Gonna have to disagree with Todd on a few points: (For reference, I’ve gone out with over 150 women from day game.) I’ve tried the whole “put my number in her phone and text myself” thing, and it actually worked worse than simply asking for her number and typing it in my phone as she says it to me. Also, I’ve experimented with both long and short conversations, and found that short conversations (2 min or less) resulted in more dates than long ones. Of course, maybe this depends on how big the city is. Anyone else have similar experiences?
You’re probably boring past two minutes. The key is to let her talk, that’s how you get longer conversations and makes the girl feel more at ease with you, which makes for a more solid number.
@@OneAwareness1 Nah, if I were boring past 2 minutes, they’d just leave. I’ve had super fun conversations that went 10-15 min. But the “letting her talk” part is a good point
Always so helpful. Great to know the subtle/big differences between time of day. Been taking your advice for almost 4-5 years now and I’m always amazed how far I’ve come since. Thank you for giving and building the confidence blocks for so many, including myself. #gamechanger
Yes, definitely.He does wonders helping men with low self-Esteem build themselves up myself, including! I recently purchased his verbal game academy classes. I'm having trouble with actually Carry out the information he's giving. Can you give a testimonial like oh an approach that you did that went well?
this is literally gold for people who are actually making some effort to improve their day game. Saddens me a little when I see people still wanting more or criticising in the comments.
True but this is literally the same advice that has been passed on in the daygame communities for the last 12 or so years, since it became a thing on RUclips. Todd is great at what he does but here he's recycling infos for content's sake
@@freddylimpster7137 could be true but I personally find Todd’s examples and explanations very on point and original. Most of the theories I do know but digging into the way he explains it always teaches me something new. If you need tailored advices I will recommend taking a bootcamp or some coaching.
Todd, start every video by explaining why people should listen to you. I believe you would grow significantly faster and people can immediately answer the underlying question of "why should I listen to you?" Or "who are you to talk about this". I've followed your content for a while and have gotten into an amazing relationship because of your videos, soon 3 years now. And I know if you explain all of the success and experience you have had with women, and helping others find love, at the start of every video, you would blow up.
if i girl was into me 2 years ago but we went for drinks after classes and i made the following mistakes: 1.validated her 2.talked about her past relationships 3.told i had a dream with her ( she told me the same as well) 4. let her finish the date first is there a chance it can be saved? overall we vibe well but i fell she got colder after that meeting ( or it’s the fact she has a bf in a long distance relationship now anyways) i’m a solid dude myself, she clearly considers me one of her options.we both 21
One thing that I learned from sales, that’s been very useful, is instead of asking for a date like “would you like to go on a date?” Use the word “Let’s”. Hey, let’s go get some coffee. Let’s go for a walk and talk. Etc.. it’s inclusive and it’s leading
Also use “why don’t we…?” Because now they have to think and come up with a reason, and it’s just easier to go along than to think and possibly have to make up a reason
Hi Todd I wanna say thank you for your tips your content is amazingly valuable, i did have a question for picking up girls that are a little more niche, I love goth and punk rock girls but would it be different for girls who are into that subculture?
Once you get a number in certain place, do you change venues? Or how long do you wait till you start making more approaches? Because it once happened to me that I lost a girl when she saw me talking to other girls (I thought she had already left the mall since it had been almost over an hour since I got her number) 😂
Todd I’ve followed your advice to get over my approaching anxiety, improve my push pull, teasing and flirting. It’s almost worked too well though. Because once I get good enough to close in the bedroom, the girl wants/expects a committed relationship. How do we continue to date casually and improve our game once this happens???
What if you don’t live close to the good areas for daygame? I hate to admit it, but my area isn’t great for daygame and im in nyc. Most of the women in my neighborhood who I find attractive are usually older/married/have children and not available or into me since I look young. I have to go deep into manhattan to find target rich areas where there is an abundance of women to talk to.
Just take the tour and it's fine. Almost nobody. Lives close to the city center in a large city. Ofc a same day pull is less likely but to be fair that would be rather the exceptions anyway. If you are starting out u need practice practice practice. Imagine a girl bei really in to you. Ofc having an apartment nearby helps but it will not kill the "relationship" and prevent you from seeing her again if u live in the outskirts.
It's really surprising how todd can keep talking for 30 minutes and Still every word is presenting information in a very technical way. He's must have tons of practice in teaching.
Any suggestions on approaching girls on the bus? Time constraints are definitely a huge challenge but I see more attractive women in my city on the bus home than during my lunchtime.
So I have known this girl for a couple years and she's complimented me and when when talk we talk alot like an 1 hour at a time I think she might like me I she said she didn't really want a relationship so I avoided asking her out but I recently made plans with her and she keen for coffee before I go to work so I go like an hour with her I haven't dated in 5 years I don't know want to do
@@alexandreflaschner9073 She likes you. Relax and focus on having fun with her. The fact she doesn't want a relationship (verbally) is nothing compared to how she feels. All that matters is how you make her feel. Go out for the coffee, keep doing you as you're already making her blush etc... You're doing fine. Don't listen to people saying about the friend zone I've never been friend zoned in my life you just need to make sure it's a man to woman context and build that rapport.
Is it necessary though to use a false time constraint when you see a girl sitting by herself on a bench while you are taking a walk and going to talk to her?I suppose it would be fine just going there and talking to her untill you decide to leave her by herself and continue with your walk.And then say something along the lines:"It was great meeting you,will keep in touch but now I got to go".
telling the girl you don't have much time but you wanted to talk to her real quick. it tells the girl that you won't stick around and annoy her forever and that you have stuff going on. she will be more likely to stop and talk to you.
I am a full time salesman, I cold call/approach strangers to list or buy a property and do it successfully with very little to no resistance, yet I find it fearful to approach girls… any idea why? -thank you in advance
Clients are judging/rejecting your product, women are judging/rejecting you. Your self worth is tied to the judgement of women whereas it isnt tied to the judgement of clients.
I have that same issue aswell but I’m a Customer Service Advisor at a Dealership…I have no issues with telling a customer who came in for just a tire repair and upselling them to $2k ticket for stuff they barely need but I sometimes freeze up around attractive women sometimes lol
I hate daygame In my hometown... I theoretically live in a major tourist city, but I can rarely see hot girls there, even in spots you've covered in this. Maybe I'm desensitized because I live close to the beach and I see women in bikini's daily. But when I travel around the country ... holy shit In some cities there are hot girls walking everywhere. I can't stop doing daygame there it turns into nightgame... It's not a problem of demographics I've checked that. Maybe I should figure out what tourists want to do in my city.
Can you please make a point in this video? That’s not already extremely obvious yes obviously approaching a girl that is not busy as opposed to one that is is a better option obviously, that’s all you’re saying.
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this little mohawk do you well
That is not a Mohawk. That is a faux hawk.
Kinda looks weird because he has mostly white hair now
“Approach girls who are with guys” - spoken like a champ 😂
damn that's an achievement if you succeed in that even once. i would've watched that approach, so interesting.😂
approach girls who are with their bf's or husbands
Todd's vids including old ones, really helped alot! Appreciate you bro.
I like at the end you touched on being presentable. Your haircut is a good example, the best I’ve seen so far, trendy and stylish.
Great content, as always. Keep it up, Todd!
In Todd we trust
In Todd We Trust
Great info, and easy to follow. Thank you Todd.
Always learning a new thing. The prop trick is awesome!
Gonna have to disagree with Todd on a few points:
(For reference, I’ve gone out with over 150 women from day game.)
I’ve tried the whole “put my number in her phone and text myself” thing, and it actually worked worse than simply asking for her number and typing it in my phone as she says it to me.
Also, I’ve experimented with both long and short conversations, and found that short conversations (2 min or less) resulted in more dates than long ones.
Of course, maybe this depends on how big the city is. Anyone else have similar experiences?
You’re probably boring past two minutes. The key is to let her talk, that’s how you get longer conversations and makes the girl feel more at ease with you, which makes for a more solid number.
@@OneAwareness1 Nah, if I were boring past 2 minutes, they’d just leave. I’ve had super fun conversations that went 10-15 min. But the “letting her talk” part is a good point
I always end up running into the baddest chicks whenever I leave the house dressed like a scrub 🤦♂️
Be prepared
Always so helpful. Great to know the subtle/big differences between time of day. Been taking your advice for almost 4-5 years now and I’m always amazed how far I’ve come since. Thank you for giving and building the confidence blocks for so many, including myself. #gamechanger
Yes, definitely.He does wonders helping men with low self-Esteem build themselves up myself, including! I recently purchased his verbal game academy classes. I'm having trouble with actually Carry out the information he's giving. Can you give a testimonial like oh an approach that you did that went well?
This is you’re best haircut by far.
Nah, he looks like Jimmy Neutron.
No it’s not! You got no style lol
the prop idea is smart. Thank you!
Todd and James Marshall are the best dating coaches
Another new tip learned from Todd, what a messiah 🙏
Always good to listen and learn more while on a long drive, great advice as usual
this is literally gold for people who are actually making some effort to improve their day game. Saddens me a little when I see people still wanting more or criticising in the comments.
True but this is literally the same advice that has been passed on in the daygame communities for the last 12 or so years, since it became a thing on RUclips. Todd is great at what he does but here he's recycling infos for content's sake
@@freddylimpster7137 could be true but I personally find Todd’s examples and explanations very on point and original. Most of the theories I do know but digging into the way he explains it always teaches me something new. If you need tailored advices I will recommend taking a bootcamp or some coaching.
One of your most informative vids yet
Todd, start every video by explaining why people should listen to you. I believe you would grow significantly faster and people can immediately answer the underlying question of "why should I listen to you?" Or "who are you to talk about this". I've followed your content for a while and have gotten into an amazing relationship because of your videos, soon 3 years now. And I know if you explain all of the success and experience you have had with women, and helping others find love, at the start of every video, you would blow up.
A vid on run clubs would be interesting - as it seems to be a trend
Ya avoid them. Trend = eventual sausage fest as soon as it catches on
Todd’s not a runner 🏃♂️ like that. You might need to figure this one out on your own chief.
Is that even worth it? The clubs I've seen tend to have older people
Golden advise. Thanks todd👍🏻
Thank you Tod
you are the best !
if i girl was into me 2 years ago but we went for drinks after classes and i made the following mistakes:
1.validated her
2.talked about her past relationships
3.told i had a dream with her ( she told me the same as well)
4. let her finish the date first
is there a chance it can be saved? overall we vibe well but i fell she got colder after that meeting ( or it’s the fact she has a bf in a long distance relationship now anyways)
i’m a solid dude myself, she clearly considers me one of her options.we both 21
Thanks Todd!!! Helpful!!
One thing that I learned from sales, that’s been very useful, is instead of asking for a date like “would you like to go on a date?” Use the word “Let’s”. Hey, let’s go get some coffee. Let’s go for a walk and talk. Etc.. it’s inclusive and it’s leading
I like that, thanks!
Also use “why don’t we…?” Because now they have to think and come up with a reason, and it’s just easier to go along than to think and possibly have to make up a reason
Hi Todd I wanna say thank you for your tips your content is amazingly valuable, i did have a question for picking up girls that are a little more niche, I love goth and punk rock girls but would it be different for girls who are into that subculture?
Not only is he one of the greatest footballers, he is also a great pick up artist. Thank you Beckham.
Great video, with a lot of great information! Thank you
Wow the AI generated chad daytamer in the thumbnail looks EXACTLY like coach Gabriel Grey 😂😅
Once you get a number in certain place, do you change venues? Or how long do you wait till you start making more approaches?
Because it once happened to me that I lost a girl when she saw me talking to other girls (I thought she had already left the mall since it had been almost over an hour since I got her number) 😂
Just ask yourself after you meet a girl if her thinking of you as a good guy is more important to you than meeting more girls in the same venue.
Time for daygame 2 0 course
Todd I’ve followed your advice to get over my approaching anxiety, improve my push pull, teasing and flirting. It’s almost worked too well though. Because once I get good enough to close in the bedroom, the girl wants/expects a committed relationship. How do we continue to date casually and improve our game once this happens???
i was afraid to click on that video. because my inner defense thoughts are always saying "naaah it's not the right place! I won't approach"😂
What if you don’t live close to the good areas for daygame? I hate to admit it, but my area isn’t great for daygame and im in nyc. Most of the women in my neighborhood who I find attractive are usually older/married/have children and not available or into me since I look young. I have to go deep into manhattan to find target rich areas where there is an abundance of women to talk to.
Just take the tour and it's fine. Almost nobody. Lives close to the city center in a large city. Ofc a same day pull is less likely but to be fair that would be rather the exceptions anyway. If you are starting out u need practice practice practice. Imagine a girl bei really in to you. Ofc having an apartment nearby helps but it will not kill the "relationship" and prevent you from seeing her again if u live in the outskirts.
Take the drive, stop complaining.
I'm starting to suspect Daygame by Todd: The Sequel is coming 👀
It's really surprising how todd can keep talking for 30 minutes and Still every word is presenting information in a very technical way. He's must have tons of practice in teaching.
This is a great video. Thank u
I like the nod to 'imma let you finish'. assuming it's irony of course lol.
Lookmaxx got the best POA in the game 🔥
Any suggestions on approaching girls on the bus? Time constraints are definitely a huge challenge but I see more attractive women in my city on the bus home than during my lunchtime.
So I have known this girl for a couple years and she's complimented me and when when talk we talk alot like an 1 hour at a time I think she might like me I she said she didn't really want a relationship so I avoided asking her out but I recently made plans with her and she keen for coffee before I go to work so I go like an hour with her I haven't dated in 5 years I don't know want to do
Yeaaah I think she might’ve friend zoned you already
@@HopsinThaGoat is that a real thing like I've been with friends before i prefer to take shit slow man
I mean i did say thanks beautiful like monday and she did blush and had a big smile
Not sure though
@@alexandreflaschner9073 She likes you. Relax and focus on having fun with her. The fact she doesn't want a relationship (verbally) is nothing compared to how she feels. All that matters is how you make her feel.
Go out for the coffee, keep doing you as you're already making her blush etc...
You're doing fine. Don't listen to people saying about the friend zone I've never been friend zoned in my life you just need to make sure it's a man to woman context and build that rapport.
Carrying a prop makes it artificial for yourself surely.
He is my goat
Do you have any videos or advice on best ways to attract and keep that attraction with a co-worker?
Nice Mohawk!
Is it necessary though to use a false time constraint when you see a girl sitting by herself on a bench while you are taking a walk and going to talk to her?I suppose it would be fine just going there and talking to her untill you decide to leave her by herself and continue with your walk.And then say something along the lines:"It was great meeting you,will keep in touch but now I got to go".
Damn , 30 years of ago , my friend, spoke to girls ,kissed , , talked ,. Meet also , 20 years
Anyone else extremely depressed about not having women in your life ?
Todd Got More Muscles More Game💪😎
day game
-most important thing is getting the attention, not the opener
-start with excuse me
Can you give more examples of false time constraints?
Whats a false time constraint?
telling the girl you don't have much time but you wanted to talk to her real quick. it tells the girl that you won't stick around and annoy her forever and that you have stuff going on. she will be more likely to stop and talk to you.
fantastic! thanks
I am a full time salesman, I cold call/approach strangers to list or buy a property and do it successfully with very little to no resistance, yet I find it fearful to approach girls… any idea why?
-thank you in advance
Clients are judging/rejecting your product, women are judging/rejecting you. Your self worth is tied to the judgement of women whereas it isnt tied to the judgement of clients.
I have that same issue aswell but I’m a Customer Service Advisor at a Dealership…I have no issues with telling a customer who came in for just a tire repair and upselling them to $2k ticket for stuff they barely need but I sometimes freeze up around attractive women sometimes lol
I hate daygame In my hometown... I theoretically live in a major tourist city, but I can rarely see hot girls there, even in spots you've covered in this.
Maybe I'm desensitized because I live close to the beach and I see women in bikini's daily. But when I travel around the country ...
holy shit In some cities there are hot girls walking everywhere. I can't stop doing daygame there it turns into nightgame...
It's not a problem of demographics I've checked that. Maybe I should figure out what tourists want to do in my city.
Thanks!
Hi, how hard you think can be to pick up girls if you dont have a good english, my situation here, thanks.
I approached a mother and daughter, I was older than the Mother and exchanged info with just the daughter 😂
Carpe diem. Carpe dating.
Todd loves nyc
What about getting women if another race Todd pls do video on that
Can you help those of us with a std
Can you please make a point in this video? That’s not already extremely obvious yes obviously approaching a girl that is not busy as opposed to one that is is a better option obviously, that’s all you’re saying.
Remember to human correctly.... 🎉
What's the point of all this? You've been doing this for years and years and I'm sure are an expert, but what's the end goal?
He’s teaching guys like you to get the girl you want in your life.
I give up. This will never work.
Bet more for me😅
This guy literally talks so much and says so little
I seem to understand everything fine and find it interesting, it's all substance
Change the video title for the third time lol