Full Auto Friday - Round 51 with Vaughn Stumpf

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  • Опубликовано: 22 дек 2024

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  • @michaelnguyen648
    @michaelnguyen648 3 года назад +145

    0:00 - Onnit
    1:09 - Rhino Safes
    2:59 - Podcast starts
    3:18 - At what age could Vaughn grow a mustache? Mustaches in the military in Vaughn's day?
    6:46 - Why did they move to Missoula and Vaughn's experience with counseling
    14:51 - What experience or mental baggage did Vaughn find the most difficult to work through?
    21:51 - Biggest hope and fear for his children?
    26:27 - How to find the balance between giving your child a father's guidance and allowing them to find their own way?
    33:11 - How did Vaughn keep his emotions in check/deal with them while Andy was deployed overseas post-9/11?
    37:57 - What are some noticeable cultural, political, or socioeconomic differences between today and the era you grew up in?
    44:14 - Did Vaughn know Andy was a "different" kid when he was growing up?
    46:22 - What would Vaughn do if he could go back in time to 25 years old and be guaranteed to live until his current age?
    47:56 - What advice would he give himself if he could talk to his 25 year old self?
    49:01 - The funniest thing Andy did as a kid that he didn't know was funny at the time?
    51:41 - The hardest/most challenging aspect of fatherhood and what advice he'd give to new/soon-to-be fathers?
    53:05 - Why did Vaughn take Andy to work when he was a kid?
    56:07 - How did Vaughn respond/move on to losing his wife (Andy's mom) to cancer?
    1:03:47 - Did Andy's mom know something was wrong the day she was diagnosed?
    1:08:17 - Vaughn's immediate reaction to Andy becoming a SEAL knowing what he knew about the SEALs?
    1:10:28 - Is it possible to find happiness after the loss of a spouse (or a loss in general)?
    1:11:59 - What do you think Andy's mom would've said or thought about Andy leaving his marriage?
    1:13:10 - Outtro and how to spread Cleared Hot like Vaughn spread little Stumpfs around
    Great FAF with Tactical Santa. Good way to end my week. Hope everyone has a fun and safe weekend!

    • @ARuiz1004
      @ARuiz1004 3 года назад +5

      First thing i STILL look for, you're my boy @Nguyen! See you Monday Sir!

    • @judefuselier
      @judefuselier 3 года назад +1

      Lil Hero

    • @seanpdolan99
      @seanpdolan99 3 года назад +2

      Cheers!

    • @zibabird
      @zibabird 3 года назад +1

      Thanks a million!

    • @liamroarke7991
      @liamroarke7991 3 года назад

      I loved this one, man. Your Dad to seems like an absolute gem of a man.

  • @liamroarke7991
    @liamroarke7991 3 года назад +28

    Man, MASSIVE kudos for flat-out saying drinking isn't dealing with your emotions. Way too many people think a bottle is a good way to "deal".

  • @sethpurdom
    @sethpurdom 3 года назад +60

    Bro, your Dad has the cleanest beard in history. Im so god damn jealous.

  • @cmag8924
    @cmag8924 3 года назад +20

    Jesus. This old man is awesome and wise. A lot of things make a lot of sense now when it comes to Andy!!

  • @franguye
    @franguye 3 года назад +58

    Cleared hot. It’s how I start my mornings.

  • @williamhackett5500
    @williamhackett5500 3 года назад +23

    Thank you for having your father on and discussing things that aren't always easy to talk about. I lost my dad when i was 25 and my mom when I was 26 and felt a lot like you did at the time except i wasn't trying to get home from a war zone. I appreciate both of your honestly, thoughtfulness and insight. Love the podcast and your dad is great to listen to.

  • @phantomopera5525
    @phantomopera5525 3 года назад +32

    The loving way in which Vaughn speaks of the people who “do not identify with the norm” even though he does admits he does not understand it fully. Let that be a lesson to us all.

    • @segueoyuri
      @segueoyuri 3 года назад

      perhaps you missed the quote " People today are like: 'I'm right, you're wrong and goddamn, that's the way it's gonna be'".

  • @codybielik1838
    @codybielik1838 10 месяцев назад

    From an active-duty Marine to two servicemembers. Thank you for your service, thank you for these conversations. They help in so many ways and I have such great respect for the both of you.

  • @johnalev1130
    @johnalev1130 3 года назад +8

    This is one of the most self aware men I have ever had the pleasure to listen to.

  • @geschaftsmanngeschaftsmann6891
    @geschaftsmanngeschaftsmann6891 3 года назад +20

    Props on having pops online. Fearlessness runs in the family, it's plain. Thanks!

  • @lemmyrocker6209
    @lemmyrocker6209 3 года назад

    Thank You Andy and Mr STumpf - this is was my life in the 70' n 80's with my family!!!!!!!!!! - From My Dad - Much love to him

  • @Nightwalker_Medicine
    @Nightwalker_Medicine 3 года назад +1

    Listening to this at work. Got to the cop and the van story, my partner on the ambulance is wondering why I started laughing so hard I was crying 😂. Great show!

  • @chadd633
    @chadd633 3 года назад +1

    How am I not surprised your dad drove a VW bus !!!
    So dam cool 😎

  • @mrmeowsir2355
    @mrmeowsir2355 11 месяцев назад

    Amazing episode! Thank you for having your very wise Father on the show. I could listen to him spread his life knowledge all day.

  • @113charlie7
    @113charlie7 3 года назад +2

    Your relationship with your dad is the same one I have with mine. It's so beautiful love your parents everyone

  • @CaptDennis
    @CaptDennis 3 года назад

    Wow, what a seemingly "matter-of-fact" way of talking about non-matter-of-fact subjects. Lot's of wisdom coming from your father. People like him are few and far between, regrettably. Thank you so much for sharing and giving us insight into our and your life's journey.

  • @daveoliver3515
    @daveoliver3515 3 года назад +17

    33:10 was one of the funniest parts I have ever heard on this podcast, not even half a second and he goes 'i drank a lot' lmfaooo
    great episode andy, I hope to maybe see your father on here more. the two episodes you have done with him so far are my favorite ones to date.

  • @dennisaston3551
    @dennisaston3551 3 года назад +1

    Thanks Vaughn for being very honest and open with us, it was an honor.

  • @74bwilson
    @74bwilson 3 года назад +102

    looks like the solid beard game skips a generation. 😂

    • @adrianduenas379
      @adrianduenas379 3 года назад +2

      He can grow one lol he shaves like everyday im assuming 😂😂😂

  • @ironclad0331
    @ironclad0331 3 года назад

    I have a very similar mom story as you Andy. I was with 1/5 during presidential QRF cycle when my mom was initially diagnosed. She did well until after my injury retirement, and dissolved over 6 months.
    This was nice to listen to despite the sorry.

  • @bradpittman5075
    @bradpittman5075 3 года назад +3

    I have dreams like that too. But like the trigger will be so gd heavy that I won’t be able to squeeze it. Like threat approaching, reticle on target, 500 pound trigger. It’s. Weird dream. Awesome talk. Thanks. Have a nice day.

    • @jasoncyrbok5520
      @jasoncyrbok5520 3 года назад +2

      yep, me too. either heavy trigger, bullet just falling out of the barrel or rounds on target but having no effect.

    • @charliemike13
      @charliemike13 3 года назад +1

      Same

  • @marcs990
    @marcs990 3 года назад +3

    I wish much that I could of done this with my dad. Ask some questions I’ve always had & tell him things I never had. Great to see. I was a JTAC in the British Army, done all the usual tours but also I joined at 17, just made it in time for desert storm in 1990/91. As I said did all the usual post 9/11 tours inc Bosnia in 1992/3 & against I’m now out & been told I have severe ptsd blah blah, can’t stand life out of service. Anyhoo, life is shit but this podcast intrigued n interested me. Cheers for the vid.

  • @Morghanl1
    @Morghanl1 3 года назад

    I"ve been following your podcasts since they began. I thought your podcast about TBI and recovery was your best.
    This is the best podcast you've done. I don't have the stones to talk about things this personal in the open, you and you pops are special.
    RLTW!

  • @kirstymatthews8298
    @kirstymatthews8298 3 года назад +1

    Hi I lost my dad 12 years ago and miss him every day. You’re dad is amazing, so humble, wise and awesome! and my daughter says he looks like Santa. 😊

  • @andreasgrunewald929
    @andreasgrunewald929 3 года назад +5

    Wow, Andy. Finally we get to meet Mr Stumpf Sr. Thank you for this gem. No wonder you are such an awesome human. What a cool dad.

  • @mike9795
    @mike9795 2 года назад

    If there is podcast awards this episode should certainly win. Very honest and open made me call my dad just to say hi

  • @crofthowley2992
    @crofthowley2992 3 года назад +2

    What I love about Andy is that the words seal team 6 or dev group never come out of his own mouth. So humble

  • @MathiasLaakkonen
    @MathiasLaakkonen 3 года назад +1

    What an amazing father you have, incredibly humble, honest and a good man!

  • @sandybroderick2932
    @sandybroderick2932 3 года назад

    Mr. Stumpf Sr.... your insights!!!! SUCH GREAT wisdom. I LOVED how honest you were discussing your late wife and your beautiful love story! Mr. Stumpf Jr....one of your best pod casts yet. It was so nice to watch the two of you chat as though we all were sitting at the kitchen table with you. 🥰

  • @haroldmikesell2101
    @haroldmikesell2101 3 года назад

    Thanks so much for sharing one of your greatest treasures to the world. The apple does not fall far from the tree.

  • @williamharrison7845
    @williamharrison7845 3 года назад

    Andy, your dad is a legend. Mr. Vaughn, thank you for spending some time on the podcast to share some life knowledge with us. It was an absolute privilege to listen to you two have a conversation today.

  • @saisr1
    @saisr1 3 года назад

    Bonny Doon, no shit! Bonny Doon, Pine Flat, Empire Grade, sometimes Smith Grade and a few other roads in that area are part of my regular moto ride route. Love that area. Some of it took some major damage in the fires last year and there is probably going to be more this year, but right now is a great time to visit.
    Your dad seems like a cool dude. And that beard and mustache is kick-ass.

  • @libbysneden
    @libbysneden 3 года назад

    I wish that my father would seek help with his experiences from Vietnam. He struggles constantly. I applaud your father!!!!

  • @christopherdecosta9738
    @christopherdecosta9738 3 года назад

    Andy….excellent podcast and Kudos to you for putting out that final question….real act of humility and openness……if you are talking suggestions for podcasts, can you have your father back on for a longer podcast?? He was amazing and his knowledge and advice is a gold mine for myself and younger generations….
    Also….maybe looking into having more parents of people of your background? Seems the knowledge they have to pass on is invaluable and bring able to start cataloging their knowledge would be beneficial to all

  • @billwillson5361
    @billwillson5361 2 года назад

    Love it bro! Like the dad I always wanted. I hope you're taking advantage of still having him around. Cheers Stumpfs!

  • @jeremyallen1260
    @jeremyallen1260 3 года назад +2

    Hard to believe...but this may be my favorite episode you’ve done. Such a great conversation.

  • @glm88
    @glm88 3 года назад +1

    From one son of a former Santa Cruz County PE teacher to another, respect ✊🏼

  • @payback_carter
    @payback_carter 3 года назад

    Incredible. When your Dad talks about dreaming about being on target with you and hearing you calling for him without being able to get to you..... as a Dad as well it hit me in the Heart. Great podcast, great sense of humor across the generations. Semper Fi.

  • @davidlakvold8380
    @davidlakvold8380 2 года назад

    Stumpf, you got a great dad. Mr. Stumpf, well done.

  • @primitiveorganism9571
    @primitiveorganism9571 3 года назад

    Great podcast! Should do this more often Andy!

  • @chrismiles8225
    @chrismiles8225 3 года назад +10

    Vaughn said those magical words I utter more than often... oh shit I gotta' go back to work.

  • @gregoryferguson3575
    @gregoryferguson3575 3 года назад

    Your dad, much like my grandad, is an incredibly genuine guy and it’s nice to hear someone who just lives life and has a massive amount of common sense.

  • @papabear328
    @papabear328 3 года назад

    I don't often like videos but this one is worth it. What a beautiful human being. As a farher to a 6 y.o. girl and expecting another (fingers crossed), this is a video to come back to for advice. You can just feel the good vibes and father-child relationship and it all makes sense now when Andy says he had great parents. I hope we get more of this in the future.
    P.s. brilliant beard and nice ridge reaper jacket 🙌

  • @lancet.346
    @lancet.346 3 года назад +1

    I want to grab my Canterbury short shorts and watch some rugby with Papa Stumpf!

  • @Turquoise123
    @Turquoise123 3 года назад

    Your dad is a lovely man. It was a pleasure to listen to this, and to get a peek into your equally lovely relationship with him.

  • @elusivefella8314
    @elusivefella8314 3 года назад +4

    always good to see a warrior honor their father or mother. Good on ya mate

  • @cwu4002
    @cwu4002 3 года назад +1

    Love the rugby story! Cheers for sharing, all the way from New Zealand.

  • @wizardtactics1052
    @wizardtactics1052 3 года назад +4

    Good morning Andy, As usual I hope you are doing well be safe.

  • @Ph0enext
    @Ph0enext 3 года назад +1

    thank you for sharing your Dad with us Andy. he seems like a genuinely good and decent man. you are blessed to have him as a father.

  • @jesselee156
    @jesselee156 3 года назад +4

    First one to catch the upload, and i could tell right away that Andy's awesome sense of humor runs in the family. That, and the true authenticity for things! Such an awesome episode, thank you motherStumpfers!
    "My inseam is encroaching." HAHAHA! Gauranteed I am going to use that line at some point.

  • @michaelwyand1130
    @michaelwyand1130 3 года назад

    Thank you sir. For being you.

  • @RandolphRambo
    @RandolphRambo 3 года назад

    Excellent PodCast Andy!!! That was worth every second. Your Dad is a great man. Thanks for sharing his time with us.

  • @robinharris4247
    @robinharris4247 2 года назад

    War is horrible, My husband was force recon marine he is the strongest man I know but he has demons from when he served memories that sometimes haunt him, but he continues on some days he has bad days sometimes not, but if I were somewhere and something bad were about to happen I would want him to be there because at the core he is gonna take care of business. He says to me if something happens do what I say and don't follow me. I willl always make sure first you are safe...............Most amazing man I have ever known

  • @markzegarac8574
    @markzegarac8574 3 года назад

    Thank you Andy and thank you Mr. Stumpf for sharing so much of yourself with us and for being a part of Andy's best podcast to date....:) Have a wonderful weekend gentlemen...

  • @Joseph-ru7ow
    @Joseph-ru7ow 3 года назад

    Great conversation, you are clearly a very insightful and reflective family. Thank you for sharing.

  • @anthonydemyan5872
    @anthonydemyan5872 3 года назад

    You all made me feel like I was sitting in the room like a fly on the wall. I really needed to hear this. What a hell of a man your father is and I appreciate the wisdom and insight. Honestly this has changed my entire perspective of life. Thank you both so much!

  • @mightymouse9399
    @mightymouse9399 3 года назад

    The best Full Auto Friday to date. Would like to see Mr. Stumpf come back soon.

  • @advancepoint123
    @advancepoint123 3 года назад

    That was awesome. The apple does not fall far from the tree. What a special discussion. Love the authenticity. Thank you for sharing.

  • @christopher6894
    @christopher6894 3 года назад

    Awesome. Honest and powerful podcast. As a fellow veteran thank you and you (we) are not alone.

  • @battleborn3660
    @battleborn3660 3 года назад

    Andy, thank you for having your Dad on your Podcast. I lost my Dad almost 12 years ago and a day doesn't go by that I don't miss him and wish I could have one more sit down with him and just talk. This episode gave me that, listening to you talk to your Dad made me feel like I got that last chat and for that I Thank you. God bless you and your Dad.

  • @CathiVW
    @CathiVW 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for having your dad on. It was great!

  • @mr.tall-man1573
    @mr.tall-man1573 3 года назад

    Great stuff in this one. Thanks Vaughn.

  • @jimpiepenbrink946
    @jimpiepenbrink946 3 года назад

    What an amazing dad! Thank you for sharing him with us.

  • @user-sq6wq9bq9g
    @user-sq6wq9bq9g 3 года назад

    Great episode! I envy you Andy, I lost my father when I was 5 years old. So awesome to watch you two interact and laugh, joke and tell stories. Very special bond you both share. Thanks for sharing it with us. The van story had my rolling!
    Take care.

  • @tokyosan7906
    @tokyosan7906 3 года назад

    The vast majority of Andy's podcasts are great, but I think this is one I've enjoyed the most.

  • @nancyhayes5905
    @nancyhayes5905 3 года назад

    Thanks for bringing your dad on! A man who has lived a life without any regrets has lived a life, ie your dad. Have a good day Andy ! Danny Hayes LEO 5/1/21.

  • @chrisrrasberry
    @chrisrrasberry 3 года назад

    Great podcast. Thanks for having your dad on the show.

  • @jimloretta9474
    @jimloretta9474 3 года назад

    Andy thank you for your service brother. Today is my 50 year Deros anniversary from Vietnam. I respect all warriors. Like yourself, I lost loved brothers and still have a lot of survivor guilt. God Bless!

  • @RudeSaiyan
    @RudeSaiyan 3 года назад

    Your dad reminds me a lot of my grandfather, also a Vietnam veteran. Great pod, thanks Andy.

  • @Aspen51
    @Aspen51 3 года назад

    Andy, your Dad reminds me so much of mine, please thank him for doing the 'cast & personally this has been your best one yet... Cheers from a "Digger"

  • @samneedsanap7802
    @samneedsanap7802 3 года назад +14

    Morning y'all. My husband's service is tonight but I'm feeling pretty ok about that. It's been a weird 2 weeks. We've been together since we were 15 & now I'm a widow. Ive been a stay at home mom for 15 years. Idk what the future holds & if I'm being honest I'm terrified. I think I can do it.

    • @Paul-gf9fc
      @Paul-gf9fc 3 года назад +5

      Sorry for your loss.

    • @MrAPCProductions
      @MrAPCProductions 3 года назад +6

      You are going to wake up every day with a crushing weight on your chest. Every day that weight will be a little bit less, but you will find a way through. Three recommendations. Do something physical every day, even if that is just going for a walk around the property you live on. Don't self medicate. Not with pills, not with drinks or smoke. Do speak with your kids and friends about your struggles and continue to include those around you in your life.

    • @saltylatte5991
      @saltylatte5991 3 года назад +2

      Sending out Hugs 😊

    • @judefuselier
      @judefuselier 3 года назад +1

      Wish you the best love!

    • @chars8772
      @chars8772 3 года назад

      So sorry for your loss. That sounds inadequate for what you’re going through, but when I heard the question this morning I thumbed through here to reach out. My condolences to you and your family.

  • @dansherman7486
    @dansherman7486 3 года назад

    LOVED THIS! You and your DAD are both amazing! Thank you both for your service and sharing of yourselves

  • @theonewithnoname8137
    @theonewithnoname8137 3 года назад +1

    We all watched those same shows back in the day! Love it!

  • @ADKLife_NY
    @ADKLife_NY 3 года назад

    Wow! This was such a great podcast. The introspection from both of you is remarkable, extremely compelling. Wish more of our leaders had this same quality. Thank you both for sharing.

  • @cwo8771
    @cwo8771 3 года назад

    Really enjoyed this. Clearly, your dad is a solid man, which explains a lot about your character, even though he credits your mom for your mental toughness. To many boys missing the influence of a loving dad these days. Thanks for sharing yours.

  • @4rrestmeng
    @4rrestmeng 3 года назад

    Long time listener, first time commenter. What a fucken great podcast. Your dad is such a character.

  • @ryancybulski748
    @ryancybulski748 3 года назад

    Awesome!! My favorite one so far!!

  • @samneedsanap7802
    @samneedsanap7802 3 года назад

    Thank you. I really needed to hear that I can get through this and be happy again. One day.

  • @manhalen7046
    @manhalen7046 3 года назад

    There's not a more awesome trait for somebody than to enjoy laughing and you can tell that you guys do and it's so cool, i love it, great podcast Andy.

  • @Coffeedog62
    @Coffeedog62 3 года назад

    Awesome interview w your Dad.

  • @ericbjorkman4665
    @ericbjorkman4665 3 года назад

    BEST PODCAST EVER! Thank you both for sharing.

  • @nancygoehring
    @nancygoehring 3 года назад

    “Best ending to a podcast ever” - I loved it. Thank you for the interview. I had quite a few tears and some laughs. The traffic stop in the VW bus was classic! As Patty would say, “Love you, love your show.”

  • @egres234
    @egres234 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for sharing your Dad! Appreciated.

  • @yotaman492
    @yotaman492 3 года назад

    That was great, really enjoyed your father. Sounds like a great man

  • @Ras7685
    @Ras7685 3 года назад

    Let me tell you......the true honesty of your father is very appreciated . He's a good guy.....Thanks !

  • @gabrielaknox5057
    @gabrielaknox5057 3 года назад

    Love your Dad! You should have him more often!

  • @ianhall6614
    @ianhall6614 3 года назад

    A big thanks to you and your father for this episode. As a young guy trying to navigate life I find it most helpful to listen to the wise words of older generations who have been there and done that. The practical advice given in this episode is priceless and I hope to see him on another episode in the future. Thank you

  • @austinalexander9086
    @austinalexander9086 3 года назад

    Third time listening to this one. what an epic podcast Andy and thank you Mr stump for coming on.

  • @MrCashewkitty
    @MrCashewkitty 3 года назад

    Thanks so much for sharing your pops with is Andy!

  • @jasoncyrbok5520
    @jasoncyrbok5520 3 года назад +1

    Outstanding! Thanks Andy and Vaughn for a great start to my Friday.

  • @tonyponcia119
    @tonyponcia119 3 года назад

    That was awesome. Especially your dad talking about the struggles and triumphs after your mom passed. You’re lucky to have had such a great set of parents!

  • @Hanks1938ELKnucklehead
    @Hanks1938ELKnucklehead Год назад

    I hope you said, "I love you, Dad" right after you cut the mics. ❤ I'm not crying, you're crying!😂😂😂

  • @jameslawson5177
    @jameslawson5177 3 года назад

    Excellent podcast!!! I laughed I cried I learned!! What else could you want from a podcast!! I was born and raised in Santa Rosa!

  • @mattguevin4023
    @mattguevin4023 3 года назад

    Great conversation. Thank you gentlemen.

  • @AhHereWeGo
    @AhHereWeGo 3 года назад +5

    That beard is INCREDIBLE! So dense and well shaped.

  • @austinalexander9086
    @austinalexander9086 3 года назад

    Working on having my first kid going to listen to this podcast frequently to fresh up on fatherly advice

  • @bradbrown9722
    @bradbrown9722 3 года назад

    Epic beard brother! Guys, this is a great family. I envy Andy’s relationship with his dad!!!! Great show.....

  • @Paul-gf9fc
    @Paul-gf9fc 3 года назад

    Thanks for sharing your dad with us Andy

  • @stevestauffer6658
    @stevestauffer6658 3 года назад

    I enjoyed every bit of this! From the expressions of love and respect for your mom to the light hearted laughs. It was a relief seeing and hearing a man share real emotions. I don't know why there is such a stigma with dudes being afraid or apprehensive about sharing their struggles.

  • @gnawty4662
    @gnawty4662 3 года назад

    What a wholesome episode. Appreciate the advice given.
    Thank you Gentlemen