How to become friends with SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE?

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  • Опубликовано: 3 янв 2025

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  • @alux
    @alux  6 лет назад +22

    Hello Aluxers, due to popular demand we're bringing back the 25 Questions in 25 Days series before Christmas!
    Every day we will answer one of your questions! What would you like us to answer?
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    • @FernandoPerez-cl5ll
      @FernandoPerez-cl5ll 6 лет назад

      Hello I’m a 16 year-old high schooler with a physical disability and i want to know how to make money and I tried selling candy at school but being the person that no one knows about in school didn’t help so I tried getting a job but all the jobs that I apply to involve physical work like stocking shelves and I wanted to see if I could make money online by doing surveys but my parents think that all that is a scam and I’m running out of options if anyone has any idea on what I can try next it would be gratefully appreciated

    • @cholabulanon4360
      @cholabulanon4360 6 лет назад +1

      how to get started with social entrepreneurship?

    • @ManuKumar-ff1gr
      @ManuKumar-ff1gr 6 лет назад

      What sacrifice means for you and why are you so pro sacrifice?

    • @tapeshbairagi4180
      @tapeshbairagi4180 6 лет назад

      How to become more creative & think out of the box?¿??

    • @ramanreddy1957
      @ramanreddy1957 6 лет назад

      Hi I would like to know why we live
      Kindly make video

  • @InvestingHustler
    @InvestingHustler 6 лет назад +192

    Become successful yourself and you will notice your circle start to change !

    • @shahbazakhter9736
      @shahbazakhter9736 6 лет назад +8

      Can't relate more, but before successful you can do hardwork to attract them

    • @hardikderashri2304
      @hardikderashri2304 6 лет назад

      Thanks:)

    • @nadirrabah6756
      @nadirrabah6756 6 лет назад +14

      Absolutely. Successful people don't hangout with just anyone.

    • @RachelNicole
      @RachelNicole 6 лет назад

      Exactly

    • @4you2grow75
      @4you2grow75 6 лет назад

      *exactly. the best point mentioned here.
      and your channel is very interesting, too*

  • @dorothea2199
    @dorothea2199 2 года назад +30

    1. Respect their time.
    2. You pick up the bill.
    3. It's not about you.
    4. Be valuable.
    You're welcome 😊

    • @LamontCalloway-i7u
      @LamontCalloway-i7u 9 месяцев назад

      “Be” valuable. 100% vague . Gotta go bit deeper than that hoss…….Or not .

  • @gracelikerain5039
    @gracelikerain5039 2 года назад +16

    The only reason I want to become friends with successful people is because they don't get jealous when you talk about your ideas or pursue goals

    • @theeguardiangamer8937
      @theeguardiangamer8937 10 месяцев назад +1

      This isn’t true. People of all levels can get jealous.

    • @mike.p.1400
      @mike.p.1400 3 месяца назад +2

      You shouldn’t talk to people about your ideas and goals.

  • @dinerosign
    @dinerosign 6 лет назад +35

    The answer for this was obvious. Become successful yourself

  • @Ziploc530
    @Ziploc530 4 года назад +4

    I kind of have an interesting story I met these successful people in a Starbucks, and I actually had the courage to talk to one of them, and thank them for something I felt they did whether they knew or not impacted me personally. After I had lost my one job, and got into a more professional image for my new role, the two successful people actually seemed more interested in me. The one even was really excited after I mailed him a letter also thanking him, but I was extremely nervous to say anything. The week before Christmas the one intentionally sat across from me and I think they really believed in me. So for Christmas I mailed them each a Starbucks gift card. Corona kind of ruined the chance to find out their reactions, but hey I am sure that was a start~

  • @annaidzikowska6149
    @annaidzikowska6149 6 лет назад +6

    this book changes live, along with "How to Stop Worrying and Start Living" and "Art of Public Speaking". All three of them may seem like they're toutching different aspects of your live, but actually they correspond with eachother, making the perfect playbook of live, with actual ways to follow within.

  • @seenusmg_channelsyoutube3636
    @seenusmg_channelsyoutube3636 6 лет назад +13

    You left one out Alux. Be genuine. Whether you agree or disagree with this person on a matter, be genuine. I’ve worked with millionaires before and have been present and presented with all kinds of opportunities. If someone is being fake to get close, these people will see it almost instantly. So be yourself, relax and you can make a true acquaintance.

  • @aliciahope9
    @aliciahope9 2 года назад +1

    I was reading this awesome article that said that successful people are attracted to other people who work hard. And I just got done listening to Tony Robbins talk that we must turn our “shoulds” into “musts” in order to become outstanding people. They always say your network is your net worth and so I am very picky with who I surround myself with and sometimes it seems difficult to find other successful people outside of social media. If we’re focusing on our own “business” or our work, it’ll be easier to reach other successful people.
    Great content!

  • @Yatragram
    @Yatragram 6 лет назад +2

    I met someone before 4 years and when i met him we used to talk about his childhood and what his experiences in his life and things go on.. Now we have good friendly bonding. I never thought that i could be friend with this personality, .but now he is public figure even he is in touch with me, i learnt from this case just be humble and pretent to be good human being.

  • @angell504
    @angell504 5 лет назад +2

    Yes. Finally a video on why successful people get annoyed by me. Smh. Nobody ever became self sufficient without the right person to show them how, and now I’m here 🤗

  • @youssefessam6558
    @youssefessam6558 6 лет назад +20

    How to find people with the same mindset of an eager to become wealthy?

    • @4you2grow75
      @4you2grow75 6 лет назад

      *great question👌*

    • @shantilal_suthar
      @shantilal_suthar 4 года назад +3

      I am too looking for the same. Because I believe until or unless you are in the circle of successful people then how will you become successful in life?

    • @marty.l
      @marty.l 3 года назад +5

      Start or join a network, mastermind group. Invite others with the same mindset. Share, provide value generously. You will be on your way. Can't afford to play golf. Then work or volunteer at a golf event or facility as an example. Be interested in what wealthy people do, then you will be interesting to them. Can't afford a yacht. Then work or volunteer at a yacht club or event, etc. Or start a business washing people's yachts/boats. Lol. Can't afford a ranch or raise thoroughbreds, then work or volunteer at equestrian facilities or events, etc. Rich, wealthy people have wealthy activities or hobbies, you just need to find a way in and be interested too. Then you can learn. Or find successful people you admire and offer to work for free or the minimum amount you can to survive for awhile in exchange for mentorship. Once you've learned what you can, then you can be on your way to wealth yourself.

    • @ladiiyb
      @ladiiyb 3 года назад

      This! I wish I had 2 girl friends with the same mindset.

    • @Charulatha34354
      @Charulatha34354 8 месяцев назад

      @@ladiiyb same here !!

  • @gurleennanda9073
    @gurleennanda9073 6 лет назад +12

    This video is a helpful one

    • @4you2grow75
      @4you2grow75 6 лет назад

      *Yess Gurleen. this one is amazing*

  • @DiversityCristian
    @DiversityCristian 6 лет назад +3

    Thanks for sharing with us!!! Blessed all of you ho teaches us how to become successful!

    • @alux
      @alux  6 лет назад +1

      Our pleasure!!

  • @natrivv9035
    @natrivv9035 6 лет назад +3

    Change the way you look at things, and the things you look at change.
    While these pieces of advice for treating humans with respect and not as items to use to bolster personal success are very valuable. The starting point is the key point. Change starts within, not outside. Even if it's just a single step, improving yourself will quite frankly alienate you from friends.
    There are people who despite shared interests and friendship we had in the past, I don't get along with now, and I'm still far from successful. It's strange now, seeing all the negativity towards the things they actually enjoy, and on the flip side they already see me as overly positive.
    Just that one step of actually doing something already drove a wedge between me and the one's who just complain, and you know what it's that wedge that also lifted me up to people more successful.

    • @4you2grow75
      @4you2grow75 6 лет назад

      *great. loved your comment Natrivv*

  • @rajdutt2679
    @rajdutt2679 6 лет назад +4

    I am Rohit Das ....I Am from India.. ALUX thank you very much to give extraordinary knowledge. At the base of your video I learn I applied it for my new job in Belgium. And I got it..... So I really want to THANK YOU ALUX. COM

    • @4you2grow75
      @4you2grow75 6 лет назад

      *oh congrats. i am very happy for you.😀*

  • @teaminferno4341
    @teaminferno4341 6 лет назад +5

    hit like if you had read that book!!

    • @4you2grow75
      @4you2grow75 6 лет назад

      *that book is awesome*

    • @michaelellis772
      @michaelellis772 4 года назад

      I read the book before this video but I won't give you free likes

  • @ticozs
    @ticozs 5 лет назад +4

    Changing social pools is a start even if you have to travel & get out of your way to swim in those social pools. It's worth it. If you live somewhere where there's noone of interest to follow or reverse engineer any type of success.

  • @Pinker92
    @Pinker92 6 лет назад +4

    very easy you only need to be the youtuber like Alux

    • @4you2grow75
      @4you2grow75 6 лет назад

      *well said. loved your comment*

  • @VarunKumar-yl8nj
    @VarunKumar-yl8nj 6 лет назад +3

    Alux is very good channel I love this s channel. Because this channel has given more knowledge for us. Best of luck keep growing.

    • @4you2grow75
      @4you2grow75 6 лет назад

      *Definitely... its a great channel*

  • @radieindonilla6902
    @radieindonilla6902 6 лет назад +6

    AT LAST, I'M FIRST!

    • @alux
      @alux  6 лет назад +3

      Cool

    • @radieindonilla6902
      @radieindonilla6902 6 лет назад

      Thank you@@aluxfor your motivating videos! You are really doing a great job!

    • @cholabulanon4360
      @cholabulanon4360 6 лет назад

      zero tohero here cholabulanon.blogspot.com/

    • @4you2grow75
      @4you2grow75 6 лет назад

      *be the first*

  • @nanahendrix5087
    @nanahendrix5087 2 года назад

    Alux, started watching your videos way back in University of Ghana and now I am doing quite well. Thanks so much for your content and knowledge, it's changing lives in even developing nations.

  • @ApplyitCollinoVidz
    @ApplyitCollinoVidz 4 года назад +2

    Hi, this is inspiring but i humbly request you to produce for me a video on 'how to gain respect' i really need this.

  • @AcesizOfficial
    @AcesizOfficial 6 лет назад +1

    🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @AbsoluteMcGregor
    @AbsoluteMcGregor 6 лет назад +3

    How does one avoid toxic people in life?

    • @RachelNicole
      @RachelNicole 6 лет назад

      Absolute McGregor I will make a video on that later this month

  • @Orion3800
    @Orion3800 6 лет назад +4

    🎥👀 Do a vid on how do you program your mind for wealth!! 🤓💵

    • @4you2grow75
      @4you2grow75 6 лет назад

      *yes. i would like to know 15 things about that*

    • @princeoreratile9278
      @princeoreratile9278 6 лет назад +1

      Yes same here that has to happen ! If data was for free I would literally become one of best pastors

  • @Dwarfmanvash
    @Dwarfmanvash 6 лет назад

    Good thing I already have the Audio book!

  • @adityarajsingh3939
    @adityarajsingh3939 6 лет назад +11

    How to keep control on your startup after diluting equity and shares

    • @pentrubarbati
      @pentrubarbati 6 лет назад

      don't sell the majority shares ... there is no other way ....

    • @FallSichelSchnitt
      @FallSichelSchnitt 6 лет назад

      @@pentrubarbati theres class A and class B shares..

  • @OCFS
    @OCFS 5 лет назад +2

    Don't be the magnetized one. BE THE MAGNET!

  • @hardikderashri2304
    @hardikderashri2304 6 лет назад +1

    Yes , this happened to me before , I can totally relate and thanks I had the same question . And you pronounced the guys name wrong😂

  • @dinerosign
    @dinerosign 6 лет назад +2

    How to reach out to people who have skills you dont?

    • @4you2grow75
      @4you2grow75 6 лет назад

      *great question that needs to be anwered..
      loved your question*

    • @Deboloc
      @Deboloc 5 лет назад

      Money

  • @DilipKumar-vg8pg
    @DilipKumar-vg8pg 4 года назад

    This topic is really important...
    Thanks alux for picking this.

  • @joantonio6331
    @joantonio6331 6 лет назад +1

    Unfortunately, I found out that mediocrity hate being friend with successful people... They are way better in their comfort zone criticizing the system and everyone that make it...

  • @shivangsaraswat7179
    @shivangsaraswat7179 6 лет назад +4

    Q: how to prepare and run long term plans with very short amount of resources?

    • @4you2grow75
      @4you2grow75 6 лет назад

      *thats the question that needs to be answered*

  • @ecbmanikandan
    @ecbmanikandan 6 лет назад +5

    HOW TO KNOW TOXIC FRIENDS AND HOW TO SAVE OUR MONEY BEFORE THEY LOOT IT FROM US..!

    • @iaminlovewithyou.
      @iaminlovewithyou. 4 года назад +1

      Hahahahahah🤣🤣🤣 i know this comment is old but it is qute funny

    • @ecbmanikandan
      @ecbmanikandan 4 года назад

      @@iaminlovewithyou. Thanks Machi For Your Comment..!

    • @iaminlovewithyou.
      @iaminlovewithyou. 4 года назад +1

      @@ecbmanikandan ;) thx for answering

    • @notyouraveragejoe7003
      @notyouraveragejoe7003 3 года назад +1

      @@ecbmanikandan having had this experience, watch out for the red flags and DONT ignore it!!! I repeat don’t ignore the red flag or your intuition!
      Also, keep your money to yourself. Never try to show off or talk about your income

    • @marty.l
      @marty.l 3 года назад

      Don't give or loan money to friends or family especially if they're not already successful people. Successful people pay their debts. Unsuccessful people don't.

  • @LoneRider-1479
    @LoneRider-1479 6 лет назад +1

    This is a vedio really worth it

  • @kylejhbsa
    @kylejhbsa 6 лет назад +1

    My Question - How to stay motivated and keep up the hard work???

    • @adventures223
      @adventures223 3 года назад +1

      Do what needs to be done even when you don't want to do it it will become a habit and you might even like it

    • @LeoneGeronimo
      @LeoneGeronimo 2 года назад

      Discipline is better

  • @MrJonson98
    @MrJonson98 6 лет назад

    Great video and also a great way to find people is joining a network marketing company...could you make a video a little bit more in details about Network Marketing?

  • @antoniodossantos5960
    @antoniodossantos5960 3 года назад

    Thanks Alux🌎

  • @stalemateib3600
    @stalemateib3600 6 лет назад

    Nice. A video for my birthday!

  • @DevotedLady53
    @DevotedLady53 Год назад

    Instinctively True ❤️

  • @girishsh7317
    @girishsh7317 6 лет назад

    Hay Alux you are doing a great job.
    By the way thanks for this video, I had the same question in my mind thank you

  • @wesleyvellutini
    @wesleyvellutini 6 лет назад

    Boy, you're good in what you do!

  • @khabaentertainment6040
    @khabaentertainment6040 3 года назад

    Wow this is very informative

  • @bukbacaw6412
    @bukbacaw6412 6 лет назад

    Do a video about getting what you want without having to deal with others.

  • @millenialsera6402
    @millenialsera6402 3 года назад

    How to start thinking long term in life.!!

  • @hugh009
    @hugh009 2 года назад

    My secret to success with networking with the very wealthy is offering as a former news reporter and public relations consultant to get them more publicity for FREE! Then they know my value after I accomplish this and hire me!

  • @PrakharKVerma
    @PrakharKVerma 6 лет назад

    Become worthy of their attention. :)

  • @ashrafshaikh5881
    @ashrafshaikh5881 5 лет назад

    Please Make video on 15 Financial books.

  • @DerSingh0329
    @DerSingh0329 4 года назад

    So the core is the combination of having value and giving value right ma'am?

  • @ashrafshaikh5881
    @ashrafshaikh5881 5 лет назад

    Q. Please make video on 15 financial books.

  • @marksilla8276
    @marksilla8276 6 лет назад

    I was googling this the other day and I didn't find any results

  • @nn9tnataor947
    @nn9tnataor947 6 лет назад

    Make a video of 15 things you didn't know about Steve Jobs.

  • @madhukuruganti7633
    @madhukuruganti7633 6 лет назад

    Alux.com How to move on from past failures and start working hard in the present??

  • @iammaximus614
    @iammaximus614 3 года назад

    Think…..& Grow 🌱

  • @sohailalam1378
    @sohailalam1378 6 лет назад

    How to acquire skills for free that is important for us to become successful.

  • @pierredebeer6389
    @pierredebeer6389 4 года назад

    i have so dit not end wel but i try and try again

  • @ufc2compilation970
    @ufc2compilation970 6 лет назад

    Was here before 100k

  • @vivekwilson7291
    @vivekwilson7291 6 лет назад

    My Question is :
    Which habits would give us a headstart in life ?

  • @eyeneyemusic
    @eyeneyemusic 6 лет назад

    1,000 likes 👍

  • @vadimturov7808
    @vadimturov7808 6 лет назад

    There was another video before this one in this playlist, but it's deleted. It probably was way to politically incorrect and someone have took it down

  • @keimaxvix8010
    @keimaxvix8010 6 лет назад

    How to get rid of a bad personality? Or how to stop being narcissistic/prideful?

  • @maylearafael
    @maylearafael 6 лет назад

    Second. ✌🏼

  • @VikramKumar-yu6wz
    @VikramKumar-yu6wz 6 лет назад +4

    make some video in MLM network marketing

    • @MrJonson98
      @MrJonson98 6 лет назад

      yeah people put thumbs up at this so it become visible

    • @4you2grow75
      @4you2grow75 6 лет назад

      *yes.... it would be great to know 15 things about this theme😀*

  • @LindaAnimator
    @LindaAnimator 2 года назад

    We ll. I have learned. If you put joy in your life. You start haveing. A way of. Motivation and if you lissoning to kind songs. You allso. Get the feeling of. Respect so if you learn to become. Happy. It draws you close to posstive. And by doing all this. It will make you valllueble

  • @mikey22uk74
    @mikey22uk74 6 лет назад +2

    I’m early

  • @naveenkumarv6974
    @naveenkumarv6974 6 лет назад

    How to choose your business sector ?

  • @GalaxyKane
    @GalaxyKane 6 лет назад +4

    What if you don't like people?

    • @nadirrabah6756
      @nadirrabah6756 6 лет назад

      If you're a "misanthrope" then....... Be a dictator or a drug dealer or something lol

    • @4you2grow75
      @4you2grow75 6 лет назад

      *yeah... alux must make video about this*

  • @NomadicSage
    @NomadicSage 6 лет назад

    How to win when cards are stacked against you?

    • @marty.l
      @marty.l 3 года назад

      Drop the bad cards and get new cards?

  • @nadirrabah6756
    @nadirrabah6756 6 лет назад

    Sunday motivation: 15 fucking reasons of why you ( I ) should go to that damn company Christmas party? Do it!!!!

  • @gauravkumarprajapati3968
    @gauravkumarprajapati3968 5 лет назад

    Do successful people keep friendship with all their school friends?

  • @yeezytaggs4450
    @yeezytaggs4450 6 лет назад

    What about artifacts billionaires own

    • @marty.l
      @marty.l 3 года назад

      Do a Google search on how the top 1% in wealth allocate their wealth.

  • @inezneal7258
    @inezneal7258 6 лет назад

    I'm plagued by seeing things I can't have or buy immediately

  • @atm8708
    @atm8708 6 лет назад

    Next video, when your a young entrepreneur, no one takes you seriously because of age, what's the fix for this?

    • @alexhenke1979
      @alexhenke1979 4 года назад

      appropriate business dress code: white shirt, dark suit, tie, black shoes

  • @Mini-n6l
    @Mini-n6l 6 лет назад +2

    What is a typical day of a millionaire/ billionaire?

    • @hardikderashri2304
      @hardikderashri2304 6 лет назад

      And this is false 😂, each one of them have diff things that they do but one thing in common they learn a lot and not just by reading books

    • @joelmiller2601
      @joelmiller2601 6 лет назад

      Luckmini Piyatilake business. do not pursue your passion of sciences or engineering if you want to make the big bucks.

  • @vishalk7494
    @vishalk7494 6 лет назад +2

    The only thing , I see is . Alot of Indians asking questions! :)

  • @LOL10060
    @LOL10060 6 лет назад

    Just because there successful doesn’t mean they will want to connect with you or even be friends some or even able to get on well with some will and some won’t
    You no way because they are still human lol

  • @nafiubhutto5107
    @nafiubhutto5107 6 лет назад

    My question - How to meet a girl with a sexy voice

    • @joelmiller2601
      @joelmiller2601 6 лет назад

      nafiu bhutto I didn’t know Alux taught their viewers to be suck ups, get a grip dude!

  • @captainjacksparrow1
    @captainjacksparrow1 6 лет назад

    @alux.com im gonna make my buds unsubscribe from your channel if u keep putting women in the front foot. Men deserve the attention

  • @Seph.ackerman
    @Seph.ackerman 6 лет назад

    Surrounding yourself with successful people doesn't make you successful.

  • @jotarokujo9894
    @jotarokujo9894 6 лет назад +2

    Why do i feel like most people who ask questions are indians?

    • @ananthakrishnan1455
      @ananthakrishnan1455 6 лет назад +3

      Tony Stark mostly because India was granted free unlimited 4G internet for almost a year as a launch initiative from the company Reliance, network named JIO by one of the richest Indian Businessman.That access to internet to each & everyone in India over a period of 2-3 years have changed the way we know things & changed the way we think for the greater good i believe.On the flip side we see many indians posting unnecssary comments on youtube.keeping that aside, a lot of Indian youth are slowly embracing entreprenuership & ditching the age old technique of study>Get a job>Save up> marry & settle>have kids> educate them> repeat...a lot of them get motivated from youtube videos of many western millionare who are making a decent amount of money by not just being an Engineer or a Doctor 😊

    • @4you2grow75
      @4you2grow75 6 лет назад +1

      *it seems to me too*

  • @alanchen5589
    @alanchen5589 6 лет назад

    How to become more confident?