Eboni K. Williams and Christal discuss issues with Alpha Females pt 1

Eboni K. Williams and I had an opportunity to discuss my book, 'Dear Alpha Female its Not Him, it's You. This was an amazing opportunity to share my heart with a sister that I feel has so much to offer and yet hasn't discovered the most amazing part about herself. I wish Eboni much continued success and love.

[@genovasquez8361]

Men look for reasons to qualify a woman
Women look for reasons to disqualify a man
One thing i learn from all the women who came back after rejecting me months ago or years ago. Is they had to go through enough men to realize they were eliminating possible men based off petty things, Thats why im totally blunt and abrasive when i first meet a sista, To intentionally turn her off so she leaves me alone.
If she is not turn off or rub the wrong way, then ill let my guards down, Im not saying im rude. But i do lay down my non negotiables and hard expectations on what desire from her. If she says im moving to fast, or i leave nothing to the imagination, I say peace out and hang the phone up. No need to keep going back an forth because i have rolodex of numbers im sifting through to find the ones who vibes with me. If the vibe the jive i go ghost.
But its interesting when women who previosuly wasnt feeling me at first circle the block. An try to give me a chance. But i see rejection as protection. An her coming back around seems nefarious to me, so i decline.

[@rayalexander2833]

University of Colorado Head Football Coach, Deion "Coach Prime" Sanders, has stated that the people that have a problem with his high level of confidence is a reflection of their insecurities and not his self-confidence. In light of this perspective, there are some men who have a problem with the confident white-collar personas of college-educated women that work in upper-tier professional careers. These men may misinterpret these women's high self-esteem related to their education and career accomplishments as elitist when this may actually be a reflection of these men's insecurities when they attempt to date women who are out of their lane in terms of education level and socioeconomic status. The fact of matter is that affluent, college-educated people tend to date and marry other affluent, college-educated people. It's assortative mating and it's the norm. The men that have issues with college-educated professional women's preference to date and marry men with similar credentials, socioeconomic status, and within their social class, might find more compatibility dating women in their social-class lane who they have more in common with and with whom these men may feel more comfortable in a romantic relationship.

[@elisebreton7636]

I love everything you said, I hope these women listen, understand and apply everything you said.

[@jmbenjamin38]

Loved it!

[@vanessahawkins7668]

Christal this is great advice that I plan to use. Thanks 🙏🏾

[@fromChristalXO]

I would love to hear your feedback

[@KimberlyReviews]

"Enjoy the date" so true

[@KFSaks]

Nice conversation. Many good points were made.

[@marriot6491]

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Good listen

[@fromChristalXO]

Thx lady

[@sirpream.clientele]

A woman can NEVER be an Alpha for everything she has, is by the "Good Grace of Men".

[@TheWildWahine]

😂😂😂😂😂. Get a job.

[@sirpream.clientele]

Go to Ukraine@@TheWildWahine, they need you.