Strong Asian Brotherhoods

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  • Опубликовано: 21 окт 2024
  • Last night I met a couple of my friends we sat down and we ate some steaks and instead of just joking around laughing and eating mindlessly we decided we’re going to sit down and share a bit about our lives talk a bit about what’s going on who we really are who we used to be, and who we hope to be. In Asia, it’s not very common for men to build such strong bonds, possibly because of the way, we perceive our father figures to be strong, unattended, and not a place to be vulnerable and share. So last night was a really special opportunity for us where we could sit down, share our experience strength, and our hopes with one another. We sat for an hour and shared our hearts out, showing that we are just human. We held space for one another, listening and holding us accountable to our future desires, and dreams. I am blessed that I could experience this last night. I’m grateful for all the brothers in my life, some wounds only men can heal.

Комментарии • 169

  • @homedoghappiness
    @homedoghappiness 2 месяца назад +7

    Men's circle!!! Yes!!! More of this is needed!! I encourage this! Good on you, Ben, for spreading the awareness.

  • @jeffreytan5840
    @jeffreytan5840 7 месяцев назад +7

    having accountability is always a good start. Very good that you found a few friends whom you can be accountable to as well.

  • @arianiwidowati7891
    @arianiwidowati7891 6 месяцев назад +8

    Cool! What can we learn from you, Ben ? Besides knowing your lifestyle and heritage ? Thanks for being honest and sharing

  • @ronaldtulaseket3534
    @ronaldtulaseket3534 3 месяца назад +2

    Strong Men Always Create Beautiful Times
    Good Motivation ❤
    Thank you.

  • @Mateozz19
    @Mateozz19 10 месяцев назад +13

    Love to see you're back at it with the youtube videos!

    • @victorpanjaitan8097
      @victorpanjaitan8097 5 месяцев назад +1

      Dia seorang Penipu dan Pembohong......dia bukan anak pemilik PT. Aqua di Indonesia

    • @Mateozz19
      @Mateozz19 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@victorpanjaitan8097 Brother you can't be serious..... ofc he isn't.... it's just a gimmick and jst for show.

    • @NabiPalsuAbad7
      @NabiPalsuAbad7 4 месяца назад

      @@victorpanjaitan8097 serius amat lu...semua jg tau bukan...itu karakter dia doank..fucking morron

  • @mliem5959
    @mliem5959 5 месяцев назад +4

    never visit ur vids other than ur shorts man, seeing u out of ur internet personality such a relief idk why :))

  • @sarahangel8038
    @sarahangel8038 9 месяцев назад +13

    God bless you Ben...
    From Manado Indonesia...

    • @victorpanjaitan8097
      @victorpanjaitan8097 5 месяцев назад +1

      Dia penipu & pembohong, dia bkn Anak Pemilik PT. Aqua.....!!!!

  • @user-eo4km6yn1z
    @user-eo4km6yn1z 2 месяца назад

    1:20 i love plaza senayan when i was a kid bc of the thing like behind that giant clock that happens at a certain time its the best thing ever

  • @addebatrixxbeatrix255
    @addebatrixxbeatrix255 3 месяца назад +1

    Wow... Good man... Always pray before eating...GBU n family... 🙏🙏🙏😁💜👍

  • @dehalfbuddy
    @dehalfbuddy 7 месяцев назад +19

    9:48 - "only Jesus can save us" 🤣🤣
    what a truly extraordinary sentence

  • @fegermany2413
    @fegermany2413 4 месяца назад +1

    I miss jakarta so much 😢😢😢
    9 years not even possible to see my family😢😢😢
    Jesus is My saviour yesssss

  • @VeryMerryLou
    @VeryMerryLou 3 месяца назад +3

    Am I watching the parallel universe of Ben Saputra😁?
    Man, when did you become the professional son?
    Timeline, please? You ROCK!!!!

  • @raeliana_Idc
    @raeliana_Idc 5 месяцев назад +1

    Ben its a good thing your proud of your home country. Most 2nd gen rich kid only flex travels in other 1st world countries.

  • @francoisritonga8313
    @francoisritonga8313 9 месяцев назад +4

    Very curious about your upbringing. Not curious in a way that's questioning your Indonesian heritage, but more like "Your Bahasa got a unique accent, a tinge of a foreign accent, maybe American, I don't know, I was wondering where you get that from? Maybe, you grew up in the US?"
    Great job with the vids, looking forward to your other china number one videos!

    • @s8n..
      @s8n.. 9 месяцев назад

      he used to live in germany & speaks german as well - thats also where his english accent comes from at least, dont know bout the bahasa

  • @randyandreas8745
    @randyandreas8745 10 месяцев назад +4

    Pray First

  • @endgamefond
    @endgamefond 7 месяцев назад +6

    Seeing from your apartment and daily life, I can confirm that you are rich but not rich rich.

    • @abumoe
      @abumoe 6 месяцев назад +6

      Did u realize he tried to be sarcastic due to Indonesian currency

  • @rifkirazak7948
    @rifkirazak7948 10 месяцев назад +4

    So you play tennis... awesome

  • @gracemaiam3374
    @gracemaiam3374 10 месяцев назад +7

    Welcome home. Big fan of yr channel. If you get a chance to visit Sentul City, let us know. We will cook for you. Soul food or southern food.

  • @AbboyTopan
    @AbboyTopan 7 месяцев назад +3

    I'm from Indonesia, and I live in Jakarta. Whenever someone says 'Back in Jakarta,' I always ask, 'Why?' 🤔😁

  • @achtungbaby2009
    @achtungbaby2009 4 месяца назад +3

    for hosting & treating your bros roast beef for dinner..China points 100!!

  • @pinkycat2484
    @pinkycat2484 7 месяцев назад +2

    I’m intrigued, do you know your purpose in life?

  • @kharismachandra2874
    @kharismachandra2874 5 месяцев назад +4

    This is ben, not bobby.
    He is self made, not a professional son.
    And I love them both for different reason ❤

  • @btother7667
    @btother7667 9 месяцев назад +2

    I have to ask.. how many days in an hour do you spend at the gym to be able to eat like you do and still be lean and healthy?

    • @hoteltohotel
      @hoteltohotel 7 месяцев назад +1

      Biar saya jawab. Jalan 20km per hari kamu bisa makan apapun yang kamu mau. Ya asal bukan makan 6x sehari. Itu mungkin perlu jalan 30km per hari

    • @prezrickard
      @prezrickard 6 месяцев назад

      @@hoteltohotel Masturbasi eksesif jg bakar lemak. Jgn jln outdoors di Jkt, panas. Spatu cepet rusak, debunya bikin jerawat.

  • @goshan-k1k
    @goshan-k1k 17 дней назад

    I missed u bro😢my life sucked until i saw ur content 😭

  • @RehanMersam-qy5ov
    @RehanMersam-qy5ov 5 месяцев назад +1

    You got my friend dude 😂😂😂, but me for 30 minute 😂😂😂

  • @theux22
    @theux22 4 месяца назад

    U pray before u eat....
    I knew
    U must be okay ben ❤❤💪💪💪💪

  • @sanding168
    @sanding168 4 месяца назад

    first time i ate yoshinoya, is i remember with my bro in law during our undergrad in LA, $4 bowl, its like the first time i taste the japanese fast food

  • @albertor.estomago8467
    @albertor.estomago8467 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hi booby I really like the way you treat people, I wish to see you personally I love you man keep it up

  • @Chantal-xt9ic
    @Chantal-xt9ic 3 месяца назад

    ❤Bonjour bisous dear boy🐕

  • @eferlinindonesia1910
    @eferlinindonesia1910 8 месяцев назад +3

    Hahah where do u normally live? Your Indonesian accent is definitely rusty like me 25 years ago when I was in the US ..😅
    Yeah being childish is fun ... u definitely have a cheerful outlook of life. I really enjoy watching all ur videos

  • @hertantochow1580
    @hertantochow1580 10 месяцев назад +1

    Bruhhh I really wondered about the talk, what were you guys talking about

  • @MetaPangaribuan-gl7hm
    @MetaPangaribuan-gl7hm 5 месяцев назад

    If you feel lonely, it means your spiritual spirit need to reflection and pray

  • @Cerebro2000
    @Cerebro2000 5 месяцев назад

    Love the vlog bro! Do this again.

  • @desyyo987
    @desyyo987 10 месяцев назад +10

    you are very humble Ben ..pls dont change ok stay true of who you are . The world has enough fake people and stupid instagram proud of being faked LOL

  • @Drone_PilotSG
    @Drone_PilotSG 7 месяцев назад +38

    So that’s how an ultra rich Indonesia bedroom looks like

    • @rizz4849
      @rizz4849 6 месяцев назад +5

      Prolly tho, in indonesia that’s quite possible lol. Many rich people in indonesia stay in a normal n standard apartment

    • @TheGreener22
      @TheGreener22 6 месяцев назад

      ruclips.net/user/shorts7z1CSzor-S4

    • @mdjay1000
      @mdjay1000 5 месяцев назад +4

      Lol you know its a comedy act he's def. not a billionaire not that it matters. Hes cool though ill give him that and pretty damm entertaining.

    • @Drone_PilotSG
      @Drone_PilotSG 5 месяцев назад +5

      @@mdjay1000 rich people for one thing do not go out of their way to make it acutely aware that they are rich. They lay low and enjoy their lives in relative obscurity. This is the act of a low level son of a millionaire which is the very best I give him or an entertainment act for RUclips

    • @itopeixoto6002
      @itopeixoto6002 5 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @marianevincent2180
    @marianevincent2180 6 месяцев назад +2

    I love You Koko ganteng❤... Brewoknya bikin gak nahan ❤

  • @fennyarsjad8201
    @fennyarsjad8201 4 месяца назад

    Hi...Bobby S.
    Im...fenny ,nice to see your video.

  • @nonamuda22-w1v
    @nonamuda22-w1v 7 месяцев назад +2

    Mr Son Suk Gu, we finally found your brother

  • @Cutiegiraffe
    @Cutiegiraffe 7 месяцев назад +1

    Wow, I know your friend Tim K LOL :D , how small this world, hahaha, say hi for him, I am a friend who is in Taiwan now.

  • @amartiyaathokpam6097
    @amartiyaathokpam6097 Месяц назад

    Where’s Bobby Saphutra?

  • @tulikagautam7277
    @tulikagautam7277 5 месяцев назад +1

    Fan from India

  • @SamsungSamsung-cr7fl
    @SamsungSamsung-cr7fl 5 месяцев назад +1

    Can we duty business in the Philippines .. CSR?

  • @MetaPangaribuan-gl7hm
    @MetaPangaribuan-gl7hm 5 месяцев назад

    Watching your food makes me starving now in midnight 😂

  • @epmksajk1464
    @epmksajk1464 7 месяцев назад +11

    jujur ya gw follow kamu krn wajahmu yg unik ga seperti orang chinesse pada umumnya, wajahmu "lebih modern" seperti wajah orang2 chinesse di singapura. Yg kedua krn kamu lucu dan suka melawak 🤣😂. Penasaran sampe sekarang pekerjaan riil mu itu apa? pemegang saham terbesar aqua danone atau apa? sesekali bikin vlog saat rapat komisaris boleh ko.

  • @hmm-2023
    @hmm-2023 4 месяца назад

    if you got a lot of question...you should do inner engineering from isha foundation...im sure lot of your question will be answered..

  • @dinasiregar1337
    @dinasiregar1337 9 месяцев назад +1

    Bro, just one thing... this maybe my ADHD speaking..the background music needs to be regulated. the moment the narrative goes silent.. I need to keep readjusting my volume. Or have a calmer track playing so it isn't as surprising when you raise the volume on the backtrack.

  • @cheehoulow6026
    @cheehoulow6026 5 месяцев назад +1

    When you are rich, everyone wants to become a your brother....Why don't you try to see who are your real brotherhood when you become poor???
    Just act/put up a scene @ fake like you lost lots of money in business ( make like your family disown you) and become very poor...see who are the real brother ...who deserves to become real friends or lover/lifetime partner

  • @pintarganteng422
    @pintarganteng422 10 месяцев назад +1

    AWESOME VIDEO

  • @andisugandish873
    @andisugandish873 4 месяца назад

    amazing... gw suka gayanye Bobby

  • @conedrac
    @conedrac 5 месяцев назад +2

    Surprised to see bottles of nestle water, instead of aqua

  • @royalemy
    @royalemy 5 месяцев назад

    Keeping it real. You do you, nothing to hide, nothing wrong. Fuck those telling to be posers

  • @Anta_
    @Anta_ 10 месяцев назад +6

    In indonesia call "arisan" 😅😅

  • @mariaelenaloveslove
    @mariaelenaloveslove Месяц назад

    BEN a billion Indonesian POINTS UP

  • @naomiwvsinambela1385
    @naomiwvsinambela1385 8 месяцев назад

    Jpcc called it "DATE". HKBP called it "partamiangan Wijk" (ibadah sektor, berisi sesi curcol)".

  • @RIO-xe9xm
    @RIO-xe9xm 4 месяца назад

    bro 🙏✌😁...have fun ya 🤪

  • @januari-gs9wn
    @januari-gs9wn 9 месяцев назад

    bro how ur accent is so differ than most of us men? i’d like to have that accent too

  • @RenewYourMind88
    @RenewYourMind88 5 месяцев назад

    Good One... 👍👍👍

  • @yk7896
    @yk7896 7 месяцев назад +2

    yo bobby i am a malaysian life been really hard recently i really wanted to go for a short trip in indonesia alone can you bring me tour around ? 😮‍💨

    • @yk7896
      @yk7896 7 месяцев назад

      i will pay all my bill

    • @fewfewww
      @fewfewww 7 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂😂 Bless you

  • @johniKemod
    @johniKemod 7 месяцев назад +1

    Hey boss, I'm entertained by your content, combining the cold and authoritative character of Chow Yun-Fat mixed with the ridiculous character of Stephen Chow, you don't copy them, I know it's natural and it's entertaining boss 🤣👍👍👍...if you want to experience real life, be poor Boss, let's switch positions, what do you think? (btw my English is from Google Translate)😅

  • @agusfirmansyah35
    @agusfirmansyah35 6 месяцев назад +1

    This is not bobby, bobby didn't eat garbage

  • @agussutikno9383
    @agussutikno9383 3 месяца назад

    nice life bro

  • @jidukrishna5951
    @jidukrishna5951 4 месяца назад +1

    I doubt, let me have an iphone

  • @BlackLine0611
    @BlackLine0611 10 месяцев назад

    1st im from Indonesia ❤

  • @jolu1755
    @jolu1755 6 месяцев назад

    Oh nice one.

  • @ArulinaLingga
    @ArulinaLingga 5 месяцев назад

    Bobby you can make What I eat in a day Video

  • @Tzcoreband
    @Tzcoreband 3 месяца назад

    Keren

  • @windelas4826
    @windelas4826 4 месяца назад

    💪💪💪💪

  • @Samoanrightsusa
    @Samoanrightsusa 4 месяца назад

    I need some help brother😪 love from America

  • @adamjaya3529
    @adamjaya3529 6 месяцев назад

    👍

  • @DevikaP-id1kj
    @DevikaP-id1kj 4 месяца назад

    I want Work, please💜💜💜💜💜

  • @101Retro
    @101Retro 6 месяцев назад +2

    I want to edit for you bobby

  • @workstationphoto
    @workstationphoto Месяц назад

    4:10 , dumbbells are too heavy for you 😄

  • @lostinasia888
    @lostinasia888 6 месяцев назад

    Rich Kids of Indonesia ?

  • @eduardochavacano
    @eduardochavacano 10 месяцев назад +2

    Yoshinoya is so delicious. But i havent had some in years.

    • @punkinpie2
      @punkinpie2 5 месяцев назад

      Select Asian supermarkets in frozen section has them .

  • @susanaluciano9523
    @susanaluciano9523 4 месяца назад

    O inglês é ótimo

  • @ernatobing1
    @ernatobing1 6 месяцев назад +2

    Is he a real one?? Or just for fun😂😂

  • @accentiercorner596
    @accentiercorner596 4 месяца назад

    MAN WHERE HAVE U BEEN.. ITS BEEN A LONG LONG TIME AGO I THINK.. NOW U BECOME A MAN DUDE.. VERY DIFFERENT

  • @0009kaur
    @0009kaur 21 день назад

    Please don’t put music in the background I can’t hear what you’re saying
    I want hear you and not the background music

  • @melisamelisa8779
    @melisamelisa8779 5 месяцев назад

    3:28
    Adulthood makes me questioning life and thinking how to eat McDonalds at midnight without worrying about the amount of trans fat 😭

  • @pahoinmalamson4381
    @pahoinmalamson4381 6 месяцев назад +1

    lol you well get that women soon. 😂😂

  • @saburo16
    @saburo16 7 месяцев назад +1

    Koh apa bener lu richest man in Indonesia? bagi 5jt dong.

  • @mamimumemo2470
    @mamimumemo2470 9 месяцев назад

    you spell it wrong.. its called kuaksong

  • @nabelalifxiiak4565
    @nabelalifxiiak4565 10 месяцев назад +2

    love the vid bro, also damn that man circle sounds so sick. I've been having so many thoughts lately, might be a good idea to share and to discuss it with people.
    Anyways, have a good day and don't forget to
    chipi chipi chapa chapa dubi dubi daba daba magico mi dubi dubi boom boom boom

  • @gaaa2376
    @gaaa2376 8 месяцев назад

    😂 hopefully can meet you In person

  • @contetomeck2106
    @contetomeck2106 3 месяца назад +1

    is cute and funny

  • @ARGO679
    @ARGO679 7 месяцев назад

    is it not supposed to be sisters?

  • @alexandrodjohan3468
    @alexandrodjohan3468 7 месяцев назад

    You dont drink aqua at home? Hahahahaha

  • @rajveerraghuvanshi1856
    @rajveerraghuvanshi1856 6 месяцев назад

    Please try Indian food

  • @kelvinong6717
    @kelvinong6717 6 месяцев назад +1

    Ehh ehhh Air not Aqua? Hahaha

  • @amygomez5209
    @amygomez5209 6 месяцев назад

    😮

  • @OyenSan
    @OyenSan Месяц назад

    Aku tdk suka melihat konten semacam ini, saat hati sedang menghitam membuat orang sederhana kurang bersyukur mendustakan nikmat Tuhan.

  • @jacintheng4280
    @jacintheng4280 Месяц назад

    🙏🏻 🙏🏻 🙏🏻 🥰 💪🏻 💯 😂 😂 😂

  • @ronaldregens8563
    @ronaldregens8563 7 месяцев назад +1

    Seem like feel lonely

  • @jumtergamlin12345
    @jumtergamlin12345 7 месяцев назад

    Hey brother i want you to help me please

  • @stephanielei3436
    @stephanielei3436 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hello Bobby, I am new to your Channel... You are handsome and funny ... Thanks for showing pleasures for the body...but You still feel an emptiness no matter how rich you are. Would you be interested in showing pleasures for the soul? Be a Professional Son of JESUS.. like making videos of helping the poor and needy... These actions are pleasing to God and your audiences. God Bless. 🙏🙏🙏 Would really like you to see this message. If you reply, I know you see this, if not, I will keep posting this message to every video..

  • @mischa6688
    @mischa6688 Месяц назад

    Wait…. This apartment is not worth billions 😂😂

  • @jeremykuah5560
    @jeremykuah5560 27 дней назад

    Looks like a men fellowship

  • @masbey2179
    @masbey2179 4 месяца назад

    Are you realy rich??

  • @kiwienvy
    @kiwienvy 6 месяцев назад

    Can you speak german?

  • @AkhbarJoyapril
    @AkhbarJoyapril 3 месяца назад

    Please help me, I want pay my child scooling...
    I'm Medan Sumatra Utara island come from.
    😅😅😅