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  • Опубликовано: 6 сен 2024
  • #parenting #parentingtips #children #advice
    Here in this video psychologist aisha answers questions asked about raising a child. she tells about few things that can hurt your child. she also gives tips on handling your adamant child. watch this video & leave your comments below!
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Комментарии • 94

  • @abijeya1111
    @abijeya1111 Год назад +13

    Thank you doctor. Parents mela evlo mistakes irukku nu purinjadhu. I am also one of those parents. Will change myself.

  • @nithya4944
    @nithya4944 Год назад +1

    Ellathukumey azhudhutey irundha enna pandradhu adam adam over over enna panalam

  • @jananijoel8779
    @jananijoel8779 Год назад +3

    Mam ninga sonadalam superb we ll keep it in our mind....but dad pasamndra perla chellam kuduthu kedukuraga antha pathi pls solunga

  • @tharmananthanamarasingam7817
    @tharmananthanamarasingam7817 Год назад +4

    It’s useful info.thanks your valuable time and I hope this kind videos good for the family. ( இது பயனுள்ள தகவல்.உங்கள் மதிப்புமிக்க நேரத்திற்கு நன்றி மற்றும் இதுபோன்ற வீடியோக்கள் குடும்பத்திற்கு நல்லது என நம்புகிறேன். )

  • @Vishant12345
    @Vishant12345 Год назад +6

    How to control ourselves and not show our frustration or anger on them ?

  • @irfanfahi1103
    @irfanfahi1103 Год назад +12

    Super sis..and thanks you so much I have 4 year boy avangla sapda vaika edhadhu Vali solungalen pls.. edhume spda matran

    • @lazypings9780
      @lazypings9780 Год назад +3

      Sapdu sapdu solathiga. Avangala sapadu kekravara water thavira vera ethum snacks kanla katadhiga. Pasikrapo automatic ah sapduvga

    • @irfanfahi1103
      @irfanfahi1103 Год назад

      @@lazypings9780 mmm Avan ishtathuku kkran Namma kudukuradha vena solran

  • @rkspshanmugapriya7111
    @rkspshanmugapriya7111 Год назад +18

    My son always answer 'no' for all my requests. How to solve this. Food means no, bathing no

    • @cookwithkamali2310
      @cookwithkamali2310 Год назад +1

      Same problem.. no for everything..

    • @sarau5129
      @sarau5129 Год назад +7

      Give him options
      For ex. Will u eat now or after 5mins
      Will u take bath now or after finishing this game

    • @sarau5129
      @sarau5129 Год назад +3

      Talk with them
      Understand Why they r saying no find the root cause and then try to solve it

    • @Anitha.Hari91
      @Anitha.Hari91 Год назад +1

      ​@@sarau5129 💯

    • @rkspshanmugapriya7111
      @rkspshanmugapriya7111 Год назад

      @@sarau5129 sure

  • @jayashree6123
    @jayashree6123 Год назад +4

    It was very nice, The happiest thing is we apply all the above rules or ideas in our parenting. Let see how she grows

  • @geethap94
    @geethap94 Год назад +77

    Hello mam... En payn ku 2 and half age than aguthu.... Avana romba romba pidikum but avan kurumbu pana ennala accept pana mudila mostly kovapatu romba adichiduren... Apram feel pandren ... Bcoz 6 month old baby vera irku 2 perayum samalika mudiyala pshyco mati agidren idhuku enna solution... Doctor kita nan poganuma stress level ah control pana mudiyala

    • @hajasumai6856
      @hajasumai6856 Год назад +12

      Enakum ithe problem thaa

    • @geethamunusamy7536
      @geethamunusamy7536 Год назад +14

      Nanum epdi than adichettu rombha feel paniduven

    • @sarau5129
      @sarau5129 Год назад +4

      Meditation try pannunga sis. If u feel focused u can handle things better. Romba post partum blues or depression iruka madhiri ungalukku thoanuchinna attend sessions or consultant a psychologist

    • @cr7ronaldo832
      @cr7ronaldo832 Год назад +1

      Same problem plz solution solluga mom

    • @ranjithrajagopal7966
      @ranjithrajagopal7966 Год назад +1

      Meditation பண்ணுங்க.. Sis

  • @mahavaradhan8680
    @mahavaradhan8680 Год назад +1

    Mam... useful video... thank you... mam myboy always fear to go school...studies h.w test fear ..not interested how to make him interest on studies...

  • @dr.praveenaravichandran2417
    @dr.praveenaravichandran2417 Год назад +4

    Very informative . Must watch for all the those who are already parents and those who are going to be parents.

  • @suganya1794
    @suganya1794 Год назад +1

    Well said ...we have the do first before we teach them...if we give respect even to them automatically they will learn from us

  • @shenaveen8144
    @shenaveen8144 Год назад +4

    Plz plz intha ma3 session again and again vedio podunga... It's very useful to new middle class mom

  • @z_roedits4468
    @z_roedits4468 Год назад

    Tqq doctor oru kulapathodu irunthen now i clear 🙏. I'm shanti from jb Malaysia. Ennakku 3kids 🥰

  • @gomathivm3090
    @gomathivm3090 Год назад +2

    So sweet your speech❤

  • @jaleelbasha5429
    @jaleelbasha5429 Год назад +2

    மேம் என் பெரிய மகனுக்கு வயது 12 ஆகுது ஒரு விஷயம் மேம் எனக்கு வந்து மார்க் முக்கியமான விஷயம் இல்லை என்னைப் பொறுத்தவரை அறிவு ஒழுக்கம் உதவும் எண்ணம் வந்தால் போதும். ஆனா ஞாபகம் வைப்பது இல்லை துரு துரு இருக்கா நல்ல பாசம் அம்மா அப்பா இல்லாத டைம் நல்ல பார்த்துப் பான் நாங்க இருந்த சிறிய மகனுக்கு வயது 4 ‌அவனிடம் சண்டை போடுவார் என்ன செய்வது என்று தெரியவில்லை ‌ இன்னும் ஒரு விஷயம். இருவரும் சரியாக பேசவே இல்லை மேடம் பதில் சொல்லுங்க மேடம்

  • @maheswaridineshkumar3271
    @maheswaridineshkumar3271 Год назад +1

    Mam my son 2 yrs completed all time crying mbl use pannura how to avoid mbl

  • @ceciliajennifer6455
    @ceciliajennifer6455 Год назад

    How to overcome laziness and absent mindness with my 9 year old daughter

  • @umamageswari4689
    @umamageswari4689 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much mam useful video

  • @monishsekar9861
    @monishsekar9861 Год назад +2

    Beautiful explanation. 🎉

  • @manimegalaisrisaai3104
    @manimegalaisrisaai3104 Год назад +1

    Sis
    குழந்தைகள் பொது இடத்தில் அடம் பிடிக்கும் போது அந்த இடத்தில் வச்சி explain பண்ணனுமா இல்ல சமாதானம் ஆன பிறகு கொஞ்ச நேரம் கழித்து explain பண்ணனுமா??
    அதே இடத்தில் என்றால் அந்த சூழ்நிலையில் அவுங்க கேட்கிற மனநிலையில் இருக்க மாட்டிக்காங்க. So please explain that

    • @sankanislifestyle67
      @sankanislifestyle67 Год назад

      Ninga vitla irunthu kootikittu pogum bothey inga thaan porom anga poi yethum ketka koodathu appa thaan kootikittu poven and anga yellam costly ah irukum en kitta antha alavukku money illa so kastapadutha koodathunu solli puriyavachu kootikittu ponga avanga pidivatham pannamatanga.... Understand pannipaanga simple ah vaangi kudukra matiri iruntha vaangi kudunga

  • @padmavathyp1452
    @padmavathyp1452 Год назад

    How to improve kid and teen self confidence

  • @pavidinesh6297
    @pavidinesh6297 Год назад +1

    Rombo supera explain paningo mam.. Indha generation appa amma methodology follow panama actuala enavo athan pathu purunjikunu children's ah handle pandra vishayatha solirkingo

  • @klingonprogramming3868
    @klingonprogramming3868 Год назад +4

    Good initiative, Feeling happy that it's acceptable and people welcoming this video with open mindedness to learn and correct their mistakes. Need more mental health awareness videos in India and TN.

  • @user-fg5tg6wp9e
    @user-fg5tg6wp9e Год назад +1

    Very nice spech good mam

  • @SR-hn3nj
    @SR-hn3nj Год назад

    Pasanga nammala vittu grandparents kitta attacha irukuratha konjam limitoda vaika mudiyuma nammata remba attachoda irukanum athuku enna pannalam

  • @thanishasimson-cr2os
    @thanishasimson-cr2os Год назад +1

    Thank you mam

  • @shwethakb3770
    @shwethakb3770 Год назад

    My son is 4.7 years...very naughty boy.good in his studies but in home he will never leave me to do anything always want to be with him or he will be troubling me when i m doing something.he is attention seeker.i want him to be playing without me..plz tell me how to change

  • @jerickjerlin9814
    @jerickjerlin9814 6 месяцев назад

    En paiyan nalla padikiran but exam la write panna maturan yen mam pls reply

  • @user-en8ep7iv7c
    @user-en8ep7iv7c Год назад

    Ma'm my son is 8 years old. He recently became big brother to smal boy this jan. He was expecting a sister . Though he s showing love to his little bro... He is always looking dull and diverted...watever i explain... He is feeling depressd and doesnt share his emotion to me.. Started telling lies,.. Dono how to handle him... Some times i yell at him out of frustration due to post partum depression.

  • @drdearmuni
    @drdearmuni 6 месяцев назад

    Super Dr

  • @lavanyamary9419
    @lavanyamary9419 Год назад

    Hi mam. My kid age is 4. Now she is going to LKG. But she is not understand and lessening for studys. And also memory power is very low . Satan forget for study. What can i do mam?????

  • @Menagakumaravel
    @Menagakumaravel Год назад +1

    Very nice...

  • @glindajackson1180
    @glindajackson1180 Год назад +7

    Hi mam, my son is completing 6 years next month... He's is in UKG... Actually I used to follow gentle parenting method... Naturally he studies well, very naughty with friends... School teacher tells he's very good in studies but little naughty at classes which is also tolerable... So finally I guess he doing very good school... But during morning while getting ready to the school, he s refusing to go, crying etc... The previous night he will arrange all his clothes and bags which has to be taken to school... Only in the mornings, why he's doing like that mam??? So the morning is very challenging for me to convince him to go to school... Please give me a hint that where I am missing Something...

    • @mvrkumar3210
      @mvrkumar3210 Год назад +5

      Ask him about good events in the school. Motivate him to do the same best activities. Remind it in the night before bed. Again motivate him in the morning about his interested activities. This may help. Thank you. All the best

    • @glindajackson1180
      @glindajackson1180 Год назад +1

      Thank you so much... Really I will do this and will be get back to you with the feedback

    • @srimithunranjith6129
      @srimithunranjith6129 Год назад +2

      Don't worry about that every day night neenga paiyan pakkathula paduthu avanoda pesunga mrg school kku poganum aptina unaku playpanna neraiya frds kedaippanga unakku piticha snacks amma panni tharre share panni saptalam nu daily pesunga 3days la thambikitta matram theriyum kandippa

  • @Vishant12345
    @Vishant12345 Год назад

    How to make them feel what we say is for their good and convince them for eg my kid does not eat at all in the school , he feels so excited and talks to his friends and comes home without eating and started facing health issues because of it, I told him kindly , explained him, scolded, threaten , all tried , no use, he says I understand you are saying for my good , but when I see my friends, talking to them becomes my priority than your advise or my health even, what do I do????

  • @nazrinarshad8794
    @nazrinarshad8794 Год назад

    Sis if i want to make my son to do one work ,i have to tell nearly 100 times ,how can i make him listen to me at once

  • @shobanamurugesu3850
    @shobanamurugesu3850 Год назад

    My son is 6 years aagudhu mam he is not talking but shouting at her younger sister(3.9 years old). He is not listening to what I say. Small things ku aluvan, ematram thangamatran he is 1st child adhanalaya???He helps me and cares for me and loves me and me also. Avanuku ena thonudho adhaye panumpodhu i get annoyed for not listening. For example when I say Don't play in water he won't stop until i shout or hit. How can i change this pls tell me am so much worried. I want to share more with him.

  • @smadushan3769
    @smadushan3769 Год назад

    Super I love it

  • @paramasivamparamasivam5731
    @paramasivamparamasivam5731 Год назад

    Nan konjam negative ah ninachu thittinen ini control panniduven

  • @pavithra2294
    @pavithra2294 Год назад

    Usefull message thank you mam 😊

  • @divyakrishna5914
    @divyakrishna5914 Год назад

    Super mam

  • @gaythrigayu9322
    @gaythrigayu9322 Год назад

    Why i don't understand.kiss paddathu kuda social media podduranga..ethula private.. famous actors.vijay..ajith..rajinikah
    Vijay sethupathi ennum neraya actor kuda ippidi illey..

  • @vickys1876
    @vickys1876 Год назад

    Cute tah solrega paysureega akka😊

  • @reshma4404
    @reshma4404 Год назад

    If hitting my child is right or wrong

  • @suganthiamaresh3939
    @suganthiamaresh3939 Год назад +1

    My daughter studying 3rd std. Her dad always beats her on her face on head if she not listening to his words. I know its hurting her a lot. Bit dono how ro handle this situation. She wont listen only to her dad and also to me . But she will be very much responsible and listen to others. Help me out

    • @sarau5129
      @sarau5129 Год назад

      Talk to her with the people whom she is actually close other than mom and dad. Find the route cause. At first they may be blank or don't say anything but when they started trusting them may open up. Try not to hit child. It affects her mentally and physically.

    • @siva6879
      @siva6879 Год назад

      This s the age which children s too adamant talk to her patiently don't get angry if v angry adamant grows up up only it won't reduce..

  • @megathaip4028
    @megathaip4028 Год назад

    Enaku ungla romba pdichiruku doctor

  • @DDS604
    @DDS604 Год назад

    Edhu venanu soldramo adha dha venumne seiranga... Soldradha kadhula vangave matenguranga.... Ena pandradhu mam

    • @sarau5129
      @sarau5129 Год назад +1

      Avangalukku puriyura madhiri kids language la solla try pannungaa. Adhu no means y no nu explain pannunga. Kozhandha edhu senjalum venam venam nu sollite irukaadheenga. Talk to them

  • @soficreativework9599
    @soficreativework9599 Год назад

    Mudiyala saami indiala ennum eththanai per advice Panna porangaloooooooo. Kadavule.. RUclips onnu irukkirathala 😂😂😂

  • @stalinjemu17
    @stalinjemu17 Год назад +1

    Thank you mam

  • @durgarani9447
    @durgarani9447 Год назад +1

    Super mam

  • @kvsridharan246
    @kvsridharan246 Год назад

    Thank you akka

  • @YouTubeDiaries3481
    @YouTubeDiaries3481 Год назад +1

    Thank u mam