The CEO saw his once unattractive wife become beautiful and regretted the divorce.

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  • Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 179

  • @SamanthaLadydollars-nm7es
    @SamanthaLadydollars-nm7es 3 месяца назад +75

    Let's be honest here i can't be with someone who calls me fat like pig and still i be with you never in this life 😢😢

    • @nanabangtan9910
      @nanabangtan9910 День назад +2

      Same 😢😢😢
      When he knows her background and identity, he suddenly loves her?

  • @SicaRun
    @SicaRun 3 месяца назад +68

    This is not about singing let's be real, he just didn't like how his wife looked, his non existent "love" is shallow, I'll bet that if his wife didn't lost weight and become prettier, he wouldn't marry her even if he found that she is the singer she's searching. she shouldn't go back to somebody which cheated her all their marriage, even in front of people. She should search somebody which love her for who she is not her appearance or voice.

  • @rdrr833
    @rdrr833 3 месяца назад +81

    A man who really love a woman will never rude to her

    • @huangjerry5688
      @huangjerry5688 3 месяца назад

      請問男女主角是誰?

    • @Angie_Wien
      @Angie_Wien 3 месяца назад +4

      ML: 餘沛杉 Yu Peishan

    • @Orangetree--4564
      @Orangetree--4564 3 месяца назад +3

      男人都是视觉动物。

    • @rosamariagoncalves7475
      @rosamariagoncalves7475 3 месяца назад +2

      Exatamente, não sentem amor por nada e nem por ninguem, além de si mesmos.
      Esses canalhas mostrados nesses minidramas não sabem nem o sentido da palavra amor.
      As mulheres também desconhecem o sentido de amar, se deixam pisotear e insistem.numa relação tóxica.

    • @feiyinglau2091
      @feiyinglau2091 3 месяца назад

      這劇集很好這個男主角對女主角沒有忘恩負義❤❤👍

  • @澤典林
    @澤典林 3 месяца назад +26

    這部妥妥的渣男行為。從以前就一直冷落女主氣憤還會罵女主。自從女主變了樣子重新出現、男主看女主有蕎麥的影子就開始好話。片名因該叫灰姑娘遇上渣男

  • @波斯貓不是貓
    @波斯貓不是貓 3 месяца назад +48

    比較安慰的是,這劇至少有真心愛女兒的爸爸❤~

  • @楊燕君-f7v
    @楊燕君-f7v 3 месяца назад +8

    男主火大駡女主那段非常真實。當男人想甩開累贅時,就是那麼口不擇言。等到女人瘦身成功變漂亮,而自己變成很一般般後,又立刻變成一隻舔狗

  • @kaseykoh69
    @kaseykoh69 3 месяца назад +39

    ❤ Let's be realistic! ❤
    Most people judge look over personality. Regardless of gender or age .

  • @林婷-x5z
    @林婷-x5z 3 месяца назад +13

    羡慕女主有一對霸氣護女的父母!

    • @林珍-l9c
      @林珍-l9c 3 месяца назад +1

      其它的短劇裡,都是一些讓人看了都怒火…,不是父親逼女兒拿利益、好處供應哥哥或弟弟,就是母親逼女兒要利益、好處給哥哥或弟弟,很少有父母心疼在乎女兒的感受…

  • @woinblue8541
    @woinblue8541 3 месяца назад +33

    I enjoyed this video. It proves don't judge a book by its cover. It's not what you look like, its what's on the inside. I hate a bully.

    • @rdrr833
      @rdrr833 3 месяца назад +2

      Yes i was fell in love to someone just by hear the voice

  • @MirayKrmzdam
    @MirayKrmzdam 3 месяца назад +16

    I mean he wanted to help her father because he wanted to divorce her, why she was moved by this is unknown to me. But overall nice drama

  • @halcron
    @halcron 3 месяца назад +22

    So what the ML fall in love with the FL's singing voice 1st without knowing how she looks like but he was married to her and he should respect his wife as a woman and as a human. Doesn't mean she is fat and she doesn't deserve to be respect. As in Kingsmen movie says "manner maketh man" so he is not a man when he doesn't treat his wife right. FL should just record her singing voice and let him sleep with the recording, there's no need for reconciliation and back with him in person. Just because she slimmed down and became prettier, he loves her. That's love is cheap.

    • @betina8780
      @betina8780 3 месяца назад +4

      I'm glad, I'm not the only one feeling this way about the drama. I kept feeling that something was not right. So he loved her voice when she could sing him to sleep with a lullaby. Mmmm... okay... What about the woman, her personality? How about not calling her a pig and think everything is excusable!

    • @melissahopkins8036
      @melissahopkins8036 3 месяца назад +1

      Very well said!

    • @marianaGarcia-qg1or
      @marianaGarcia-qg1or 2 месяца назад +1

      Pienso que ella aún le quiere ,por eso se quedó con el al final apesar de lo cabronas que es y creo que ella lo sabe en el fondo.tiene baja autoestima. 😅😢😮

    • @melissahopkins8036
      @melissahopkins8036 2 месяца назад +3

      @betina8780 having been called everything between PIG and GAS PUMP as a kid, I loved the changes she made and the fact she made them for HERSELF. I had a disease that required medication that causes obesity, but you can't make kids understand that.
      I really related to this drama, but was disappointed she took him back. I always say, if you don't love me at my worst, you don't deserve my best. 🥰

  • @nildaregalado7803
    @nildaregalado7803 3 месяца назад +13

    Good storyline and drama. Love this ❤❤❤ Good actors and actresses. ❤❤❤

  • @jcchan2008
    @jcchan2008 3 месяца назад +24

    女主容貌与气质皆优❤

  • @rocioferreira9791
    @rocioferreira9791 3 месяца назад +12

    Me encantó la protagonista, con fuerza de voluntad, aunque el final se pudiera considerar feliz, me dejó un sabor agridulce, como disculpar al esposo que fue tan sinvergüenza... No lo entiendo.

  • @dxd6672
    @dxd6672 7 дней назад +1

    I don't know those writers in china are untalented there stories are not related to human feelings or reality.sometimes I believe they don't have experience in life or the writers are young they don't understand what respect, human life,they thought the ML is idol we have to accept his mistat even if he is a criminal no one over the law build your story on real life even love or harness don't push the scenes to create unnecessary feeling

  • @ggyy720430
    @ggyy720430 3 месяца назад +19

    女主好漂亮

  • @紫玫瑰-x4i
    @紫玫瑰-x4i 3 месяца назад +4

    醜與胖是能改變的,但因這個缺點而言語、行為冷暴力的渣男,這稱為愛???😮😮😮

  • @smblanco3blanco738
    @smblanco3blanco738 3 месяца назад +20

    Que homem mais hipócrita,o que ele falou pra sua esposa quando ela tinha a aparência de uma mulher obesa.. ele falou tudo o que ele sentia por ela . quando tratamos pessoas ao falar com elas, é o que está em nosso coração ❤️❤️❤️.as palavras proreridas quando são lançadas, jamais jamais volta vazia e nem são mais apagadas..por isso ninguém pode usar máscaras o tempo todo..e a máscara desse homem asqueroso caiu.porque no fundo no fundo ele gosta mesmo é de mulher linda... vamos ser realista e verdadeiro vimos muito bem como ele sempre foi vaidoso e soberbo arrogante ele nunca a defendeu e nem esteve ao seu lado quando ela precisou.. ele é um hipócrita mentiroso cara de pau..eu não queria mais esse homem ao meu lado nunca mais

  • @愛秀妍
    @愛秀妍 3 месяца назад +22

    原諒渣男還複合 爛劇

  • @nancymomanyi8420
    @nancymomanyi8420 27 дней назад +1

    ml was never in love he was just affectionate they way she treats him and he became obsessed 😂😂😂after loosing the stress remover

  • @tracydobson8898
    @tracydobson8898 2 месяца назад +1

    2 very good actors would watch them all the time

  • @ankurtyagi9044
    @ankurtyagi9044 3 месяца назад +2

    The ending is far away from reality . you don't have right to humiliate your wife in both conditions ML was wrong

  • @kennischow9601
    @kennischow9601 3 месяца назад +4

    其實男主也不算太渣...只是受騙了...是笨了點...也沒有虐待女主...

  • @jennblackman6326
    @jennblackman6326 Месяц назад +1

    Watching this was hard because throughout the ML claims he loves Buckwheat but doesn't SEE her even though they're married. He only notices her once she became thin. In anger, he called her a fat and ugly pig. Those were his real feelings. Then she loses weight and he sees her. No!! If you know a person's heart, you will see it regardless and he didn't. He believed a thin, pretty woman over his thicc wife who has been by his side all along. Why does he get redemption in the end?? Let her put on weight again, then see if he loves his wife thicc as equally as he loves the thin, beautiful wife.
    It's also crappy that they fat suit the FL and have this BS redemption story where she's pathetic when she carried weight but amazing once she lost weight. She was a talented musician the entire time, but it was only after she lost weight that people paid attention.
    I like both leads, they're very good actors and have done well in other stories, but the fat-phobia in this one was just BS.
    On the positive side...dad was her ride or die and mom recognized her after years of not seeing her because both parents lived her unconditionally and knew her heart...so for great parents, I'll score this a little higher than I would if the parents were also toxic...8/10

  • @mylie1019
    @mylie1019 18 дней назад

    Finally, watching FL with a good father & mother, even though they had divorced ❤❤❤. Character is the most important compared to looks....Even though it is human's nature to love beauty/handsome. Love the ending 💯💯💯❤❤❤😍😍😍👍👍👍

  • @emmihongmin7476
    @emmihongmin7476 3 месяца назад +5

    爛剧最后一定是原谅渣男,感谢讨論区,不再浪费时间去看渣男被原谅

  • @esterrios3998
    @esterrios3998 Месяц назад +1

    I'm really beginning to dislike Chinese dramas!! A lot slapping, chocking, painful name calling, then they still get back together!!!😮

  • @laylawriteshorror
    @laylawriteshorror Месяц назад +1

    whether he was in love with her looks or voice... those two things were not HER. Besides her voice.... what else did he love about her??? He never mentioned a single other thing outside of her voice accompanying him at his lowest. SHE is not just a voice or a body type. What if she lost her voice/became mute and could never "sing him to sleep" again? I'm sure someone with a nice voice could take over for her... LAME love story. Besides... if he loved HER and not just her voice... would the problem with the fake 2FL have ever occurred? Him showing up/showering the 2FL with flowers etc... sure... he really loved his wife by watching others belittle her/hurt her. rightttttt. ugh.

  • @MariaCristina-su8uh
    @MariaCristina-su8uh День назад

    Legal ficou linda ❤❤❤🎉

  • @isabellamorello6830
    @isabellamorello6830 Месяц назад +1

    I wish the FL didn't go back to the ML. She deserved better.

  • @nessa8389
    @nessa8389 3 месяца назад +3

    I'm sorry, I've been thin and large, I can't believe the FL believes all her ex husband to be says! I wouldn't care what he's saying now, he said those awful things in front of another woman! He fell in love with her singing well tough mate , I'd say you can remember the songs in your head. The FL needs to build her self respect up again. She's never going to build it up with him because she will be second guessing everything he ever says to her! Build your own life screw him! X

  • @amychan6190
    @amychan6190 3 месяца назад +4

    這揸老公可以拋棄了。

  • @aprilguyguyon107
    @aprilguyguyon107 2 месяца назад +2

    Is kowtowing in your country a sign of asking forgiveness ? Why it would be too easy , like trust isn't earned, will it ? No disrespect but to be on one's knees is when you are totally focused praying and in church after the holy communion , why this actions in movies if it isn't sincere ?

  • @Hello_kilau
    @Hello_kilau 3 месяца назад +1

    渣男總將責任比人,自己最啱最正確😢😢😢

  • @endahbani1325
    @endahbani1325 3 месяца назад +4

    Istrinya di bully suami nya diam saja gada akhlak

  • @ahussain7131
    @ahussain7131 3 месяца назад +3

    Being fat doesn't equate being ugly or a pig
    That's a disgusting rhetoric to push.
    I've never seen a fat person look anything like portrayed in these dramas.
    To make the fat girl in the dramas look ugly they have to make it unrealistic. So when she gets thin she's suddenly 'so gorgeous'😒

  • @maryirene100ortegamartinez8
    @maryirene100ortegamartinez8 3 месяца назад +2

    Pensé que sería una historia diferente pero no fue asi. La verdad el marido no merecía perdón, ni aunque se arrodillara. Nunca le interesó conocer a su esposa, por qué la veía fea y gorda. Era muy superficial y la trataba mal. Todavía en Betty la fea, don Armando se enamoró de Betty y sufrió mucho por el daño que le hizo, por lo que merecía una oportunidad, pero este no. 😒👎

  • @patwalker5133
    @patwalker5133 Месяц назад +1

    Yes, being a person of size myself, people think it's okay to say anything they want about me and its perfectly acceptable. For all the types of discrimination out there, the discrimination against people of size is the worst because it is the one that crosses all races and genders and the one, we have the least control over. If it was easy to fix, would 71 billion dollars (in the US alone) be spent in weight loss diets, gyms, and medical treatments only to have 95% of us fail. 🤔

    • @C1001t
      @C1001t Месяц назад +1

      Exactly! And in many cases it's not that we have poor lifestyle choices, it's really medical issues. And if it is lifestyle choices, realistically unhealthy food costs cheaper.

  • @esperanzaruizyanbalis4048
    @esperanzaruizyanbalis4048 12 дней назад +1

    Name please

  • @Olivia-jp2el
    @Olivia-jp2el 2 месяца назад +1

    Bon drama. Mais elle vaut beaucoup mieux que cela. Son mari est ignoble. Maintenant qu'elle est belle, il peut autant qu'il veut qu'il l'aime à cause de sa voix et le fait qu'elle était avec elle dans ses moments difficiles. Cela ne change pas son attitude lorsqu'elle était grosse. Elle mérite mieux que cela.

  • @MayWong-b2l
    @MayWong-b2l 3 месяца назад +4

    不值的原谅,如果女主原谅渣男,我就不点赞,不推,

  • @林樺鳴
    @林樺鳴 3 месяца назад +5

    男主角帥帥的,又可愛,其實也是蠻會演的

  • @karenf7812
    @karenf7812 3 месяца назад +2

    I'm enjoying this. Have to get past the first couple minutes in though - people are insulting his wife in front of him and he says nothing...? He's cuddling with another woman planning his divorce from FL?
    I wish he had more scenes with the FL. Most of this is verbal attacks from SFL with ML just standing by, with occasional moments of him thinking something is not quite right.
    I love the scene where everyone (and the ML) get to see the truth. He gets a dose of reality showing his own actions/behaviours. And he really has to work for forgiveness. I really like the FL's family. And the ending is cute.

  • @erandeniavalos7532
    @erandeniavalos7532 3 месяца назад +2

    La.insulto de las peores maneras y lo perdona como si nada😢

  • @estherarrieta601
    @estherarrieta601 3 месяца назад +2

    Que risa😂 un hombre tan grande necesita una canción de cuna para dormir

  • @estellefama6846
    @estellefama6846 3 месяца назад

    J'aime beaucoup ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @luciolebleue9345
    @luciolebleue9345 20 дней назад

    Believe in the actions, but not in the words of men. Because it's very easy to lie.

  • @yulow-d8w
    @yulow-d8w 3 месяца назад

    男帥,女美,但男主人設太渣,都還沒離婚就公開跟小三出入各大場所,而且還摟摟抱抱,甚至還公然帶回家裡,嘴說愛女主但從頭看到女主出車禍之前完全無跡可尋😢噁爆🤮其實女主瘦身後恢復自信後真的無須跟男主復合😅
    女主夢璐長得很漂亮很有氣質❤她跟金佳遇演的「一胎三寶豪門老公寵我入骨」也非常好看,觀看人數破百萬人次,也是看女主演這部劇愛上她的😊

  • @shammaymay5434
    @shammaymay5434 3 месяца назад

    好看😊😊

  • @亞芝蔡-j4o
    @亞芝蔡-j4o 2 месяца назад

    長期失眠 是很痛苦的

  • @nuteitlau1212
    @nuteitlau1212 Месяц назад +1

    I looked from mizoram

  • @moy61268
    @moy61268 10 дней назад

    Estos resumen ni nombre del drama ponen

  • @josephinepinter
    @josephinepinter Месяц назад

    "But I can't let soy sauce continue to decieve people" - Subtitles ftw again 🤣🤣🤣

  • @michelBoitard
    @michelBoitard Месяц назад

    J'aime elle les belle fort j'aime bien bravo la vie elle les comme sa et méchant et jalousies............J'aime bien votre histoire 😊😊😊😊😊

  • @hueiyunyap1260
    @hueiyunyap1260 3 месяца назад

    very nice a happy ending

  • @Endgaming-Mc
    @Endgaming-Mc 16 дней назад

    In the series does she really exercise

  • @abeedabdallah4644
    @abeedabdallah4644 2 месяца назад

    Please the name of movie - please

  • @Dianagisela_
    @Dianagisela_ 2 месяца назад

    what is the name of the female actor?

  • @珠珠-k5g
    @珠珠-k5g 3 месяца назад +3

    男主从头到尾一直强调 喜欢和爱的是声音 就是说 他爱的是有这把声音的女人 无论是谁 只要是这声音的主人就行 说明男主爱的只是声音而已 。所以脑残女主何必原谅他呢 这样显得女主很cheap 😩😫

  • @sreelakshmipisupati
    @sreelakshmipisupati 3 месяца назад

    Good but dnt judge any one with their looks....

  • @angelsmile538
    @angelsmile538 3 месяца назад +1

    Finally a wonderful story without violence and blood. And a wonderful detour of love to the heart that chose love. Detours are not always mean. It just takes time 😊❤

  • @johnsonhsieh387
    @johnsonhsieh387 3 месяца назад +3

    女主漂亮,男主帥氣,還是可以看的。

  • @skyesaunders4447
    @skyesaunders4447 3 месяца назад +1

    Outward appearances is not all about the person

  • @maryannmaranga_nanalee1557
    @maryannmaranga_nanalee1557 3 месяца назад +1

    this is entertainment, you must learn how to be good husband. don't speak bad words to your wife, Cause it's hurts a lot. this story is good. I like the plot. the husband regrets and they become live happily.

    • @doloreschait6734
      @doloreschait6734 Месяц назад

      Si mi marido me trata así de grosero y delante de cualquiera, por más q bese el piso por donde camino NO lo perdono!!!!

  • @詹蕙禎
    @詹蕙禎 2 месяца назад +1

    真的沒人知男主名求助朋友告知

  • @candyyu6630
    @candyyu6630 3 месяца назад

    女主好久沒看到她了!記得上一次看到是跟金佳遇演的那部

  • @concettanuzzo1210
    @concettanuzzo1210 3 месяца назад

    Stupendo grazie

  • @aishwaryr
    @aishwaryr 3 месяца назад +1

    Once again no self respect or self love FL drama

  • @esterrios3998
    @esterrios3998 Месяц назад

    Too much unnecessary talks!!!

  • @掴んだら離
    @掴んだら離 2 месяца назад

    字幕が被って読めない😭😭😭😭😭

  • @michelBoitard
    @michelBoitard Месяц назад

    Dans ce mondes que la richesse 😢tous sa le pouvoir

  • @ampymarifi1211
    @ampymarifi1211 3 месяца назад

    very nice drma

  • @nicolinatripodi8172
    @nicolinatripodi8172 Месяц назад

    Bellissima storia

  • @doloreschait6734
    @doloreschait6734 Месяц назад

    Título por favor en español!!!

  • @ewasiwiec9953
    @ewasiwiec9953 3 месяца назад

    Dziekuje

  • @j.decembergirl2007
    @j.decembergirl2007 8 дней назад

    ppl comment here like 'what a good movie'. good movie my ass. they dont see the hundreds of red flags in the characters, especially the ml

  • @roselinetrepy4116
    @roselinetrepy4116 3 месяца назад

    Mon dieu que c'est dure d'etre different😂😂😂😂❤tres bon les acteurs

  • @beverlyjohnsondme
    @beverlyjohnsondme 24 дня назад

    When she said her voice similar to buckwheat...no mame it isn't

  • @澤典林
    @澤典林 3 месяца назад +1

    簡直是像一部電影醜女大翻身

  • @pennymubx2464
    @pennymubx2464 3 месяца назад

    Plus sized curvy women aren't Ugly!!!

  • @Narmada146
    @Narmada146 2 месяца назад

    Ml is blind .I don't like this drama .Ml always supported sfl and always insulted fl after losing weight also . Atleast he should treat her as a human being and fl doesn't have brain after so much insult again she went back to ml .Ml was nice only for few minutes and she just went like that .Fl don't have love and respect herself then why ml will love her .If she is strong and loved herself then no one can bully her .

  • @雅晴李
    @雅晴李 3 месяца назад

    想問一下男女主角的名字為何呢?

  • @laurahelenepunzel447
    @laurahelenepunzel447 3 месяца назад +2

    This is so shallow sjoe fat can also becbeautiful character is the thing.

  • @SilviaBrozovsky
    @SilviaBrozovsky 4 дня назад

    Hmmm,to ne in the Second Minute is autside!
    Tchius!

  • @svetlanaoderiy9431
    @svetlanaoderiy9431 19 дней назад

    Вся драма просто несет лицемерием...двойные стандарты. Было все явно...на поверхности...но его все устраивало так как было и он презирал свою толстую жену, ни на минуту никогда даже не задумывался о том что и как чувствует его жена...постоянные оскорбления, а она любила и терпела...Поражает одно почему она ни разу не обратилась к врачам чтобы заняться собой во время замужества!!! Ежели он свою любовницу приводил домой ???!!! о чем тут можно говорить?!!! Сплошное лицемерие...где гарантия что она родит ребенка и у нее не произойдет гормональный сбой снова??? И он опять побежит искать подходящую любовницу?!!!

  • @skyesaunders4447
    @skyesaunders4447 3 месяца назад +1

    A fools mouth never stay shut they are always gobbling their mouth with nonsense

  • @magdavazquez4627
    @magdavazquez4627 2 месяца назад

    They should use. 2 actress for before and her in the after is kind of weird the makeup you can tell is fake.

  • @RakyPhella
    @RakyPhella 2 месяца назад

    Why isn’t always using him,his for girls

  • @ironman-wf5oe
    @ironman-wf5oe 2 месяца назад

    Saya selalu menganggap drama yang berakhir dengan adegan istri yang teraniaya kembali pada pelukan suami bajingan adalah drama terburuk...

  • @skyesaunders4447
    @skyesaunders4447 3 месяца назад

    That’s funny he is the chef main male lead he so desperately wanted

  • @tnjamilla6958
    @tnjamilla6958 Месяц назад

    yeah skit this one...as pretty as she is , its A COMPLETE WASTE when you get you feelings involved what was the point of going back, its obv she wants the guy but he doenst have any feelings for her , hes only in it because shes pretty now .

  • @Debby_VIxR
    @Debby_VIxR 2 месяца назад

    這個叫雨柔的人真是吵死了

  • @Yoshiyuki-fg3wn
    @Yoshiyuki-fg3wn 3 месяца назад +1

    コスチューム超ミニスカートが、可愛く大変とてもよく似合っているょ。座っている瞬間、しゃがむ瞬間ナイスベストパンチラショット採光いいね。🤗

  • @Magicalsounds-x4g
    @Magicalsounds-x4g 3 месяца назад

    good

  • @MrCycles73
    @MrCycles73 3 месяца назад

    남자주인공의 모습이 좋습니다
    나는 한 두어달 전즘 그가 나오는 다른 드라마 한 편도 봤습니다.
    그가 나오는 다른 드라마 더 많이 시청하고 싶습니다
    이름도 알고싶습니다

  • @anntang8698
    @anntang8698 3 месяца назад

    明明話這綠茶位置在二排,為什她可坐在一排呢???(按大會安排坐位才對的!!!)

  • @詹蕙禎
    @詹蕙禎 3 месяца назад

    有誰告訴我男主名字他以前演出都找不出來要知道名字才能找到拜託各位了

    • @崔小淳
      @崔小淳 2 месяца назад

      余沛杉

    • @nicolepang0422
      @nicolepang0422 2 месяца назад

      余沛杉&賈翼萱-替嫁啞妻甜又颯
      很好看

  • @skyesaunders4447
    @skyesaunders4447 3 месяца назад

    Kind a figured the lady in the red dress was her mother

  • @Jay-rRegala-t9h
    @Jay-rRegala-t9h 3 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @김미란-g5b
    @김미란-g5b 4 дня назад

    이건 "미녀는 괴로워"라는 한국영화를 패러디 한거네? 중국 드라마를 보면서 느낀 점은 독창성과 창의력이 전혀 보이지 않고 그저 남들 다 한거 따라서 모방하는것 밖에 없어