Don't Rely on Your Children: 3 Pillars of a Secure and Happy Old Age
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I agree!! But for me the first is to have a relationship with God, through Jesus Christ our saviour and Lord. I will encourage everyone to seek the Lord, we all will die, dont prepare for this life ... prepare for eternity.
Yes
Amen
@@ginnafraser6013 yes, God is our salvation. It’s very important to have good faith in the a good Lord.
Yeses exactly
AMEN. MY HOPE NOW LIES IN MY SPIRITUAL LIFE. BLESSINGS.😊
Very informative .But then loving God is the best thing ever happened.
AMEN!! TQ KINDLY.
BLESSINGS 🙏.
I agree not to remarry..involve in hobbies that makes you happy but bottomline is deep prayer is still the best weapon in remaining lifes journey.Pray the rosary everyday. weapin
I'M HAPPY, I HAVE MORE
TIME FOR THE LORD AND
READING THE BIBLE. MY
FAMILY AND FRIENDS VISIT ME. I DO WHAT I LIKE. TQ KINDLY, MANY
BLESSINGS. 😊
Sorry to differ,why do we want to burden our lives with another man/women again? Learning them ,knowing their ways ,all these takes so much of our energy . He /she might have their baggage. I will really find it exhausting to enter into another relationship after a certain age .It will be much better to make some good friends , take care of yourself , immerse yourself in God,Travel in groups if you like it and be thankful and stay happy on your own. Just my P.O.V.
Amen, sister🎉🎉
@@Yasmin_ferns I agree. It’s exhausting to build a new relationship, to me it’s too much work. I had a good fifty years with my husband and I. Very thankful for that.
AMEN!!! MANY MANY BLESSINGS. 😊
Couldn't agree more❤
Totally agree with you. Why bring on that headache and extra stress. I see the results of this all the time and even though I’m an onlooker I feel the strain and stress of these new family relationships. NO THANK YOU.
Absolutely true that u don’t rely on your children and children shouldn’t rely on an inheritance
Our children may not be in the best position to be involved in our lives, they are committed with their own children, sometimes they might even be struggling, sometimes we simply do not always get along well with them. What do we do even if we love them to the core.
I just turned 75 I live alone my husband passed away 6 years ago I do visit kids grandchildren 2 or 3 times a year I am happy what I am doing now I try to be healthy don’t forget to pray god bless
Very true. I love my children they are all very good people. Since my husband passed last year, I thought of living with one of my children, I tried for ten months but decided to live on my own instead.
My hubs died last year too. Was with my sons family for 6 mos now have my own apt. It’s a new life and I’m adjusting.
I believe meditation and connection with the Universe is my true life’s journey and it shall be my occupation continuously to the end! Discovering truth is my mission in this universe and helping others discover the same. Human beings are not there forever.The universe is. Relying on companions including children is wrong way to go. Rely on your relationship and communion with the high beauty the Creator. I love all! I love my children! I love my family and the world but I am in awe with the absolue beauty of the Universe! I send my blessings to all who read this!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Aamin
I AGREE WITH YOU. I HAVE MORE TIME TO READ THE BIBLE AND LEARN ABOUT GOD AND
THE UNIVERSE. TQ KINDLY. BLESSINGS 😊
1 Physical, Mental & Spiritual Health 2 Financial Security 3 Peace of Mind
Yes this is key!
Correct,amen
Health, Money, and Money is important for old age but believing in God is #1. It gives you peace and harmony in old age.
It is all in your Brain , if you THINK you are miserable you WILL be miserable & if you THINK you are Strong you WILL be strong (.)
Some adult children still rely on their senior parents.
This is an eye opener and very true.👍👍
Unfortunately all of these tips are so TRUE!
I am a widow since 38 years of age caring for an ASD child alone.
Never ever thought about me. These insights are helpful to start to think about me.
Have 0 children need to concentrate on HEALTH
Definitely.
Health is wealth 😊
9. I'm so grateful for all of the wisdom and advice. Thank you
Financial security ensures independence, covers medical expenses, and prevents reliance on children. It allows us to live with dignity and enjoy our golden years. Thanks for video !
Trust in God only Amen
Don't have live partner. My hubby remarried without divorcing and died a year ago. Have no one, children never come only on my birthday, new year dan Chinese new year. 2 meet. Me 3 X a year and 1 other twice a year. In old age we can't depend on human only on God through Jesus Christ only.
1. Health, 2. Life Partner, 3. Financial Security
“Success is the fruit of good ideas pursued with energy, intelligence, and determination..”
No wonder you’re doing so well! Congratulations for another great upload my friend. ??????
Extremely good advice. 😅
9- thank you for all the advice 👍❤️
9. I have God as my first pillar.
Amen
😊 Amen
I'm almost there. Just a little bit more of preparation. I hope my dream life partner still waiting for me❤❤❤
Thanks for this valuable video 😘👍!
This is Soo True
And A Good Advice
Learnt sooooo much.
Thank you for sharing 😊
WELBEING takecare sometimes
We only raise our children for a few years... Not our Lifetime. We brought them into our lives so we our them that 💖
9. Thank you for this enlightened advice that was timely for me.
I’m 77 years old I’ve always lived independently raising my children alone these days when I requested that they try to be in touch with me on a more regular basis they live in another country from me and I raised my children there I miss my home almost the relationships I had there it’s very difficult for me to make a new life here my children’s attitude to me I feel is unacceptable there is no love compassion empathy or the least bit of concern for my well-being I’m very distressed at their attitude saying all of that I’m moving on and doing my best to create the best life for me no matter how difficult thank you for taking my comment
Very good advice thank you so much I appreciate it because I live alone and me and my children always butt head because they want me to live with them l love them but I love my independence
Yes life is riding a bus like a journey, 46 years married not easy to be alone.i woke up 5 iin the morning, what will i do now, do the gardening or cook, no i dont want to cook, i eat alone, do the gardening no more strength to carry the pot, one thing on my mind go home to the province and continue what you begin to dream, build the house in the beach and plant the beautiful flower, but lord i am alone with my only sister and cousin that do not care except to feed him and expect to pay all the bills, oh no big problim with thise relative, they think the got the free thing in life, very hard to be 71, always defending to others to serve your self.
They don’t care,not to repay us but show consideration.Generations have changed,yes,children can show some kindness
4th pillar"the grace of God"by the way it's the first.
Thank you for sharing!. That would be incredibly valuable to us. Wishing you a peaceful and happy life!
Yes. The grace of God solves all negative experiecs.
Interesting advice, thank you 9.
To get into a new relationship at a later age, one marries the new spouse’s children, in-laws, grandchildren, great grandchildren, pets and different manners. Having a partner or new spouse is not the answer. Health, money and a good relationship with God are what is important. Many men reserve their $ for their family and live off the wife instead. Many elderly men are looking for a NURSE WITH A PURSE!
I do not agree with this video’s advice! Emptiness comes from NOT having a relationship with GOD.
Yes!
so true one needs freedom self respect n love that no one can give outside .
I'm so thankful and blessed
And guildness and
Love from the lord almighty God
Amem❤❤❤
Thanks so much.
You are 200% spot on!
Even earlier this director Anubhav Sinha, deliberately gives an anti Hindu slant to further his "leftist - liberal - woke" agenda through his movies.
The indirect message is very insidiously pushed in each of his films eg Mulk, Article 15, Anek and now IC 814.
Never never live wth your children married or not married
Buddhism taught us tat each child borne from u is different from each other
They hv their own views n treated as individuals with a mind of their own n by living wth his or family will cause friction
So it’s wise to live away from them n be happy wth your friends u most trusted
💯 true
Interesting and informative
Agree all you say jesus plays a big part in my life allso if only the hospitals that are capable of looking after 0ld were better funded the hospital i went was over crowed no privacy the last thing i needed the staff were i was were fabulous my jesus i love you love yout video
Parents should not stubbornly stay in their homes and expect their children to maintain the home, the yard, and all of the repairs. It's important to downsize or move to assisted living while you have the energy to make the move.
Not to complain, but you are right. It can be a lot to keep up with because they physically can't anymore. Yes they want to stay in their home but as their aging so is the home.
Aging at home is cheaper and easier than $5,000 nursing home or Medicaid, losing your choices, forced to do activities, bathe on their schedule, etc.
Hold on to your home, pay for yard upkeep, get Meals on Wheels, delivery of groceries & meds! RN, senior citizen, former Director of Nursing happily independent at home!
@LonnieSaalwaechter true now that you said it. But downsizing is good to.
Well, I think everyone should be given the right to make an own choice how to live their golden age. If it is hard for kids to accept the right of their parents to chose , just because it would be hard for them to support that, then they should leave their parents to live their
@nadezda9873 as long as they are safe and can keep up with their home. Of course children can help to an extent even financially, but if it becomes a burden and unmanageable, other options should be considered if possible.
Words to live by!!!
Thank you. Very inspiring.
No children they cant spare as much because they are young and they have too their own Life..
Simply Great. I am aged 80+. I am sailing in the Same Boat, as narrated by U. Great, thanks a Lot. Wish to 27:18 Fwd this to My chldrn. Thanks again.
Remarry most Times depend on age. Most believers that lost their spouses at old age commit most of their time to church activities. This helps
Many Asian parents don't depend on their children in old age. Only some use their children to support their retirement. Doing this does exert substantial pressure on their children 😢😮
Highly commendable, highlighting all aspects.
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I wish I can be w/ someone who means so much but unfortunately it is not possible so I am alone now.I have done everything to secure my old age & not to be a burden to my children.I wish to enjoy my old age doing things that I love.I wish to have a life partner.
In end we r used by children😢😢😢😊
I finally gave up due to all the ads. Far too many interruptions mid-sentence. It hurts my head
1. it is more problematic to maintain personal health especially with the abundance of medical/health care misinformation there is no easy or quick path to good health in your later years. 2. selecting a life partners is especially difficult - a bad partner can be needy and unsupportive and shorten your lifespan. It becomes more apparent a partner is bad when you are sick or in trouble. 3. financial revenue stream and the ability to manage them in is needed to sustain life during old age. hiring less than reliable assisted care or help during old age can be dangerous. Being relevant o r a valuable asset to others insures that people will treat you well - because they need you even in your last days.... unless your children are committed their parents and are mentally and physically capable - then they won't be of much practical use to their parents in their last days.
My alone time is precious for me,my husband is in heaven and I don't want my children to feel burden by me ever
If you are still a child watching this, the smart thing to do is enjoy each day as if it were your last, tomorrow isn't promised, golden years are only for suckers. Billy Joel said it best Only the Good die Young.
One of the few videos I agree wholeheartedly. 1. Good Health (self management for physical, emotional, and spiritual wealth), 2. Good friendship with like minded people, and 3. Finance.
To find a new life partner at a late age is truly exhausting. Men tend to relish this more than women , their need to have someone to look after them. They forget that that either of them will die first and they will be plunged into mourning and sadness in old age.
Im a caregiver for many years, inside and outside d country, but children is not there for u, use ur money to take care of everything, if no money during old age life is mesirable
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I agree...
My mum kept independand in a beachfront flat.but when she got ill we asked her to live with us.she was thrilled.walking got her real healthy again.becausewe were in a safe area. Her lovely place had a bomb.and attacks on ladies at the clinic where st helped.
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Elderly japanese have pension universal health insurance and many of them luve in their comfortable lil houses. Those poor ones will oot fir nursing homes and their pension will help them in these kind of places
The bible says we should look after our aging parents
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I am 75, heath, life partner are very need
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Why would you expect your children to take care of you in your retirement age? I can expect that once you physically can't take care of yourself. At that time I would expect them to put me in a nursing home. But, before then, nope.
Poor asian countries still put value to take care of their parents, even a highly developed country, Japan too put value on family and elderly parents altho parents may lived far from their married or living nearby children we are always there within their beck n calls. The eldest son of any parents will take care of their elderly parents, but in my case, parents in laws is taken care by my sister in law as we lived and work very far away from them. I dont like the western crap of sending their elderly parents to nursing homes. My father in law is now 98 n mother in law is 95 living in their own beautiful home n sister in law in her own house just steps away from them. Surrounded by grandchildren and sister in laws two married sons living nearby. An elderly japanese with no children if he or she doesnt want to be in nursing home like my neighbor an 87 year old lady living in her own house. The municipal govt send her public caregivers 3 x a week to clean house, cook for her groceries. Cut her hair blah blah blah
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It’s so important to think ahead and plan for a happy old age. Building these three pillars is such a practical approach to enjoying a peaceful and fulfilling retirement. Great content!
Thank you for sharing!. That would be incredibly valuable to us. Wishing you a peaceful and happy life!
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Thank you for sharing! I'd love to know which lesson you found most impactful. That would be incredibly valuable to us. Wishing you a peaceful and happy life!
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