“How to Be Me” - REN X CHINCHILLA - SINGER REACTS

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  • Опубликовано: 27 янв 2025

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  • @sunshinerainbows3759
    @sunshinerainbows3759 Год назад +59

    Being a suicide survivor (my son), this song could have been written by me. I just relate so much, every corner of this house is him, his voice… every memory. It’s a tomb, and I need to get out of it, it just hurts too much. It’s hard to remember the person I was before, how do I walk around with that giant traumatic loss etched into me, how do I interact with people, who am I now?

    • @badsabre5917
      @badsabre5917 Год назад +2

      Agreed and so well put.

    • @Peacetrain66
      @Peacetrain66 Год назад +2

      I am so,so sorry 😢

    • @lynzistringer
      @lynzistringer  Год назад +11

      I am so incredibly sorry to hear about your loss. I can't imagine that pain you have felt and the strength it takes to continue on. Your comment has helped provide more context to this song for me, so thank you very much for sharing. Be well, my friend

    • @MoreKellBellPlease
      @MoreKellBellPlease Год назад +2

      My heart goes out to you 🙏 ❤

    • @sunshinerainbows3759
      @sunshinerainbows3759 Год назад +9

      @@lynzistringer thank you, I always say, when someone says they can’t imagine, I’m so so happy that you can’t.
      I’m not sure it’s strength, there are many times I don’t feel strong at all. Everyone is left with so many questions.
      It changes how you see the world. I never want to be the reason for anyones bad day, I believe, strongly, in random acts of kindness. If I see a young family at the same restaurant we are at, if we can, we pay their bill and make sure to sign it, from Jared. I want people to say his name.

  • @LeeannG
    @LeeannG Год назад +11

    One of the most important songs about grief I’ve ever heard.

  • @jackchisnall9316
    @jackchisnall9316 Год назад +7

    His friend jumped off the bridge from the main land to an island, Ren was texted by another friend but arrived too late to intervene, Joe's body was swept away by the sea and never found.

  • @sem1conscious
    @sem1conscious Год назад +13

    His live performance 'For Joe' combines a few songs he wrote with him in mind. It's incredible.

  • @deanc486
    @deanc486 Год назад +21

    The song relates to Rens best friend Joe who ended his life. Ren has looked at this time in other pieces one of which is Suicide which explains events more.

    • @lynzistringer
      @lynzistringer  Год назад +8

      Thank you for explaining, sorry for my ignorance on the subject. I had no idea. Honestly, no words. I can’t imagine the pain Ren must be in.

    • @deanc486
      @deanc486 Год назад +3

      @@lynzistringerRen has given many glimpses into his past.I get the impression Ren is a glass half full kind of guy. The tragic death of Joe seems to be another example of something that encouraged him to focus on his power something he eludes to in his track Power. He acknowledges much of his hurts but uses it for his amazing work which many seem to understand and connect with. Hence his big fan base. A very talented man as are the people he has collaborated with. He was also part of a fantastic band, The Big Push, who you find also on the RUclips Platform. Enjoy!

    • @spynner1223
      @spynner1223 Год назад +1

      ​@lynzistringer a lot of his music comes from Joe's decision. Freckled Angels is another... some of his friends even opened up a diner and called it Freckled Angels

    • @MissyGail4eva
      @MissyGail4eva Год назад +2

      ​@@deanc486​ it's curiously ironic that you mentioned 'Power', but also began the comment alluding to the notion that you thought Ren was a "glass half empty" type of person, when if you consider that some of the best bars in 'Power' are the following..
      "F*ck it,
      we′re all misguided
      individuals, life can ♫¸
      Suck it,
      my cup ain't half full, man,
      I′m filling up the whole ♬
      Bucket
      I'll drink my tears so I can
      ♩¸♪ drown my sorrows ♫¸
      Sing like I might die tomorrow
      Live brother, brother, brother, brother,
      brother, brother, brother.. " lol 🌈ᥫ᭡

    • @deanc486
      @deanc486 Год назад

      @@MissyGail4eva Hi, I thought I suggested he was a glass half full kind of guy? Which is why I mentioned Power as an example of that. But hey whatever I think is only an assumption. I could quite easily be an ass and got it wrong.

  • @scottnyht3273
    @scottnyht3273 7 месяцев назад +3

    I really like the 2nd time through...❤

  • @Ichiban74
    @Ichiban74 5 месяцев назад +2

    I love your style of watching it through first and then breaking it down a second time. I feel like that's how I would do it if I were doing a reaction video. I don't think you can really get the best reaction for the first time listening if you keep dropping back out of the mood that his music/art creates for you.

  • @Peacetrain66
    @Peacetrain66 Год назад +7

    Have listened to this one dozens of times and it still gives me chills up my spine. So powerful. Listen to Su*cide to get a more complete story of his friend Joe’s death.

  • @DandelionCollab
    @DandelionCollab Год назад +6

    Ren wrote an essay for the comments of Su!cIde video where he tells the story of his experience of Joe's death. That song is not about suicide. It is Ren's EXPERIENCE of its impact on his life. He does open heart surgery on himself and we are privileged to peer over his shoulder.
    The point of all this is that you have a great reaction where we get to share your experience of the first listen. So please do more. Have tissues when you react to Su!cIde.

    • @lynzistringer
      @lynzistringer  Год назад +3

      I can't wait to watch that one! I've been told it is very emotional, so I want to be prepared for it. Thank you for watching and commenting!

  • @peteturner3928
    @peteturner3928 5 месяцев назад +2

    RIP Joe, you will always be loved.

  • @taz454
    @taz454 Год назад +1

    Such a moving song, especially when you know it comes from an authentic place.
    Btw i like the fact you listen first and then listen again with pauses and your thoughts. Others should do this.

  • @mldkenny
    @mldkenny Год назад +4

    My favourite Duo ever! Great reaction to this amazing performance.

  • @1sizefitzall-bf8yf
    @1sizefitzall-bf8yf Год назад +3

    Incredible !!…….Thank. you so much for reacting to this outstanding duo. They truly are "musical siblings"

  • @atwellorama
    @atwellorama Год назад +2

    Chinchilla has a brand new tune dropping on Friday. "Cut You Off", and I'm very excited.

  • @allenabrams-dw4hy
    @allenabrams-dw4hy Год назад +1

    Ren is in his own level. I can barely see his toes.

  • @steveeccles1341
    @steveeccles1341 Год назад +3

    Lynzi …… I’ve been waiting patiently for you to react to Ren again. Great reaction! So glad you’re back, please don’t leave it so long next time. See ya next time 😊

  • @JimmyWallace284
    @JimmyWallace284 Год назад +1

    They are really great together. Fantastic chemistry! Thanks for listening to it twice- enjoyed your breakdown of their performance.

  • @Codex7777
    @Codex7777 Год назад

    Yet another masterpiece composition from Ren! :)

  • @SpiritOfWanderlust
    @SpiritOfWanderlust 9 месяцев назад +1

    I'm either so sick in the head, I need to be bled dry to quit
    Or I just really used to love him
    Or I just really used to love him
    Or I just really used to love him, I sure hope that's it
    Loved that album, was awesome to hear somebody acknowledge it in the middle of a reaction.

    • @lynzistringer
      @lynzistringer  9 месяцев назад

      I love Fiona Apple SO much 😭 I’m glad someone watching my videos also knows of this wonderful song

    • @SpiritOfWanderlust
      @SpiritOfWanderlust 9 месяцев назад

      @@lynzistringer I actually used Waltz (Better Than Fine) from that album as profile text on a few websites for awhile It's shot, sweet, and such a vibe.

  • @jasonremy1627
    @jasonremy1627 Год назад +2

    They have a version of "Sexual Healing" they do in a street performance which is so good it's makes your knees weak.

  • @MichaelCRush
    @MichaelCRush Год назад +1

    Great reaction! Really looking forward to seeing you do Money Game Parts 1, 2 and 3 (don't skip straight to 3 like so many reactors are doing just because it's new!), and then hopefully "Swan Song" and "Bongo Bong" by The Big Push (Ren's band).

  • @neilcooper2966
    @neilcooper2966 Год назад +1

    Great reaction(s)! And I don't think you were wrong about the message of the song. Loss of something and the feelings that evokes. For Ren it was his best friend.

  • @adamwalsh152
    @adamwalsh152 Год назад

    I love the emotion you put into your reactions. Loving the channel, keep up the good work! :)

  • @garykemplay6091
    @garykemplay6091 Год назад +1

    Rens album Sick Boi just went straight in at no.2 in the UK album charts

    • @lynzistringer
      @lynzistringer  Год назад

      I just saw, he hit number 1!!!! So proud of him, wow.

    • @garykemplay6091
      @garykemplay6091 Год назад +1

      @@lynzistringer I've ju

    • @garykemplay6091
      @garykemplay6091 Год назад +1

      I've just seen it too. F**King awesome. I'm covered in goosebumps for the lad. Yessss. Thanks for letting me know

    • @lynzistringer
      @lynzistringer  Год назад +1

      @@garykemplay6091 He deserves it more than most, honestly. Waking up to that news filled me with joy!!

    • @garykemplay6091
      @garykemplay6091 Год назад

      ​​@lynzistringer ruclips.net/video/fg4i3khHmaA/видео.htmlsi=7btilQNt00EP9yI1 this is ren finding out he's no.1

  • @jeffstumpf9129
    @jeffstumpf9129 Год назад +1

    It's beautiful, yet has that element of danger of singing a duet with Edward Scissorhands. Ren is the real deal, and I love Chinchilla's voice.

  • @rainsontheforth
    @rainsontheforth 9 месяцев назад

    I think this song resonates with anybody going through trauma of loosing someone if fact anything close to them. This song broke me my wife of 54 years old passed coming up to 6 months ago suddenly went to work one morning came back home to find her still in our bed so this song resonates with me didn't think I would of made it this far without her but family have kept me going it's just the what ifs could I have done this or that no one knew this was gonna happen there one minute gone the next life's not fair

    • @iamlpinthe312
      @iamlpinthe312 9 месяцев назад +1

      I’m so sorry for your loss. 💔

    • @MizCriz46
      @MizCriz46 Месяц назад +1

      Dear @rainsontheforth, Yes. One night my husband of 48 yrs. went to bed. I stayed up a couple hrs. cleaning out file drawers. When I went to go to bed, he was gone. That was 4 yrs. ago. I understand everything you said because I lived it. I can tell you that it eases. It never goes away but it eases.
      After about a year of simply not caring if I lived or not, I realized that I needed to get myself together, if not for myself, at least for the sake of others I love & who love me. I went for a long walk everyday. I read/watched absolutely no news. None. I completely avoided anything that was sad, serious or violent. I actively sought out anything that would make me laugh. TV shows, movies, comedians, ridiculous dog/cat videos, whatever. My goal was to find something that would make me laugh out loud at least once every day. "Laughter is the best medicine"? I can truly say that it did help lift me back to the land of the living. I can't give you any other wisdom. My heart is with you.

  • @Steve78joesph
    @Steve78joesph 4 месяца назад +1

    before this i was watching u play a gazoo i think.

  • @scottiboy19
    @scottiboy19 10 месяцев назад +1

    Do a reaction of Chinchilla fingers live

  • @Kibashino2
    @Kibashino2 Год назад +1

    LESSS GOOO

  • @belindamelville2270
    @belindamelville2270 Год назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤😢

  • @gordonramsay4053
    @gordonramsay4053 Год назад

    I think that they are singing as if they were Rens friend Joe after he died ( suicide). Only the last sentence, sung by Ren, is Ren's thought. Maybe!!!

  • @kerricrawley6864
    @kerricrawley6864 Год назад

    Actually when you are consistently sick it never is understood with healthy people/ Like he said it's not entertainment. It's real life.

  • @Vmcf1968
    @Vmcf1968 Год назад +4

    joe jumped from the very bridge that ren and chinchilla are recording this live from.

    • @lynzistringer
      @lynzistringer  Год назад

      Wow, I had no idea. This must have been such a traumatizing thing for Ren to go through.

    • @Vmcf1968
      @Vmcf1968 Год назад

      ty i reaed it and believed it ty for the info mate@@eryksun

    • @jasonremy1627
      @jasonremy1627 Год назад +5

      I'm not sure why people keep spreading this story. It's just not true. I'm pretty sure this is the same roof in Brighton Ren has used in several of his videos (Bongo Bong, Murderer) It's the building he and Romain lived in.

    • @dougoneill7266
      @dougoneill7266 Год назад +1

      @@jasonremy1627 It's not that rooftop. I'm sure this is a hotel on the waterfront.

    • @jasonremy1627
      @jasonremy1627 Год назад

      @@dougoneill7266 thanks!

  • @MissyGail4eva
    @MissyGail4eva Год назад

    I don't know why, but your reaction truly annoyed me.

    • @lynzistringer
      @lynzistringer  Год назад +2

      Sorry to annoy you, seriously. I am kinda annoying though, so I get it.

    • @MissyGail4eva
      @MissyGail4eva Год назад +1

      @@lynzistringer no, I'm sorry. I was just being a b*tch. You're thoroughly sincere, and that is a trait I value and appreciate. I do truly apologize.

  • @marlee680
    @marlee680 9 месяцев назад +1

    With creatures as beutiful as youensres my faith in God good show UK renegades are her x