Wow wow wow. What a video. What a channel! Thank you for helping my confidence growth. I have truly been ablw to recognize through this channel that the things ive felt needed to be fixed actually need to be fine tuned. Ive embrased who I am in a way i cant explain simply and it feels like im going from a worm into a either a butterfly or a moth 😂
Thank you for this video.. at my old job my manager told me I was a Sigma male which I never heard of..when I asked him what kind of person he saw me as... great discovery... and this video described me on all points.
In my opinion, any man that is Logical, observant and analytical, all the rest of these traits will follow. Any man with that foundation, the rest of these traits are more an effect. I have always been observant and Logical. I value truth and reason. The rest of these traits naturally springboard off those traits. My point being, So called Sigma males don't share 10, 20, however many traits. We only share a few, and the rest just naturally follow. While we are not as common as i would like, we aren't as special, either.
Took me 68 years to find out that I was a sigma. I thought that there was something wrong with me but I was ok. It was everyone else who was nuttier than a fruit cake. Never could understand movie star or rock star worship. Don’t even get me started on who dies with the most toys wins attitude. The world needs more Sigmas
I never had a label for it. I have a lady friend that said I was an enigma. I looked it up because I wasn't positive how about the definition. That led me to personality traits. That was when I found sigma male. I will say the flaw in all of this is my constant analyzing of everything around me. I don't feel required to understand every aspect of everything. But I love the deepest understanding possible. I'm 64. Social circles, networking, people's overly sensitive nature, also grudges and 1 upmanship, all make me laugh at the fools taking part.
Took me 53 years and separation from spouse to realize who I am. I had questioned myself all these years thinking what was wrong with me? Now I can relax knowing that sigma was and is up.
Much Appreciated! At work I’m Considered a Overachiever and of course I’m Self Supervised as well! It’s true with Knowing where the exits are at lol when your relied on so much and watch with envy eyes! You need some time for yourself and Clarity! I don’t crave the Spotlight but yet it finds me most of the time! Yes I’m private about my personal life and only have a selective few that’s in my inner Circle ⭕️ but that’s not done Deliberately, I was born with a Detail eye and can See the B.S. or the Darkness in most..Also most need Material things to look important or feel important, not my style! I got the money to do so but it’s not that important, when looking into the future! I can go On and On with this Topic but I will end it with this Comment; We are a dying breed, Stay True too Yourself and never bend the knee
Good day to you Brother to quote one of my favorite lyrics "When it's time for me to leave this earth it'll be on both feet not my knees in the dirt" y'all be good question don't know if anyone will see this but I feel bullet proof invincible even at 60 do y'all feel the same?
@@SecretbigWillysigma i wouldn't put it that way honestly. There are many non awesome things about me that make me realize "awesome" isn't how I would describe myself.
As a Sigma in my 50's I 100% agree, BUT I'm a broken Sigma, and that is a whole different matter. A broken Sigma that suffers with disability is like a caged bird that can no longer fly, which causes some serious issues within the personality that I've never heard mentioned. It causes a lot of turmoil mentally.
You arent broken bud, you just havent found the solution to your current obstacle. I broke my back and neck after taking flight from 35 ft up...was told id never walk again, after i started walking i was told id never have my full capabilities again...Glory to the Most High i bring the heat everyday! Even when it seems impossible, we find a way...thats just who we are
I have to agree with @americanmade7262…. I have life-long psoriatic arthritis which caused considerable joint pain since I was a teenager. The youthful disintegration of my lower back became career limiting. The pain was usually debilitating but that led to a life-long policy of ‘mind over matter’. Just shrug off external stimuli. Six years ago I passed out and had a bad fall that broke every bone in my face - - twice. During a process of mostly unsuccessful operations, I suffered a thyroid storm as a precursor to Graves’ disease. Thyroid eye disease followed. I decided not to have my thyroid irradiated and took a potentially liver-crushing drug to manage the thyroid over-activity that had me on the verge of congestive heart failure. Luckily I was in good shape. Now, my medication is down to a very low dose as I’m virtually in remission. Then my maxillo-facial surgeon came down with cancer and needed to take a few months off to have it treated. I jumped in and got a CAT scan and biopsy to get a handle on my worsening PSA levels. The result of that was not particularly favorable intermediate prostate cancer - - but apparently no metastasis by then. Then, early last year, I wangled targeted Proton radiation therapy with six months of androgen deprivation therapy. There were some medical considerations with the deprivation therapy that made that complicated. But one thing I didn’t know when I went into it was that there was a 25% chance that my testosterone levels would _never_ come back. Relieved to say that my levels did return to my normal 600-750 ng/dL’s. Then, by last summer, I was back on the maxillo-facial surgery band wagon with a ten hour surgery that resulted in an inverted-L osteotomy on my right ramus and a full custom joint replacement on my left mandible. I thought I was done by early 2024. But…, an upper incisor that was shattered in the fall and put back in by the trauma surgeon, showed signs of infection and had to be root-canaled shortly after the original trauma. In February it was showing signs of internal resorption and a big chunk of it fell off a week later. So I got a bone-graft in the jaw and an implant for a crown. After nearly 40 hours of surgery over six years, I can now chew food and talk to girls with the best of them. My surgeon suggested I stay out of bar fights and install a bar in my shower. I thought the shower bar was a good idea but a bottle of Bourbon fell off the shelf and cut my foot when it broke. So, the bar is out of the shower, now. (…Keep your perspective, @dethvyper3136 - - hang on to a sense of humor.) While my medical train wreck was not a picnic, it actually paled (…if you can believe that) to the fact that I fell in love with a 27-year old girl just a few months before I fell. She is a magnificent girl and I’ll love her until the day I die but the last thing I would do to someone I loved was to risk ruining their life or to even wasting their time on earth. You see, I was 38-years older than her. I made no sense in her life. My preference was that she would never know that I existed. But shortly after I woke up one morning and realized that I had fallen in love with her, I had a premonition that someday our paths would cross and then I would have to tell her the truth. My dreams may never come true, but my premonitions _always_ come true. This girl could have any boy she wanted but then she probably prefers women. In the meantime, I’ll just try to make sure that I never become the boy that she would be ashamed of being devoted to her to the end of his days. Life is hard. It is full of pain and emptiness and then we die. I’ve always believed that we get the lives we deserve. Our duty is to just live that life. Just a couple of days ago a magnificent 20-something girl pulled up behind me in a MERCEDES when I was pulling my trash container down to the curb. I just had running shorts on my magnificent body because I had just come back from a 7 kilometer run. I do _that_, lift weights, and do leg-lifts _every_ day. She wanted to know what music I was listening to on my headphones. …What a pick-up line, huh??? I’m 70, now and I’m still kick’n ass and take’n names. I’m sleeping with a French girl that’s a fitness instructor. I practice my singing when I run and I’m drilling on the guitar every day with the aim of getting back on a stage. …A Sigma to the last. ‘@dethvypr’ - - At 50-something, you are just a ‘kid’ compared to me. You should be running circles around _me_ and beating me to all the best 20-something’s. Just pick yourself up and live that life of yours. Do some push-ups and sit-ups and then go run 7 kilometers. If you can’t run seven, walk _one_ until you can _run_ seven. Every journey begins with a step. Sigmas never say ‘die’ (…unless they mean somebody else should die).
You are not broken. I have a close friend who was shot in the back in combat and is a paraplegic. Yes, they are physically broken, but I have NEVER met someone who is mentally stronger.
I watch many of your videos due to the tone of the examples of my kind of people and examples that are deeply true. This one hit me hard and teared me up with relief ofc. To be understood and to show this to my family and now they watch these on their own to get me without me telling them anymore. They say it’s hard to talk to me cause I’m too blunt and intimidating even though I’m not trying to be. Thank you for these videos and keep it up. I’m bring more people to watch your videos as well. Much love to all but more so to the misunderstood SIGMAS!!! ❤💪🏾
That's exactly what it is, mind chest, with every thought ,actions and conversation is a piece being moved on the board, and with every move the game changes
Then you're a game player. Soap opera B.S. Why do you want to play games with people? That's something women do. And that you say you "Never lose" shows an incredible lack of self awareness.
Well, let me tell you what happened to me a couple days ago. Two men approach me and begged me for money. They tell me they're in the army (I'm in Ukraine, they think they can just attack foreigners randomly). They start stalking me and get on the bus and follow me clear across town. What do you do when they confront you again as you get off the bus and start walking? I want to see if you'd do what I did.
It has given me something to ponder in terms of whether or not I actually fit this description. Many of the points made describe my personality, however it seems like a fine line between hearing what I believe, and believing what I am hearing.
yes, totally agree with the content! Not so with the caption, though...as I can't see what is so terrifying about these characteristics (exept the darker side, I guess...). Also, I would like to point out, that although we indeed use to have this dark/"evil"? side, which can appear scary and intimidating to others, this DOES NOT mean, that we act on it. As the video explains, for most of us it's basically all about self protection strategies, although there are these evil sigmas of course... (as Putin for example...)
2 and a half years+ into trying to rescue my 9 Afghan interpreters/military heroes from when I served in combat there, spent life savings, derided by friends and family for not "moving on," organizing the effort, and now one by one seeing these men and families actually make it out to freedom. Comments on commitment to principle and never giving up or bowing to societal pressure so true.
I also realized, after 50 years, that I am a sigma. I have always felt outside of all social contexts, but after gaining this insight, I have understood that I have unique qualities that most people do not have! I have always stood up for others who have been mistreated. I always get the facts before entering into discussions and I have always been considered a difficult person because I crush the emotional arguments of unintelligent people. I find the present society to be totally ruled by unintelligent, selfish, corrupt and cowardly existences. This society is not for me! So what should I do? I enjoy my interests best, far away from people, very close to the wonderful harmonious nature! I wish I could have the privilege of meeting and spending time with other sigmas. Discuss interesting thoughts. Work together on interesting projects. I'm really glad I found this channel, but it would be wonderful to meet other sigmaites in real life.
Great highlights of personality traits. On #6 for me this has 2 parts. Maybe 30% is as you described. Behind a door very few get past. Yet, i shock some with the things ill let the world see. I simply explain those things have no value to me so why would I care if people knew about them. I've been called shameless in regards to my life. #7&8, you wouldn't like me if I'm angry! I haven't been angered for a few decades
Obstacles like a brick wall in your path? Options: Over, under, or around. And, at times, depending on who/what the obstacle is, STRAIGHT THROUGH may be the best option, Yes, people can be surprised when I get VERY blunt and direct. Most don't realize that they're just seeing what's going on internally with me ALL of the time.
I believe the reason I am a sigma( I have been told by my friends repeatedly) is because of my father leaving when I was young. I had to figure out my process in life. The only thing I learned from that experience is self-reliance and Independence it has been invaluable. People get absolutely angry with me because of how I operate within the confines of society. I am not conventional, I do not go along with the status quo, I make my own way, my own rules(boundries), and I do not impose my will upon others and stay in the parameters of legal and polite Society, doing my best to help ever, and hurt never. Because of my stoic and analytical nature, (minding my own business) just being quiet has got me in more trouble then you could possibly imagine. Situational awareness is absolutely essential as a sigma.
Wow wow wow. What a video. What a channel! Thank you for helping my confidence growth. I have truly been ablw to recognize through this channel that the things ive felt needed to be fixed actually need to be fine tuned. Ive embrased who I am in a way i cant explain simply and it feels like im going from a worm into a either a butterfly or a moth 😂
@@SecretbigWillysigma wing worm would work except I wrestled in high school and it reminds me too much of the feared ring worm. I like your thought process though. Big Beautiful butterfly would be amazing to turn into but I'm not so naive to think that's my only possibility lol.
While this does accurately describe myself, i am apprehensive to the label, or any label. I appreciate that there is a term that best describes myself, i am inherently opposed to using the label or joining some group. Thanks for the video.
That's why when I was growing, everyone kept on asking me, why I was so serious, that's true, the first thing I do when I go into a public place, is to look around and know where the exits are, that's also true when I go to a club you'll find me in a dark corner watching everyone else.
This is how I survived being orphaned from birth black market sold to two freaks. Read Sun tze and applied it. For me this video was somewhat biographical interesting I get all of it.
i've been told they wouldn't play poker with me because they couldn't read me, I had to explain to a customer admiring my ability to be safe ,that it's not a situation of if but when
I guess I’m a sigma, though I used to think of myself as just weird. Every motel, restaurant or public venue I’m in, I have to physically recon the exits. I’m intelligent, but often have trouble persuading others that I’m right. There’s definitely a lack of social skills in my personality. There have been times i demonstrated that I was right by embarrassing my opponent ruthlessly. This didn’t end well because he was also usually my boss…
Like many of my fellows here, I can identify with every example! Through this video and others that explain the Signa Personality group, I finally found my place in Humanity. The reveal is really comforting explaining why I am the way I am. I still am misunderstood, but that is not My problem , is it ? Thanks
It is a martial art form where you don't have to punch or block. Not sure about others, but mine seemed to come full force after voices in my head led me to a car accident between Peggs and Locust Grove Oklahoma. Not sure if it was just an NDE or an actual death, but I was definitely supposed to do it; almost like I couldn't avoid it. I was airlifted to Tulsa Medical Center. It felt like a rebirth. The day I was born in 1976, I was also airlifted, only it was to Amarillo Texas. There are a lot of synchronicities when comparing my birth and rebirth. And after the wreck, doppelgangers were everywhere for roughly two days. Every cop, firefighter, medical worker, and paramedic all looked like someone who was close to me throughout my life. That day in October of 2008 was a rebirth and it was also like hitting a high degree......a capstone or high angle in my life. I now have a vegan diet. That may have been the smartest decision I could have made. It has been 16 years now since that wreck in my KIA. I feel like a 16 year old...😂
My darker side came out in a bar last night, with a man who took great liberties in invading my space. This is the second time someone has pushed me too far in only 3 months, which is very unusual. In each case, I pushed the man to the ground (different guys) and stood over him shouting a clear warning to make sure there was no doubt that he was in danger if he didn't stay away from me. It may have seemed extreme, it was certainly very intense, but never in my life have I ever actually punched anyone or caused them physical harm. Thankfully, it's never been necessary. In each of these cases, the men reacted the same. They even had the very same, startled look on their face as they stayed on the ground looking bemused. I'm usually really chilled and most people who know me have difficulty believing that this side of me exists. When my control is gone, it is very sudden and extreme. That said, it is only ever a warning, albeit a very clear warning. It's not that I've completely lost control, more that I've jumped into another mode. One that's more appropriate for the situation.
My best friend is an alpha and im the sigma yeah thats correct very few sigma males tho. I dont know very many people like myself its normally alpha vs beta but then you have us lone wolves 😂
How about this for your video script: "Here's an idea for your video: The mysterious strength of a sigma male is their ability to defy societal norms and preconceptions at will. They choose the truth above igal or illegal, love above hate , justice above injustice even its going against their interes 😉 But here's the kicker: anyone can do it if they truly desire. It's all about embracing a mindset that anyone can adopt at any time."
I agree mostly as I seem to have many of these characteristics, I have no real interest in driving , although when I drove if I was on my own it was enjoyable enough. Then again my parents never drove or allowed us to even have bikes. Technology in and of itself I have no real interest in beyond the knowledge it is allowing me to access. But I found this interesting.
Sigma men are not to trifle with. Try to micromanage or control us, or make us subordinate and you’ll get confused and over confident when we don’t respond. You will even call us defiant and arrogant. When you think we are too dense to get it, you find out when it’s too late that we are three steps ahead of you, and have used your behavior against you so you publicly embarrass yourself.
Aloof. Arrogant. Selfish. Yet everyone turns to me to fix everything they screw up and in turn blame me for everything bad in the world. Maybe now I got a clue......how many times have I said you just dont understand things like I do and when I am right which is almost always I am a smartass and everybody is mad as hell at me for being right. Somewhere along the line I learned to say I got no opinion in a vain attempt to avoid this but then I say ....told ya so.....
2nd woman i've been with, i have to go out sometimes to release. If I release in front of her as she asks, I loose everything, I don't want to do that Well she's gone now, i'm glad because alone I want to be anyway.
All of these Sigma males videos do and that's why I love them and can't get enough of them. They serve as a constant reminder of who I truly am and want to be.
It's not that we never back down, it's more about being strategic and not engaging in battles we won't win anyway so that we don't waste precious time and energy. More often than not, it is much better to ignore and avoid battles, rather than engaging in them. We would much rather use that time and energy wisely on other productive matters instead. This is the best way to take revenge anyway if we feel that we've been wronged somehow. We would much rather let assholes live with themselves like the piece of shit that they are, while we take nothing personally and just move on with our own business instead, keeping it all blissful and peaceful. If people don't come at me correctly in the first place, I simply won't engage with them and don't want to have anything to do with them ever. I only engage with people who come correct and act respectfully and professionally. Then there won't even be any problems.
I woud like to know the year of birth of all sigma males because I have a suspiscion. All these facts are characteristic for the chinese zodiac sign of the male ox.
@@syzygymyscryncy673 here's something quite interesting look up the personality traits of people with green eyes you'll find that the traits between sigma ls and green eyes people are quite the same not to mention only 2% of the world population has green eyes ...I would really like to know how many so called sigmas have green eyes like me it's very interesting...
From my experience, it comes down through my Fraternal Family lineage. Myself, my Dad, my Grandfather and my Great Grandfather. Great Grampa was a 6' 9" Scottsman Highlander that came to the states in the 1880's. All have seen war, all injured during it, all hated it and all becaome domestic lawmen. I had a fellow Sigma refer to us all as coming from a Sentry Class charged with the keeping of the Tartarian Bloodlines.
I told my wife so many times, I think I'm on the spectrum as high functioning. She always replied "you definitely aren't". This channel helped me understand she was right.
Ya after your around so many ppl you and you watch them... you start to realize most ppl act the same, respond the same, and for the most part they all think the same. Then you start to see the patterns of reality and you can almost predict the future hahaha
The Hidden Dark side as said from 7:50 to 8:10 of true Sigmas is pure Beast mode once turned on and is a force to be reckoned with. I was once at a Police precinct being yelled at by a top officer pig but I remained calm and quiet. I could feel the beast inside me growing steadily and then all of a sudden I screamed so loud back at that pig to not ever raise his voice like that to me that he was left completely speechless and quiet like a mouse. Other officers heard that scream from outside his office and popped in to see if everything was cool. I got up and left the office while that top pig remained quiet like a good lil Alpha.... That beast does exist within all Sigmas just waiting to come out!
That why child baby, cat , and strangers somehow look at me but keep distance huh.. That icy i think, because i just thinking something and analytic them at same time. Its made my eyes look like that. i'm sorry for that, its not intentionally.. in fact. We cant see how we are look right?
this is for military officer recruitment. the military is looking for this personality type because people naturally respect or fear them. theyre looking for borderline sociopaths or basically creeps that normally would be horrified to hurt anything but very pragmatic about how exterminatingparasites like insects works.
That’s not a ridiculous theory. I was starting to wonder who was putting out all these SIGMA male videos - - all slick and repetitive down to the content. But the military would primarily want Alphas and Betas - - not Sigmas. The military would fall apart if there were nothing but Sigmas. Sigmas would be good for special forces - - at best. But you don’t need so many special force swing’n dicks. If you have too many, they go haywire and start fighting for themselves. That would be a disaster for the military. The military wants to maintain control. They don’t want people that are playing for their own team. Remember: Sigmas, “…don’t play well with others.”
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Wow wow wow. What a video. What a channel! Thank you for helping my confidence growth. I have truly been ablw to recognize through this channel that the things ive felt needed to be fixed actually need to be fine tuned. Ive embrased who I am in a way i cant explain simply and it feels like im going from a worm into a either a butterfly or a moth 😂
Thank you for this video.. at my old job my manager told me I was a Sigma male which I never heard of..when I asked him what kind of person he saw me as... great discovery... and this video described me on all points.
In my opinion, any man that is Logical, observant and analytical, all the rest of these traits will follow. Any man with that foundation, the rest of these traits are more an effect.
I have always been observant and Logical. I value truth and reason. The rest of these traits naturally springboard off those traits. My point being, So called Sigma males don't share 10, 20, however many traits. We only share a few, and the rest just naturally follow.
While we are not as common as i would like, we aren't as special, either.
Stay alert!
Stay alive!
Stay strong!
Peace ✌️
I say that to my family all the time.
Lone Wolf
Lone gay
Took me 68 years to find out that I was a sigma. I thought that there was something wrong with me but I was ok. It was everyone else who was nuttier than a fruit cake. Never could understand movie star or rock star worship. Don’t even get me started on who dies with the most toys wins attitude. The world needs more Sigmas
People always thought I was strange and different. Good video. Now I have a better understanding
Same here. Thanks
I never had a label for it. I have a lady friend that said I was an enigma. I looked it up because I wasn't positive how about the definition. That led me to personality traits. That was when I found sigma male. I will say the flaw in all of this is my constant analyzing of everything around me. I don't feel required to understand every aspect of everything. But I love the deepest understanding possible. I'm 64. Social circles, networking, people's overly sensitive nature, also grudges and 1 upmanship, all make me laugh at the fools taking part.
If it was more of us we wouldn't be rare or special now would We 🤔💯💫💫✨🤟🏽
I'm coming up on 62 soon and I get it
Took me 53 years and separation from spouse to realize who I am. I had questioned myself all these years thinking what was wrong with me? Now I can relax knowing that sigma was and is up.
You are not alone. This happened to me
"Who you are"...?
You needed a word or a category in order to know who you are? If Sigma is a thing, you don't sound like one.
@@PoopaChallupa If poop is in your name, go poop and leave me alone. You poop.
Wow, that's exactly what I went through, my own mother thought I was a demon.
Nothing like a divorce court to wake you up from your slumber, stay strong 💪 😊
10 years ago we were called conspiracy theorists as well, not just those who awakened since 2020..
Lol so true. While the world was calling the earth flat, sigmas were being killed for calling it round.
I don't want to be a sigma anymore ☹️
@@SecretbigWillysigma don't worry.. you were never one to begin with.
Amerika = ZOGs utopia. Shalom
Yep
Much Appreciated! At work I’m Considered a Overachiever and of course I’m Self Supervised as well! It’s true with Knowing where the exits are at lol when your relied on so much and watch with envy eyes! You need some time for yourself and Clarity! I don’t crave the Spotlight but yet it finds me most of the time! Yes I’m private about my personal life and only have a selective few that’s in my inner Circle ⭕️ but that’s not done Deliberately, I was born with a Detail eye and can See the B.S. or the Darkness in most..Also most need Material things to look important or feel important, not my style! I got the money to do so but it’s not that important, when looking into the future! I can go On and On with this Topic but I will end it with this Comment; We are a dying breed, Stay True too Yourself and never bend the knee
Good day to you Brother to quote one of my favorite lyrics "When it's time for me to leave this earth it'll be on both feet not my knees in the dirt" y'all be good question don't know if anyone will see this but I feel bullet proof invincible even at 60 do y'all feel the same?
So accurate it brought tears to my eyes. Not of sadness but Of deep reflection and acknowledgment. Cheers
This channel has brought tears to my eyes multiple times for that reason! Almost like my brain is like "see, you aren't crazy, embrace yourself".
@@avoice4thevoiceless916are you super secret awesome too?
@@SecretbigWillysigma i wouldn't put it that way honestly. There are many non awesome things about me that make me realize "awesome" isn't how I would describe myself.
@@avoice4thevoiceless916 fair enough said
As someone who's been there...sometimes it's need. A lip reinforcement goes along ways. Check out stoicism it's a mind blower
They know where the exits are
Me👀 everywhere I go😂😂
Me too lol especially in meetings or social settings 😂
I'm like that in cinemas. That's when I realised who I was
Yes, Sigmas are born with it. Other(LEOs, 3 letter agencies) have to learn it. I can also, remember the layouts too.
As a Sigma in my 50's I 100% agree, BUT I'm a broken Sigma, and that is a whole different matter. A broken Sigma that suffers with disability is like a caged bird that can no longer fly, which causes some serious issues within the personality that I've never heard mentioned. It causes a lot of turmoil mentally.
You are not alone.
You arent broken bud, you just havent found the solution to your current obstacle. I broke my back and neck after taking flight from 35 ft up...was told id never walk again, after i started walking i was told id never have my full capabilities again...Glory to the Most High i bring the heat everyday! Even when it seems impossible, we find a way...thats just who we are
I have to agree with @americanmade7262…. I have life-long psoriatic arthritis which caused considerable joint pain since I was a teenager. The youthful disintegration of my lower back became career limiting. The pain was usually debilitating but that led to a life-long policy of ‘mind over matter’. Just shrug off external stimuli. Six years ago I passed out and had a bad fall that broke every bone in my face - - twice. During a process of mostly unsuccessful operations, I suffered a thyroid storm as a precursor to Graves’ disease. Thyroid eye disease followed. I decided not to have my thyroid irradiated and took a potentially liver-crushing drug to manage the thyroid over-activity that had me on the verge of congestive heart failure. Luckily I was in good shape. Now, my medication is down to a very low dose as I’m virtually in remission. Then my maxillo-facial surgeon came down with cancer and needed to take a few months off to have it treated. I jumped in and got a CAT scan and biopsy to get a handle on my worsening PSA levels. The result of that was not particularly favorable intermediate prostate cancer - - but apparently no metastasis by then. Then, early last year, I wangled targeted Proton radiation therapy with six months of androgen deprivation therapy. There were some medical considerations with the deprivation therapy that made that complicated. But one thing I didn’t know when I went into it was that there was a 25% chance that my testosterone levels would _never_ come back. Relieved to say that my levels did return to my normal 600-750 ng/dL’s. Then, by last summer, I was back on the maxillo-facial surgery band wagon with a ten hour surgery that resulted in an inverted-L osteotomy on my right ramus and a full custom joint replacement on my left mandible. I thought I was done by early 2024. But…, an upper incisor that was shattered in the fall and put back in by the trauma surgeon, showed signs of infection and had to be root-canaled shortly after the original trauma. In February it was showing signs of internal resorption and a big chunk of it fell off a week later. So I got a bone-graft in the jaw and an implant for a crown.
After nearly 40 hours of surgery over six years, I can now chew food and talk to girls with the best of them. My surgeon suggested I stay out of bar fights and install a bar in my shower. I thought the shower bar was a good idea but a bottle of Bourbon fell off the shelf and cut my foot when it broke. So, the bar is out of the shower, now. (…Keep your perspective, @dethvyper3136 - - hang on to a sense of humor.)
While my medical train wreck was not a picnic, it actually paled (…if you can believe that) to the fact that I fell in love with a 27-year old girl just a few months before I fell. She is a magnificent girl and I’ll love her until the day I die but the last thing I would do to someone I loved was to risk ruining their life or to even wasting their time on earth. You see, I was 38-years older than her. I made no sense in her life. My preference was that she would never know that I existed. But shortly after I woke up one morning and realized that I had fallen in love with her, I had a premonition that someday our paths would cross and then I would have to tell her the truth. My dreams may never come true, but my premonitions _always_ come true. This girl could have any boy she wanted but then she probably prefers women. In the meantime, I’ll just try to make sure that I never become the boy that she would be ashamed of being devoted to her to the end of his days.
Life is hard. It is full of pain and emptiness and then we die. I’ve always believed that we get the lives we deserve. Our duty is to just live that life. Just a couple of days ago a magnificent 20-something girl pulled up behind me in a MERCEDES when I was pulling my trash container down to the curb. I just had running shorts on my magnificent body because I had just come back from a 7 kilometer run. I do _that_, lift weights, and do leg-lifts _every_ day. She wanted to know what music I was listening to on my headphones. …What a pick-up line, huh???
I’m 70, now and I’m still kick’n ass and take’n names. I’m sleeping with a French girl that’s a fitness instructor. I practice my singing when I run and I’m drilling on the guitar every day with the aim of getting back on a stage. …A Sigma to the last. ‘@dethvypr’ - - At 50-something, you are just a ‘kid’ compared to me. You should be running circles around _me_ and beating me to all the best 20-something’s. Just pick yourself up and live that life of yours. Do some push-ups and sit-ups and then go run 7 kilometers. If you can’t run seven, walk _one_ until you can _run_ seven. Every journey begins with a step. Sigmas never say ‘die’ (…unless they mean somebody else should die).
If you are a true sigma, you will find a way out. We have no other options.
You are not broken. I have a close friend who was shot in the back in combat and is a paraplegic. Yes, they are physically broken, but I have NEVER met someone who is mentally stronger.
It is written. Do not mess with a sigma male.
Good message 👍🏾
Thanks for this content.
I watch many of your videos due to the tone of the examples of my kind of people and examples that are deeply true. This one hit me hard and teared me up with relief ofc. To be understood and to show this to my family and now they watch these on their own to get me without me telling them anymore. They say it’s hard to talk to me cause I’m too blunt and intimidating even though I’m not trying to be. Thank you for these videos and keep it up. I’m bring more people to watch your videos as well. Much love to all but more so to the misunderstood SIGMAS!!! ❤💪🏾
My best trait is playing mind chess with others. I am always 2 moves ahead of them as I can read them like a book. I never lose.
I knew you would say that 😀
That's exactly what it is, mind chest, with every thought ,actions and conversation is a piece being moved on the board, and with every move the game changes
Then you're a game player. Soap opera B.S. Why do you want to play games with people? That's something women do. And that you say you "Never lose" shows an incredible lack of self awareness.
Well, let me tell you what happened to me a couple days ago. Two men approach me and begged me for money. They tell me they're in the army (I'm in Ukraine, they think they can just attack foreigners randomly). They start stalking me and get on the bus and follow me clear across town. What do you do when they confront you again as you get off the bus and start walking? I want to see if you'd do what I did.
Thanks! 😊 It's a spoton on my friend.
Love these videos. It explains so much about my my behavior that I thought were character flaws. Always learning!
Love the video
Good to know I'm not the only one out there! Live long and prosper!
It has given me something to ponder in terms of whether or not I actually fit this description. Many of the points made describe my personality, however it seems like a fine line between hearing what I believe, and believing what I am hearing.
Achieve Greatness 👍☺👍🙏
I agree on EVERY point!
Sigma 4 Ever! 🐺
Team up?
yes, totally agree with the content! Not so with the caption, though...as I can't see what is so terrifying about these characteristics (exept the darker side, I guess...). Also, I would like to point out, that although we indeed use to have this dark/"evil"? side, which can appear scary and intimidating to others, this DOES NOT mean, that we act on it. As the video explains, for most of us it's basically all about self protection strategies, although there are these evil sigmas of course... (as Putin for example...)
very accurate, thank you
2 and a half years+ into trying to rescue my 9 Afghan interpreters/military heroes from when I served in combat there, spent life savings, derided by friends and family for not "moving on," organizing the effort, and now one by one seeing these men and families actually make it out to freedom. Comments on commitment to principle and never giving up or bowing to societal pressure so true.
Sounds to me that you have “moved on”. …And you’ve started a noble ‘hobby’. …It all sounds right to me. Carry on.
I also realized, after 50 years, that I am a sigma. I have always felt outside of all social contexts, but after gaining this insight, I have understood that I have unique qualities that most people do not have! I have always stood up for others who have been mistreated. I always get the facts before entering into discussions and I have always been considered a difficult person because I crush the emotional arguments of unintelligent people. I find the present society to be totally ruled by unintelligent, selfish, corrupt and cowardly existences. This society is not for me! So what should I do? I enjoy my interests best, far away from people, very close to the wonderful harmonious nature! I wish I could have the privilege of meeting and spending time with other sigmas. Discuss interesting thoughts. Work together on interesting projects. I'm really glad I found this channel, but it would be wonderful to meet other sigmaites in real life.
I agree with all 8. However, I’m learning now that the level of these 8 issues can be amplified through childhood trauma.
Get out of my head X
This is very helpful to me as I have often felt I was def not an Alpha but nor am I a Beta male. I just thought I was odd and kept this to myself.
One of the most challenging parts of being a sigma is accepting the fact that everyone looks to you for answers
And sometimes you have to be honest and tell them that there are no answers, they just have to suck it up !
Interesting. Felt as though I had been pyschoanalized. And the findings published. Why it is a "rare" mindset is the mystery now.
Great highlights of personality traits. On #6 for me this has 2 parts. Maybe 30% is as you described. Behind a door very few get past. Yet, i shock some with the things ill let the world see. I simply explain those things have no value to me so why would I care if people knew about them. I've been called shameless in regards to my life. #7&8, you wouldn't like me if I'm angry! I haven't been angered for a few decades
Agreed with every point 💯
I don’t know how you do it but I know what I am now!
Obstacles like a brick wall in your path? Options: Over, under, or around. And, at times, depending on who/what the obstacle is, STRAIGHT THROUGH may be the best option,
Yes, people can be surprised when I get VERY blunt and direct. Most don't realize that they're just seeing what's going on internally with me ALL of the time.
I believe the reason I am a sigma( I have been told by my friends repeatedly) is because of my father leaving when I was young. I had to figure out my process in life. The only thing I learned from that experience is self-reliance and Independence it has been invaluable.
People get absolutely angry with me because of how I operate within the confines of society. I am not conventional, I do not go along with the status quo, I make my own way, my own rules(boundries), and I do not impose my will upon others and stay in the parameters of legal and polite Society, doing my best to help ever, and hurt never.
Because of my stoic and analytical nature, (minding my own business) just being quiet has got me in more trouble then you could possibly imagine.
Situational awareness is absolutely essential as a sigma.
Achieve Greatness
Hit the nail on the head!
Wow wow wow. What a video. What a channel! Thank you for helping my confidence growth. I have truly been ablw to recognize through this channel that the things ive felt needed to be fixed actually need to be fine tuned. Ive embrased who I am in a way i cant explain simply and it feels like im going from a worm into a either a butterfly or a moth 😂
Wing worm? 🤷♂️
A big beautiful butterfly! 🦋 😘
@@SecretbigWillysigma wing worm would work except I wrestled in high school and it reminds me too much of the feared ring worm. I like your thought process though. Big Beautiful butterfly would be amazing to turn into but I'm not so naive to think that's my only possibility lol.
Can anyone else feel people's energy when it's time to leave? Drives me nuts sometimes.
I feel negative energy a mile away. I get agitated before something happens every time.. it's a curse.
Yeah,.. I don't know how these people who researched this stuff know these things but it's EERILY on point
While this does accurately describe myself, i am apprehensive to the label, or any label. I appreciate that there is a term that best describes myself, i am inherently opposed to using the label or joining some group. Thanks for the video.
Good work! But as a humble suggestion, you should include blue collars too in your videos. There are Sigmas among them too
This video is something you can watch. It is great, awesome. It says that people think and feel certain ways.
That's why when I was growing, everyone kept on asking me, why I was so serious, that's true, the first thing I do when I go into a public place, is to look around and know where the exits are, that's also true when I go to a club you'll find me in a dark corner watching everyone else.
🏆🏆🏆 THIS INFO IS SO SO SERIOUS AND SPECIFICALLY DANGEROUS!!!
Yes this is me!! Especially knowing where the exits are lol 😂
Fascinating. Described me to a tee, including my dark side that I have only had to let out once in over 30 years, which shocked my closest friends.
This is how I survived being orphaned from birth black market sold to two freaks. Read Sun tze and applied it. For me this video was somewhat biographical interesting I get all of it.
I doubt if everyone considering themselves sigma aren't.
Pay attention. Observe. When you know youre right and have the facts to back it up,NEVER BACK DOWN.
very good, thank you
Thankyou. Im a sigma Aries
i've been told they wouldn't play poker with me because they couldn't read me, I had to explain to a customer admiring my ability to be safe ,that it's not a situation of if but when
I guess I’m a sigma, though I used to think of myself as just weird. Every motel, restaurant or public venue I’m in, I have to physically recon the exits. I’m intelligent, but often have trouble persuading others that I’m right. There’s definitely a lack of social skills in my personality. There have been times i demonstrated that I was right by embarrassing my opponent ruthlessly. This didn’t end well because he was also usually my boss…
Friend as many sigmas as you can and watch your whole world change for the better ❤️
This doesn't make me feel any better, but at least it's given me some insight into myself.
Like many of my fellows here, I can identify with every example! Through this video and others that explain the Signa Personality group, I finally found my place in Humanity. The reveal is really comforting explaining why I am the way I am. I still am misunderstood, but that is not My problem , is it ? Thanks
As a Sigma, I agree
Much obliged for giving your voice for the voiceless…
@achievegreatnessmedia
If I ever have to go into combat, I would want a Sigma on my left and on my right!
I dunno. I've lost a lot of good sigma's to guys like you 👉
It is a martial art form where you don't have to punch or block. Not sure about others, but mine seemed to come full force after voices in my head led me to a car accident between Peggs and Locust Grove Oklahoma. Not sure if it was just an NDE or an actual death, but I was definitely supposed to do it; almost like I couldn't avoid it. I was airlifted to Tulsa Medical Center. It felt like a rebirth. The day I was born in 1976, I was also airlifted, only it was to Amarillo Texas. There are a lot of synchronicities when comparing my birth and rebirth. And after the wreck, doppelgangers were everywhere for roughly two days. Every cop, firefighter, medical worker, and paramedic all looked like someone who was close to me throughout my life. That day in October of 2008 was a rebirth and it was also like hitting a high degree......a capstone or high angle in my life. I now have a vegan diet. That may have been the smartest decision I could have made. It has been 16 years now since that wreck in my KIA. I feel like a 16 year old...😂
Born 09/05/1961 so that makes me a virgo ox. The Sigma male can also be an INTJ, according to the Myers Briggs personality type.
I'm in that window too. 21/04/61
My darker side came out in a bar last night, with a man who took great liberties in invading my space.
This is the second time someone has pushed me too far in only 3 months, which is very unusual.
In each case, I pushed the man to the ground (different guys) and stood over him shouting a clear warning to make sure there was no doubt that he was in danger if he didn't stay away from me. It may have seemed extreme, it was certainly very intense, but never in my life have I ever actually punched anyone or caused them physical harm. Thankfully, it's never been necessary.
In each of these cases, the men reacted the same. They even had the very same, startled look on their face as they stayed on the ground looking bemused.
I'm usually really chilled and most people who know me have difficulty believing that this side of me exists. When my control is gone, it is very sudden and extreme. That said, it is only ever a warning, albeit a very clear warning. It's not that I've completely lost control, more that I've jumped into another mode. One that's more appropriate for the situation.
My best friend is an alpha and im the sigma yeah thats correct very few sigma males tho. I dont know very many people like myself its normally alpha vs beta but then you have us lone wolves 😂
How about this for your video script: "Here's an idea for your video: The mysterious strength of a sigma male is their ability to defy societal norms and preconceptions at will. They choose the truth above igal or illegal, love above hate , justice above injustice even its going against their interes 😉 But here's the kicker: anyone can do it if they truly desire. It's all about embracing a mindset that anyone can adopt at any time."
Your words are all runny. Made me sad 😔
I agree mostly as I seem to have many of these characteristics, I have no real interest in driving , although when I drove if I was on my own it was enjoyable enough. Then again my parents never drove or allowed us to even have bikes.
Technology in and of itself I have no real interest in beyond the knowledge it is allowing me to access.
But I found this interesting.
I cannot believe this video describes me perfectly and I thought I was the only one this way this is crazy it’s exact 😊
Yes I agree with your characterization, of sigmas
Sigma men are not to trifle with. Try to micromanage or control us, or make us subordinate and you’ll get confused and over confident when we don’t respond. You will even call us defiant and arrogant. When you think we are too dense to get it, you find out when it’s too late that we are three steps ahead of you, and have used your behavior against you so you publicly embarrass yourself.
Has anyone tested the intelligence quotients of this trait?mine was tested 4 x in elementary school,1972,The score was in 130,
138
damn your good ! impressive opinion ..
Aloof. Arrogant. Selfish. Yet everyone turns to me to fix everything they screw up and in turn blame me for everything bad in the world. Maybe now I got a clue......how many times have I said you just dont understand things like I do and when I am right which is almost always I am a smartass and everybody is mad as hell at me for being right. Somewhere along the line I learned to say I got no opinion in a vain attempt to avoid this but then I say ....told ya so.....
I agree with most of this presentation
100% spot on
The video is accurate
My goodness, these days I'm being analysed by quite a few video makers!
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Be ready
I don't know, or much care, whether or not I am a sigma, but according to the criteria described in this vid, I am.
Everything comes naturally with us sigmas, we r the chosen one's. Always pleasure to consume such inspiring content such timeless enlightenment.
We should all just get together and have a lovely day out
Nice! ✌️😐
2nd woman i've been with, i have to go out sometimes to release. If I release in front of her as she asks, I loose everything, I don't want to do that Well she's gone now, i'm glad because alone I want to be anyway.
My Grandparents always said, Be a Leader,never follow...
On point
5 years after leaving the Military as ChemE degreed Platoon Leader. I was Chief Chemist for a Huge Chemical Global Corp.
Agree.
This is nuts, this video describes me to a "T", Who the hell came up with this Lol!
All of these Sigma males videos do and that's why I love them and can't get enough of them. They serve as a constant reminder of who I truly am and want to be.
It's not that we never back down, it's more about being strategic and not engaging in battles we won't win anyway so that we don't waste precious time and energy. More often than not, it is much better to ignore and avoid battles, rather than engaging in them. We would much rather use that time and energy wisely on other productive matters instead. This is the best way to take revenge anyway if we feel that we've been wronged somehow. We would much rather let assholes live with themselves like the piece of shit that they are, while we take nothing personally and just move on with our own business instead, keeping it all blissful and peaceful.
If people don't come at me correctly in the first place, I simply won't engage with them and don't want to have anything to do with them ever. I only engage with people who come correct and act respectfully and professionally. Then there won't even be any problems.
What made us like this? Like we all do the same things and have the same characters do what was the common mould we all came out of?
I woud like to know the year of birth of all sigma males because I have a suspiscion. All these facts are characteristic for the chinese zodiac sign of the male ox.
@@syzygymyscryncy673 here's something quite interesting look up the personality traits of people with green eyes you'll find that the traits between sigma ls and green eyes people are quite the same not to mention only 2% of the world population has green eyes ...I would really like to know how many so called sigmas have green eyes like me it's very interesting...
I'm Virgo the Virgin I was bit by the snake 🐍 on my right hand age 7 in August . Cotton mouth.
75, whatever that animal is
From my experience, it comes down through my Fraternal Family lineage. Myself, my Dad, my Grandfather and my Great Grandfather. Great Grampa was a 6' 9" Scottsman Highlander that came to the states in the 1880's. All have seen war, all injured during it, all hated it and all becaome domestic lawmen. I had a fellow Sigma refer to us all as coming from a Sentry Class charged with the keeping of the Tartarian Bloodlines.
Sigmas made society come up with the term "toxic masculinity "..
That's not nice....
I don't feel toxic......
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I used to think that I have some form of ESP. I've since realized that I am Sigma.
😂yes….
I told my wife so many times, I think I'm on the spectrum as high functioning. She always replied "you definitely aren't". This channel helped me understand she was right.
@@avoice4thevoiceless916 😂
Ya after your around so many ppl you and you watch them... you start to realize most ppl act the same, respond the same, and for the most part they all think the same. Then you start to see the patterns of reality and you can almost predict the future hahaha
Yep. Got me.
The first rule of Sigma Club is...😶
Don't realise you're mental 👍
Your mission statement is to follow your own path and not that of the masses.
@@FischerFan Vitamin C is not Vitamin me 👍
Two eyes, two ears, one mouth. Nature is teaching a lesson there, pay attention to it.
…What ‘Club’?!?!?
I learned not to stare, it freaked folks out.
The Hidden Dark side as said from 7:50 to 8:10 of true Sigmas is pure Beast mode once turned on and is a force to be reckoned with.
I was once at a Police precinct being yelled at by a top officer pig but I remained calm and quiet. I could feel the beast inside me growing steadily and then all of a sudden I screamed so loud back at that pig to not ever raise his voice like that to me that he was left completely speechless and quiet like a mouse. Other officers heard that scream from outside his office and popped in to see if everything was cool. I got up and left the office while that top pig remained quiet like a good lil Alpha....
That beast does exist within all Sigmas just waiting to come out!
"Oh yeah truth be told!
I hate that these answers on Sigma's are so point on. I'd rather go unseen.,
I feel and think your video
Interesting a lot makes so much sense now 😂 never knew there was a name for these traits.
Yup
That why child baby, cat , and strangers somehow look at me but keep distance huh.. That icy i think, because i just thinking something and analytic them at same time. Its made my eyes look like that. i'm sorry for that, its not intentionally.. in fact. We cant see how we are look right?
this is for military officer recruitment. the military is looking for this personality type because people naturally respect or fear them. theyre looking for borderline sociopaths or basically creeps that normally would be horrified to hurt anything but very pragmatic about how exterminatingparasites like insects works.
That’s not a ridiculous theory. I was starting to wonder who was putting out all these SIGMA male videos - - all slick and repetitive down to the content. But the military would primarily want Alphas and Betas - - not Sigmas. The military would fall apart if there were nothing but Sigmas. Sigmas would be good for special forces - - at best. But you don’t need so many special force swing’n dicks. If you have too many, they go haywire and start fighting for themselves. That would be a disaster for the military. The military wants to maintain control. They don’t want people that are playing for their own team. Remember: Sigmas, “…don’t play well with others.”
@@NestofWeasels this is the pocket between sergeant and lieutenant. they that look for glory via destruction the machiavellian sociopath.
Agreed.