Single man who always wanted kids adopts teenager in foster care

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  • Опубликовано: 4 фев 2025
  • As a single man, Peter Mutabazi, didn't know if he could become a foster parent. When he found out he was eligible, he signed up right away. He always wanted to have a child, and he ended up adopting a teen out of foster care who needed a forever home.
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Комментарии • 6 тыс.

  • @MyKfactor
    @MyKfactor 4 года назад +5957

    I'm a single guy. Adopted a boy who was 13. Best thing ever.

    • @LemkeR
      @LemkeR 4 года назад +126

      Thank you Kevin. It will be the best decision you have ever made And you know that already.

    • @Catiting33
      @Catiting33 4 года назад +53

      God bless you!

    • @ElphabaThe2nd
      @ElphabaThe2nd 4 года назад +40

      Thank You for adding some awesomeness to this world 💖

    • @michael0o5
      @michael0o5 4 года назад +57

      Can I be mom? Im a dude too.

    • @BraxCinema
      @BraxCinema 4 года назад +23

      i have so much respect for you brother

  • @FarrukoR
    @FarrukoR 4 года назад +11287

    I'm a single male who lost my son 20 years ago. I was able to adopt an 8 month baby who is 15 now. Class President, honor Student and wonderful Christian girl who loves to help and lead the youth in life and basketball. Best decision I have ever made in my life. GOD IS GOOD.

    • @gamejunk1e
      @gamejunk1e 4 года назад +465

      Ay, sorry for your loss, but with tragedies come eventually happiness, someday.

    • @amethyst1267
      @amethyst1267 4 года назад +138

      I'm sorry for your loss ❤❤

    • @avim4896
      @avim4896 4 года назад +117

      Im sorry for your loss, but all I have to say is God took one gift from you and gave you another Gift.

    • @asmrgreen2455
      @asmrgreen2455 4 года назад +47

      god bless you💗

    • @sanadamad1371
      @sanadamad1371 4 года назад +32

      Bless you

  • @native2704
    @native2704 4 года назад +11319

    If the kid is comfortable enough to roast him you know he's aight.

    • @DOGMAFREE1
      @DOGMAFREE1 4 года назад +164

      Dont be Naive Son.. see what I did there?

    • @vocabularrygood9025
      @vocabularrygood9025 4 года назад +11

      Nice!

    • @GlitchedPepsi
      @GlitchedPepsi 4 года назад +14

      Alright*

    • @lesliecalvert3458
      @lesliecalvert3458 4 года назад +245

      You can see love between these men..who found each other...sometimes the families we choose are better then what we were given to start with :)

    • @andilemkhuma9286
      @andilemkhuma9286 4 года назад +94

      @Hamid Hussein that's dumb

  • @adrian6591
    @adrian6591 3 года назад +1061

    My father adopted me at 13 , thanks to him I got everything. I have a career and a house . My original father died when I was 6.nRest in piece sweet old man .

    • @norrylorry9249
      @norrylorry9249 3 года назад +11

      Adopt me 😔

    • @MOHAMMEDYOUSUFOFFICIAL
      @MOHAMMEDYOUSUFOFFICIAL 3 года назад +10

      Don't worry bro, we are always with u.

    • @ponypony1
      @ponypony1 3 года назад +11

      I want to adopt a child also

    • @chicbae8832
      @chicbae8832 11 месяцев назад +2

      How to get adopted

    • @That_Reikigirl_Sims
      @That_Reikigirl_Sims 6 месяцев назад

      Are you able to bond with him though ? Serious question. Do you think of him as your father ? Or does he remain that stranger who adopted you as his son ?

  • @vikumugisha1635
    @vikumugisha1635 4 года назад +3585

    The Father's name " Mutabazi" mean "rescuer " and indeed he rescued that young man form being fatherless.
    By the way the name is in Kinyarwanda😊

    • @freedomm
      @freedomm 4 года назад +9

      I thought it means "saviour"?

    • @Mikey-cc2ny
      @Mikey-cc2ny 4 года назад +21

      Isn't he a Muganda from Uganda?
      Then it would mean fearless traveller

    • @eugeniedushimimana132
      @eugeniedushimimana132 4 года назад +38

      Yes Viku. God bless this man and his son. I am from Rwanda. Thank you for translating his name to those who don't know it. Mutabazi Wow.

    • @FWB413
      @FWB413 4 года назад +7

      Waaa it’s a muganda name

    • @eugeniedushimimana132
      @eugeniedushimimana132 4 года назад +4

      @@FWB413 mutabazi in Luganda means what in English? May be they have the same meaning in Kinyarwanda.

  • @entvisual
    @entvisual 4 года назад +6821

    *WOW* this man is a real example of a real man! God bless his good soul! Amen!

  • @dumdum7099
    @dumdum7099 4 года назад +2624

    Orphaned kids don't ask for much really. They never do, they just want what we all fortunate people took for granted. A home.

    • @ahhwe-any7434
      @ahhwe-any7434 4 года назад +44

      I heard a "man" once, late in his 30s try to compare his "struggles" to other ppl who legitimately struggle... Complain about how his parents wont help pay his bills. That sounded so weird to me!!!

    • @dumdum7099
      @dumdum7099 4 года назад +63

      @@ahhwe-any7434 I think it's human to forget to count our blessings and be grateful. I won't minimize other people's struggle, because we all struggle differently. Even the most fortunate people have struggles, to live is to struggle. But some people are just spoiled and ungrateful.

    • @chesslivelife550mygames3
      @chesslivelife550mygames3 4 года назад +4

      @@ahhwe-any7434 every one have own problems and it's a life

    • @chesslivelife550mygames3
      @chesslivelife550mygames3 4 года назад +2

      @@ahhwe-any7434 I m also 30s but my parents afford my expenses and they have no issues
      Every parents and child different mindset and love

    • @veryadequateconsultation4952
      @veryadequateconsultation4952 4 года назад +13

      @@chesslivelife550mygames3 Have you ever asked them not to pay for your expenses? To allow yourself to be self-reliant & independent?

  • @kaginalauraarc4658
    @kaginalauraarc4658 3 года назад +525

    Mutabazi in my native language which is kinyaRwanda means the rescuer, you are a true rescuer Peter.

    • @bryan_che
      @bryan_che 3 года назад +14

      in my language it actually means the same, or warrior

    • @JuliannaTinker9
      @JuliannaTinker9 3 года назад +1

      @@bryan_che what's is your first language?

    • @beberodriguez4160
      @beberodriguez4160 2 года назад

      He needs to rescue his own tribesmen in Rwanda 🇷🇼... this story is a farce 🙄

    • @marigoldbeam5475
      @marigoldbeam5475 Год назад +8

      The power of a name. That's beautiful. Thank you for the translation. Peter is from Uganda(I am subscribed to his channel), so clearly the east African countries share language to some extent.

    • @Sene_-wf2py
      @Sene_-wf2py Год назад +6

      @@beberodriguez4160 what?

  • @petrmilota6398
    @petrmilota6398 4 года назад +6348

    there are men shouting "I am a MAN" and there are men just BEING true men

  • @Boshek2019
    @Boshek2019 3 года назад +2603

    For those who said the kid looked bored, it would be so fake if he was smiling and excited the whole time
    He looks touched, uninhibited, completely honest, and really moved to me, exactly the way I look when I’m at my happiest

    • @savblixky9797
      @savblixky9797 3 года назад +155

      exactly. perfect match with an extroverted and outspoken father.

    • @saraheart2804
      @saraheart2804 3 года назад +130

      I thought he was being respectful and listening.

    • @SuperZero1215
      @SuperZero1215 3 года назад +201

      He looked like a regular kid to me. At that age I doubt I'd be smiling for the camera either. That's usually something that younger kids do.

    • @nouha24
      @nouha24 3 года назад +96

      That's just how teenagers act. No big deal

    • @NovaDoll
      @NovaDoll 3 года назад +35

      Do people not have kids? Its clearly not fun sitting down...

  • @robbiespoonerdrummer
    @robbiespoonerdrummer 4 года назад +5121

    Positive Masculinity, a real man.

    • @absentminded7230
      @absentminded7230 4 года назад +66

      @aziz Sadat not really lol there’s the traditional notion of masculinity (as there is one for femininity) which we find toxic these days. And then there’s the redefined, positive masculinity.

    • @sessaly7197
      @sessaly7197 4 года назад +107

      @Thanos Sigil Noone says men must be feminine. They can be if they want to. Toxic masculinity is not the same thing as masculinity.

    • @432hzcentral9
      @432hzcentral9 4 года назад +2

      Love love love it!

    • @lawlaw295
      @lawlaw295 4 года назад +30

      Masculinity is naturally positive.

    • @sessaly7197
      @sessaly7197 4 года назад +85

      @@lawlaw295 That depends on our cultural definition of masculinity. If our concept of masculinity entails being homophobic, degrading femininity, and having no interest in developing emotional intelligence: Then no, masculinity isn't positive. But those things I listed are just a subset. Overall your right, masculinity is of course positive.

  • @AvitalShtap
    @AvitalShtap 3 года назад +297

    I love how chill the son is! They seem to really have a great connection and I am happy for them for finding each other as a family :)

  • @Seanonyoutube
    @Seanonyoutube 4 года назад +3591

    I’m a single guy and actually see some advantages to adopting an older kid...you can actually engage and have intelligent conversations...sounds better than changing diapers!

    • @vtec8000xrpm
      @vtec8000xrpm 4 года назад +5

      FFWD

    • @ericag5346
      @ericag5346 4 года назад +350

      I'm a single lady and am looking forward to adopting a child 12 years old or older. I've already gone to the orientation. It's scares me that so many children age out of the system. I'd rather adopt than have kids of my own and I'm really looking forward to the journey, God willing, when it happens!

    • @Seanonyoutube
      @Seanonyoutube 4 года назад +93

      @@ericag5346 that sounds wonderful, wishing you much success on your journey and I hope you find that lucky boy or girl to adopt soon.

    • @ericag5346
      @ericag5346 4 года назад +46

      @@Seanonyoutube thank you. And good luck to you as well if you ever decide that's something you want to do. Take care.

    • @maxthreshold
      @maxthreshold 4 года назад +12

      Raise them right, introduce them to Lynyrd Skynyrd

  • @cocoknows
    @cocoknows 4 года назад +1657

    As a former foster kid this warms my heart. I don't understand the people who downvoted this video.

    • @22lyric
      @22lyric 4 года назад +64

      Chloe, you probably don't understand because good, moral, caring, responsible people assume everyone is like them, and it's so disheartening when we see what some people are capable of. I sincerely hope you are having a good life! That any child has to go through any heartache, abuse, insecurity... God bless everyone who mentors/fosters/adopts a child. I just realized even though I'm way to old to adopt, maybe I can volunteer somewhere or take a family under my wing so to speak and help in some way. Darn this covid.

    • @22lyric
      @22lyric 4 года назад +22

      @Marie Marie Marie, thank heavens for your grandma, hope you're having a good life.

    • @ghenderson6717
      @ghenderson6717 4 года назад +26

      This video also made me cry happy tears. Love is the most important thing in our lives. This dad and this son are just an uplifting example of human kindness.

    • @mysticapajar2544
      @mysticapajar2544 4 года назад +12

      Dont mind them Miss Clohe,God knows the intent of the heart.

    • @louisramos4290
      @louisramos4290 4 года назад +6

      They, like us, do not know the feeling of being loved by someone who doesn't have to...

  • @moda78z
    @moda78z 4 года назад +2758

    That’s so nice. Older children are so difficult to place 💗

    • @Catiting33
      @Catiting33 4 года назад +65

      That's true, I visited an orphanage and met a 16yo kid. Very nice, polite, courteous, he had been there since 12yo. the sad thing is, he was still very hopeful.

    • @Catiting33
      @Catiting33 4 года назад +17

      @Keenan Thomas That's a good perspective. I was too afraid to say anything else as I was still in college back then. I felt that I might say something wrong. I didn't want to discourage him further. To keep it light, I asked him what his hobbies were and then I said that would help him decide what major he'll take in college. And he said, he's not even sure if he'll be able to get in college. Was wondering what happened to him. I hope you are right that he has finally made a family of his own.

    • @moniquelorzeille9780
      @moniquelorzeille9780 4 года назад +5

      This is very inspiring and heart warming, bright me to tears. God, is so good!

    • @Michael20
      @Michael20 4 года назад

      @Keenan Thomas because no one wants to invest time and monetary wealth into something that is not their own. it's not that hard to understand especially since the original parents gave up the foster child then why should others carry that burden?

    • @asecondago9856
      @asecondago9856 4 года назад +5

      @@Michael20 because that "burden", as you said so nicely, michael, is still a human being, not some adopted dog you can put down when nobody wants it

  • @FluffyMarshmallow-x6r
    @FluffyMarshmallow-x6r 10 месяцев назад +3

    How could anyone abandon him. He is such a sweet soul. My God. Wtf is wrong with those other people. Soulless

  • @rodneywoods9299
    @rodneywoods9299 4 года назад +5219

    It's about time we started praising fathers for once!

    • @JK_JK_JK_JK
      @JK_JK_JK_JK 4 года назад +58

      Femanazis don't agree!!! 😤

    • @stacyjpoliticscommunityfai359
      @stacyjpoliticscommunityfai359 4 года назад +81

      Amen Brother!!!! Because my Dad was an amazing man...I sure miss him.

    • @seds94
      @seds94 4 года назад +57

      @able street shut up

    • @MrLooktotheeast
      @MrLooktotheeast 4 года назад +74

      @able street We should only praise mothers if they do something worthy of praise.

    • @TheTimo5494
      @TheTimo5494 4 года назад +101

      Well my son is almost 21 i was a single dad to him as well as 4 siblings . so I was 19 when i officially became the guardian to my siblings. And raised them all myself . I worked my tail off to provide a great life for them all . they all finished school most of them graduated college . have families of they're own now. When many thought i was too young to do the job. My son is the last 1 left in the nest but I can say I earned the respect of them all by leading by example at such a young age myself. But ai was determined to keep my siblings together inside the family . when nobody else stepped up to save them. I worked 80 hours a week most weeks or worked 20 days no days off . napping whenever possible . transporting kids to an from 4 different schools daily and paying for daycare for my son who was 2 at the time . all while caring for my aging sick grandma till her last breath. She instilled the work ethics and drive in me growing up. As well as compassion and empathy towards everyone family or not. I say this not for any praise . but to help break the mold that guys cant be good father's especially blk men. Im proof it can be done.

  • @a.i.marvin6180
    @a.i.marvin6180 4 года назад +706

    Millions of kids have zero parents. One parent can do a whole better than no one. Bravo, Peter !

    • @ChefWife67
      @ChefWife67 4 года назад +2

      @EmbunWidia lol true!!

    • @nenereactz
      @nenereactz 4 года назад +4

      Thank you I needed to hear this.

    • @amirrhodesve791
      @amirrhodesve791 4 года назад +3

      @EmbunWidia in some cases no parent can be better then having the parent you live with

    • @sanitytbd3455
      @sanitytbd3455 4 года назад +1

      @@amirrhodesve791 ikr Kinda regret not running away.

    • @annetteyoutube742
      @annetteyoutube742 4 года назад

      @@amirrhodesve791 ... ikr
      I've been watching Soft White Underbelly video (here on youtube), and sooooo many of the interviews discuss child abuse, even the guys.

  • @maybeapacifist
    @maybeapacifist 4 года назад +1268

    I'M NOT CRYING! Just got some dust in both of my eyes. It's cool.

  • @ssaa8718
    @ssaa8718 3 года назад +113

    im a 50 something woman and this touched my heart. ladies this is a REAL man!

    • @xxzstatixx562
      @xxzstatixx562 3 года назад

      🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

    • @norrylorry9249
      @norrylorry9249 3 года назад +3

      Adopt me 😞, I’m 20 from a broken home. Been abused physically and sexually. I want to be happy and have a better life.

    • @gail9299
      @gail9299 3 года назад +6

      @@norrylorry9249 someone will come along in time and everything will change for you. Don't let what happened in the past rule your future. Good luck!

  • @RayMak
    @RayMak 4 года назад +3486

    This is extremely beautiful. This boy will be an amazing man

    • @finthehuman3649
      @finthehuman3649 4 года назад +98

      I see you in a lot of comment sections..

    • @mrzpear8828
      @mrzpear8828 4 года назад +58

      Desperate attempt to gain popularity for your dead channel.

    • @vocabularrygood9025
      @vocabularrygood9025 4 года назад +1

      Agree!

    • @felipebleichvel6823
      @felipebleichvel6823 4 года назад +7

      Sorry but I'm worried about where this can go in other cases...
      There a huge amount of creepy historys about US foster care already.
      Search about it.

    • @felipebleichvel6823
      @felipebleichvel6823 4 года назад +17

      @Gaming Squid Racist?
      You are the one buddy.
      The detail about the guy being black didn't even cross my mind. Now why that is in yours, I don't know.
      And wasn't even about him that I was talking.
      I was talking about some creepy pedophile watching that and smiling.
      If you search about human traffic, prostitutes interviews and historys of child abuse you will discover that a lot of things meet with the foster care system.

  • @emgee222
    @emgee222 4 года назад +1922

    i didn’t even know you could adopt as a single person but this is wonderful.

    • @deinemomundich
      @deinemomundich 4 года назад +56

      probably depends on the state and maybe even on the county :/

    • @deinemomundich
      @deinemomundich 4 года назад +114

      but thinking about this..isn’t it weird that a single parent can adopt but a gay couple can’t? no argument can justify that

    • @emgee222
      @emgee222 4 года назад +114

      @@deinemomundich its legal in the usa but people can still refuse or find petty reasons to not let lgbtq couples adopt. its honestly really messed up that based off their beliefs they’re making children lose the chance of having parents/a family.

    • @olaa6161
      @olaa6161 4 года назад +13

      In my country its damn hard to adopt a single child, I've heard that they take like 10 years and still aren't able to.

    • @ioanabogdan1266
      @ioanabogdan1266 4 года назад +18

      There is a viral video of a single italian gay man who managed to adopt a 2 year old (probably younger) girl i think. She had down syndrome if i remember correctly and that made her elligble in that country. However, she is a beautiful soul and deserves all the love and care and that italian is giving her that. My deepest respect and appreciation for each person who has ever adopted or foster kids❤

  • @그세돌
    @그세돌 3 года назад +1985

    I like how the son's not forcing a smile but going with the ordinary teenage 'meh'. Adopted or not he's just a plain old teen lol

    • @bulbulitobayagbagan9633
      @bulbulitobayagbagan9633 3 года назад +84

      Sometimes, we just don't need to judge people by their expressions. I my self has weird expressions, I know my self I am smiling while walking but people see me as very serious like I am thinking a problem. I don't even notice lol. See what I mean? It's hard to see expressions especially if you just met a person.

    • @nwzz2916
      @nwzz2916 3 года назад +32

      He seemed like hes been through a lot and is just waiting for him to send him back. Hopefully he will realize he found a father who loves him unconditionally.

    • @piedramultiaristas8573
      @piedramultiaristas8573 3 года назад +5

      On the other hand 💊I'm sharing Acts 2:38 with anyone who wants it bless

    • @s9292
      @s9292 3 года назад +21

      yup normal teenager... "I'm better than you" that's how you know it;s a good relationship.. and the father just smiles that stupid smile that we all do when the teenager says we are losers LOL

    • @s9292
      @s9292 3 года назад +5

      @@nwzz2916 he adopted him....

  • @Kaydeleon
    @Kaydeleon 3 года назад +73

    Omg!!! The teenager giving off the teenage vibe dads of having his dad talk about him!!! It made me know he was in a good loving home!!! That is the same look my son gives me!!! Lol.... teenagers....

  • @mincyclarke9128
    @mincyclarke9128 4 года назад +759

    This is what makes the world a better place. Having a home where you're loved and cared for.

  • @Ghanaba23
    @Ghanaba23 4 года назад +507

    Never knew that. I'm single and stable. I don't want to get married but I want to raise kids. I think this will fit well with me

    • @ms.wilson7447
      @ms.wilson7447 4 года назад +4

      ❤️

    • @minatonamikazi8818
      @minatonamikazi8818 4 года назад +8

      A lot of American men don't want to get married and you are one of them, and I think the reason you don't want to settle down is because of the American stupid rule which is when a man get divorced he must gives her wife half of what he owns with along a cheque " alimony each three months or something like that, of course no one wouldn't want to get married hhhhhj

    • @Ghanaba23
      @Ghanaba23 4 года назад +11

      @@minatonamikazi8818 lol you just described me perfectly 👌

    • @Cars2155
      @Cars2155 4 года назад +14

      @@Ghanaba23 bro just get a preup

    • @himikoyumenotheultimatedet3411
      @himikoyumenotheultimatedet3411 4 года назад

      @@Cars2155 Yeah that always works

  • @waltergodsoe5526
    @waltergodsoe5526 4 года назад +571

    The man is a hero, overcame his trauma by helping, giving love and guidance. Bravo

  • @brayanwalker4626
    @brayanwalker4626 3 года назад +147

    He’s not bored,he’s living with a matured man and I see a copied character. He’s matured mentally and behaves well even in his teens!!!
    He’s not the typical teen who goofs around 👍🏾
    Thanks Man for your loving heart ❤️

    • @MickeyDs14
      @MickeyDs14 11 месяцев назад +5

      Not just that. He was already discarded once by an adoptive family. I'm sure he carries a lot of pain from being shuffled in the system. I hate that people act like his son is being abused or hates his life. Like, do y'all not get how much this child has been through!?

  • @amightyshade
    @amightyshade 4 года назад +757

    Everyone deserves a loving family.

  • @molamola721
    @molamola721 4 года назад +532

    His name Mutabazi means savior/redeemer in Kirundi and Kinyarwanda, he might be either of those two.. Glad to see he gave this child a loving and safe home.He seems to be a great parent
    Edit: He's Ugandan

    • @lanietalk
      @lanietalk 4 года назад +31

      fitting name! Thanks for telling us the meaning

    • @funnytiktok4946
      @funnytiktok4946 4 года назад +9

      He's from Uganda,thanks

    • @alizetikoku7016
      @alizetikoku7016 4 года назад +2

      He can also be Haya from Tanzania cause i havve heard his surname somewhere around here

    • @ChronicPainInTheAss
      @ChronicPainInTheAss 4 года назад +6

      They're both very blessed to have each other!

    • @hirvale
      @hirvale 4 года назад +9

      I'm glad someone else noticed the irony in his name

  • @LemkeR
    @LemkeR 4 года назад +635

    GOD BLESS THIS MAN. people need to pause having kids, and help these children in need.

    • @sassysylalways6007
      @sassysylalways6007 4 года назад +25

      It should be people needs to stop having too many damn kids so some would not end up in the foster system

    • @mara_q9979
      @mara_q9979 4 года назад +19

      @Melanie Martinez is my waifu ._. Same. I don't necessarily feel like I have to give birth. If it happens it happens, but there are plenty of children in the world already waiting for someone to love them.

    • @LemkeR
      @LemkeR 4 года назад +15

      @@sassysylalways6007 Of course. That would be great. But until then, responsible people need to step up and foster these children and stop having their own damned kids when children are in abusive homes around the country and need a loving home.. We are our brothers keeper-- meaning we as humans are brothers and sisters. We should care for each other. I don't believe in this being a rule or law or regulation-- I hate government -- but I do believe people should volunteer do help others in need.

    • @sassysylalways6007
      @sassysylalways6007 4 года назад +1

      @@LemkeR I agree with you

    • @chinelostalksthejourney3380
      @chinelostalksthejourney3380 4 года назад +5

      I plan on adopting when the time is right

  • @Bailemos888
    @Bailemos888 3 года назад +102

    The world needs more caring people like him. SO many adoptive, foster and biological abusive parents, God help those children.

    • @MyJOSE2013
      @MyJOSE2013 Год назад +1

      The West, not the world. You need to stop disposing off your Young ones

  • @raino187
    @raino187 4 года назад +718

    Hero doesn’t need a cape or
    Title he only needs a heart.

  • @lovelyscorp79
    @lovelyscorp79 4 года назад +575

    There is somebody for everyone! And I too, had no idea as a single person you can foster children.

    • @oranjmusemeyer968
      @oranjmusemeyer968 4 года назад +15

      Yep, single people can foster and adopt! Good luck! 🙂🧡

    • @thomasbonse
      @thomasbonse 4 года назад +8

      My mom did special needs foster care and adopted two of the kids.

    • @cocoknows
      @cocoknows 4 года назад +17

      I was a former foster kid. Most of my foster parents were single women. Most of them were not very good to me, though. So if you can provide a good home for a child (especially a kid that is a bit older) please consider fostering and/or fostering to adopt.

    • @t.dubz76
      @t.dubz76 4 года назад

      Wake Up pizzagate is real or pizzagate isreal?!?!?!

    • @fiveboysungoh6229
      @fiveboysungoh6229 4 года назад

      Can you tell me what should I do that someone want to adopt md

  • @rtefereful
    @rtefereful 4 года назад +270

    I'm a single dad myself, I adopted a 12 year old at the age of 24. Best decision I ever made. I've learned a lot in life since then, being responsible and making a real difference in my sons life.

    • @baakojernigan7095
      @baakojernigan7095 4 года назад +38

      Whoaa your age difference is small enough to be his brother... that's different but kinda awesome!

    • @cliodhna2548
      @cliodhna2548 4 года назад +10

      Wow that you did it so young!

    • @milotic7339
      @milotic7339 4 года назад +27

      That’s a weird young age to adopt a child as a single male ....

    • @HazelnutEr
      @HazelnutEr 4 года назад +5

      @@milotic7339 agree. Maybe he is gay. it’s very weird.

    • @tom-ss2mn
      @tom-ss2mn 4 года назад +50

      @@HazelnutEr who gives a f if hes gay. Gay people make good parents

  • @tarae5380
    @tarae5380 3 года назад +23

    Wow. Look at the fathers face when he looks a his child! Pure love.. And the child is greatful too. Im glad I didn't delete this. God bless you both.

  • @aureliandrade
    @aureliandrade 4 года назад +252

    Omg, I've met Peter. He came to Brazil on a trip with Compassion - a beautiful NGO whose goal is to "save children from poverty in the name of Jesus". They supports children in poverty by connecting them to sponsors from wealthier countries and provide them with education, food, access to culture and medical care. It's a beautiful work. It's no surprise Peter would have the heart to adopt a child. God bless your heart, Peter, and your family! ❤️

    • @esthergodsdochter7031
      @esthergodsdochter7031 4 года назад +7

      Thats awesome I love compassion and the story could not escape my eye. Blessings from The Netherlands, Esther Huisman.

    • @googleisdumb2557
      @googleisdumb2557 4 года назад +2

      Hey plz tell me more about the NGO

    • @aureliandrade
      @aureliandrade 4 года назад

      @@googleisdumb2557 hey, so Compassion is a NGO that connects sponsors, normally from wealthier countries, to children living in vulnerable areas of Latin America, Africa and Asia. To sponsor a child, you should get in contact with the Compassion office in your country and they will explain how it works. Sponsors and children are able to communicate through letters, which sounds old-fashioned, but it is the most efficient way for the NGO to protect both our children and the sponsors. The sponsorship one child will inderectly benefit other 3 children in the same center.

  • @davidreed3357
    @davidreed3357 4 года назад +204

    Finally. Something positive and peaceful on RUclips. Congratulations dad.

    • @tobydanger86
      @tobydanger86 4 года назад +3

      Exactly

    • @M.1970X
      @M.1970X 4 года назад

      Yeah💕💕

    • @lisatillett4960
      @lisatillett4960 4 года назад +1

      Everyone keeps saying bless this man for documents child I sure hope this man has good intentions for adopting this you boy nobody knows what goes on in the home so yeah everybody keep singing his Praises until something comes out that he wasn't on the up-and-up so I won't sing anybody Praises I will pray for the child and hope that it's a good home for him.

  • @raphaelmokhele7997
    @raphaelmokhele7997 4 года назад +149

    I'm a 26 year old man here in South Africa and always wanted kids. I won't have any of my own and plan to adopt as soon as I'm more financially stable. Well done Sir! Bless your family.

    • @boitumelomel5724
      @boitumelomel5724 4 года назад +8

      wow, that's wonderful. You're a blessing. All the best Raphael.

    • @minkatekohobyana2736
      @minkatekohobyana2736 4 года назад

      Sorry to hear that ...

    • @Nadiesalevivo
      @Nadiesalevivo 4 года назад +6

      @@minkatekohobyana2736 what? Sorry to hear what?

    • @NThando
      @NThando 4 года назад

      God Bless

  • @taraking6472
    @taraking6472 10 месяцев назад +2

    That’s so awesome! Such a beautiful story. As an adoptee, I’m so grateful for people like this.

  • @TheodoreManthovani
    @TheodoreManthovani 3 года назад +501

    This is beautiful. Usually single men who adopt or foster a child are considered creep, this gotta change. May you both be happy father Peter Mutabazi.

    • @aaru7835
      @aaru7835 3 года назад +5

      Please adopt me Daddy 😂😂😂😂

    • @TheodoreManthovani
      @TheodoreManthovani 3 года назад +7

      This is why i literally didn't use the word "daddy" instead xD

    • @aaru7835
      @aaru7835 3 года назад +1

      @@TheodoreManthovani 😂😂😂😂

    • @piedramultiaristas8573
      @piedramultiaristas8573 3 года назад +1

      On the other hand 💊I'm sharing Acts 2:38 with anyone who wants it bless

    • @amenamen9300
      @amenamen9300 3 года назад +2

      Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” “Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.”

  • @mKierstenk
    @mKierstenk 4 года назад +1973

    So there's a lot more to the story than this. I read an article about them a few months ago. Tony had been adopted as a young child, but they abandoned him at a hospital 7 years later.
    Peter had actually just had 3 foster boys he'd cared for for several months leave because they were able to go back to their parents. It was emotionally taxing and he felt like he needed a break for awhile. When the caseworker reached out to him, she had to really talk him into just the two days by explaining there was literally nowhere else for him to go. When he arrived, Tony immediately wanted to call him dad, and he won his way quite quickly into Peter's heart.

    • @lesliecalvert3458
      @lesliecalvert3458 4 года назад +350

      For him to bond with 3 other kids and them be taken it was a huge chance he took emotionally to take another child in..and because of his willingness to be open to helping another child..well he got a forever son as his reward for being so selfless..this is a beautiful example of humanity at it's finest friend

    • @AngelF55
      @AngelF55 4 года назад +12

      @@lesliecalvert3458 Yes💞

    • @PoohCCat
      @PoohCCat 4 года назад +3

      @@lesliecalvert3458 exactly!

    • @seb6226
      @seb6226 4 года назад

      Is he inferttile?

    • @PoohCCat
      @PoohCCat 4 года назад +38

      @@seb6226 ofcourse not. I think he just prefer not to get married. Because in their country, whenever divorce happens, it can get quite complicated

  • @nakeyaguy1364
    @nakeyaguy1364 4 года назад +850

    That kid looks like he's been through a lot. He seems mechanical. I wish him happiness with his new family.

    • @crappyaccount
      @crappyaccount 4 года назад +13

      He does

    • @Nyufly
      @Nyufly 4 года назад +41

      Hasn’t found his confidence yet.

    • @510Redneck
      @510Redneck 4 года назад +117

      Probably just stage freight from the cameras and questioning- could be a social recluse as many are also.

    • @TheXrpFiles9-10-93
      @TheXrpFiles9-10-93 4 года назад +13

      He has a whole RUclips series, he seems completely normal to me, gay, but normal.

    • @Tazerboy_10
      @Tazerboy_10 4 года назад +40

      The single guy or the adopted kid?
      Being gay is a normal thing nowadays, you make it sound like you are alienating that word...

  • @shood35
    @shood35 3 года назад +192

    This is awesome. My parents were a foster home. Took in 19 kids. Adopted one. Fit right in between my youngest brother and myself. He had been given back by his "adoptive" family when they went to court to finalize. So my parents adopted him when the social worker told his story. I adopted two boys myself as well.

    • @susanrhodes5681
      @susanrhodes5681 3 года назад +6

      Thank you! Great story.

    • @disomotsifane9856
      @disomotsifane9856 3 года назад +3

      May the universe collide and release all the positive energies in your favour

    • @blp5840
      @blp5840 3 года назад +1

      Wish it's more available and easy here in my country

    • @Ash-kb9hn
      @Ash-kb9hn Год назад +1

      You and your family are great people. ❤

    • @tejaswoman
      @tejaswoman 8 месяцев назад

      You might be interested to know that Anthony's situation is not entirely dissimilar to that of your brother. He had been adopted at age two by some other family, who took him to a hospital when he was 11 and abandoned him there with no goodbyes and no explanation. Peter adopted him after that. Such a sad story that turned out so beautifully. Peter has a channel now here on RUclips called Now I Am Known, and he has really fun videos of Anthony's most recent accomplishments.

  • @lizagates6252
    @lizagates6252 4 года назад +331

    And this little kid is so adorable btw. He seems so happy and well adjusted.

    • @deshaunx776
      @deshaunx776 4 года назад +2

      Little kid?

    • @greatdanelegend7001
      @greatdanelegend7001 4 года назад +2

      Little kid? He seems to be at least 16

    • @parkersnowe
      @parkersnowe 4 года назад +23

      @@deshaunx776 Ya teenagers are little kids at heart needing a place to feel loved and cared for -- and this one has it.

    • @neftalicortez2625
      @neftalicortez2625 4 года назад +12

      @@deshaunx776 he might not be little but he's definitely a kid

    • @ItsNateWoo
      @ItsNateWoo 4 года назад +1

      that boy is grown lmao

  • @shurikenpaper2126
    @shurikenpaper2126 3 года назад +303

    The teen is like he's been sad all his life and just starting to be happy slowly with this man.

  • @johnnyrocket7348
    @johnnyrocket7348 4 года назад +430

    The heart is a lonely hunter. Man was not ment to be alone. It's good mental health. Adopt, build a family, love and be loved.

    • @Ryanlexz
      @Ryanlexz 4 года назад +1

      The african privilege tho🤔🤦🤦

    • @jabariclayton3537
      @jabariclayton3537 4 года назад +20

      @@Ryanlexz African privilege? Elaborate

    • @abeck7929
      @abeck7929 4 года назад +6

      @@Ryanlexz may I ask what you mean?

    • @lesliecalvert3458
      @lesliecalvert3458 4 года назад +1

      Beautiful...truly beautiful

    • @CLBOO6
      @CLBOO6 4 года назад +1

      Yes

  • @pferguson1313
    @pferguson1313 3 года назад +15

    I admire this man for taking this young man into his heart and home. The world needs more people like them now more than ever before. They complete each other.

  • @alfonsom8286
    @alfonsom8286 4 года назад +374

    Poor child, you can see how his lifelong trauma, being in different homes, never feeling wanted or loved has severely affected his development, I wish them both well.

    • @mangeshchalan8786
      @mangeshchalan8786 4 года назад +14

      However he'll be a man who doesn't long for luxury and will live more happily than others

    • @TheXrpFiles9-10-93
      @TheXrpFiles9-10-93 4 года назад +20

      Nah, dont judge based on this one video, they have a whole RUclips series, the kid is perfectly normal.

    • @ourbulwarkisjesuschrist9435
      @ourbulwarkisjesuschrist9435 4 года назад +5

      @@TheXrpFiles9-10-93 no link to their youtube series? Why are you doing this to us? :D It seems like the kind of youtube videos I'd love to watch. Thanks for the heads up. This must be their channel: ruclips.net/user/NowIAmKnownvideos

    • @justinmoore3217
      @justinmoore3217 4 года назад +7

      He more of a kid or young man than a child. People should adopt adolescence not just children. It must be a struggle for them to be maturing into their adult selves not knowing what is going to happen when they reach legal age in just a couple years

    • @rezaulkhan9809
      @rezaulkhan9809 4 года назад +6

      I thought the boy had some kind of disability at first! He was so silent and no expressions at all unlike typical teenagers

  • @MrChomcky
    @MrChomcky 3 года назад +736

    I’m a single dad myself and judgement is real. When I have my daughter out at a playground I will get weird looks and stuff. It’s amazing that this worked out for the two of them.

    • @stargazer2042
      @stargazer2042 3 года назад +73

      Same. I took a friend's kid to a park, and I was clearly not welcome with the other parents, all female.

    • @rpatten78
      @rpatten78 3 года назад +59

      People are idiots 🙄

    • @neftali1049
      @neftali1049 3 года назад +17

      They must be Liberal Feminist !

    • @usefulprogrammer9880
      @usefulprogrammer9880 3 года назад +32

      Thank you for braving this and being a father. Your child loves you for this more than you will ever know.

    • @amck72
      @amck72 3 года назад +64

      You got certain looks because those mothers literally wished their baby daddies took more time out to be in their kids lives, so don`t feel uneasy when you get those looks.

  • @0230Raveena
    @0230Raveena 4 года назад +580

    Family is more than blood. Dad has a slight resemblance to Idris Elba.

    • @jamilabest5857
      @jamilabest5857 4 года назад +37

      Its true. He's very handsome.

    • @jamilabest5857
      @jamilabest5857 4 года назад +8

      Its true. He's very handsome.

    • @kidsexplore5832
      @kidsexplore5832 4 года назад +5

      Absolutely

    • @frankdrebin278
      @frankdrebin278 4 года назад +5

      I was thinking the same thing.He totally looks like him.It was such a good story to hear this morning.

    • @0230Raveena
      @0230Raveena 4 года назад +7

      @JagBrit. Ok then. He's Definitely a Handsome man. :-)

  • @jeffreythompson7110
    @jeffreythompson7110 3 года назад +12

    What a blessing ! That man seems like an amazing dad

  • @LisaASMR
    @LisaASMR 4 года назад +1186

    This warms my heart ❤🥰❤

    • @youngmicrowave127
      @youngmicrowave127 4 года назад +7

      Fun fact: The heart is always warm

    • @nicholasgerry6931
      @nicholasgerry6931 4 года назад +9

      @@youngmicrowave127 your grandma's not tho

    • @dsc_mrn
      @dsc_mrn 4 года назад +5

      @@nicholasgerry6931 DAAAAAAAMMNNN

    • @thelastminmom5251
      @thelastminmom5251 4 года назад +5

      Me too. What a wonderful man. Lucky kid

    • @Gtrdxvgyfvbhhfc
      @Gtrdxvgyfvbhhfc 4 года назад +1

      @@nicholasgerry6931 god damn 😂😂

  • @RavensAgenda1
    @RavensAgenda1 4 года назад +236

    Peter seems like a genuinely good person

  • @sastre8727
    @sastre8727 4 года назад +162

    He just saved that kid from a lifetime of systematic indifference and jail.

  • @TanyaQueen182
    @TanyaQueen182 2 года назад +10

    Way to go Dad!!!! This is what a dad is supposed to be. RIGHT HERE!

  • @krisward7720
    @krisward7720 4 года назад +172

    Im single that gives me hope, kids always have liked me id love to have a child i can c the joy in his face.

    • @krisamagus1
      @krisamagus1 4 года назад +8

      exactly like my situation.And I'm also kris:)

    • @fiveboysungoh6229
      @fiveboysungoh6229 4 года назад +4

      If you like teen then there is someone who want someone to adopt him

    • @zeynand4039
      @zeynand4039 4 года назад +8

      I hope you get everything you want out of life, wether it be your own biological kids or adopted ones or both! It's possible

    • @krisward7720
      @krisward7720 4 года назад +4

      @@zeynand4039 thank you so much for saying that.

    • @ratedr9672
      @ratedr9672 4 года назад +4

      You’ll be a great Dad some day, no matter what route! 😊

  • @Nick4073
    @Nick4073 4 года назад +63

    I don't understand why 11 ppl would dislike this video!!! This guy is giving a child not only a home but a loving parent 💗

    • @julianhudson9341
      @julianhudson9341 4 года назад +13

      Maybe they're jealous because this child has a father and a home and they don't!

    • @awilliams5799
      @awilliams5799 4 года назад +10

      maybe they are loveless and miserable in their lives.

    • @abotejudith6307
      @abotejudith6307 4 года назад +1

      They must be the family that abandoned him

    • @lisabornfree2376
      @lisabornfree2376 4 года назад +3

      Maybe they are racist who see color and not compassion

  • @haleynason1851
    @haleynason1851 4 года назад +154

    What a awesome man. That warmed my heart.

  • @aidansalt7862
    @aidansalt7862 3 года назад +16

    This can really make a huge difference in a kids life. I was adopted at birth, my biological mother was 17 when she had me. She had been removed from an abusive home and placed in foster care when she was around 11 years old. She was then molested in every home she went to, including when she was fostered by her english teacher from her school. She took her own life at the age of 25. One year before we tracked down my blood family so I will never meet my mother. If she had been taken in by just ONE good person instead of a series of predators she might have lived long enough for me to have found her. So I watch this and it breaks my heart but it fills the cracks with joy and appreciation for Peter Mutabazi and others like him. The foster systems need more good people like him.

    • @robinrichards6577
      @robinrichards6577 3 года назад +3

      That is so sad! Your poor bio mom. I’m sorry you didn’t get to meet her.

    • @aidansalt7862
      @aidansalt7862 3 года назад +1

      @@robinrichards6577 Thank you Robin, I appreciate you :)

  • @mandymagnolia1966
    @mandymagnolia1966 4 года назад +634

    “Yes, I always win don’t I?”
    “No 😐”
    They seem like they have such a good relationship with each other 😊 I’m happy for them

    • @laurawatson6001
      @laurawatson6001 4 года назад +8

      I know good banter like 😂

    • @jesssingleton1200
      @jesssingleton1200 4 года назад +5

      I laughed so hard when he said that too

    • @piedramultiaristas8573
      @piedramultiaristas8573 3 года назад +1

      On the other hand 💊I'm sharing Acts 2:38 with anyone who wants it bless

    • @MJ-zc1ln
      @MJ-zc1ln 3 года назад

      I don’t understand why people are confused by this. He’s been through so much as a child. He’s detached and his father is teaching him to open up as a teen. It’s a lot to have on his plate but he’s doing well

  • @angieruthw
    @angieruthw 4 года назад +75

    That man just saved that boys life, the odds for him have DRASTICALLY CHANGED ❤️❤️❤️. God bless you

    • @davidconnor6887
      @davidconnor6887 3 года назад

      Hello Angela
      How are you doing? Hope you and your family are safe

  • @meowmeowcutekitty8176
    @meowmeowcutekitty8176 4 года назад +39

    I miss my Dad. He was like my best friend growing up. You never realize the importance of parents until they are gone.

    • @ThatWeirdGirlSuri
      @ThatWeirdGirlSuri 4 года назад +3

      Their never really gone, they remain within us for as long as we wish. Your dad is still in your heart and can give you advice if you really listen 🙏💗

    • @ZosiaSamosiaOo
      @ZosiaSamosiaOo 4 года назад +1

      I did realise their importance when I became and adult and moved to study in another city. Now at an even older age I am back home due to the pandemic as I have to work from home and would have to live alone as well. They are both still alive and I am very grateful for it.

    • @naynaynay324
      @naynaynay324 4 года назад

      Oh I've realized. I've also realized that by the time my parents finally will be gone there won't be any inheritance to speak of and I'll be too old to enjoy it. What I mean to say is it's also very sad to be me.

  • @LEELOLKH
    @LEELOLKH 3 года назад +213

    Angel living in human body

    • @ellasiaskylry
      @ellasiaskylry 3 года назад

      Shut up

    • @martinwebb1681
      @martinwebb1681 3 года назад +1

      LEE PAGE ... No just a very caring human being.

    • @Cassy908
      @Cassy908 3 года назад +2

      Please someone adopt me am a girl and am 14 am from Uganda the family am living with is mistreating me so badly i lost my parents when i was 6 since then am always sad please adopt me this is my only hope please i promise to be i good child and i know how to house work i promise to be a good a good child please help me

    • @rainforme1850
      @rainforme1850 3 года назад +3

      Beautiful saying

    • @lasxch6970
      @lasxch6970 3 года назад +4

      @@Cassy908 stay strong and keep praying to God and I promise everything will be very good 🙏

  • @diannainkorea
    @diannainkorea 4 года назад +497

    Beautiful.

    • @raquelr8775
      @raquelr8775 4 года назад +3

      Hey Diana! I am a subscriber, I love your channel!

    • @diannainkorea
      @diannainkorea 4 года назад

      @@raquelr8775 Hi! We remember you!

    • @Better2BFree
      @Better2BFree 4 года назад

      @@raquelr8775 Me too!!!!!!!!!! You just made me aware of that!!! Thank You!!!!!!!

  • @007africaG
    @007africaG 4 года назад +235

    Mutabazi meaning the one who helps in times of need, or saviour or soldier fighting for his/country. You have really lived up to the meaning of your name. All the best in all that you do

    • @lemurlover7975
      @lemurlover7975 4 года назад +6

      thank you for telling us his name :) my name means song and I love to sing :)

    • @positivevybes247
      @positivevybes247 3 года назад

      @Journey usa Journey stinks of you. Leave it alone!!

    • @absar8304
      @absar8304 3 года назад

      Importance of having a good name!

    • @1xTheDarkKnightx1
      @1xTheDarkKnightx1 3 года назад

      nonsense, In my language it means the ungrateful, Stop trying to align stas.

  • @amyproud
    @amyproud 4 года назад +204

    Now he has a father, a family, someone to be there for him, when he has bad days and good days. Beautiful hearts! Beautiful!

    • @YOUSIF9292
      @YOUSIF9292 4 года назад +3

      Plus the benefits will return to him as he grown older he have a son to take care of him..

  • @RobinaB530
    @RobinaB530 6 месяцев назад +1

    What a special, special man Peter is.

  • @kevindonis8664
    @kevindonis8664 4 года назад +56

    He became his dad on November 2019 then Happy one year anniversary to this man. Much Respect! ✊

  • @mscarolynnigro
    @mscarolynnigro 4 года назад +30

    You can see the beauty of this man's soul in his face. Isnt he wonderful ?

  • @jaimediaz7518
    @jaimediaz7518 4 года назад +270

    Finally see he didnt care about race or age he just wanted his baby boy

  • @destinaronin
    @destinaronin 8 месяцев назад +3

    This gentleman is a Hero.

  • @nedsantos1415
    @nedsantos1415 4 года назад +503

    *Love needs to win more like this....in this hate-torn country.*

    • @robynandrews4384
      @robynandrews4384 4 года назад +5

      Absolutely 👏

    • @jahjoeka
      @jahjoeka 4 года назад +10

      World*

    • @GobbyRocks
      @GobbyRocks 4 года назад +8

      I think that the media is making us out to be more divided than we really are.

    • @TheTonyspik
      @TheTonyspik 4 года назад +7

      @@GobbyRocks or the media is pointing out the division that already exists, but we can't see. But a great story this was.

    • @GobbyRocks
      @GobbyRocks 4 года назад +6

      @@TheTonyspik True, and it''s making us more divided. These are the types of stories that we should focus on.

  • @rysachibana1486
    @rysachibana1486 4 года назад +26

    Peter's heart must be breaking everytime Anthony asks him every week, "When will I be adopted?" Happy for both of them especially for Anthony. His future is now much more secure, clearer and stable.

  • @peter486
    @peter486 3 года назад +196

    if everyone had a kind heart like that imagine how many people we could help.

    • @shashaaashashaaa5963
      @shashaaashashaaa5963 3 года назад

      Hello Sir please help me I want to be adopted I’m a teen btw

    • @shashaaashashaaa5963
      @shashaaashashaaa5963 3 года назад

      @Non Yea do u know any way I could get adopted please

    • @komlat253
      @komlat253 3 года назад +3

      To be fair. Many African cultures believe that you should foster children in the community without parents. Its very common in more humble places that people just pick up youth to give them a family

    • @TheOnes1
      @TheOnes1 3 года назад +2

      @@shashaaashashaaa5963 i’d adopt You lol But i’m only 15

    • @shashaaashashaaa5963
      @shashaaashashaaa5963 3 года назад +1

      @@TheOnes1 what country do u live in sweetie? I need help please

  • @CRD-hi6vk
    @CRD-hi6vk 3 года назад +59

    Wow. Have a child without the drama of a relationship/marriage and not have to risk getting divorced, loosing kids and seeing them maybe every other weekend, and having to pay alimony/child support post divorce? This guy had a brilliant idea. I’m going to think about this.

    • @I_Kan
      @I_Kan 3 года назад +7

      It's sad that's how things have become that people are frightened they won't be able to see their children when relationships breaks down but I understand that's what the courts and governments support 😒

    • @stephyworld8713
      @stephyworld8713 3 года назад +8

      Please, these children deserve better than to have an incel dad to add more prejudice in their lives 🙄

    • @thesimpsons2010
      @thesimpsons2010 3 года назад +2

      Adopting a child threw foster care is the easiest way and it's free with adoption tax credit you get up $14,000 back on your adoption cost.

    • @elless6535
      @elless6535 3 года назад +7

      You can see an about Peter on his RUclips channel. He wasn't and isn't skirting marriage, but the opposite. Just letting you know so you don't assume too much.

    • @vihmaussivenitaja
      @vihmaussivenitaja Год назад +2

      You know, if you don't abuse your wife or cheat on her, there's no "drama". Even if the relationship breaks down, you will stay friends if the relationship was healthy and respectful. But you sound like a bitter man with prejudices against women, which means abusiveness and disrespect from your side written into the equation... which is the actual origin of the "drama". I'm good friends with my ex who I spent a decade with - zero "drama" because he is a kind and empathetic man who never did anything to hurt my feelings. If we had a child but separated, we'd probably have a friendly arrangement, like a split house, because we still enjoy hanging out as friends. We did have a cat and had a friendly arrangement of taking care of the cat after the break up, so yeah, zero problems. The story is different with another ex who abused me - I'd rather lick a cactus than even see his shadow ever again, and if I had a child with him, I'd fight tooth and nail to limit his alone time with the child, because his angry temper and cruel words made me fall into deep depression, so he'd surely give the child psychological trauma too. And you... would probably teach a boy to be bitter and hate women, and totally ruin the mental health of a girl if being able to adopt one, because she would grow up with constant poison from you towards her entire gender. Peter btw does not hate women, very much the opposite, he's vocal about women's rights, so don't go searching for some mgtow kinship here: www.newsweek.com/im-single-dad-fostering-girls-sister-kidnap-parenting-1713350

  • @KCNwokoye
    @KCNwokoye 4 года назад +66

    God bless you both! Every kid needs a home.

  • @dc161
    @dc161 4 года назад +238

    I love this. I’m an adopted child as well. My family is African American too. I was fostered with this family when I was three. Adopted a couple years after that and I’ve been in the family since then. It’s been weird growing up with a family so different from my own culture and race. I wouldn’t trade it they loved me when no one else would.

    • @imamultyfandomtrash7233
      @imamultyfandomtrash7233 4 года назад +7

      I'm so glad for you, you're very brave!

    • @eora5142
      @eora5142 4 года назад +6

      I'm happy to hear this 💖

    • @DoubleDogsBFF
      @DoubleDogsBFF 4 года назад

      Did people ask a million questions or tease you?

    • @dc161
      @dc161 4 года назад +16

      @@DoubleDogsBFF yes I still get asked the same questions now and I’m 22. They ask mostly how it was growing up which was fruitful. I sometimes have to fully explain the situation for some people to understand in a way that inspiring instead of sad.

    • @DoubleDogsBFF
      @DoubleDogsBFF 4 года назад +5

      @@dc161 I'm glad you had a happy childhood and a nice family. 😊

  • @JokerInk-CustomBuilds
    @JokerInk-CustomBuilds 4 года назад +251

    38 yr old single dude here. Somehow family life passed me by while I was busy exploring life... Maybe one day I'll have the courage to follow my longing for kids and being there for someone as this man did.

    • @auapc2441
      @auapc2441 4 года назад +3

      That mean you don t have luck in your country go aboard and get a girl and make your own family places like south america and caribean

    • @JokerInk-CustomBuilds
      @JokerInk-CustomBuilds 4 года назад +17

      I have had my share of women... it is more about me and my choices. :)

    • @tineeashmon9223
      @tineeashmon9223 4 года назад +5

      Just Do it
      Courage comes when you do it not contemplate

    • @JokerInk-CustomBuilds
      @JokerInk-CustomBuilds 4 года назад +12

      @@tineeashmon9223
      True.... I have had a lot of great experiences by being impulsive... But putting kids into a world I barely manage to fit into myself is not something I take lightly...
      I have to awesome nephews and I am a great uncle, thats where I put my energy at the moment. :)

    • @edehalikaya6081
      @edehalikaya6081 4 года назад +8

      You will make a great dad some day. It will happen.

  • @riderskater7248
    @riderskater7248 3 года назад +2

    This is what love looks like.
    So many great fathers in the world.

  • @ScorpionF1RE_USA
    @ScorpionF1RE_USA 4 года назад +116

    If we can adopt children, we should be able to adopt brothers and sisters to! Then maybe this world would heal.

    • @sidneyboo9704
      @sidneyboo9704 4 года назад +5

      Thats noble. This world needs a lot of healing for sure.

    • @ghanamemer1628
      @ghanamemer1628 4 года назад +1

      Huh? I'm sorry but how would people cater for their adopted siblings? Or the parents would cover that...? This comment makes no sense

    • @isaiah4600
      @isaiah4600 4 года назад

      yeah siblings matter so much. I always wanted to adopt siblings not just a singular child. If they are single that's fine but if they have siblings I would want to keep them together.

    • @isaiah4600
      @isaiah4600 4 года назад +1

      @@ghanamemer1628 sometimes its not just about the parents. If the child has a sibling let them be adopted together don't separate them because the parents are selfish.

  • @brian27610
    @brian27610 3 года назад +98

    this man is a KING and will raise his son to be one as well, god bless

  • @ladyfire2456
    @ladyfire2456 4 года назад +51

    I have one word - YAY!!!!!!❤🤟🏽🤟🏽🤟🏽 You can tell he LOVES being a dad. CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

  • @alanmedina8947
    @alanmedina8947 3 года назад +9

    I love this guy bro, I love all of you. We all deserve a great childhood. I’m sorry if you didn’t get it. It was only meant to make you who you are so don’t be down. Have a great night guys

  • @isingomasamuel6867
    @isingomasamuel6867 4 года назад +15

    I don't get when some fools dislike such acts of kindness and human compassion

  • @Gatorfan_Cavon
    @Gatorfan_Cavon 4 года назад +78

    Awwww 😭😭thats what im talking about!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @fruitrollup2790
    @fruitrollup2790 4 года назад +35

    I think foster parents are one of the most bravest and kindest people ever. I will never forget my foster mother who opened up her home to me so that I can grow and become the person I am today. I hope to become a foster parent some day as well too.

  • @man-observing-world
    @man-observing-world 3 года назад +8

    This is so great, I’m sure it gets difficult some times, but I’m so glad they have each other! Great job Peter!

  • @Freetown00
    @Freetown00 3 года назад +211

    I don’t think the son looks bored or sad, I think that’s just his resting face or maybe he’s nervous and doesn’t know what facial expression to make for TV. Maybe he has a mellow personality

    • @s9292
      @s9292 3 года назад +35

      he is a teenager ..they always look like that...two speeds 1, I know everything better than you 2, when you ask how their day is they say "good"

    • @nigdyezemska2827
      @nigdyezemska2827 3 года назад +30

      He's just a regular teen. Haters love to be armchair psychologists online

    • @martinwebb1681
      @martinwebb1681 3 года назад +1

      @@nigdyezemska2827 ... Don't they just ... can't just except something wonderful for what it is, they just got to pick it to pieces and give their opinion.

    • @moryveraval6249
      @moryveraval6249 3 года назад +10

      You're right. He doesn't look bored. He looks like all teenagers do. No one can wear a bored look better than a teenager, LOL. They are a happy father and son pair. God bless them!

    • @bjlucas51
      @bjlucas51 3 года назад +3

      Only thing that matters is he seem happy with his Dad! ✌🏼💙

  • @davechristensen8299
    @davechristensen8299 4 года назад +40

    I'M NOT CRYING. I just got dust in both of my eyes.

    • @hansvanrijswijk409
      @hansvanrijswijk409 4 года назад

      Ohhh just dust ? I have an elephant in my eyes! 😂😂👍

  • @reneecarter6702
    @reneecarter6702 3 года назад +451

    Bless his heart, I’m single too and want to adopt a munchkin that was abused, because I’m a child abuse survivor too so I get it. I’d understand them.

    • @joellekhan9643
      @joellekhan9643 3 года назад +17

      God bless you love💗💗💗💗💗💗

    • @richild3967
      @richild3967 3 года назад +12

      Definitely do it ❤️

    • @Livelove111
      @Livelove111 3 года назад +25

      I was adopted by such a wonderful human being..life was difficult but love makes the difference.

    • @jamesf7437
      @jamesf7437 3 года назад +11

      Go for it Renee!

    • @spacelemur7955
      @spacelemur7955 3 года назад +5

      Look into it. Start the process and see where it leads.

  • @shaneintegra
    @shaneintegra 3 года назад +7

    This is so beautiful ❤️ this father has a heart of gold!

  • @jeanniefeaster4325
    @jeanniefeaster4325 4 года назад +31

    I came from an extremely abusive family. Sometimes giving your child up is for the best. Had the woman who gave birth to me would've done the right thing when I was born, I would've loved to have been in a loving home like this young man. It only made me grow up & look into adopting. Of course it fell through, but God sent me a blessing of my own after I tried to adopt with my husband but didn't happen.

    • @davidconnor6887
      @davidconnor6887 3 года назад

      Hello Jeannie
      How are you doing? Hope you and your family are safe

  • @XtremeSportX247
    @XtremeSportX247 4 года назад +399

    Race should never be a factor in placing a kid in a healthy and safe home. Everyone needs love!

    • @barbaragibson7120
      @barbaragibson7120 4 года назад +3

      @Moses Mill thank god for choices right?

    • @jamesw288
      @jamesw288 4 года назад

      Or being a single male but there is

    • @beautyishername5116
      @beautyishername5116 4 года назад

      @Moses Mill not being racist but true 👍🏾

    • @rebeccadonaldson1464
      @rebeccadonaldson1464 4 года назад +13

      @Moses Mill Do you think for one minute that someone like you describe who will reject a child because of his race would EVER get through a Fostering Course and get Qualified?

    • @rebeccadonaldson1464
      @rebeccadonaldson1464 4 года назад +10

      @Moses Mill I think you are referring to Adoption, rather than Fostering.

  • @nitashajohnson4767
    @nitashajohnson4767 4 года назад +19

    He was excited about having a Good Dad, Good Family, Good friends and Good Schools. So precious but so sad at the same time.

  • @castromaria2222
    @castromaria2222 3 года назад +8

    Teenager are so hard to place in foster care and they rarely get adopted. This is great.

  • @MrTubs911
    @MrTubs911 4 года назад +320

    Dads do not get enough credit. A father figure is essential to a upbringing of a male.

    • @22lyric
      @22lyric 4 года назад +37

      And a daughter! Daughters don't do well picking husbands/partners when they had an abusive or absent father. I think we should do more in schools so that both boys and girls might be more likely to be a good parent. Of course some people won't want teachers pointing out bad characteristics, but the alternative is all the crime, abuse and neglect we have. I bet you're a good father, or a good role model if you are not a father.

    • @Victor-tl4dk
      @Victor-tl4dk 4 года назад +6

      Yeah thanks for reminding me about something I didn't have.

    • @MrTubs911
      @MrTubs911 4 года назад +17

      @@Victor-tl4dk I am sorry to hear that. I have friends that grew up not knowing who their father was. But, despite what people go through. You have the power to brake that chain. And you can become a father to someone else, or to you own children.

    • @MrTubs911
      @MrTubs911 4 года назад +18

      @Jennifer Coleman It is not a matter of being sexist. It is a matter of each gender within a family unit that brings up a child. Both, are equal in there roles. But, each provide something different to a child. Women provide a different outlook in a childs up bringing, as a man does as well in a different way. Boys need a father figure in there lives.

    • @lou8090
      @lou8090 4 года назад +4

      @Smiley L Yeah, I know many people who have never had a father in their lives and who are perfectly happy, healthy, and successful. I think the people who are most harmed by not having a dad are people who had a deadbeat father, or a father who just straight up left them. Obviously, having any parental figure abandon you in some way has potential to be pretty damaging to the child. But if you've never had that father/mother in your life to begin with, or you never knew them, I think the child usually isn't that affected. It's very situational lol

  • @allenbballin6418
    @allenbballin6418 4 года назад +60

    I love to see it good people doing good things. It helps me to know there are still good people in this world despite all the bad i see everyday.

  • @lawsonthepunmaster9010
    @lawsonthepunmaster9010 4 года назад +33

    I wish there was more news like this these days. Respect 👏

  • @BaKheru
    @BaKheru 4 года назад +114

    I could never look into that young man's sad puppy eyes and say no.

    • @aaru7835
      @aaru7835 3 года назад +3

      Please adopt me