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  • @saga685
    @saga685 3 месяца назад +71

    It's funny, when she makes videos about men's issues they're full of sympathy for men and animosity towards women, but when she makes videos about women's issues they're full of sympathy for men and animosity towards women

    • @joeyrufo
      @joeyrufo 3 месяца назад +3

      I contend that you're seeing things! I know you're not gonna listen to me on this and you're gonna think that the fact I didn't see "animosity toward women" in this video makes me "part of the problem" or whatever, but, look, I could be convinced! But it's very vague to say it's "full of [...] animosity toward women." I usually want to hear more specific criticisms!

    • @esbenm6544
      @esbenm6544 3 месяца назад +1

      @@joeyrufo cope

    • @joeyrufo
      @joeyrufo 3 месяца назад +5

      @@esbenm6544 great argument! 👏👏👏

    • @user-xp3hf2iw2h
      @user-xp3hf2iw2h 3 месяца назад +2

      What animosity towards women did you see in this video? I swear you all watched a different video or are trying very hard to make her into the strawman of her you have in your minds. I’m not even a fan of Shoe anymore but this video was just lighthearted and goofy.

    • @kerseyHarding
      @kerseyHarding 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@user-xp3hf2iw2h It has a jovial tone, but the content of the video is basically a screed about how women have made dating impossible because they don't know what they want and have too much power. They'd be much happier if they were at home with kids. She basically took every statistic at face value and in the least charitable way possible. For instance, that survey that said 30 something percent of men have never approached women, what age range was that 30%? What context was that disclosure? Dating has changed in the past 10 years. It is perfectly reasonable to assume that people prefer approaching people through texting or email for many reasons. Some people are sensitive and can't handle in-person rejection. Some people are very awkward, especially when they're around someone they are attracted to. The fact that Shoe hides context for her statements demonstrates that she has no idea what she's talking about at best. At worst she is giving men horrible dating advice that will make it harder for them to date and when they get mad that they can't date she tells them it's women's fault. If you've talked to women about dating, the reality is much different than how she makes it out to be.

  • @rambofan334
    @rambofan334 3 месяца назад +132

    Her channel name is clickbait. Not once have I seen a shoe on her head.

    • @leparfumdugrosboss4216
      @leparfumdugrosboss4216 3 месяца назад +8

      The top of her head is not in the frame thought. So who knows? 🤔

    • @sigmascrub
      @sigmascrub 3 месяца назад +4

      Wasn't that her pfp for a while, tho?

    • @Gaw2002
      @Gaw2002 3 месяца назад +1

      This is one of my favorite comments I've seen

    • @Lauren-zg9zo
      @Lauren-zg9zo 3 месяца назад

      😂😂😂

    • @kittenrants
      @kittenrants 3 месяца назад +1

      There is actually a clip or two with her having a shoe on her head 😂

  • @nanopanda
    @nanopanda 3 месяца назад +47

    "Ladies if you're looking for a man come to (my) fanbase!"
    Even SHE wouldn't date a fan.

    • @ArcAngle1117
      @ArcAngle1117 3 месяца назад

      That's funny because she was sexting with an open Neo Nazi like three years ago lol

  • @em.415
    @em.415 3 месяца назад +82

    The silly antidepressant argument is common among incels. But correlation is not causation. Higher antidepressant use in women does not mean it’s a result of them being single, or even that being single equates to loneliness. It could just mean women are better at seeking treatment for mental health issues. Women also deal with hormonal issues like PMDD or PCOS which effects our moods, and antidepressants can help. I’m single and childfree by choice because it’s expensive and I like my freedom.

    • @DeagleGamesTV
      @DeagleGamesTV 3 месяца назад +2

      Opinion invalid because woman.

    • @FrozEnbyWolf150
      @FrozEnbyWolf150 3 месяца назад +15

      Their attitude also harms men by stigmatizing mental health treatment. A lot of those men are likely struggling with mental health issues, and could benefit from therapy and treatment, but that's not the "manly" thing to do. You're supposed to stomp down your feelings like an alpha male, and only ever show anger.

    • @devforfun5618
      @devforfun5618 3 месяца назад +3

      women really just used different drugs in the past, like cocaine

    • @smolmoru
      @smolmoru 3 месяца назад +6

      the hormonal change things is for sure one thing most men and even some women don't get and are unwilling to understand.
      if my sister wouldn't be currently on period suppressants due to her endometriosis every time she enters PMS, she'd just get hit by a wave of anxiety and depression.
      I don't ID as a woman, but born fem. ironically also an endometriosis case. before I started to suppress my period with gestagen pills due to dysphoria(and I'm genderless, so no T for me) during PMS I also had a massive nosedive in self-esteem combined with heightened aggression.
      my sister more than me had and sometimes still has to deal with people not taking her serious. like I just had *male* coworkers tell me I exaggerate when the endometriosis tried to kill me, but my sister was called a drama queen as a teen when once a month her mild depression got way worse. like it's fucked up that the older sibling has to step in and take the role of the caring and supportive parent, because the real ones don't take it serious.
      I know I'm ranting a bit, but man. I wish these things would be taken more serious.
      btw I think it should be more common for people regardless of gender to actively think about if they are capable to care for a child. not just financially, but if they can actually invest themselves emotionally enough to raise a kid.
      I know for certain I can't and even if I had the desire, I wouldn't pursuit it. that kid would just end up with severe emotional neglect, because next to being rather touch averse I also have an almost nonexistent desire for affection of any kind and I can't fake affection nor do I want to. guess that's just being an aroace who's also aplatonic.
      I mean I said I took the support role for my little sister, but that was mainly just being there to listen, give advise and words of affirmation. maybe I was more like her personal unlicensed therapist.

    • @em.415
      @em.415 3 месяца назад +1

      @@DeagleGamesTV 😂

  • @trashpanda3837
    @trashpanda3837 3 месяца назад +29

    She cannot help herself with the misogyny. It's so ingrained in her personhood she cannot stop hating women if she tried.

    • @user-xp3hf2iw2h
      @user-xp3hf2iw2h 3 месяца назад +3

      There was no misogyny in this video lol

  • @user-th7cw4dl3o
    @user-th7cw4dl3o 3 месяца назад +12

    "we need to go back to the 50s"
    reads article about how women in the 50s couldn't find men either lmao
    It's as if what she's talking about is all made up.

  • @ladyvanda
    @ladyvanda 3 месяца назад +78

    I fell for the “women should compliment men more often” line when I was ~18-20 y.o. But I had to learn the hard way why it’s a terrible idea. To a lot of guys, “I like your shirt” meant the contract to fuck was already signed. Not all of them… but enough to make it a terrible idea. The wrath of a man who thinks you broke the fuck contract with no adequate justification can be bottomless.

    • @heathmcrigsby
      @heathmcrigsby 3 месяца назад +3

      Thank you for proving her point.

    • @chilljelloton2089
      @chilljelloton2089 3 месяца назад +17

      @@heathmcrigsbyhow? all they did was point out how she was wrong..

    • @hinasakukimi
      @hinasakukimi 3 месяца назад +8

      yeah that's the thing. some guys get REAL fucking weird and stalkery.

    • @ladyvanda
      @ladyvanda 3 месяца назад +5

      @@heathmcrigsby good luck to you and all involved

  • @pennygirl015
    @pennygirl015 3 месяца назад +75

    I hate this idea that women need men to function happily. I've seen plenty of happy women go into marriages or dating life and get depressed even when their partner isn't abusive. There's a reason why you only see people on the right and incels peddle this idea. They dont want women to think for themselves.

    • @chinchilla0708
      @chinchilla0708 3 месяца назад +6

      Same goes for men. Every woman obsessed incel i know is incredibly sad, they really need some self care

    • @Rage-_-Quit
      @Rage-_-Quit 2 месяца назад

      I hate the idea of having to breathe air, imagine how awesome diving would be without the need for air tanks. Yet here we are.

    • @pennygirl015
      @pennygirl015 Месяц назад +2

      @@Rage-_-Quit False equivalency.

  • @kaygratv
    @kaygratv 3 месяца назад +16

    Yeah, bosses don't like you being friends with colleagues, let alone romantic or sexual partners. This is especially true in the service industry.

  • @crystalhazer7246
    @crystalhazer7246 3 месяца назад +16

    I waited till my early 30s to get married and I recently had my first child. I spent over a decade being myself and figuring out what I NEEDed (such as someone who isn't anxious so that my anxiety is more manageable) from a life partner because what I wanted wasn't enough to have the happiest relationship.
    Trial and error happens to us all, and it is important to finding the right person for each of us as individuals.

  • @inkypunk
    @inkypunk 3 месяца назад +50

    Everything Shoe is complaining about is not a female loneliness epidemic, IT'S CAPITALISM AND A LACK OF THIRD SPACES.
    It's really hard to hang out and meet people in places for free these days. Activities cost money, going for coffee costs money, club memberships cost money and it's more expensive than it used to be. Community centres, village halls, libraries, and green spaces are underfunded, neglected, and often at threat of being sold off and built on if the local community doesn't fight tooth and nail to keep them (and they can still lose them anyway). How many of us have houses big enough to host parties in? Can you walk to your friends' places or do you have to drive or take public transport? Do you have the time and energy between shifts? A lot of these things are getting harder and harder.
    The male loneliness epidemic is arguably worse because so many men rely on their partners exclusively for emotional support (and dating is getting harder for the aforementioned reasons) and believe they are hard wired not to talk to their bros about difficult stuff. They believe men only want to engage in activities like sports where you shit talk each other and never mention your problems. This isn't true, there are plenty of men who can be emotionally open and supportive (case in point: Jake!) but a lot of people are really resistant to the idea and really I don't blame them, it's rough out there.
    We need to find our communities again, that's the answer.

    • @matthewcaldwell8100
      @matthewcaldwell8100 3 месяца назад +2

      Well said. It's not a gender divide. It's despair. And while I think it has more to do what happens when societies start to collapse than capitalism's inherent flaws, I agree with you that it is definitely the driver.

    • @ButteredToits-
      @ButteredToits- 3 месяца назад

      its like she's a right-wing idiot or something

    • @user-th7cw4dl3o
      @user-th7cw4dl3o 3 месяца назад +4

      legit can't understand why the culture of "come hang at my place and we'll play playstation" died.

    • @pepelag7278
      @pepelag7278 3 месяца назад +2

      She does say it’s capitalism at one point though

    • @hinasakukimi
      @hinasakukimi 3 месяца назад +2

      @@pepelag7278 she is critical of capitalism but she can still be weird about it irt the whole tradwife thing

  • @klausd.6285
    @klausd.6285 3 месяца назад +18

    So, the same old tired arguement on. Let's attack single childless women who are that by choice and are happy because how dare they be happy. I'm not single but I am a childless woman, it is so annoying hearing this over and over again how I am going to regret it and blah blah blah. Even my own partner LIED to me when we got together on him never wanting kids and him later admiting he thought I would change my mind when I met the right person... I have known since I was a little girl that I NEVER wanted kids. Ever. Period. I don't want to carry a kid. I don't want to give birth to a kid. I don't want to lose what little sleep I get. I already have serious health issues. My partner, like every single one before him, NEVER does anything around the house and having kids won't change that. So, more work for me. I have anger issues. I love my free time. It wasn't until I hit 30 that my family stoped asking me when I was going to have kids. Same with my partners mom, though she never once asked him when he planned to have kids. And my younger brother of 2 years has never been asked when he was going to have kids.
    I can go on and on about the reasons for not having a child. I can't think of a single reason, outside of selfish reasons, for having a child. Not a single parent I know that had a kid, had one that wasn't selfish. Yet, I am someone how the selfish one. I don't think people know what that word means anymore. And of course most straight cis men suck. And I said MOST, not all. But those men literally think all they have to do is make money and that is it. They don't help around the home nor do they help with the kids. And a lot of women are realizing this, from older women talking about it and sharing their stories. That they are just saying, screw that, I would rather be single and childless than do all of that and earn money on top of that. It's just not worth it to women to get married and have kids at all. Men are the only ones who benifit from it. Married men live longer, while married women lives are shortened. Because they are literally working to death. Married women deal with more mental health issues than married men. Married women lose out more on money and time than married men.
    On top of that, there are a lot of women and MEN out there who don't want kids for the same reasons as me. Then the other reasons are that they can't afford kids. Or that they don't like how the government is being. The dangers of climate change. All the mass shootings that are happening in the USA. And many more reasons. But no, none of this is ever brought up by people like Shoe. Not to mention, why does no one ever talk about men who never want kids? Why is it only women? I mean, I know why, it's just annoying.
    Then there are the forums of women who HATE and REGRET having kids. Shoe and others like her never talk about that.

    • @ranbummerz729
      @ranbummerz729 3 месяца назад +5

      God you put exactly how I feel into words.

    • @ConsciusVeritasVids
      @ConsciusVeritasVids 3 месяца назад +1

      But your existence isn't validated unless you create crotch-goblins!
      👁👄👁

    • @cw9475
      @cw9475 3 месяца назад +3

      Are you me? Did I write this?
      That aside 😅 the "faking being childfree" thing is one (of many) reasons I don't bother with dating anymore and just stay single.
      Men will agree with you just to "say the right thing" then reveal their actual stance later in the hopes they can change your mind, like your mind is weak and easily changed despite being a lifelong childfree person (I have also known myself since i was eleven).
      It is a firm stance for me too, I have no interest in having kids in any way way whatsoever. Don't want any in my personal life at all.
      Another reason I stay single is bc I cannot deal with the extra work and baggage of a partner that doesn't clean up after themselves. As a clean freak it would drive me insane. Unfortunately it's difficult to screen for that, bc folks will be on their best behaviour for ages or hide it very well, before revealing they are actually a gross slob only after you have wasted a whole lot of time...

    • @pepelag7278
      @pepelag7278 3 месяца назад +2

      Where did she attack single childless women? You’re on the defense for no reason.

  • @tonbeor08
    @tonbeor08 3 месяца назад +23

    Okay so once I went out to a bar with my cousin, (this man was divorced I don't remember how long agonot relevant) at the bar I would strike up a conversation with either a pair of women or a group and just be casual about stuff and I would introduce him and he would say some nasty stuff like "you Wana see my hog" which is what Jake said and triggered this memory for me. I asked him "how were you ever married"

    • @tonbeor08
      @tonbeor08 3 месяца назад

      The answer to how this guy was married is religion, he as in this church that likes to set people up and kinda force them to stay together

    • @kakyointhemilfhunter4273
      @kakyointhemilfhunter4273 Месяц назад +1

      How do you just casually start convos with groups or pairs of women? People always talk like this just happens but ive never once had that experience when going out

    • @tonbeor08
      @tonbeor08 Месяц назад +2

      @@kakyointhemilfhunter4273 okay imagine that some random person approached you and they obviously wanted something from you like money or they look like they want a favor you are not going to be too receptive towards interacting with them. Similarly try to remove all thought of getting something from women because suprise they are people. And think what do people like? interesting stories and jokes or just give a compliment. Remember Women are just people and you know how to make friends with men do something similar with women just on their terms

    • @kakyointhemilfhunter4273
      @kakyointhemilfhunter4273 Месяц назад

      @@tonbeor08 Thats exactly what I do occasionally. What's up with people jumping to assuming anyone who ask how to have good social interactions is automatically a guy that think women as sexual conquest and nothing else...? Honestly didn't answer my question. This seems like advice for people who are already good at talking and not those who struggle or are naturally awkward

    • @tonbeor08
      @tonbeor08 Месяц назад +2

      @@kakyointhemilfhunter4273 just elaborated on my way of making friends and you got all emotional you can't get emotional I already feel like I'm wasting my time with you based on that response

  • @inventor4279
    @inventor4279 3 месяца назад +15

    You fix female (and male) loneliness by fixing the market, market sucks

  • @avenger1340
    @avenger1340 3 месяца назад +14

    I hate her editing. The snap zooms, the music stops that are like record scratches in a movie trailer to highlight a joke, all of it.

  • @rustkitty
    @rustkitty 3 месяца назад +12

    > advocates return to tradition
    > upset by the _fictional_ concept of femboy hooters
    > claims to be a liberal (at least she doesn't pretend to be a leftist any more)
    Excuse me what the fck?!

    • @user-xp3hf2iw2h
      @user-xp3hf2iw2h 3 месяца назад +2

      There’s no effing way you thought she was seriously upset at femboy hooters. That is called a joke.

    • @rustkitty
      @rustkitty 3 месяца назад +6

      @@user-xp3hf2iw2h Her tone was clearly disdainful rather than jokey. You can't just assume that everything too dumb to be taken seriously must be a joke, context cues exist.

    • @HobbiesGamesChillin
      @HobbiesGamesChillin 3 месяца назад

      @@user-xp3hf2iw2hadding context from her twitter she legit hates it

  • @mmolay
    @mmolay 3 месяца назад +28

    Shoe is literally Next Gen Mimzi Moon with all this misogyny and misandry, sheesh.

  • @starojunes
    @starojunes 3 месяца назад +4

    Just because a woman is single doesn't mean she's alone and or lonely. Women can have friendships and good relationships with their family or found family.

  • @hustle_simmons
    @hustle_simmons 3 месяца назад +8

    Shoe..Women want to be approached more by men they're interested in and in a way that's not weird and creepy.

  • @tythonianmachinima
    @tythonianmachinima 3 месяца назад +8

    I'm a woman who prefers to be alone. If I had kids or a husband I wouldn't have time for my art or hobbies - and then I WOULD be anxious and depressed. If I want companionship I just go find it, for as long as I want it.

  • @saraanderson8858
    @saraanderson8858 3 месяца назад +6

    I'm totally fine with the "red pill" right getting vasectomies. Any way we can pay them to get them?

  • @musicf3b
    @musicf3b 3 месяца назад +20

    She’s kind of like Joe Rogan. I think her opinions are heavily swayed by the last thing someone told her. Opinion-fluid

    • @matthewcaldwell8100
      @matthewcaldwell8100 3 месяца назад

      It's not a personality. She's just an idiot.

    • @user-xp3hf2iw2h
      @user-xp3hf2iw2h 3 месяца назад +2

      She has literally always had these opinions what Shoeonhead were you guys ever watching?

    • @matthewcaldwell8100
      @matthewcaldwell8100 3 месяца назад

      @@user-xp3hf2iw2h Correct. Her opinions have always been an incoherent pastiche of “pick-me” signaling, barely ironic nihilism, and chucklefuck stereotypes.

    • @user-xp3hf2iw2h
      @user-xp3hf2iw2h 3 месяца назад +2

      @@matthewcaldwell8100So where is the Joe Rogan part? The original comment makes no sense if you concede she has always been this way and does not change.

    • @matthewcaldwell8100
      @matthewcaldwell8100 3 месяца назад

      @@user-xp3hf2iw2h if your opinions are always incoherent and you switch between a few stale takes depending on whatever you think the social prompt is, you don’t ever really change. You never had a defined enough perspective to diverge from. She has the mind of a bathroom wall: just scattered nonsense flung lazily at a surface.

  • @trashpanda3837
    @trashpanda3837 3 месяца назад +9

    I'm never having kids and June can't make me nana nana boo boo the bloodline ends with me~

  • @cajunguy6502
    @cajunguy6502 3 месяца назад +13

    Dudes will say "friend zone" like it's a bad thing then get mad when they don't have any female friends.

    • @VErisot
      @VErisot 3 месяца назад +6

      Pretty hard for them to keep female friends when they keep “fuck zoning” them. I never start any friendships with men anymore after the amount of times I’ve mutually cultivated and nurtured a friendship with a man only for him to confess after some time and when turned down abandon me and never talk to me again… there never were a friendship they just pretended to want to be friends in order to get close to try and make a move. It’s despicable. I just don’t want to risk going through that again so I just never form friendships with men anymore. I really have a hard time trying to empathise with men who complain about being lonely after all these experiences…

    • @cajunguy6502
      @cajunguy6502 3 месяца назад +3

      @@VErisot it's not true loneliness for them, it's sour grapes over not being allowed to "conquer" you. They're not lonely, they just pining for the days when women were traded for goats and gold. You know, the *biblical* marriage. 😂

  • @BluhdRaven0nS
    @BluhdRaven0nS 3 месяца назад +18

    Blood0nHands new grift is going well.

  • @bleakautomaton4808
    @bleakautomaton4808 3 месяца назад +6

    Ah geez, is it gonna be "submit to your man's desire for booty" and "don't complain?" Because I've heard those. No joke, some early advice I got was "tell the guy you'll sleep with him after 3 dates" and I didn't feel comfortable with that personally. But that was early 2010s so who knows what the new advice is now. As of now I'm also being ghosted by a guy because I mentioned I have a cat. Oh well, I've been ghosted most of the times trying relationships so I've been used to it.
    Have a nice day! Hahaha nothing is fine and guys think you just want to leech on their wallets and are a waste of time if you don't put out.

  • @Spectra651
    @Spectra651 3 месяца назад +4

    "Women are lonely, so we need to harken back to dating advice from the 1950's!"
    So what you're saying is we need to Make America Date Again?

  • @wolfsraynefan
    @wolfsraynefan 3 месяца назад +15

    20:50 She's barely 7 minutes into her own video and went from talking about "Women Loneliness" to diving into how sad it is for men not being able to approach a random woman on the street.

  • @Conformist138
    @Conformist138 3 месяца назад +6

    I've been a fulltime professional dogwalker for 6 years. I may be a sample size of one, but my data is robust. If you get a dog and walk it as your way to get a man, then you will be a perfectly valid single lady who loves and walks her dog. Congratulations!

  • @smolmoru
    @smolmoru 3 месяца назад +8

    everything she said so far would be way less of an issue if allos wouldn't cling so hard to amatonormativity and the romantization of romantic love and sex as being the peak of happiness.
    as a repulsed/apothi aroace this is just infuriating.
    stop focusing so intensely on *only* dating and finding romantic love and start acknowledging your friends as more than just side characters.
    I cannot fathom that there are people who feel utterly lonely while having supportive friends. how can someone be so blindsided by amatonormative brainrot that they don't realize they're not alone, just momentarily single. this *need* to have a partner and the demonization of singlehood are reasons why so many people keep getting stuck in the mindset that only a romantic and sexual partnership will fill their void life with happiness and get them out of their misery.
    I've been there myself. sunk even deeper into this state of misery, because I perceived my inability to fall in love and feel sexual desire as me being broken. I had an immense fear of ending up alone, partnerless and unloved. all while I had friends around me trying to be supportive.
    I'm saying this because I wanna be clear that I'm not talking out of my ass. I'm not what's called a 'golden' aroace and this indoctrinated fear of loneliness and singlehood at some point had me far in the gutter that I almost ended my life over it.
    thing is because I'm aroace and no longer brainwashed by amatonormative expectations I'm detached enough to easily spot the flaws in the system.
    the biggest flaw being the incredible downgrade of friendships next to the glorification of romance and lying about it being so essential that w/o it life has no meaning. did I mention that it's hurting allos plenty as well?
    I've ranted enough.
    but hey, I managed to reach self-actuallization and true happiness by breaking out of the brainrot and I'm a very stubborn person who used to have serious issues with being open to change. if I can do that, others can do that too.

  • @DuskyPredator
    @DuskyPredator 3 месяца назад +6

    She makes me feel super uncomfortable that her criticism feel just made to blame feminism. Such that she is taking the old advice at face value and not really maybe figuring out there has always been problems.
    She is swiping at the comedy writer rather than figuring out that there has always been problems, and some weird ones based on how ridiculous the advice is. So maybe the reasons are not quite the losses from feminism, don't look backwards for an answer but have people of all genders act like humans.

  • @benoitbrown9400
    @benoitbrown9400 3 месяца назад +2

    I used to think I was sad that all my friends were getting married and such, then I grew up and realized the issue was I was tired of feeling like a third wheel and no amount of relationships with other people could fix my relationship with myself.

  • @Pensive_Scarlet
    @Pensive_Scarlet 3 месяца назад +5

    She may be using a different definition but, as far as I've experienced, approaching just refers to plainly talking to a person in order to get to know them better, with the prospect of a relationship in mind. Not flirting, just like, talking a little bit, asking if they're interested in talking more, etc. Usually involves getting a phone number or a social media link. It's a very reasonable and polite thing to do, not like PUA BS or other nonsense.

  • @andrewkoster6506
    @andrewkoster6506 3 месяца назад +4

    It definitely happens, but I don't know why. I've had people, almost always older men who I don't know, lean over and let me in on the secret that they find another random person attractive (usually in a very crude way).
    This must be the "locker room talk" that I've heard so much about. It's very weird.

  • @directAction3389
    @directAction3389 3 месяца назад +6

    Meanwhile the real is a lack of third places and basically everyone being constantly overworked due to capitalism. If folks had more organic ways to meet each other this wouldn't be such an issue. But then if its easier to socialize in a truly communal manner then it's also easier to organize. And our benevolent corporate overlords don't want that do they?

  • @JamieAlice92
    @JamieAlice92 3 месяца назад +6

    She hasn’t made an entertaining video since her last hellworld video, which I believe was around 2021

  • @fidel_ca5hflow
    @fidel_ca5hflow 3 месяца назад +3

    My wife approached me first at a club. I asked her out on the first date. Anything can work as long as you just talk to people and not be a total creep lol.

  • @facedownsober3691
    @facedownsober3691 3 месяца назад +4

    shoe is a grifter.... she always has kinda been a pick me... now that shes been picked she just has her husbands opinions. i will always check her channel out. but its kinda hard lately because she just seems to have her husbands opinions.

  • @zenbear9952
    @zenbear9952 3 месяца назад +30

    How to fight female loneliness. Immediately goes into dating. Hold up I thought we were just talking about loneliness? Should have said how to get a man. There is a solution to loneliness and it doesn't have to be, being with the opposite sex.

    • @zenbear9952
      @zenbear9952 3 месяца назад +10

      Loneliness is not the same as being single.

    • @The__Furry_One
      @The__Furry_One 3 месяца назад +5

      Yeah, this critique was poking the back of my head when watching her vid.

  • @KyLeon0130
    @KyLeon0130 3 месяца назад +4

    Poverty is the thing that unfairly kills relationships, and if you are not the accepted norm, then you are more likely to be systemically oppressed. Yet, for some reason, she has this natural instect to make the conversation about blaming everything, but conservatives. It doesn't even make sense to me, to say 80% of the correct things, but never want to blame the most obvious problem.

  • @jojorose1947
    @jojorose1947 3 месяца назад +2

    look you can date people at work, but specifically coming to the office and asking only the single men to taste your pie might be sexual harassment.

  • @Nolan1410
    @Nolan1410 3 месяца назад +9

    Why does she bastardize the Mario background music in her videos?

  • @andrewkoster6506
    @andrewkoster6506 3 месяца назад +5

    Yeah, back in the day people called Britney "fat" as an insult when she objectively wasn't, and now people call Lizzo pretty even though she's fat.
    Shoe sees this as some sort of hypocrisy, instead of the social progress that it obviously is.

    • @zenbear9952
      @zenbear9952 3 месяца назад

      That wasn't even the most f'd up part. She was underage when they were doing this insane sexualization of her. It was insane looking back about how messed up hollywood was to girls. You had like interviewers talk about wanting to smash her right to her underaged face. As a kid I had no idea this was going on. Thats why I believe everything those women said in the metoo movement. None of that fly would today

  • @n3r3sh77
    @n3r3sh77 3 месяца назад +4

    I never approach a woman. Every second, the distance between me and any given woman is either constant or increasing. In fact, I no longer share a solar system with my species.

  • @GoodStarfish
    @GoodStarfish 3 месяца назад +3

    No Shoe, It's "there's a lot going on and I'm not hopeful enough about it to take on the risk of having children" not
    "We're not having enough babies, and that's making things bad"
    People said this about China 20 years ago, and they're fine, likely better than they were 20 years ago

  • @hornpilepheonix6254
    @hornpilepheonix6254 3 месяца назад +3

    wait did shoe get married at some point? i stopped paying attention to her vids when she started posting manosphere stuff.

    • @HobbiesGamesChillin
      @HobbiesGamesChillin 3 месяца назад

      She married a far right catholic fascist a few months back

  • @hilliard665
    @hilliard665 3 месяца назад +5

    When I was younger I was super cringy and all I wanted was a relationship. I had a few over the years but since I turned 25 and had a bad relationship (who I helped with a drug addiction, broke up and have been best friends for 6+ years)
    I don't want a relationship, Im not lonely, I don't crave another human being like I did when I was a teenager, I just don't care for it. And the expectations? Not for me thanks, I'm self sufficient and self reliant, I rarely ask for help because if I can't do something by myself I usually just don't do it 😂

  • @oddjam
    @oddjam 3 месяца назад +2

    Shoe ending up doing the same kind of humor as the author without knowing is incredible

  • @MissAnn999
    @MissAnn999 3 месяца назад +3

    Shoe has never seemed like the brightest Crayola in the box. While all of us have blank spots on our slates that are influenced by the people we meet in our lives, she becomes a blank slate for everytime she is with a different man. A complete blank slate who lets his thoughts become hers.
    The horrors of single women! Some of us have remained unmarried and childless by choice. She blames hookup culture? Oh, please. The real hookup culture was back in the 70s, in the days of cocaine and disco. Far too many adults are virgins these days for hookup culture to be as prevalent as it was back then.
    She also misses something important. She is equating loneliness with being single. A partner cannot be everything in your life. You still need friends, that support network. And it is that lack of human-friendly connection that has been breaking down the last few years.
    And that list. Break down in strategic places? Great way to meet a serial killer. Or just sit for hours, waiting for someone to be willing to call AAA for you.

    • @pepelag7278
      @pepelag7278 3 месяца назад +4

      I don’t understand why people say this. Shoe has only dated, as far as we know, 2 people. And in that timeframe has been incredibly consistent with her opinions. Where does this idea that she changes with the men she dates come from? I have never seen it despite being a fan (then a hater) of hers for years. It just sounds like pure misogyny. She has been like this forever.

    • @user-xp3hf2iw2h
      @user-xp3hf2iw2h 3 месяца назад +2

      When has Shoe ever NOT been THIS?

  • @masterbruce7592
    @masterbruce7592 3 месяца назад +4

    Yeah man, what could "approach" mean in this context? omg you asked like 14 times and it was pretty frikkin clear the first time.

  • @StephenF.B.
    @StephenF.B. 3 месяца назад +2

    Getting married doesn't have to be expensive, my wife and I went the court route. We are in our 40s (me) and 50s (her) and just went to dinner afterwards with her kids. If we wanted to do a big shindig afterwards or eventually we can, though we're both introverts so no need.

  • @HotTakeAndy
    @HotTakeAndy 3 месяца назад +2

    I wish she’d update her style; open a damn window or something and get some natural light. She’s been stuck in 2009 forever.

  • @psychicbyinternet
    @psychicbyinternet Месяц назад +1

    I am so addicted to your Shoeonhead reacts. Help.

  • @joeyrufo
    @joeyrufo 3 месяца назад +2

    52:19 what makes you think she agrees with the misogyny! She basically prefaced the whole thing with the implication that it was all gonna be misogynistic! Do you really think she doesn't know there was more misogyny in the 50s? Does she need to spell it out every time? 🙄

  • @soapyshoes
    @soapyshoes 3 месяца назад +1

    God, she's letting that tea steep forever, jesus

  • @sophitiaofhyrule
    @sophitiaofhyrule Месяц назад +2

    Gotta love how Shoe starts fat-shaming out of nowhere even when the video has nothing to do with it -_-

  • @thrillhouse4151
    @thrillhouse4151 3 месяца назад +2

    One of the things I think contributes to the loneliness epidemic is a lack of dancing. Dancing, and the fact everyone’s on adderall and irritable as fuck cause of it. I’m so glad I got off it, damn I really want one…

  • @petrfedor1851
    @petrfedor1851 3 месяца назад +2

    "Lets look at datin advice from fifties." Karolina Żebrowska already did that what you even try to do here.

    • @mrspreminger
      @mrspreminger Месяц назад +1

      yes that video was so good!

  • @user-xp3hf2iw2h
    @user-xp3hf2iw2h 3 месяца назад +6

    It’s crazy how Shoe is more popular now than ever before. She blew up around 2016 then blew up again in 2023. People at my uni talk about her and share her videos. You’d think this schtick would die after 10 years and her “aging out” but it hasn’t in the slightest and she’s almost at 2 million subscribers.

  • @joeyrufo
    @joeyrufo 3 месяца назад +2

    31:50 oh my god are you seriously dragging her for the Trump clip when it's a completely accurate description of her audience base!? You're like a content cop! ACAB means content cops too, comrade!

  • @atrution
    @atrution 21 день назад

    Shoe0nHead is a Millenial(90-00s) meaning her parents were GenX(70-80s) and Grandparents were Boomers(50-60s)
    Your grandma may have loved your grandpa, but women in the US really needed to marry.
    It wasn't until 1974 in the US women were granted equal access to credit cards and other lines of credit. Before that women were not permitted to obtain a mortgage without a male cosigner.
    So ignoring how much the social pressures for marriage are still daunting and pervasive amongst many subgroups in the US to the point were it is still a common expectation.
    Many women who were Boomers would've at best been disadvantaged in having a chance at financial independence and at worst wouldn't have even been aware it was a possibility.
    Beyond that in 49/50 states(not Alaska) women pay approximately 2 percent more for housing compared to men and sell for 2 percent less, according to a Yale University study entitled “The Gender Gap in Housing Returns.”
    As if all the above were not enough, it took a 1986(Meritor Savings Bank v. Vinson) supreme court ruling to establish "that sexual harassment is a type of job discrimination and is considered a violation of Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964, which bans sex discrimination by employers."
    There are people in this country effecting current laws that were in their twenties and probably content with the system, before women got these rights. It is in no way surprising that for a few generations after marriage stopped being a financial necessity for women in the US that they want independence. Correlating that to loneliness is a huge mistake though.

  • @joeyrufo
    @joeyrufo 3 месяца назад +2

    41:20 gee, I don't know if people are weird about dating at work, but when's the last time you worked in an office? If you're responding to a video that makes claims, sometimes it helps to do research in advance so you can know which claims are true and which are bs! 🙃

  • @Andy-br1hq
    @Andy-br1hq 3 месяца назад +1

    She’s got that Greg cadence in her speaking style

  • @spoops_all_poops
    @spoops_all_poops 3 месяца назад +2

    It was all funny haha teehee until she started trying to give actual advice 😬💀

  • @OpticalArxenal
    @OpticalArxenal 15 дней назад

    Ngl I'm getting real sick of the term 'mid'. It's a slur, but it's MOST people. Some people are genetically blessed, don't have to do much other than restrict calories and apply make-up (which, admittedly, can take 5* hours), many other people don't care that much, and don't have time to hit the gym 3x a week when they can barely pay rent, or have unreasonable standards for appearance.

  • @EmeraldErrant
    @EmeraldErrant 3 месяца назад

    If you want to get married just wear your amulet of mara

  • @poigntless
    @poigntless 3 месяца назад

    water, water everywhere, and not a drop to drink

  • @rustkitty
    @rustkitty 3 месяца назад

    The disappointment from the bottom of my heart when she said "we are living in HR world" and then I had to realize she didn't mean HR Giger... 😔

  • @harshitrawat811
    @harshitrawat811 3 месяца назад

    Approach means going to talk to someone for the first time. Nobody told me this definition it was just obvious and then i checked and google says the same

  • @GoodStarfish
    @GoodStarfish 3 месяца назад

    🌽Jake Hit up the Radio Free Tote Bag guys, your prescriptions are on point

  • @natrixxvision6997
    @natrixxvision6997 3 месяца назад

    42:05 corporate jobs are where people cheat on their s/o.

  • @zacheryeckard3051
    @zacheryeckard3051 3 месяца назад +2

    The loneliness issue isn't just an incel talking point, Jake.

  • @cerealbox7872
    @cerealbox7872 3 месяца назад +1

    Booo! Put Just Pearly Things back on, the cooler pick-me.

  • @SpaceWampa
    @SpaceWampa 3 месяца назад

    The vocal fry reminds me of Gregory.
    CornMan wasn't wrong comparing the two in some of the History is a lie vids

  • @seraphonica
    @seraphonica 3 месяца назад

    Jake, think about the consequences of your recommendations! if young Republicans get vasectomies, think of how many SA kits will come back negative for DNA!

  • @natrixxvision6997
    @natrixxvision6997 3 месяца назад

    40:58 Her husband was a troll. Huh….almost reminds me of someone else. Don’t wanna name names.

  • @jasonfuller2734
    @jasonfuller2734 3 месяца назад

    She always has.

  • @blackleon1708
    @blackleon1708 3 месяца назад

    Well I don't speak that way about women, but know a lot of men personally who do. I'm 30 lvl russian, for comparasent sake
    That's about creepy man comments about women

  • @natrixxvision6997
    @natrixxvision6997 3 месяца назад

    28:39 clowns? Really? Are you not familiar with John Wayne Gacy?

  • @happyraver1958
    @happyraver1958 3 месяца назад +1

    I used to like shoe0nhead, I don't know what happened to her; watching you criticize her content is way more entertaining.

  • @_marlene
    @_marlene 3 месяца назад +2

    good check-in with oooole shoe. wow is she in video hamster treadmill mode.

  • @n0etic_f0x
    @n0etic_f0x 3 месяца назад +3

    Play TTRPGs with me. I may be gay but people enjoy me regardless of gender because I have this weird power to see a person and go "Hey... that is a person". I do not recommend looking to the past and locking your wife into just being into the kitchen or bedroom. That is bad but it is the way of the past June, don't be independent, hope your man allowed you to post this.
    I am so not lonely I have five boyfriends, not very trad-husband of me but I like disappointing my fathers both on earth and the one in heaven that is not real. Oh and a random wedding suggestion, make a house upgrade and have a small one. I had a fake wedding like this and it was super fun, we got a wedding cake but otherwise, it was just a party with 20 people where I got a new kitchen.

    • @joearnold6881
      @joearnold6881 3 месяца назад +3

      Hell yeah. I keep meaning to try out tabletop.
      I never had that kind of friend group but now I ought to seek one out

    • @n0etic_f0x
      @n0etic_f0x 3 месяца назад

      @@joearnold6881 it’s very fun, it can teach anyone to socialize.

  • @novakaizr
    @novakaizr 23 дня назад

    I disagree with Shoe on a lot of things but this video is incredibly dismissive. Male and female loneliness exists, and it can't all be boiled down to "patriarchy bad". I don't agree with all her solutions but the problem does exist, and it is not just cringy incels.
    You talk about how it is true you shouldn't approach women in x or y situation, but that depends entirely on what you put into the word "approach". If you mean going up to a woman and saying "Hey gurl u got a phat ass" then obviously don't do that, but if, like I see it, you view "approach" as starting a conversation with someone you find attractive, then I don't see the problem. I also think that is the common definition, which is why 27%, while a minority, is still a huge number of people who are not able to start conversations with people they are interested in. It speaks to a significant problem, unless you want to label 1/4 of the population as cringy incels

  • @joeyrufo
    @joeyrufo 3 месяца назад +2

    I don't know what your deal is, but whenever you react to shoe0nhead, your inner contrarian lib really comes out! I guess it's too high a bar for you to take any of her videos in good faith! Like, I feel like only shoe0nhead could make you embrace "choice feminism" like you did here! Very reassuring! 🙄🙄🙄

  • @celineoneida7077
    @celineoneida7077 3 месяца назад +1

    CORRECTION: single and childless women are happier _in their 20s_ and afterwards single and childless women 30+ rank as the most depressed group in all countries. Very curious.

  • @pepelag7278
    @pepelag7278 3 месяца назад +2

    ngl All of your videos about Shoe fall flat and just make you look like a stick in the mud in comparison.

  • @D4WADE
    @D4WADE 3 месяца назад +1

    Trans woman are not woman

    • @lolasdm6959
      @lolasdm6959 Месяц назад

      Look trans or not no women is going to fc you so it doesn’t matter why do you care