my diagnose of low amh in March, endometrioma was found a couple weeks ago.
I was wondering if that was not your case by any chance? And if so, what were you advised by your RE. I am having doubts about how much my RE understand about endo.
Hi there!
Don’t mind at all! I’m 34 right now. When I had my blood work I was 33.
I have not been told I have endometriosis. I sometimes suspect I might have it because I can randomly have very painful periods (not every cycle though).
They have never seen anything to suggest it on ultrasounds, like an endometrioma. But they said the only way to know for sure it through laparoscopic surgery.
I have never done that, but may consider it in the future. My RE has said that the outcome of IVF is the same for those with endo and those without, so he is not really pushing me to do the surgery.
Bonnie Lee I am glad to hear that your doctor thinks IVF chances are same/similar for women with endometriosis. My current RE is not making it to be too much of a big deal except for monitoring my endometrioma. If gets above 4cm will need surgery to remove before another IVF round.
But I went for a second opinion and this other RE scared the crap out of me. Pretty much said if I did not do a laparoscopy to clean everything out before IVF, it will fail.
Mind you, I didn’t even know I had endometriosis until 2 weeks ago. I never had any pain, heavy cycles, nada. We started IVF due to male factor and now I have this RE saying I need some invasive surgery to get pregnant 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
If you are able to get pregnant, and you have no pain, and nothing visible on ultrasounds. I would not go for an exploratory LAP.
Good luck on your journey!! Hopefully you can have a rainbow baby soon 🌈 👶
One way or another you two will get your baby. XX
Thank you
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