"When Was The Last Time You Had Sex?" | What It's Like Dating With Autism | First Dates
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- Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
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I genuinely wish them the best. They have to deal with awkward and difficult situations enough so they definatly deserve some happiness.
These two were very awkward, of course, but also genuine and innocent in an endearing way.
@tunezisalwayscrying5221no way, how do you know that then? Do you know her
@tunezisalwayscrying5221 Not a con artist. Just an onlyfans model
@@Hellfire99666 I wouldn't say con artist, but definitely disingenuous. She was clearly only there to advertise her Onlyfans.
@@Hellfire99666shes does onlyfans
how do you mean? @tunezisalwayscrying5221
"Depression and shit" 😂😂😊
😂😂
This was actually really cute and very relatable haha
As a neurotypical, I wish I could find someone as genuine as her.
You can go see how genuine she is on her OF page. She goes by "Mercedes Valentine".
@electrikoptik I thought you were joking untill I looked damn, she does not have a boyfriend because she is damaged goods, for the streets.
How does having an OF make some not genuine?@@electrikoptik
As neurodivergent wish I could find someone like her
@@electrikoptikGoddamn she has a rosy pair of genuinity. ❤
I was completely surprised by the outcome. I thought she was gonna reject him because he's not her usual type or she might not have been super attracted to him compared to the first guy Jamie who went past, but glad she broadened her horizons to accept his awkward energy. Hope it works out!
She's been on other dating shows for television. I recognised her immediately. She said yes to garner further interest from his type (ie nerds) in her Onlyfans.
She's a horrific (albeit attractive) person.
Not to be trusted.
Bro, she's only on the show for clout. She's on OF model. Goes by "Mercedes Valentine".
@@electrikoptikjust looked, feel sorry for the fella now.
Why did they cut out the part where she says she's a sex worker/ onlyfans model ? That's the most fascinating part. His reaction etc.
I thought it was weird her dressing like that. My reaction was “she’s a w**re!” And then I see your comments. I guess it goes to show that people really do dress like what they are.
probably because he started touchigng himself after they told him
@@lionheart94fyi that's not how Autistic people function. We don't do shit like that for publicty or money because it's manipulative. She's obviously a genuine person and there for the date. This sounds like projection which quite honestly is a huge problem when dealing with neurotypical people. It's not about the Autism being "obvious" it's about another person understanding and accepting the fact that we think and communicate differently, and not projecting their own way of being onto us and getting offended/making assumptions
Both are a breath of fresh air in this day and age. She's fab and he's a gent
Love this couple! I am also autistic and relate to her cute awkwardness she’s so lovely
Absolutely…….she’s incredibly sweet , intelligent & naturally endearing……
Sure, look, if someone asked you in a very endearing way when the last time you had sex was, would you answer? I would. May I ask, how does your autism play on sex? I never thought about it. Til now. Hope you have get some soon! I'm sure you get a lot of attention with you're beauty. You're probably getting more than me so enjoy!!
Or the alternative question Ayesha: when was the last time you had an orgasm? More juicy!
She an onlyfans girl lol. What you on about
aysha you are very lovely too 😍
I was so set in thinking the presenter said "26 year old, gay man" it was never gonna work
I have ASD and I’m not quite as awkward as these two. I hardly reveal my diagnosis because more often than not, you get infantilised.
Have a look through the comments. You see it plenty.
Yes by ignorant cretins but thats part of the bs
Anybody who mistreats either of these two, i will take personally
totally agree!!!
They suited each other very well.
She reminds me a little of wynona Ryder with blonde hair
True ❤
Even the voice a bit
She seems lovely
The world needs more people like her , no fake bullshit
She’s not interested in him at all
She's a popular Onlyfans model and sex worker.
So the world needs more only fans girls lol?
Good God that girl is a beauty. And smart. Great personality. Hope it all works out for them❤
She has movie star quality about her.
@@mohammadal-drees3106Yeah...if movie stars did porn. 😅
These two are a great match! ❤
Nah, she’s out of his league.
@@renegade2853 grow up mate
@@theosmith9378 what do you mean? She’s far more attractive than he is. It’s just how it works. She’s won’t be sexually attracted to him.
@@renegade2853 you never know what is attractive in her eyes, only your own! You’re entitled to your wrong opinion though 👍🏻
@@theosmith9378 in an ideal world you can think that they’ll I’ve happily ever after but in reality he’ll be friend zoned. 😔 I don’t make the rules.
3:36 The way he says 'oh, you're here for me!' is like one of the most relatable things I've ever heard. That's me any time a girl has ever sat at a table with me. 😅 Like 'you're nice, and you're sitting here with me??' I like both of these people anyway.
Wow, Shes gorgeous. Personality, nature and looks ❤ why can’t they all be like her, she says about being normal but yet she’s the most normal girl that’s over a 9 I’ve seen
Right up until you find out she's does onlyfans
@@matteymat she does? If so then what a waste.
Over a 9... so 10
@@pigchamp3627 correct pig champ.
@@matteymatA bag is a bag man, you never know she might not be able to get a 'normal' job, why not use what God has given her to gain financial freedom.
This is Mercedes The Dancer
Oh , just read the comments, she's an OF model...the world makes no sense to me anymore
This is mercedesthedancer, she doesnt normally act like this feels very put on and fake icl
What a cute couple. Great match
This is my favourite couple of ALL time
Mercedes seems to be an amazing person. Wish her the best.
Where has this woman been my whole life? I’m autistic too, oh well 🤦♂️
Same here fella she does have a youtube channel
Same bro same
Omg I'm in love with her, pretty, funny & auty af 😂😍
I would say it is worse to date as a guy with aspergers syndrome, although not saying it is easy for a woman with aspergers, the difference is is that a lot of guys wont even get a date if they have aspergers never mind a relationship.
What the fuck is this Bullshit?! Stupid labels and shit. Neurotypicals don't know what they want half the time scattergun minded
I have had loads. Surround yourself with people who get women and learn from them
@JF-xm6tu This woman on here is an onlyfans model apparently. Thousands of guys simping over her.
Haha this was awkward and cute 😅
I learned about my autism around summer at the age of 34. My whole life makes sense now, and the fact that I ended up disappointing those few girls very early on and never managed to be in any relationship.
He will come out gay eventually
Mercedes from Sidemen vs Onlyfans?!
‘So… why did you have depression and sh@t?’
Superb
Are you not allowed to say shit or something
Quality piece. Was probably named Mercedes after the lass in the film License to Drive
She is beautiful.
They seem to balance each other out. Could see them working out for sure. ❤
I thought she said 26 year old gay man. Thought that’s a bust already
She's gorgeous ❤🔥🔥🔥
Are you a criminal?
I will never be caught 😂😂
Good advertising to promote her only fans page
Gone are the days when Ch4 producers would actually TRY and get people who should match together. Though to be fair the amount of Women who go on the show to try and kick start a TV career with no intention of meeting someone seems to have gone stratospheric.
I read that they have something like 100 women to every man willing to go on the show.
These facts are not unrelated
I have aspergers. I have been with 24 women. 4 also had aspergers they tend be super kinky I noticed
Wait, does this guy not know he's autistic?, also majority of woman I've met act like her, she's very attractive so shouldn't have problems dating
The issue is her job 🥴. Onlyfans model+ is always kinda naked on her RUclips channel. I think she was exaggerating her Asperger's and was on here for promo.
Okay so wait a minute
is this legit because Mercedes has a whole influencer/dancer lifestyle out there as 'Mercedes Valentine' and is an age of 22
Now I haven't come across completed Master degree students at 22 but holy shit please tell me this whole dating thing they had here wasn't fake
She is super cute ... Id enjoy some time with her for sure and I mean that innocently.
I love her, and he surprised
me too. I'd love to be their friend.
As a virgin in my 30's I feel pure, but i dont have autism
Hate to say it, but she was only doing this to promote her only fans let's be honest
So
@@melinmove she's not in it to find love lol
@@andymicklewright3993 How do you know? So just because she wants to promote her OF means she doesn't want love? Why can't she be there for both? And yes she'll probably get new sign ups and that's likely in the back of her mind when she went on the show, but it's not a guarantee that's what she went on for.
@melinmove Grow up she's making money off desperate lonely men like him she's not looking for love. OnlyFans is a a disgusting business that preys on lonely men and their addictions
Where can i find her only fans?
I hope it works out for them, Greg seems a nice guy and his date is gorgeous, I like her cute awkwardness :)
She would completely ruin his man parts I'm sorry.. he would need red bull on tap 😂😂😂
She should get dressed before going out .
What ya talkin bout she is dressed ya muppet
Shhhh she was here for a bit of onlyfans promo.
@@GirlyEnglishGamer yes I bet and the TV producers just got her on to drive views at the expense of a lad that suffers depression , they should have matched him with somebody more suitable .
@@TopCatsBack she genuinely was there for Onlyfans. They cut the part here where she mentions it. It was all a big promo for her.
These two seem made for each other...we all have imperfections..
This is someone's 500 days of Summer creation.
Those loud gulps, 😱 cant watch anymore
I didn't think that was gonna work at first but that was really lovely.
Nah they actually go together so well! Looks like soul mates do exist 💯🥰
She was awful. She used ASD as an excuse for her extroverted salaciousness, and I say that as somebody with ASD. She only went on the show to advertise her Onlyfans.
She's genuinely hot.
I just want to say ahhhhhhh ❤
PLEASE SAY THEY WORKED OUT!! (legit these two were adorable!)
Yeah
I doubt it.
She gave him a hug. So yeah no chance
Lovely young couple.
these 2 should not have kids ........
I also ask the same questions, i havd adhd
Would be very interested to see how they worked out as time went on after a month or so.
She most likely found someone else who’s not that nice, even though this guy seemed to tick all the boxes you could want in a partner
If you don’t have that little bit of toxic, women aren’t turned on
@@CrazyPanda688 Don't be an ass. Yes, some women end up with men that are bad for them, as do vice versa some men end up with the wrong women. But that's not always the case.
They became friends
The result was, they met up again in her home town of Brighton and had fun with their puppies together. So hopefully good signs to continue dating!
@@CrazyPanda688 Lol! That’s a pretty bitter response. You cannot speak for an entire gender, based on your negative experiences or any failed dating stories you’ve heard. Attraction is more than “finding a nice guy”. Compatibility, attraction, personality, chemistry, hobbies, political views, culture etc are all important factors. Women are not a monolith
Why did they have different cups for the same drink....but cute date. i hope she sticks with dating nice guys - the bad ones will only take advantage and try to manipulate.
She does onlyfans so I think she dates guys that she finds via her work.
Who wouldn't like her ?
He really likes her. And she finds him refreshing.
Wow them shorts couldn't get any shorter
She's asking for it
She's utterly charming and he a pleasant guy as well! I hope they stay in touch with each other.
Bartender "how long have you been single, why do you think that is?"
Her "a very long time because im an #OnlyFansWhoorae"
Yo is that Mr Bean?
shes very attractive 😍
Jesus.... this is like 1996 cliche "gamer" ... they missed the memo that "gamers" are making ridiculous money on Twitch and celebrities are paying to be on their streams etc.. The cliche "mario and sonic" gamer has been dead for 20 years.
She's georgeous
Simp
I am not in the spectrum but for her, I will go full tropical thunder.
Mercedes is just asking all the questions we want to know answers for and saying it how it is 😂 "are you a criminal"
Usually I hate romantic sort of stuff but that is so adorable
*inputs imaginary lego man falling in love gif here*
I honestly think people with the superpower of being like these two work best together (I dont like to say ASD because whats to say everyone else isnt "disordered"). I dated a girl with autism who I found very attractive but it always felt like we would never fully understand each other
Autism isn't a superpower.
Yea man understanding is so important
I know I am one person's opinion, but please don't call it a superpower. It is perfectly fine to call it a disability because that's exactly what it is. I have had so many mishaps and struggles socially and general navigation of my life thus (Aged 31) far, it wasn't when I got my clinical diagnosis a month ago did things start to make sense. However it's going to take a long time to unpack. I certainly wouldn't pertain of my experience being a super power.
@@rahyrarpg1600 Thanks for sharing that. I will take note :)
She’s so lovely. 😊
When you find out she is an OF model changes everything
what is her name on OF then?
why?
Merlin just stood there like.👀
She's too pretty for him. But he's sweet
How sweet.
One of the best dates ever on the show.
What series and episode is this, I can't find it
She is very Hollywood-pretty, with the personality to go with it.
She's an only fans model. She says it on the show.
I'd give them 6 months.
she's so sweet!
"Juice" 😂 haha she seems amazing
Wow that was beautiful
An undateable first dates
Did they ever work out at the end here
She's a goddess wow
Mercedes is hot
Why was she wearing underwear to a date?
Modern women
Just need Nina conti and her two masks
Brilliant
She should stop saying “normal people” everyone’s “normal” is different and it doesn’t help self confidence if you’re reinforcing that you’re not “normal”
If a man asks a woman the last time she had sex, especially on a a first date and on TV, he will be called an absolute scum of the earth but if a woman asks a man the exact same question it is absolutely fine.
Brother in Christ, she's Autistic.
I mean shes autistic. So i think she gets a pass.
I think they talked about it but edited it out of the actual show. Because she's an onlyfans model. She told him about her job and at the end they said that they discussed intimacy in detail so I think when he said "that's a bit much on the first date" , he was responding to something else.
@@GirlyEnglishGamer I don’t understand the point you are trying to make. She asked him a completely inappropriate question, especially on a first date
@gbej1 We don't know the context, but I suspect now I've seen the OnlyFans this was all a rouse to get more following simps.
Which is sad, as she played on the Autism and led this guy on for the cameras.
She’s flames 🔥
They seemed great together :)