Why Black Men Refuse To Marry Black Women

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  • Опубликовано: 8 ноя 2024

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  • @everythingloveurlife4904
    @everythingloveurlife4904 Год назад +155

    Social media has socially engineered women to think that living like the Kardashians/celebrity is the baseline of their existence

    • @Bidness100
      @Bidness100 Год назад +9

      💯

    • @PositiveBrothaHakeem
      @PositiveBrothaHakeem Год назад

      Considering how very obsessed American bw in particular are with celebrities, I'm not surprised at all.

  • @Mbaye77
    @Mbaye77 Год назад +42

    I am west african and I know for a fact most human on this earth will never even see $650K in their whole life.

  • @efitchpatric
    @efitchpatric Год назад +140

    What I find so amazing is they have such high demands for marriage but will turn around and give a bum, a baby.

  • @h.l.d.9988
    @h.l.d.9988 Год назад +192

    One woman actually said, "I don't want my income to be needed in the family". God help any man that marries her and their children.

    • @jimmiehouse7736
      @jimmiehouse7736 Год назад

      We need to stop the lies, most dark skin black women in America is getting marry more than any race, The women that are on RUclips always talking about pass brother are lighter skin black women , very seldom do we see a dark skin black woman talking about passport brother. I have 7 brother and 25 male cousin, and they all married very dark skin black women, and so did I, in a male meeting of black male , they all agree that they will have sex with a light skin black woman but they will not married them, they say they could not lay next to pale flesh every year

    • @yunglion8676
      @yunglion8676 Год назад +30

      Pure worthlessness. That's what wickedness looks like in real life

    • @BadTV1993
      @BadTV1993 Год назад +19

      I used to pay 100% of everything..my now ex couldnt conduct herself in a wifely fashion(& I mean the simple easy to do wifey type sh*t; I never asked for much), so I broke it down to paying 50% of the bills(we both worked)& still did extras like trips/ shopping.. ..that still wasnt good enough for her(even tho no other dude did that for her before me, not even her own pops lol) so I divorced her..now she is paying 100% of her bills & stressed b/c she has to go to work at 6 am daily to make ends meet & has gained 100 lbs ..lol

    • @godmind675
      @godmind675 Год назад +5

      @@BadTV1993 good for you

    • @BadTV1993
      @BadTV1993 Год назад +8

      @The Esquire of Sports ® speaking of beds, she was boring in that area as well from first day out 🤣a problem I NEVER had was women I was dating not wanting to have sex w/ me, or putting no effort to little effort into sex , until her ….cutting me off when I was getting very little from jump....Now Imagine spending all that time, money & energy to settle down when you didn’t have to & getting little to nothing in return for it PLUS taking on her/her family's baggage while bringing minimal baggage of your own to the "table"..& you can see the dynamic of most of these modern "relationships"

  • @kenstontaylor6532
    @kenstontaylor6532 Год назад +42

    These ran through women never consider they are ran through requesting these amounts of money a man needs to earn! Ran through! Spend my money for what?! To be embarrassed in public?!

    • @MD-DLive
      @MD-DLive Год назад +13

      Many want brothas to be the financial backbone of their baggage! Many don't " really" care about you and your well being! Question is: will they do the same for you?!🤔🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @kenstontaylor6532
      @kenstontaylor6532 Год назад +12

      @@MD-DLive They won't. I got rid of one back in the Summer. All she did was want time and money spent. She never did anything for me. Cooked for me once out of 8-10 months. And while on a date she was on the phone with another man. I will never do anything serious in the U.S. ever again. Can't wait to go back to Ethiopia!

    • @MD-DLive
      @MD-DLive Год назад +5

      @@kenstontaylor6532 wow!

    • @ichellexcel
      @ichellexcel Год назад

      There are more ran through males than women. But I digress.. smh.

  • @vante2129
    @vante2129 Год назад +95

    That comment is spot on women actually do believe better is just a hop,jump and skip away even if they're given the perfect man they'll still find something to not like about him.

    • @Price8903
      @Price8903 Год назад +5

      I think that’s humans in general. Always looking for what can be better or the next great thing. A man can have a overall great wife and will still desire something more.

    • @vante2129
      @vante2129 Год назад +32

      @@Price8903 Stay on topic don't deflect why when talking about women y'all feel the need to all lives matter the conversation??? If this doesn't apply to you let it fly don't need you telling me that both sides can be capable of this I'm aware but the topic is modern women.

    • @BooHefner
      @BooHefner Год назад +10

      @@Price8903 nope

    • @Price8903
      @Price8903 Год назад +2

      @@vante2129 Just adding a perspective for both ends of the spectrum. Not deflecting. Some traits can be gender based, while others are human based depending on what the matter is.

    • @HolyGhostBabyTV1
      @HolyGhostBabyTV1 Год назад +12

      Exactly what my mom did and hurt us all in the long run. I gotta stay Pushing through the mental mess everyday.

  • @BluEx22329
    @BluEx22329 Год назад +51

    "You need to knock that off" needs to be on a shirt

  • @grapeshot
    @grapeshot Год назад +67

    Well you go where you're love not just tolerated.

  • @BluEx22329
    @BluEx22329 Год назад +53

    These type of women are great passport bros commercials

    • @druth5134
      @druth5134 Год назад +1

      petty
      1. making things, events, or actions normal people dismiss as trivial or insignificant into excuses to be upset, uncooperative, childish, or stubborn.
      2. A person who habitually overreacts.
      3. A person who is purposefully childish with the intent of illiciting a reaction (sometimes funny).
      4. An immature over reaction in retaliation of an undesired outcome

    • @jamie4622
      @jamie4622 9 месяцев назад +1

      Real Talk get your Passports ready

    • @miguelstigler9170
      @miguelstigler9170 7 месяцев назад +1

      YEP 💯 💯 💯

  • @harlemworldown
    @harlemworldown Год назад +30

    As a race of people most of us came up poor and in the inner city so where did all these people learn these luxurious lifestyle from

  • @KevinJohnson-sd3vv
    @KevinJohnson-sd3vv Год назад +97

    I prefer black women first, but the problem is most of black women are confrontation (not all) and rather live in their masculine energy ! A good decent black man will have a problem. The confrontational black man ain't going to have much of a problem with them, because when he gets tired of her, he will either leave her, or physically abuse her! My interest in them for full relationships has gone WAY down! Now I just talk with them on a friendship level.

    • @druth5134
      @druth5134 Год назад +14

      petty
      1. making things, events, or actions normal people dismiss as trivial or insignificant into excuses to be upset, uncooperative, childish, or stubborn.
      2. A person who habitually overreacts.
      3. A person who is purposefully childish with the intent of illiciting a reaction (sometimes funny).
      4. An immature over reaction in retaliation of an undesired outcome

    • @learhaynes1002
      @learhaynes1002 Год назад +1

      Facts

    • @Ordinary_Operator
      @Ordinary_Operator Год назад +14

      For me the worse part about their behavior is that they display all these negative traits with black men only. When in interracial relationships they suppress their bad behaviors.

    • @301tg8
      @301tg8 Год назад +6

      @Kevin Johnson. Go to Colombia, Panama or Brazil.

    • @zerayacob3246
      @zerayacob3246 Год назад +2

      there are enough black women in Latin America and Africa

  • @BluEx22329
    @BluEx22329 Год назад +165

    My 1st crush in preschool was the only black girl in my class. She was extremely nice to me an already showed signs of catering. I found out years later after she moved away that her family is Nigerian

    • @moenlighted7681
      @moenlighted7681 Год назад

      Don't call her black call her african and preferably west african

    • @lilbfrom094princeton8
      @lilbfrom094princeton8 Год назад +14

      I almost married a Nigerian… Best treatment I’ve ever received have been from Nigerian and Somali women.

    • @isaiah6659
      @isaiah6659 Год назад +25

      😆 dang bruh. Usually, "the one that got away", usually don't happen til high school 😂

    • @researchtwins
      @researchtwins Год назад +11

      The Nigerian women I met in Ghana 🇬🇭 were super sweet to me…I appreciate them.

    • @BadTV1993
      @BadTV1993 Год назад +13

      Nicest woman I ever met was a Nigerian woman raised in Paris , France...the way I was treated by her was HEAVEN compared to the best treatment Ive ever had from an American black Woman, & yes that includes my own mother & grandmother in that

  • @DDoubleDrew
    @DDoubleDrew Год назад +43

    I make close to 6 figures. About 20% goes to taxes/medical and I put 30% into retirement and investments. My take-home is pretty much cut in half before I get my pay. If your doing what your supposed to do with the money to ensure a future of comfort, then it comes out to giving me a standard "middle class" lifestyle. Men that "make" that kind of money through business work put that money back into investments/the business and really only entertainers, music artists, and sports players have that kind of money to just throw around on "lifestyle".

    • @Torihappyness
      @Torihappyness Год назад +4

      And drug dealers and mafia.

    • @DDoubleDrew
      @DDoubleDrew Год назад +2

      @@Torihappyness That too...plus they can avoid taxes.

    • @mississippigod3938
      @mississippigod3938 Год назад

      Don’t forget about 25% goes to child support, 30 % goes to mortgage. On top of taxes it 20% and the woman wants the other percentage. This why men don’t want marry it’s cheaper to buy 🍑

    • @MegaFaceboy
      @MegaFaceboy Год назад +5

      If you attempt to provide that lifestyle for a woman, then you’ll never have enough money to invest and grow over time, which is what actually gives you a shot at attaining that lifestyle. That’s where as much disposable income as possible should go. But if you marry a woman that doesn’t want any of her income to go toward bills or expenses or investments (all costs that maintain a family) then she’s really not interested in the well being of her family and will instantly become a burden….dead weight that will prevent you from becoming the architect of generational wealth.

    • @BadTV1993
      @BadTV1993 Год назад

      & settlement & Lottery winners

  • @Racism-n3j
    @Racism-n3j Год назад +18

    One more thing I find to be a insult. Have anyone noticed how they down grade the women in other countries? Such as poor, prostitution, and ignorant. They see these women as less than because they are not from America.

  • @wejuggernautentertainmentl3156
    @wejuggernautentertainmentl3156 Год назад +26

    Let’s get our crimson sista to 100k subs before Spring

  • @dailydoseoflife4907
    @dailydoseoflife4907 Год назад +18

    There's women whose husbands earn less than 30K a year and still RESPECT him because he's a good husband and father📣...your community can't produce enough good women for your good men to choose from📣🤔

  • @skyblue375
    @skyblue375 Год назад +71

    BW no longer cares if the guy is loving and caring anymore, the only thing that matters to BW is how much money the guy makes. If he's not making at least 100K, they call him broke.

    • @rooseveltdarbey9493
      @rooseveltdarbey9493 Год назад +17

      Exactly 💯 that's why it's so easy for them to file for divorce.

    • @snatchadams69
      @snatchadams69 Год назад

      They only care about busting nuts and spending money....

    • @BadTV1993
      @BadTV1993 Год назад +15

      meanwhile, she is making 45k -50k while talking that nonsense

    • @RoseTheRealest
      @RoseTheRealest Год назад

      You’re generalizing bw so I guess all bm are criminals since you make up 50 percent of the crime rate in America?

    • @movingforward-fc4lg
      @movingforward-fc4lg Год назад

      Most Black women are going to die alone that’s why I focus on myself and getting money because they are useless anyway while they catching feelings I’m catching flights 👍

  • @Racism-n3j
    @Racism-n3j Год назад +96

    Feminism is everywhere the problem is that women from other countries are actually mature. Feminism in America is basically a second childhood phase. They don't want men going to actually see how feminism works in other countries vs here.

    • @bohiorepublic
      @bohiorepublic Год назад

      I see your point...my first impulse is to completely agree with you...but I cannot...I agree that feminism is everywhere...I just commented above about that before I read your post...but, I do not agree about the maturity part...cultures mature! And what feminism is in other countries is inseparably tied to the history and situation of those countries...Americans tend to exaggerate about Europe, denigrate about the Third World, and neither of those attitudes serves a positive purpose...right now most men and women in countries that look fine from the outside are not that fine...Sweden is the feminist/racist heaven of Europe, and they have the largest number of incels and thousands of Dutch men have gone to Thailand, married Thai women and brought them back to Stockholm to rub them sexy and cooperative ladies in the face of stiff bodied feminist...and in DR, Colombia and Brazil a casual conversation among men and women about women's issues always devolves into a heated argument...don't sell yourself short...Gariseke foni

    • @jimmiehouse7736
      @jimmiehouse7736 Год назад +9

      I am a black man and I date a lot of women before I got married, I am a mixed race man, my mother is Nigerian and my father is Native America, my 4 brother and 21 cousin we all married very dark skin black women, we all dated other race of women before we settle down in our early 20, and they all agree that a very dark skin woman are the most beautiful woman on earth when they are natural, what turn men off is when black women wear fake hair, weaves tight fitting clothing with their breast out and ass showing this is not sexual but make women look like a two whore , men hit them and going

    • @nashambenyisrael7689
      @nashambenyisrael7689 Год назад

      It’s not their maturity , it’s they are brought up in traditional values not only that the women in other countries don’t have western customs which is the issue. Western culture is a gynocentric culture now, it wasn’t always but now it is and it’s destroying the balance of the family. Saudi Arabia is starting to adopt more western ideologies which is why the women there are revolting and becoming whores like on social media etc..

    • @ak5659
      @ak5659 Год назад +1

      @@jimmiehouse7736--- Tight clothing... Yeah, but what's worse is that half the time the clothes aren't too tight because they're supposed to be tight... They're too tight because they're two sizes too small! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
      There's a bit of a difference, lol.

  • @MrCantfindanynames
    @MrCantfindanynames Год назад +8

    Heifer said 650k?!?!?🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @miguelstigler9170
      @miguelstigler9170 7 месяцев назад +1

      You can't make this ish up ~Kevin Samuels 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

  • @quantumsolace5864
    @quantumsolace5864 Год назад +36

    I don't have a problem marrying a black woman; matter of fact, a black woman is my first squeeze. Nevertheless though; I would rather flex with a sista overseas, where her culture of morality is presidential over her zest of wildin out in debauchery and promiscuity.
    Furthermore; it's common sense, due to the fact that I shouldn't have to worry from an environmental perspective of The judiciaries and her, Extorting and Blackmailing me into submission.
    Although there are a very few lionesses in the shadows of hyenas; mathematically, the percentage ratio doesn't equate for the pickings. Like finding a strain of hay in a huge pile of needles; by time I may find a sista that's worth the longevity of a relationship, hell; I would be all damaged goods to her, without two nickels to my name. At least overseas; the bounty of FBI's outweighs the very few who accepts the latter.

  • @nettienewsom9506
    @nettienewsom9506 Год назад +17

    Too bad they didn’t play the song Dream on by Aerosmith while this clip was playing. These modern women live in an alternative universe

  • @isaiah6659
    @isaiah6659 Год назад +18

    Random thought 🤔
    I've come to realize, that... More often than not... The dudes who have money like that, typically live WAAAY more frugal. That guy that's making $650k, is likely only living a $100k lifestyle 🤣

    • @johnserosanguineous1886
      @johnserosanguineous1886 Год назад +7

      My buddy John who has money like that ONLY buys used cars. They’re usually Benz’s and BMW’s to keep his wife happy but they’re not G-Wagons and Turbo’s. 2014, humble ass GLK series with 30k miles on it.
      I don’t think they even care that the sht they watch is all fake. Rental cars in rap videos, rented cabins of private jets, not a full private jet JUST the interior like a showroom at Ikea. This generation is gone and the next one is fcked.

    • @Bidness100
      @Bidness100 Год назад +1

      @@johnserosanguineous1886💯

    • @tonyjones1560
      @tonyjones1560 Год назад +3

      If he’s single, there’s a chance he might be living on a little less than $100K…

    • @isaiah6659
      @isaiah6659 Год назад

      @@johnserosanguineous1886 wait. You gotta buddy named John? 😂 Must be hilarious every time y'all kick it.
      On a more serious note, there's gotta be sumthing we can do to change this situation for the better. I mean, the women are a huge part of that... 😳 But we know they won't change any time soon. ESPECIALLY for the men.

    • @johnserosanguineous1886
      @johnserosanguineous1886 Год назад

      @@isaiah6659 Speaking of nice cars, I saw a 2009 Bentley for like $30k, 80k miles on it, CLEAN! Who’s gonna know?! 🙌🙌
      To your point. Did I stutter?! Its over for you hoes! Weez done fam! I look at it like this. If I knew there was going to be a zombie apocalypse in 10 years, what would I do to prepare for it? Buy land, build a homestead, grow my own food, raise animals, move trusted and LIKE MINDED friends and relatives out there. Train them up on firearms, and small unit tacitcs. Get acquainted with the local cannibals NOW, instead of when cannibalism becomes accepted. Big ass walls and fences. Wait for the Tytler Cycle to finish doing its thing. Women have to experience pain and suffering on their own. Theres no other way they’ll come around.

  • @edavis8560
    @edavis8560 Год назад +37

    The fact that they are looking for (think they deserve) the most exclusive products, lifestyle and men with NOTHING to offer (balance the scale) is absolutely mind blowing.

    • @marcushennings9513
      @marcushennings9513 Год назад +1

      From my experience even if a man has vision to become self employed, start a business, etc most women I've encountered have absolutely no idea or ambition to be of any consequence with anything pertaining to the administrative side of things especially in the hood and dont even waste your time trying to send them to HD/Lowes to pick up anything so you can continue working its literally like pulling teeth to get any assistance but they're front and center to bring drama and distractions or to enjoy the fruits of your labor after the fact.

    • @serenajoy9060
      @serenajoy9060 Год назад

      Where are these women you speak of? I have been on this earth over 45 years and have NEVER met ANY woman who feels this way. Where are you finding theses women? I really want to know

    • @kevinwilmore3604
      @kevinwilmore3604 Год назад

      That's very very prevalent in BITCH HEAVEN (AMERICA).

    • @kevinwilmore3604
      @kevinwilmore3604 Год назад

      @@serenajoy9060 their in America most of them are in the projects.

    • @serenajoy9060
      @serenajoy9060 Год назад

      @kevinwilmore3604 oh. Well that explains how Ms Crimson knows all about them living in the projects of Chicago.

  • @charlesdci7120
    @charlesdci7120 Год назад +61

    What's sad is that providing that lifestyle doesn't guarantee her happiness in the long term.

    • @Hohohox
      @Hohohox Год назад +3

      Not at all . They will turn the instant and new toy shows up

    • @armonshakur_VMGmultimediaEnt.
      @armonshakur_VMGmultimediaEnt. Год назад

      But they don't even CARE about all that chyt bro truth be told, it's th3 MONEY that makes them HAPPY on God, >>>not we Men.
      What tf they care about MOST is >>>>getting a Man/Men to SIGN THAT PIECE OF PAPER aka that CONTRACT >>that turns him into HER perpetual (SLAVE)>> assigned by the by the USA Government & CRIMINAL FAMILY COURT SYSTEM facts!
      She doesn't NEED you for her happiness, contentment. She'd be even MORE happy If she can FLEECE the Man of ALL his RESOURCES, put him on MONTHLY ALIMONY, CHILD SUPPORT and take the Big House, the Cars, the damn dog and anything else she even thinks the Man has or holding out on her on facts.
      Again, women do NOT WANT MEN, Love, affection, romance etc bkz if they did they WOULDN'T SHAME MEN for not making 6 figures ($250k to 650k+) when the median income salary for the average AmeriKKKan man regardless of his race is only 45k to 50k
      They want REGULAR, normal American Men to make ONE HUNDRED X'z the amount of the average median income which Is IMPOSSIBLE for EVERY MAN to do, or be doing number wise as far salary take annually.
      There's ONLY 1 to 10% of MEN OR WOMEN including THEMSELVES who even make that kind of $$$$! So it's very STUPID & FOOLISH of them to even THINK they can have that on average!
      But as we know, MOST fefails are like CHILDREN. Supremely IMMATURE. Have TEMPER TANTRUMS when they can't get their way etc. And then try to PUT YOU IN THE POOR HOUSE if you don't jump threw her hoops & hurdles daily bkz she is no longer HAPPY In the marriage.
      Marriage for we Men Black or White & other is a LOSING, LOSE LOSE proposition. What these women want ONLY BENEFITS them not we Men facts on God.
      But don't you EVER in life think these funkee twat bihs CARE about you, your feelings, your emotions, your Spirit, & your well being bkz they don't & never really truly have. They just had no other CHOICE back then, back In the days etc facts.
      Also there WASN'T no got damned such thing as "NO FAULT DIVORCE" I.e a LAW that allows women to DESTROY we MEN, OUR FAMILY, & children's lives etc just bkz they gotta attitude that day, or their not having FUN in the marriage anymore smdh.
      If there was still NO FAULT DIVORCE and AmeriKKKan fefails couldn't just economical gRAPE him as they are allowed to do now we wouldn't be having this conversation. There wouldn't even be any Feminism none of that chyt bkz there are REPRECUSSION, & >CONSEQUENCES to pay facts on God.
      But now, in modern day USA they have given Women the unfair right to DICTATE & CONTROL we Men's lives. Even when we're NOT even married to them anymore & have moved on.
      They STILL make the Man pay & BREAK HIMSELF whilst meanwhile she'd fkin some LOSER BUM for the FREEEEEEEE!! Bkz she actually likes him.

    • @mangosrepent1817
      @mangosrepent1817 Год назад +2

      @@Hohohox let them

    • @1968dogg
      @1968dogg Год назад +3

      Some people: the more they have the faster they divorce..............

    • @amirjahleelbaniephraim4435
      @amirjahleelbaniephraim4435 Год назад +1

      Ñor does it guarantee that she will stay or be faithful.

  • @LILBLUELOEC
    @LILBLUELOEC Год назад +23

    This is exactly y us men need to stop making relationships and marriage so easy for women. We r the gatekeepers of relationships and marriage. We need to make these women EARN our commitment not jus given to them to freely. Even if they try to give u an altamatum stand strong on your manly principles and morals. Human beings only appreciate what they earn not given 💯

  • @adamjayson2007
    @adamjayson2007 Год назад +14

    This is why I support the bro movement 💯

  • @KQH8
    @KQH8 Год назад +11

    First things first, no man on his purpose cares about what a woman wants, secondly the extreme expectations comes from women knowing that no man wants them, so they create these extreme expectations as an excuse to why no man is courting them, it gives off the vibe of them having value, when they really dont.

  • @originaleverythingelseisca5977
    @originaleverythingelseisca5977 Год назад +4

    I agree with alot of what ur saying. But my thing is black men are constantly saying there are soo many more women then men. So all these extra women out here in the black community and they can't find 1? That baffles me. I know some of our women are off the chain, but I do believe some of our men don't like to commit to

  • @marsjohnston7117
    @marsjohnston7117 Год назад +17

    Thank you, Kendra, for mentioning the scourge of reality TV's impact on unrealistic expectations of modern women. What those shows hide is the fact that the networks that design the contracts for their "stars" are typically the true providers of those extravagant lifestyles. In order to keep up their expensive appearances, those actors are obligated to portray themselves as toxic for the viewing public. 🧐
    Real relationships require endless work from each party; no one wants to take care of a capable grown adult who consciously reverts to a childish mindset. 💯

  • @stevejb8770
    @stevejb8770 Год назад +13

    Thats why I married a woman with family and traditional values. Had to start dating outside of BW. Got tired of the games BW played. Married a Latina.
    We both work, have 2 children , a house. Its a team effort on chores and kids. Marriage is a partnership. But women of today want it to be 1-way,
    All About Them! They don't want to do anything, think all they gotta do is just spread their legs......

    • @industryexposedofficial
      @industryexposedofficial Год назад +1

      Yep latina or white is the best choice or way to go ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

    • @stevejb8770
      @stevejb8770 Год назад +3

      @@shayemoore I'm very much happy baby girl. Been together 11yrs. I encourage more brothers to do the same. BM need to stop wasting their time and talents with BW who don't appreciate them. And take their talents to south beach like Lebron!

    • @xunknown6073
      @xunknown6073 Год назад

      Nomsayin. You're are smart man.

    • @MX778
      @MX778 Год назад

      @@stevejb8770 shouldn't waste your energy on *any* woman that don't appreciate you regardless of "race" but I get your point. Very happy for you sonn

  • @coldactions2865
    @coldactions2865 Год назад +14

    Its fine, she's going to get her Brittany Renner wake up call. In just due time.

  • @israelhurd3043
    @israelhurd3043 Год назад +10

    Remember the movie "species "? Where an alien appeared as a WHT woman seeking a human to mate with. She rejected a male prospect due to some illness that he had. So it's even in our lexicon

    • @tonyjones1560
      @tonyjones1560 Год назад +1

      🎯🎯🎯🎯 So happens that I was in college with a guy that was living with muscular dystrophy. He was wheelchair bound by the time he reached middle school and needed help doing the most basic physical tasks by the time he reached high school. He simply couldn’t get a girlfriend. In his senior year, his friends decided to take him downtown and “hire” him one for the night. Even though they were clear about the severity of his condition, the first two pros backed out at the sight of him. The third…completed the mission, but they had to pay her extra.

    • @kush7138
      @kush7138 Год назад +1

      @@tonyjones1560 this is depressing asf dude

    • @tonyjones1560
      @tonyjones1560 Год назад

      @@kush7138 Dude was a superhero. If he ever went into “Woe is me” mode, he didn’t do it in front of us. He’s one of the people I remember whenever I want to b*tch about circumstances…

  • @TheEzwider88
    @TheEzwider88 Год назад +11

    When the books actually become available I will probably buy a few

    • @druth5134
      @druth5134 Год назад

      petty
      1. making things, events, or actions normal people dismiss as trivial or insignificant into excuses to be upset, uncooperative, childish, or stubborn.
      2. A person who habitually overreacts.
      3. A person who is purposefully childish with the intent of illiciting a reaction (sometimes funny).
      4. An immature over reaction in retaliation of an undesired outcome

    • @TheEzwider88
      @TheEzwider88 Год назад +3

      @@druth5134 yep 👍! You are very 'petty' by definition. This lady talks about holding black women accountable everyday. There's nothing petty about what I said. I was sincere and genuine. Something you probably know nothing about.

  • @maninthehills7134
    @maninthehills7134 Год назад +7

    Any woman who has had a 304 phase deserves the median income at best. More likely, she deserves to remain alone with her career, wine and cats.

  • @CTeale1
    @CTeale1 Год назад +1

    You covered it!
    As usual.

  • @antoniolondon5878
    @antoniolondon5878 Год назад +25

    To keep it simple, is to keep it transactional!…”Here’s the dough💴, now do yo thang heau”!

  • @antwonanderson1489
    @antwonanderson1489 Год назад +4

    You're shining very bright in that blue today MISSES KENDRA 💙

  • @DJDeeZDee
    @DJDeeZDee Год назад +5

    Praise the Lord CC and good day and once again as usual you are on point with everything that you are saying. I just want to add this is why people black people in general black women in particular are so messed up, they are watching all this stuff on television and a lot of things on social media, what they don't realize is TV is not real and a lot of the personalities on social media is not real a lot of these people are portraying personas first of all. Secondly addressing these reality TV shows the women are mostly the ones that watch that men don't watch that crap and this is where a lot of the delusion like you say comes from. Thanks for addressing this issue and many others.

  • @ayejay2the
    @ayejay2the Год назад +8

    I think the perceived difference in wages plays a part. They are making X and assume that a man must be making a lot more due to the “wage gap”.

    • @booneboone9705
      @booneboone9705 Год назад +3

      They don't even make that type of money. They're just spoiled women who never worked a day in their life.

    • @tshaolin971
      @tshaolin971 Год назад

      It’s rather the other way around, they complain about the wage gap then once they are equal, they complain again because men don’t make more to become their mate and the insanity goes on and on.

    • @moncriefmiked8392
      @moncriefmiked8392 Год назад

      This is a no-simp zone

  • @TheJapan38
    @TheJapan38 Год назад +11

    I would add that part of these unrealistic expectations is these types of women don't actually want to get married. The high price to marry them is to make sure they never do get married so they can stay on the 304 train. That way when they get used up, they can blame men for not 'stepping up' and falling short.
    It's never their fault.

  • @YMBKing
    @YMBKing Год назад +4

    That’s I don’t date bw. Middle school girl that had a crush was dating me. She always had a attitude towards me for no reason. I broke up with her in the middle of the day. Her friends told me that she wrote everything about me even my birthday. I told her friends I wasn’t feeling that shit and they said she was crying to them about it.

  • @17thN.O
    @17thN.O Год назад +3

    Crimson Cure is speaking the truth.

  • @geralb4u355
    @geralb4u355 Год назад

    I just love this woman!!!! Kendra is a God sent.

  • @mrclay925
    @mrclay925 Год назад +2

    This is exactly why I don't pay for center cut, I pay her to "LEAVE"

  • @ronnrogers9459
    @ronnrogers9459 Год назад

    Well said my sister, u hit the nail right on the head expecially when you said about the reality shows

  • @Dweeble233
    @Dweeble233 Год назад +4

    I've dated white, Asian, as well as women from various places of the black diaspora. I ultimately chose a BW. I have never been happier. The good ones are there and there are quite a few. You must chose them by their CHARACTER however. Not the size of their chest or behind. Do better gents.

    • @nangaeboko6710
      @nangaeboko6710 Год назад +1

      Which gender determines who goes out on dates usually? I don't think it is the men.The only thing a man can do is express interest. Men approach women of different shapes and sizes.

  • @jazzberrylane2348
    @jazzberrylane2348 Год назад +4

    Fantasy is reality in the world today

  • @MoveInSilence2023
    @MoveInSilence2023 Год назад +3

    ❤️ Crimson Cure ❤️

    • @druth5134
      @druth5134 Год назад

      petty
      1. making things, events, or actions normal people dismiss as trivial or insignificant into excuses to be upset, uncooperative, childish, or stubborn.
      2. A person who habitually overreacts.
      3. A person who is purposefully childish with the intent of illiciting a reaction (sometimes funny).
      4. An immature over reaction in retaliation of an undesired outcome

  • @jamalhaleemtucker8425
    @jamalhaleemtucker8425 Год назад +3

    Why do we have to be predators just because we want better quality women?🤷🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️😂

  • @clofresh611
    @clofresh611 Год назад

    Ive only seen 2 comments posted by women on this topic...lol..very telling indeed.

  • @DiscoCitizens240
    @DiscoCitizens240 Год назад

    Look up the Tocqueville paradox. It’s about when the standard improves, isms arise

  • @anthonyjacksonjr4812
    @anthonyjacksonjr4812 Год назад

    Vital information, Ms. Kendra. 🌷

  • @sethrolls6408
    @sethrolls6408 Год назад +3

    They don’t deserve because most of them have been ran through they have nothing to give that’s why you avoid .

  • @marcusdavenport1590
    @marcusdavenport1590 Год назад

    She's in shape, love the blue shirt, I kinda wish the turtle neck was different.
    I prefer nude lips though... maybe a small amount of color.
    Just glad it's not blue lips lol
    glad I found the channel though

  • @Amenrah63
    @Amenrah63 Год назад

    Another Great Session! ♥♥♥

  • @crook6218
    @crook6218 Год назад

    Another great breakdown, Kendra.

  • @JohnSmith-ds4df
    @JohnSmith-ds4df Год назад +2

    These women are done

    • @movingforward-fc4lg
      @movingforward-fc4lg Год назад

      They been done 😂that’s why when I go on dates I split the bill hell away with these women

  • @TheRealCompensator
    @TheRealCompensator Год назад

    6:30 such elegant civilized feminine little burp.

  • @serenajoy9060
    @serenajoy9060 Год назад +1

    Where are these women that don't want to work? I have never spoken to woman who expects a man to take care of her in my life.

  • @enigmathegrayman2953
    @enigmathegrayman2953 Год назад +3

    🎶The b*** type I dislike, I'm rougher than a fist fight
    All chicks ain't sh**, ain't no such thing as Ms. Right🎶
    -BIG L was simply ahead of his time.

  • @montezz454x4
    @montezz454x4 Год назад

    Let the market crash and we need more layoffs.

  • @10towes
    @10towes Год назад +18

    America is a country of game n good vibes. There are many countries that would gladly welcome a lame that can install a ceiling fan n do cpr

  • @jujackmarketing
    @jujackmarketing Год назад +2

    The reality has finally hit women; Men ARE the prize. Women can live a good life without a man around, but women's emotions of being "in charge" of a man at all times in a relationship or as a boss at work, is what's causing women's mental breakdown. It's only going to get worse. Men can rebound and go without a relationship. Women, not so much.

  • @sdothoward2743
    @sdothoward2743 Год назад

    So intelligent

  • @chiquitabonita3018
    @chiquitabonita3018 Год назад +1

    Thanks for the video with other ethnic groups having similar and unrealistic expectations. IT COMES FROM THE MAJORITY POPULATION. I have lived in Chicago several years and visited several BIG CITY environments and in general white women desire and seek this out all the time. For some reason, black women adopted it particularly those with DESIRABLE LOOKS and attributes. I don't see what the problem is. I make $50,000 a year and some guys didn't think that was enough money and wanted me to make $80,000. I had a B.S and men with higher education wanted me to get a Master's and I did, FOR MYSELF #1, but we can catch it too. Perhaps not as much. I just DO ME now. Whom ever likes this pkg gets it if I feel the same way. JS

  • @xiomaraortiz3571
    @xiomaraortiz3571 Год назад +2

    Women marry men to get what things they want from him. Women marry men to keep what they have for themselves.

  • @clofresh611
    @clofresh611 Год назад

    "She sat up there and said $600k like it was $2"! lmfao...that had me rollin!

  • @frankjames6232
    @frankjames6232 Год назад +1

    But for the most part like I said most women don't respect money. But want a lifestyle that they didn't even contribute into having.

  • @VR-gs9hd
    @VR-gs9hd Год назад +3

    Imagine a modern self-indulgent world where people pray to God for the wealth, prestige and legacy Jesus aggressively rejected when He was tempted with them.
    This after the narrow path to enlightenment and satisfaction was clearly marked with gratitude and self-sacrifice.
    The camera being invented granted no excuse for people to embrace self-importance.

  • @fatimaamani8090
    @fatimaamani8090 Год назад +1

    you are a lovely logical lady. you talk like a real lady, which makes you look more beautiful . i am a man that came to this country 30 years ago. i was not born here. it is a fact that single mothers ruined black community. single mothers are raising young boys and young ladies to be street tugs, with no discipline, no values, no characters, no hope and no respect for anything. it is bad. black communities in the fifties and sixties were stronger, cleaners , well dressed and well discipline. i saw that in old videos of that era. now, it is different. black community needs structure. black community needs Men leadership. the man is missing. he is missing because most likely he is in jail or consumed by drugs. all this happened because majority black men were raised by a single mother, with no father figure.

    • @ak5659
      @ak5659 Год назад +1

      There're also men who are fairly successful but they've checked out and left because nobody was interested in them or anything they had to say.

  • @sherwoodla6535
    @sherwoodla6535 Год назад +1

    Even successful Lesbian BW prefer to marry WM....Wanda Sykes, Robin Roberts, etc.

  • @noah-calderon
    @noah-calderon Год назад +1

    She didn’t pull that figure out of nowhere, women copy and parrot each other

  • @purejoy1985
    @purejoy1985 Год назад

    How could a person say they love someone, identify as married to them, want everything equal but still want the finances one sided? Most guys wants us to be happy and will do (what their finances allows) for us on their own. They have that superhero spirit built in and only needs love and support to active it. Once it does the trips and things will come (within his ability). But to demand/expect him to give beyond his means is cruel. Its better to just wait on him and let him give as he can, when he can without force. But we should contribute too unless he decides he wants/able to be the provider over the relationship.

  • @dukewilliam3660
    @dukewilliam3660 Год назад

    Let them keep wishing that their Prince is waiting for them until the wall comes knocking.

  • @reemoe9374
    @reemoe9374 Год назад

    The video was nothing more than An exert of What KS was talking about for the past 2 years

  • @jasongold708
    @jasongold708 Год назад

    That potential physical problem isn't hampering Nick Cannon in any way. I was reminded yesterday that he has Lupus and either the women have overlooked or have forgotten. Money does change things.

  • @xmang8769
    @xmang8769 Год назад +1

    It’s fine to Aim High in Life But sometimes the Diamonds 💎 are in the Rough and Be Careful not to Overlook what’s in Your Vicinity 💯✌🏾 )A Fool and Their Money is Soon Divided If you aren’t Good at Math 🧮 You Having💰 soon Will Be Lost anyway

  • @lilmotown8109
    @lilmotown8109 Год назад +1

    The wanting that is kinda unrealistic but then the part where they think they can control a man making that much and have any say is delusional

  • @tonyjones1560
    @tonyjones1560 Год назад

    These are the exact same types of women that used to laugh at me because I like pro wrestling. At least I know I’m looking at a show…

  • @sahrashukri93
    @sahrashukri93 Год назад

    LOL @ your impression of those women

  • @maxxastro
    @maxxastro Год назад +1

    I thought you were supposed to say I don't need man.

  • @CharlieBIV
    @CharlieBIV Год назад

    Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen 💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @davidsandridge4884
    @davidsandridge4884 Год назад +1

    Dear Lord help us please, these women got to learn to appreciate their average brethren. Making 55 to 62 a year is a beautiful thing when there is a shortage of available men. Most of these women will either be sharing a man or single.

  • @jamie4622
    @jamie4622 9 месяцев назад

    Real Talk . Women who want these types of lifestyles are called Gold diggers. Once you here them putting a price tag on everything you better run. They are not good . If you loose your job ,or get laid off, you're OUT 😮

  • @alextrebek5237
    @alextrebek5237 Год назад +11

    women globally require husbands to pay the majority, if not all, the bills. the difference is that women overseas give submission in return, with cultural values that support families. don't let them gaslight you gents

    • @keldel4363
      @keldel4363 Год назад +2

      nonsense

    • @sethrolls6408
      @sethrolls6408 Год назад +1

      100 brother right on the money this is why I chose an Asian women there traditional family oriented submissive women

  • @cpthetrucker9067
    @cpthetrucker9067 Год назад

    Feminism + watching one too many Soap Operas/WFs Rom-Coms.

  • @MRSZ5440
    @MRSZ5440 Год назад

    It seems to me that all therapists, matchmakers date sites should guild these women to the department of Labor statistics so they can see what is available to them according to where they live for example if you live in Phillidapha how many men in that State makes $100.000.00 and in what category (profession)etc. If you live in the projects how do you think you can even get to him?

  • @MoeFro78
    @MoeFro78 Год назад

    There's just no hope for em. That 650k woman's video is famous. I saw that a month ago and knew she'd make it to the top. Yet she doesn't look like she has $6 in her account!

  • @jonathankabasele985
    @jonathankabasele985 Год назад

    Your money is my money, my money is mine. 😮

  • @davidsandridge4884
    @davidsandridge4884 Год назад

    They did a segment on these six BMs having 87 kids with 50 women. It amazes me that women will share men of literally no means with other women. Meanwhile you have regular guys trying to have one lady to hang out with.

  • @chrisartis6251
    @chrisartis6251 Год назад

    1 word; totally, delusional! (Oops, that's 2 words). It still describes these women.....

  • @beaboutpeaceandpleasure9230
    @beaboutpeaceandpleasure9230 Год назад

    5:44 until you struggle for air

  • @AbronHawkins
    @AbronHawkins 5 месяцев назад

    These modern women are a public service announcement for the passport bros

  • @victormuhammad2678
    @victormuhammad2678 Год назад

    In the past 10 years I’ve only met 7 women I personally know that make $200-$1M and they didn’t make it every year. That is not many in 10 years and 4 of them are married and 2 of them have husbands that make more than them but they are happy being wives.

  • @robertdunbar9300
    @robertdunbar9300 Год назад +1

    Feminism is great in a first world country. Life is great, wonderful, so I have plenty of time to be stupid and delusional

  • @RobertoTheOriginalManFromTheA
    @RobertoTheOriginalManFromTheA Год назад

    Again i say about BW..today...Those new edition days are long gone...Relationship wise..

  • @anthonybates7307
    @anthonybates7307 Год назад

    The one who talking about $650,000, should know, they will have to bring something to the table. Glad this Nerd got rejected.

  • @justincase4474
    @justincase4474 Год назад +1

    Bro women are really children.crazy. Part is they think its normal

    • @movingforward-fc4lg
      @movingforward-fc4lg Год назад +1

      They need to start up a daycare for American women who act like children 😂

  • @MrT-nh6di
    @MrT-nh6di Год назад

    Modern women says a man has to make 650k a year Damn, R.I.P Kevin Samuel's you can't make this Shi% up. He wasn't lying, these chicks can kick rocks forever.

  • @NBO440
    @NBO440 Год назад +1

    In my Apartment building if an Afro-American man is disabled or sick in any way the woman that will care for his needs most times will be a European American Woman. Afro-American women wants the whole man not willing to miss anything. Afro-American women most don't have a live in man and most of their boyfriend's have their own home an prefer to live separately an sometimes she rather live separately an both sometimes want the freedom to move around to others. Now I am speaking of older women and men 40 years old an up. Myself I have better conversations here with European American women because they enjoy regular and creative conversations and if I shot my interest at her and it's not a go she doesn't turn masculine she stays feminine not abrasive acting as if she's a valuable Gucci bag that cost a lot to have. Afro-American women won't spend any effort or waste her time even dancing with a man in a club if she doesn't see a physical attraction, an if he isn't to her she's looking for money, favors, and resources not a hook-up-culture and when she finds out he's with a paycheck she may give him pity love with a great ending as the men she admirers but to string him along no blowing his socks off all the time only when it's a self-need of something for her type of love but she wants that man to pander her exclusively for her attention. There probably are a few Afro-American women out there that's not of this nature but I have yet to find.