So You're Feeling Unmotivated and Low? 💛💜❤️
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- Опубликовано: 25 авг 2024
- This video (which I ironically filmed a few days before the Oxford rejection letter - what a coincidence!) is about what to do when you're feeling unmotivated, low or you're having a bad day. I think it's important to normalise and observe feelings of sadness in a world of social media "highlights". Look after yourself, express how you feel and be honest with yourself. You are enough kidz x
💫 a 10 minute meditation I really like: • Mindfulness Meditation...
or the app "Stop, Breathe and Think" 💫
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Hi my name is Jade and welcome to UnJaded Jade! I post every Wednesday abut varying topics I truly care about, from self confidence and veganism, to academic help and motivation 💛
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How old are you? - 17
What camera do you use? - Canon 750D
When did you start your channel? - 17th Feb 2017
P.S i love u. so much. thank you for finding me and for being here and for gifting me your time. you are so loved.
This may be a stupid thing to point out but I LOVE when you just casually go ‘I’m on my period’. I feel that’s so so important for young girls, as so many feel uncomfortable or even feel shame towards a natural bodily function?! It’s lovely - a little thing goes a long way.
It's how I used to feel, and I WISH I'd heard or seen people I looked up to on social media say it so casually. I truly connect to and appreciate this comment Madeleine! Lots of love 💖 x
Really good that you have the confidence to be honest
@@UnJadedJade well you are right jade
I genuinely cried a little bit watching this. I've had a rough couple of days and my self esteem is worse than usual, so just to be told that I am enough was something I really needed to hear. Thank you so much Jade. You could never understand what a positive impact you have on all our lives x
Wow, bless you 💜 thank you so much for the lovely words. I know how it can be sometimes, and the fact I've helped you in some way has made my day. Sending you hugs my friend x
Yes it is so easy to burn yourself as a teenager
Very Nsy, meed my best HARD 😤👑💐💲♻️💙👍
Its quite sad because sometimes I really want to study to just get good grades but then my depression shouts at me "why? will you gain anything out of it? you? a future?" and then I just procrastinate and think "well its not like im ever gonna be someone so who cares" but I know its bad...
I'm sorry. I hope you have been coping a little more better
One thing that really helps me when I´m feeling unmotivaded it´s to plan the next day. It may sound weird, but I like to plan what I am going to wear, how I´m gonna style my hair, what book I´m going to read... thay kind of little things just make feel much more excited and productive.
That’s such a great idea thank you!!
I feel that one day i might see you on TEDx and that will be so great! Keep up the good work Jade!
I know i'm abit too old for this channel. Basically i'm a 28 year old guy who failed pretty much all his GCSES when at school. I'm slowly turning my life around and retaking 10 GCSEs. Your channel has helped me so much, I can't emphasize it enough. I literally realised I never knew how to actually study before watching your videos.
Thalasius I’m also a bit older, 24 :) But the advice on this channel is relevant and useful for me too
legit sat crying over exams& p's then this pops up... God send!!! thank you
okay this came at exactly the right moment!!
I'm so glad!! I hope it helped in some way x
Erin Breanna samee how did she know
Doddledoddledoddledoddel Oddleoddleoddle Same!! I find this happens quite often with Jade! :)
Forever posting the right videos at the right time. Thank you x
when i'm feeling unmotivated i simply go for a walk. i find it gives me time to reflect about why i'm feeling unmotivated and just helps me feel better. I hope anybody reading this had a great day :)
The title literally summed me up in one sentence ahah!
Hahaha I feel you! We all have those days hey 💜 x
Fingers crossed today is a better day!
I really do need to get off my phone though 😫
Hahaha put it on airplane right this second! Lots of love ❤️ x
Or you can download an app that freezes all the fun apps on your phone, like cold turkey or forest.
Liv Rook same
download an app called flipd it literally removes all your distracting apps for a certain period of time. forest and cold turkey and all those don't actually remove them theyre quite rubbish
Yes I am an addict
I’ve been having ‘one of those days’ since about year 8 lmao x
literally started my journal entry off with "i am feeling unmotivated" and suddenly everything i have been bottling up was released as I wrote.. love this vid and sending u love !
It‘s so important that people talk about this !❤️
I really think so too!! 💜 x
There are certain people you just like to be around because they have such great energy. And I truly believe you are one of those! Hope to meet you in Belgium some day :) x
What a beautiful comment! Thank you so much 💜 sending you a whole lotta love x
I was the lowest today, i felt like i needed to be dead to escape everything forever. This video has given me the motivation to try and persevere
You nearly made me cry, when you said that "you are enough right now, no matter who you are, what you look like,..." that was powerful.
We hear this very rarely. Thank you.
And I wish, that more teenagers would know the thinks you said in the whole video...
Thank you Jade, I'll try these tips today!❤
Hope you're having a good day today!❤🌼❤
as someone who has never heard anyone say this to me nor any other positive remark i can vouch for. this
4 years younger than me but dang, I could learn a thing or two from you. 💙
honoured! x
So needing this after my oxford rejection🙌 - thanks Jade xx
Thank you Jade! Really need this during mocks! xx
You're welcome! eeeek good luck x
Iris May glad I’m not the only one worrying wayyyy to much about the mocks !
This just literally came at the right moment, I literally feel burned out now bc of all the pressure I have and everything is not going well, thank you so much for this , Jade❤️ I will watch this beautiful video and then continue doing some work...
I'm literally so happy to hear it! 💘 I completely relate to where you're coming from, and I hope you know that you're doing everything you can!! Keep doing your best my friend ✨ xx
UnJaded Jade ❤️❤️
I've had quite a bad day as I will have my exam on Wednesday and I'm anxious because I feel I'm not prepared enough for it. And the more I stress, the more I feel unproductive, so it's a vicious circle... So, thanks a lot for this video! ❤️
Good luck! You've got this
Gemma Thank you!! ☺️🙏
love you so much wow, you are so smart and such a good inspiration to so many people!
Bless you, thank you so much for the kind words of support 💜 means a lot x
What a lovely comment! :)
HEY! You're doing really great Jade. Persist! A lot of people look up to you and you're changing the world a little at a time - never underestimate the impact you have! x
today i felt like a piece of shit. i listened sad songs and felt so anxious about my exams and my life. and then i realized that i am not crying anymore because i thought that i forgot how to cry and i felt so busy and sad. then i just cried and cried and played sad songs. i've just found your channel and subscribed, thank you. you made my day 💓
Really needed this. Got rejected by my second uni for medicine today :( but I know more is in stored for me
I got 4/4 rejections first time around, 2nd time applying I got 4/4 interviews and offers. I’m now a second year Med student. Don’t ever give up💪🏻
smurfyismyname Congratulations xx Im in year 12 and i want to apply for Med but i am constantly worried i will get rejected
yearsaheadofmed what uni did you get accepted to for medicine?
@@smurfyismyname what did you do after getting rejected? Did you take a gap year?
@@Mae-nw6cv I got accepted into Sheffield, Manchester, UCL and peninsula. I chose Peninsula :)
17 years old? Amazing! Oxford?! You deserve a university in heaven, you bet! Thank you Jade, you made my day.
Jade, you truly are a gem! In a world so full of negativity even on your worst days you enlighten everyone else still. You should be immensely proud of yourself and for what you do for all of us! All of us subs are fam!!
I love you so much Jade and never stop doing what your doing❤️❤️❤️❤️
( Ps. I've even turned vegan under your influence)
You have me smiling so much Molly!
I can't thank you enough for the beautiful words 💖🙈 I really am so grateful to have such a positive community of people like yourself. You honestly make every little bit of this crazy experience worth it!
Thank you for being here and shining your light (and for turning vegan... woahhhh you are AMAZING!). Sending you all my love, and i hope life's treating you well x
I find that reading is good because afterwards you feel good about yourself and it’s also calm and relaxing and doesn’t require a phone!! 💛
Really needed this Jade! Sending you love and hugs! Hope you're feeling better Xx
Sending you even more love Eleanor! Thank you so much 💘 x
You' ve got the best timing
You are an awesome young lady. I am learning to do this at my advanced age of 53. Thank you 🙏
I've been having a lot of trouble with gcses, stress, organisation, self confidence and motivation recently and have been giving myself a really hard time
You are my inspiration. Honestly, your videos and their presence in my life have flipped some sort of switch within me and I just really want to express my gratitude. You're such a positive influence to so many, so keep doing what you're doing and being you.
Thank you Jade and best wishes for your future
I have felt so unmotivated lately and your videos have been getting me through ❤️ thank you so much idk what I’d do without your videos 😭 I appreciate it so much xx
I can see by all these comments that you help so many people, and probably waaaaay more who are watching without a YT account. You have certainly helped me, so thank you. You are a wonderful human being and I would love to meet your positive bubbly self one day if you visit Derby. You motivate me a lot to stay positive, and thank you for addressing that even motivated and happy people get down sometimes. I have Epilepsy and it gets me down a lot, and people often forget this because I am a writer and I'm all about living life despite having a condition. People assume because I write nice things, that I feel good all the time, which is very untrue. So thanks again xx
Wow, thank you so much for this Emily 💜 my Dad is actually from Derbyshire, so I visit multiple times across the year! I really appreciate you sharing your story and being so open and honest. So so important to acknowledge that even positive people aren't feeling good 100% of the time. Lots of love x
You're so welcome, Jade. That's brilliant! Not many people outside of Derbyshire seem to have heard of Derby if I ever talk about it. You're right, it is really important to acknowledge this in people because it means a lot when others do. Thank you x
This is such a great video, I think this is so important to remember when you’re at school because as you say there is so much pressure from teachers, parents and even yourself to push yourself all the time. Thank you so much for reminding me of my New Years resolutions to spend time for me!!
This is exactly what I am going through now, everything (physically) is okay with me but I don't know what it is but I just feel enormously low. This is just so helpful for me and so many other people! I don't know how you do it but you always come up with the perfect videos on the perfect time! x
Wow, thank you so much for sharing 💖 I completely know how it can be, and I hope life is treating you well! Lots of love x
Thanks for the tips Jade! I love going for cute lil walks when I’m stressed and breathing in the cold air always relaxes me so much 😌 and of I’ve got a bit more energy I love having a little rave to some of my favourite music and it really helps release all that stress💗 hope you’re feeling more motivated now! :)
You're more than welcome Rhiannon! Ah, I am such a massive fan of walks too 👏 and everyone needs a little solo rave every now and then ;) thank you for sharing! x
Having literally burst into tears over how stressed I was last week I cannot agree more with this video❤️ I have anxiety which can make school and work and every blooming thing rush through my head 24/7 (literally can’t sleep anymore it’s the worst😂) so I reaaaally want to try and better myself and get through this and find the joy of life again!! Love ya Jade you’re such a great speaker❤️ xxx
You are the most kindest and most purest soul ever⭐️ You deserve the best!
This is how I'm feeling at the moment, thank you so much for this - it feels like you're always looking out for us. xxx
Today's been such an awful day, had a breakdown at lunch, but I'm greatful that my friends were there to support me and now you're here to inspire me more. Thank you so much
Oh no, bless you :( some days are just like that I suppose. I'm so glad your friends were there to support you, and I hope you look after yourself tonight! Sending you my love x
Will do, thank you xxx
this is actually brilliant. perfect timing. thank you. x
my day always gets better everytime you upload a new video. thank you for the constant inspiration and motivation jade! x
This made me smile so much 💛🙈 thank you Moza! Sending you so much love x
Moza Pramesty me too x
Your channel is such a gold mine for so many things, and I'm so glad I found it sooner rather than later xx
i feel so low im literally crying. my life is good but i think its just because i feel unmotivated and stressed rn. thank you jade.
I watched your oxford rejection video yesterday and was in a terrible state and was just wishing someone or even you would come out with a video motivating me to beat the rut I’ve been stuck in and here you are, thank you so much :) xx
I found this video in your channel yesterday night but I didn't mind watching this. Today was a horrible, unmotivating day. I felt like I lost it but I just remembered skipping this video and I came back. It helped me a lot and I'm finally able to get off my bed to make today afternoon amazing. I love your work in helping everyone. I haven't seen anyone on RUclips that is so true to themselves and it makes me so motivated. Thank you so much Jade. You made my day ❤❤❤
Literally everytime when I feel low, THIS VIDEO is a LIFESAVER
I've felt just like this after mocks, so deflated after working so hard and then feeling like most of my exams went terribly so thank you ❤
I find writing all my emotions in a book/ diary / journey so so so helpful it’s just takes it all out my head and I instantly feel better ...... I strongly recommend it
Why would someone dislike this ?
It's a positive message helping people
Thank you Jade 💕
"You are enough"
That last message...
I didn't do as well as I wanted to in my year 11 December mocks, and that was exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you so much 😓 grades no longer 'define' me
Hello Jade, I know you probably won't read or find this in the many comments you have but I would just like to thank you for everything. You have motivated me in hard times and encouraged me to keep going. To such an extent that you have been a huge inspiration for me to start my own channel, but let's just move on from that topic since I don't want to advertise on your channel at all :). I don't know but today I just felt very unproductive and 'lazy' (not in the mood to study), i'm luck that I completed most of my work during the weekend so today I can have a chill study session, just like you said.
Thank you so so much for all your support and kind words! 💖 I can definitely relate to having those days where you just feel unproductive, and I wish you all the best in your studies! Lots of love (and good luck with your channel!) x
Thank you for the reply (omg jade actually replied to me :O). Much love
This is so sweet of you to post this video. I feel like it is never enough to say to other people that they are worthy. This word is such a lonely place. I'm so much older than you, but somehow you are inspirational, seeing you so young, bright and ambitious. When I was at your age my head was in the clouds, far away from the ground. Im still trying to find myself. But I wanna tell you that no matter what comes next it may be even better for you. We learn as we fall and try diffrent paths. I'm sure you be alright and "meet" me on the top of the mountain someday ! huge hug for you Jade!
Wow, thank you for such beautiful words 💘 sending you even bigger hugs back my friend x
So I was just watching your videos because I’m unmotivated and then I get the notification and just can’t believe it. Thank you so much! That’s exactly what I need!💜
Haha no wayyy!! I really hope it helps you out ❤️ x
UnJaded Jade it does 👌💜🙏
I think you're brilliant Jade. I'm going to show this to my A Level students who are feeling a bit miserable at the moment! 😀
It’s blue Monday today ( the most depressing day of the year ) so this definitely cheered me up :) x
yes I heard!! what a wonderful coincidence hey! sending you love and motivation x
UnJaded Jade I thought you planned it 😉 hope you have a fab rest of the blue Monday :)
Hi Jade!! Just wanted to say what a big inspiration you are!!! Every single one of your videos teaches me something and I can't thank you enough
Wow, thank you for such a lovely comment! ❤️ lots of love x
I literally need this video so much and im so happy you posted this right now at the most perfect timing. I try so hard to focus and get everything done but its so difficult when ive
had a bad day at school to go home and revise. Thankyou so much Jade your literally my favourite person in the world
Omg Jade you’re on the very right time!!!!! Xx
Really needed this! Got rejected from Cambridge last week and have since been on a downer 😧👎 - so thanks for all the positive vibes! xxx
ive had such an awful day today and this is everything I needed, I feel like the universe has led me here today show that it’s okay to feel like this, and it won’t last forever! Thank you for this, love you and your videos xxx
SO SO needed for me. ive been feeling really unmotivated but i really want to start doing more work. This came at the right time
I'm so glad you found it useful! Sending you lots of love (and motivation!) x
oh wow! thrilled you replied. You're a huge inspiration to me and a great role model to young ones everywhere! love you loads
Yes Jade!
It’s so refreshing that your so positive and honest!😘💕
I LOVE to dance if I'm feeling down and it can either make me more energised and just feeling better in general or I can end up even more tired on the floor having a good cry, but all in all it helps sooo much and I can't even dance lol xxx
haha I LOVE this!! 💘👏 xx
you don't know how much i needed this video right now💘 i am so exhausted and your video makes me feel so much better, thank you!
This makes me so happy! Thank you for sharing 💘 I hope life is treating you well ma friend x
oh thank you so much for replying, jade! it's ok, i just had a really long day and... you know exams and stuff haha
oh and btw: if you don't know the nocturnes of chopin you should definitely listen to them! in my opinion there is nothing more beautiful and calming
You are honestly too good for oxford and ik you'll succeed regardless. Keep your head up jade x
Ahh me too! Jade you literally read my mind , you positive superstar xxxxx
I hope everything's going well for you Sophie!! Lots of love 💘 x
I have mocks that i just don’t have any motivation to revise for since they don’t count 😩 ugh i wish i could just have a photographic memory
3 years later and still watching this video when I feel low ^^ Lots of love Jade
Thank you for this! You really inspire me when it comes to being happy and positive and when i do feel down, I always think, why do I get that while others are always positive. Thanks for showing that it's okay to feel down sometimes
I had the worst day ever today mostly because of my grades I recieved your video was just what I needed right now . xxx
I aspire to be like you as do many others . I know that that your results were for the best maybe it just wasn't the right time for you .
Thanks so much for filming this! I think its really important that people understand that you need to put yourself before the workload! When you prioritise work over everything you simply end up burning out emotionally and become a shell of a person. I think people need to remember that grades and exams really are not everything, and I personally realised that the most since coming to university, there is much more to the world than 3 grades on a piece of paper and academic success. Grades are not indicators of your intelligence, no matter how much the world tries to convince you it is, there are so many other types of intelligence, emotional intelligence for instance x
Jade you are such an inspiration. I'm from Africa(Zimbabwe to be specific) and this year I will be writing my IGCSEs. Your videos really help!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you for sharing this Jade. I can't put into words how much your channel means to me. I posted my first youtube video yesterday after finally getting up the courage and watching your videos really inspired me to do that. I am also vegan and feel like I can really relate to your channel. Sending you all the love, I am so excited to continue to follow your journey. Daisy x
I’ve never commented on one of your videos before but have been following you for a long time. Just wanted to say, thank you so much for making this video. It is exactly what I need at this particular moment in time, so thank you X
i really appreciate this, thank you so much Libby! 💘 sending you a whole lotta love x
UnJaded Jade You’re a very special person! 💖
This came at the perfect moment. thank you Jade
Thank you so much for being so honest with us Jade! It's also crazy how much I can relate to you, it sometimes feels like you can read my mind... Lots of love from Germany❤
Gurrrl you brought this video right when i needed it xx
Been quite burnt out hence unmotivated after doing my mock exams and having a crazily busy week last week
You know that you're RUclipsr goals when you post a motivational video on blue Monday! Another fantastic video, keeping it real :)
Haha, complete coincidence but I couldn't be happier with the timing hey! Sending you love and positivity ma friend 💜 x
What a coincidence that today I was feeling so tired and unmotivated about everything and this video showed up on my feed. Hope you're better Jade, lots of love and hugs 💚
The PERFECT video. For some apparent reason, I felt low and unmotivated on my birthday a few days ago and it has taken me some time to lift up my spirits again. Emotional states change so often that it is a relentless struggle!
This video is coming just at the right time for me!!! I have had the worst day at school and I just can't face homework and this makes me feel so much better and motivated!!! Sending so so much love x x x x
This came just at the right moment, I had a lot of homework and was just really procastinating. Also today was my last exam for this semester so I was all about never having to do any hoemwork ever again. Which is kind of stupid. I really want to achive something this year regarding to exercise, better grades and to be a lot more optimistic and in a better mental health state.
Being completely honest; that is because I find your videos incredibly motivating and inspirational. I can´t thank you enough!
I really needed this, thank you Jade! 💚
I love you Jade you always help me ❤️
This is EXACTLY what I need! Thank you SO much Jade xx
I'm SO glad! You are more than welcome x
myself, like many others of the comment section, really really appreciated and benefitted from this video. thank you so much jade. here's to a more balanced & mindful 2018! i hope you're feeling better 💞💞
Needed this after getting my predicted gcse grades back today. I was happy with most of them until my parents wanted them to be better and didn’t appreciate the grades I did get. I’m going to work for myself and you honesty help to motivate me to do my absolute best x
You are the most amazing human being alive, god bless. you are an angel sent by god. You are the most positive person Ever. you should not let anything or anyone get you down because you are amazing love you lots xxxx
Usually when people on the internet say “you are enough” I never really think much of it but you said it in such a genuine way it actually made me feel a little better thank you 💜
Did my a level biology mocks this week and I was so confident going into the exam being I knew the content in precise detail... I left shattered like how on earth is that relevant to anything we have learnt. I’m feeling so down and this is just what I needed🤧
i was at the lowest point lately and your video just came to me at the right time. thankyou Jade 💕
The title perfectly sums up exactly how I feel right now
It’s so weired that many people are feeling demotivated lately honestly I have too and thank you for helping us jade you are amazing😩💖💯
Jade, you have motivated me so so so much this year. I’m in Year 10 and it’s a big step up from Year 9 but thanks to your and your videos I feel better than ever and got all As and Bs in my most recent report. I also got A*s in science assessments and even got moved up sets. I’m doing my science and maths gcse mocks next week and the real thing in May. I get stressed easily and your videos help me get through it. You are the best :D
Really needed this today, thank you so much!! xxx
I physically can’t have a bad day; I always need to have a smile on my face or else my mother will start screaming about how ungrateful I am and how I “never” smile because I’m lazy. If she ever sees me cry (which is rare) she’ll call me weak. I hate living in my “home” because IT is the source of my sadness. Sorry for being very depressing by the way, I just wish I had someone to talk to.
baby r u ok??